In a black culture its not a bad thing when your in-laws are saying you have gained weight, to them it means their son(umkhwenyane) is taking good care of you😊
In African culture when umakoti gains weight your in laws are happy coz to them it's a sign that their son is treating you well and you are happy in your marriage which is a plus for the family.
Im glad you very accommodative to your in-laws view and black culture but don't forget yourself in the process. If you find offence in some of the things said to you, please tell your husband to talk to his family about it, politely so that they can also be accomodative to you and your feelings.
Hi. New subscriber. To cook rice correctly, its 1:2. Use this ratio, you will never get it wrong. 1 cup of rice, use 2 cups of water. 2 cups of rice, use 4 cups of water etc.
You’re very self aware - I like how you framed it as “your cultural background is what influenced your relationship with weight gain “. Thanks for sharing!
Ahhh when Mrs D said she loves watching uyajola 9/9🤣😭😭. You will get there with your Xhosa “practice makes perfect 🤩.” Thank you for this video Mrs D 🤪🤩🤭.
I'd like you to make a video on how both families accepted each other. It's not easy especially in African culture. I love African culture, it's so interesting and there's many layers to it.
I disagree with you. African families are the most welcoming. Sometimes there can be a language barrier challenge so that limits communication but the love is abundant
Super cool, especially for a Afrikaaner chick, to embrace a different culture so openly. You are certainly brave and strong headed. Just some tips for your Xhosa. Your clicks are on point. But I would definitely recommend, you listen to Xhosa music, and sing along, even if you don't understand. Also listen to podcasts(I recommend Ithini na lento) and/or watch Showmax, and repeat along, without you trying to look u every single word, this is very important, otherwise it will slow you down. Then all you do is write down words, that come up often which you do not understand and you look them up. If you follow this process, your hearing, pronunciation and vocabulary, will be on point. Even better, is for you to steal phrases from the content you consume, and repeat them to your husband. This is the fastest way to learn any language, and hopefully he will correct you, eventually you will become conversational.
And here I am indulging on some Kentucky fried chicken while I watch this video 😂🤭🤭 Anyway, maybe try basmati rice - it’s simpler to cook in my opinion.
Pour your rice on your pot then add boiling hot water until rice is covered let it soak soon as you see it has absorbed the water rinse it out then add boiling water again make sure the rice is covered by water then let it cook in low heat just observe it see when the water has dried up hope I make sense
Your channel is so refreshing 🥰 if only we can have a day to day vlogs 😅 Can we please also have weekly vlogs even if it’s not every week but that kind of vlogs ( day to day )
Molo koti, weight gain is a sensitive matter especially for us as women in general....like that comment makes cringe, by all means i walk far from ppl who like saying that to me😅😮anyway asikho lapho ..lets enjoy life
I think in African culture it's ok to say someone gained weight but not other cultures. I take offense as a colored when my family says I'm fat. So what? Am I fat eating your food or are you paying for it? No you're not so mind your business. That's my attitude lol. People who are skinny and eat healthy also dir of heart failure etc.
9:33 - 9:46 😂😂😂 Kunge you're so funny. So they went on and on that you're getting fat 😅. Not a bad thing at all in our culture. Sorry on their behalf if you found it offensive ❤.
In a black culture its not a bad thing when your in-laws are saying you have gained weight, to them it means their son(umkhwenyane) is taking good care of you😊
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In African culture when umakoti gains weight your in laws are happy coz to them it's a sign that their son is treating you well and you are happy in your marriage which is a plus for the family.
Im glad you very accommodative to your in-laws view and black culture but don't forget yourself in the process. If you find offence in some of the things said to you, please tell your husband to talk to his family about it, politely so that they can also be accomodative to you and your feelings.
Just subscribed and binged watched all your videos 😅… you’re so lovely and funny at the same time. Refreshing to watch ❤.
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To cook rice correctly, its 1:2. Use this ratio, you will never get it wrong. 1 cup of rice, use 2 cups of water. 2 cups of rice, use 4 cups of water etc.
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I love it when you say “umyeni wam”🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
Me too
You’re very self aware - I like how you framed it as “your cultural background is what influenced your relationship with weight gain “. Thanks for sharing!
Ahhh when Mrs D said she loves watching uyajola 9/9🤣😭😭. You will get there with your Xhosa “practice makes perfect 🤩.” Thank you for this video Mrs D 🤪🤩🤭.
I'd like you to make a video on how both families accepted each other. It's not easy especially in African culture. I love African culture, it's so interesting and there's many layers to it.
I disagree with you. African families are the most welcoming. Sometimes there can be a language barrier challenge so that limits communication but the love is abundant
Please close the front door while you are home alone❤
Super cool, especially for a Afrikaaner chick, to embrace a different culture so openly. You are certainly brave and strong headed.
Just some tips for your Xhosa. Your clicks are on point. But I would definitely recommend, you listen to Xhosa music, and sing along, even if you don't understand. Also listen to podcasts(I recommend Ithini na lento) and/or watch Showmax, and repeat along, without you trying to look u every single word, this is very important, otherwise it will slow you down. Then all you do is write down words, that come up often which you do not understand and you look them up. If you follow this process, your hearing, pronunciation and vocabulary, will be on point.
Even better, is for you to steal phrases from the content you consume, and repeat them to your husband. This is the fastest way to learn any language, and hopefully he will correct you, eventually you will become conversational.
Good girl you are cooking ithanga and then you xhoxha😂😂😂❤ ohh Wooow I'm proud of you dear ❤❤❤👌🙏🙏
When she said " bum bad" I was like NEVER!😂😂😂.. the bigger the better mtase😂😂😂
"Molweni Julle" I love it 😊
I would really love to hear you talk about all those topics you mentioned ❤the food looks delicious😋
And here I am indulging on some Kentucky fried chicken while I watch this video 😂🤭🤭
Anyway, maybe try basmati rice - it’s simpler to cook in my opinion.
We enjoy your videos so much, we wouldn’t mind an hour long video.😢❤😍
Not sure if you will see my comment but as for the rice I want to give you an easier way to make sure it doesn’t stick as much but it cooks perfectly
Pour your rice on your pot then add boiling hot water until rice is covered let it soak soon as you see it has absorbed the water rinse it out then add boiling water again make sure the rice is covered by water then let it cook in low heat just observe it see when the water has dried up hope I make sense
Molo standwa sam 😂❤❤❤ thank you for the vlog our makoti 💕💕😀
Seeing you embracing our culture learning our lounge so beautiful Maan kotiza keep it up we are right behind you ❤ 21:10
Molo makoti, please make your vlogs longer❤.
Your channel is so refreshing 🥰 if only we can have a day to day vlogs 😅
Can we please also have weekly vlogs even if it’s not every week but that kind of vlogs ( day to day )
Lol @uyajola 9/9😂😂😂😂😂😂 you love drama Sisi🤣❤️
Mmmmmyammmmi cookingcc big up 👍👍
In laws compliments umakoti and umakoti only heard an insult 🤣🤣🤣
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please stop🤣🤣🤣
I love your Chanel Koti 😊
Looks delicious 🤤
Yummy! 😋
You gain weight when you are happy. Well according to us black South Africans. Your worth isn’t a number on a scale
You smell everything before using it you are OCD nothing is wrong I had a cousin just like you he even smell glass of water from the tap don't worry
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We are here makoti❤
Molo koti, weight gain is a sensitive matter especially for us as women in general....like that comment makes cringe, by all means i walk far from ppl who like saying that to me😅😮anyway asikho lapho ..lets enjoy life
I think in African culture it's ok to say someone gained weight but not other cultures. I take offense as a colored when my family says I'm fat. So what? Am I fat eating your food or are you paying for it? No you're not so mind your business. That's my attitude lol. People who are skinny and eat healthy also dir of heart failure etc.
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Good morning makoti i like you dressing...god bless you ..
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so guys when is our makhoti inviting us for a braai
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9:33 - 9:46 😂😂😂 Kunge you're so funny.
So they went on and on that you're getting fat 😅. Not a bad thing at all in our culture. Sorry on their behalf if you found it offensive ❤.
Maybe someone has asked this before, but, what does your husband do, in terms of career?
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I love u no complaints
Don't try too hard it's gonna come automatically no offense love you
Buy a rice cooker
Birth control😅
13:29 birth control....
YES!😂 thank you
Very soon you’ll be perfect in isiXhosa ❤you’re doing well 🥹
U Makoti is going be perfect nyani ngoba u ya wu thanda umzi wakhe
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