Bros think. Nigerians r not a monolith. U marry Otedola or Dangote daughter, na u go feed her family? No. But to massage ur fragile ego that the abroad daily batters, u go & marry a hungry girl from a hungry family seeking marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme & once she gets abroad, she stops worshiping u like a deity bcos she can now earn the money u were giving her while insulting her ancestors, u start crying. 9ja men will marry a level 1 oyinbo babe & be doing houseboy for her, but will want to marry level 9 9ja & be commanding her anyhow & think the relationship will work bcos of culture...
That is why it is good to marry a girl from a rich family. Money is no stranger to her. Most of my friends who married from rich families are still happily married in the US
@@ferdiugude9689I’m from a rich family and I won’t need your money but please don’t expect me to be submissive and be cooking/cleaning for you. You gotta do that yourself.
Look this is not only Naija women, I know a story of a Nigerian man who’s married to a Black American lady, so it happen that in their friend circle his friend introduced his Nephew to the daughter of this friend, the girl went to Naija to visit with the boy and eventually got married, but what happened after making to USA he dropped the girl and now there is no more friendship it’s a ruined.!!!!!!!
My niece she and her husband are Benin they live together in UK for like 3yrs and she respects her husband so much and he was the one who carried her there ,the problem is you men going for the wrong women looking for fancy women
@@emmanuelnduka3290 I feel if you meet a good woman you'll know just like the same way you can differentiate a good person and a bad person And men when they meet the right women they take advantage of them , that's why men always end up with the wrong women
This man is pained that he missed out on settling down with a naija woman. Can he honestly say that he hasn’t got friends who are happily married to Nigeria women?
This is 1000% generalization! You met the wrong woman. I know naija men who married oyibo women and they are currently divorced! I also know naija men who married naija women and they are still married! So biko stop this generalization, calm down and marry the right person and take responsibility for your own contributions to the failed relationships
Let's stop spoiling our Nigerian ladies names Abroad, we still have very good and descent Nigerian ladies Abroad, i dislike the negative comments about our ladies
@@tonyani9238which uk police oo😂😂 go on their page to see if that stuff is there something wen them forge. Mainwhile there are good and bad people, but all the people who i know including my own family person have been there for more than 8-20 years and still together, some of you guys should say wat causes all this because if i should speak on the rate of domestic violence I can’t say.
Please stop using the Stereotype word "AKA...." on African Americans. I live in the States , and I vowed never to use such right from the day I stepped into the United States. Avoid it. It's even worse saying such on public fora.😢😢. I Love them. They are my people. As for our Nigerian women, it's a story for another day. Most are now single mothers now dating married men... Men avoid them now. The chances of a Nigerian woman getting married in the United States is rapidly contracting and such is not good for our sisters. I can count the number of Nigerian weddings I have attended since I started living the US. It doesn't speak good at all.
Remember your intentions was to use the first black lady for( ewe)not for Love but unfortunately she was lucky to kick you out .if you look at it that way.becarfull of what you which for.
Most of these naija women in diaspora, many will live to regret forever . After 2 or 3 kids already in late 40s or early 50s. Forget it na only knacking sure for them. I know at least alot where i work. Their time don pass. Na now den want serious relationship. How many men want serious relationship now sef for diaspora. . Na just to face their career and children at that age it is too late..
Why are u lieing ? U think say u dey naija ? Men marry single women with kids for Oyibo. No be naija men dey marry their ancestors for Oyibo land but can’t for naija 😂
@@kylieking8163 Are you thick? My opinion and experience means I am dishonest ? You and who? Over 2 decades in diaspora and I have done over 22 countries in the West no be you go tell me about naija ... I have dated from all continents leave story
@@kylieking8163 Well, if naija men marry oyibo wey be single woman at least age go don learn and don succumb, especially those in mid or late 40s. But all these naija ladies in those bracket haven't learnt yet, Still blabbing and if you not careful you wan add step kids to your likely tight budgets ?
He is speaking from true experience
Bros think. Nigerians r not a monolith. U marry Otedola or Dangote daughter, na u go feed her family? No. But to massage ur fragile ego that the abroad daily batters, u go & marry a hungry girl from a hungry family seeking marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme & once she gets abroad, she stops worshiping u like a deity bcos she can now earn the money u were giving her while insulting her ancestors, u start crying. 9ja men will marry a level 1 oyinbo babe & be doing houseboy for her, but will want to marry level 9 9ja & be commanding her anyhow & think the relationship will work bcos of culture...
That is why it is good to marry a girl from a rich family. Money is no stranger to her. Most of my friends who married from rich families are still happily married in the US
I can relate, I was there
True
@@ferdiugude9689I’m from a rich family and I won’t need your money but please don’t expect me to be submissive and be cooking/cleaning for you. You gotta do that yourself.
You can marry yourself@@Sanichiii
Look this is not only Naija women, I know a story of a Nigerian man who’s married to a Black American lady, so it happen that in their friend circle his friend introduced his Nephew to the daughter of this friend, the girl went to Naija to visit with the boy and eventually got married, but what happened after making to USA he dropped the girl and now there is no more friendship it’s a ruined.!!!!!!!
Na pastor self go turn your wife against you. The reason I no dey go Naija church again. Story plenty 😂😂😂😂. Make I just keep quiet.
My niece she and her husband are Benin they live together in UK for like 3yrs and she respects her husband so much and he was the one who carried her there ,the problem is you men going for the wrong women looking for fancy women
Your in-law is the luckiest man in the world. With my 35 years abroad, I have seen so many crazy things from Nigerian women
How do we identify the right women?
@@emmanuelnduka3290
I feel if you meet a good woman you'll know just like the same way you can differentiate a good person and a bad person
And men when they meet the right women they take advantage of them , that's why men always end up with the wrong women
@@emmanuelnduka3290 We have a large Nigerian community in Houston.
Your niece is 1 in 10 statistics that doesn't make it a success based on the odds.
This man is pained that he missed out on settling down with a naija woman. Can he honestly say that he hasn’t got friends who are happily married to Nigeria women?
You married a wrong woman.
This is 1000% generalization! You met the wrong woman. I know naija men who married oyibo women and they are currently divorced! I also know naija men who married naija women and they are still married! So biko stop this generalization, calm down and marry the right person and take responsibility for your own contributions to the failed relationships
The numbers are facts
@@9jaboy335If 1 in 10 succeed is that success
How many how many
Them go marry themselves.
Nope. They will also marry oyibo men using the same dating apps you are using to find the oyibo women
Listen to the derogatory names you are calling these Nigerian women. Please save your *hard earned* money marry oyibo, akata or whoever.
They will
Let's stop spoiling our Nigerian ladies names Abroad, we still have very good and descent Nigerian ladies Abroad, i dislike the negative comments about our ladies
Because you never test am.. don’t be a victim 😢😢😢… na real fact… UK police don Dey complain now ..
Continue till it happen to you....
@@tonyani9238which uk police oo😂😂 go on their page to see if that stuff is there something wen them forge. Mainwhile there are good and bad people, but all the people who i know including my own family person have been there for more than 8-20 years and still together, some of you guys should say wat causes all this because if i should speak on the rate of domestic violence I can’t say.
So we should lie to soothe your feelings ?
Please stop using the Stereotype word "AKA...." on African Americans. I live in the States , and I vowed never to use such right from the day I stepped into the United States. Avoid it. It's even worse saying such on public fora.😢😢.
I Love them. They are my people.
As for our Nigerian women, it's a story for another day.
Most are now single mothers now dating married men...
Men avoid them now. The chances of a Nigerian woman getting married in the United States is rapidly contracting and such is not good for our sisters.
I can count the number of Nigerian weddings I have attended since I started living the US. It doesn't speak good at all.
Bro you met a wrong woman , which no marry Nigerian woman for abroad
65% to 75% of Nigerian women abroad are nothing to write home about. I have seen many many crazy things
you mumu oo
hehehe
@WetinNaija 95 percent and it is not exaggeration. If you see any Happy family in the US or UK that means the woman is in control.
Remember your intentions was to use the first black lady for( ewe)not for Love but unfortunately she was lucky to kick you out .if you look at it that way.becarfull of what you which for.
But him still dey with his WW.
Most of these naija women in diaspora, many will live to regret forever . After 2 or 3 kids already in late 40s or early 50s. Forget it na only knacking sure for them. I know at least alot where i work. Their time don pass. Na now den want serious relationship. How many men want serious relationship now sef for diaspora. . Na just to face their career and children at that age it is too late..
Why are u lieing ? U think say u dey naija ? Men marry single women with kids for Oyibo. No be naija men dey marry their ancestors for Oyibo land but can’t for naija 😂
@@kylieking8163 Are you thick? My opinion and experience means I am dishonest ? You and who? Over 2 decades in diaspora and I have done over 22 countries in the West no be you go tell me about naija ... I have dated from all continents leave story
@@kylieking8163 Well, if naija men marry oyibo wey be single woman at least age go don learn and don succumb, especially those in mid or late 40s. But all these naija ladies in those bracket haven't learnt yet, Still blabbing and if you not careful you wan add step kids to your likely tight budgets ?