I loooooove the way hijabis dress!! Literally they slay my life bc it's like u can still look that bomb without showing an inch of skin! That's winning in life to me lol
so true. I'm not going to lie if i saw a hijabi and she was wearing tight clothes i'd used to instantly think oh shes not muslim. How utterly narrow minded I was, Islam is in the heart after all and were all so busy judging people for their outside apearances.
Very true. It really is pathetic and it disgusts me because this defeats the purpose of our religion. Islam is peace and we can't even show peace and kidness to our fellow brothers and sisters of Islam.
hanaa mohammed Become a Christian and be free of condemnation or judgement from mere humans and makes what you say true. Only God has the right to judge you in your conscience and correct you by His Spirit in your spirit. Romans 8:1-2! 33-34 Bible (TLB) 8 So there is now no condemnation awaiting those who belong to Christ Jesus. 2 For the power of the life-giving Spirit-and this power is mine through Christ Jesus-has freed me from the vicious circle of sin and death. Romans 8:33-34Living Bible (TLB) 33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? Will God? No! He is the one who has forgiven us and given us right standing with himself. 34 Who then will condemn us? Will Christ? No! For he is the one who died for us and came back to life again for us and is sitting at the place of highest honor next to God, pleading for us there in heaven.
No one judges Muslims more than other muslims, It really shouldn't be that way, we should uplift and encourage each other, cause none of us are God!!! You are so beautiful, Thank you for making this video.
Judging is bad, however advising another muslim is a must. I think a lot of advise online comes across judgemental because it is in written form. Im sure those that are advising have the best intentions. There should be nothing but love for one another. Just like a mother advises her children. Might sound harsh but she has your best interest xx
+Fatu Medina i thought so too, and then i was on a christian preecher's site and its not true anymore .. people get heated when it comes about something really loved and imp. to them, so i guess judging is just a try to protect what u love .. and thats with most muslims the case x
Fatu Madina Become a Christian and be free of condemnation or judgement from mere humans and makes what you say true. Only God has the right to judge you in your conscience and by His Spirit inside of you. Romans 8:1-2! 33-34 Bible (TLB) 8 So there is now no condemnation awaiting those who belong to Christ Jesus. 2 For the power of the life-giving Spirit-and this power is mine through Christ Jesus-has freed me from the vicious circle of sin and death. Romans 8:33-34Living Bible (TLB) 33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? Will God? No! He is the one who has forgiven us and given us right standing with himself. 34 Who then will condemn us? Will Christ? No! For he is the one who died for us and came back to life again for us and is sitting at the place of highest honor next to God, pleading for us there in heaven.
Wearing a hijab does not mean we magically become an angel. Its just a requirement for muslim women in the same way as fasting and praying salah is. Its better to wear hijab and try because we arent ever going to be perfect. I hate when people say things to me because i wear a hijab...do i confront them about not praying or fasting? We should all stick together and chill out. Legit life is too short to be mean and bitter. We should first be good people and focus on ourselves because we arent going to be perfect so we have our own faults to correct. Love this video hun thank you for putting it out there xxx
I recently converted to Islam and prior to converting I started watching a lot of Muslim youtubers. The extremely judgmental comments I always say almost turned me off converting because I didn't want to bring that judgement upon myself, and thought that if this is the Muslim community than I won't belong there. Alhamdullilah Allah's call was stronger than those sad voices. You and other youtubers speaking out against this behaviour helped me to feel ready to convert and wear the hijab mashAllah.
+Habiba Da Silva I Love You So Much Habiba. just ignore these ignorant people, they don't have anything else to do. keep doing what you doing, caz that what makes you special and beautiful. KEEP SHINING !!!!
+Habiba Da Silva The World is NOT ready for you , Habiba ..lol ..You are a very Unique individual ..Btw , One more Rant Video , and I will be forced to Propose .. :)
***** Will it surprise you to know that most people that follow these "Fashionista RUclips hijabis" , as you call them - ARE NOT EVEN MUSLIMS , and don't care to be one ? Especially considering how judgmental the religion can be ..
+timekkhan2012 nigga don't comment ur false economical views about the youtube modesty fashion industry they are not needed on habiba's video or anyone's else , that's irrelevant now just get tf outta the comments
another thing is that muslim brothers NEED to stop pretending/thinking that they actually know what their Muslim sisters go through! you cant tell us how to deal with a problem that you yourself do not face! There are SO many hardships and struggles that hijabis and Muslim women go through and you would not understand because you are not us. You have no idea. Stop thinking you do, you don't.
Medina Onn yessss I hate it when Muslim men tell me my hijab isn't modest enough or how I dress or whatever it's like excuse me mate you're walking around in a singlet and shorts and I'm sitting here in Australian summer heat totally wrapped up in a scarf and my whole body covered and I have a few fly always coming out my scarf and IM THE IMMODEST ONE?? Right now I'm struggling with my hijab and I've just been wearing it looser and there's a little hair showing a little neck showing and I feel guilty but I need to do it like this for a while or I'll get so frustrated with it I'll just take it off all together! And it's better to wear it than not wear it at all I think. Allah knows my intention. Leave the judgements up to Allah.
Whatever Habiba is saying is saying this video is 100% true we should all get along. But unfortunately I used to be one of those people who used to judge others on how they should be acting in islam. that is until someone told me who am I to take on the role of God. and that's what opened my eyes and now I realise how wrong was to judge others. its about the intention and only Allah knows what a person intends.
+Mona Ali yes well because I was taught that if you are a Muslim women you should behave a certain way and if you didn't you would get punished. I didn't want that person to get punished and wanted her to correct herself. Instead of explaining to her nicely I just got shocked at how she was behaving and became angry. which was wrong as I should not have been shocked because the things I have been taught maybe different to what she was taught and also everyone doesn't have the same mindset. I understand that now.
Hmm, yeah I really think it also has a lot to do with the way we are raised. That's why I think Muslim parents (our generation anyway) should take the time and think how they are raising their children. We try to teach our children how to avoid sinning by sinning some other way. It's mindblowing to me. I think we really should think about our behavior and how we should teach our children. It starts with education. We need to understand that there are 2 billion of us. Islam is a wide religion that can be understood differently so your way is your way but not necessarily everyones way. Does it make sense? I feel like we often forget that. But I'm glad that you realized it soon enough and maybe InshAllah your actions can help other people see Islam in a better way :)
I legit feel insecure about my hijab ever since I started blogging. The amount of hate comments coming from ''muslims''. There is much more to modesty than just covering up, it is also what is in the heart which many fail to understand.
+Manoosa Far Yea, everyone is a critic online sigh... don't let it get to you, try to brush it off. In Islam, there is a huge emphasis on our intention and people who criticize really need to look in themselves and reflect on the intention of their 'advice'. Stay strong love ❤
+Manoosa Far it is easy to comment online, especially because there is no seeable emotional response, they actually even feel right to tell you but instead these comments making the hearts hard and the ears closed ... talk to people who love you about it, i think that helps a lot to let out the negativity, don't let these comments change you negatively
Totally agree with you. People forget that the most important thing is one's character. I don't understand how someone can have the audacity to say that someone's going to hell when literally only Allah swt knows. (That's appearently even a kind of act of shirk as you'd see yourself in the same position as god, being able to judge & predict what happens to the person). And then to swear by His name too, astaghfirullah. So yeah do you Habiba, may Allah bless you and may He guide us all:)
I think what your cousin said is wrong to stop wearing make-up for the sake of people but! For the sake of Allaah its right. I am sure you are Ma shaa Allaah stunning without those products and will look beautiful with make up when only your spouse sees you wearing it! Love you for the sake of Allaah swt
I agree with you on the most part, but tell me what the hijab is and what it stands for? The whole purpose of the hijab is to divert attention but if you're looking extremely attractive while wearing the hijab causing men to look then you're the reason that fellow brother has just gained a sin. I mean, yeah it is his fault for looking but that's the whole point of the hijab they're not supposed to want to look. I've seen A LOT of non muslim men fetishize hijabis?? I've actually seen comments (both in real life and online) from non muslim men saying how they prefer middle eastern women to be hijabis so they can 'find out what's underneath' or how 'hijabis have stepped up their game'... They're not supposed to feel this way or feel aroused by hijabi women at all it defeats the entire purpose of the hijab. I'm in no way judging anyone but our sisters need to dress carefully because while yes, you are you own individual and Allah will judge each person on their own but we are still a community and what each member of our community does will reflect that community.
+Haneen z Why are you putting the blame of men's gazing and fetishisation on hijab-wearing women? doesn't really make sense. Those men themselves should be guarding their gaze, whether a woman wears makeup or not, she is still beautiful. The hijab is not going to make a woman unattractive.. They're not supposed to feel aroused because of a piece of material? It doesn't defeat the purpose.. the angle you're looking at the hijab from is very superficial.. When the prophet Muhammad (PBUH) himself saw a man gazing at a woman he told the man to lower his gaze.. he didn't tell the woman to cover.
Habiba Da Silva Men wouldn't feel the need to fetishize hijabis if hijabis know what THE hijab is. The hijab is more than just a cloth on the head but it does start with how we look. When we first see someone our first judgment is based on their looks. To an extent yes modesty is about the way someone acts but that's not the first thing we see so how are we supposed to know said person is 'modest'? I've seen so many 'sexy hijab' tutorials on youtube' like what? Why is a hijabi trying to be sexy? That's where fetishizing comes from. And while yeah I agree men should be lowering their gaze but women should also dress respectfully. The quran points to both these things and even if men do look that's their fault and their sin but that doesn't give me the right to act how I want and blame the fault on someone else. I'll do what I'm supposed to and if men still look then it's not my fault. I did my half and that's it. On judgment day when we all stand in front of Allah I'll be able to say I did my part. What is the point of wearing a hijab (the literal material on the head) if you are dressed and look the same way a non-hijabi is with the exception of the material on your head? I really do love you Habiba and I respect you and agree with most of what you said in this video but I still think some hijabis need to be more aware of the purpose of the hijab
+Haneen z the only person responsible for a man looking at a woman, is the man. The Prophet Muhammad SAW would turn the face of his companion away when he caught him staring at a woman, he didn't tell the woman to cover herself.
I guess both are right. While Habiba looks really lovely and modest with all her makeup and dresses, there are still popular hijabis that wear skinny jeans and short top with like 2/3 sleeve which makes them look like any other girl out there. But it is NOBODIES BUSINESS to worry about it or judge out loud.
I hate the hypocrisy when muslims complain about the tightness of a hijabis skirt or little bit of her hair showing which is obvs wrong but these same people dont seem to have a problem with muslim guy youtubers freely mixing/having girlfriends etc. Also people may be at a different stage than you e.g i find it perfectly easy to cover up properly etc but thats cos i've spent years in that "transition" period. I now have other things to work on definitely but us as people are quick to judge as we dont know others struggles/intentions which is saddd!
Also just because you wear hijab doesnt meant you can instantly turn the haram switch off and the halal one on and make no mistakes at all. People need to look in themselves and even advising, you can privately dm or send an email etc in a nice and decent way that seems sincere instead of trying to seem more pious!
I love this. The amount of times I've considered taking my hijab off because of others commenting on how I wear it and so on is so sad. Women should just learn to empower each other instead of being each other's biggest critics. It's not a competition 🙄
+Ash Khan As +justanotherservant xxx said, Alhamdulillah for sticking by your Islamic judgement! Unfortunately, because of this time of modern society, those who do not have correct belief of modesty can be majorly influential upon us. Although, we have to remember that we are all brothers and sisters in Islam. Support one another! As muslims, it is our duty to advise other muslims so they can have as much Taqwa as possible but that does not give them the authority to criticize or threaten you or make you feel in such a way that you should not wear a hijab, niqab etc. in a certain way. xx
+hajara abdul Yeah sometimes I feel like I'll be on IG forever if I were to confront all the judgemental people that I had come across. By the way, you're really pretty mashallah.
This talk is a very needed subject that we have to discuss as an Ummah. There is such a disregard for the journey and people are so quick to judge. I started wearing the hijab a year ago yesterday and if someone decided to come up and critique my "modesty" then I'd be very discouraged.
I am a Christian and I strongly agree with you Habiba. I remember the first time I saw a muslimah picture she had the most beautiful nail only to find a comment from a Muslim girl saying her nails was not modest😳. Love is key in correcting others.
Great video you are so right, people should judge themselves first and being modest is for me that someone should have a clean heart and should be nice to other humans but the world gets more and more bad because of people like this thats so sad 😓
Girl I LOVE. YOU. Like I swear i dont have enough words to tell you how much i loved this video. It's unbelievably shocking how people judge others basing on superficial facts, like fo real, where is this gonna end?
This is the most realist thing I have ever heard! I am so glad that someone has actually said something about this, I don't understand how someone can Judge someone though social media. I stand with you girl 💁🏼❤️
YAAAS Habiba tell dem, finally someone said it. i want to say that you are one of my top inspiration hijabi ladies i love how you carry yourself, love yourself and treat yourself with FOOD HAHAHAHAHA. you inspire me to try new things and also to travel more, THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING , jazakallahkhayr.
Well said Habiba!!! This is totally right and I feel the exact same way...I see it on social media and I don't think it's right at all. We should motivate them to keep it up, not the other way round. Masha'Allah for doing this....this was well said. ❤️
Thank you so much for venting! lol I agree 100% with what you said. Although we can also think about that person who made those judgements as probably someone who has been conditioned deeply to do so when they were younger by their families perhaps, and society as well like media. That person may also be going through a tough time, however that's still no excuse to display that much judgement on one person! :)
I love you so much because you're always honest, and I believe what you're saying here is so true! I wish there were more people like you, judging really is not gonna make any of us a better human being. Neither is saying things about hell or heaven in realtion to a specific person, no human being knows about it because none of us knows how we are going to be judged on our final day, by the Only One who has the right to judge us. Thank you so much for making this video, I hope a lot of people will see your video and think by themselfs about your wise words. Lots of love from the Netherlands 💞
And this is why I LOVE your channel! you speak the realest despite what others may think. keep doing you, no matter how great your doing there will always be someone trying to discourage you, its sad!
LOVVVEEEEDDDDD this video! The message you portrayed through this video is so so meaningful and it's definitely something we should all learn from! Modesty is not all about how an individual looks on the outside, it's so much more to that and some of us just fail to understand how important that is. #habibatalks videos are my favv, I can listen to you rant for hours! Keep up your amazing work Habiba xxxx
Habiba you spoke! And don't forget, IF you do it the right way, giving naseeha/advice, then you should not expect these particular person to listen to you. It is their choice to take your advice, so just hope for the best and don't expect anything from that person. May Allah bless you Habiba, you are amazing, always staying positive and please always be like that! We love you
I love these types of videos so much Habiba. You are really inspirational. And you're a role model to so many young Muslim girls. Please keep doing these videos.
So much truth in this video!!! I always get the "What's the point of wearing the hijab if you're gonna wear makeup" comments (and those are the more polite comments lol) or things like "you're still a Kaffir because you wear makeup"- As someone who is new to the religion and new to wearing the hijab, it's really disheartening to see this from my fellow muslims. It's something I foolishly did not anticipate before being open about my conversion - because I knew that I would get hate from non- muslims but I did not expect the level of judgement I would get from fellow "muslims". I hate hearing people criticize the muslimahs here on youtube and say that what they're doing isn't islamic - I watched your videos and other muslimah's before converting and it's people like you and your videos that showed me that I don't have to wear a niqab, wear black all the time...etc to be a muslim and wear a hijab. That message is so important because I and I'm sure a lot of other people were under that impression that THAT was the only way to wear the hijab and couldn't commit to something like that at this point and especially in the beginning. Your message and image is one that is inviting to people who want to learn more about Islam. If people really think that calling other people Kaffirs and insulting them in public and judging them by what they are wearing is the right thing to do - then I feel so sorry for them because in the end, they will be the one who will get judged for their actions.
Thank you so much sis for putting this out, unfortunately our society is brain washed with all this crap I don't even get it maybe is just bullying or just jealousy that is making them all mad we just pray may Allah swt be with them and make them understand something subhnannah #habibatalks
GIRL TELL THEMMMMM! you just made my day I literally was bout to cry watching you because I see how some people judge my mom on her look just because she's wearing hejab they give her dirty look it really bothers me and make me really mad because my mom have smile on her face 24/7 she dress nice so there is no reason why they give her that look ... And I hate how people use to judge me on my clothes or what I wear they kept saying " you going to hell" like it's something between me & God !! But thank you so much this video make me feel better ♥️
Your words are wise indeed. Love from singapore and i would love to hear more of this topics cmg from u! Such inspiration habiba, love from singapore ❤️
Yass Habibi i understand you, Instead of hating we should speak polite and guide them and make dua when we want to help them not doing wrong. we cant attack hate with hate This video is so powerfull xx
+Danya S its everything :D i read this comment with such a beautiful quote: "the way a women dresses, is not an epitome of modesty ^ ^" i think sister Habiba also mentioned it xoxo
Preach!. 100 % agree. Especially around the bit where Muslims in general don't treat other Muslims right and the resulting negative image we then subsequently portray to none Muslims , and worse, potential muslims. You keep doing you Habiba x
Your so beautiful habiba (mashallah)I totally agree with you, everytime I be on Instagram there's hate comments flying everywhere like come on people have feeling too and your probably effecting them more then you think you are. Love you xoxo
So many great points here that I've always tried to express to others too. I really, really hope that the people who are being so judgemental actually watch this video and realise that they're not helping
Habibah u are beautiful and I think ur amazing and I'm proud of u. Don't let any haters get u down. stand tall and know that Allah is with u and that's all u need.
Mashallah Habiba. I really agree with you and you put this very well. Subhanallah I really think this is a subject that really needed to be talked about and addressed. I think that these days unfortunately many people judge others by the way they look and not what is within their hearts and minds. 'Never judge a book by its cover' mainly because we don't know the person properly and we don't know what exactly is going on in their life. Subhanallah the arrogance of our sisters these days are unbelievable. May Allah save us from being among the arrogant. May Allah forgive all our sins. May Allah guide us all on the path to Jannah. Ameen.
THANKYOU HABIBA!!!! this reminds me of this girl in my college, i walked past her and she comments on my dress sense saying "why cant muslim girls dress properly" yes i was wearing tight clothes and a hijab but she didn't need to say this in front of other girls. it really annoyed me because she was wearing a hijab and a jilbab. but not everybody is perfect like a few weeks ago someone showed me her Instagram pictures and in all her pictures she was not wearing a hijab and instead had loads of makeup on and her hair opened. yes i know I'm not one to judge astagfirullah may allah swt forgive me but it got to me how she comments on me but i did not say anything to her! may allah swt forgive us both!
I am just now watching this video and I couldn't agree more. Many Muslims, as you said, have grown to judge others on very superficial matters such as dress and looks. It really defeats the whole purpose of Islam and its teachings and I applaud you for coming out and making this video. It's really important that we as an ummah can get along and not judge each other. That way, people who are sinning can learn that their sins are wrong comfortably and not feel openly ridiculed and embarrassed by it. Thank you so much Habiba.
Stay strong Habiba 💪😊 Its between u & Allah. Remember let them say what they want to say. Its also between them & Allah. Allah made everyone not perfect. Just Dua alot. May Allah easy ur task. Insha Allah,Ameen. You've got my back Habiba !! 💖
I really agree in the point you said about how Muslims interact with each other's not all Muslims for sure but I feel very sad that some people like bringing other people down Loved the video ❤️❤️
🙌🏽 HABIBA GURL, this is by far my favourite Habiba Talks video you've done!! You really wow-ed me with how well you've spoken about this issue, and I even see myself nodding to what you have to say throughout the video. I live in a multicultural society, and a lot of the times I feel the need to remind my non-Muslim friends that even though I wear the hijab, it doesn't make more any much more of a "better" Muslim that those girls who don't wear it. Keep doing you girl. Much love all the way from Singapore 💞
So glad to have found your channel! I'm Also a fellow sister ! (I'm Muslim too lol) and I agree with everything you said in this video! I just can't believe other Muslim women would put down and say such bad & horrible things about a fellow Muslim woman! Doesn't make Sense ! Inshallah they realise they are in the wrong! Loved your video !
I absolutely love this video! The things you are saying, are so true. It's sad to see how some muslims try to tear each other down, by saying bad words and talk negative when we actually should spread positivity. I remember when I once read, that no muslim is allowed tell an other muslim that he/she is going to hell. Because only Allah knows that, and you should not wish someone to go to hell. Awesome video btw! You've gained another subscriber 👍🏼💜
this is the sick soceity we are living in everyone blames the othere and no one wants to fix the other , selfish we have become , i totaly agree with you habiba even if its not about modesty , in general people sould advice each other with respect , keep it up biba xo
I loooooove the way hijabis dress!! Literally they slay my life bc it's like u can still look that bomb without showing an inch of skin! That's winning in life to me lol
+Ely Blanco ur so adorable!!
+Ely Blanco we need more ppl like u xoxoxo
+Ely Blanco Mashallah what a nice comment 💖
The saddest part is that, these are mainly muslims who are insulting and criticizing eachother. Its pathetic.
so true. I'm not going to lie if i saw a hijabi and she was wearing tight clothes i'd used to instantly think oh shes not muslim. How utterly narrow minded I was, Islam is in the heart after all and were all so busy judging people for their outside apearances.
+Paris Sheppard true dat
Very true. It really is pathetic and it disgusts me because this defeats the purpose of our religion. Islam is peace and we can't even show peace and kidness to our fellow brothers and sisters of Islam.
you're right, Instagram :(
hanaa mohammed
Become a Christian and be free of condemnation or judgement from mere humans and makes what you say true. Only God has the right to judge you in your conscience and correct you by His Spirit in your spirit.
Romans 8:1-2! 33-34 Bible (TLB)
8 So there is now no condemnation awaiting those who belong to Christ Jesus. 2 For the power of the life-giving Spirit-and this power is mine through Christ Jesus-has freed me from the vicious circle of sin and death.
Romans 8:33-34Living Bible (TLB)
33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? Will God? No! He is the one who has forgiven us and given us right standing with himself.
34 Who then will condemn us? Will Christ? No! For he is the one who died for us and came back to life again for us and is sitting at the place of highest honor next to God, pleading for us there in heaven.
No one judges Muslims more than other muslims, It really shouldn't be that way, we should uplift and encourage each other, cause none of us are God!!!
You are so beautiful, Thank you for making this video.
Wallah your right! I find that to be true too the majority of Muslims do judge others, the prophets never did that so what gives others the right too
Judging is bad, however advising another muslim is a must. I think a lot of advise online comes across judgemental because it is in written form. Im sure those that are advising have the best intentions. There should be nothing but love for one another. Just like a mother advises her children. Might sound harsh but she has your best interest xx
+Fatu Medina i thought so too, and then i was on a christian preecher's site and its not true anymore .. people get heated when it comes about something really loved and imp. to them, so i guess judging is just a try to protect what u love .. and thats with most muslims the case x
+pauliute of that's the case then the can send her a private message.
Fatu Madina
Become a Christian and be free of condemnation or judgement from mere humans and makes what you say true. Only God has the right to judge you in your conscience and by His Spirit inside of you.
Romans 8:1-2! 33-34 Bible (TLB)
8 So there is now no condemnation awaiting those who belong to Christ Jesus. 2 For the power of the life-giving Spirit-and this power is mine through Christ Jesus-has freed me from the vicious circle of sin and death.
Romans 8:33-34Living Bible (TLB)
33 Who dares accuse us whom God has chosen for his own? Will God? No! He is the one who has forgiven us and given us right standing with himself.
34 Who then will condemn us? Will Christ? No! For he is the one who died for us and came back to life again for us and is sitting at the place of highest honor next to God, pleading for us there in heaven.
Wearing a hijab does not mean we magically become an angel. Its just a requirement for muslim women in the same way as fasting and praying salah is. Its better to wear hijab and try because we arent ever going to be perfect. I hate when people say things to me because i wear a hijab...do i confront them about not praying or fasting? We should all stick together and chill out. Legit life is too short to be mean and bitter. We should first be good people and focus on ourselves because we arent going to be perfect so we have our own faults to correct. Love this video hun thank you for putting it out there xxx
+321SalmaR
u've said it all!!!! :)
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I recently converted to Islam and prior to converting I started watching a lot of Muslim youtubers. The extremely judgmental comments I always say almost turned me off converting because I didn't want to bring that judgement upon myself, and thought that if this is the Muslim community than I won't belong there. Alhamdullilah Allah's call was stronger than those sad voices. You and other youtubers speaking out against this behaviour helped me to feel ready to convert and wear the hijab mashAllah.
Inshaallah Allah will make it easy for you❤️❤️
+miso 360 I'm really glad that everyone is supportive of you and I hope they'll continue to be💖
+miso 360 mashallah im so proud of you! welcome to islam my beautiful sister! islam is so peaceful, enjoy the ride :*
Thank you very much! I already feel so much more at peace alhamdullilah
WELL SAID MASHALLAH!! may allah grant everyone jannah inshallah is more like what we sholud be saying ameen
everyone is wish but I don't think it's going to happen. all we can say is ameen.
Ameeeeeeen
I was screming YASSSS, TELL DEM!! to my screen while watching this. I've wanted to make a video about this for the longest. Very well spoken Habiba.
+Belle Michelle Thanks loooooovvveee!
+Habiba Da Silva I Love You So Much Habiba. just ignore these ignorant people, they don't have anything else to do. keep doing what you doing, caz that what makes you special and beautiful. KEEP SHINING !!!!
+Habiba Da Silva The World is NOT ready for you , Habiba ..lol ..You are a very Unique individual ..Btw , One more Rant Video , and I will be forced to Propose .. :)
*****
Will it surprise you to know that most people that follow these "Fashionista RUclips hijabis" , as you call them - ARE NOT EVEN MUSLIMS , and don't care to be one ? Especially considering how judgmental the religion can be ..
+timekkhan2012 nigga don't comment ur false economical views about the youtube modesty fashion industry they are not needed on habiba's video or anyone's else , that's irrelevant now just get tf outta the comments
another thing is that muslim brothers NEED to stop pretending/thinking that they actually know what their Muslim sisters go through! you cant tell us how to deal with a problem that you yourself do not face! There are SO many hardships and struggles that hijabis and Muslim women go through and you would not understand because you are not us. You have no idea. Stop thinking you do, you don't.
Spot on!!
Well said.
They also need to stop blaming women for THEIR OWN lack of self control it's just pathetic.
Medina Onn yessss I hate it when Muslim men tell me my hijab isn't modest enough or how I dress or whatever it's like excuse me mate you're walking around in a singlet and shorts and I'm sitting here in Australian summer heat totally wrapped up in a scarf and my whole body covered and I have a few fly always coming out my scarf and IM THE IMMODEST ONE?? Right now I'm struggling with my hijab and I've just been wearing it looser and there's a little hair showing a little neck showing and I feel guilty but I need to do it like this for a while or I'll get so frustrated with it I'll just take it off all together! And it's better to wear it than not wear it at all I think. Allah knows my intention. Leave the judgements up to Allah.
Whatever Habiba is saying is saying this video is 100% true we should all get along. But unfortunately I used to be one of those people who used to judge others on how they should be acting in islam. that is until someone told me who am I to take on the role of God. and that's what opened my eyes and now I realise how wrong was to judge others. its about the intention and only Allah knows what a person intends.
Can you maybe explain why you used to be like that? I'm just curious.
+Mona Ali yes well because I was taught that if you are a Muslim women you should behave a certain way and if you didn't you would get punished. I didn't want that person to get punished and wanted her to correct herself. Instead of explaining to her nicely I just got shocked at how she was behaving and became angry. which was wrong as I should not have been shocked because the things I have been taught maybe different to what she was taught and also everyone doesn't have the same mindset. I understand that now.
Hmm, yeah I really think it also has a lot to do with the way we are raised. That's why I think Muslim parents (our generation anyway) should take the time and think how they are raising their children. We try to teach our children how to avoid sinning by sinning some other way. It's mindblowing to me. I think we really should think about our behavior and how we should teach our children. It starts with education. We need to understand that there are 2 billion of us. Islam is a wide religion that can be understood differently so your way is your way but not necessarily everyones way. Does it make sense? I feel like we often forget that. But I'm glad that you realized it soon enough and maybe InshAllah your actions can help other people see Islam in a better way :)
+Mona Ali yh yh definitely
+Zaynub whichismoii LOOK AT YOUR HARAM PHOTO...WITH SATANIC HAIR...ASTAGFURULLAH..WOE TO YOU.
I legit feel insecure about my hijab ever since I started blogging. The amount of hate comments coming from ''muslims''. There is much more to modesty than just covering up, it is also what is in the heart which many fail to understand.
+Manoosa Far Yea, everyone is a critic online sigh... don't let it get to you, try to brush it off. In Islam, there is a huge emphasis on our intention and people who criticize really need to look in themselves and reflect on the intention of their 'advice'. Stay strong love ❤
+Manoosa Far it is easy to comment online, especially because there is no seeable emotional response, they actually even feel right to tell you but instead these comments making the hearts hard and the ears closed ... talk to people who love you about it, i think that helps a lot to let out the negativity, don't let these comments change you negatively
Totally agree with you. People forget that the most important thing is one's character. I don't understand how someone can have the audacity to say that someone's going to hell when literally only Allah swt knows. (That's appearently even a kind of act of shirk as you'd see yourself in the same position as god, being able to judge & predict what happens to the person). And then to swear by His name too, astaghfirullah.
So yeah do you Habiba, may Allah bless you and may He guide us all:)
Soo right. can u imagine my cousin told me to stop using makeup bcos people will have a bad perception about me. for real????
I think what your cousin said is wrong to stop wearing make-up for the sake of people but! For the sake of Allaah its right. I am sure you are Ma shaa Allaah stunning without those products and will look beautiful with make up when only your spouse sees you wearing it! Love you for the sake of Allaah swt
+Saida Jawad I agree
I agree with you on the most part, but tell me what the hijab is and what it stands for? The whole purpose of the hijab is to divert attention but if you're looking extremely attractive while wearing the hijab causing men to look then you're the reason that fellow brother has just gained a sin. I mean, yeah it is his fault for looking but that's the whole point of the hijab they're not supposed to want to look. I've seen A LOT of non muslim men fetishize hijabis?? I've actually seen comments (both in real life and online) from non muslim men saying how they prefer middle eastern women to be hijabis so they can 'find out what's underneath' or how 'hijabis have stepped up their game'... They're not supposed to feel this way or feel aroused by hijabi women at all it defeats the entire purpose of the hijab. I'm in no way judging anyone but our sisters need to dress carefully because while yes, you are you own individual and Allah will judge each person on their own but we are still a community and what each member of our community does will reflect that community.
+Haneen z Why are you putting the blame of men's gazing and fetishisation on hijab-wearing women? doesn't really make sense. Those men themselves should be guarding their gaze, whether a woman wears makeup or not, she is still beautiful. The hijab is not going to make a woman unattractive..
They're not supposed to feel aroused because of a piece of material?
It doesn't defeat the purpose.. the angle you're looking at the hijab from is very superficial..
When the prophet Muhammad (PBUH) himself saw a man gazing at a woman he told the man to lower his gaze.. he didn't tell the woman to cover.
Habiba Da Silva Men wouldn't feel the need to fetishize hijabis if hijabis know what THE hijab is. The hijab is more than just a cloth on the head but it does start with how we look. When we first see someone our first judgment is based on their looks. To an extent yes modesty is about the way someone acts but that's not the first thing we see so how are we supposed to know said person is 'modest'? I've seen so many 'sexy hijab' tutorials on youtube' like what? Why is a hijabi trying to be sexy? That's where fetishizing comes from. And while yeah I agree men should be lowering their gaze but women should also dress respectfully. The quran points to both these things and even if men do look that's their fault and their sin but that doesn't give me the right to act how I want and blame the fault on someone else. I'll do what I'm supposed to and if men still look then it's not my fault. I did my half and that's it. On judgment day when we all stand in front of Allah I'll be able to say I did my part. What is the point of wearing a hijab (the literal material on the head) if you are dressed and look the same way a non-hijabi is with the exception of the material on your head? I really do love you Habiba and I respect you and agree with most of what you said in this video but I still think some hijabis need to be more aware of the purpose of the hijab
+Habiba Da Silva wonderful response, its sad to see muslim women willingly blaming themselves for the lack of self control some men may exhibit.
+Haneen z the only person responsible for a man looking at a woman, is the man. The Prophet Muhammad SAW would turn the face of his companion away when he caught him staring at a woman, he didn't tell the woman to cover herself.
I guess both are right. While Habiba looks really lovely and modest with all her makeup and dresses, there are still popular hijabis that wear skinny jeans and short top with like 2/3 sleeve which makes them look like any other girl out there. But it is NOBODIES BUSINESS to worry about it or judge out loud.
I hate the hypocrisy when muslims complain about the tightness of a hijabis skirt or little bit of her hair showing which is obvs wrong but these same people dont seem to have a problem with muslim guy youtubers freely mixing/having girlfriends etc. Also people may be at a different stage than you e.g i find it perfectly easy to cover up properly etc but thats cos i've spent years in that "transition" period. I now have other things to work on definitely but us as people are quick to judge as we dont know others struggles/intentions which is saddd!
Also just because you wear hijab doesnt meant you can instantly turn the haram switch off and the halal one on and make no mistakes at all. People need to look in themselves and even advising, you can privately dm or send an email etc in a nice and decent way that seems sincere instead of trying to seem more pious!
I love this. The amount of times I've considered taking my hijab off because of others commenting on how I wear it and so on is so sad. Women should just learn to empower each other instead of being each other's biggest critics. It's not a competition 🙄
Just remember its always between you an Allah Never between you and people. Let them talk it should only make you stronger. 💪🏼
+Ash Khan Alhamudulillah u didnt!! xoxoxo
+Ash Khan As +justanotherservant xxx said, Alhamdulillah for sticking by your Islamic judgement! Unfortunately, because of this time of modern society, those who do not have correct belief of modesty can be majorly influential upon us. Although, we have to remember that we are all brothers and sisters in Islam. Support one another! As muslims, it is our duty to advise other muslims so they can have as much Taqwa as possible but that does not give them the authority to criticize or threaten you or make you feel in such a way that you should not wear a hijab, niqab etc. in a certain way. xx
Alisha Batool im so sorry- i didnt rly get wat u meant lol- regarding my comment. but indeed i do agree and ur statement is very true :D
+justanotherservant xxx That's okay and thank you! xx
mashallah great video, also I couldn't stop staring at your eyebrows 😍😍
saaame
+Dina Albayati saaaame lol i was even moving mines with hers lol!
Yasss Habiba! I had to confront some people on an IG page yesterday because it was getting on my nerves
I don't get it...why can't people just exit the page or unfollow... NO ONE IS FORCING YOU STAY THERE
+hajara abdul Yeah sometimes I feel like I'll be on IG forever if I were to confront all the judgemental people that I had come across.
By the way, you're really pretty mashallah.
+LilMina basically😂💁
+PlainJay that's how I feel!!
+sohaila abdalla aww🙈 thank you☺
I'm actually in love with you Habiba, such an inspirational woman! ❤️
This talk is a very needed subject that we have to discuss as an Ummah. There is such a disregard for the journey and people are so quick to judge. I started wearing the hijab a year ago yesterday and if someone decided to come up and critique my "modesty" then I'd be very discouraged.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO - you are literally speaking my mind rn
I think Imam Ali (as) said if you see a Muslim brother or sister doing something you think is wrong make 72 excuses for them before you judge them.
seriously amazing video, the way you put your point across so respectfully is admirable ❤️
Fizzah A
I am a Christian and I strongly agree with you Habiba. I remember the first time I saw a muslimah picture she had the most beautiful nail only to find a comment from a Muslim girl saying her nails was not modest😳. Love is key in correcting others.
Great video you are so right, people should judge themselves first and being modest is for me that someone should have a clean heart and should be nice to other humans but the world gets more and more bad because of people like this thats so sad 😓
Girl I LOVE. YOU. Like I swear i dont have enough words to tell you how much i loved this video. It's unbelievably shocking how people judge others basing on superficial facts, like fo real, where is this gonna end?
This is the most realist thing I have ever heard! I am so glad that someone has actually said something about this, I don't understand how someone can Judge someone though social media. I stand with you girl 💁🏼❤️
YAAAS Habiba tell dem, finally someone said it. i want to say that you are one of my top inspiration hijabi ladies i love how you carry yourself, love yourself and treat yourself with FOOD HAHAHAHAHA. you inspire me to try new things and also to travel more, THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING , jazakallahkhayr.
Nothing but so much love and support for you and everything that you do! ❤️
Just discovered your channel. Love your message and I'm so glad you brought up this discussion. Very important. 👏👏👏 You do you girl!
Well said Habiba!!! This is totally right and I feel the exact same way...I see it on social media and I don't think it's right at all. We should motivate them to keep it up, not the other way round.
Masha'Allah for doing this....this was well said. ❤️
Was waiting till someone talked about this your talk was really genuine and well spoken Mashallah keep it up sistah 🙌🏽👏🏽
I feel like everyone needs to watch this.. couldn't have expressed this issue any better, jazak'Allah for this video.
I absolutely agree with you and really loved watching this video!! Your such an amazing person inside and out, Ma'sha'allah ❤️
Thank you so much for venting! lol I agree 100% with what you said. Although we can also think about that person who made those judgements as probably someone who has been conditioned deeply to do so when they were younger by their families perhaps, and society as well like media. That person may also be going through a tough time, however that's still no excuse to display that much judgement on one person! :)
I love you so much because you're always honest, and I believe what you're saying here is so true! I wish there were more people like you, judging really is not gonna make any of us a better human being. Neither is saying things about hell or heaven in realtion to a specific person, no human being knows about it because none of us knows how we are going to be judged on our final day, by the Only One who has the right to judge us. Thank you so much for making this video, I hope a lot of people will see your video and think by themselfs about your wise words. Lots of love from the Netherlands 💞
We need people like you to give a voice to a group of misunderstood people!! 💘
And this is why I LOVE your channel! you speak the realest despite what others may think. keep doing you, no matter how great your doing there will always be someone trying to discourage you, its sad!
LOVVVEEEEDDDDD this video! The message you portrayed through this video is so so meaningful and it's definitely something we should all learn from! Modesty is not all about how an individual looks on the outside, it's so much more to that and some of us just fail to understand how important that is. #habibatalks videos are my favv, I can listen to you rant for hours! Keep up your amazing work Habiba xxxx
Habiba you spoke! And don't forget, IF you do it the right way, giving naseeha/advice, then you should not expect these particular person to listen to you. It is their choice to take your advice, so just hope for the best and don't expect anything from that person. May Allah bless you Habiba, you are amazing, always staying positive and please always be like that! We love you
i've been through what you said and helped ppl go through that phase, i ship your opinion!
I love these types of videos so much Habiba. You are really inspirational. And you're a role model to so many young Muslim girls. Please keep doing these videos.
Greeeeaaaaat video!!! I COMPLETELY agree!
Thank you for saying this for everyone to see. Really hope it will have an impact :)
Love from Belgium
So much truth in this video!!! I always get the "What's the point of wearing the hijab if you're gonna wear makeup" comments (and those are the more polite comments lol) or things like "you're still a Kaffir because you wear makeup"- As someone who is new to the religion and new to wearing the hijab, it's really disheartening to see this from my fellow muslims. It's something I foolishly did not anticipate before being open about my conversion - because I knew that I would get hate from non- muslims but I did not expect the level of judgement I would get from fellow "muslims". I hate hearing people criticize the muslimahs here on youtube and say that what they're doing isn't islamic - I watched your videos and other muslimah's before converting and it's people like you and your videos that showed me that I don't have to wear a niqab, wear black all the time...etc to be a muslim and wear a hijab. That message is so important because I and I'm sure a lot of other people were under that impression that THAT was the only way to wear the hijab and couldn't commit to something like that at this point and especially in the beginning. Your message and image is one that is inviting to people who want to learn more about Islam. If people really think that calling other people Kaffirs and insulting them in public and judging them by what they are wearing is the right thing to do - then I feel so sorry for them because in the end, they will be the one who will get judged for their actions.
Thank u Habiba! Such a beautiful message.. Love u and support u ❤️
Well spoken habiba this video is beyond perfect. It's absolutely amazing what you hav done it shows the humanity and faith you have👏👏🙏💙❤️
Thank you for being so honest with us Habiba!.
I love ppl like you i really do!
Totally agree with you and proud of you 😊 Habeeba you go girl!!!
you are a kind person ma shaa Allah. I am sooo glad you post videos and will forever be subscribed peace
It's a God complex. Their the immodest ones.
*They're
That's actually so true!
this video is pure gold. thank you so much for uploading this!!
Habiba, you're such a beautiful soul 💕 May Allah bless you and grant you the best in this life and the next ✨
I'm so glad you've made a video about this, there are so many uneducated people around these days who need to be told! May Allah guide us x
Thank you so much sis for putting this out, unfortunately our society is brain washed with all this crap I don't even get it maybe is just bullying or just jealousy that is making them all mad we just pray may Allah swt be with them and make them understand something subhnannah #habibatalks
your opinion is so relevant and so influential in the way you're addressing those who are ignorant through intelligence - please keep making more X
So true, they don’t have the right to make that judgement. You are beautiful Masha’Allah.
Agree with you! Love your words .. Thank you sister.
GIRL TELL THEMMMMM! you just made my day I literally was bout to cry watching you because I see how some people judge my mom on her look just because she's wearing hejab they give her dirty look it really bothers me and make me really mad because my mom have smile on her face 24/7 she dress nice so there is no reason why they give her that look ... And I hate how people use to judge me on my clothes or what I wear they kept saying " you going to hell" like it's something between me & God !! But thank you so much this video make me feel better ♥️
Habiba be patient my dear I pray for you and pray for those rude people.. I can't agree more with what you've just said!
Can't imagine the hate u go through stay strong ❤️
Absolutley loved this video and please keep doing more of these #habibatalks inshallah. May Allah reward you. AMEEN.
Your words are wise indeed. Love from singapore and i would love to hear more of this topics cmg from u! Such inspiration habiba, love from singapore ❤️
needed this positive thinking today 👍 don't see it often. thanks habiba x
mashallah Habiba
Yass Habibi i understand you,
Instead of hating we should speak polite and guide them and make dua when we want to help them not doing wrong.
we cant attack hate with hate
This video is so powerfull xx
You're completely right habiba ❤ only Allah can judge us.
Thank u habiba. You're really entertaining us and I'm so happy that you're so honest. I like you very much. Much love from an Arab in Germany!:)
I totally agree with you sister May Allah protect you habiba❤️
Wallah habiba your so beautiful, well said i think people needed to hear this and it came out perfect ❤️🙌🏼
Modesty isn't about how you dress it how you carry yourself.. even your actions and speech. Just an FYI if someone forgot what she said.
+Danya S its everything :D i read this comment with such a beautiful quote: "the way a women dresses, is not an epitome of modesty ^ ^" i think sister Habiba also mentioned it xoxo
Masha Allah Habiba great video! Could you do a habibatalk about what you think about finding yourself and all this stuff?
+Nas Ass Could you maybe also do a habibatalk about the topic marriage in todays muslim society?
Preach!. 100 % agree. Especially around the bit where Muslims in general don't treat other Muslims right and the resulting negative image we then subsequently portray to none Muslims , and worse, potential muslims. You keep doing you Habiba x
Your so beautiful habiba (mashallah)I totally agree with you, everytime I be on Instagram there's hate comments flying everywhere like come on people have feeling too and your probably effecting them more then you think you are. Love you xoxo
So many great points here that I've always tried to express to others too. I really, really hope that the people who are being so judgemental actually watch this video and realise that they're not helping
Thank you for making this video habiba, i pray only good things for our ummah ❤️
i swear this needed to be said thanks habiba xx
go girl
love you
u r a true inspiration
u r a true role model to show ppl
that yes u can just rock the world by looking modest nd covering up
For real, you ladies are stunning!
omg i fully agree when i saw the comment i was shocked. well said Mash'Allah. well done Habiba.
Your words are completely right and I'm shocked someone said that about you.
Habibah u are beautiful and I think ur amazing and I'm proud of u. Don't let any haters get u down. stand tall and know that Allah is with u and that's all u need.
I couldnt even concentrate on what you were saying bc i couldnt stop looking at ur flawless face😻 ur goals habiba😭
Mashallah Habiba. I really agree with you and you put this very well. Subhanallah I really think this is a subject that really needed to be talked about and addressed. I think that these days unfortunately many people judge others by the way they look and not what is within their hearts and minds. 'Never judge a book by its cover' mainly because we don't know the person properly and we don't know what exactly is going on in their life. Subhanallah the arrogance of our sisters these days are unbelievable. May Allah save us from being among the arrogant. May Allah forgive all our sins. May Allah guide us all on the path to Jannah. Ameen.
THANKYOU HABIBA!!!! this reminds me of this girl in my college, i walked past her and she comments on my dress sense saying "why cant muslim girls dress properly" yes i was wearing tight clothes and a hijab but she didn't need to say this in front of other girls. it really annoyed me because she was wearing a hijab and a jilbab. but not everybody is perfect like a few weeks ago someone showed me her Instagram pictures and in all her pictures she was not wearing a hijab and instead had loads of makeup on and her hair opened. yes i know I'm not one to judge astagfirullah may allah swt forgive me but it got to me how she comments on me but i did not say anything to her! may allah swt forgive us both!
Youre so beautiful! And you inspire me with the things you do on youtube. Love from holland🍀
I am just now watching this video and I couldn't agree more. Many Muslims, as you said, have grown to judge others on very superficial matters such as dress and looks. It really defeats the whole purpose of Islam and its teachings and I applaud you for coming out and making this video. It's really important that we as an ummah can get along and not judge each other. That way, people who are sinning can learn that their sins are wrong comfortably and not feel openly ridiculed and embarrassed by it. Thank you so much Habiba.
OMG this video was great Mashallah. God Bless You Habiba. Ameen😊
Amazing as always, Habiba! MashaAllah! Love you so much my dear.
Stay strong Habiba 💪😊 Its between u & Allah. Remember let them say what they want to say. Its also between them & Allah. Allah made everyone not perfect. Just Dua alot. May Allah easy ur task. Insha Allah,Ameen. You've got my back Habiba !! 💖
I really agree in the point you said about how Muslims interact with each other's not all Muslims for sure but I feel very sad that some people like bringing other people down
Loved the video ❤️❤️
Habiba yes I agree with you , judge people without knowing them it is a mistake
it is God who decides who goes to hell
love you bella
🙌🏽 HABIBA GURL, this is by far my favourite Habiba Talks video you've done!! You really wow-ed me with how well you've spoken about this issue, and I even see myself nodding to what you have to say throughout the video. I live in a multicultural society, and a lot of the times I feel the need to remind my non-Muslim friends that even though I wear the hijab, it doesn't make more any much more of a "better" Muslim that those girls who don't wear it. Keep doing you girl. Much love all the way from Singapore 💞
This is good advice I say this to myself and others we are all equal doesn't matter what'r u wear it's about the heart , just give good advices
Alhamudullilah for ur existence habiba...seriously💖💖💖💪🏼
So glad to have found your channel! I'm
Also a fellow sister ! (I'm
Muslim too lol) and I agree with everything you said in this video! I just can't believe other Muslim women would put down and say such bad & horrible things about a fellow Muslim woman! Doesn't make Sense ! Inshallah they realise they are in the wrong! Loved your video !
you basically just took the words out of my mouth. I love you girl!
You are sooo true. People should never judge people about the way they dress because that has got nothing to do with your modesty
Well said! Yes!
Some people really need to step back and look a little closer at what their actually doing.
I absolutely love this video! The things you are saying, are so true. It's sad to see how some muslims try to tear each other down, by saying bad words and talk negative when we actually should spread positivity. I remember when I once read, that no muslim is allowed tell an other muslim that he/she is going to hell. Because only Allah knows that, and you should not wish someone to go to hell.
Awesome video btw! You've gained another subscriber 👍🏼💜
I absolutely love the fact that your giving other RUclipsrs a Shoutout.
this is the sick soceity we are living in everyone blames the othere and no one wants to fix the other , selfish we have become , i totaly agree with you habiba even if its not about modesty , in general people sould advice each other with respect , keep it up biba xo