#1 seems to be very intellectual & wise, possibly due to his age. He has obviously matured as a result of his experiences. #2 is "not married yet" because he thinks other people are the problem. #3 seems nice and well spoken as well. He's very self-aware & seems open minded, which will help him to be successful in relationships.
Listen!! The Azonwus are out here making MOVES!!! I pray that God will continue to give yall wisdom as to how to deliver this generation from toxic thinking and living as it relates to relationship!!
Love Brownpaper yeah I agree. I feel as much as we can disagree it’s important men get to speak their truth and not feel pressured to say what women want to hear.
Ri Child Yep. We, as women, have had the monopoly when it comes to being heard in this arena. I think if we truly want relationships worth having, we should be open to hearing men when they do give us healthy criticism. Sometimes it’s just facts without the sugar coating 🤷🏻♀️ Just because some things aren’t always nice to hear or easy to accept, doesn’t mean they’re not good for us. At the end of the day we want to be able to shape and grow each other... and sometimes it looks like iron sharpening iron (there goin be sparks ⚡️)
Agreed! Not sure how this ends, but it would be nice to then see these folks match (after this) and go on dates. This way we really get to see the intricacies. Moreover, if there was some sort of setup that followed their dating experience for a little while that would be amazing also. That way viewers can really take things out of it beyond "first dates" and "hypotheticals".
Men lack accountability too, if not more. I've come across so many Christian men who did not have father figures, who don't surround themselves with Christian friends, who do not care for spiritual mentorship. Bruh, most of the Christian men I've come across don't wanna do any emotional & spiritual labour. Stand-offish men has been so normalized because "men are not vulnerable like women". Nah, they need to also put in the work!
Dorothy Aboagye that's very true, we do need to put in our work. Even though we are whole in a Christ, let's not pretend that we all have it together because we're always progressing, that's why we have Jesus. That's why we have each other. Husband and a wife has something that they can serve to each other
Right! Sadly, when I think of men I think of more bad than good. I need serious prayer about this. I would love to see them the way God does cause dudes are a mess out here. I don't think I've ever met a man that takes accountability. Our society as a whole never holds them accountable for anything, which is why we get blamed when men have affairs and even beat us! Men are coddled, and women are raised.
Chiiiiiiile. How bout, his response, was a real time example of a "lack of accountability." That's why sis had to repeat what he said. Smh the hypocrisy and absurdity of it all. Sir, its no one's fault, but-your-OWN, that you are not married. Full stop. And, i might add, ALL of his responses showcased a lack of maturity...which leads me to believe, the "women," he's ATTRACTING, are a mirror to his own immaturity and lack of accountability. #2 NOT married cuz God sees he ain't ready. Periodt 😏
Okay Azonwus!!! Im loving the content!!! I love that these questions AND RESPONSES weren't safe! I LOVE honest Christians who are open to REAL topics! Kudos to the males and females in this segment!
Love the commentary that was added and the fact that they couldn’t see each other. It really allows them to be themselves without the fear of judgment. Well done! 👍🏽
The anonymity allowed for more originality and transparency of expression, but it takes maturity to still appreciate a person (and their opinion) once they've exposed themselves at this capacity.
I enjoyed this. Each side seems to be talking at each other and not to each other. Sounds like when answering questions they are speaking to all of the individuals who hurt them in the past and the individual on the other side is just the recipient of that frustration. I would say try to move away from the generalizations like "Christian women are" or "Men like to". Instead try to say "some of the Men I have encountered" or "from my experience the women who I have encountered". This way we can address your particular issue without condemning the entire group or gender of people.
Your so on point ...after a few questions it became the battle of the sexes. I believe having that kind dialogue is entertaining but ineffective most times.
Facts! I promise if he asked Holy Spirit that, He would have told him the things that he needed to work on. When I'm asked that, I immediately begin to discuss the things God is still working on in me. It's nothing for him to put love right in front of you, but he won't do it if you're not ready.
I think these Episodes are not only needed, but will create a culture for Gen X on down to dismantle & dispose of all these misaligned teachings that the "modern day church" had CONDITIONED US TO BELIEVE! You can tell a lot of where people's mature lies... As a coach, I observed the following: Women: #1-She likes to do more listening than talking. #2-listened but can tell what comments get a reaction. She knows how to ask more critical thinking questions. #3-listens to respond but doesn't fully listen to gain information. When she's uncomfortable, you can tell in her body language, her lack of remembering questions, & her out bursting. People & denominations went all the left with women not speaking in this church. #3's actions is an example that Paul describes of. Men: #1-Knows how to speak well & his delivery is well stated. He is a thinker & more mature because you can tell is very poetic. You can tell he was trying to hold #2 accountable with his nonverbal communication. #2-He makes a good point, but his delivery comes across as blame shifting. His delivery comes across as he's been hurt multiple times. #3-I follow Cyrus on IG. The way he speaks in this episode is consistent with the delivery of his content on his page to where he speaks truth in love.
The women need to realize the truth behind what the men speak. Just because they themselves aren't those type of women doesn't mean that they don't exist or they didn't have those experiences.
Ebony Oliver some of what he said was had me cringing lol, his poem had me rolling! I’ll say I disliked the generalizations and blanket statements. I’m glad number 1 said something. And me too i wish it was longer, such good content.
shea4323 #2 poems were absolutely horrible 🤦🏽♀️😹 #3 had the best answers but I believe there was some truth in what #2 said overall, although #1 and #3 were able to agree and then further go into explanation or give a different perspective in addition to. I’m just looking forward to another episode.
Assuming not too much was edited from the first version... I hope that in part 2 they let the ladies go in a bit more. At the end of the day, it's all love as we're brothers and sisters in Christ. However, lol, I do feel like it's not only Chrisitan women who give mixed signals. Men do it too.
I agree 100% with @THEGOOGOO Christian women and women in general like blocking. The "he liked me first" syndrome is out there. I have dealt first hand with it and seen my female friends do it. It needs to STOP.
Number 3, wow I appreciate his view point on the last question about women telling other women about their business with a man. That really opened up my perspective. Thou shall keep mouth SHUT
Imma say this...I don't usually comment on anything but I really appreciate this content, it really touched on a few things from the males perspective that I've been thinking about and glad to know I'm not alone with the mindset especially #3. Hearing the females side is also refreshing to see where we can improve on as Christian men. Love the real and honest convos, Eagerly awaiting part 2. Keep it coming
I have to take a moment to really say thank you to the Azonwus. First of all, many churches struggle with connecting with their singles. You are creating a platform for us to be able to see perspectives of both single men and women who love God but still desire for companionship and are open to talk about it. We understand the importance of God centering us but do not want it to be so religious that our humanity begins to feel like sin. All of the content you are providing makes me desire to want to spread these kind of conversations with more believers such as myself to give them a more realistic perspective than what we are given in the church. Life, relationships, accountability, future individual plans and goals, emotions, need to be centered with God at the foundation but we need real conversations about all of this without getting judged and side-eyed about our process in all of this. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
@@Vshadel 🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 but what Is TONGUE tho I heard or speaking In tongues but not in TONGUE.😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that must be the next level of speaking in tongues.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@kipngenokevin Do you Speak in TONGUES or In TONGUE?🙏🙏🙏 #AskingforAFriend #INeedToSeeSomthing #GottaBeQualifiedForTheWorkofTheLord #GottaBeGrownInGod .😭😭😭
Just listening to these individuals talk about real issues, just makes me realize how much God is interested in us getting it right in all areas of life especially in our Relationships
I appreciate all 6 men & women showing up and allowing themselves to be put on the spot knowing that we, the viewers, will make comments and judgments. #2 has a point, in general we lack accountability. I've seen it in both men and women (myself included). If he's experienced it from most of the women he dated, that's valid and I'm sorry that's all he's experienced. On the whole, I found the responses from the men to be more decisive and firm. They had a stance and articulated it. When it was the women's turn, at times, I found myself confused. Maybe it's because a few of the men's responses were culturally polarizing.
Yes @thenattv I agree with your view as well as I think that there is alot of preparation and focus put into making the Christian woman the right wife while most of them are confused as the knowledge is there but the application is not there. The Lady #1 was hard! Your facial expressions, body language and responses kind of had me for a minute but I hear you Sis. I agree! #whereourChristianmenat Personally as a Christian women I am tired of the games most brothers in churcg play but that doesn't mean I am seeking outside and it also does not mean that I will shut out a worthy pursuer from the outside either. As a woman coming into the church and having been on the outside I know what it offers as I have changed my life and standards and come into the church to be found by him who is worthy, alot of times you have brothers in church who either are playing games and are confused about what they want. I think if you find someone you are interested in and your express your interest at the crossroad where you are waiting for confirmation from God and doing your back search on her ensure she knows and you are seeking sound counsel and following God's word to you fully. There are alot of broken women in church who have been broken by men in the church therefore we have guarded ourselves for our protection which makes it harder for the next worthy man who comes along and appears to men that we are hard but we are not we are just afraid of being hurt that way again. I clearly hear what you guys are saying though. Overall this was informative makes me take a look at myself from a Christian dating stand point!
This was awesome! I hope this keeps growing. It would be nice to see (after this) the same folks going on dates and their relationships followed for a short period to get the impact of what's making or breaking relationships among Christians. This way we can move beyond first dates and hypotheticals. Also, I notice that many blk believers struggle with mother and father wounds A LOT! Our history and our trauma's affect our dating so much, and God sending the right spouse (on both ends). It would be really nice to see you all explore this, holding ourselves--individually accountable for our growth. When we see others who struggled with our same issues and watch their growth on how they cope, it will help us grow and be found or find--as women and men.
I love the content. I love that the guys are being open and honest. Definitely give us women an insight. It's all about communication and being willing a recipient.
Since I was part of the “Kiss Dating Goodbye” generation (horrible idea and book btw), I am pro just getting to know people even casually before getting invested. Holy Spirit does tell me ‘yes’ or ‘no’ about a guy, but usually after the first date. We can (without pressure) go out and get to know people, ask the right questions, know what we are looking for, use our brains and listen to Holy Spirit right then. Holy Spirit does not need 5 months.
Interesting... I just mentioned a couple of days ago of how an old pastor a ministry that I was apart of created a misguided single generation where there were a lot of missing pieces & she used that book. The author wrote this book when he was 21. That book excluded the older single woman, the divorced woman, the single woman who is a single mother.
Never read that book, but true that, Holy Spirit does not need 5 months. Most women know as soon as they pray that, "God if he aint the one, reveal why he isn't and remove him" prayer is very real! That man will be like a vapor in 24 hours. God always warns me when a fake is coming roughly 6 months ahead of time, and in comes walking the counterfeit like clockwork. Also, that is why hearing and knowing the voice of God is critical.
Personally I don't think the Holy Spirit's main work is fast tracking judging someone before you get to know them. There are certain qualities a good man has. All you need is a good man who loves God. If you're looking for alot more than that then you're asking for something God didnt necessarily promise. I think dating is very consimeristic these days, but I dont think God's love is like that at all.
oakinwol I think it depends on who you are. There are a lot of good men who love God that are not willing to live the life that I live. I’m a cross cultural international missionary. And it doesn’t mean judging. Core values and callings matter. Every Christian’s core values nor callings are the same. In theory your statement is true, but even on the basic level of wanting kids and not wanting kids - things do need to match otherwise one partner is going to be miserable in that marriage.
@@4SuGloria I respect that you have a particular lifestyle you feel God has called you to. If you were indeed talking about simple lifestyle choice differences, such as how many kids you want to have or where you see yourself ultimately living, then I do think that is something one can make a quick decision about. It comes across as overpiritualizing it to say that the Holy Spirit is the one speaking at that moment though. That's just common sense, depending on how strong each of you feel about those things in the moment. I do find that people are generally more individualistic and inflexible these days about what they want to "do" with their lives, and that isnt necessarily a godly thing. 100 years ago when people used to get married much sooner than we do these days I dont think they were somehow magically stumbling across the "right" people that matched their laundry list of criteria earlier. I believe they just prioritized relationships over personal ambitions. There are many ways that an internal conviction can be generalized and then fulfilled, but if we decide theres only one specific way we'd like to fulfill it then it limits the number of people we might be able to do life with simply because of our own inflexibility. I'm traditional so I believe God made men and women different for a reason. It appears to me that many women these days have ambitions like men do and aren't necessarily as focused on the distinct things that they as women are supposed to bring to a relationship. That isnt to say that women should not have ambitions, they just shouldn't have ambitions exactly like a man does, otherwise there is no balance or polarity in the relationship. I'm of the impression that alot of the fear in women to focus more on their masculine traits and less on their feminine ones is due to historically poor male leadership, but I think we'd do better in our generation going back to a time when relationships had distinct roles and were prioritized. That isnt to say that you're not doing that necessarily, I just feel like in those instances there would potentially be more flexibility as to how you might fulfill what you feel is your calling which might allow for more than one conversation to determine whether you could fulfill it with someone. Sometimes someone doesnt match your passion initially perhaps, but even that is worth probing for more than one meeting. People sometimes show passion in different ways. I just think we need to spend more time listening and trying to understand and accommodate one another generally. That's my understanding of how we'll progress as a church towards the oneness Christ prayed for in John 17
I think they all spit some good facts! Number three I agree with the most frfr. Also I’ll say this for the Holy Spirit comment he(Holy Spirit) let me know 5 months down the line he wasn’t for me after I wasted this persons time. For me I pray really hard before I even entertain things. At the end of the day it’s sooo much harder to sweep things under the rug if I’m physically attracted and entertained you to where I now have feelings. So at the beginning once I began to find myself catching feelings or caring harder than norm I’ll pray if this isn’t something I need to be involved in or you don’t see a future here Lord. I need you to cut this off or let him know on his end that ain’t it. Lol it doesn’t take five months for me to know that either. Usually first few days or so but again I do this quite early on. To be completely honest some of my very best friends have come out of it and some we just hi and bye.. I also don’t have to use the line the Holy Spirit told me bc I do think some women use that as a cop out.
I enjoyed the candid conversations between the 2 sexes. Do you think you could have another panel with men and women who are in their mid to late 30's as well? I think the conversations would be very interesting and slightly different in some aspects.
@@poisegrace9563 but see Gods design for marriage isn't about physical appearances, incomes or race its more spiritual and its a representation of Christ and the church. You should be attracted to your partner but that only satisfies the flesh
This was interesting - glad the guys were able to speak freely. There seems to be a tension but we are all trying it achieve the same thing for the most part. Praying for us all. It can get messy quickly if we don’t get this right so I appreciate the apprehension on both sides. Bot sides need to move out of fear and into genuine sisterhood and brotherhood - whatever is supposed to develop from that be it deeper friendship, marriage, a date will do but we should do it with grace and caution.
I really love this, this helps us to better understand...it illuminates... Christian dating can be complex and I have seen scenarios of one wanting the person to be fully saved but wanting things that does not represent God this is a challenge ... the answers were on point for the males and it helps us to understand the thoughts of the opposite sex.. i LOVE THIS.. GREAT JOB!!!!!
Aye, and for the sis that said that the Holy Spirit be telling them to break things off... make sure you keep that same energy when a brother gives you that same line. The Holy Spirit can tell us to break things off too, and we shouldnt get painted as the bad guy when things dont work out in a relationship. I say this all in love. I'm really digging the conversations that are being had in this series..... the single people in the church need this type of dialogue.
I loved seeing this! I think it’s unveiling some of the assumptions and pressures that exist unspoken in the church for both men and women. I can’t wait to hear part 2
Omg!!! Where have I been with these series?!!!! This is so good. I love hearing real men speak from real perspectives. I took me a long time to look in the mirror as a woman first and a Christian second. I no longer have a preference but there are deal breakers in my dating walk. Love this. 😊
Its tough but i find wise Men are Never Intimidated If a Woman is well accomplished We understand that along the way they needed help and connections So the status of a Woman who has a high profile is not the case The problem is a Man who is going outside of his purpose and skillset but wants Gods Approval Cyrus had a point Its Easy to Listen to the Flesh when desiring a Woman but difficult when desiring a Wife That requires we go to God Everyday to examine ourselves and seek guidance on a possible relationship
#2 is on point. His speaking the truth. I love his honesty. He’s to the point but willing. He has an open heart. His personality may be a bit strong. I since he’s been hurt.
I’ll say this. It’s not all Christian women and men that struggle with the same things. Everyone is different. I will say that SOME Christian women I stepped too to pursue I’ve struggled personally with commitment issues and bad examples of relationships of my own and between my parents that has damaged a lot of things in me that I don’t want to continue that same damage the next relationship. For example, if a man or women of God experienced divorce of their own or their parents. That and all things from the past can be a road block. Meaning I don’t want to repeat what has been done in the past. At times I myself included can get to the point of overthinking instead of pursue. But some MOG don’t pursue right away to wait and see does she have accountability, her choice of friends, spiritual growth and health. And of course deal breakers for some. I understand I’ll never fully arrive but I think it is wise among MOG that we don’t want to pursue left and right. I believe we are working towards something with the help of this video that in the world it was easier to hook up and link up. But that was according to the flesh so I think SOME MOG don’t pursue because they really want to guard our sisters hearts while pursuing someone. I myself have not been perfect at this but the AIM is needed. I feel like now I am more prayerful and cautious instead of tryna get on with every women of God that I come in contact with. It’s different as believers but oh so real for Men and women to be together under the Lords guidance and hand. Dope convo my man Cyrus crazy lol
Wow. Thank you for this point of view. I appreciate how you analyzed the situation and even brought in your own experiences. I think as a woman, we want things NOW so when a man takes forever, it can be hurtful. BUT, if we are true women of God, we will listen to the Holy Spirit, wait, and submit and trust that our time is coming. Thank you for helping me learn to be more patient. I pray that you will find a woman who is as careful with your heart as you are to hers❤️
Savii Sam major facts! I believe some men do want to pursue NOW but often times some men can be patiently seeing and waiting to see when it is good timing to pursue. But then again. It’s very situational for every MOG AND WOG.
Lady #1 and Guy#3 agreed on a lot of things . I think they should date 😁 anyways such insightful commentaries,the men were raw and honest which is definitely what we need to hear .
Greetings to the Azonwus! I really like what you are doing. I've been watching all your episodes and have been learning a lot from you guys as well as the participants/brothers & sisters. I'd love to watch more of the back to back episodes. May the Lord Bless your souls and continue to use you for His Glory!
@TheNATV said a mouthful. There is not a blame game with either group but we have not found the right person God has for us. On both sides. Great conversations.
Dudeeee! I really dig this series! I’m 21, 22 this year, and this series is really informative for me as someone who is looking to date one day. I love seeing and hearing the perspectives of the men and the women. This is so timely. Keep these coming!
Like the talkback series. Self-development is the key here and you have to know what you’re want and are looking for otherwise you will accept whatever. Non of these 6 were compatible. Looking forward to the next one.
This makes me feel some type of way but in a good way lol. It excites me so much to see people finally talking about this and getting so many different views and perspectives. Most importantly these series are here to open our minds and hearts and to educate us! 👌🏽 I'm so here for this! I wish I had it in me to join in on it lol 😂 Thank you for this 💛
I really enjoyed this. GooGoo spoke a word. I think we as women need to stop assuming that certain men are running game all the time, that’s an issue we need to work on. Did female 2 & 3, not have much to say or will there be a continuation? Female 1 kinda dominated. ❤️
Wait you aren't married because women aren't accountable? I appreciate his transparency, but where is the accountability in that? If all you have come across are those types of women and it didn't work out ...Then that also speaks to your selection process.
#2 was killing me 😂😂😂playing the blame game the whole time "You look like a ping pong"😂😂😂 #1 made some great points he sounds like a great conversationalist!
I just loved #1 ability to self express... and I won't lie, I'm guilty of wanting a christian 2Pac.. Im so guilty of mentally editing men to my preferences while wanting what I need, an expressive partner, to be met whilst being petty over here looking for height and a big chest I can rest on... 😂🤣😅 That whole thing was fah me. Errrrthang he said. #2 is just too borderline narcissistic fah me, I feel like he feeling his self more than any woman at all.
I really appreciated man number three’s answer about why men in the church don’t approach women in the church. Honestly I never thought of it that way and have asked this question for years without hearing a compelling response (or any response for that matter), but his answer completely changed my perspective. I can appreciate the fact that men in church are not going to approach women or at least should not be approaching women in the church the same way guys in the world approach women. Ladies, are we are asking these men to be men of God and yet take on the attributes of those who are not men of God? Could it be that men in the world approach more frequently because they don’t fear God and have not heard the Holy Spirit say, “not this one, my son” or “not now”? Instead we just assume men in the church are not interested or are not good men because they don’t approach. That may not be the case At all. Maybe they are just being careful. Maybe they are listening to their Father and practicing self discipline until they get a green light. So humbling. I am challenged to change my narrative on this topic. Overall, I really appreciated the various viewpoints expressed in this video and found it valuable. Thanks for all this great content!
OK. OK. OK this was so dope. I appreciate this and the other series. The men are definitely more vocal lol but that's cool. Thank you for allowing us to hear the conversations we might never ease drop on... bravo bravo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
One thing I love about this series, it is really showing the issues in both sexes as we all try to live in the world and not be of the world as believers. What we need is a bit more grace and a bit more of looking at ourselves and come to the table with humility and a spirit of giving love rather than casing blame. Love the conversation!
I love this!! Really enjoying hearing everyone's perspectives!! However, these guys must have not met the right Christian women because the Christian women that are my friends are nothing like the people they describe lol
#1 seems to be very intellectual & wise, possibly due to his age. He has obviously matured as a result of his experiences. #2 is "not married yet" because he thinks other people are the problem. #3 seems nice and well spoken as well. He's very self-aware & seems open minded, which will help him to be successful in relationships.
Yesssss I agree.
Yep spot on
Nicole SPOT ON
FACTS ON FACTS!
Sooooo true
Listen!! The Azonwus are out here making MOVES!!! I pray that God will continue to give yall wisdom as to how to deliver this generation from toxic thinking and living as it relates to relationship!!
I prefer this series to the other. The men get to be more honest in this setup
Love Brownpaper yeah I agree. I feel as much as we can disagree it’s important men get to speak their truth and not feel pressured to say what women want to hear.
Ri Child Yep. We, as women, have had the monopoly when it comes to being heard in this arena. I think if we truly want relationships worth having, we should be open to hearing men when they do give us healthy criticism. Sometimes it’s just facts without the sugar coating 🤷🏻♀️ Just because some things aren’t always nice to hear or easy to accept, doesn’t mean they’re not good for us. At the end of the day we want to be able to shape and grow each other... and sometimes it looks like iron sharpening iron (there goin be sparks ⚡️)
Right!!!
Agreed! Not sure how this ends, but it would be nice to then see these folks match (after this) and go on dates. This way we really get to see the intricacies. Moreover, if there was some sort of setup that followed their dating experience for a little while that would be amazing also. That way viewers can really take things out of it beyond "first dates" and "hypotheticals".
Agreed !!
Men lack accountability too, if not more. I've come across so many Christian men who did not have father figures, who don't surround themselves with Christian friends, who do not care for spiritual mentorship. Bruh, most of the Christian men I've come across don't wanna do any emotional & spiritual labour. Stand-offish men has been so normalized because "men are not vulnerable like women". Nah, they need to also put in the work!
Dorothy Aboagye that's very true, we do need to put in our work. Even though we are whole in a Christ, let's not pretend that we all have it together because we're always progressing, that's why we have Jesus. That's why we have each other. Husband and a wife has something that they can serve to each other
Right! Sadly, when I think of men I think of more bad than good. I need serious prayer about this. I would love to see them the way God does cause dudes are a mess out here. I don't think I've ever met a man that takes accountability. Our society as a whole never holds them accountable for anything, which is why we get blamed when men have affairs and even beat us! Men are coddled, and women are raised.
Chiiiiiiile. How bout, his response, was a real time example of a "lack of accountability." That's why sis had to repeat what he said. Smh the hypocrisy and absurdity of it all. Sir, its no one's fault, but-your-OWN, that you are not married. Full stop. And, i might add, ALL of his responses showcased a lack of maturity...which leads me to believe, the "women," he's ATTRACTING, are a mirror to his own immaturity and lack of accountability. #2 NOT married cuz God sees he ain't ready. Periodt 😏
you are preaching!
*Snaps fingers* at the accuracy
Okay Azonwus!!! Im loving the content!!! I love that these questions AND RESPONSES weren't safe! I LOVE honest Christians who are open to REAL topics! Kudos to the males and females in this segment!
Love the commentary that was added and the fact that they couldn’t see each other. It really allows them to be themselves without the fear of judgment. Well done! 👍🏽
I totally agree☺
Judgement still came for guy #2 tho 😅
#2 should unlearn generalizing
For me I like how #1 and #3 are putting their points.
And I'm looooving this content.
#2 is saying what men really think, respect that
The anonymity allowed for more originality and transparency of expression, but it takes maturity to still appreciate a person (and their opinion) once they've exposed themselves at this capacity.
🙌🏾❤"Y'all deserve that consistent, passionate pursuit!"❤🙌🏾 SAY THAT NUMBER THREE👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Number four here. Would love to be on the show. I have so many questions.
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Number 2 lost after the first question lol she said a poetic line with "song".....he said ping pong lol I can't. LOL insightful video!!
EOOgunro 😂😂 and he had the nerve to come this hardest with the questions
I completely agree! And he just kept digging his hole deeper and deeper after that.
Nicole right he is cancelled
Yep dude definitely had me rolling 😂. He sure is genuine though lol. At least you know where dude truly stands lol
Number 2 is full, of #2...see what i did there.😏 RME
I enjoyed this. Each side seems to be talking at each other and not to each other. Sounds like when answering questions they are speaking to all of the individuals who hurt them in the past and the individual on the other side is just the recipient of that frustration. I would say try to move away from the generalizations like "Christian women are" or "Men like to". Instead try to say "some of the Men I have encountered" or "from my experience the women who I have encountered". This way we can address your particular issue without condemning the entire group or gender of people.
Speak on it brother!
Your so on point ...after a few questions it became the battle of the sexes. I believe having that kind dialogue is entertaining but ineffective most times.
@@sabrinahall8579 well said!
He said “how tall are you?” 😂😂😂
He's hilarious!
Always Sav that was a MIC DROP MOMENT!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yep dude had me rolling when he said that 😂
that took me outttttt
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Yikes! #2 needs God to heal his heart and renew his hope cause chileee😅😅
L Obi 😂😂😂😂
Exactly 😂
you aint married coz "women lack accountability"---perfect example of Adam blaming eve....
Frida Majestic exactly!!!!! Not taking accountability
Yup...
Facts! I promise if he asked Holy Spirit that, He would have told him the things that he needed to work on. When I'm asked that, I immediately begin to discuss the things God is still working on in me. It's nothing for him to put love right in front of you, but he won't do it if you're not ready.
Yes ma'am
@@godschild8953🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I think these Episodes are not only needed, but will create a culture for Gen X on down to dismantle & dispose of all these misaligned teachings that the "modern day church" had CONDITIONED US TO BELIEVE!
You can tell a lot of where people's mature lies...
As a coach, I observed the following:
Women:
#1-She likes to do more listening than talking.
#2-listened but can tell what comments
get a reaction. She knows how to ask more critical thinking questions.
#3-listens to respond but doesn't fully listen to gain information. When she's uncomfortable, you can tell in her body language, her lack of remembering questions, & her out bursting. People & denominations went all the left with women not speaking in this church. #3's actions is an example that Paul describes of.
Men:
#1-Knows how to speak well & his delivery is well stated. He is a thinker & more mature because you can tell is very poetic. You can tell he was trying to hold #2 accountable with his nonverbal communication.
#2-He makes a good point, but his delivery comes across as blame shifting. His delivery comes across as he's been hurt multiple times.
#3-I follow Cyrus on IG. The way he speaks in this episode is consistent with the delivery of his content on his page to where he speaks truth in love.
AMEN!!!! I need more of this! Love you guys!
“Don’t be mad at us, be mad at the Holy Spirit”
😂😂🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽. Yesssss QUEEEN!! You’re right!
Haai Rori, you're everywhere hlem😂😂😂😂😭❤❤❤😘
@@bohlokoamile991 one thing about me, I love consuming and creating content 😂😂😂
Number 2! Let the Nigerian accent out!!!!!
😂😂 Yup! Exposed it
Right!!!😂😂😂
Anna F. This comment made me laugh so hard😂😂
I was thinking this the ENTIRE episode and I'm not even Nigerian lol
Screaming 😂😂😂😂
The women need to realize the truth behind what the men speak. Just because they themselves aren't those type of women doesn't mean that they don't exist or they didn't have those experiences.
Oh wow this is true. I hadn't really thought about that.
Number 3..... TALK THAT TALKKKK!!!
Number 2 is killing me 😭😭😭😭
shea4323 I thought he was gonna have nothing of substance to say, but he was so real and honest. Loved this entire thing, wish it was longer.
Ebony Oliver
some of what he said was had me cringing lol, his poem had me rolling! I’ll say I disliked the generalizations and blanket statements. I’m glad number 1 said something. And me too i wish it was longer, such good content.
shea4323 #2 poems were absolutely horrible 🤦🏽♀️😹 #3 had the best answers but I believe there was some truth in what #2 said overall, although #1 and #3 were able to agree and then further go into explanation or give a different perspective in addition to. I’m just looking forward to another episode.
Ebony Oliver
Meeee tooo!
Girl 😂😂😂 man's was passionate and brutally honest about his views 🤣😭
Assuming not too much was edited from the first version... I hope that in part 2 they let the ladies go in a bit more. At the end of the day, it's all love as we're brothers and sisters in Christ. However, lol, I do feel like it's not only Chrisitan women who give mixed signals. Men do it too.
I agree 100% with @THEGOOGOO Christian women and women in general like blocking. The "he liked me first" syndrome is out there. I have dealt first hand with it and seen my female friends do it. It needs to STOP.
Anne Grace I lost a whole 7 year “friendship” over being interested in someone she never dated 🤦🏽♀️ so sad...and I never dated him. It’s a shame 🙏🏽
@@puritystance3905 7 whole years!? Girl i am sorry😢.
Anne Grace yes sis I was sad and sometimes it still stings but I am good...there is a reason for every season in life 💯❤️ All love on my end 😌
Number one, your wife is coming brother. Hold tight!!
aighttt who hurt number 2?
I really do hope they dont bring him back on here. He spoiled the episode for me ughh
Yeah he's a piece of work. I can't with him
Fr!! I pray for his healing from the spirit of bitterness.
👀👀 have to comment again. This was great. Bottom line, we all need to work together and communicate.
Number 3, wow I appreciate his view point on the last question about women telling other women about their business with a man. That really opened up my perspective. Thou shall keep mouth SHUT
The intellect of Number 1, goofiness of number 2 and sensitivity of number 3.
Lol!!! I died!
I like #1. The most mature and wise one on the panel. Your welcome😁
Imma say this...I don't usually comment on anything but I really appreciate this content, it really touched on a few things from the males perspective that I've been thinking about and glad to know I'm not alone with the mindset especially #3. Hearing the females side is also refreshing to see where we can improve on as Christian men. Love the real and honest convos, Eagerly awaiting part 2. Keep it coming
Lol where do y’all find these people? 😩😂 I guess I just don’t like the generalizations... Other than that I appreciate this chop
I have to take a moment to really say thank you to the Azonwus. First of all, many churches struggle with connecting with their singles. You are creating a platform for us to be able to see perspectives of both single men and women who love God but still desire for companionship and are open to talk about it. We understand the importance of God centering us but do not want it to be so religious that our humanity begins to feel like sin. All of the content you are providing makes me desire to want to spread these kind of conversations with more believers such as myself to give them a more realistic perspective than what we are given in the church. Life, relationships, accountability, future individual plans and goals, emotions, need to be centered with God at the foundation but we need real conversations about all of this without getting judged and side-eyed about our process in all of this. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
The Azonwus God Bless Yall! ☺️
" He Must Speak in TONGUE."😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 That guy was not serious lol. All his answers began with faulting the woman.
@@Vshadel 🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 but what Is TONGUE tho I heard or speaking In tongues but not in TONGUE.😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that must be the next level of speaking in tongues.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LOL!!! That man seemed bruised and wounded for women's iniquities. The man needs the stripes of Jesus and the children's bread.
@@GodGirlP okaaay 😂😂😂😂
@@kipngenokevin Do you Speak in TONGUES or In TONGUE?🙏🙏🙏 #AskingforAFriend #INeedToSeeSomthing #GottaBeQualifiedForTheWorkofTheLord #GottaBeGrownInGod .😭😭😭
Just listening to these individuals talk about real issues, just makes me realize how much God is interested in us getting it right in all areas of life especially in our Relationships
It may not have worked for you but ... 🗣 it’s gone work for me ok?!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I think #2 is hurt from previous relationships.
I appreciate all 6 men & women showing up and allowing themselves to be put on the spot knowing that we, the viewers, will make comments and judgments.
#2 has a point, in general we lack accountability. I've seen it in both men and women (myself included). If he's experienced it from most of the women he dated, that's valid and I'm sorry that's all he's experienced.
On the whole, I found the responses from the men to be more decisive and firm. They had a stance and articulated it. When it was the women's turn, at times, I found myself confused.
Maybe it's because a few of the men's responses were culturally polarizing.
“Consistent, passionate, pursuit” yes, yes and yes! 👏🏿👏🏿😭
he said that 😭🙌🏿
Yes @thenattv I agree with your view as well as I think that there is alot of preparation and focus put into making the Christian woman the right wife while most of them are confused as the knowledge is there but the application is not there. The Lady #1 was hard! Your facial expressions, body language and responses kind of had me for a minute but I hear you Sis. I agree! #whereourChristianmenat Personally as a Christian women I am tired of the games most brothers in churcg play but that doesn't mean I am seeking outside and it also does not mean that I will shut out a worthy pursuer from the outside either. As a woman coming into the church and having been on the outside I know what it offers as I have changed my life and standards and come into the church to be found by him who is worthy, alot of times you have brothers in church who either are playing games and are confused about what they want. I think if you find someone you are interested in and your express your interest at the crossroad where you are waiting for confirmation from God and doing your back search on her ensure she knows and you are seeking sound counsel and following God's word to you fully. There are alot of broken women in church who have been broken by men in the church therefore we have guarded ourselves for our protection which makes it harder for the next worthy man who comes along and appears to men that we are hard but we are not we are just afraid of being hurt that way again. I clearly hear what you guys are saying though. Overall this was informative makes me take a look at myself from a Christian dating stand point!
Girl I'm bout to find his RUclips. He needs to be on this show as a facilitator. Amazing
I loved every minute of this!! And Number 2 had me dying with his struggle poem lol
lmbooo and number 2 is fine 🗣
Same😂😂😂
This was awesome! I hope this keeps growing. It would be nice to see (after this) the same folks going on dates and their relationships followed for a short period to get the impact of what's making or breaking relationships among Christians. This way we can move beyond first dates and hypotheticals. Also, I notice that many blk believers struggle with mother and father wounds A LOT! Our history and our trauma's affect our dating so much, and God sending the right spouse (on both ends). It would be really nice to see you all explore this, holding ourselves--individually accountable for our growth. When we see others who struggled with our same issues and watch their growth on how they cope, it will help us grow and be found or find--as women and men.
I love the content. I love that the guys are being open and honest. Definitely give us women an insight. It's all about communication and being willing a recipient.
Since I was part of the “Kiss Dating Goodbye” generation (horrible idea and book btw), I am pro just getting to know people even casually before getting invested. Holy Spirit does tell me ‘yes’ or ‘no’ about a guy, but usually after the first date. We can (without pressure) go out and get to know people, ask the right questions, know what we are looking for, use our brains and listen to Holy Spirit right then. Holy Spirit does not need 5 months.
Interesting... I just mentioned a couple of days ago of how an old pastor a ministry that I was apart of created a misguided single generation where there were a lot of missing pieces & she used that book. The author wrote this book when he was 21. That book excluded the older single woman, the divorced woman, the single woman who is a single mother.
Never read that book, but true that, Holy Spirit does not need 5 months. Most women know as soon as they pray that, "God if he aint the one, reveal why he isn't and remove him" prayer is very real! That man will be like a vapor in 24 hours. God always warns me when a fake is coming roughly 6 months ahead of time, and in comes walking the counterfeit like clockwork. Also, that is why hearing and knowing the voice of God is critical.
Personally I don't think the Holy Spirit's main work is fast tracking judging someone before you get to know them. There are certain qualities a good man has. All you need is a good man who loves God. If you're looking for alot more than that then you're asking for something God didnt necessarily promise. I think dating is very consimeristic these days, but I dont think God's love is like that at all.
oakinwol I think it depends on who you are. There are a lot of good men who love God that are not willing to live the life that I live. I’m a cross cultural international missionary. And it doesn’t mean judging. Core values and callings matter. Every Christian’s core values nor callings are the same. In theory your statement is true, but even on the basic level of wanting kids and not wanting kids - things do need to match otherwise one partner is going to be miserable in that marriage.
@@4SuGloria I respect that you have a particular lifestyle you feel God has called you to. If you were indeed talking about simple lifestyle choice differences, such as how many kids you want to have or where you see yourself ultimately living, then I do think that is something one can make a quick decision about. It comes across as overpiritualizing it to say that the Holy Spirit is the one speaking at that moment though. That's just common sense, depending on how strong each of you feel about those things in the moment.
I do find that people are generally more individualistic and inflexible these days about what they want to "do" with their lives, and that isnt necessarily a godly thing. 100 years ago when people used to get married much sooner than we do these days I dont think they were somehow magically stumbling across the "right" people that matched their laundry list of criteria earlier. I believe they just prioritized relationships over personal ambitions. There are many ways that an internal conviction can be generalized and then fulfilled, but if we decide theres only one specific way we'd like to fulfill it then it limits the number of people we might be able to do life with simply because of our own inflexibility. I'm traditional so I believe God made men and women different for a reason. It appears to me that many women these days have ambitions like men do and aren't necessarily as focused on the distinct things that they as women are supposed to bring to a relationship. That isnt to say that women should not have ambitions, they just shouldn't have ambitions exactly like a man does, otherwise there is no balance or polarity in the relationship. I'm of the impression that alot of the fear in women to focus more on their masculine traits and less on their feminine ones is due to historically poor male leadership, but I think we'd do better in our generation going back to a time when relationships had distinct roles and were prioritized. That isnt to say that you're not doing that necessarily, I just feel like in those instances there would potentially be more flexibility as to how you might fulfill what you feel is your calling which might allow for more than one conversation to determine whether you could fulfill it with someone. Sometimes someone doesnt match your passion initially perhaps, but even that is worth probing for more than one meeting. People sometimes show passion in different ways. I just think we need to spend more time listening and trying to understand and accommodate one another generally. That's my understanding of how we'll progress as a church towards the oneness Christ prayed for in John 17
When #3 talked about guys approaching inside the church versus outside the church was 🤭👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Real talk, I really appreciate man #2 honesty.
One of my favorite things is open honest dialogue 😍😍😍 loved this.
Imma need Part 2 neoowwww... please🤗😂 loved every second of this!
SHOUTS OUT to The Azonwus!!! Been lookin forward to this since the teaser. And I really like the additional commentary scattered throughout.
I think they all spit some good facts! Number three I agree with the most frfr. Also I’ll say this for the Holy Spirit comment he(Holy Spirit) let me know 5 months down the line he wasn’t for me after I wasted this persons time. For me I pray really hard before I even entertain things. At the end of the day it’s sooo much harder to sweep things under the rug if I’m physically attracted and entertained you to where I now have feelings. So at the beginning once I began to find myself catching feelings or caring harder than norm I’ll pray if this isn’t something I need to be involved in or you don’t see a future here Lord. I need you to cut this off or let him know on his end that ain’t it. Lol it doesn’t take five months for me to know that either. Usually first few days or so but again I do this quite early on. To be completely honest some of my very best friends have come out of it and some we just hi and bye.. I also don’t have to use the line the Holy Spirit told me bc I do think some women use that as a cop out.
I am loving this episode. It's unfiltered and they get to be themselves. I can't wait to see part two. I will share.
I enjoyed the candid conversations between the 2 sexes. Do you think you could have another panel with men and women who are in their mid to late 30's as well? I think the conversations would be very interesting and slightly different in some aspects.
Keysha's Corner I would love to see that as well as people in their mid to late 20’s lol I’m sure the perspectives would be different as well lol
🤣🤣 "How tall are you?" took me out😂😂😂 🤣. I think That is a great question though, one which I will answer with my chest, 🙋🏾♀️5ft10!
Girl, SAME! I'M 5'10 so if I say I want a 5'10 and up man, that's not double standards 😂😊
@@dorothyaboagye3363 Yess!🙌🏾 Tall girl gang🎉. Definitely, We are not settling😂 no Ma'am.
@@poisegrace9563 but see Gods design for marriage isn't about physical appearances, incomes or race its more spiritual and its a representation of Christ and the church. You should be attracted to your partner but that only satisfies the flesh
Daniel Kazeze amen, brother
Anne Grace girl 5’9” #tallgirlgang
Love this. These are great topics. I've had these conversations with my friends over the years
This was interesting - glad the guys were able to speak freely. There seems to be a tension but we are all trying it achieve the same thing for the most part. Praying for us all. It can get messy quickly if we don’t get this right so I appreciate the apprehension on both sides. Bot sides need to move out of fear and into genuine sisterhood and brotherhood - whatever is supposed to develop from that be it deeper friendship, marriage, a date will do but we should do it with grace and caution.
Wow, I love watching these types of discussions. Y’all are doing your thing!! 👏🏽👏🏽
I love the honest conversations on here. Thank you all for sharing your beautiful perspectives.
I really love this, this helps us to better understand...it illuminates... Christian dating can be complex and I have seen scenarios of one wanting the person to be fully saved but wanting things that does not represent God this is a challenge ... the answers were on point for the males and it helps us to understand the thoughts of the opposite sex.. i LOVE THIS.. GREAT JOB!!!!!
Aye, and for the sis that said that the Holy Spirit be telling them to break things off... make sure you keep that same energy when a brother gives you that same line. The Holy Spirit can tell us to break things off too, and we shouldnt get painted as the bad guy when things dont work out in a relationship. I say this all in love. I'm really digging the conversations that are being had in this series..... the single people in the church need this type of dialogue.
Awesome conversation. It was great to hear how candid the men were in answering these questions. I hope more of these conversations are produced
I loved seeing this! I think it’s unveiling some of the assumptions and pressures that exist unspoken in the church for both men and women. I can’t wait to hear part 2
Number 1 and 3 you are it. Number 2 you are not ready friend 😩😩😩😩
Omg!!! Where have I been with these series?!!!! This is so good. I love hearing real men speak from real perspectives. I took me a long time to look in the mirror as a woman first and a Christian second. I no longer have a preference but there are deal breakers in my dating walk. Love this. 😊
Really appreciate this..the male perspective is always refreshing....the part when number 3 said “y’all are so precious “🤗
Woooooow I am loving this talkback concept. This is real talks and views.
I’m loving this content!! Keep up the great work 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Its tough but i find wise Men are Never Intimidated
If a Woman is well accomplished We understand that along the way they needed help and connections So the status of a Woman who has a high profile is not the case The problem is a Man who is going outside of his purpose and skillset but wants Gods Approval Cyrus had a point Its Easy to Listen to the Flesh when desiring a Woman but difficult when desiring a Wife That requires we go to God Everyday to examine ourselves and seek guidance on a possible relationship
#2 is on point. His speaking the truth. I love his honesty. He’s to the point but willing. He has an open heart. His personality may be a bit strong. I since he’s been hurt.
#2 do men hold theirselves accountable
Alieshia’s Adventures Facts 👏🏾
Oop!
Right
Who's the older men in your life? Just saying
I need this in my life. Thanks. Healthy conversations and very relevant. ❤❤👌🏾
I’ll say this. It’s not all Christian women and men that struggle with the same things. Everyone is different. I will say that SOME Christian women I stepped too to pursue I’ve struggled personally with commitment issues and bad examples of relationships of my own and between my parents that has damaged a lot of things in me that I don’t want to continue that same damage the next relationship.
For example, if a man or women of God experienced divorce of their own or their parents. That and all things from the past can be a road block. Meaning I don’t want to repeat what has been done in the past. At times I myself included can get to the point of overthinking instead of pursue. But some MOG don’t pursue right away to wait and see does she have accountability, her choice of friends, spiritual growth and health. And of course deal breakers for some.
I understand I’ll never fully arrive but I think it is wise among MOG that we don’t want to pursue left and right. I believe we are working towards something with the help of this video that in the world it was easier to hook up and link up. But that was according to the flesh so I think SOME MOG don’t pursue because they really want to guard our sisters hearts while pursuing someone. I myself have not been perfect at this but the AIM is needed. I feel like now I am more prayerful and cautious instead of tryna get on with every women of God that I come in contact with. It’s different as believers but oh so real for Men and women to be together under the Lords guidance and hand. Dope convo my man Cyrus crazy lol
Wow. Thank you for this point of view. I appreciate how you analyzed the situation and even brought in your own experiences.
I think as a woman, we want things NOW so when a man takes forever, it can be hurtful. BUT, if we are true women of God, we will listen to the Holy Spirit, wait, and submit and trust that our time is coming. Thank you for helping me learn to be more patient.
I pray that you will find a woman who is as careful with your heart as you are to hers❤️
Savii Sam major facts! I believe some men do want to pursue NOW but often times some men can be patiently seeing and waiting to see when it is good timing to pursue. But then again. It’s very situational for every MOG AND WOG.
Lady #1 and Guy#3 agreed on a lot of things . I think they should date 😁 anyways such insightful commentaries,the men were raw and honest which is definitely what we need to hear .
Azonwus this was soooooooo dope!!! I pray y'all continue with your brand of creativity because this was so good. Can't wait for part 2!
Greetings to the Azonwus! I really like what you are doing. I've been watching all your episodes and have been learning a lot from you guys as well as the participants/brothers & sisters. I'd love to watch more of the back to back episodes. May the Lord Bless your souls and continue to use you for His Glory!
"Tupac & Creflo Dollar in one body" 😂😂😂😂 True perspective is everything
Number 1 yay number 2 nay number 3 alright
@TheNATV said a mouthful. There is not a blame game with either group but we have not found the right person God has for us. On both sides. Great conversations.
Dudeeee! I really dig this series! I’m 21, 22 this year, and this series is really informative for me as someone who is looking to date one day. I love seeing and hearing the perspectives of the men and the women. This is so timely. Keep these coming!
Me wanting physical qualities in my man doesn’t make me confused. #2, please come again with your reasons we are confused.
The participants opened up more in this experiment unlike in the other one (The Whole Truth )
I’m only 3 minutes in and I wanna marry #3 in the Grey hoodie. That piece about provision and that face, I’m sold!😍
....and after the full video, I need to know where he fellowships at!😆
Like the talkback series. Self-development is the key here and you have to know what you’re want and are looking for otherwise you will accept whatever. Non of these 6 were compatible. Looking forward to the next one.
This makes me feel some type of way but in a good way lol. It excites me so much to see people finally talking about this and getting so many different views and perspectives. Most importantly these series are here to open our minds and hearts and to educate us! 👌🏽 I'm so here for this! I wish I had it in me to join in on it lol 😂
Thank you for this 💛
I really enjoyed this.
GooGoo spoke a word.
I think we as women need to stop assuming that certain men are running game all the time, that’s an issue we need to work on.
Did female 2 & 3, not have much to say or will there be a continuation? Female 1 kinda dominated. ❤️
The Azonwus I know. It just seemed like she didn’t give the other females chance to speak. 😊
@THENATV 👏👏👏SO ON POINT...WE BOTH NEED SPIRITUAL LENS TO GOD'S PLAN...FOR A MATE
Shamira Taylor thanks!!! Praise God!!!
Wait you aren't married because women aren't accountable? I appreciate his transparency, but where is the accountability in that? If all you have come across are those types of women and it didn't work out ...Then that also speaks to your selection process.
#3 took me out with his answers. Whew chile I had to take some notes. 👏🏾
This was awesome. I definitely appreciate the perspective of the men.
" Alright I want you to be BACK DEA' BACK DEA' Mean do you have a Duke. Do you have A Butt."😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I cried too😂😭
I'm an agreence with him, now if she aint got it but she is the one for me im cool with it. But it would be nice
@@A_Notes ain't nothing wrong with it Brotha!!!😭😂😂😂💜💜💜 . My Husband To Be got blessed with the whole package!❤ God can do the same fa you too!🙌❤
@@denaauguste5332 hahahahahahahahaha
@@GodGirlP hehehe
Number 2 is my dude facts, but 1&3 got some wisdom, waiting for part 2
Number 2 though😂😂 He spoke a lot of truth though
#2 was killing me 😂😂😂playing the blame game the whole time
"You look like a ping pong"😂😂😂
#1 made some great points he sounds like a great conversationalist!
I just loved #1 ability to self express... and I won't lie, I'm guilty of wanting a christian 2Pac.. Im so guilty of mentally editing men to my preferences while wanting what I need, an expressive partner, to be met whilst being petty over here looking for height and a big chest I can rest on...
😂🤣😅
That whole thing was fah me.
Errrrthang he said.
#2 is just too borderline narcissistic fah me, I feel like he feeling his self more than any woman at all.
I really appreciated man number three’s answer about why men in the church don’t approach women in the church. Honestly I never thought of it that way and have asked this question for years without hearing a compelling response (or any response for that matter), but his answer completely changed my perspective. I can appreciate the fact that men in church are not going to approach women or at least should not be approaching women in the church the same way guys in the world approach women. Ladies, are we are asking these men to be men of God and yet take on the attributes of those who are not men of God? Could it be that men in the world approach more frequently because they don’t fear God and have not heard the Holy Spirit say, “not this one, my son” or “not now”? Instead we just assume men in the church are not interested or are not good men because they don’t approach. That may not be the case At all. Maybe they are just being careful. Maybe they are listening to their Father and practicing self discipline until they get a green light. So humbling. I am challenged to change my narrative on this topic. Overall, I really appreciated the various viewpoints expressed in this video and found it valuable. Thanks for all this great content!
OK. OK. OK this was so dope. I appreciate this and the other series. The men are definitely more vocal lol but that's cool. Thank you for allowing us to hear the conversations we might never ease drop on... bravo bravo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Interesting!.... Awaiting part 2...
so real and funny! we need more shows like this
Thank you so much for this content! It is refreshing to see this from a Christian perspective! I love this and the whole truth! #moreplease
One thing I love about this series, it is really showing the issues in both sexes as we all try to live in the world and not be of the world as believers. What we need is a bit more grace and a bit more of looking at ourselves and come to the table with humility and a spirit of giving love rather than casing blame. Love the conversation!
I loved this - much much more than the “grow and stay or throw away” videos
Ready for part 2!
I love this!! Really enjoying hearing everyone's perspectives!!
However, these guys must have not met the right Christian women because the Christian women that are my friends are nothing like the people they describe lol
Right, I'm sayin!
Hoping they are presented with the right Christian women!