When I heard him talk about his mother discussing the slide vs kitchen set "incident" with him, I believe I begun to understand why he is as well adjusted as he is. Our parents can make us or break us.
The response from the gay/bi guy was so refreshing, obviously paraphrasing, but - "Do you think the vaccination schedule is safe" "I'm not a doctor or a peer reviewed study, but I trust those, and they say it's safe. They know better than me and I trust science." I don't think it's actually a super great way to have a conversation to change someone's mind, but damn is it satisfying as the outside viewer.
A foundation really just comes from the safety of family. That could mean a single parent or two of the same sex. That's really not what matters.@@gachamansama3703
Nah, I would say that's going to far and not helpful at all. Do you think somebody like him would listen to your "advice"? Frankly speaking, it feels to me like he s just from an ex communist country, and most of the people in these countries think like that. Though it may seem like they are close minded, being gentle and softly pushing them in the correct decisions is what really helps. I say this from experience since I live in such a country, what I've found is, they have a lot of preconceptions from their own parents, and they usually treat their children much better compared to how they were treated as a child, it's pretty hard to change your mindset 180 when you grew up raised with certain presuppositions(ie women do the householding, men are the breadwinners, they need to "protect" women and guide them)
Physical punishment is an absolute NO... NEVER. It is a learned behavior from the parents & previous generations. Absolutely 1000% inappropriate. What's actually occurring? Besides repeating a pattern, the parent has failed to learn the discipline of proper, mindful communication with their children, creating boundaries without their own childhood emotional baggage that they then transfer to their children. I was one that broke the generational pattern. Striking another human being, pet or any living creature even with a "light swat" is an act of violence. Period.
Do people forget about herd immunity? Herd immunity occurs when a significant portion of the population is immune to a disease, either through vaccination or previous infection, thereby reducing the likelihood of disease spread. For some diseases, such as measles, which is highly contagious, a higher coverage rate is crucial. Measles, Mumps, and Rubella (MMR): 95% coverage Diphtheria, Tetanus, and Pertussis (DTaP): 90-95% coverage Polio: 90-95% coverage Haemophilus influenzae type b (Hib): 90-95% coverage Hepatitis B: 90-95% coverage Varicella (Chickenpox): 90-95% coverage Pneumococcal Conjugate Vaccine (PCV): 90-95% coverage Meningococcal Conjugate Vaccine: 85-90% coverage Influenza (annual flu vaccine): 70-90% coverage, varies by region and recommendation Human Papillomavirus (HPV): 80-90% coverage (recommended for pre-teens and teens) If you don't vaccinate, you risk not only your children, but their peers as well. Vaccination is also about living in society, my friends.
As a non-native speaker myself, can I ask you not to invite people who struggle with delivering their point because they don't speak English fluently enough? It's not benefitting anyone, the poor man took forever to voice his opinion, wasn't eloquent enough to really get the point across, respond to others' opinions and engage in the conversation on the same level as everybody else, and all that through no fault of his own, really. Inviting immigrants/non-native speakers is absolutely amazing, but it becomes pointless when they struggle to voice their opinion. Sorry if the comment was a little too blunt lol
I feel like this would be otherwise fair if it weren't for the fact that his opinions were consistently quite common sentiments among a lot of older immigrant generations. Maybe with additional fluency, he would be able to choose his words more "carefully," but it's disingenuous to act as though a lot of his views weren't dated based on the actual substance of his opinions.
I agree. It’s a different story altogether when it’s a one on one conversation with more time to elaborate on things, but in group discussions it’s a necessity to be able to express yourself properly.
Every credible pediatric/psychological org, after aggregating countless studies, determined that, surprise, physically assaulting a child that cannot fight back is correlated with maladaptive developmental outcomes, regardless of how "gentle" or "harsh" the parent is. So the people that don't strongly disagree with hitting kids in any fashion are just objectively ignorant at best and antisocial at worst. Abusive either way, but i'd assume most parents are willing to adapt to this info and be better.
10000% agree. I have my degree in psychology and wrote a dissertation research paper on this exact topic. It has always fascinated me and I learned so much from it. The mental, physical, emotional, biological turmoil is normalized in this society.
Do you plan on teaching your child how to stand up for themselves? But you also have to set yourself up as the person who shows them how too. And it's not easy too either especially if your child is not confident in themselves
My 9 children were raised by 2 mos 8 boys 1 girl, they ae all grown and productive humans, I now have 27 grand children 7 great grand children, and during the 80s it was a lot harder for gay parents.
Physical punishment is not okay what so ever, even on the butt. My parents spanked on the butt but they were hard and forceful with it, it fucking hurt! They used belts and wooden spoons and rubber rulers, it felt like they wanted to inflict pain. It was horrible. I will NEVER repeat what they did. I won’t even use my hand for a “gentle” swat. There is no such thing as gentle spanking. It’s abuse, point blank period.
Would have loved to have seen this be 8 people, 4 of them women. 2 hetero women, and 2 non hetero women, who are all competent in clearly getting their points across. And I would have loved to hear what the hetero women had to say a bit more. Because I rarely hear their opinions on these matters.
My takeaway here, as it is with many of these "experiments", is that religious ideology and interpretation has much more to do with the positions people adopt than their sexuality does. EDIT: 23:43 - Guy with white hair (the smart one), right side of frame 🤣🤣🤣🤣
child needs parent(s), i raised my 2 nephwes, i am their dad even though i am not. my partner was raised by his grandmother till age 8, then he was raised by social care and state, he was too old for adoption, too old for foster care... my hephews were my prirority when i got custody over them, today they are adults and told me i literaly saved them from doom, from system, from juvie, from, from trading them in orphanges by adults in charge for them and their well being, from dragging them thru foster care, from orphange. my partner said once too me, that anyone who says how child needs a mother and a father should volounteer in orphanges, meet a system, talk to 18 year olds tossed to street by the same system with no where to go and no one to go to. child needs a parent(s). that role can take anyone who is stabile and normal in a head. after the war and during war 14 year olds took a role of parents taking care for younger siblings in my homeland, at age 18 they desepertly fought to take them out of system, coz they knew what is going on inside the system. 18 year olds were taking a role of parents of siblings and younger cousines coz whole families were just vanished. child needs a parent(s), period. in my homeland homes for kids without adequate parental care are over filled, str8 couples only want to adopt babies and toddlers who are ''white''( not roma kids), when they foster, they foster only toddlers, healthy pre teen kids and healthy teens, again no roma kids or kids with special needs. guess who foster those kids, gay coupels, just one gay coupel was needed to sue the state and won and have a right to adopt and foster a child, others followed. and they foster 2 kids with special needs, same as other gay coupels, roma kids and kids with special needs, coz str8 coupels in a country wich have 95% of chatholics (christians) only wants ''white'' healthy babies and todlers to adopt and foster only ''white'' healthy kids... like war never thought them nothing.
I think its ideal for a mom and a dad to raise a child since its the most basic and fundamental form of reproduction. HOWEVER not every instance of a child would be ideal. A lot of gay men and women adopt children in less than ideal situations and make their situation way more ideal than if they were in the adoption center and or foster care. Can you honestly tell a child in foster care that they would need to WAIT for the "magical" straight couple to adopt them, and risk more further mental damage from a lack of parental support, or would it be IDEAL to have gay parents who demonstrate good parenting, to adopt that destitute kid?
@@Cupidador nah he just don't speak English well. It isn't fair to have him here and not have at least a translator. He seemed to struggle communicating his point in English.
the girl with buzz cut lost me at the vaccine debate. if she is so worried about chemicals going into the child’s body, she should not be bleaching and dying her hair. That has WAYYYYYY more chemicals than vaccines and one of the two is scientifically backed. If she was not on the strongly disagree side, I would have not written the comment. It is hypocritical
I really would like to see a video like this but with gay cis men and gay trans men With " a video like this" i mean a video about if they think the same
My mom 'forced' The Talk on me when I was 10. I wasn't ready for it and it has scarred me still 50 years later. It also stole away my innocence about the world and horrified me. Maybe waiting another year or two, I would have been in a place to be ready for it. Also, when I asked how babies came out when I was like 5, my mom told me at that time it came out of the belly button. So, when I learned the truth, I felt duped and horrified. My parents couldn't 'read the room'. They were horrible parents.
I feel like the problem with these hypotheticals is that it is ambiguous as to what the context is. Like in regard to whether kids should be raised gender-neutral -- sure, if all kids were raised this way it could very well prove worthwhile, but because society at large is hard to change, it is more questionable as to whether individual families should partake in such an endeavor
The vaccine question was super disappointing to see how uneducated more than half of them were. Of COURSE vaccines are safe and beneficial for kids! Refusing your kids medical treatments ought to be considered child abuse. I was really disappointed to see the blue hair girl saying she strongly disagreed because prior to that she seemed the most educated and well rounded
22:40 Or, you know, they were trying to avoid what happened because not everyone took it seriously: we now have the common cold, the season flu, and the newest covid strain to worry about catching every year.
Ok two points: #1: It is optimal to have a nuclear family because men and women are different and bring different assets in the education of the child. Two of my friends are lesbians and mothers of a little girl and outside of me there is no masculine figure anywhere around them. I can see the difference that girl doesn't have the masculine energy, the boundary and the logic she needs she always goes for her emotions, all her mothers do is follow how she feels which is not optimal. #2: The physical punishment. We can talk hours about it but we all can see how undisciplined, unrully and disrespectful children have become for the last 20 years since the physical punishment is not the norm anymore. They are nightmares. Parents have to step up and kids really need to understand now they are not in control of everything. Spanks worked when used smartly
1: In the case of having a child, less than optimal conditions would detriment them for sure but in other cases, there are EVEN LESS optimal conditions if no action were to be placed. What would your say to the kids raised by gay parents who were abandoned or adopted? They already come from a less than optimal situation, are we really gonna wait it out for them to find a more suitable male-female coupling? 2: I agree with this point.
@gachamansama3703 The thing with the term "optimal" means it's always better to take that direction or make that choice instead of others but it doesn't mean the others are totally bad or wrong. You give me extreme examples of kids who were abandoned or adopted which are not the majority. Well it's always better to have a mother and a father but two parents is still great. Same problem exists with single parenthood. One parent is not enough. Statistics proved when you are raised by a single mother, you are more likely to end up in prison, not finish school, living in poverty and doing crime.
the girl with buzz cut lost me at the vaccine debate. if she is so worried about chemicals going into the child’s body, she should not be bleaching and dying her hair. That has WAYYYYYY more chemicals than vaccines and one of the two is scientifically backed. If she was not on the strongly disagree side, I would have not written the comment. It is hypocritical
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The guy with the white hair was the most sound and educated person in this entire group
When I heard him talk about his mother discussing the slide vs kitchen set "incident" with him, I believe I begun to understand why he is as well adjusted as he is. Our parents can make us or break us.
the purple hair girl had some pretty good answers too
the guy with the suit coat on can exit stage left
Agreed! ❤
He sounds German.
@@JSkitt He doesn’t, he sounds more Spanish
As long as he doesn't push his beliefs on others, why would you feel that way? You want him gone because....you are pushing your beliefs onto others.
I kinda suspect he is an actor. He can't be so narrow minded xD
If this guy says "bibles" one more time without saying other words I swear bro💀
Nah BC frrr
The only person who made sense throughout the ep is the white haired guy
I'm proud to say, that he so very reminds me of so many of my closest friends.
The blue hair lady made many valid points and seemed to have a firm sense of self.
@@alanalovell1612 she was great up until the vaccine question
@@_dashyy yes!!!!
He deserves a medal honestly, his kids and all of his family are so lucky to have a guy like that in their lives!
the anti-vaxx take from the girl in the track jacket was so out of nowhere 😭😭😭
Ikr😭 I was shocked when she disagreed
Right. She was my favorite up until then. wtf
The response from the gay/bi guy was so refreshing, obviously paraphrasing, but -
"Do you think the vaccination schedule is safe"
"I'm not a doctor or a peer reviewed study, but I trust those, and they say it's safe. They know better than me and I trust science."
I don't think it's actually a super great way to have a conversation to change someone's mind, but damn is it satisfying as the outside viewer.
If the kid has love and turns out ok that's the best you can do.
I think its a lot more complicated than just love but there needs to be a foundation.
@@gachamansama3703 They can get that from straight or gay parents.
A foundation really just comes from the safety of family. That could mean a single parent or two of the same sex. That's really not what matters.@@gachamansama3703
2:15 That transition was shady asf ain't gonna lie. 😂
Naw it was perfect we don't respect homophobia!
I laughed so hard when that transition happened 😂
@@AshHigh-wg1rk same lol
They were so real for that I couldnt help but cackle a bit yk😃
They were so real for that I couldnt help but cackle a bit yk😃
If you’re like the guy in the suit… don’t have kids ❤
Nah, I would say that's going to far and not helpful at all. Do you think somebody like him would listen to your "advice"? Frankly speaking, it feels to me like he s just from an ex communist country, and most of the people in these countries think like that. Though it may seem like they are close minded, being gentle and softly pushing them in the correct decisions is what really helps. I say this from experience since I live in such a country, what I've found is, they have a lot of preconceptions from their own parents, and they usually treat their children much better compared to how they were treated as a child, it's pretty hard to change your mindset 180 when you grew up raised with certain presuppositions(ie women do the householding, men are the breadwinners, they need to "protect" women and guide them)
@ you’re right. We should get rid of him too
@@Tazradore you ok?
@@DeadDystroyer I’m wonderful, are you okay ?
@@Tazradore im ok, you just had and @ at someone which was pointing nowhere and said we should get rid of him too. Therefore the question "You ok?"
The guy against vaccines said "you need to educate yourself"...
Physical punishment is an absolute NO... NEVER. It is a learned behavior from the parents & previous generations. Absolutely 1000% inappropriate. What's actually occurring? Besides repeating a pattern, the parent has failed to learn the discipline of proper, mindful communication with their children, creating boundaries without their own childhood emotional baggage that they then transfer to their children. I was one that broke the generational pattern. Striking another human being, pet or any living creature even with a "light swat" is an act of violence. Period.
Do people forget about herd immunity?
Herd immunity occurs when a significant portion of the population is immune to a disease, either through vaccination or previous infection, thereby reducing the likelihood of disease spread. For some diseases, such as measles, which is highly contagious, a higher coverage rate is crucial.
Measles, Mumps, and Rubella (MMR): 95% coverage
Diphtheria, Tetanus, and Pertussis (DTaP): 90-95% coverage
Polio: 90-95% coverage
Haemophilus influenzae type b (Hib): 90-95% coverage
Hepatitis B: 90-95% coverage
Varicella (Chickenpox): 90-95% coverage
Pneumococcal Conjugate Vaccine (PCV): 90-95% coverage
Meningococcal Conjugate Vaccine: 85-90% coverage
Influenza (annual flu vaccine): 70-90% coverage, varies by region and recommendation
Human Papillomavirus (HPV): 80-90% coverage (recommended for pre-teens and teens)
If you don't vaccinate, you risk not only your children, but their peers as well.
Vaccination is also about living in society, my friends.
As a non-native speaker myself, can I ask you not to invite people who struggle with delivering their point because they don't speak English fluently enough? It's not benefitting anyone, the poor man took forever to voice his opinion, wasn't eloquent enough to really get the point across, respond to others' opinions and engage in the conversation on the same level as everybody else, and all that through no fault of his own, really. Inviting immigrants/non-native speakers is absolutely amazing, but it becomes pointless when they struggle to voice their opinion. Sorry if the comment was a little too blunt lol
@@ncjxbshj Nah this is facts
💯💯💯
I feel like this would be otherwise fair if it weren't for the fact that his opinions were consistently quite common sentiments among a lot of older immigrant generations. Maybe with additional fluency, he would be able to choose his words more "carefully," but it's disingenuous to act as though a lot of his views weren't dated based on the actual substance of his opinions.
I agree. It’s a different story altogether when it’s a one on one conversation with more time to elaborate on things, but in group discussions it’s a necessity to be able to express yourself properly.
Every credible pediatric/psychological org, after aggregating countless studies, determined that, surprise, physically assaulting a child that cannot fight back is correlated with maladaptive developmental outcomes, regardless of how "gentle" or "harsh" the parent is. So the people that don't strongly disagree with hitting kids in any fashion are just objectively ignorant at best and antisocial at worst. Abusive either way, but i'd assume most parents are willing to adapt to this info and be better.
10000% agree. I have my degree in psychology and wrote a dissertation research paper on this exact topic. It has always fascinated me and I learned so much from it. The mental, physical, emotional, biological turmoil is normalized in this society.
If my children get bullied at school and it continues I expect my children to stand up for themselves
Do you plan on teaching your child how to stand up for themselves? But you also have to set yourself up as the person who shows them how too. And it's not easy too either especially if your child is not confident in themselves
@@SillyCat420 that goes without saying 💯
What has this to do with this video
@@ruskov5685 you reading comments instead of watching the video lol
My 9 children were raised by 2 mos 8 boys 1 girl, they ae all grown and productive humans, I now have 27 grand children 7 great grand children, and during the 80s it was a lot harder for gay parents.
Good on you! That is a heck of a family. ❤
@@kristenlogan2594 thank you there’s a lot of love 🥰
Physical punishment is not okay what so ever, even on the butt. My parents spanked on the butt but they were hard and forceful with it, it fucking hurt! They used belts and wooden spoons and rubber rulers, it felt like they wanted to inflict pain. It was horrible. I will NEVER repeat what they did. I won’t even use my hand for a “gentle” swat. There is no such thing as gentle spanking. It’s abuse, point blank period.
Would have loved to have seen this be 8 people, 4 of them women. 2 hetero women, and 2 non hetero women, who are all competent in clearly getting their points across. And I would have loved to hear what the hetero women had to say a bit more. Because I rarely hear their opinions on these matters.
8:35 The camera man going back to the guy in the suit, after he missed him 😂 that moment was so cartoonish and comical
Oh my days the guy quoting the Bible
My takeaway here, as it is with many of these "experiments", is that religious ideology and interpretation has much more to do with the positions people adopt than their sexuality does.
EDIT: 23:43 - Guy with white hair (the smart one), right side of frame 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Funny how two mins in he interrupts the "Mom is nurturing and dad is..." with a sponsor XD
These were some hard hitting questions. They enjoyed hearing everyone’s perspectives even if I didn’t agree.
Wait did that one dude switch from "Strong disagree" to "Agree"?? He literally teleported at 26:22
Uh oh, Im already scared for the comments
You shouldn’t lmfao
Turned out ok
WHITE HAIR GOT IT 💯💯
last guy spoke very eloquently!
I cant possibly be the only one who’s constantly getting pissed at the guy in the suit jacket, right? 😭🙏
child needs parent(s), i raised my 2 nephwes, i am their dad even though i am not. my partner was raised by his grandmother till age 8, then he was raised by social care and state, he was too old for adoption, too old for foster care... my hephews were my prirority when i got custody over them, today they are adults and told me i literaly saved them from doom, from system, from juvie, from, from trading them in orphanges by adults in charge for them and their well being, from dragging them thru foster care, from orphange. my partner said once too me, that anyone who says how child needs a mother and a father should volounteer in orphanges, meet a system, talk to 18 year olds tossed to street by the same system with no where to go and no one to go to. child needs a parent(s). that role can take anyone who is stabile and normal in a head. after the war and during war 14 year olds took a role of parents taking care for younger siblings in my homeland, at age 18 they desepertly fought to take them out of system, coz they knew what is going on inside the system. 18 year olds were taking a role of parents of siblings and younger cousines coz whole families were just vanished. child needs a parent(s), period.
in my homeland homes for kids without adequate parental care are over filled, str8 couples only want to adopt babies and toddlers who are ''white''( not roma kids), when they foster, they foster only toddlers, healthy pre teen kids and healthy teens, again no roma kids or kids with special needs. guess who foster those kids, gay coupels, just one gay coupel was needed to sue the state and won and have a right to adopt and foster a child, others followed. and they foster 2 kids with special needs, same as other gay coupels, roma kids and kids with special needs, coz str8 coupels in a country wich have 95% of chatholics (christians) only wants ''white'' healthy babies and todlers to adopt and foster only ''white'' healthy kids... like war never thought them nothing.
Wanted to let the creator know that the same ad plays twice, I’m sure it was unintentional but just heads up
I think its ideal for a mom and a dad to raise a child since its the most basic and fundamental form of reproduction. HOWEVER not every instance of a child would be ideal. A lot of gay men and women adopt children in less than ideal situations and make their situation way more ideal than if they were in the adoption center and or foster care. Can you honestly tell a child in foster care that they would need to WAIT for the "magical" straight couple to adopt them, and risk more further mental damage from a lack of parental support, or would it be IDEAL to have gay parents who demonstrate good parenting, to adopt that destitute kid?
Well Said
The sponsor ??? 😂
i think suit guy may have been drunk or on something
@@Cupidador nah he just don't speak English well. It isn't fair to have him here and not have at least a translator. He seemed to struggle communicating his point in English.
@@gachamansama3703 his english was fine he literally just acted like he was drunk lol
@@Cupidador nah bro. He had an accent. Clearly he's not a native English speaker. What?
the girl with buzz cut lost me at the vaccine debate. if she is so worried about chemicals going into the child’s body, she should not be bleaching and dying her hair. That has WAYYYYYY more chemicals than vaccines and one of the two is scientifically backed. If she was not on the strongly disagree side, I would have not written the comment. It is hypocritical
I really would like to see a video like this but with gay cis men and gay trans men
With " a video like this" i mean a video about if they think the same
The sponsor is savage asf
My mom 'forced' The Talk on me when I was 10. I wasn't ready for it and it has scarred me still 50 years later. It also stole away my innocence about the world and horrified me. Maybe waiting another year or two, I would have been in a place to be ready for it. Also, when I asked how babies came out when I was like 5, my mom told me at that time it came out of the belly button. So, when I learned the truth, I felt duped and horrified. My parents couldn't 'read the room'. They were horrible parents.
There's always a bible thumper 😉👎
I feel like the problem with these hypotheticals is that it is ambiguous as to what the context is. Like in regard to whether kids should be raised gender-neutral -- sure, if all kids were raised this way it could very well prove worthwhile, but because society at large is hard to change, it is more questionable as to whether individual families should partake in such an endeavor
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The vaccine question was super disappointing to see how uneducated more than half of them were.
Of COURSE vaccines are safe and beneficial for kids! Refusing your kids medical treatments ought to be considered child abuse.
I was really disappointed to see the blue hair girl saying she strongly disagreed because prior to that she seemed the most educated and well rounded
I love the cutoff about the gender role “nurturing” rhetoric 😂
22:40 Or, you know, they were trying to avoid what happened because not everyone took it seriously: we now have the common cold, the season flu, and the newest covid strain to worry about catching every year.
Plz stop putting an ad in the middle of someone speaking, you can just as easily do it after they're done
6:21 where did he come from lol
I wish they were a bit more educated and eloquent. Some seemed like they were falling asleep while talking
It's incredibly disgusting how utterly, horrifically, purposefully ignorant all of these parents are. This is honestly irresponsible to post.
What does gay parents mean? Does it mean the parents of straight kids are gay or does it mean "straight parents that have gay kids"?
it means same sex couples. It has nothing to do with the child’s sexuality
@@LissiK. but why is it called "gay parents" then?
@@Bielefeld123 because they’re gay
the parents are homosexual they’re gay parents.
Gay= Two Men
Gay parents= Two men that are parents
@@Bielefeld123 Cause it's parents who are gay.
And straight parents are parents who are straight
@@Bielefeld123because theyre gay and parents
can bible guy please shut up? he even said himslef hes not an expert on the bible so why tf is he talking about it like he is?
Ok two points:
#1: It is optimal to have a nuclear family because men and women are different and bring different assets in the education of the child. Two of my friends are lesbians and mothers of a little girl and outside of me there is no masculine figure anywhere around them. I can see the difference that girl doesn't have the masculine energy, the boundary and the logic she needs she always goes for her emotions, all her mothers do is follow how she feels which is not optimal.
#2: The physical punishment. We can talk hours about it but we all can see how undisciplined, unrully and disrespectful children have become for the last 20 years since the physical punishment is not the norm anymore. They are nightmares. Parents have to step up and kids really need to understand now they are not in control of everything.
Spanks worked when used smartly
1: In the case of having a child, less than optimal conditions would detriment them for sure but in other cases, there are EVEN LESS optimal conditions if no action were to be placed. What would your say to the kids raised by gay parents who were abandoned or adopted? They already come from a less than optimal situation, are we really gonna wait it out for them to find a more suitable male-female coupling?
2: I agree with this point.
I disagree with a lot of what you've said.
@@Thesouthboy Tell me on what and why
@@Pierre-LucTremblay No response to me bro 🤔
@gachamansama3703 The thing with the term "optimal" means it's always better to take that direction or make that choice instead of others but it doesn't mean the others are totally bad or wrong.
You give me extreme examples of kids who were abandoned or adopted which are not the majority. Well it's always better to have a mother and a father but two parents is still great.
Same problem exists with single parenthood. One parent is not enough. Statistics proved when you are raised by a single mother, you are more likely to end up in prison, not finish school, living in poverty and doing crime.
Se suit man is so annoying, wtf, everything he says is "bible bible bible bible"
the girl with buzz cut lost me at the vaccine debate. if she is so worried about chemicals going into the child’s body, she should not be bleaching and dying her hair. That has WAYYYYYY more chemicals than vaccines and one of the two is scientifically backed. If she was not on the strongly disagree side, I would have not written the comment. It is hypocritical