The things about the married to medicine ladies , except for coontesa and Jackie, these ladies ain’t your friends unless you telling them your business which is not right. Heal on your own quad and with people who allow you space too
I’ve learned through the years you have friends as long as it serves their purpose. If you have a real friend, if you’re being degraded they won’t just stand there and listen to see what’s going to be said about you. A real friend will shut that mess down when it starts. A lot of times ppl think you will get farther ahead without them. I don’t have a problem letting go. I came in this world alone and when we die it’s not going to be a package deal that we all die together.
Quad likes those she can come up with and once she’s done that she moves on. This was such a messy topic...but everyone needs a storyline, I guess 🤷🏾♀️
Why are people hating on this lady she's done nothing ah will I almost forgot that when people hate you it means you're doing something rights love her or hate her she's making it .
First of all quad seperated the two groups, she has kept her life very guarded for most seasons of M2M, she has seperated her life from everyone and walked around as if nothing was wrong, So this past season she let the cameras in to see her failing marriage that nobody had a clue was failing but "Stevie Wonder", the MTM women allegedly made some attempts to reach out to her and she would make plans to join the women then cancel, then get mad when questions are being asked about stuff she doesnt want to disclose on reality tv about being married to a doctor, then at one point told one of the girls that she wanted to hang out with her "REAL" friends from sister circle, so the problem about who and whom are her friends or not started by Quad..she's the catalyst to the problem, most of the M2M women not all but most have their own maritial issues, successes and downfalls but as a black community of well earned careers with families the bullshit is not as important to them off camera, but quad needs to maybe walk away from M2M if she doesnt want the world to be in her hectic ass divorce with Urkel.. She signed on to be transparent and that running hiding crying for the camera shit is not the reality we want to see..Dont run now donkey tell the shit you signed up to tell so we can see you for the gold digger you attempted to be with the clown you have now chosen to take to the alimony cleaners..Dont run and fake as if your the victim when you knew from day one that you was gonna fake it til you make it with this man that ONLY have to have achievements in his job title for any woman to even let him look at their vagina from a distance, you refused kids with him because you didnt want to be stuck with the project you did nothing to complete. Putting your lips together and speaking in your best southern charm accent with convictions you can dig up doesnt say shit to me about your motives you had from the day you met that project runway man you attempted to call a husband...before, now, after.. I know fake when I see it, you dont want people to judge your motives thats why you have time for ony a selected few..that dont know your hidden history..So keep running girl..your facial make up you have caked on dont hide whom you really are..but somebody in Memphis knows...She holds friends to a different standard than shes willing to extend on he own..holding grudges, playing victim, using your platforms to be the victim, then have these im from the church of goldigging holistic bapist Catholic church of nothingness..Come give her a hug because she proved nothing..but now she wants a hug for something, when she gave nothing..
Clout...she’s definitely a clout chaser. Once she’s gotten what she wants, she’s through with you...Mariah, Dr. G, Toya, the other ladies, and if any of the Sister Circle stop buying her victim role, she’ll be done with them, too. I’ve watched every episode since Season 1, and she’s a typical narcissist.
They should have either saved this topic for way later or just not done it at all because it feels very CONTRIVED to take up for Quad, in defense of what the Married To Medicine ladies have said the last two episodes. #Tacky #Onesided
I totally understand that Quad is going through a lot right now. I also get that talk show hosts like to be relatable but let's not make this a trend of making it about Quad's personal life. First it was her rant about Dr. G not "doing the work to be single". Now it's about her managing her two groups of friends.
I've worked and been around people like Quad my entire life. She had fun with the M2M women and gained a platform, now she has met these women and gained another platform. People like Quad maneuver through life gravitating to whomever or whatever can get them to the next level and once they get there they have no need for u because they have a new group. Thats fine but make sure your new group is ready to ride for u like your old group. And lets not forget this is a business relationship they have if they starting doing cuts tomm. best believe they will looking at each other sideways. Remember Tamar thought her and Lonie and Tamera were friends too, until she got fired.
And to Selena No you don't treat everyone the same your bffs are treated different than other friends EVERYONE knows that you tell deep dark secrets to bffs not associates BE REAL LADIES yawl seem to be talking but not being 100 in my opinion
Quad was never a friend to Mariah. She used Mariah. Quad was never friends to the ladies on Married To Medicine. She was young minded in my eyes.. I feel like her on Sister Circle is a chance for her to do it right again..with some new friends. Nothing wrong with that!
Trina is right about the seasons...this was a needed convo I am glad the ladies got to address this because it is a topic...and Dr. Heavenly was just on there its all sisterhood ...We all real grown...Selena on point
The topic for this segment should have been: "Friends vs. Associates" "No New Friends?" "REAL Friends" because I don't think the ladies really touched on the topic. It was supposed to be about what makes a good friendship. They basically just talked about Quad's M2M drama.
I love and really enjoy Rashan’s perspective here.💓👸🏾 And “Trina’s Take”... Succinct, sweet, and so true!❣️ (🤔 Might be a good lil daily moment, “Trina’s Take”, when she gives her take on something wrapped up cutely/succinctly. Be something good for her to have special, like Quad’s day labeling. Passing thought.🤷🏽♀️)
Trina had the best point, but I hope all of them keep this same energy and opinion if the show gets cancelled and then lets see if they were all really friends or friends of convenience. My personal opinion I hope the ladies dont get involved in Quads T. V. drama leave that to the reality show and separate your real coins which is this show. Great job Selena and Trina!
Friendships in 20s was just to much drama and backstabbing for me So I cut it off But I did have a batch of older women (grandma age including my grandma) who I looked up to But they started to die 😭 So I said ok I think I’m going to have to start getting friends my own age bcuz everyone is dying 😇🙏🏽 Then I prayed God when you send me some friends make sure it’s a good fit and not a forced fit and let them be going in the direction I’m headed I now can honestly say I have a group of women that are incredible I met them while working (3) And church (2) They covers me and I cover them Which is new for me Previously I was a better friend and received nothing in return (emotionally) Here it’s even 2 out of 3 women I met at work( were independent contractors and don’t work w each other daily anymore) are also friends themselves. They’re wives and moms 1 our of the 3 I met at work is my best friend I met her first 2 from church are my First Lady and her daughter I also come from a huge family full of women and I consider them my friends as well But it was very unusual for my family to hear me speak of outside friends They still say to me til this day you don’t have any friends 🤣😂🤣 So, my advice I give to girls in their teens to early 20s. If it’s drama it’s not that deep. Life doesn’t have to be drama! Cut them off. Focus on you and your drama free life and when you’re ready pray for people better than you had. God will send just the right people
Ladies this is the first time i give you a thumbs down and am going to tell you why.Fostering friendship, this topic was not want i expected to hear especially the opening statement. That was wrong wrong, because the reality show Quad is on show not be demonstrated on her work. And i understand her work is also a show but be clear in making the transparency . It is not wise to bring your dirty to work and used your coworkers to demonize others. I do not approve. love you ladies.
The more and more I read that Quad uses people and throws the away...I beginning to believe it! EVERYONE on all social media platforms can't be saying the same thing.
Everyone handles things different, I understand however Quad flat out treated the ladies from M2M different. Quad could have gave the ladies a courtesy call even tho she was dealing with things just to say she needs to get to herself together
I do not agree because If I text someone many times and they cannot text back , they do not regard me. They got the text because they would text and say, I am still your friend even if I don't text you. WHAT? Please.
I also met some friends, so called that cannot even give me a compliment but give strangers who care nothing about them compliments. Isn't that some foolish crap. Come on church women. People get resentful for simple, stupid stuff.
Quad must be getting Extra for this piece....she will leave the show after her divorce then this show will be canceled.....nothing on BET last......Nothing.....then she'll use those dogs for a side hustle again.....This show is wack!!!
The things about the married to medicine ladies , except for coontesa and Jackie, these ladies ain’t your friends unless you telling them your business which is not right. Heal on your own quad and with people who allow you space too
Way too much stock is placed in people...they will disappoint, break promises, shame you...but God....is faithful and is not a man that He should lie.
Well Said Quad !!
Maybe The Woman Of
Married To Medicine Can
Learn From This ...Stop
Being So Jealous Hearted !!
“I love who loves me” - Well said Quad!
I absolutely agree! Lovely points ladies.
Mrs.Quad Mrs.Quad
She got it...
She got it...
Aya Iza Myoo..
Lmao
Good conversation ladies!!
quad sooo pretty
Amy Endure they’ve all beautiful
I’ve learned through the years you have friends as long as it serves their purpose. If you have a real friend, if you’re being degraded they won’t just stand there and listen to see what’s going to be said about you. A real friend will shut that mess down when it starts. A lot of times ppl think you will get farther ahead without them. I don’t have a problem letting go. I came in this world alone and when we die it’s not going to be a package deal that we all die together.
Quad likes those she can come up with and once she’s done that she moves on. This was such a messy topic...but everyone needs a storyline, I guess 🤷🏾♀️
Quad aired all laundry against Mariah on the show an they were supposedly Bffs
Trinaaaa you said it all!
Why are people hating on this lady she's done nothing ah will I almost forgot that when people hate you it means you're doing something rights love her or hate her she's making it .
First of all quad seperated the two groups, she has kept her life very guarded for most seasons of M2M, she has seperated her life from everyone and walked around as if nothing was wrong, So this past season she let the cameras in to see her failing marriage that nobody had a clue was failing but "Stevie Wonder", the MTM women allegedly made some attempts to reach out to her and she would make plans to join the women then cancel, then get mad when questions are being asked about stuff she doesnt want to disclose on reality tv about being married to a doctor, then at one point told one of the girls that she wanted to hang out with her "REAL" friends from sister circle, so the problem about who and whom are her friends or not started by Quad..she's the catalyst to the problem, most of the M2M women not all but most have their own maritial issues, successes and downfalls but as a black community of well earned careers with families the bullshit is not as important to them off camera, but quad needs to maybe walk away from M2M if she doesnt want the world to be in her hectic ass divorce with Urkel.. She signed on to be transparent and that running hiding crying for the camera shit is not the reality we want to see..Dont run now donkey tell the shit you signed up to tell so we can see you for the gold digger you attempted to be with the clown you have now chosen to take to the alimony cleaners..Dont run and fake as if your the victim when you knew from day one that you was gonna fake it til you make it with this man that ONLY have to have achievements in his job title for any woman to even let him look at their vagina from a distance, you refused kids with him because you didnt want to be stuck with the project you did nothing to complete. Putting your lips together and speaking in your best southern charm accent with convictions you can dig up doesnt say shit to me about your motives you had from the day you met that project runway man you attempted to call a husband...before, now, after.. I know fake when I see it, you dont want people to judge your motives thats why you have time for ony a selected few..that dont know your hidden history..So keep running girl..your facial make up you have caked on dont hide whom you really are..but somebody in Memphis knows...She holds friends to a different standard than shes willing to extend on he own..holding grudges, playing victim, using your platforms to be the victim, then have these im from the church of goldigging holistic bapist Catholic church of nothingness..Come give her a hug because she proved nothing..but now she wants a hug for something, when she gave nothing..
Huuunnyyyy WELL said!
Everyone don't want to share everything immediately. Some people want you to share and then use it to try and hurt you.
Trina, I like what you said. It was soooooo on point.
Quad is a USER...She will use-HER and use-HIM to get what she wants.
MissBeeMarie what did she get?? 🤔🤔🤔
Clout...she’s definitely a clout chaser. Once she’s gotten what she wants, she’s through with you...Mariah, Dr. G, Toya, the other ladies, and if any of the Sister Circle stop buying her victim role, she’ll be done with them, too. I’ve watched every episode since Season 1, and she’s a typical narcissist.
@@MissBeeMarie Thank You! My point exactly!
They should have either saved this topic for way later or just not done it at all because it feels very CONTRIVED to take up for Quad, in defense of what the Married To Medicine ladies have said the last two episodes. #Tacky #Onesided
I totally understand that Quad is going through a lot right now. I also get that talk show hosts like to be relatable but let's not make this a trend of making it about Quad's personal life. First it was her rant about Dr. G not "doing the work to be single". Now it's about her managing her two groups of friends.
I've worked and been around people like Quad my entire life. She had fun with the M2M women and gained a platform, now she has met these women and gained another platform. People like Quad maneuver through life gravitating to whomever or whatever can get them to the next level and once they get there they have no need for u because they have a new group. Thats fine but make sure your new group is ready to ride for u like your old group. And lets not forget this is a business relationship they have if they starting doing cuts tomm. best believe they will looking at each other sideways. Remember Tamar thought her and Lonie and Tamera were friends too, until she got fired.
Is that trina w a #QUICK 27 piece???????
I was thinking the same thing !!! 🤔👍🏽
@@blkbutterfly58ify she need to brush that back down..but she giving me #90s Toni with the short cut
That's a lie! Real friend's will hold you accountable....wait until one of these women get mad....then the otherside WILL come out!
LaToy Facey lol exactly..
And to Selena No you don't treat everyone the same your bffs are treated different than other friends EVERYONE knows that you tell deep dark secrets to bffs not associates BE REAL LADIES yawl seem to be talking but not being 100 in my opinion
Exactly my point! Acting for the camera
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer!!!!
Quad was never a friend to Mariah. She used Mariah. Quad was never friends to the ladies on Married To Medicine. She was young minded in my eyes.. I feel like her on Sister Circle is a chance for her to do it right again..with some new friends. Nothing wrong with that!
Love These Ladies!
Trina is right about the seasons...this was a needed convo I am glad the ladies got to address this because it is a topic...and Dr. Heavenly was just on there its all sisterhood ...We all real grown...Selena on point
Good to see black women together 😊
The topic for this segment should have been: "Friends vs. Associates" "No New Friends?" "REAL Friends" because I don't think the ladies really touched on the topic. It was supposed to be about what makes a good friendship. They basically just talked about Quad's M2M drama.
I love and really enjoy Rashan’s perspective here.💓👸🏾
And “Trina’s Take”... Succinct, sweet, and so true!❣️ (🤔 Might be a good lil daily moment, “Trina’s Take”, when she gives her take on something wrapped up cutely/succinctly. Be something good for her to have special, like Quad’s day labeling. Passing thought.🤷🏽♀️)
Trina had the best point, but I hope all of them keep this same energy and opinion if the show gets cancelled and then lets see if they were all really friends or friends of convenience. My personal opinion I hope the ladies dont get involved in Quads T. V. drama leave that to the reality show and separate your real coins which is this show. Great job Selena and Trina!
Articulated very well ladies
Friendships in 20s was just to much drama and backstabbing for me
So I cut it off
But I did have a batch of older women (grandma age including my grandma) who I looked up to
But they started to die 😭
So I said ok I think I’m going to have to start getting friends my own age bcuz everyone is dying 😇🙏🏽
Then I prayed God when you send me some friends make sure it’s a good fit and not a forced fit and let them be going in the direction I’m headed
I now can honestly say I have a group of women that are incredible
I met them while working (3)
And church (2)
They covers me and I cover them
Which is new for me
Previously I was a better friend and received nothing in return (emotionally)
Here it’s even
2 out of 3 women I met at work( were independent contractors and don’t work w each other daily anymore) are also friends themselves. They’re wives and moms
1 our of the 3 I met at work is my best friend I met her first
2 from church are my First Lady and her daughter
I also come from a huge family full of women and I consider them my friends as well
But it was very unusual for my family to hear me speak of outside friends
They still say to me til this day you don’t have any friends 🤣😂🤣
So, my advice I give to girls in their teens to early 20s. If it’s drama it’s not that deep. Life doesn’t have to be drama! Cut them off. Focus on you and your drama free life and when you’re ready pray for people better than you had.
God will send just the right people
Ladies this is the first time i give you a thumbs down and am going to tell you why.Fostering friendship, this topic was not want i expected to hear especially the opening statement. That was wrong wrong, because the reality show Quad is on show not be demonstrated on her work. And i understand her work is also a show but be clear in making the transparency . It is not wise to bring your dirty to work and used your coworkers to demonize others. I do not approve. love you ladies.
Trina looks amazing today tho 😍😍
Trina got her sisters shes fine im good with mine too 👭👭💃
Gotta love Quad,feisty n always saucing...
The more and more I read that Quad uses people and throws the away...I beginning to believe it! EVERYONE on all social media platforms can't be saying the same thing.
Well said ladies
Trina is preaching
Everyone handles things different, I understand however Quad flat out treated the ladies from M2M different. Quad could have gave the ladies a courtesy call even tho she was dealing with things just to say she needs to get to herself together
The 2nd one in the striped dress talk too much!
🤣🤣
Here comes the Mariah shade. I like you tho Quad. 😉
I do not agree because If I text someone many times and they cannot text back , they do not regard me. They got the text because they would text and say, I am still your friend even if I don't text you. WHAT? Please.
Quad has remained the same through and through I keep
Waiting for some newness and I just don’t see it 🤷🏽♀️
💯
I also met some friends, so called that cannot even give me a compliment but give strangers who care nothing about them compliments. Isn't that some foolish crap. Come on church women. People get resentful for simple, stupid stuff.
Loves who loves me...she's damn selfish!!
Quuuuaaaadddd pleez!!!!! If you felt this way, you would not have had an issue with sharing your shit! Instead, you cried off those lashes!
GROWN WOMEN vs. children masquerading as adults
🔥👈
Quad must be getting Extra for this piece....she will leave the show after her divorce then this show will be canceled.....nothing on BET last......Nothing.....then she'll use those dogs for a side hustle again.....This show is wack!!!
If that's what you're wishing for her then you and miserable family will suffer fool slave assbole