Yeah it made me sad too, especially since he brought it up twice, you can tell that it's probably on his mind alot, which I imagine would be hard in a poly relationship. Sometimes I wish I had a "sister wife" to help me out and share life with but I also think I'd probation be too jealous or worry that they'd both leave me lol.
I've never really fully understood polyamorous relationships and always seen them as a little strange. But now actually seeing and witnessing such relationship has made me accept it so much. You can just see the happiness in their faces and how at peace they are and it's not so often you see that kind of love and happiness in people. So now I'm all for it and these guys are so inspiring, love them!
In this case I think that there's a couple first (as Jason and Joe are ) and a third one enter in intimacy with one of them (Joe?) And ex : Joe don't want to leave Jason for the stability and the affection they have , so they add the third (Mat) to the mix . But at first it always one of the couple being infatuated with one outsider . That's only my opinio
Didn't think that intimacy - at such a level - could be shared with multiple individuals, at once. Thanks Jubilee for consistently surprising (and teaching) your audience. 💚
In this case I think that there's a couple first (as Jason and Joe are ) and a third one enter in intimacy with one of them (Joe?) And ex : Joe don't want to leave Jason for the stability and the affection they have , so they add the third (Mat) to the mix . But at first it always one of the couple being infatuated with one outsider . That's only my opinio
I dont think i would ever do this but, i do think people should be accepting... being accepting doesnt mean that you r gonna do it , it means that you will let people live their life how they want to, without getting bothered. I mean why should you be bothered when it has nothing to do with you
What I seem to notice with polyamorous people is that they let go a lot of fear and negativity to be there, so the relationship is based on openness not on fear and restrictions. If someone prefers monogamous relationships because of fear of losing the person, isn't that coming from restriction and fear? I'm still experimenting with these concepts in my mind. And by the way, love these three guys, they have such beautiful kind and loving energy. ❤
I'm glad that there's more talk and exposure about polyamory :) It's sad how taboo it is, but baby steps y'know? Thanks for posting this video Jubilee 💞
Ly yeah honestly this is my first time hearing about a three person relationship. It was so mind boggling when I saw the beginning. But I'm glad I'm able to learn a bit more about it😊
Ly I've read in ancient times and some cultures that polyamorous relationships was normal. One woman would choose her husband's to build a house around her and bear her children and stuff like that because it was all in all her choice. So I guess I'm due time it's all going to come into the light so to speak. And the only reason why it's taboo is because we've been conditioned since I think the early 17 1800s that we only need one wife. Or we only need one man. I honestly don't believe in that I don't honestly believe the absolute one. And that's why I guess I struggle with relationships with just one person
It's funny that all the people who have never been in such a relationship immediately focus on what is or not happening in their bedroom... It just lets you know where their mind is ...the gutter
first last no because its a fair question to ask about - what happens in the bedroom do they take turns or is it a threesome or does it even happen in the bedroom 🤔🤔😉😉😂🤣
this is so interesting. i am such a possessive person that i dont think i could ever be polyamourous. i feel like when you grow up, you realize nothing is fully yours--- and to me, having one romantic partner is the thing that i want to be mine and only mine. that said, to be in a group and feel so loved by everyone seems like it would be amazing.
sydandtaytum Same here. No matter how much I try not to be, I’m just a jealous person. It’ll be hard to share someone. That said, polygamy/polyamory works for some people, and power to them.
i mean you could still be possessive, it's just be of more than one person. i'm pretty sure that these 3 would get jealous or hurt if one of them cheated with someone outside the triad.
They are so kind and open and understanding of one another. Truly a beautiful thing to see in this day and age. I am not personally poly, but I’ve always been so fascinated by the lifestyle and have the utmost respect and admiration for people who are. Thank you for giving me insight into so many different ways of life!
These three’s relationship was a beautiful one to choose to help with this video. :) definitely gave a lot more insight on how the person(s) in the polyamorous relationship feels. I think they set a great example.
Wow i saw a new perspective on a polyamorous i wouldn't want this type of relationship cause i would feel jealous but never say never you know .but i really saw a new perspective love is love to not just one person they just seem so perfect and full of love ❤❤👏👏
Polyamory is the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners This is a triad relationship- when 3 people are in a relationship together. This technically does fall under the umbrella of polyamory, but this is not what polyamory necessarily looks like for everyone.
I totally get this... it's like when you have a group of two or three friends and they each bring something nice to the friendship and hanging out with all of them at once makes time spent that much better :)
All three of you guys are so loving and so caring and considerate. Who is anyone to stop you from progressing and growing with people who can unconditionally work and grow with you and love you all the while. I tried this once but I think I'm a little too young and not ready. I do want to find that kind of love though whereas I have a partner and if I so choose I could have another one. It's all about not putting expectations all into just one person and that's why I'm really open to polyamorous relations. Because you can't just depend on one person to indefinitely know everything that you need or something like that. So I'd much rather you guys be happy and not listen to the haters and the judge others and the cruel people who have yet to understand this choice and way of life
It's so nice that I am not the only person that feels that: Everyone is different so ofcourse you love everyone in a different way and everyone can give you something else.
I seriously can't think of any reason why people wouldn't accept this. They are all so happy and calm. In my opinion they seem like they're radiating happiness and if that's what works for them then who cares!! It's refreshing to see some happiness and genuine joy being shared between some people. I love it
Wait, what is it you don't agree with? It exists, that's indisputable. Anything else isn't something you can disagree with. If you don't want it for yourself, thats fine, but you can't disagree with what consenting adults do with each other. It has nothing to do with you.
Aww this video really made me smile. I could feel the love they have for each other and it was really nice to see each of their perspectives and stories. Thank you for the video! I really enjoyed it!
I am so happy I could burst! Every time I hear about how we have rules for partnership it makes no sense to me and never has. Love whoever you want to love. Yeah, it's complicated, but if 3 people or more want to be in a relationship, they should do it! If they want to, they can.
There needs to be more videos of poly relationships so people can stop being ignorant about it the way I was a long time ago. I used to think that they were sort of being "unfaithful," but then realized These people are completely faithful to eachother. It's nothing like an open relationship, they are very well committed.
When I was young I didn't know this 'type' of love had a name, but it's what I always wanted. The whole one person for life always hit me as too narrow I guess? It just seemed this shallow way of looking at love and relationships. It's like people ONLY understand what monogamy is and that's the only 'choice' you have and anything else is forbidden. Like, wth, you can love more than one person in your life, more than likely you already do. Thinking otherwise just felt too restrictive I guess is the word... Your parent/s, sibling/s, cousin/s, partner/s, etc. You don't have the same love for your mom as you do your dad or your brother, sister, whatever. They're all different types of love, the same with other relationships. You can have love for more than one being, BUT to have that love between 3, or more, people, to me, is just so much more beautiful. It's like a new level of joy, happiness, love, etc that can't be achieved any other way. And to see people like openly deny themselves that, for whatever reason, seems to be self-harm more than anything. I've always wanted a poly relationship, and I've NEVER sought it out, I'm just kinda waiting for it to happen, because that's just how love works. You don't seek out a relationship unless both parties are interested right? So it's the same with a poly relationship, unless you're all interested. And it's still a very stigmatized thing. Yes, jealousy happens, no matter the relationship, it's about learning to accept that, not prevent or hate yourself because it happens. It's about accepting reality for what it is and loving it through the 'bad' times or misunderstood times... To me, I see it as a life goal to be apart of something like that. I want it, I need it, but I will never purposely seek it out for 'just' that. I KNOW what love feels like, I KNOW what heartbreak feels like. But, if you know love, you know how wonderful it is... Now imagine that 2 fold... It's only expandable and not restrictive in that sense... It's rare, it's beautiful, it's something I hope happens to me, because I want to have that amount of joy and happiness in my life, I know it's achievable, and there's NOTHING else like it, just the joy of getting to experience it, just that alone brings me happiness...
Everyone should just love in this world without discrimination.They have bigger hearts than many to be able to hold that much love and to be able to share it
I've been in a thruple before. Mine wasn't particularly satisfying as one person basically set the rules and lorded over us what they wanted. But these guys seem to be pretty satisfied and clear. I wish them luck.
Can’t believe this actually exist because being in relationship with two people is so hard and another person involved, love shared equally. I think it shows a maturity in ones acceptance Gives me hope
As long as each person is aware of it and they're all okay with it. Of course, it'd be best if every person liked or loved each other. As long as it's not cheating or anything along the lines of that.
Love is love and I'm so happy they are happy !! I really didn't like polyamory but from watching videos like this it has opened my eyes and I'm so glad 💘✨
love the "new perspective" on this "type" of relationship. most people. . well me. . generally think of it as it as a man and multiple women. .most likely from TV etc. nice to see and tbh never thought of it this way. love is love 😃
This is so beautiful, touching, powerful, human!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This series is *SO* soulful and it's my favorite project atm, if not of the year!! Real proud to be subbed to this channel for a long time now!!!!!! sidenote: what a beautiful black man on the outro
i'm over here struggling to find one person to love me and they done found two
Christian Kerlick RIGHT?!
Christian Kerlick lol i feel ur struggle. Hopefully it won't be long.
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Shout out to Jason's posture
Caira Lee this how I sit because of scoliosis. It came natural. Could possibly be it.
@@Mrs.Oddball i had scoliosis and I struggled to stay like this , I was like all curved up lol
Sits like a beta male. Well. Because he is a beta male Haha
I know, I'm thinking he is sitting straight up.
@@thetruthispotenza3602 dude literally has twice the amount of love and sex than most of us lol
it broke my heart when the jason said that he would be okay if the two others decided to move on alone, he's just so lovable
Yeah it made me sad too, especially since he brought it up twice, you can tell that it's probably on his mind alot, which I imagine would be hard in a poly relationship. Sometimes I wish I had a "sister wife" to help me out and share life with but I also think I'd probation be too jealous or worry that they'd both leave me lol.
I've never really fully understood polyamorous relationships and always seen them as a little strange. But now actually seeing and witnessing such relationship has made me accept it so much. You can just see the happiness in their faces and how at peace they are and it's not so often you see that kind of love and happiness in people. So now I'm all for it and these guys are so inspiring, love them!
MayciHarr22 resonate with ya fam💛
In this case I think that there's a couple first (as Jason and Joe are ) and a third one enter in intimacy with one of them (Joe?) And ex : Joe don't want to leave Jason for the stability and the affection they have , so they add the third (Mat) to the mix . But at first it always one of the couple being infatuated with one outsider . That's only my opinio
People say so many horrible things about polyamory, but at the end of the day - they're happy. It works for them, and I'm happy they're happy :)
i love your picture
True, are you polyamorous?
'Do you worry about loving someone less than the other?'
I'm impressed by how well they all answered this question. :)
So true.
Didn't think that intimacy - at such a level - could be shared with multiple individuals, at once.
Thanks Jubilee for consistently surprising (and teaching) your audience. 💚
Spellcaster86 agree. Your mind creates the meaning it needs
Teaching what exactly ?
In this case I think that there's a couple first (as Jason and Joe are ) and a third one enter in intimacy with one of them (Joe?) And ex : Joe don't want to leave Jason for the stability and the affection they have , so they add the third (Mat) to the mix . But at first it always one of the couple being infatuated with one outsider . That's only my opinio
Me neither until today
Matthew seems so fucking smart, i loved all his answers wow he seems like a good person
I dont think i would ever do this but, i do think people should be accepting... being accepting doesnt mean that you r gonna do it , it means that you will let people live their life how they want to, without getting bothered. I mean why should you be bothered when it has nothing to do with you
Yep, I accept it, but I don't ultimately agree with it
Perfectly said! I agree
I agree with Mathew, they just love each other differently. I don't really think that they love one more than the other.
"I love them differently, and i think that's expected because they're different people"
This exactly is what people who hate polyamory is missing on
True, people hate what they don't understand. Are you polyamorous?
@@kingkong905 how come you are wondering so hard haha?
@@TheePotatoGoblin 😂 I asked the same question twice by accident. I'm looking for polyamorous partners.
@@kingkong905 oh okay haha I don’t think RUclips is the best place for that!
@@TheePotatoGoblin why not?
What I seem to notice with polyamorous people is that they let go a lot of fear and negativity to be there, so the relationship is based on openness not on fear and restrictions. If someone prefers monogamous relationships because of fear of losing the person, isn't that coming from restriction and fear? I'm still experimenting with these concepts in my mind.
And by the way, love these three guys, they have such beautiful kind and loving energy. ❤
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I'm glad that there's more talk and exposure about polyamory :) It's sad how taboo it is, but baby steps y'know? Thanks for posting this video Jubilee 💞
Ly yeah honestly this is my first time hearing about a three person relationship. It was so mind boggling when I saw the beginning. But I'm glad I'm able to learn a bit more about it😊
Ly I've read in ancient times and some cultures that polyamorous relationships was normal. One woman would choose her husband's to build a house around her and bear her children and stuff like that because it was all in all her choice. So I guess I'm due time it's all going to come into the light so to speak. And the only reason why it's taboo is because we've been conditioned since I think the early 17 1800s that we only need one wife. Or we only need one man. I honestly don't believe in that I don't honestly believe the absolute one. And that's why I guess I struggle with relationships with just one person
Angelisa Hassan Can I ask why? What bothers you about it, when you're not the one in that relationship?
Better more love than more hate in this world
Makeda Cox love and sex are not the same thing.
Code Name they obviously all love each other wym
Code Name to try and take away from the legitimacy of the relationship because there's more people in the relationship is pretty narrow minded.
It's funny that all the people who have never been in such a relationship immediately focus on what is or not happening in their bedroom... It just lets you know where their mind is ...the gutter
first last no because its a fair question to ask about - what happens in the bedroom do they take turns or is it a threesome or does it even happen in the bedroom 🤔🤔😉😉😂🤣
i think i’m in love with Matthew too.
This was so eye opening!
THIS IS SO CUTE I NEARLY CRIED, THE WAY THEY ALL LOOK AT EACH OTHER :')
I'm questioning my polyamoury and I haven't ever seen any representation in the media. I love this so much. Thank you!
Love is love. :)
- as long as it is between consenting adults.
this is so interesting. i am such a possessive person that i dont think i could ever be polyamourous. i feel like when you grow up, you realize nothing is fully yours--- and to me, having one romantic partner is the thing that i want to be mine and only mine. that said, to be in a group and feel so loved by everyone seems like it would be amazing.
sydandtaytum Same here. No matter how much I try not to be, I’m just a jealous person. It’ll be hard to share someone. That said, polygamy/polyamory works for some people, and power to them.
i mean you could still be possessive, it's just be of more than one person. i'm pretty sure that these 3 would get jealous or hurt if one of them cheated with someone outside the triad.
Jealousy and possessiveness are not healthy characteristics and will cause a lot of problems in your relationships, whether poly or mono.
Admittedly, I've always been judgmental about polygamy and polyamory but this was eye opening. Glad that they were able to share their story.
i love seeing a poly success story, their smiles and happiness are just so contagious 🥺
They are so kind and open and understanding of one another. Truly a beautiful thing to see in this day and age. I am not personally poly, but I’ve always been so fascinated by the lifestyle and have the utmost respect and admiration for people who are. Thank you for giving me insight into so many different ways of life!
These three’s relationship was a beautiful one to choose to help with this video. :) definitely gave a lot more insight on how the person(s) in the polyamorous relationship feels. I think they set a great example.
Wow i saw a new perspective on a polyamorous i wouldn't want this type of relationship cause i would feel jealous but never say never you know .but i really saw a new perspective love is love to not just one person they just seem so perfect and full of love ❤❤👏👏
Polyamory is the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners
This is a triad relationship- when 3 people are in a relationship together. This technically does fall under the umbrella of polyamory, but this is not what polyamory necessarily looks like for everyone.
this channel is amazing!! productive and progress conversation(s) happen here and this is what the world needs!
I am your new biggest fan Jubilee. Hope you will be able to produce videos more often!
Why do they all look like cousins tho
Bon Qui Qui OMG this is so truee
Same way we start looking like our lovers after co-existing together
I totally get this... it's like when you have a group of two or three friends and they each bring something nice to the friendship and hanging out with all of them at once makes time spent that much better :)
*INTELLEC*
All three of you guys are so loving and so caring and considerate. Who is anyone to stop you from progressing and growing with people who can unconditionally work and grow with you and love you all the while. I tried this once but I think I'm a little too young and not ready. I do want to find that kind of love though whereas I have a partner and if I so choose I could have another one. It's all about not putting expectations all into just one person and that's why I'm really open to polyamorous relations. Because you can't just depend on one person to indefinitely know everything that you need or something like that. So I'd much rather you guys be happy and not listen to the haters and the judge others and the cruel people who have yet to understand this choice and way of life
I was judgemental about these kind of relationships but this was so cute and beautiful and I stopped judging completely.
It's so nice that I am not the only person that feels that: Everyone is different so ofcourse you love everyone in a different way and everyone can give you something else.
I seriously can't think of any reason why people wouldn't accept this. They are all so happy and calm. In my opinion they seem like they're radiating happiness and if that's what works for them then who cares!! It's refreshing to see some happiness and genuine joy being shared between some people. I love it
Oh hey! I know them! Good for them! ☺️❤️
while I don’t really agree with this, it’s interesting to see their mindset around this. thanks for the video!
•jessica• lel what do you mean agree?
Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean you shouldn't be accepting.
pecu alex calling the relationship bullshit and respecting it are kinda two different things
Doog // Right...? I think it’s okay to love more than one person. As long as everyone has mutual perspective..
Wait, what is it you don't agree with? It exists, that's indisputable. Anything else isn't something you can disagree with. If you don't want it for yourself, thats fine, but you can't disagree with what consenting adults do with each other. It has nothing to do with you.
Aww this video really made me smile. I could feel the love they have for each other and it was really nice to see each of their perspectives and stories. Thank you for the video! I really enjoyed it!
This was beautiful.
I LOVE this!! Had tears in my eyes the whole time.. the love between them is pure!!
their relationship is soooo adorable
I am so happy I could burst! Every time I hear about how we have rules for partnership it makes no sense to me and never has. Love whoever you want to love. Yeah, it's complicated, but if 3 people or more want to be in a relationship, they should do it! If they want to, they can.
This was so interesting!
To be able to love someone else outside marriage takes courage, trust and love.. I love their relationship. It is something new but truly amazing :)
It's really cool how this showed up in my recommended list, a week after I entered into a poly relationship! ^^ This helped me a lot, tbh :D
There needs to be more videos of poly relationships so people can stop being ignorant about it the way I was a long time ago. I used to think that they were sort of being "unfaithful," but then realized These people are completely faithful to eachother. It's nothing like an open relationship, they are very well committed.
Excelente, gracias! Mucho éxito para los tres!
This is beautiful to see. Thank you for sharing a look into how their relationship works.
Great video!
I feel a lot of love here and it warmed me the minute i heard then talk. It was tangible.
i really liked matthew’s answers. i hope the best for them
I'm just saying this now I don't have the time to give to multiple people that's why I'm into monogamy
They seem so genuinely happy and in love with each other. Life goals.
When I was young I didn't know this 'type' of love had a name, but it's what I always wanted. The whole one person for life always hit me as too narrow I guess? It just seemed this shallow way of looking at love and relationships.
It's like people ONLY understand what monogamy is and that's the only 'choice' you have and anything else is forbidden. Like, wth, you can love more than one person in your life, more than likely you already do. Thinking otherwise just felt too restrictive I guess is the word... Your parent/s, sibling/s, cousin/s, partner/s, etc. You don't have the same love for your mom as you do your dad or your brother, sister, whatever. They're all different types of love, the same with other relationships. You can have love for more than one being, BUT to have that love between 3, or more, people, to me, is just so much more beautiful. It's like a new level of joy, happiness, love, etc that can't be achieved any other way. And to see people like openly deny themselves that, for whatever reason, seems to be self-harm more than anything.
I've always wanted a poly relationship, and I've NEVER sought it out, I'm just kinda waiting for it to happen, because that's just how love works. You don't seek out a relationship unless both parties are interested right? So it's the same with a poly relationship, unless you're all interested. And it's still a very stigmatized thing. Yes, jealousy happens, no matter the relationship, it's about learning to accept that, not prevent or hate yourself because it happens. It's about accepting reality for what it is and loving it through the 'bad' times or misunderstood times...
To me, I see it as a life goal to be apart of something like that. I want it, I need it, but I will never purposely seek it out for 'just' that. I KNOW what love feels like, I KNOW what heartbreak feels like. But, if you know love, you know how wonderful it is... Now imagine that 2 fold... It's only expandable and not restrictive in that sense... It's rare, it's beautiful, it's something I hope happens to me, because I want to have that amount of joy and happiness in my life, I know it's achievable, and there's NOTHING else like it, just the joy of getting to experience it, just that alone brings me happiness...
This is so beautiful and they look so happy and open with each other! Hope things will continue to go well for them ♡
They're all so in love! I admire how connected they are.
LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE.😍😍
What a beautiful video!!
Everyone should just love in this world without discrimination.They have bigger hearts than many to be able to hold that much love and to be able to share it
beautiful!!!! thank you
"Peace Love and Blessings" haha the guy at the end is pretty cute. ^_^
This is insanely adorable. They just seem so happy, how wonderful and beautiful. ❤️
They're all so beautiful! Very eye opening
wow the cutest and most wholesome video, i loved watching this
Sooo interesting.. I love this
I love this.. this shows how humanity is so complex
I really love how Matthew answered the question about loving one more than the other
They’re laughs and smiles omg, wishin them the best
Love thisss💯🔥❤️
this is beautiful and inspiring.
I've been in a thruple before. Mine wasn't particularly satisfying as one person basically set the rules and lorded over us what they wanted. But these guys seem to be pretty satisfied and clear. I wish them luck.
this is so lovely 😭
awwh!! it's great to see more types of relationships (":
Can’t believe this actually exist because being in relationship with two people is so hard and another person involved, love shared equally. I think it shows a maturity in ones acceptance
Gives me hope
So it is possible to love two persons at the same time?
As long as each person is aware of it and they're all okay with it. Of course, it'd be best if every person liked or loved each other. As long as it's not cheating or anything along the lines of that.
Just as much it's possible to have more than one friend.
yes. you love family and friends. thats multiple people including people who "cheat". it is possible to love more than one person.
Yes. We _choose_ to not pursue relationships.
Yes
What a beautiful relationship!
This is awesome and I love them
Anyone else trying to find there social media to find out we’re they are know
this video made me so happy
this. this is what i needed.
I don't think I'd be able to do it personally. As I'm a jealous type, with reason. But, who knows??? Beautiful.
Awesome video
Wow this is awesome
(Sees title)
*grabs popcorn*
This was damn adorable
They are so giddy, unsure and shy. 😅☺️😍
It's so amazing to see how some people are so emotionally evolved.
Love is love and I'm so happy they are happy !! I really didn't like polyamory but from watching videos like this it has opened my eyes and I'm so glad 💘✨
love the "new perspective" on this "type" of relationship. most people. . well me. . generally think of it as it as a man and multiple women. .most likely from TV etc. nice to see and tbh never thought of it this way. love is love 😃
they look like brothers
The relationship between these 3 is so cute, you can see the love they have for each other
So awesome love it
i didn’t scroll too far into the comments but i’m pretty happy with all the positivity i saw
I feel the coming out on poly part so much. Thank you for... just talking about it
This is so beautiful, touching, powerful, human!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This series is *SO* soulful and it's my favorite project atm, if not of the year!! Real proud to be subbed to this channel for a long time now!!!!!!
sidenote: what a beautiful black man on the outro
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What’s the song playing at the first part great video though!!
I think the comment section is more interesting than the video itself
Bro, I’m over here cryin’
i just admire that people who can do polyamorous relationship have a great amount of generosity and confidence in themselves.