Flora Cash - You're Somebody Else - Lyrics
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- I saw the part of you
That only when you're older you will see too
You will see too
I held the better cards
But every stroke of luck has got a bleed through
It's got a bleed through
You held the balance of the time
That only blindly I could read you
But I could read you
It's like you told me
Go forward slowly
It's not a race to the end
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
You were the better part
Of every bit of beating heart that I had
Whatever I had
I finally sat alone
Pitch black flesh and bone
Couldn't believe that you were gone
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Where are we?
Where are we?
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
I saw the part of you that only when you're older
You will see too, you will see too
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does anyone just not know who they are anymore.
Literally me. I don’t even know who I am anymore
Me
Smiling but crying? It iez what it iez
Yes :/
Yeah, yeah
....
i'd do anything to hear this song again for the first time.
same🙏
it’s my first time hearing this song right now.
@@Nobodylolidk hope u cherished it
This is my first time listening to this
im hearing it for the first time 🥺
This song goes out to every child that was once happy but went through too much as they grew up and it broke them. I am one of those
Me too
Dusy and madi, if i may offer some advice? Get an animal. I have a cat and he is good at sensing when i am overly dark. When i don't have him, i claw my wrists. I didn't have him for a while and the last time i self-harmed, the marks lasted over a week
I was beaten as a child, had my heart shattered multiple times, was bullied for being gay, and every time my father got angry and abusive he always lied and said he wouldn't do it again
Dusty i definitely will
Me too x)
I have some mild trauma from mental health issues, and I used to cry to this song every night imagining the same thing; That one day I would find someone who understands what I’m going through. Someone who has delt with the things I went through. Back then it seemed like a fantasy, but I’m never gonna give up trying to find them. If you read this, thank you so much. It felt so good to type this out. I wish you the best.
Man i absolutely relate to the first thing you said in your comment, i used to cry to this song bc of my mental health, I’ve gotten better now Wbu?
I wish nothing but clear skies and sunshine, stability and contentment for you my friend. Godspeed on your journey.
I’m just gonna leave this here; I used to do this sort of thing too, I think it’s pretty common to want to be loved so deeply & passionately. However I have found that the best thing I can do for myself is love myself that deeply & passionately, than my partner (even if it doesn’t work out, with 100% confidence can say I gave it my all) & in return that love will come back to me, and it has. Although my husband sometimes struggles to show how deep his feelings are, I know without doubt he does love me that deep too.
Good luck on your journey.
True happiness & success comes from loving yourself fully. Than spreading that love to others until they can love themselves. 💜
i’m not the same person i once was. i’ve completely lost myself
Rileigh Sowards i think i feel you too much
irina zam i look in the mirror and it’s someone completely different. i get chills just looking at who i think i am.
Same
i’ll never talk to you ever again so why is life so fucked? everything is trash and these thoughts in my head push me so far and i can’t take it it just sucks so bad
same
The worst part, is when you lose yourself. You don’t even notice.
Its sad isnt it
Those trials are the worst. Youre never the same person after they're done.
Lost Soul ive been thru this but ive found myself again because the amazing ppl ive met ❤️😊i hope you’re okay
Sometimes, it's the best way to really find yourself.
Just go out there and see what reactions you overcome when doing new things or meeting new people (all kind, avoid pre-judgements). Try that activity you always thought you would be good at. Don´t stuck in home and, please, be careful with drugs and other vices.
Targets: Destroy your ego, love what you do and the people you´r with. If there´s somebody out there who your heart asks you to take action, please do it.
Perhaps you would benefit reading the book "The power of intention - Wayne Dyer", or his first book which is a bestseller.
Tight hug!
It's one of those songs that doesn't just make you feel sad, but deeper
EDIT: woah tysm for the likes! if anyone is going through a rough patch at the moment just hang in there, you got this and i love + support you
Milly Geoffrey exactlyyy
It’s a song that you start off vibing to because of the beat then by the end of it your crying into your pillow questioning yourself deeply
The Revengers exactly 😭
Exactly my thoughts.
I’m too numb to feel anything anymore
Parents: you're fine you're not depressed
School: stop being lazy
Friends: wtf is wrong with you
Music: fuck the world we will get through this
Basically the same with me I understand you
Fr
:(( man I feel this lmao
mom : stop faking being sad
“Friends” : your boring
school : I don’t care
Music : I understand you
Sad truth: everybody thinks ur just being dramatic, that's the reason why tons of people take their lives
Kashy Sergio yes that’s the worst part but this is life you know some people are gonna hate and some people are gonna understand you visically
Kashy Sergio you just explained my whole life
Absolutely.
facts....
This is dedicated to that one best friend we’ve all had. The one that changed and never will be the same.
i’ve never had a best friends how do you find them ?? cos i could really use on ngl
Nobody change, they just become more of what they actually are.
totally agree ...
I need hugs
No it fits the one who got you pregnant, and he talked you into keeping it. Now it's just a bottomless pit of why are we doing this?
it's sadder when you realise you're the one who changed...
EDIT:
You'll never be this young again.
if life's shit, smile &learn to see the good side. it passes. you can be happy if you really want to be.
its not a bad thing to change. you grow, you lose friends, you find new ones, you do better. LIVE :)
Facts ):
It's ture
This just made me realize I’ve changed I feel like I don’t even try anymore
*youre
@@lewis7909 no need to correct someone's spelling,people on this comment section are already struggling.... dont add to it.
For people who are already struggling getting their spellings corrected could be the last straw.......
*"Never regret a day in your life. Good days give happiness, bad days give experience, worst days give lessons, and best days give memories." -Unknown*
Even it seems like every day is a horrible day, I promise it gets better. Stay strong, and you've got this.
Thanks for the encouragement
Beautiful and so true,but you n only you can decide how you will make and take your day u can see bad or u can see a life lesson hopefully learned
I wish my parents would understand depression isn’t a trend....I’m laying in bed not wanting to live and my parents are yelling at me for not cleaning the house.....
Edit: ☺️thank you for all the likes and for everyone checking in on me I’m doing so much better now and I’m focused more on my health my parents understand my depression now and I have a kind and loving boyfriend who helps me through my dark days, I also have a service cat he helps when he hears me having panic attacks ❤️
Edit #2 lmao he left me soooo I’m back here again
Felt this, or I'm not doing enough. All I do is sleep
Depression isn't a trend, its a mood. A feeling pretty much. Some people have it harder, but when you are depressed, it's not forever, it might just come and go, and repeat
Ax999 yet parents don’t seem to understand that
@@Mommykitten420 yep
I'm really sorry you have to deal with this.
Quote: "Killing yourself doesn't end the depression it passes it to someone else."
I don’t know what to do I’m so scared about my future sometimes I feel like that’s the only way :(
@@elinorcook6386 there is other ways I know you're lost but you only want to be found. Wait for that moment something will come someday.
@@kashysergio7392 thank you this is the first time someone has actually given me advice it means a lot xx
@@elinorcook6386 np. Always here to help someone 😁
I've been seriously considering it lately. This is making me think twice.
I hate thinking about younger me. Because i know younger me would be so disapointed in how I've changed... And how i treat myself.
I need to stop reading all these comments I’m crying sm right now, anyway I wish you the best in life ❤️
@@milkxtea4111 awwww baby im sorry and i wish u the best well. I love you and know that you are good enough and dont let anyone tell u different. Look for the light in things when you feel like you have nothing left. You're beautiful in every way. *hugs*💕💕
me to
@@itachiuchiha3898 ❤❤
@Sebastian Llamas 😣😔💓thank you so much love.
I wish you guys were my family I'm not gonna lie I'm scared of my family I feel like a little mouse around a bunch of lions I feel overwhelmed scared and really sad...I wish that my life was great
I wish that people can understand that a depressed person doesn't want to die . They just want a different life and a happy one
They just want the pain to be gone
Exactly, we dont wanna die but we dont wanna live like this.
Hey do u have advice for me
Don't kill yourself because of depression cause depression doesn't go away you are just passing it on to someone else like your parents
@@lesegolr5217 But when you have no one because they're dead.
I feel like I'm losing everyone, but the only one I'm losing is myself
awh🥺 i feel u
Fuck I felt this.
This one made me cry so hard
Ugh this hits so hard I feel u 🥺✨
shit this hurts
this comment section needs a hug
I can haz hug pls?
@@birb7866 internet hugs you :,)
I really need a hug so bad 😕
@@trashxy1735 I wish I could give you a hug irl- itll get better :))
Thanks kiddo :) you made my day
I replayed this too many times and it never gets old. I love this song.
Me to I can't survive a day with out listening to this song it is like I can't live without it it has become a part of my routine
@@ΓιάννηςΠαπαδόπουλος-ε4υ woke up in 1 am and play this song
...and I came back here listening to the same song and saw your comment. It's still the same and very relevant.
This song hits so deep on a personal level. Imagine waking up one day and looking in the mirror and you look the same to everyone but you can feel yourself slowly changing. You can feel yourself losing pieces of yourself and you suffer in silence never asking for help. Eventually one day you completely lose your identity and have no idea who you are. It hurts so much. It hurts even more when you try to interact with friends and family but you don't know how to act anymore so you just stand there like a ghost. You're there but you aren't there.
I feel this way.. Except I did ask for help. But I got denied the help I need by my family. So I just let myself sink. So now I'm just here.
Just gonna say I feel u
It happens with me all the time. I wanted to express myself but couldn't do it somehow or do it in wrong way and it got me frustrated all the time. It feels like i am no longer in control of myself or i never was, i just never knew.
@@WinWin0316 that's why I'm scared to ask for it
I know how you feel
The worst bit is realising that your the one that isn’t yourself anymore.
Mhm
it hurts so bad
...
...
It's even worse when no one else notices even after you know yourself
Mia, im crying while im smiling through that pain.
“when you look at yourself but you’re somebody else” that hits hard when you are so happy with your friends or at school then as soon as your home you cry and all you want to do is disappear.
EDIT: omg ty for all the likes! i wasn’t expecting people to see this. thank you everyone that’s trying to help
Gigi Gayle do you wanna talk about it?❤️
That hits different when you went from the always happy energetic popular genuinely happy kid that you were when you were like 10 to the depressed, lazy, lost, friendless self you are now when your 14 only four years and I’m a completely different person
miaphy x everything will get better i promise you, don’t give up on finding happiness. You are an amazing person and if you want a friend i can be your friend.❤️
miaphy x yup. i mean im not 14 but i totally understand.
Exactly.
It is disgusting how many children's spirits get destroyed because of unfortunate things that happen that the children have no control over. I'm so sorry for myself and the millions of other children that have had similar experiences.
Me to
that one best friend that you trusted and loved but never realized how toxic and bad they were for you, and when you realize you’ve already lost your whole self and you don’t know when you’ll be whole again, they messed you up and don’t even feel bad....and you still want them back..
Katie Hoos who tf told you about me
Snippy idk bro, same life experience
I feel like you must know me
exactly same story as me but she was so toxic and now I’m cryinf
Its odd how most people irl bring you down but there are so many nice people in this comment section 🖤
Then you see that these people are changing lives everyday and helping them reach themselves but they don't do the same to them ❤️
you just don't know anyone in the comments enough.
The nicest people are the loneliest so we tend not to try and make friends but friends tend to make us even better
🥺💕
Not just the comment section. But me with online games. I maid better friends and met better people thru online games then what i have irl
This song hits different when you’re singing it about yourself
how did you know-
Yep 🥺❤️
or when your body doesnt match who you feel you are so you cant even do that
Yep
I don't wanna die... But I don't wanna live like this.
My husband is an alcoholic. Has put me through hell and back. I have stood by him, because I vowed to, and love him. I know the mean drunk isn't really him. But, it's getting harder. This song describes my feelings for him perfectly. Gods help us. ❤️
Actually it describes me
I went through it for years. Four DUIs, didn't keep a job, couldn't be trusted to take care of the kids, couldn't go to any family or social events because he was always drunk. He was a mean drunk no matter how much, what kind of alcohol, or where he was. He had PTSD from an abusive stepfather. He had severe depression. I myself have the above mentioned illnesses, too. I am treated and he refuses. He's gone to rehab a dozen times, threatened to commit suicide several times, leading to the police being involved and having to be involuntary committed half of those rehab stays. Domestic violence was always waiting to rear its head. He was arrested several times, I bailed him out, we stayed together every time but the last. There was a no contact order once while he was waiting to be sentenced for the second time in our relationship, fifth total. We were still living together and going about our sick, twisted life like it was normal because I loved him and I had to save him. I had to be there for him because he needed someone to love him. One day he started drinking at 11am, which wasn't uncommon, but he was furious and didn't know why. He called on my lunch break and made threats and accusations and then threw his phone out the window. The friend he was with called me and said he has no idea why he's mad and he hadn't said a word about me until that phone call. He came home and we were hosting a sleepover. I wouldn't let him come in. He was yelling incoherently and then said he had a gun. I called my dad because he was close and carries a gun. My dad called the police. By the time they got there he had broken our bedroom window and I took the kids to our neighbors upstairs. He was charged with a plethora of crimes. My family and friends wanted me to get restraining orders on him several times, but I "knew" he wouldn't hurt us. The next morning I went to the courthouse and filed a restraining order and that was it. I still believe he's the love of my life. We had so many things in common-history, politics, geography, music, friends. I always feel I could have done more, I shouldn't have done this or that. That was 8 years ago. He has kids with another woman who also has a restraining order on him. She also believed she had to save him. He gave me trauma few people understand. I have dreams of picking up beer bottles and bottles of Crown Royal. I dream of him kicking our bedroom door in half because I locked it out of fear-he did this once- I dream of him dying by suicide. I dream of me dying by suicide. I am extremely jumpy at sounds, doors opening, ringing phones, certain places we'd had incidents or happy times. The ending isn't a good one. Choose yourself and create your own ending. I'm sending you all of my love and I wish you a safe life full of fun and peace 💜
It hits different when you just want to die already
ik you may feel like that but please don’t do it look how far you have come with all of the pain or what not just continue one day you will be happy it may take a while but you will get there PLEASE DONT,DONT DO IT continue to do great things i believe in you i hope you have a great day today.✨✨✨
I love you, and I don’t know you . Stay safe darling . My little sister tells me this but she has 1 year of survival already. You got this
i wanna die but i don’t wanna hurt the only one that is still there :(
Brøken_Marie 3 people, me and the other person care ! My name is Noreli Robledo and i stand with you ! Sadly it takes long but life gets better !! Stay with us !
Life will get better, stay strong! It's not much, but I love you and want you in this world
This is a song for people who found themselves, but lost everyone else in the process. I'm sorry it hurts, you're better for the strength you've gained.
This is my favourite comment in this section
Literally this songs brings my spirit up when I’m crying it makes me think so positive and what I can do with myself in life and how great things I can achieve the problem is idk where to start cause every one in my family is toxic and don’t have any where to go that’s positive but ok I’ll be okay 💕
@@ehmidean3563 you got this. I believe in you.
A good mature comment
And people who gone through a lot and they're looking at their past self when they were kids
Do u ever just have feelings build up inside of u and u just start crying them all out
yeah i do 💚
That's what these comments be doin to me
Yes...😢
@@benchakon4380 same I just cried cuz I realised how much help I need with me self harming and wanting to die and I haven’t done a real smile in a year and it’s hard to think about
i can’t cry anymore i emptied myself
We have so many invisible scars from how many times we were hurt of people could see the scars of people like you and me they would think we got into a fight with a bear we are broken and torn but keep going those scars will be a symbol of how strong you are
It’s sucks to be sad all the time and then you realize that you don’t live forever and you waste you life being sad. And it sucks.. 😔
I only hope that PLS SOMEONE MAKE ME A HAPPY GIRL LIKE I WAS, NOT A GIRL FAKING IN FRONT OF PPL...
@@nattyyy22 I got rid of this sadness without anyone I feel lucky cuz I did myself I'm sure you also can if not look for someone that make you happy
Little Girl: What’s on your arm?
Me: They’re battle scars.
Little Girl: You fought in a war?
Me: Yeah. A long and hard one.
Little Girl: That’s so cool! Can I get one?
Me: No. Please do not ever get any. But I’ll tell you what. Whenever you see someone else with battle scars, I want you to hug them, okay? Can you promise me?
Little Girl: Yes. I promise.
A few days later we went on a short shopping spree. Suddenly the little girl let go of my hand and ran up to another random teenager.
Teen: Why are you hugging me?
Little Girl: Because... (*points*) you have battle scars just like my babysitter.
The teen looked up at me, and I rolled up my sleeves to show her.
With tears in her eyes, she said one thing to me...
Teen: My war is far from being finished yet, but I’m not done fighting.
She bends down at eye level with the little girl
Teen: Thanks for giving me the strength to keep fighting. You are forever my war hero
Why is the saddest and happiest thing I have ever read
This made me so happy but so sad at one time...:((
I saw this comment before on another vid it makes me cry a bit heh..
Aww thsts noice
im crying omg 😭😭😭😭
reading the comments while listening to the song just makes it deeper
1000%
Ikr
A.M Lips et yji uhuu ihvu kobiii
Smh ya
Ahhh sometimes but me I don’t like it especially when people read the comment on TikTok
So my 24yr old schizophrenic son....when I first heard this on tik tok I bawled my eyes out cause someone put it into words whats been going through my head everyday
When your younger self sees their future self and the difference is scary
My sis actually saw me and said I was going to be beautiful when I am 10
@@starvx.2010 they mean how they’re gonna end up looking like in the inside not the outside
I just found all my photo books and went through them and each year I could see the happiness draining out of me
I just found all my photo books and went through them and each year I could see the happiness draining out of me
Truthfully. I thought I'd be happy and I see my life now and it's super scary, I am nothing like what I thought I'd be. Compared to that version I'm a monster.
damn i miss myself....i miss who i was and i hate who i am
Me too...miss the old me
Please be proud of urself
When i was young I didn't want to be a nerd cause nobody wanted to talk to me but there was this person that was with me and thats all that I needed yet I still hated myself I grew up and realised that being a nerd I cool and i am in love with THAT person
I miss my old self too.. that ' me ' made my ex girlfriend fall in love with me and she admired that version of me... as the time passed i turned to somebody else and now i have lost my girlfriend and my whole life... that old ' me ' is watching me and shaking his head because what i have became..
And now the fact is that i have no idea who she was dating after that summer.. because it certainly wasn't the same person who she fell in love with.
Funny how my parents get mad at me for not looking them at their eyes anymore. No, I just can't look at my reflection through the eyes of those who completely broke me.🙂
Same feeling different person
@@haleyslifestyle2440 im sorry luv🥺 your mom doesn't deserve a sweet angel like you, always remember that someone loves you, i luv u🥰
Exactly
Few words, with a little hope for in them
You'll be alright
Yep my parents broke me I have depression self harm from them telling me how much of a failure and ugly I am they made me believe it
Whoever is reading this just know that if you believe in yourself, if you love yourself, you can do anything because you are loved by me, God, and so many other people. I am praying for everyone going through depression, heartbreak, injuries, family problems and even people who are happy, I pray for the ones who are gone and the ones that are here because happiness is something we need to give ourselves. - Malija
Finally a positive comment!Well said girl:D
May God bless you.
@@grassblock7668 🙏 :)
i am so so fucking tired. every single thing in my life has absolutely fallen apart and i hit rock bottom AGAIN. i get up every day and look into the mirror and i hate what i see i’ve become everything that i’ve ever hated and it’s heart breaking to know that the little kid i used to be would be so disappointed if she knew who’d she become so much bad shit has happened and at this point i’m just driven by rage sadness depression anxiety and paranoia. i hate getting close to people because i don’t want them to see how damaged i am and i’m so sorry if anyone feels the same because no one deserves this
someone i know that even if i say that you are an amazing and beautiful person (which by the way you are) it won’t help... There are people who will love you just the way you really and even if they find how damaged you are they will help you to overcome your past self. You are an amazing person i love you i love you i love you i love you. Every day you see yourself on the mirror even if you don’t believe it in the beginning say that you are beautiful, you are an amazing person, and with the time the three words will come out...the “ i love you “ ❤️
iEditingSkills you are truly such an amazing person this brought hopeful tears to my eyes it did help and i’m so thankful that you even took the time to help me and i couldn’t thank you enough
someone No need to thank me!! I’m really happy that i made you smile and if you want to talk to someone my ig is kristiana.kn send me a message though so i know who you are.❤️
I’m in the same situation as you. Your not alone my friend.. but I offer you to look at all the positive things in your life and focus on them. From there start to develop into what you want your life to be or go towards. But it all starts with positivity. I too hate what my life has become but the only person that can change that is me.. god has given us an incredibly difficult path unique to us simply to strengthen us and make us better. In order to reach that potential we must learn from our losses we must swim not sink. Trust in gods plan and do your best. Be strong, hang in there.
XRat0rX youre so right and thankyou so much for taking the time to reach out and help me this made my day and i couldn’t appreciate you more you’re in my prayers
i never imagined that i would change from the happy girl that always smiles to the depressed girl that pretends to be happy with no friends.. i feel empty everyone left and i don‘t wanna live anymore
you will be okay one day 💕
Please keep living! I belive in you! I have anorexia and self harm and have suicidal thoughts but We can get through this togeather. We are fighters. We are strong. We can do this. Even if nobody else notices your fighting, keep trying. I am proud of you. You can do this
i lost my mom of suicide (she burnt herself alive) , i decided to take divorce when i realised that the one whom i thought will hold me through my every thick and thin, was a narcissist, who neither even wiped off my tears nor he gave me a hug on my mom's death , n after losing my mom, my dad drinks daily heavily just to fall asleep cuz he feels so lonely, u see dear.... i m still standing strong...although i know deep down that the society n others are always going to judge us....but we have got to stay strong....this is life...and its too unpredictable....whenever u have these kind of thoughts, just think about those with bigger pains n bigger battles, then u will certainly b able to stay strong and hold on....sending my prayers and best wishes for all those having tough time fighting their battles within themselves....take care dear...god bless u..
Same 👻
@@dimpydangi816 im so sorry...
This song makes me wanna cry . But i have no tears .
Same
Same dear
Same
Same
No more tears left to let out 🤷♀️
This feels like the moments of clarity during depression
It feels but It is not and that is good 😀
This song hurts much more when u realized that the only one person that changed and that person never gonna be the same is actually you ;)
Kosu_PL Well said and that is so true.
That’s exactly what I thought!🙂
I I feel like you put the smile at the end cause it seemed to sad lol
Fuck I literally just did the same thing cause it seemed to serious
It’s just kinda fake smile
“Well you look like yourself, but you’re somebody else.”
Oh hey look, it’s my best friend.
Not that u care but I'm ypur 100 like :) Hope life gets better for you!!✨ Enjoy it while u can.
For me its well me ive lost myself and i cant find me again
same rn idk who she is i just want to remeet her idk who u r but i feel u
I felt that
For me it’s my nephew. After my biological brothers died(I’m adopted) I was treated like some monster meanwhile my nephew who I used to think of as a little brother they thought of him as some perfect angel they notice his tears but never notice his mistakes meanwhile for me all they see is my mistakes and not my tears why is family so complicated!
I lost myself a long time ago. That’s because I lost happiness and faith, I lost everything about myself. I just “live”. I’m just an human on this earth. Just alone in this big world. I walk alone, while my mind is somewhere else, I look around and see people smiling and laughing. And I’m just in my own world, in my mind, where everything seems dark. Where I use my fantasy to make my life a little better. But it’s fake. It’ll never happen in real life.
Same only Same
I don’t now you, but I now how it’s feels believe me. But I steal love you, God steal love you and your Family too. If you wanna talk sometime I’m head for you
You're surviving not thriving 😐😔🥺 same
Same💔 I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. Please stay strong. I believe in you. I know you and me can do this❤️God is by your side the whole way
Omg I didn’t know I could relate so much. I am so so sorry you have to go through this. I don’t know if you want my pity but I just want others to be happy. I want others to have a reason to live. To smile, to laugh, to love. You’re so strong. We may be strangers but I love you so much. Stay strong for me okay?
I found this song in 2016. My 8 year relationship was ending a month before our wedding. I would listen to this on repeat and sob. After I'd try to listen to it only to be in tears.
Today I listened to this without crying, for the first time.
I am grateful for you "don't worry be happy don't cry be strong "
It sucks when you realise how much you've changed and how broken you've become.
Id kill to go back and have my old self back. The one who smiled at butterflies and smiled all the time
Same. Hope u stay safe.
Me to..
I remember when I told myself "i can't wait to grow up" now I regret every minute of me being alive.
fact
@@leokindalost every minute tho ?
If only there was a way to know we were in the good days before we wasn’t
Im sorry
Keep your head up... we love you man or woman... we never met and idk you, but since we feel that same ik you better than most... kelp your head up I love you 🖤
My favorite line, “go toward slowly it’s not a race to the end”😔
Mine is “u talk like ur self no I hear someone else” cuz I miss my old self
Same
Mine is the "I saw the part of u that only when ur older u will see too u will see too" and the oh u look like ur self but ur somebody else" and the "oh u talk like ur self no I hear someone else and ur making me nervous"
that’s my favourite line too
“i held the better cards but every stroke of luck has gotta bleed through, its gotta bleed through.”
Give it all to God, He’s got you
Treu
The worst part of being sad all the time is you eventually start to lose yourself and when you lose yourself you dont even notice utill one day you rember which you used to be and the things you did and you realize it's to late to get back that person and then people drift cause they dont know who you are anymore then your all alone and it just gets worse till your gone completely until your just an empty shell of nothing and you feel like your drifting in outer space and all you see it's people being happy around you and all you hear is people being happy around you but sometimes the music drowns it out and all you feel is emptiness like your drifting or drowning and you start to drift so far from people you dont care about them like they didnt care about you and there really isnt anything left there is just nothingness it's just you in space all alone with nothing left with no one left no feeling and because you've lost everything all hope you have nothing to hold on to anymore and your just gone forever in space alone cause you lost everything when you forgot who you used to be
Lizzie A hey, how has your day been or even your week? How are you getting along? you’ve got this lovely.
@@hannahmay2299 my day was actually pretty ok thank you so much for asking and being so kind and encouraging it means so much to me
i felt this on another level. but i hope you're okay
it’s crazy you explained my feelings so well...
catras wife pls send me this on Instagram lol paige_varga
This song has a powerful message. You just forget who you are and even if friends and family try and help you it just makes you more broken. I speak from experience.
I feel the same way
Same.
depersonalization isn’t fun at all
School:Better luck nextime.
Family:You're Useless.
"Friends.": Lmao Ur boring
Music:Its gonna be alright :)
... true
exactly
Yep
Well if I was your friend I would never say that to you 😄
So so so true
Reading these comments makes me think that someone is out there that wants to hear me. I may not know any one here but just listen to me. You may not think your worth it and you make think that no one loves you but there is. Your going to go through rough patches in life and its gonna make you want to give up, but just keep pushing through. You will make it. I wanted to give up and i still do but I always think to myself why cause more pain to someone closest to me and people that just know who i am. A fact that you may never know is if someone likes or even loves you because they are scared to get rejected and made fun of. Like what is wrong with our generation. Why does everyone have to push people away for who they are. We cant help with how we were born. So just a peice of advice be kind / caring and kindness and good things will come to you in the furture. Just in case no one told you we are all proud of you and you deserve to be here so dont leave. We love you.
some people saying this goes to their best friend,
*this one goes out to me.*
Don’t want to live but I’m afraid to die.
Relatable
Well that means that you want to change your life
Same here man
Paralyzed
Hi man, listen i understand you , life can be very hard sometimes, but they also can be so lovely and fun, meaningful only by being yourself. You are the best version of yourself, believe in you, i believe in you and i am sure there is someone that will or now believe in you.talk to me if you want bro.
Me: hey what’s the WiFi password?
Friend: it’s in the back of the router.
Back of the router: 2:24
Haaaa! I was looking to see if anyone had played it bkwds or had any insight. This made my day. Cheers.
This comment made my day
😂😂😂oh my god man great joke
This comment section needed this
Thought the time jump was gonna be "only it ain't on the surface" but that's better.
This song almost feels like my one molecule of serotonin talking to me
Excuse me but I don't know what is a molecule is 🤨 can you please tell me?
@@ΓιάννηςΠαπαδόπουλος-ε4υ basically a few atoms (if you don’t know they’re *tiny* little particles are within literally everything, chemicals, objects, people, gases, ext) get fused together and make molecules :D
i will be honest here... i wish my friends knew that i’m getting worse, i mean... i smile, i laugh, i make jokes.. “i’m fine” but i’m really not. in fact, when i get home i just whisper to myself “when will i stop pretending?”... i just wish they knew... just this.
I empathize with you friend. I do that exact same thing; telling everyone I'm fine with a dead smile on my face no one seems to see through and that's what breaks my heart the most, that the ones who've known me so long don't see past it.
moaku0 i’m here for u.
@@cecilia2563 and I for you friend. If ever in my ability I can help you let me know. I have lost a number of people who have deserved better lives I don't want to see it happening anymore.
moaku0 i’m so sorry
Same man. Just push through. You will make it. It’s hard, trust me, I know. But just tell someone. It helps.
I don’t even know who I am, it’s like I don’t even know if I’m showing the real me or the fake one
Idk, it’s hard to explain, but I don’t know myself, I don’t know what kind of person is the “real me”
Aya Kai i feel you, try focusing on what makes you happy. I’m at the same place i don’t really know who i am but i know that i love seeing people happy especially when the reason they are happy is me ( i like helping people that’s what i mean ). Just a reminder : You are an amazing person and that’s your real you❤️
iEditingSkills thank you so much 🥺 I’ll try to focus on what makes me happy. I’m so happy that helping people makes you happy, it’s rare to see someone like you nowadays❣️
Aya Kai No need to thank me❤️ And thank you so much for your nice words it brighten my whole day🥺
I understand, I am different around each person I am with. And I don't know which one is the real me anymore. I put up fake emotions so much that I don't know what I'm feeling anymore, I act happy at school, but I cry when I come home. I wipe my tears away so my dad won't see. I feel like when I'm with my best friend, that's when I am different the most. I have to force most of my laughs and smiles, and I feel guilty, like I'm letting her down. Because I'm changing. But I don't want to change. I don't want to be fake. But I just cant bring myself to act like my true self. Because I lost my true self. Sometimes I tell people I'm feeling a bit depressed lately, and they just say (You can't be depressed, your only 13) but age doesn't matter.
@@walldahlia1575 same feeling, they don't understand that im depressed just because I'm 12, im just a masochist, nobody knows how i feel, not even my relatives, my siblings are so fucking mean to me, i just don't wanna live but don't wanna die, i act so happy and funny at school, when i get home i just burst out and cry for 2 hours, then my parents come home from work, I act like nothings wrong, i just wanna express my feelings to someone, but they won't understand me.
I was sitting in the car with my grandparents. As we’re driving, it was raining and I was playing this song with my headphones in. Honestly, my heart felt like it was breaking. Tears were building up but they just weren’t falling down. That made me realize that I miss the younger me. I enjoyed watching Disney channel and playing with my dolls. I enjoyed wearing whatever I wanted and no one could say anything about it. I miss when I used to be happier.
And that’s the true, you’re not alone btw❤️
I do that a lot too, I miss being younger when me and my friends could play silly games about pretending we were magic fairy’s, I wish I was younger again to not be afraid to show my face on zoom meetings or google classroom meetings because I think I’m ugly. I miss being happy.
I also feel that way too. When my earphones are on and I hear a song like this that hits me, I picture memories from when I was still young and carefree, not minding what time it is, not worrying about the could haves and would haves.
Be urself ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Same here...i miss my old friend
Hearing this and I'm drunk thinking about my ex my one true love I'll never forget but sadly this song says it all 🥺😭
“Why is it so easy to kill happiness, but so hard to kill sadness?”
Because sadness is like tree seed once it plants it’s harder to get rid of and happiness is like the wind the wind isn’t always there but the tree ⏃ tree and re seed the land once cut down or burnt but the wind can sometimes blow the seeds away before they plant and sometimes they bring the seeds back but not for too long soon the tree will be gone again maybe it replanted maybe it didn’t
There's a certain type of sadness you can get addicted to.
@@specklescrafts8003 If you wrote a book I would love to read it.
Idk but I think because it is a stronger feeling
I have been there i truley have seen the light sadness may be a tree but dedication is a fucking chainsaw
to the people reading this
hi! i hope you’re having a good day- oh you’re having a rough day? I’m sorry luv🥺 I hope you know that you matter, you’re loved, and you’re precious. please don’t give up🥺 you’re so strong and I’m proud of you! keep going! I’m praying that God will work though your heart, through your life, so that you can achieve that happiness you deserve🥺 I love you, Jesus loves you! God bless you all💓
i love you more.
Thanks... but why say stuff like this? People like me, some, read this but still feel the same... and i hate it... but either way thanks 😢
You are the type of people we need on this earth 😭😞
I don't usually write comments, i read through everyone's else with tears in my eyes. I can relate to the pain, I have no one who listens so im going to vent here, where nobody knows me. Well, my dad thinks im an abominations, im the mistake of the family. i wasn't supposed to be born. I try so hard to show him im worthy of his love, is affection. No matter how hard i try it never works. Why can't you just love me dad? Then many times you hit me, or fat shamed me. Causing me to attempt to kill myself or starve. I just wanted to be what you wanted me to be. And you, the neighborhood boy that ive loved since i met you, 5 years ago. No matter how many people I dated you never left my head. You've wronged me, but I still love you. Ive told you I liked you and you ignored me for months. I won't try it again. I promise. But i won't leave your side I refuse to be one of the girls that leaves you in pain. I like to believe you feel something for me still, when I catch you staring and instead of looking away you give me that goofy smile. When you come outside and just randomly come over to me. Or come up to me on your go kart and rev you engine for my attention. When I look back I see you smiling with your helmet on. "Hey, I can't reverse mind pushing me back?" Your so sweet and even if im the only one who realizes it. Its so cliché, the girl he only sees as his "sisters friend" or the "neighbor girl". Even if you never choose me, I love you..and dad I just want you to love me. Why do i pick the people who's heart doesn't beat for me?..
Girl stay strong through everything, you got this💕
You'll be okay just pull through and stay strong
Same...
I wasn’t supposed to be born, my mother didn’t want me, she fell in love with me when I was born... but years pasted by and all she does is criticize me, say I’m a mistake, stupid, and more horrible things... I’m able to be myself tho my mom hates it... I ignore her opinions but it’s hard to... I wish I was deaf... but stay strong, I’m staying strong 😢🙃
Stay strong, you are appreciated and loved ❤️
"I saw the part of you that only when you're older you will see too"
That's the one.
POV: all of your closest friends disappear one by one leaving you broken day by day more and more, it’s like your in a ditch buried alive and you can’t crawl out no matter how much you try and cry out for help nobody knows or understands you anymore
That's not a POV for me it's real..
sourx cherxies me too just hold I. There there are people who love you even if they don’t show it
The Revengers thanks!!
It nots
POV
Soooooo a normal day
The quiet is so loud
The numb is so painful
It feels like I’m drifting away
I don’t know who I am
Nothing feels real anymore
It feels like life has no meaning
Nobody cares
Nobody listens
I feel as if I’m a burden to myself
I don’t want to be here anymore
I can’t sleep at night
I don’t eat anymore
I’m broken
edit: please ignore this message i was in a emo phase im fine now 💀
Please eat nothing can go bad anymore things will only get better and you will push through it bc u are so strong a brave and even though you don’t know it somebody put there loves you and I do too ❤️
same
Hello want to say hi I'm here I hear you
i cried🥺
I think you need someone to talk about this
My parents died in a car crash.Nobody understands me not even my friends only music really does,people ask if I'm okay and i just have to say I'm fine when I'm really not
Why does live have to be like this.
I cry myself to sleep every night wondering if I hadn't gone to that party then they would still be alive I wish I hadn't survived because Nobody else cares from me except my parents and I miss them so so so much but I can't change anything and I'm just stuck in one place that I can't get out of,my anxiety is so bad I can't go to school
Wait but if ur parents died where are u then?
No hate BTW be proud of urself u came so far
I'm so sorry💔
But you have to stay strong and keep going
I promise it get better..❤
It's difficult,i understand but you have to stay alive for your parents
Love you,never give up❤
Your parents would not want You To Feel like this. Even if they aren't here, I'm sure they would have cared about you (just like you mentioned:)). Seeing you in this state must be hard for them too.
"We were the adults maybe If we did something differently that day, she would not have been suffering today. We would have been there for her. Giving her the Life totally different from this"
Blaming yourself over what you could've done is doing nothing but worsen your situation. They might be blaming themselves and feeling guilty and worse that they had not been able to give you the Life They wanted to give You.
Seeing you in this state is painful. *They would not want to be the reason of Ruining you* . You survived for a reason. Live. For Them. For. Yourself. As well.
They Love you so much that this is hurting them as well.
You can mourn about them. And I'm really sorry about what happened and what you are going through. This is really hard. But you should not forget, they gave you a gift....Birth.(life) don't let that go to waste.
They Love you.❤
Take care of yourself.
Im so sorry to hear.
I hope you are ok❤️
When he says “go forward slowly” i get weird vibes and it feels really good.
Same
‘Well you look like yourself
But your somebody else
Only it ain’t on the surface’
That hits different when you went from the always happy energetic popular genuinely happy kid that you were when you were like 10 to the depressed, lazy, lost, friendless self you are now when your 14 only four years and I’m a completely different person
funny how we can change in only 4 years and in such a young age suffering from depression
Im fucking 11 im too young to have depression one of my grandmoms died 😢
Alexa Miranda trust me I know how you feel my mom dad and grandpa died in a car accident then my grandma died a year later from cancer I hope it got better for you and I want you to know she’s in a better place and she’ll always be watching you from the heavens
...
I’m 12..and I have been knowing this song for too long 🙃
This is the type of nostalgia that doesn't need to remind you of anything specific - it just makes you feel weird
Angelina Ochoa Really good songs for getting into that melancholic feeling are ones by Bright eyes and flatsound
@Angelina Ochoa me too
I know right, i started crying and i don’t know why
listening to the song in repeat, crying while reading the comments:
Yes😪
I lost my mom to covid on January 17th, 2 days after her birthday. My dad has stage 4 small cell lung cancer. It's also in his bones and lymph nodes. He's undergoing chemo right now but eventually it will kill him. I've lashed out at friends who weren't there for me during this time and cut them off. All they care about is how I am behaving even though they have all the reasons why right infront of them.
I listen to this song because I lost one friend to cancer and the other by him taking his own life😭🥺☠️🙏🙏
I'm sorry for ur lost but stay strong
I'm sorry 😳🥺
@@evan1122 I’m so sorry as well
@@evan1122 hop u feel better soon
@@evan1122 yeah anyway how has ur day been
These comments make me tear up so bad😔
I hope all of you do well!!
Plz believe in urself. I’m a random guy on the internet but be proud of urself and u came soooo far 🙏 pls I know how u feel I have an depression to and nobody say anything to me 😔😔😔 and I placed 3 comments the get one like... from myself but believe in urself. Walk to an mirror and say: ‘I can do this I matter and I have to live cause there’s somewhere anyone that can love me.’ pls remember this.❤️
@@smokescreen095 I can’t look in the mirror without being insecure and bursting into tears
Moi aussi
i literally left my whole life behind. became “homeschooled” when my brother died in 7th grade. & when i came back in 11th grade no one even noticed how broken i was or that i’ve changed. i used to be so talkative and confident in 7th grade and became this quiet mouse who rarely showed emotion in 11th.
Sorry for u
Stay strong
This part hits different 3:30
i feel so dead and numb, like something ate whatever part of my soul was left and now i'm just dragging my heavy body around.
Edit (July 27, 2020)
- so I’ve been noticing that a lot of people feel the same way as I did, and just know that even though I’m still going through some stuff, I’m here if anyone wants to talk.
My snap is - Jai_Mairiee
if you ever need a friend. Please talk and vent to me - let me be there for you. If there’s one thing I learned the hard way, it’s that having no one to turn to is lonelier than being alone - and I don’t want anyone to feel like they have to go through what they’re going through all by themselves.
Just mention you got my snap off of a lyric video just so I know. Remember you’re loved and not alone. 🥺♥️ Stay here, okay? I luv you
ilymost I’ve felt that way in the past.. it gets better, I promise! Hope you start feeling better 💗
Keep plugging along ♥️
From someone on the other side of the fence, you may find that light again.. or you may learn to live with the shadows.. either way, it will be okay so long as you stay true to yourself and hang onto your strength
I feel the same way 🤷♀️😞
If you need someone to talk to, my name is Angelina Mehlman. You can find me on facebook!
“You were the better part of every bit of beating heart that I had , whatever I had.”
That line always gets me 🥀💜
Me too ❤️❤️
Understand this
I'm sad
Same
I had one of those
What I like about this song is that you can hear the lyrics CLEARLY
Sam Goldstein fr tho
Not at 2:25 tho
@@brightonhill8134 That's the point.
@@Jrdn357 Its backwards dont know what it says though
I just get on my dirt bike and listen to this and scream because no one can hear it
i’m dedicating this to you, deisha. you’ll never see this but last summer you changed. you wanted to fit in with the “popular kids” you slowly lost your personality and yourself. you were my best friend and you didn’t know how much you changed me, and you were the only thing i had to hang onto. when you left me for people who were better, i cried endlessly on the bathroom floor for months. even though you’ve clearly moved on, i still don’t stop thinking about you. i don’t stop thinking about every memory we’ve shared. like the waterpark, and laughing at boys that liked us on the elementary school playground. those memories i had once laughed at before make me wanna break down and cry. even though you’re off at a different school probably making twice as many friends as i am, know that even though you’ve pushed me down to the point that i could never open up to anyone as easily again, i still love you and i’ll always be here waiting for you to come back some day.
Emma Rose That..was so beautiful. Please show her this. She was your best friend for so many years I’m sure this paragraph will make her realise who she really is. I love you and i hope she realises who she really is and for you to finally get back together with your best friend❤️🌻
I was in her spot once, she probably hates the new her too, and if she doesn’t yet she will soon.
She isn't worth your pain and tears, i promise you you will find better people, just be patient, there's a whole world out there waiting for you, we know you can get through it! Everything will be okay, just don't ever lose hope. Nothing lasts forever. Keep your head held high
sometimes people change and grow:) they lose many friends because of that:) respect her change
I felt this so deep in my heart. I went through something similar and have the same sentiments
My friends say I’m “different” but they don’t realize I broke myself before they broke me😔💔
Everyone is different, no one is the same, you need to see the good things in your life, some people are jealous because of you because maybe you have nice parents, or something, there IS something you have that others don’t, just live your life at the best u can and you will be happy, trust me. Have a nice day and see the bright sides in life❤️
I often hear I've become an asshole. But they don't notice that they made me one.
Saddest thing you’ll ever figure out is when you yourself are the one that changed and not for the better and no matter how hard you try to go back to the person you were you can’t and the person you once were is gone never to be seen again
NNNNNNNOOOOOOOO!
Serch harder yoy will find it never lose hope
This is such a beautiful song.
It is 🥳
when i cry
my mum: youre just being dramatic
my sisters: idc
friends: its probably just that time of the month
my partner: eh idrc
music: hey whats wrong?
now this is the truth.. for some anyway
Hello dear how are you doing ? Please accept my heartfelt hug. 😊🤗
Same :(
most people don't really care mostly because I slap on a smile
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
Smile through the pain
I think there's some online therapy things you could try? Thinking of you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Why is that so accurate tho :(
I turned from the happy and outgoing kid in a shy and sad girl, I feel like I'm losing everyone, including myself
Me to (but I’m a boy) wacht eens even jou achternaam lijkt Nederlands 🥳 of ben je Amerikaans en snap je het niet?
@@smokescreen095 lolll jaja ik ben Nederlands :) hey! hoe gaat het?
@@febedewit7792 goed hoor met jou?
@@smokescreen095 ja ook wel goedd, hoe oud ben jij?
Felt
This song goes to all them depressed teens that had a great life once... push forward kings and queens
Hey hey hey don't push me! I can't fly! Your going to push me off the building I'll get down in a few minutes.
Ugh hold on my friend Aizawa is here let me catch him he is falling
@@toshinoriyagi6263 so All might is ben a long time
my life was always shit and i’m only 11
I don’t think this song is just about being depressed ... it can be something more
@@kingstupid1715 good luck
Faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains!!! 💜
Great quote
I keep seeing the comments “this is to the friend” or “this is for the child” but like, this hits hard when you’re trying to figure out which one of your friends this is, and you realize it isn’t one of your friends. It’s you. You’re the one that changed and they all haven’t noticed cause deep down they don’t care. No one does. They only think of themselves. No one ever checks in on me, sees how I’m doing. It’s every man for himself in my life, but everyone else has a team. Life isn’t fair
Sorry about that I want you to know life dose get better and you just have to find the people who care keep fighting and don’t give up
Look man the same shit is happening to me but what you have to do is be there for them if you ever need to talk ever just need to vent or anything my Snapchat is lil_54 (and that goes for anyone I’m here for you I’d love to talk and get to know as many people as possible
My friends and family choose when they want to be supportive and I just have to hold out til then, but I care 💖
THATS SOME REAL SHIT RIGHT THERE OMF
I cant say something like''i care about you'' because i dont know you who you are or why your sad but i can say that there has always been someone who cares. You care about yourself and in the end you know that your stronger than the rest and your all your really need. Live your life
“What happens to our sweet little girl” 😞😭sorry I don’t know.
☹️
♥️
i have no one. my parents hate me. i hate myself for feeling this way.
DO NOT HATE YOURSELF it's just no need for that if you love your self more people will love you so just look in the mirror and you'll see a beutyfull person
Biggest hugs!!! XXX
I don't hate you
so don't hate yourself
People are just jealous of you
Sending you a virtual hug! Be strong oki!!
You do have someone. It’s Jesus and He loves you so very much! And He Does Not Hate You! 💞
Reminds me of my grandfather trying to help me put me on a good path in life . But when ur young u think you know ever thing . I see myself now wish I would have listened .
I understand this song. I walk around like this shell of me. No one notices the pain within. People see me every day and have no idea that I'm someone else inside.
Same though
That’s all of us. You aren’t special.
Rude much?
Anne Percivalle if that’s how you perceive it.
That hit me.
People who knew me years ago, are like "ah, you haven't changed at all lol" ...... Meanwhile tho
I don't sing this song about anyone ...
Only me
No thanks
"How many people do you have to pretend to be until you can find yourself?"
Too many
@@ocean2506 yes, way to many
I dont even know which one is the real me
Damn thats deeper than a black hole
Well a lot I guess 🤷 😅 but be your self so people will love you for how you are and not how you are ment to be
1:14 don't mind me..
Just marking my feels..