Thank you for giving me hope ! I am traveling the same boat now with 4.5 old girl first kid.. I connected with you when you say "No haircut".. Thank you again and I hope everything wil change soon after I take a charge/ control..❤
Hi bhanu sister 💕 arumaiyana vlog sis 💕❤️ delivery aana Ella ladies kum intha vlog again avanga avanga delivery period i ninaivu paduthi irukum sis 💕 and romba romba touching a iruku sis 💕 new born baby vechitu romba careful a naama evlo paarthutalum konjam bayamave irukum sis and antha time la Amma kooda irukiradhu romba help and aaruthala irukum sis ❤ enaku ennoda delivery days Elam onnonna ninaichute irunthen pa 💕 konjam happy konjam kavalai konjam bayam nu mixed feelings pa adhu 😊😊
Hello dear, Aamam pa, namma deliver pain mathavanga story n pain kekkum bodhu memories all positive n negative nyabagam varum sis….painful aa irundaalum oru sila vishayam kathikitta maadiri irukkum…. Thank god we hv passed through that stage pa😁🙏💕thank u so much….
Every mother had her own story. Some women got out of it but some women caught in it. My own journey also like u,single handed in other state without any help. Brave to be like u to handle situation .
Many similarities Bhanu…u reminded my story ….almost same thing happened in my life….now looking back am proud of myself that I didn’t give up ….its was roller coaster ride 😂
Hi Bhanu Sis, Arumaiyana padhivu. All your words are very very true.After my daughter started to go to school only ,like you said my life routine also changed. So that school time of Vishmaya you told know,literally I started to cry.tears coming without my knowledge. And that baby vacination time know,same pinch Sis. When you got emotional know that time also I can't control myself Sis. My daughter childhood also something s related the same like Vishmaya darling. And your words to lift ourselves superb Sis. Like a Mother you initiated for us Sis. Thank you Sis. God bless you Sis.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi sissy. I had very easy delivery and no medical complications but both pregnancy and postpartum was not good mentally… when you where saying things happened after your 1st delivery, things were different for me but that depression was horrible and couldn’t think about it… my daughter is 6 now… still scared of having 2nd baby. I thought it was only me by seeing few parents don’t get stressed up or having 2 kids, no one shares their depressed phase and says these are common and we have pass it out… Thanks for sharing it. I have thought like I am not perfect but while you say in your videos like being imperfect is not wrong, doing cooking, washing clothes, taking care of ourselves and kids is more enough motivates me, and I have made a lot change in my life. You are one of the reason for me to be happy and you have a role in my life sissy ❤.
Hi sis, I am also gone through this postpartum depression...On that time i dont know about this term depression....My son also got this issue like mother's milk comes through his full nose...I can't see that really...After 4 months only its stopped....But doctors saying he is healthy only....But on that time nobody tells about this issue...I cant imagine about those days....Same story ur also telling ...I expected this vlog...Nice eye opener for future generations 👏👏👏👏👏
No words to say I learning so much in this video Akka.If I get this video 14 years ago I myself also didnt get in to major depression until now taking anti depress tablet. But after listening your each and every Point in every video I decide one thing Akka. Being a TEACHER from my 20 years old n I took 3 years unpaid leave for my 4th kid. Then I join again on Sep 2017 until now i’m in the job. Bt due my mental Health medical issue I couldnt grow my kids Well enough eventhough i’m a TEACHER. Be CAUSE in a family mom Is a backbone. Bt after discuss with my husband I decided to quit my job . But after I told my HM still i’m not very sure abt my decision. In one video you tld Akka what Is the use of the job if that cant give any benefit to our kids and family.if we didnt do Well for our family. Something like that. From tht day I believe that I took right path for my family. Bt still i’m in process out of my mental Health illness.i just wish I could lead a family with a organise way Akka. Seriously I’m go through that for the past 15 years. And my elder son 14 years old now.I wish and pray to god that 4 of my kids excel in studies n cocuriculum n they WILL become best human being independly. End of the day this Is a gift I got and satisfy Akka.more more videos on motivating Akka regarding kids education and our time management and also abt பதட்டம் whn do many work or avoid last minute work .every time I see or Watch your video feel like you r mom for me . Because you made IT Akka with such a maturrity advice.and eventhough I didnt see ur videos each day you WILL be in mind every morning Akka. You impact si much in my life Akka. Bt my process still on and off. Love you Akka.
Hello dear, u r doing a great job by handling 4 kids which itself is so commendable, we r struggling to bring up 2 kids….really appreciate ur thoughts n wise decisions, we hv to learn a lot from u sis….don’t worry abt mental n emotional strain, it’s common, just do wht u r doing dat is more than enough….thank u so much for your motivating n heartfelt words dear 😊🙏👍
Thanks for such a sharing of yr depression.Enen when I was pregnant used to feel the same way, but there was no to say all this.For newly pregnant people it will be very useful.Thanks so much mam❤
How you over come the pregnancy time , delivery time is very motivative for young mothers. still now vishmaya is very calm, yeshivin Involved all the works like festival time cooking .do poojas .take care of his plant .enjoyments .( he remember your father) then how you came out from depression. change your personality development for children (inspiration)(role model). then learnt two wheeler four wheeler good mom good wife good daughter in law is inspired me .good motivational speech. good daughter also good sister also .your motivation speech. time schedule . Is useful to me
Even I had gone through everything unknowingly that it was a depression..somehow life moves on.touchwood. but for some ladies,as you told it gets struck there itself.. they couldn't come out.. beautiful content.may be not all but someone who is in much need now will definitely get help from your video.. ❤ good one.
Thank you sister. Our life is some what similar and I am being full positive,confident and happy now.... I also have a daughter and a son... I like you sister.
Hi..sis everybody have these type of problems in their pregnancy in different ways ... In my two kids time period I also so depressed..but your motivational talks it seems 👍👏👏
Thanku sis for this motivation nd really after seeing ur videos i started getting up at 4 nd finishing my work nd doing Pooja before 5:30 I'm very much happy a great thanks to you ❤❤❤
Let this be a great hit akka. This was just like a throwback video to me. Many emotional things r just waving in my mind again. But in my case I worked, studied and doing all household chores. So I never enjoyed my first pregnancy. Husband was caring but others were ignorant. Only my mom cooks and send it to me to school with my sister-in-law, she was also pregnant at that time. The people around us want healthy baby but they won't care mother. Most of the women r anemic due to this ignorant family members. U r lucky in that way. But many of them won't...... Actually pregnancy is just like war both physically and mentally. We r trying to win stilllllllllllll. Always self help is d best help I learnt after my elder one delivered. For d second one I only bathed in 1 month itself,think how irritating the stitches in normal delivery to sit ,stand all with pain. Bz of Ignorant family members. Many untold issues I crossed sill I didn't share those things to anyone it submerged in mind yet. I don't know anyone has done a vlog like this. But my virtual doctor has done it. Ur video brought tears in eyes. Many mothers will get a clear path to determine d pregnancy and to overcome all d issues before and after it........... whatever may be life has to go on. Always b self dependent make ur children to be also self dependent. That's what I always learn from u dear akka. தீதும் நன்றும் பிறர் தர வாரா என்பது போல்........நம்மை நாமே செதுக்கி கொள்ள வேண்டும் அது அழகாய் இருப்பதும், அழகுஅற்று இருப்பதும் நம் கையில்.............நோ words to praise for u for this vlog. Visu is now a big helping hand ✋ to u now. This is d gift u earned from her,very strong...........Let God showers more bliss to u all akka. Keep rocking my virtual doctor ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Great words dear, ur comment makes me think there is still so much we r still not aware unless we step in others shoes n see their struggle…. Thank u so much for your positive wishes n caring words as always….really happy to read it…😊🙏
So so relatable dear. Thanks for sharing this information about depression and you gave me a great clarity about handling it. Thanks Dear Bhanu. Your self confidence, systematic approach to things, people and attitude is really applaudable. Perfect home maker and a dynamic personality - Dear Mrs. Bhanu. Hats off 👏 🙌 👌🏻
Super akka. I have a 3yr baby it's a very useful video I am in the same condition as this video It helped me a lot to understand my situation to myself 😊
Good morning bhanu sis. Awesome, fulfilled vlog sis, thank you for your effort. Started to watch the vlog from Friday and finished it today. Because don't want to miss any of your words and emotions. On 53:10 so touched. Ones again thanks a lot for posting this vlog. My children also grown up elder daughter studying CA and younger daughter studying plus one now only iam realising yes that myself also crossed all these emotions. But i didn't take care about myself on those days. It took a lot of time to change. Still it is going on. Your vlogs changed me in a positive way . Thank you, have a happy sunday. 💐💐🥰🥰👍
Hello dear thank u so much, I thought u r much younger, but having grown up girls is something of a big surprise, great sis, u r doing a great job of bringing up ur children n taking cr of ur parents too….u r a true inspiration pa….tk cr n hv a pleasant evening 😊🙏
Hi mam it's my second comment for ur video... I've 4yrs girl baby.. u have taken the guilt feeling of mine... ur words r medicine for me ❤ as i told u in my 1st comment yenga amma kuda ipdi guide panala😊 😎🙏🙏🙏
Akka heart touching❤️ my daughter is 8yrs and son is 1.5 yrs old. Two c/sections for me. Nobody was there to help me right from my second delivery. I started cooking n housework immediately after one month of delivery. Because my daughter had to go school. Now my son is 19months old. It’s very tough time now. Taking care of him and elder one and full household responsibilities. Am also sometimes behaving weird and feeling so guilty. Somehow managing things. Got hope after seeing your videos. Thank you akka. Nobody told us like u that life will be like this after children for some period of time. Every women should see this video and be prepared with mindset before having children. Everybody will be having different sorts of depression stories but all of us have. Your videos are a kind of medicine. Thank u 🙏 be motivating 🎉
Hello dear true every woman n her problems r different, u r doing a great job by managing everything, pls don’t feel guilty…..thank u so much for your motivating comment
The thing is stress we face during pregnancy is much difficult to come out than any other stress...because of the stress i had during pregnancy resulted in an autistic baby....Love and power to you sister
Hi mam, i am from ( chinna Echanzuchi, ) Pregnancy story is really super unga feeling and depression i feel... Next video unga second pregnancy story solluga sister.
Akka unmayile same problem sister en periya ponnu consiva irukumpothe she was affected rubella so she was born 8months born reason for IUGR so 9days incupeter born weight is 1.5kg na erkanave solliruken apa mamiyar parthukitanga irundalum Amma ilanukira feeling en ponnu apadidan konjam serthu pal kudichalum solid food konjam serthu ponalum vomit panniruva heartku eyekunu hospital hospital alanchom Adai yositalum ipavum manasu valikum en periya ponnu pirandapa enaku age 21 unmaiyil ipo ungalai parthu niraya change pannitu iruken Akka You're my motivation Akka ❤❤❤❤😂
Hello dear it’s so heart wrenching namma kids health la problems irundaal….dairiyama life face panreenga, adarkku ennoda respect n love eppavum irukkum…thank u so much sis
Hi bhanu mam namaste very nice vlog mam you are very special and very lucky to have understanding family so be happy always I am also faced after delivery and also depression and also there is no much support from my in laws home about past five years I am doing good stress free aachi yenakku I also have one son age 12 years now he is studying fifth grade. Thank you so much bhanu mam yenakku yellaame remember aachi have a nice day mam bye take care
Hai sis. Oru oru womenkkum pregnancy pothu very happy and sad mind sis. Nammakku nu oru baby nammamum oru ammava ava porathu lifela first babykku pregnancy sis. Aana baby pirantha pirakaku life vara kastam yarukku. Varakudathu erukkum sis. Night thoogam illama parkalai yum thugamudiyama sapita mudiyama. Rempa kastamana neram sis athu. Sis nammala chuthi erukaravaga kulaithai namma kudumpathuku vendum yentru neikaraga aana sis rempa echo pathuttu in-laws namma veetuku da support panna matikiraga sis athunala yen lifela rempa depression sis. Echo nala first pregnancy life rempa kastama sis. Oru womenkkum in-laws echo illama namma family mathiri ponnu family neenaithu oru kulaithaiya valakanum sis. Ungala vida naaga nalla pathukkovam echo katama #oru pregnancy women pathukkanum sis# sis well power so good sis. Unga amma unga akka life kudutha lifestyle very very handsoff sis. Yennoda pregnancy story rempa kastama eruthu sis. God yeppavum all womenkkum well power kuduthu erukkar yellam kadanthu life successful kondu povam sis. 💓💓💓💓💓💚💛💜💚💛💜
Hi banu, m pregnancy life matches same urz, oly different is i got 2 daughters, 1st kid showed me oly negative side(nw i learnt so much from her experience), i had low lying placenta in both pregnancy, underweight kid, n verrry fussy eater, morning sickness till z day of delivery n thyroid n dengue fever for 1st delivery n 17 hours labour pain later did for c sec n I was so depressed went to hurt my baby in 3rd month baby tats wen i realised n research n Google every last page of food blogs n learned a to z abt baby foods n 2nd was no complications wit oly low lying placenta n my dad past away 1 week b4 my 2nd baby conformation n tats wen covid started 1 St lockdown I was all alone while delivering 2nd c sec it was oly me n doc n nurse no1 wer allowed including mom n husband n still nw my elder daughter is my supportive n helps like other mom for my 2nd kid n 2 yrs oly inside home coz of lockdown agn my depression was so peak I forgot day n ni8 jt kids routine I was following n I forgot abt my work I was z teacher b4 1st kid n nw m food bloggers n concent writer, I was a blogger b4 1st kid too but I had to stop tat coz of her n nw started slowly
Hello dear, I understand sis, life as woman is tough, we need to manage everything n keep ourselves as our last priority…u hv been doing great as a mom n wife…good going pa…. Thank u so much ☺️🙏
Super sis...I watch ur videos regularly... whenever i feel down i watched ur videos and get motivated. ....I am a Home maker...I have two kids..for me plz tell sister....how to follow consistency ....one day i do all household briskly...but next day i can't do sister..tell me some tips sister
En kathai polave ullathu 1st baby washroom problem, 2nd baby vomiting problem appa illathathu appa nakchathirathil 1st baby pranthathu ellam athey than. But support illa. Ippa than ungalaipola friends sa paarthuthan konjam positivity varuthu thank u so much banu .
Hi sis good afternoon ❤ sis very interesting ❤ sis en son poranthapo vishmaya mathiri than sis paal kudutha vanthi kannula kuda varum sis 😥 nan en son na valakka romma kasdapaden sis 😢 ennaku help ku yarum ella sis en health week erunthathu sis😢 erunthalum en son nan nalla valarden sis 😢 eepa en son nuku nantha ueir ❤😊 happy 😊❤ kasda pattathal oru kulanthai pothum nu mudivu paniden sis 😢 son perandha po naity poda arambicha dhu unga video parthu neenga solluvathu purin dhu nan nalla dress ponren sis ❤❤❤ thank you sis❤❤❤ en life madram vanadhu unga lal than sis ❤❤❤ so ungaluku nanderi ❤❤❤ thank you very much sis ❤❤❤
Sis my daughter also vomit case I also met these problem without sleep during pregnancy I met problems from 4th month c section than but now we r happy know when they are growing
Hi sister, pls tell in your next video for pregnant womens. Dont take any stress from others just leave it and be stress free. Bcoz of my in laws torture during pregnancy time i cried lot then my son is hearing impaired now. So many problems are coming due to pregnancy time stress and food items. After that period mom and child only suffering but those people are very cool and they will say what pavam you done in your last birth so you are suffering. Now my child and myself is feeling lot.
Hello dear I understand, yaarum namakkaga adjust pannikiraangu, purinjipaangu nu edir paakrade thappanu ninaikiren, idellaam perusa edutuka vendaam sis, if u can afford a washing machine, vaangungu, unga maamiyaar thuni kooda neengadaane wash panreenga, chinna kid vachikittu, health problem oda yaarukkum neenga fullaa adjust pannikanum nu avasiyam illai, neenga panra kadamai pannittu daane irukeenga, so go ahead pa…tk cr sis….
Hello mam hope you are good. Even in my pregnancy I have no support from my in-laws. Full vomiting till labour ward. After birth I had such a beautiful boy but full of stomach illness . Without Sai ram he will not be good. Then family tention. Then after this second pregnant with down syndrome baby. Till 6 month we where waiting to check the nose bone growth but except nose everything good. So obviously we are instructed to do abortion. It's a big big stress.on that time too no in laws has come only me my amma appa my son in that hospital. 6 month boby abortion is not a simple thing then again pregnant with in one year again nameless health issues. With stomach,daily injunction.....life gone like this then when my second boy where in 2years I started doing b.ed and now I am a teacher. Happily my family fulfilled. Now I am enjoying every moment with my children. After 10 yrs again I started to go job. And recently again my two kids got typhoid and dengue fever no one will take care properly again resigned my job .now from January again I will join in new school hopefully 😊 thank you for Sai ram for giving such a beautiful boys in my life
So all ladies we have to be proud that we are multitasking in our life .no male can undergo all these stress . So u to be free mam be happy that now you are being inspiration for many hearts. Big transformation comedy is normal phone to Android😂😂I also undergone this . Now I am very happy
Hello mam wen u say names of others even I want u to tell my name Raji and my son sharvesh and lakshith my special child main reason of special child is bcoz of stress and depression who ever is watching this video if u r pregnant pls don't take any stress
Hi sis h r u unga life depression ah eppadi overcome Pani vanthinga nu clear ah explain Pani irukinga thank you so much sister ipo enaku second baby poranthu iruku correct time intha video potu irukinga unga mathiri than first pregnancy and delivery time la nanum kasta pataen thank you so much sister
அக்கா நீங்க சொல்லும் போது எனக்கு ரொம்ப அழுகை தான் வந்தது ஏனா நானும் ரொம்ப கஷ்ட பட்டு வந்தேன் 2பேபிக்கும் கஷ்டம் மந்திரமா போட்டு போட்டு அழுத்து போய்ட்டேன்😭so sad
Mam small suggestion really ur english language and vocuablary is very good. Pls try to start some other channel related english vocabulary and how to converse in english
Hello dear really happy to know u appreciate my communication skills, but to run this channel is taking all my effort n energy, so will see in future…. Thank u so much sis😊🙏
Thank you for giving me hope ! I am traveling the same boat now with 4.5 old girl first kid.. I connected with you when you say "No haircut".. Thank you again and I hope everything wil change soon after I take a charge/ control..❤
Best of luck! Thank u too dear for your motivating words 👍🙏😊
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Hi bhanu sister 💕 arumaiyana vlog sis 💕❤️ delivery aana Ella ladies kum intha vlog again avanga avanga delivery period i ninaivu paduthi irukum sis 💕 and romba romba touching a iruku sis 💕 new born baby vechitu romba careful a naama evlo paarthutalum konjam bayamave irukum sis and antha time la Amma kooda irukiradhu romba help and aaruthala irukum sis ❤ enaku ennoda delivery days Elam onnonna ninaichute irunthen pa 💕 konjam happy konjam kavalai konjam bayam nu mixed feelings pa adhu 😊😊
Hello dear, Aamam pa, namma deliver pain mathavanga story n pain kekkum bodhu memories all positive n negative nyabagam varum sis….painful aa irundaalum oru sila vishayam kathikitta maadiri irukkum…. Thank god we hv passed through that stage pa😁🙏💕thank u so much….
Every mother had her own story. Some women got out of it but some women caught in it. My own journey also like u,single handed in other state without any help. Brave to be like u to handle situation .
Very true, great to know u hv come back with a brave attitude…
I don't know why but my eyes filled with tears.I Hope I can be a little step forward thank you
Thank u so much dear 😊🙏
Many similarities Bhanu…u reminded my story ….almost same thing happened in my life….now looking back am proud of myself that I didn’t give up ….its was roller coaster ride 😂
Yes u need to be proud of urself dear, gud going…
Hi Bhanu Sis, Arumaiyana padhivu. All your words are very very true.After my daughter started to go to school only ,like you said my life routine also changed. So that school time of Vishmaya you told know,literally I started to cry.tears coming without my knowledge. And that baby vacination time know,same pinch Sis. When you got emotional know that time also I can't control myself Sis. My daughter childhood also something s related the same like Vishmaya darling. And your words to lift ourselves superb Sis. Like a Mother you initiated for us Sis. Thank you Sis. God bless you Sis.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hello dear thank u so much for sharing ur thoughts n wishing me wholeheartedly…😊🙏
Hi sissy. I had very easy delivery and no medical complications but both pregnancy and postpartum was not good mentally… when you where saying things happened after your 1st delivery, things were different for me but that depression was horrible and couldn’t think about it… my daughter is 6 now… still scared of having 2nd baby. I thought it was only me by seeing few parents don’t get stressed up or having 2 kids, no one shares their depressed phase and says these are common and we have pass it out… Thanks for sharing it. I have thought like I am not perfect but while you say in your videos like being imperfect is not wrong, doing cooking, washing clothes, taking care of ourselves and kids is more enough motivates me, and I have made a lot change in my life. You are one of the reason for me to be happy and you have a role in my life sissy ❤.
Hello dear I understand sis, life is different for every woman, thank u so much for your heartfelt words….😊🙏
Hi sis,
I am also gone through this postpartum depression...On that time i dont know about this term depression....My son also got this issue like mother's milk comes through his full nose...I can't see that really...After 4 months only its stopped....But doctors saying he is healthy only....But on that time nobody tells about this issue...I cant imagine about those days....Same story ur also telling ...I expected this vlog...Nice eye opener for future generations 👏👏👏👏👏
Hello dear yes only whn we go through will we know abt such things…very true…. Thank u so much
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No words to say I learning so much in this video Akka.If I get this video 14 years ago I myself also didnt get in to major depression until now taking anti depress tablet. But after listening your each and every Point in every video I decide one thing Akka. Being a TEACHER from my 20 years old n I took 3 years unpaid leave for my 4th kid. Then I join again on Sep 2017 until now i’m in the job. Bt due my mental Health medical issue I couldnt grow my kids Well enough eventhough i’m a TEACHER. Be CAUSE in a family mom Is a backbone. Bt after discuss with my husband I decided to quit my job . But after I told my HM still i’m not very sure abt my decision. In one video you tld Akka what Is the use of the job if that cant give any benefit to our kids and family.if we didnt do Well for our family. Something like that. From tht day I believe that I took right path for my family. Bt still i’m in process out of my mental Health illness.i just wish I could lead a family with a organise way Akka. Seriously I’m go through that for the past 15 years. And my elder son 14 years old now.I wish and pray to god that 4 of my kids excel in studies n cocuriculum n they WILL become best human being independly. End of the day this Is a gift I got and satisfy Akka.more more videos on motivating Akka regarding kids education and our time management and also abt பதட்டம் whn do many work or avoid last minute work .every time I see or Watch your video feel like you r mom for me . Because you made IT Akka with such a maturrity advice.and eventhough I didnt see ur videos each day you WILL be in mind every morning Akka. You impact si much in my life Akka. Bt my process still on and off. Love you Akka.
Hello dear, u r doing a great job by handling 4 kids which itself is so commendable, we r struggling to bring up 2 kids….really appreciate ur thoughts n wise decisions, we hv to learn a lot from u sis….don’t worry abt mental n emotional strain, it’s common, just do wht u r doing dat is more than enough….thank u so much for your motivating n heartfelt words dear 😊🙏👍
Thats so nice hear from you Akka. I WILL update once I achieve my target Akka.Thank you Akka.❤
Thanks for such a sharing of yr depression.Enen when I was pregnant used to feel the same way, but there was no to say all this.For newly pregnant people it will be very useful.Thanks so much mam❤
Thank u so much dear for your motivating words
Hi sis indha depression story elarum lifeil iruku nan evalo nal enaku than iruku enu ninachen.enaku 1st child autism,second child nala iruka da.unga video pathu niraye motivation iruku.inum depression koncham konchama veliyil vanthindiruken.ungale epavathu orunal meet pannanam.continue your videos romba usefula iruku
Hello dear thank you so much unga heartwarming words ku, kandippa 😊👍
How you over come the pregnancy time , delivery time is very motivative for young mothers. still now vishmaya is very calm, yeshivin Involved all the works like festival time cooking .do poojas .take care of his plant .enjoyments .( he remember your father) then how you came out from depression. change your personality development for children (inspiration)(role model). then learnt two wheeler four wheeler good mom good wife good daughter in law is inspired me .good motivational speech. good daughter also good sister also .your motivation speech. time schedule . Is useful to me
Thank u so much dear for your lovely n wholehearted wishes n blessings….😊🙏
Thank you sis for this comforting talk. You give me a feeling of "it's ok , all is well." Motivating❤
Welcome dear thank u
Bless you Bhanu. You have done great for yourself. You are looking very beautiful today actually. Your love for the children shows on your face ❤❤
Thanks a lot for your ever beautiful n motivating words dear…..😊🙏
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Even I had gone through everything unknowingly that it was a depression..somehow life moves on.touchwood. but for some ladies,as you told it gets struck there itself.. they couldn't come out.. beautiful content.may be not all but someone who is in much need now will definitely get help from your video.. ❤ good one.
Thank u so much dear
Thank you sister. Our life is some what similar and I am being full positive,confident and happy now.... I also have a daughter and a son... I like you sister.
That's great dear thank u so much
Thank god ,i watched your video without missing it
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Hi..sis everybody have these type of problems in their pregnancy in different ways ... In my two kids time period I also so depressed..but your motivational talks it seems 👍👏👏
Thank u dear
Thanku sis for this motivation nd really after seeing ur videos i started getting up at 4 nd finishing my work nd doing Pooja before 5:30 I'm very much happy a great thanks to you ❤❤❤
All the best dear thank u so much
Let this be a great hit akka. This was just like a throwback video to me. Many emotional things r just waving in my mind again. But in my case I worked, studied and doing all household chores. So I never enjoyed my first pregnancy. Husband was caring but others were ignorant. Only my mom cooks and send it to me to school with my sister-in-law, she was also pregnant at that time. The people around us want healthy baby but they won't care mother. Most of the women r anemic due to this ignorant family members. U r lucky in that way. But many of them won't...... Actually pregnancy is just like war both physically and mentally. We r trying to win stilllllllllllll. Always self help is d best help I learnt after my elder one delivered. For d second one I only bathed in 1 month itself,think how irritating the stitches in normal delivery to sit ,stand all with pain. Bz of Ignorant family members. Many untold issues I crossed sill I didn't share those things to anyone it submerged in mind yet. I don't know anyone has done a vlog like this. But my virtual doctor has done it. Ur video brought tears in eyes. Many mothers will get a clear path to determine d pregnancy and to overcome all d issues before and after it........... whatever may be life has to go on. Always b self dependent make ur children to be also self dependent. That's what I always learn from u dear akka. தீதும் நன்றும் பிறர் தர வாரா என்பது போல்........நம்மை நாமே செதுக்கி கொள்ள வேண்டும் அது அழகாய் இருப்பதும், அழகுஅற்று இருப்பதும் நம் கையில்.............நோ words to praise for u for this vlog. Visu is now a big helping hand ✋ to u now. This is d gift u earned from her,very strong...........Let God showers more bliss to u all akka. Keep rocking my virtual doctor ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Well said mam❤
Great words dear, ur comment makes me think there is still so much we r still not aware unless we step in others shoes n see their struggle…. Thank u so much for your positive wishes n caring words as always….really happy to read it…😊🙏
@@banupriya9175 Tq sister.....
So so relatable dear. Thanks for sharing this information about depression and you gave me a great clarity about handling it. Thanks Dear Bhanu. Your self confidence, systematic approach to things, people and attitude is really applaudable. Perfect home maker and a dynamic personality - Dear Mrs. Bhanu. Hats off 👏 🙌 👌🏻
Thanks a lot for your lovely words dear 😊🙏
Super akka. I have a 3yr baby it's a very useful video I am in the same condition as this video It helped me a lot to understand my situation to myself 😊
All the best n thank u so much dear
Good morning bhanu sis. Awesome, fulfilled vlog sis, thank you for your effort. Started to watch the vlog from Friday and finished it today. Because don't want to miss any of your words and emotions. On 53:10 so touched. Ones again thanks a lot for posting this vlog. My children also grown up elder daughter studying CA and younger daughter studying plus one now only iam realising yes that myself also crossed all these emotions. But i didn't take care about myself on those days. It took a lot of time to change. Still it is going on. Your vlogs changed me in a positive way . Thank you, have a happy sunday. 💐💐🥰🥰👍
Hello dear thank u so much, I thought u r much younger, but having grown up girls is something of a big surprise, great sis, u r doing a great job of bringing up ur children n taking cr of ur parents too….u r a true inspiration pa….tk cr n hv a pleasant evening 😊🙏
@@tamilmombybhanu3026 thank you dear 💕💐
Really the way u expressed your depression story is very useful to me...
Thank u dear
Same too you ga,,, first pregnancy time la nanum same problem than ga face pannuna,, super clear information for overcome depression ga,, 👍👌👌💐
I understand dear…. Thank u pa
Super sister, 😢😢😢😢😢 heart touching,.... Semma motivation vedio ....
Thank u so much dear
You are gorgeous sis...hav blissfilled life Eva...rayar paadhave gathi govindha🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank u so much dear 😊🙏
Super motivating vlog no words to tell big salute to you sister just now I watched it thanks for sharing this vlog.
Thank you so much dear 🙂….happy to know u liked it
Thank you, your are really a big inspiration for me.
You are so welcome! Thank u
Hi sis.ur speaking is good family control method is good .time management is good.
Thank you so much dear 🙂
Ungala pakkrathukagavea Naa intha vedio va full aaa pathen akkkaa love you ❤❤❤❤❤
So nice to read your lovely words dear thank u so much
Hai Akka.....superAkka..nanumee 12 years back poiten...ungala Mari than akka nanum....same story than😊
Hello dear, I understand pa…
Hi mam it's my second comment for ur video... I've 4yrs girl baby.. u have taken the guilt feeling of mine... ur words r medicine for me ❤ as i told u in my 1st comment yenga amma kuda ipdi guide panala😊 😎🙏🙏🙏
Hello dear romba happy unga beautiful words ku…. Thank u so much sis…😊🙏
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Akka heart touching❤️ my daughter is 8yrs and son is 1.5 yrs old. Two c/sections for me. Nobody was there to help me right from my second delivery. I started cooking n housework immediately after one month of delivery. Because my daughter had to go school. Now my son is 19months old. It’s very tough time now. Taking care of him and elder one and full household responsibilities. Am also sometimes behaving weird and feeling so guilty. Somehow managing things. Got hope after seeing your videos. Thank you akka. Nobody told us like u that life will be like this after children for some period of time. Every women should see this video and be prepared with mindset before having children. Everybody will be having different sorts of depression stories but all of us have. Your videos are a kind of medicine. Thank u 🙏 be motivating 🎉
Hello dear true every woman n her problems r different, u r doing a great job by managing everything, pls don’t feel guilty…..thank u so much for your motivating comment
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😮 really no words to appreciate you
Thank u dear
Akka when u wer telling about ur first delivery, kanle thanni vanduruchu... I can feel the pain n fear u experienced
Thank u so much dear 😊🙏
Thank you very very much for your wonderful video and motivation sister...
My pleasure 😊thank u too
Useful இருந்து.நோ boring sisy giving video vera level excellent.
Thank u so much dear 😊🙏
The thing is stress we face during pregnancy is much difficult to come out than any other stress...because of the stress i had during pregnancy resulted in an autistic baby....Love and power to you sister
Very true dear, don’t lose hope…u r n will be a great mom than us
@@tamilmombybhanu3026 thanks for the hope dear🥰
Hi mam, i am from ( chinna Echanzuchi, )
Pregnancy story is really super unga feeling and depression i feel...
Next video unga second pregnancy story solluga sister.
Thank u so much dear unga motivating words ku, try panren pa….
Akka unmayile same problem sister en periya ponnu consiva irukumpothe she was affected rubella so she was born 8months born reason for IUGR so 9days incupeter born weight is 1.5kg na erkanave solliruken apa mamiyar parthukitanga irundalum Amma ilanukira feeling en ponnu apadidan konjam serthu pal kudichalum solid food konjam serthu ponalum vomit panniruva heartku eyekunu hospital hospital alanchom Adai yositalum ipavum manasu valikum en periya ponnu pirandapa enaku age 21 unmaiyil ipo ungalai parthu niraya change pannitu iruken Akka You're my motivation Akka ❤❤❤❤😂
Hello dear it’s so heart wrenching namma kids health la problems irundaal….dairiyama life face panreenga, adarkku ennoda respect n love eppavum irukkum…thank u so much sis
Unga speach yanaku oru motivational thanks
Thank u pa
Hi bhanu mam namaste very nice vlog mam you are very special and very lucky to have understanding family so be happy always I am also faced after delivery and also depression and also there is no much support from my in laws home about past five years I am doing good stress free aachi yenakku I also have one son age 12 years now he is studying fifth grade. Thank you so much bhanu mam yenakku yellaame remember aachi have a nice day mam bye take care
Hello dear thank u so much for sharing ur memories …thank u so much
@@tamilmombybhanu3026 welcome mam happy time mam
Hi bhanu, very inspiring. Good of you to speak about it. Thank you.
Thank you so much 🙂
Loved the way of ur transition dear 😍
Thank you so much dear 😊
Super akka thanks this speech
Iam so emotional
Thank u dear
Hai sis. Oru oru womenkkum pregnancy pothu very happy and sad mind sis. Nammakku nu oru baby nammamum oru ammava ava porathu lifela first babykku pregnancy sis. Aana baby pirantha pirakaku life vara kastam yarukku. Varakudathu erukkum sis. Night thoogam illama parkalai yum thugamudiyama sapita mudiyama. Rempa kastamana neram sis athu. Sis nammala chuthi erukaravaga kulaithai namma kudumpathuku vendum yentru neikaraga aana sis rempa echo pathuttu in-laws namma veetuku da support panna matikiraga sis athunala yen lifela rempa depression sis. Echo nala first pregnancy life rempa kastama sis. Oru womenkkum in-laws echo illama namma family mathiri ponnu family neenaithu oru kulaithaiya valakanum sis. Ungala vida naaga nalla pathukkovam echo katama #oru pregnancy women pathukkanum sis# sis well power so good sis. Unga amma unga akka life kudutha lifestyle very very handsoff sis. Yennoda pregnancy story rempa kastama eruthu sis. God yeppavum all womenkkum well power kuduthu erukkar yellam kadanthu life successful kondu povam sis. 💓💓💓💓💓💚💛💜💚💛💜
Ellam ladies kum ovvoru vidathil poraattam daan sis, life la positive aa irungu pa, nallade nadakkum…. Tk cr
Hi banu, m pregnancy life matches same urz, oly different is i got 2 daughters, 1st kid showed me oly negative side(nw i learnt so much from her experience), i had low lying placenta in both pregnancy, underweight kid, n verrry fussy eater, morning sickness till z day of delivery n thyroid n dengue fever for 1st delivery n 17 hours labour pain later did for c sec n I was so depressed went to hurt my baby in 3rd month baby tats wen i realised n research n Google every last page of food blogs n learned a to z abt baby foods n 2nd was no complications wit oly low lying placenta n my dad past away 1 week b4 my 2nd baby conformation n tats wen covid started 1 St lockdown I was all alone while delivering 2nd c sec it was oly me n doc n nurse no1 wer allowed including mom n husband n still nw my elder daughter is my supportive n helps like other mom for my 2nd kid n 2 yrs oly inside home coz of lockdown agn my depression was so peak I forgot day n ni8 jt kids routine I was following n I forgot abt my work I was z teacher b4 1st kid n nw m food bloggers n concent writer, I was a blogger b4 1st kid too but I had to stop tat coz of her n nw started slowly
Hello dear, I understand sis, life as woman is tough, we need to manage everything n keep ourselves as our last priority…u hv been doing great as a mom n wife…good going pa…. Thank u so much ☺️🙏
I am waiting for this video motivation speech is very useful
Thank u dear
Same thing happened for my girl.. i too cried as you..
I understand dear
Super sis...I watch ur videos regularly... whenever i feel down i watched ur videos and get motivated. ....I am a Home maker...I have two kids..for me plz tell sister....how to follow consistency ....one day i do all household briskly...but next day i can't do sister..tell me some tips sister
Thank u so much dear, sure will try n share sis…
Thank you I will try sister
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En kathai polave ullathu 1st baby washroom problem, 2nd baby vomiting problem appa illathathu appa nakchathirathil 1st baby pranthathu ellam athey than. But support illa. Ippa than ungalaipola friends sa paarthuthan konjam positivity varuthu thank u so much banu .
I understand dear, thank u so much unga memories share pannadarkku
Hi sister ,neenga pakkarathuku younga irukenga secret share pannuga sister. Unga video's la parthuiruken neenga 3 velaayum rice eduthum fitta irukeenga. Diet share pannugha❤❤
😁😁unga comment romba refreshing aa irukku….naan diet ee panradillai pa, nalla saapiduven active aa iruppen avlodaan….
Hl sis good even motation block l have my first prancy is normal second prancy so much tress why problem no labs l manage 2kids
Hello dear thank u so much
Happy morning akka ❤❤❤ neenga emotional aagathinga your my energy ka
Thank u so much dear 😊
Hi sis good afternoon ❤ sis very interesting ❤ sis en son poranthapo vishmaya mathiri than sis paal kudutha vanthi kannula kuda varum sis 😥 nan en son na valakka romma kasdapaden sis 😢 ennaku help ku yarum ella sis en health week erunthathu sis😢 erunthalum en son nan nalla valarden sis 😢 eepa en son nuku nantha ueir ❤😊 happy 😊❤ kasda pattathal oru kulanthai pothum nu mudivu paniden sis 😢 son perandha po naity poda arambicha dhu unga video parthu neenga solluvathu purin dhu nan nalla dress ponren sis ❤❤❤ thank you sis❤❤❤ en life madram vanadhu unga lal than sis ❤❤❤ so ungaluku nanderi ❤❤❤ thank you very much sis ❤❤❤
Hello dear, romba happy pa unga positive comment padichadule….gud going sis…. Thank u so much pa
Happy n Blessed morning to all 😍💐
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Super sister Thank you for the motivation video
Welcome 😊thank u too dear
Sis my daughter also vomit case I also met these problem without sleep during pregnancy I met problems from 4th month c section than but now we r happy know when they are growing
I understand dear 😊
Ur always beautiful women
Hi sis thank u so much for your positive attitude .thanks a lot for sharing your experiences. It helps a lot.
Thank u so much dear, gud to know u liked it
Hi sister, pls tell in your next video for pregnant womens. Dont take any stress from others just leave it and be stress free. Bcoz of my in laws torture during pregnancy time i cried lot then my son is hearing impaired now. So many problems are coming due to pregnancy time stress and food items. After that period mom and child only suffering but those people are very cool and they will say what pavam you done in your last birth so you are suffering. Now my child and myself is feeling lot.
Yes..my son too has autism due to the stress i had during pregnancy😢😢
I understand dear, don’t lose hope, u r the best thing that happened to ur kid
Only u can be strong enough to deal with tough situations dear, dats y u r a god chosen mom, don’t lose hope…
Hi sis ,yanaku 2 years baby boy iruka ,this month starting yanaku whizzing prbm vanthu ,mamiyar oruku poiiruthaga,epovum daily dress wash lanituven ,avanaukum vanchitu ,work from home job panuren ,1 week appram vanthaga na 4 days da dress wash panala health prbm nala athuku samathikura thimiru ,sonaga yankau odapu sari illa so panna mufiyala sonen ,mudiyalana yelathukum worku aal vanchuka vendiyathuthananu soluraga ,na epovum mudiyala nalaum cook ,vessel washing nu pannama iruthathu illa ,romba kastam achu , washing machine vagalnu pathalum thituvagnu bayamave iruku ,amt ready paniten diwali vagalnu atha mari thitunathum ,vagalama venamanu yosai iruku ,
Hello dear I understand, yaarum namakkaga adjust pannikiraangu, purinjipaangu nu edir paakrade thappanu ninaikiren, idellaam perusa edutuka vendaam sis, if u can afford a washing machine, vaangungu, unga maamiyaar thuni kooda neengadaane wash panreenga, chinna kid vachikittu, health problem oda yaarukkum neenga fullaa adjust pannikanum nu avasiyam illai, neenga panra kadamai pannittu daane irukeenga, so go ahead pa…tk cr sis….
Thanks for sharing
Thank u too dear
Hello mam hope you are good. Even in my pregnancy I have no support from my in-laws. Full vomiting till labour ward. After birth I had such a beautiful boy but full of stomach illness . Without Sai ram he will not be good. Then family tention. Then after this second pregnant with down syndrome baby. Till 6 month we where waiting to check the nose bone growth but except nose everything good. So obviously we are instructed to do abortion. It's a big big stress.on that time too no in laws has come only me my amma appa my son in that hospital. 6 month boby abortion is not a simple thing then again pregnant with in one year again nameless health issues. With stomach,daily injunction.....life gone like this then when my second boy where in 2years I started doing b.ed and now I am a teacher. Happily my family fulfilled. Now I am enjoying every moment with my children. After 10 yrs again I started to go job. And recently again my two kids got typhoid and dengue fever no one will take care properly again resigned my job .now from January again I will join in new school hopefully 😊 thank you for Sai ram for giving such a beautiful boys in my life
So all ladies we have to be proud that we are multitasking in our life .no male can undergo all these stress . So u to be free mam be happy that now you are being inspiration for many hearts. Big transformation comedy is normal phone to Android😂😂I also undergone this . Now I am very happy
U r a great inspiration to all of us dear, Gud going don’t lose hope….thank u so much
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Super vlog sissy.....
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Thank u pa
Same my daughter also daily vomiting,no crying,no burping ellsm irundhuchu
I understand dear
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Thank u for motivation❤
My pleasure thank u 😊
Super mam u r my roll model mam
Thanks a lot dear
Hi mam, unga appa pathi sollupothu u cry mam ennaku manasu kastama eruku no feel bhanu sister
Thank u so much dear for your love n support 😊🙏
It is very useful sis..
Thanks a lot dear
Hello mam wen u say names of others even I want u to tell my name Raji and my son sharvesh and lakshith my special child main reason of special child is bcoz of stress and depression who ever is watching this video if u r pregnant pls don't take any stress
Hello dear I understand, don’t lose hope sis….sure will mention ur kids names…
Hi sis h r u? Unga life depression eppadi overcome panni vanthinga nu Nala explain panninga . Viewer nalla oru advice koduthirukiga . Thank u
Hello dear thank u so much sis
Hi sis h r u unga life depression ah eppadi overcome Pani vanthinga nu clear ah explain Pani irukinga thank you so much sister ipo enaku second baby poranthu iruku correct time intha video potu irukinga unga mathiri than first pregnancy and delivery time la nanum kasta pataen thank you so much sister
My son is 9 th, daughter is 8th
Iam a working women
time manage pana mudiyala
Office time 9.30 to 7.00
I understand dear, life is tough sometimes
அக்கா நீங்க சொல்லும் போது எனக்கு ரொம்ப அழுகை தான் வந்தது ஏனா நானும் ரொம்ப கஷ்ட பட்டு வந்தேன் 2பேபிக்கும் கஷ்டம் மந்திரமா போட்டு போட்டு அழுத்து போய்ட்டேன்😭so sad
I understand dear, ovvoru thaayum poraadi daan pasangalai valarkanum…thank u pa
Happy morning sis ❤️
Happy morning dear
Happy morning akka 💐💐💐💐💐
Very happy morning dear
Appa ingira relationship varthaikalal solla mudiyathavai ippa neenga alugarathai parkim pothu enaku enga appa parkanum pole iruiku enakum alugai varuthu unga appa yashwin kooda unga vertila than iruikaru sis
Romba nandri dear unga lovely words ku 😊🙏
Superb dear.i want to talk to you as I m suffering now.pls
Thank u dear, u can mail me
Your dad is your son now ❤❤❤
So aptly put dear….. thank u so much
@@tamilmombybhanu3026 🌹
Nice ❤❤
Thanks 🤗
Super
Thanks
Akka , how u feeling now
Better dear 😊
Thats why they say 2nd baby is braver than 1st
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Now i m 8th month pregnant its our first baby...konjam bayama iruku... Keep rocking sister...
Don’t worry dear, all will be well…take care n gud luck to hv a healthy n happy child soon….my prayers with u😊
Thank lots sister
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Mam small suggestion really ur english language and vocuablary is very good. Pls try to start some other channel related english vocabulary and how to converse in english
Hello dear really happy to know u appreciate my communication skills, but to run this channel is taking all my effort n energy, so will see in future…. Thank u so much sis😊🙏
Good morning sister 🥰
Good morning dear
Dear in NXT video tel my name also.. Bagya from Chennai....
Sure dear
Superb
Thanks dear🤗
Tq sister ❤❤
Thank u dear
Happy Tulsi Vivah pooja🎉🎉
Happy Tulasi Habba dear
Tulasi pandigai....habba..nimagu kooda hardhika shubhashayagalu dearie sis
Happy morning dear
Good morning dear
Husband enna work pandranga sister
Business pa
Good morning 😊
Very good morning dear
Hi sister how r u ❤
Hello dear I’m Gud thank u
Enakum ipadi than 7yeara pochi
I understand dear
Hi sis
Hello dear