Mom Was Previously Ordered to Have No-Contact with the Children at Their Events
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- Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024
- A contentious hearing regarding a custody dispute between Ms. Silvey and Mr. Silvey. Here's a summary of the key issues and the judge's rulings:
Key Issues:
Contempt of Court Order: Ms. Silvey was previously held in contempt of court and ordered to have no contact with the children at their events. She's seeking to have this provision reviewed and removed.
Child Pickup Times: Disputes arose over child pickup times from school, with accusations of Ms. Silvey using unauthorized individuals and Mr. Silvey attempting to control the process excessively.
Children's Stress and Allegations: Ms. Silvey claimed the children were stressed due to Mr. Silvey's actions and alleged that Mr. Silvey made threatening comments to the children. Mr. Silvey denied these claims.
Extended Parenting Time: Ms. Silvey requested extended parenting time to visit her sister in Connecticut.
Credibility of Ms. Silvey: The judge expressed significant concerns about Ms. Silvey's credibility, citing past instances of dishonesty to the court.
No Contact Order: The judge decided to maintain the no-contact order at children's events until the end of the school year. This decision was based on concerns about Ms. Silvey's behavior and disruptive influence on the children and their co-parenting relationship. The judge did not find Ms. Silvey's claims about the children's stress credible.
Child Pickup: The judge ordered that Ms. Silvey pick up the children at dismissal time (approximately 2:30 pm and 2:40 pm for Noah and Jude, respectively) unless otherwise notified in advance (ideally the morning of) to Mr. Silvey, including the full name and identification of the substitute. The judge emphasized the importance of ensuring the safety of the children and expressed disapproval of past instances of unauthorized pickups.
Connecticut Trip: The judge denied Ms. Silvey's request for extended parenting time to visit her sister in Connecticut over the Christmas break. The judge suggested the parties explore alternative arrangements to allow the children to see their aunt during her visit.
Attorney Fees: The judge was hesitant to award attorney fees to Mr. Silvey due to the nature of the motions and the court's prior direction for review.
Overall:
The hearing reveals a deeply fractured co-parenting relationship. The judge clearly sided with Mr. Silvey, expressing significant distrust of Ms. Silvey's credibility and concern for her behavior's impact on the children. The judge's rulings prioritize the children's well-being and stability, attempting to create a clearer framework for communication and child exchange while emphasizing a need for Ms. Silvey to improve her behavior and adherence to court orders.
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How awful does a mother have to be to have a court ordered excluding you from attending any school activities for two and a half years before the court will even address it again. Wow.
Approximately the same level of awfulness that it takes for Judge Frederick to rule against the mother, apparently.
@@jtm1283 …what
@@MineChanclasThis judge is pretty known for giving mothers extraordinary chances and ruling in the mothers’ favor in situations other judges wouldn’t have dreamed of. They’re saying that it takes an absolutely awful situation for this judge to rule against the mother at all.
Given the way she acted in this hearing, I'd say it's warranted. As you said it's been 2 1/2 years and she still hasn't stopped. She's still filing frivolous motions. I think that the attorney should file for attorney's fees at the show-cause she's going to be doing. Because eventually the courts will stop accepting her motions, if there's too many frivolous motions.
I love that the dad just sits there and lets the judge handle it.
The dad has an attorney. So he wouldn’t speak at all during the proceedings.
He didn't get an opportunity to speak we all understand and sympathy with him we know why there was a break down in this marriage 🙄😂🙄😂🙄😂😂
@@GC2024_ he had a lawyer. You don’t speak when you’re represented by one.
She honestly shouldn’t be working with children. I hope her school took note.
If all the judges were truthful at this dude then the world would be a better place to live in
Unfortunately he has plenty of mom bias...this was satisfying because at times I thought maybe there was no limit to his belief in any story from a mother 😂 this was great!
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He comes from the school of commons sense.
Sometimes I don't agree with him, but he does speak the truth at times
Love this legitimate Common Sense Judge He is 👏 amazing please teach the rest of judges
His lawyer is awesome at making mom look bad.
I'm so glad this judge sees this woman for who she is. A pain in the rear for everyone, the courts, the kids, their father. She's just a whole entire problem
She is a living breathing problem generation vortex.
I feel sorry for these children for having her as a mom. At least the children have a stable dad who's a good role model. She's a textbook example of a toxic mom.
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I would love to hear dad explain where he was mentally when he married mom, and when it changed.
She may only have become a problem once she had kids and they got divorced.. She's just causing trouble but I can't figure out of she believes what she's saying or pleading ignorance
When I Googled the mom, first thing that came up was a Gofundme she held for being a "domestic abuse victim." So I assume she claimed Mr. Silvey is her abuser? Funny considering she's apparently never made that allegation to the police or court given she's the one in danger of losing custody.
The husband's face. He has seen this BS from her for years.
He has "see I told ya she's a lying nutcase" written all over his face.
Why doesn't his lawyer request supervised visitation until a mental health evaluation is done? She's clearly toxic. Protecting the children from crazy a mom seems appropriate .
There's no need for supervised visits or an assessment. She's not mentally ill and they aren't in danger. She's just a crappy person and a bad parent. These kids are teenagers. They know what she is and can communicate issues to dad.
@@tias2705always take actions to protect the children. I put an OP on my ex because she violated court orders that included supervised visitation. No more BS from her.
@@tias2705except they don't, not all the time. She's their mother and she's saying all the stuff that seems so right to a teenager. She's programming them, and to hell with the consequences. It's slimy nefarious psychological warfare and the real damage won't be obvious for another 15-20 years.
@nok953 Kids are smarter and more resilient than adults give them credit for. They can love their mom and take advantage of the benefits she comes with without buying into her BS. Dad seems solid and supportive of the kids including giving the mother additional time for their benefit so I'm not worried about long term consequences affecting their relationship with him. IIRC, she doesn't get a ton of parenting time which limits that influence and with dad not engaging with her, she isn't going to have much ammunition to use against him.
@@tias2705 I'm not even talking about the kids relationship with dad, I'm saying that this petty and underhanded manipulation of the boys themselves can and will cause huge problems for them as adults. Problems with their own partners, problems with their own kids, certainly problems with mom and probably dad too...
She's not emotionally healthy enough to behave in a safe way for her sons, you can clearly see she doesn't think she's the problem here, and with what we know about the brain and how adult disorders grow from childhood events, she's doing obvious damage to these kids at a foundational level.
Dismissing this cause and effect and just assuming these kids will "choose the good in her" or "bounce back" from traumatic childhoods is negligent. There have been enough hours of video of this woman and her thought process to assume what we see is just the tip of the iceberg. She's the iceberg that will sink them if the course of their lives isn't changed fast enough.
I had Samantha VanTol represent me in my divorce, i was very pleased with her. Very nice woman!
I feel so incredibly bad for this man. 😑🤦🏼♀️
Oh my goodness, she is back, their last hearing, that I seen, judge said to them I know you all will for sure be back,, and here we are!!
Who posted it?! I need to see it
@@aleahsimpson7373Clare Mizusawa Silvey v Silvey
Don't budge, father. Kindness is weakness to a predator.
She’s lost the plot, she needs to straighten herself out, the future daughters in law are in for some nightmare
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She never will straighten her self out.
She is soooo angry with her ex-husband that she is now being ridiculously petty. Put the kids first.
Nope this is her 4th or 5th Video of her being petty so far.
Im only 1 min in the video so far but knowing how the others videos ended i can fuess shell get nothing out of this but to waste everyones time for another day
She is bat ish crazy 😮😢
While this judge wasn't having her goofus, he did wisely "side" with her, where appropriate. Great juditial restraint. And dad did what everyone who has a lawyer should do, he kept his mouth shut. What a relief it must have been, to not have to speak a word to his ex. He sets a good example for his sons on how to set, and maintain, boundaries.
The judge should be siding exclusively with the father. The mother is clinically insane
This judge hates this woman. She shouldn't even be allowed to file anymore motions. Ever
I’m surprised she’s not being classified as a vexatious litigant.
Nah not hate just disappointed that the female is setting the young boys up for failure in the future.
Boys are not going to get excited about seeing a new born baby. This mother sees' nothing wrong with her behaviour , she's the one stressing out her children.
That is just an excuse for her to get Thanksgiving. I'm sure if dad agreed to it next year and the year after she would find reasons why she needs to have them again.
I thought the same thing. I'm sure they are losing sleep over seeing a baby. Tearing up their social media accounts about how excited they are because they JUST CAN'T WAIT😂😂😂😂😂
This woman is making me want to un-alive myself. I'll respawn of course. But...
Teenage boys don't want to see a new born baby? What a shock!
@@VanillaBean2023I don’t blame them at all.
This judge is FANTASTIC!
The Lady’s shirt is right, “none of this is normal.”
This woman is unhinged.
This woman is dangerous.
This woman should solely have supervised visitation with no text messaging and only monitored calls.
She will be why those boys because out of control delinquents.
It’s a subconscious call for help 😂
Mom is a real wack job. Poor kids for having to claim her as their mom
She's embarrassing
I feel bad for the ex having to deal w her before the divorce... Then there is this
We need more judges like him!
This lady is so wacked out.. this poor man still has along road ahead of him. Judges need to stop her from filing motions. She already lost her custody and she gets very little contact. And she still keeps going. They need to strip all rights. She has messed up the youngest one so bad. If you haven’t seen them, check out all their previous court cases.
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Finally a judge who says what needs to be said. Horrible "mother".... And I use that term VERY loosely. Those kids will have nothing to do with them once they come of age. 💯
In all these hearings i think i havent heard him speak more than 5 words . Even his attorney ... Just 5 minutes or so . This is a textbook for you dont need a defense Just let her talk.
Such a nightmare yea i wish they had a link to the other videos shes a mess at least she lost the weird bow in her hair
@@afreeman9608I need to see them!!😅
I want to see the hearings where she was caught lying!
Yeah you can its on youtube , i cant recall qhat the name of the video was but i think its the one where she has a a big fake flower on her head that looks silly the whole time
Oh yea she’s a total a menace to the children, her ex and others. She a big Liar
Clare Mizusawa Silvey v Silvey
Thank you all for the answers! I can't wait!
Her shirt speaks for her completely and truthfully!! 😂 it's telling us what her kids think daily!
" None of this is Normal " 😂😅😂
She really thought she was accomplishing something and winning something with that shirt. She looked and went so far outta her way to find that shirt and felt so proud of it....all while it adds to and elevates the amount of fool that she is. I see why they are divorced, she has lived life this way for so long that she would have to work so hard to change but she would never even try because she thinks she's superior and she is a good person. She is not, spectacularly NOT.
🤣 I’ve never audibly laughed at one of these before because of the judge.. “he doesn’t call me mommy!” “Okay Deborah!” 😂😂🤣🤣😂
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"Mom, Cena, I don't care what he calls you" 😂😂
The father is doing his job protecting his kids from her and good job to the father in this .
Well said
there is another video, same couple same judge, and the judge lays into her bad. dad's lawyer clowned her bad. mom is a self obsessed clown in a contant state of self victimization.
Do you know who made the video? I'd like to find it.
I rolled my eyes so hard when she said, "But it wasn't during school hours it was at dismissal!" The approved person list for a child are the people the school can safely and legally transfer custody of the child to... such as AT DISMISSAL. It has nothing to do with school hours ffs.
She’s moron
She is *LOCO.* A narcissistic, gaslighting, jealous ex. She doesn’t mind her kids being hurt in the name of revenge. I can’t wait for Jude to find this video online and see his mom through a more realistic lens.
I remember this mom from a previous hearing and she is literally bat shit crazy and is damaging those poor boys!
Yes. When she wants to try to create drama instead of following court orders. Mom. Your children will be able to view these youtube videos just as I am now. What kind of light will they see shining on you? And alternately on dad? Better stop your vendetta, because they will know, and in the future it won't be dad that you can claim is shutting you out of anything, Your own children will shut you out. Is that really what you want? No connection with future grandchildren because of vindictiveness now? Blaze your own trail. Its on you. Good luck with that mom.
Pretty sure they have a front row seat now, won't need utube. Once they old enough they can say NO we do not want this chaos of our mother in our lives!
I usually don't like this judge, he can be really rude and short with people for no reason. However, it's magical listening to him do it to this particular mom, I've seen previous videos of her, and she's a total nightmare in all of them.
This judge is perfect for her.
A match made in hell
This judge and attorney is awesome!!
To think that she works at a school doing IEP’s
They are in many such positions.
Horrors!!!
There is no reasoning with crazy.
You’re so right and this is a great example.
I remember this case. Mum got owned big time.
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@@AuntCathyPoohand it's happening again , some people don't learn !
She is back !!!!
Grab ur popcorn, settle in she's back 🥺 this judge had her number as soon as she opened her mouth. Honestly trying to get through to her is a waste of time , she lives in her own wee world where it's everyone else's fault especially dad's but never hers .
Dad gives the kids routines, rules and love ❤️ while quietly dealing with the constant accusations and lies from mom. Dad needs a medal 🏅 and mum needs serious help.....
My divorce attorney told me to show up and be quiet. Appears to be the case with ex-husband as well.
"After dismissal" so they not riding a bus so yes WHO is picking the children up?
Dude, this judge is an absolute icon. 👏🫴🫶
This judge is amazing. This lady is CRAZY
She lost physical and legal custody..so that's a good start for credibility
Judge Frederick is literally great. This mom is absolutely crazy and absolutely should not be putting the kids in this situation. She has no business sending OFW messages to the child, and absolutely should keep being excluded from after-school activities due to her actions! She has no business involving other kids and parents in their business. Ms. Silvey is the one who is alienating the children and undermining Dad. She keeps trying to justify why she's doing what she's doing instead of taking accountability and changing her behavior!
I bet she gaslighted the heck out of him during their marriage. It’s clear he wanted out, that’s why she’s behaving this way. Poor kids!
This judge has lambasted her several times. She’s going to lose ALL visitation she keeps this shit up!
Ok and the judge laugh.
I have no idea what she is saying and I am sure she doesnt either😂😂😂
Mad as a box of frogs
😂 us Jamaicans say mad as Shad (a crazy fish)
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She lies every hearing
It is very disturbing that this woman is working with children at all. Who can honestly say they would want her working, caring for, or influencing their children? She an educator should know how her behavior negativity impacts children's development. Why is it important to know who is picking up kids. The importance of not having any scenes at school activities. There is no way her colleagues are not aware that she is a lunatic. How can she be a mandated reporter, yet the court deems her uncreditable?
She is one of those women who tries to find something wrong with everything you say. She'll keep arguing until she wears you down. I hope the judge doesn't fall for her shit.
Just listening to her triggers me.I can't even imagine what it does to the father and the child.This woman has no respect she just wants to be right.She don't give a damn about anybody but herself shame on you as a mother
She is her own worst enemy.
The kids worst enemy too. 💔
How was he married to her?! Geesh
Control freak mom! She sounds nuts
Man, oh man, the judge clearly thinks the woman is a lying looney-toon.
He’s had enough of her. I think he was done when he took her custody away.
That was so good... i had to smoke a cigarette afterwards
She lost control over him a long time ago. She won't let go. She is likely to escalate.
She doesn't like it when she doesn't get the answers she wants
Judge has her #. Love it!!!
I love this judge; he gets it!!!
2nd time for this crazy Mother. And she just doesnt get it.
This is like their 8th appearance. And we all know she isn’t done.
@@Fairysarecu0e67is there links to past videos?
Wait! What happened that Mom can’t have contact with the kids at their activities/events??
That's what I want to know
Hes concerned some rando is collecting the kids not on the list 😻 she’d like a lot of things but he doesn’t have to do things to suit her .
Mom need some therapy and anger management
I get the feeling none of them like Mom much..
Why doesn't someone file a motion to get this crazy woman committed and kept far away from anyone's kids. Forever. She's clearly nucking futs.
Ohh, it's this lady😮
I’m actually glad this judge didn’t give in and didn’t side with the mother. So many judges are biased against the father, regardless of what a POS, greedy, selfish, and worthless woman. The fathers get the shaft, and treated like they’re second class citizens.
This woman is ridiculous, and really needs to be put in her place.
I feel bad for this man.. I could not imagine having to deal with her on a daily basis!!
He is sick of her. The previous case he saw thru her mess now she hasn't any creditability
This woman is absolutely insane! She just doesn't get it! I've seen her in other hearings. She being mellow in this one. She lies ,she makes little things into huge problems and she twists things into problems ( just like the "I'll deal with your mom later nonsense)!I feel so bad for these boys! I feel like she's real close to emotional abuse to the kids with all the drama she cooks up and lies and manipulation.. She is a school teacher too! Great advertising for that school! 😬🙄🤪
I’ll have to watch some of the other videos. Because I haven’t understood some of these comments. I agree that she’s not that bad in these videos. And Dad hasn’t said a word. It seems reasonable for her to get the kids for 5 days instead of 3 days at Christmas so they can attend a family get-together. And reasonable for them to at least be able to have a little time before or after Thanksgiving to see their aunt who will be in town.
I definitely agree that it would be unreasonable for Mom to screenshoot OFW convos and send them to the children. But the judge was right in that the motions here were overall quite reasonable.
The Judge just pushed it down the road to the end of school year. She'll file again, and he will not get attorney fees...again.😮
She has some serious issues. I wouldnt let her near children in general!
I need to watch more cases with this judge. He's amazing
Boy oh boy her shirt really hits the head right on the nail. She's super flakey, I sure wouldn't trust this ditz with my children.....
This woman needs psychiatric care, and have no contact with the children until she is medically cleared.
She shouldn’t be such a horrible co parent and maybe the Dad would work with her. She is not co parenting.
Did this lady realize what her filing for that court heard in this video was all about her being combative without listening to what’s said. Mr Silvey was well behaved and Mrs Silvey wasn’t. Says a lot about them.
Her shirt says "none of this is normal".... No kiddin
Omg, this mother is unreal nut case........a parent is not suppose to be a best friend, they should be a parent
This woman works in a school!! Just imagine that. That's why I will never ever trust teachers or school staff because they're just as crazy as the next person.
Oh no...please don’t let her come to Connecticut!!
So judging by her tshirt she already knew she was full of crap and was going to BIG FAIL🙄
Kids will tell the truth when they turn 18. Moms have gut feelings should be listened to. I went through this.
35:19 i.e. she lies and provokes fights
Husband lawyer not having the text messages is not being prepared... Honestly the lawyer and the mother are almost the same personality
She's at war and he's just raising kids
Matthew knows enough to keep this mouth shut...
Smart man to stay quiet when he has a great lawyer. She is organized and makes sure she has everything in order. She does not want to give her anything to use. Notice when she made sure about when the aunt was there she did not want to misspeak. I have watched a lot of lawyers in courtrooms. I would leave 80-100 subpoenas in clerks office to get issued and would go upstairs and watch court for three hours and get paid to do it. Maricopa County Arizona at that so some crazy cases.
Crikey! The kids are going to have to work hard to get out from under the mum's baggage.
What is so wrong about "I'll deal with you later?"
And mom works in a school type setting? She mentioned "unless i have conferences or an IEP meeting"?! But she cant attend her children's extracurriculars? Oof.
Omg!! This lady is back..
Oh my land. Mrs. Silvey is beyond real. Sheesh
This lady needs a psychological evaluation.