TOXIC. We need to stop telling our young women that when a boy picks on her, that they "like her". This leads to a lot of women thinking/accepting toxic and demeaning interactions with men and mistaking it for affection. Even if a boy "likes you"... then they can learn to treat you with respect
This is exactly what I told my mom they are not picking on me cause they like like me they do it for attention an bullying just cause they look better I had nice teeth and someone would make fun of it
Not toxic lmfao u obviously don't know how men operate at all you kids find words out and use them so wrong this is clearly what a lot of guys do a man operates different from a woman he's not being toxic or mean he's just trying to not seem weak to be a pushover a man protects the woman a woman is fragile physically if he were lovey dovey 24/7 she would be annoyed or seem weak in public although when they dated he still treated her right in public but wasn't too soft a man is soft to his girl in public not for his public image if he's too nice she would think he just wants to get in her pants my relationship started like this in middle school I am now 18 in Feb 2nd
I think the blonde boy (Kazuma ??) would’ve been a better fit for Yuu… He seems sweeter and much more caring, plus in my own subjective opinion his face is also more attractive
The fact that he’s also attracted to her friend, makes it a big NO. He just a nice social guy with interest in people, being friendly with the neighbour-girl. That he likes her friend, is because she also friendly and helps the shy girl. I’m sad to say that the main leads are both so twisted and screwed up that they fit together. Will it be a fairytale relationship? No! But reality isn’t also. Dramas are entertainment not infomercials.
Nope, nothing he's done is cute or flattering. Seems like I would instantly lose interest if I was her cause constantly belittling, insulting and bullying isn't romantic at all.🔙
No offence your right but at the same time, he was sorry and he changed if he didn’t change and still treated her like that, it’s another topic like he used to be bad and became good, it’s a story of a bully changing and turning good not about a bully who used to bully others and dated his crush but about someone that changed for good not bad so it ends in a good lesson😊
Exactly I would not even cared if he changed. He called her trash, belittled her, and made her feel bad. His friends warned her to be nicer to her. If I was her, I wouldn't even date him. Acting toxic isn't cute or attractive even if they changed I wouldn't give them a chance.
@@Japanandkorealover yeah no this is a honest question for you could you love a person that verbally bullies you every single day and still love them for such a long time 🧐 and not loose even a little interest
@@Japanandkorealover After a very long life one of the things I have learned is that people rarely change to that great an extent. If a young man doesn't know that bullying, belittling and sexually assaulting someone is wrong by that age ...... they will always have the tendency to behave that way when things don't go as they would wish.
honestly, this ain't cute behavior. the main lead is trash for trying to manipulate her and making her think she isn't worthy. he sounds just like her father
this isn’t attractive at all it’s trifling , you sound like u would be with a man that takes down your confidence treats you like his toy , and bully’s u I don’t care if he likes her in any type of way insulting and bullying a women is not a way to win someone heart it’s not attractive or cute , stop romanticizing toxic relationships that involves bullying.
@@ruefyo bro before typing thInk. Only thing I wrote was that people can change and they can doesn’t mean you write a whole paragraph, I wouldn’t be with someone like him and nor should she I didn’t say they were wrong I only said that a person can’t change ( no take it offensive ) 😊
Your not wrong but he loved her as well, I mean he did wrong but realised his mistake like we do and he was sorry, it’s not as if he was just like okay now I will treat you nicely but he was really sorry, anyone can change😊, but this shouldn’t have happened and it’s wrong we should never be giving up because 1 person can change but they can’t change the past😔
@@Japanandkorealover no man should be taking down a women’s confidence and insulting her in a relationship or friendship, these movie plots and scripts are not attractive or cute , a man shouldn’t be taking down a women throughout the whole movie it has been a dumbest plot ,
I assume this is an anime adaptation or an anime inspired film, where the bully hot guy deep down is actually a nice lad, but sometimes it's important to let the nice guy get the girl. The filmmakers are just rewarding shitty behaviour.
There is NOTHING romantic about this at all, He is a horrible person and making him out to be a great guy is so wrong, He is abusive, mean and basically a jerk. Shows like this convince young girls that guys who treat them like dirt really like them and will eventually be nice. This kind of story line happens FAR too often and needs to stop!
I hate mangas like this this isn’t romantic at all this is mad trifling imagine getting bullied and insulting a girl and manipulating her that she isn’t worth nothing it’s giving very much toxic
Just cuz rin likes yuu, thats no fricking excuse to bully her. yuu loves rin and yuu must've been deeply hurt when rin was rude to her. kazuma is a much better fit, even though rin and yuu are childhood friends, doesnt mean it isnt a toxic friendship. this is so stewpid
9:10 first glance he’s very attractive but his personality is what you’ve never expected a literal bum who acts like he’s all that instant turn off.. wake up and break up
The fact that her frens told the boy who wants to treat her right to not interfere is crazy . They know that Rin is toxic and they literally always have to to him to stop
Bro - for everyone who is saying “ewww they r not a good pair bc he was bullying her and blah blah blah’’ like listen up, look at this scene 8:03 , he literally gave her his hand and were walking together- THEY R SUCH A CUTE COUPLEE ! Its like a “enemies to lovers” so shut up Edit 1 : 12:07 LOOK AT THIS SCENE LIKE LITERALLY
This behavior really isn't cute or quirky at all! The guy is clearly an abusive pos with a huge ego, the girl is overly shy, meek and spineless and that's not a good look. We get it, the girl is supposed to be a little shy or timid, cuz that's the trope in these movies, but it's just exaggerated here which makes it exhausting and annoying as hell. Her staying with the abusive guy in the end is nothing short of stupid
What a horrible story! Who is writing such garbage! Both of these young people are damaged. It's evident that Ren has learned to treat women abusively from his parents' relationship. And, poor Yuu hears verbal abuse from her father, so, naturally she thinks Ren's nasty behavior toward her is normal. He treats her like a slave, and she fawns after him like the broken spirited, love-starved puppy she is. Young people, this is not a healthy, loving relationship!
TOXIC. We need to stop telling our young women that when a boy picks on her, that they "like her". This leads to a lot of women thinking/accepting toxic and demeaning interactions with men and mistaking it for affection. Even if a boy "likes you"... then they can learn to treat you with respect
This is exactly what I told my mom they are not picking on me cause they like like me they do it for attention an bullying just cause they look better I had nice teeth and someone would make fun of it
Yes so true!! People who act like this is very toxic and need help.
Not toxic lmfao u obviously don't know how men operate at all you kids find words out and use them so wrong this is clearly what a lot of guys do a man operates different from a woman he's not being toxic or mean he's just trying to not seem weak to be a pushover a man protects the woman a woman is fragile physically if he were lovey dovey 24/7 she would be annoyed or seem weak in public although when they dated he still treated her right in public but wasn't too soft a man is soft to his girl in public not for his public image if he's too nice she would think he just wants to get in her pants my relationship started like this in middle school I am now 18 in Feb 2nd
@@bangawa3441 it is toxic. Love is about respect and not bullying or being rude that's not love .
well he wasnt really bully her he had a crush on her and showed it in bullying some times but most of the time he saved her cared for her
I think the blonde boy (Kazuma ??) would’ve been a better fit for Yuu… He seems sweeter and much more caring, plus in my own subjective opinion his face is also more attractive
I agree with this 10000000%
hell no baby girl
@@MyFilteredPromise then fuck you if you agree
@@Kvuromi-Miyoshi why not? :'(
The fact that he’s also attracted to her friend, makes it a big NO.
He just a nice social guy with interest in people, being friendly with the neighbour-girl.
That he likes her friend, is because she also friendly and helps the shy girl.
I’m sad to say that the main leads are both so twisted and screwed up that they fit together. Will it be a fairytale relationship? No! But reality isn’t also.
Dramas are entertainment not infomercials.
Nope, nothing he's done is cute or flattering. Seems like I would instantly lose interest if I was her cause constantly belittling, insulting and bullying isn't romantic at all.🔙
No offence your right but at the same time, he was sorry and he changed if he didn’t change and still treated her like that, it’s another topic like he used to be bad and became good, it’s a story of a bully changing and turning good not about a bully who used to bully others and dated his crush but about someone that changed for good not bad so it ends in a good lesson😊
Exactly I would not even cared if he changed. He called her trash, belittled her, and made her feel bad. His friends warned her to be nicer to her. If I was her, I wouldn't even date him. Acting toxic isn't cute or attractive even if they changed I wouldn't give them a chance.
@@Japanandkorealover yeah no this is a honest question for you could you love a person that verbally bullies you every single day and still love them for such a long time 🧐 and not loose even a little interest
@@bps6938 your right and yes I wouldn’t love them but always know one thing anyone can change😊
@@Japanandkorealover After a very long life one of the things I have learned is that people rarely change to that great an extent. If a young man doesn't know that bullying, belittling and sexually assaulting someone is wrong by that age ...... they will always have the tendency to behave that way when things don't go as they would wish.
If someone acted towards me like that I'd feel repulsed not attracted towards my bully.
Exactly
Bullying is NOT romantic. They are not 3 years old children.
honestly, this ain't cute behavior. the main lead is trash for trying to manipulate her and making her think she isn't worthy. he sounds just like her father
Yh but at the end he changed, your not wrong but people change and he was really sorry if he doesn’t change then that’s something else😊
this isn’t attractive at all it’s trifling , you sound like u would be with a man that takes down your confidence treats you like his toy , and bully’s u I don’t care if he likes her in any type of way insulting and bullying a women is not a way to win someone heart it’s not attractive or cute , stop romanticizing toxic relationships that involves bullying.
@@ruefyo I get what you are trying to say but you should know that a person does change and I get that they shouldn’t have played with her feelings😊
@@ruefyo bro before typing thInk. Only thing I wrote was that people can change and they can doesn’t mean you write a whole paragraph, I wouldn’t be with someone like him and nor should she I didn’t say they were wrong I only said that a person can’t change ( no take it offensive ) 😊
@@Japanandkorealover nobody cares bot . L m a o your a bot
Seriously the female lead's father said that those who treat you well are bad people, that's hella messed up
I know right! I was shocked no one else commented about that!
he treated her so badly from the beginning smh like making her carry his bags?
Your not wrong but he loved her as well, I mean he did wrong but realised his mistake like we do and he was sorry, it’s not as if he was just like okay now I will treat you nicely but he was really sorry, anyone can change😊, but this shouldn’t have happened and it’s wrong we should never be giving up because 1 person can change but they can’t change the past😔
@@Japanandkorealover I get your point but this sort of toxicity in relationships shouldn't be so normalised
@@sam1234_ FRR
@@Japanandkorealover no man should be taking down a women’s confidence and insulting her in a relationship or friendship, these movie plots and scripts are not attractive or cute , a man shouldn’t be taking down a women throughout the whole movie it has been a dumbest plot ,
@@ruefyo I get you, but I want everyone to know that anyone can change😊, but what he did is not really changeable, I admit he did wrong🙂
I assume this is an anime adaptation or an anime inspired film, where the bully hot guy deep down is actually a nice lad, but sometimes it's important to let the nice guy get the girl. The filmmakers are just rewarding shitty behaviour.
and teaching young women that it's ok to act that way
There is NOTHING romantic about this at all, He is a horrible person and making him out to be a great guy is so wrong, He is abusive, mean and basically a jerk. Shows like this convince young girls that guys who treat them like dirt really like them and will eventually be nice. This kind of story line happens FAR too often and needs to stop!
Nonsense: her father once said whoever treats you well is a bad person.. 😂😂😂
God forbid. I hope children don’t watch this and think such behavior is ok. Both from the female and male protagonists. Such bull shit
I totally agree with these comments. There is nothing loving, cute or respectful about this movie.
All the lead character behaviors are toxic
I didn't liked yu personality she was behaving like a dumb throughout the whole movie!
yh i honestly hate how stupid the female leads are portrayed as in a lot of japanese movies
@@eswynplantagenet4483 and quite a few Chinese ones too...they are made to look like spinless doormats to be walked all over...
Whats the name of the movie? Toxic Poison? Shit on a stick? Yu seems to be suffering from PTSD.
This is wrong on so many levels. Main lead is full of red flags. He's the one you should definitely avoid.
This sounds awful and glorifies toxic behavior. She should run far away from him.
I hate mangas like this this isn’t romantic at all this is mad trifling imagine getting bullied and insulting a girl and manipulating her that she isn’t worth nothing it’s giving very much toxic
That Rin is so immature, my God....he acts like a five year old....he should grow up first before he considers being in a relationship...
This movie is a toxic one fr how can this male lead treat her like in the name of love hell no and why is Yu acting so dumb ....
Gotta love a good Stockholm syndrome love story lol
Just cuz rin likes yuu, thats no fricking excuse to bully her. yuu loves rin and yuu must've been deeply hurt when rin was rude to her. kazuma is a much better fit, even though rin and yuu are childhood friends, doesnt mean it isnt a toxic friendship. this is so stewpid
This is all red flags!
He gets angry fast
idk about yall but i wouldve folded for kazuma hes so fine 😍
Real 🫂
He is emotionally a 6th grader...ugh
It's when film makers try to romanticize a toxic boy.
me ignoring all the red flags
9:10 first glance he’s very attractive but his personality is what you’ve never expected a literal bum who acts like he’s all that instant turn off.. wake up and break up
The fact that her frens told the boy who wants to treat her right to not interfere is crazy . They know that Rin is toxic and they literally always have to to him to stop
He didn't deserve her
I was shipping kazuma and rin 👽
Haha same😂
what’s the name of the background music?
What’s the name of the movie
You I love
Name?
IT IS A LITERAL BAD THING WITH ALL OF THEM BRODAA
Women normally friend-zone the nice guy and go for who’s no good tbh
This comments are rude there are doing nothing wrong 😑 he is protecting her ❤ I ❤️ this movie ❤️.
Toxic, pathetic and frustrating
Bro why not yuu and kazuma 😭😭😭
I just watched the movie (on 2x speed so I wouldn’t waste my time) and I cried because of how bad it was, all these characters need a life lesson fr
I have many questions and opinions about this movie
God, I can't with Japanese romance content. It's always SO problematic imo. (prove me wrong plz i beg you.)
Bro - for everyone who is saying “ewww they r not a good pair bc he was bullying her and blah blah blah’’ like listen up, look at this scene 8:03 , he literally gave her his hand and were walking together- THEY R SUCH A CUTE COUPLEE ! Its like a “enemies to lovers” so shut up
Edit 1 : 12:07 LOOK AT THIS SCENE LIKE LITERALLY
I just see red flags
What a guy… 🤬
This is such a turn off....what in the toxicity
TOXIC
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Erm TOXIC much!!!
This behavior really isn't cute or quirky at all! The guy is clearly an abusive pos with a huge ego, the girl is overly shy, meek and spineless and that's not a good look. We get it, the girl is supposed to be a little shy or timid, cuz that's the trope in these movies, but it's just exaggerated here which makes it exhausting and annoying as hell. Her staying with the abusive guy in the end is nothing short of stupid
Yay
Most unromantic story ever
0:40
Ummm…this doesn’t seem right to me
What a horrible story! Who is writing such garbage!
Both of these young people are damaged. It's evident that Ren has learned to treat women abusively from his parents' relationship.
And, poor Yuu hears verbal abuse from her father, so, naturally she thinks Ren's nasty behavior toward her is normal. He treats her like a slave, and she fawns after him like the broken spirited, love-starved puppy she is.
Young people, this is not a healthy, loving relationship!
ew problematic movie all so nymphomaniac
Yuck
#toxic_trash_ml
this seems like a really toxic Colleen hoover or Ali Hazlewood book🫣🤔