When he said " rather for one to not have a father at all knowing that he is dead than have a father that is fully alive but not present" I felt it deep inside my heart 😞😖😥😢😔💔💔💔
Andisalili........I didn't expect such a great ending after so much hardship. Its amazing how Malathisi healed and became the great person he is. God bless your family Nozi
Yaz I can't believe uba in this whole clip, that part painfully stood out for me.... leaving me with such a heavy heart . I am glad Malathisi is determined not to let history repeat itself when it comes to his kids. Proud of him...
*and he dropped me off at the front gates* 😭😭😭😭 Somandla.. my heart sank.. As a black society we must do better to our kids.. generational trauma is real.
And he still did not give him the following year, I think he was hoping azibulale or abeligintsa azothi ayiva lentwana but God is God, he was supposed to be in the front row seat on that TV show yakabhuti and he would beam with pride and shame that he missed an opportunity to be part of his son's achiements. Like umamakhe said, zange amhlumphe tu ngoba stout and this guy probably expected him to ask him for bail money instead of registration money , sick stuff
haven't even finished watching but id love to know how he made sure all this did not affect him(behavioral traits) males do not voice out about their upbringing and it has a huge effect in their mental health hence we have a high rate of GBV, crime, absent fathers and substance abuse etc. because they behave that way due to the scars of the past sometimes. So how did he master this life thing? what helped him to stay focused and keep pushing in this life thing. What advice would he give to amadoda and young boys that are going through such or abadlule kwezizinto nabo....because zine long term effect ezizinto. Maybe he can have a conversation with bhut' Skhu to kind of talk to abafana have a conversation/man's confrence on the channel because ke iyadingeka we live in tough times.
Wow 👏 I was actually hurt when I read the book with regards to bhuti not being able to further his studies but look now🙌🙌so grateful for God's grace and mercy 🙏 upon you and your family
When he said that " what kept me going is the fact that I don't know what kept me going ". I relate , sometimes the torture comes from seeking what can keep you going . So rather not look for something to keep you going but rather just go .
Wow! Rejection from a parent really goes a long way. Life may not have been perfect for you guys, but I am so glad that you have each other. Pity daddy is not here to witness the power force that you grew up to be. Continued love and light to the family ❤️
I'm watching this a year later, loved the story, loved the lessons learned from experiences. My husband had a similar experience with his father, whom after he was born married his mom's friend. My husband says that he would go to visit his dad and they would not open the gate for him at some point. His dad refused to pay his university registration saying what would he do with an HR qualification, if he was studying agriculture he would pay. I think the last straw was when his wife (stepmom) asked us to take his car because she thought dad should not be driving because of his age and health.. After taking the car, she told people that we took the car without permission and we are refusing to return it. If I was not there, I would have believed the story too, but I was there she bugged us to take the car in front of dad. We laughed it out at the time, but when our car broke down we thought why not. We took it, oh my I have never seen anything like that in my whole life. I've never seen someone who would lie and believe their lie like that. My husband was so hurt. I doubt that he ever recovered from that. He stopped trying
Thank you Bhuti for sharing your powerful story. It is evident that your mom definitely raised warriors. There are so many elements in your journey that spoke to me deeply, but one thing I learnt distinctly is that everything happens for a reason. Many painful things happen to us that don't make sense at the time, but in the end we learn that God is indeed sherparding our ways. There is purpose in our pain, hold on and keep going. Continue to be that father you wish you had. May God continue to strengthen and bless you in all your endeavors 🙏
Bhuti wethu, very calmed, so much wisdom and touching story, very honorable, and so much respectul.. Sis Nozi thank you for sharing this wonderful article with us
Wow such a profound story,God is wonderful. I thank your mother raising such humble children and true it all God was with her. I am happy for your family. What kind of woman tells a husband that she is not fond of out of wedlock kids 🙄🙄and what kind of a father does that to his own son, that's so sad and disgusting to say the least.
The emotional abuse part legit took me back to the year we had to live with our aunt for a few months because of hunger and everything that went down while in her house🙌😪I don't hate her at all coz what she did to us contributed to who and what we are today❤Indeed all things work out for the good...
Yhuuu😭😭😭😭 you are so rude wena Nozi itswele elingaka ntombi😭😭😭😭....the 3 hrs of wait ,business transaction kind of relationship, knowing dad by accident....but look at him now. Loving his kids equally ❤❤❤❤
Very touching 😭and inspiring.👏 I know what he is talking about. I was also raised by a family couple. Emotional abuse as a kid is very dangerous and painful guys. 🤞😭Worse part you can't even tell anyone or explain to your parents what you are going through since it's not physical abuse and that time the parents can't even notice because they are also going through their own problems themselves. In all this things we are more than conquers. 🙏💪🙏 #Iamstillme
Yazi what you are explaining is exactly what's happening to my kids my daughter just turned 12 not even a happy birthday from her dad or his family and he saw her twice that day his family stays in the same street we stay in.. You know I'm 35 and I never ever saw my dad not even a photo of him and I made a promise to myself that my kids would know their father it's only now that I see that it's better not knowing your father in some cases coz my kids know their father and see him almost every day passing our house but they dnt know him and he is not even married just a single guy but he just doesn't care.. I asked my daughter my 12 year old daughter why ddnt she tell her dad it's her birthday that day she why should I have to tell her grown man I'm his only daughter how can he not remember my birthday it brought tears to my eyes but we keep it moving hopefully this whole situation makes her and doesn't brake her coz you sir turned out to be just fine you are soft spoken and very respectful to your younger sister
Watching for the 2nd time and it cuts just as deep still, the tears can't help but roll. So thankful for the testimonies of the Qamgana family. You guys have no idea how your stories heal some of us. I'm from a broken home and in somewhat a weird and different way I relate to all the brokeness, shattered dreams, pain, anger, unanswered questions, etc. But what I do draw from all our different stories and pains is this: God has the final say. INKOSI INIBUSISE NJALO BATHANDEKAYO ❤❤🙏🏾🙌🙌
I know exactly what uMalathisi is talking about....owam utata wathi akanayo imali mandicele kunkoskazi wakhe, a person who worked for saps when I was 2yrs old and resigned ngalanyaka ndipasa ngawo matrix.. .ooTata bethuna 😭😭😭😭
What a painful story yet educative... having a father who is a stranger to you, this is traumatising😟😟😟😟😟. Inokuba you survived all this trauma because God has plan for every living soul. But I do nt like what I am hearing here. How did your father sleep at night knowing that he was not being fair to you😞
“Look at where I am now”, he can still do it even here on RUclips. It has been such a pleasure meeting your family Nozi 💕. You mother raised warriors 🙌. Such a beautiful Documentary 👌.
@Malathisi Qamngana, how can I not become a better person after hearing a story such as this. Yes sometimes I do need the "fluff" as a distraction, but this is real "food" for my soul/spirit. Isn't it something how a good mother always finds a way? I am humbled by your honesty, and the father that you are.
When ubhuti Malathisi says "if something slips out of my hand let it slips while I'm busy trying" I felt like he's saying that to me. Just when I felt like everything is falling apart and I wasn't even sure of what to do, I found strength in that statement sika bhuti Malathisi. Trust me, few months from now I'd be somewhere better and very much better than where I am right. Thank you for these words bhuti wam.
@@bellaj6088 Eish... as if that wasn't torturous enough... Then he had to take another long walk back home. This was too much to deal with ... I could feel tears burning in my eyes when he was relating the events of that day.
If there’s anything I learned from this episode is that you have to “want” for any of your “needs” to be met. U-Malathisi oozes nothing but will power and strong conviction in all he’s been through, he wanted better himself regardless of the circumstances. What a gentleman! (Having listen to uNozi, uMama and now Malathisi... I see how strong mothers are out there stop at nothing to provide and care). Thank you for sharing Nozi and the team that helped in making the documentary. I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This series was so impactful honestly. I love the honesty, authenticity and how raw or real this was. You guys have gone through the most as a family but love how every challenge paved a way to your current success. I aspire 🙌 Nothing got me teary than when the mother mentioned how Nozi bought her the house she is in and the brother mentioning the car Nozi bought. That for me was everything because sometimes when we making it to the soft sifuna uba sodwa on the softness and forget imvelaphi 🙏
Kids should stay with their parents. Kids brought up by relatives usually end up resenting their caretakers more than their parents who put their responsibilities on relatives.
So true. Their parents are never to be blame. Its always every other person but the person who brought them into this world and then chose to neglect them.
Nozi and family share their hearts, hopes, stories and love with us. All of it reflects their authenticity but also their TOGETHERNESS. I'm part of the family too, because this is beautiful. Aaah, they absolutely have my heart. 🥰💜💙🤎
I see years of Ma's prayers and God's faithfulness in answering them...I'm trully touched by the whole 3 episodes...you guys have revived me without even knowing it.. Jesus lives and He is the way 🙏🙌❤
What a sad story but with a beautiful ending. If are reading this and you have a father who is doing right by you, you need to appreciate him and thank God for blessing you with that precious gift of a father. Im glad that despite everything you guys went through you rose above the situation and conquered. You didn't pity yourselves and caused your mom trouble just because your father was absent in your lives. Instead you guys fought and worked hard to be the great achievers that you are today. It is true they say if you are determined to be something in life, you will be it if you stay focused and work against your challenges and obstacles🤗. This was beautiful to watch and thanks to you and your family sis Nozi for sharing your story with us.
Yhu thank you Nozi, 😭😭😭! You and your brother are story tellers, uthi ndimamele (he commands it). Nozi you’re blessed, your brother loves you so much! He’s got a peaceful spirit mani, there’s something special about him and his spirit, I could sense and feel it. Was so touched! Ok, your dad mani how could he leave a child by the gate, to do what there, why frustrate him? But as Bhuti said, God has a plan for everything, He knew what He was preparing Bhuti for. Was so happy to also hear that he’s busy with his studies, Praise be to God, siyabonga mani. And may Bhuti Malathisi have a brighter future, May God’s hand be upon him. Ndinifisela konke okuhle and your offspring
Sad story and I hv a similar story, I was soo heartbroken and I even cut him off but later I realized God choosed him to be my Dad, who am to decide otherwise. All the best
@@andisiwemakanya483 For ypur peace sthandwa sami, Ngeke uzithole impendulo ozifunayo, You need to find peace in your heart and accept him as he is , Sabelwe bona uThixo ngeke sbaphe muntu, God have better things for us and he is our faithful and loving father esingancika kuye, Its hurts i know 😘😘😘
It's amazing how your brother is the replica of your mom & you're the replica of your dead 😅 I don't understand people who ill-treat children because that messes up with the child's psychology. I'm glad your brother outgrew & healed from that trauma. When he said "look where I am now" I really shed a tear. Thank you for sharing yours & your family's stories ❤️❤️❤️
I loved every bit of this. This story is so real. Your mom must be so proud of the both of you. I'm so proud of your brother. His perseverance and how he is building his life now.
wow.hi stronger 💪... father situation.. mine said 'no actually andizokwazi ukufundisa cz andiqashwanga apho ufunda khona' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅 yho hayke sana... up to now i wish i hd never knw him...🙌 but we move ke bhuti Malathisi ✌️
I quote these words "...rather not have a father at all". What God has shown me is that He uses the abandoned, the most unlikely. Those left alone to fed for themselves. He did it with Joseph. He did it with buthi Malathisi. He will do it with me. He will do it with you too...
When he said " rather for one to not have a father at all knowing that he is dead than have a father that is fully alive but not present" I felt it deep inside my heart 😞😖😥😢😔💔💔💔
Ndim nabani who are part of Nozi family guys.. Like for reall
Nam
ndihlala pha mna..awazi niks wena mntase...
We are so addicted to her, and watch with hubby we both laugh at their sweet madness on Facebook now am even following her here. 😍😍😍😍😍
I am their oldest sibling bethuna❤️
Nam Sis🤗😘😍
Oooh "uBhuti" guys😍😍 I was so hurt when he's cars were stolen two times nogal!! Its so good to finally see the faces of #IamStillMe.
Your Mother raised warriors sis Nozi❤️❤️
I agree ♥️
I like the fact that he’s not bitter about what happened. I’ve learnt a lot about the power of forgiveness from this.
Andisalili........I didn't expect such a great ending after so much hardship. Its amazing how Malathisi healed and became the great person he is. God bless your family Nozi
The father situation hit me hard. I know exactly what Bhuti is talking about
Yaz I can't believe uba in this whole clip, that part painfully stood out for me.... leaving me with such a heavy heart . I am glad Malathisi is determined not to let history repeat itself when it comes to his kids. Proud of him...
@@nanazimkhize2149 Well said hun 💕
@@elizabethletsoso2558 Thanks dear. We need more people of Malathisi's fibre to change this narrative within our society.
@@nanazimkhize2149 Exactly dear 💕
This irresponsible fathers, went thru the same.
*and he dropped me off at the front gates* 😭😭😭😭
Somandla.. my heart sank.. As a black society we must do better to our kids.. generational trauma is real.
I relate 🥰
@@elizabethletsoso2558 A great deal.. It is heartbreaking. In addition to being adults, we also have to continue healing from childhood trauma 🤦♀️
@@malaikah8329 So true my darling 💕💕
Yhuuuu bawo. I cried on his behalf. The excitement he must have had going to school kanti uyoshiywa egatini💔💔💔😭😭😭
And he still did not give him the following year, I think he was hoping azibulale or abeligintsa azothi ayiva lentwana but God is God, he was supposed to be in the front row seat on that TV show yakabhuti and he would beam with pride and shame that he missed an opportunity to be part of his son's achiements. Like umamakhe said, zange amhlumphe tu ngoba stout and this guy probably expected him to ask him for bail money instead of registration money , sick stuff
This really moved me. I'm sorry for all he has been through. I admire his strength and reverence for God.
haven't even finished watching but id love to know how he made sure all this did not affect him(behavioral traits) males do not voice out about their upbringing and it has a huge effect in their mental health hence we have a high rate of GBV, crime, absent fathers and substance abuse etc. because they behave that way due to the scars of the past sometimes. So how did he master this life thing? what helped him to stay focused and keep pushing in this life thing. What advice would he give to amadoda and young boys that are going through such or abadlule kwezizinto nabo....because zine long term effect ezizinto. Maybe he can have a conversation with bhut' Skhu to kind of talk to abafana have a conversation/man's confrence on the channel because ke iyadingeka we live in tough times.
Wow 👏 I was actually hurt when I read the book with regards to bhuti not being able to further his studies but look now🙌🙌so grateful for God's grace and mercy 🙏 upon you and your family
Malin I Book Ka Sis Nozi?
@@akhanyakupiso7436 Incwadi ka sisi Nozi yi R250 then delivery fee ibeyi R100
When he said that " what kept me going is the fact that I don't know what kept me going ". I relate , sometimes the torture comes from seeking what can keep you going . So rather not look for something to keep you going but rather just go .
It’s authenticity, honesty and realness for me 🤞I enjoyed this series. So helpful
The dad situation 💔he even drove off yho💔 abazali bethu guy's yho.ah ah we need to do better nyani.
Shoooo what testimony. The Lord shepherd our ways and All things work together for our good
He looks more like mum😊😊
Exactly what I see too Lmao 😅😅😅
Yes he does😊
Yes
This heats home because, I know me n my brother can relate ...when it comes to our father...it's almost the same story.
Daughter, you never disappoint!
Wow! Rejection from a parent really goes a long way. Life may not have been perfect for you guys, but I am so glad that you have each other. Pity daddy is not here to witness the power force that you grew up to be. Continued love and light to the family ❤️
Congratulations Bhuti on all your achievements keep pushing that LLB and leading your family and the congregation well🙏🏾
I'm watching this a year later, loved the story, loved the lessons learned from experiences. My husband had a similar experience with his father, whom after he was born married his mom's friend. My husband says that he would go to visit his dad and they would not open the gate for him at some point. His dad refused to pay his university registration saying what would he do with an HR qualification, if he was studying agriculture he would pay. I think the last straw was when his wife (stepmom) asked us to take his car because she thought dad should not be driving because of his age and health.. After taking the car, she told people that we took the car without permission and we are refusing to return it. If I was not there, I would have believed the story too, but I was there she bugged us to take the car in front of dad. We laughed it out at the time, but when our car broke down we thought why not. We took it, oh my I have never seen anything like that in my whole life. I've never seen someone who would lie and believe their lie like that. My husband was so hurt. I doubt that he ever recovered from that. He stopped trying
"It is the lord that shephards our ways"
Thank you very much for this Documentary sisi Nozi
Thank you Bhuti for sharing your powerful story. It is evident that your mom definitely raised warriors.
There are so many elements in your journey that spoke to me deeply, but one thing I learnt distinctly is that everything happens for a reason. Many painful things happen to us that don't make sense at the time, but in the end we learn that God is indeed sherparding our ways. There is purpose in our pain, hold on and keep going.
Continue to be that father you wish you had. May God continue to strengthen and bless you in all your endeavors 🙏
Bhuti wethu, very calmed, so much wisdom and touching story, very honorable, and so much respectul.. Sis Nozi thank you for sharing this wonderful article with us
Wow such a profound story,God is wonderful. I thank your mother raising such humble children and true it all God was with her. I am happy for your family. What kind of woman tells a husband that she is not fond of out of wedlock kids 🙄🙄and what kind of a father does that to his own son, that's so sad and disgusting to say the least.
The emotional abuse part legit took me back to the year we had to live with our aunt for a few months because of hunger and everything that went down while in her house🙌😪I don't hate her at all coz what she did to us contributed to who and what we are today❤Indeed all things work out for the good...
Wow well done Malathisi for pushing for your dreams after all you went through.👏👏👏❤️❤️
Yhooo hayini ninani uBhut’KaNozi🙆♀️🥺😢your mom is such a strong woman&like a mom sisiKhukukazi sana❤️❤️❤️
Wow I might be delayed in this vidio but I really feel it spoke to me an It resonates to were I am at currently,,,, Wow Nozi your family is blessed😍😭😍
Yhuuu😭😭😭😭 you are so rude wena Nozi itswele elingaka ntombi😭😭😭😭....the 3 hrs of wait ,business transaction kind of relationship, knowing dad by accident....but look at him now. Loving his kids equally ❤❤❤❤
Very touching 😭and inspiring.👏 I know what he is talking about. I was also raised by a family couple. Emotional abuse as a kid is very dangerous and painful guys. 🤞😭Worse part you can't even tell anyone or explain to your parents what you are going through since it's not physical abuse and that time the parents can't even notice because they are also going through their own problems themselves. In all this things we are more than conquers. 🙏💪🙏 #Iamstillme
Congratulations on finishing school🎉 God makes a way even if it doesn’t seem like it
Yazi what you are explaining is exactly what's happening to my kids my daughter just turned 12 not even a happy birthday from her dad or his family and he saw her twice that day his family stays in the same street we stay in.. You know I'm 35 and I never ever saw my dad not even a photo of him and I made a promise to myself that my kids would know their father it's only now that I see that it's better not knowing your father in some cases coz my kids know their father and see him almost every day passing our house but they dnt know him and he is not even married just a single guy but he just doesn't care.. I asked my daughter my 12 year old daughter why ddnt she tell her dad it's her birthday that day she why should I have to tell her grown man I'm his only daughter how can he not remember my birthday it brought tears to my eyes but we keep it moving hopefully this whole situation makes her and doesn't brake her coz you sir turned out to be just fine you are soft spoken and very respectful to your younger sister
Watching for the 2nd time and it cuts just as deep still, the tears can't help but roll. So thankful for the testimonies of the Qamgana family. You guys have no idea how your stories heal some of us. I'm from a broken home and in somewhat a weird and different way I relate to all the brokeness, shattered dreams, pain, anger, unanswered questions, etc. But what I do draw from all our different stories and pains is this: God has the final say. INKOSI INIBUSISE NJALO BATHANDEKAYO ❤❤🙏🏾🙌🙌
Mr Q I have so much respect for this lad, ndine sonka namhlanje ngenxa yakhe🌻🙏.
Such an inspiration Bhuti wakho NOZI you guys are very lucky to have each other
Finally we meet the brother sisnozi
The GRACE of God 🙌🙌 Thank you bhuti 🙏
Ubomi ngumzamo.You are a man Melathisi.Ungasuki ku Thixo.that 23:45 onwards touches me more.
I know exactly what uMalathisi is talking about....owam utata wathi akanayo imali mandicele kunkoskazi wakhe, a person who worked for saps when I was 2yrs old and resigned ngalanyaka ndipasa ngawo matrix.. .ooTata bethuna 😭😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭I cannot nozi your brother yoooh aibo. I am a mess nje
😭😭😭😭😭😭A painful story with a happy ending ☺🥰🥰
What a painful story yet educative... having a father who is a stranger to you, this is traumatising😟😟😟😟😟. Inokuba you survived all this trauma because God has plan for every living soul. But I do nt like what I am hearing here. How did your father sleep at night knowing that he was not being fair to you😞
Notification gang 💃🏼💃🏼😍
Ncoooh bhutiz isidim😊
The father driving him to the school only to tell him that he won't pay the school is just cruel.
Look "where I am now" 😭❤️
So well spoken👌🙌
Beautiful story...🌻🌼
Labuhlungu elibali kodwa uThixo siyambona ekugqibeleni bambelela Bishop ungutata othembekileyo nkosi Nozie
Road to 50k💃
😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤Powerful Bhuti Malathisi
I enjoyed this video 👌
What a wow😢😢👏👏
Love sisi 💞🇿🇼
The relationship with the father is painful. Ey I wish we could be wise in choosing co-parenting partners.
Been waiting for this
Very touching story indeed 😭😭
Yhooo otata bethu kodwa. Hayi sisono kodwa.
Yhooo wakushiya egate(ini) 😭💔
Signing in💃
"It would be better if my dad was not alive" that's me saying that but "look where I am now" this is why I say THANK YOU PAIN.
Yho hayi 💔
Emotional abuse has more effect on a person than any other form of abuse 😕
So so true 💯
True
my fav nurse
The positivity and calmness in how he tells the story 👌
I am reminded that everything happens for a reason.And our Lord never forsakes us.
Finally we meet Malathisi Qamngana
“Look at where I am now”, he can still do it even here on RUclips. It has been such a pleasure meeting your family Nozi 💕. You mother raised warriors 🙌. Such a beautiful Documentary 👌.
@Malathisi Qamngana, how can I not become a better person after hearing a story such as this. Yes sometimes I do need the "fluff" as a distraction, but this is real "food" for my soul/spirit. Isn't it something how a good mother always finds a way? I am humbled by your honesty, and the father that you are.
When ubhuti Malathisi says "if something slips out of my hand let it slips while I'm busy trying" I felt like he's saying that to me. Just when I felt like everything is falling apart and I wasn't even sure of what to do, I found strength in that statement sika bhuti Malathisi.
Trust me, few months from now I'd be somewhere better and very much better than where I am right. Thank you for these words bhuti wam.
He speaks eloquently like Nozi🥰. It's beautiful to hear a husband appreciate his wife.💞
When he patiently waited for 3 solid hours, then driven to varsity campus only to be told his request was rejected. That killed me 💔
Sad indeed
@@bellaj6088 Eish... as if that wasn't torturous enough... Then he had to take another long walk back home. This was too much to deal with ... I could feel tears burning in my eyes when he was relating the events of that day.
😭😭😭
Yhuu heee ninani
So sad maan
If there’s anything I learned from this episode is that you have to “want” for any of your “needs” to be met. U-Malathisi oozes nothing but will power and strong conviction in all he’s been through, he wanted better himself regardless of the circumstances. What a gentleman! (Having listen to uNozi, uMama and now Malathisi... I see how strong mothers are out there stop at nothing to provide and care). Thank you for sharing Nozi and the team that helped in making the documentary. I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This was so bittersweet, I cried and got strength all at the same time. Thanks for sharing your family with us❤️
so well-spoken, I enjoyed listening to him
Gqithi!...ndimane ndibuya ndizommamela.
Wow ubudoda abukhulelwa nyani!...power bhuti!
This series was so impactful honestly. I love the honesty, authenticity and how raw or real this was. You guys have gone through the most as a family but love how every challenge paved a way to your current success. I aspire 🙌
Nothing got me teary than when the mother mentioned how Nozi bought her the house she is in and the brother mentioning the car Nozi bought. That for me was everything because sometimes when we making it to the soft sifuna uba sodwa on the softness and forget imvelaphi 🙏
It’s the self-awareness for me. Just knowing why we behave a certain way and how we got there.
Ey amaxhosa ayasitya isilungu, what a well spoken gent👏👏
He is so well spoken.. 👌🏿
All I Am Going To Say Is WOOOOOOOOOOOOW Bhuti....Woooooooow, your life is indeed a testimony🤞🤞🤞 #Inspired
I'm in awe of God's grace in your lives I'm sure u Fezi is beaming with pride and u bhuti uyafana no Fezi wena wazithi Ta Garlic😀
Hahaha Ta Garlic
Kids should stay with their parents. Kids brought up by relatives usually end up resenting their caretakers more than their parents who put their responsibilities on relatives.
So true. Their parents are never to be blame. Its always every other person but the person who brought them into this world and then chose to neglect them.
This is so true
For I khow the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you not to harm you,God 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼.
Nozi and family share their hearts, hopes, stories and love with us. All of it reflects their authenticity but also their TOGETHERNESS. I'm part of the family too, because this is beautiful. Aaah, they absolutely have my heart. 🥰💜💙🤎
I see years of Ma's prayers and God's faithfulness in answering them...I'm trully touched by the whole 3 episodes...you guys have revived me without even knowing it..
Jesus lives and He is the way 🙏🙌❤
The healing that comes with your videos🙌🏽🙌🏽
What a sad story but with a beautiful ending. If are reading this and you have a father who is doing right by you, you need to appreciate him and thank God for blessing you with that precious gift of a father. Im glad that despite everything you guys went through you rose above the situation and conquered. You didn't pity yourselves and caused your mom trouble just because your father was absent in your lives. Instead you guys fought and worked hard to be the great achievers that you are today. It is true they say if you are determined to be something in life, you will be it if you stay focused and work against your challenges and obstacles🤗. This was beautiful to watch and thanks to you and your family sis Nozi for sharing your story with us.
Sooo deep, raw and authentic.😩 I’m here for it.😭❤️
Yhu thank you Nozi, 😭😭😭! You and your brother are story tellers, uthi ndimamele (he commands it). Nozi you’re blessed, your brother loves you so much! He’s got a peaceful spirit mani, there’s something special about him and his spirit, I could sense and feel it. Was so touched! Ok, your dad mani how could he leave a child by the gate, to do what there, why frustrate him? But as Bhuti said, God has a plan for everything, He knew what He was preparing Bhuti for. Was so happy to also hear that he’s busy with his studies, Praise be to God, siyabonga mani. And may Bhuti Malathisi have a brighter future, May God’s hand be upon him. Ndinifisela konke okuhle and your offspring
Sad story and I hv a similar story, I was soo heartbroken and I even cut him off but later I realized God choosed him to be my Dad, who am to decide otherwise. All the best
I have a similar story n im still heartbroken and have so many questions why he's doing this to me
@@andisiwemakanya483 For ypur peace sthandwa sami, Ngeke uzithole impendulo ozifunayo, You need to find peace in your heart and accept him as he is , Sabelwe bona uThixo ngeke sbaphe muntu, God have better things for us and he is our faithful and loving father esingancika kuye, Its hurts i know 😘😘😘
It's amazing how your brother is the replica of your mom & you're the replica of your dead 😅
I don't understand people who ill-treat children because that messes up with the child's psychology. I'm glad your brother outgrew & healed from that trauma.
When he said "look where I am now" I really shed a tear.
Thank you for sharing yours & your family's stories ❤️❤️❤️
Nozi u bought ur brother a car, wow. You have a big heart sisi. God bless u❤
I loved every bit of this. This story is so real. Your mom must be so proud of the both of you. I'm so proud of your brother. His perseverance and how he is building his life now.
wow.hi stronger 💪... father situation.. mine said 'no actually andizokwazi ukufundisa cz andiqashwanga apho ufunda khona' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅 yho hayke sana... up to now i wish i hd never knw him...🙌 but we move ke bhuti Malathisi ✌️
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Wow 😭❤️ You guys are really giving us ithemba ebomini
Wooow!!! I respect this Man , I respect your brother Nozie 😭😭😭😍😍🙏🙏🙏🙏 #All_Things_Works_Together_For_Good 🙏🙏
The father situation hit me hard, I have been there and all I can say for now is "God provides".
He provides hey! He provides. Many of us can attest to this😊
Wavela Fante well said and Amen 🙏
I quote these words "...rather not have a father at all". What God has shown me is that He uses the abandoned, the most unlikely. Those left alone to fed for themselves. He did it with Joseph. He did it with buthi Malathisi. He will do it with me. He will do it with you too...
Thank you , I waited to see him for very long time ,the way she speaks about him you just see love in her eyes .
Before i watch this video, let me shoutout to adsence for that 4 min Indian rap✌😁 ive never jammed to an ad like this😂. Ok now back to the video🤗