The 13 best things about having a baby (so far)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 46

  • @Ninjagurl24
    @Ninjagurl24 Год назад +17

    I’m so glad you put the positive side of parenting! So rare to find them nowadays

  • @rachelle2227
    @rachelle2227 Год назад +13

    I feel this video so much!! I’ve been thriving as a mama after my girl turned 1 or so. She’s getting so much more independent and fun! She helps me really live in the moment, and I smile so much when I’m with my girl.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      awww i love this, thanky ou for sharing!

  • @aubreysmith71112
    @aubreysmith71112 Год назад +6

    The "of course it was you" comment made me get teary eyed. I feel that everyday. Like you were the part of me that I didn't even know was missing. ❤ I know that he is his own little person on his own little path through this world but I am so grateful to get to hold his hand for as long as he will want me there as he goes down that path. ❤ This journey has been hard and postpartum depression was the lowest part of my life but he makes any hardship worth it and I am so grateful to have him the good and the hard.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      TRULY - I can't believe Milo hasn't been here for my whole life!!!

  • @thewandgoose
    @thewandgoose Год назад +12

    I love this! I watched the 13 hardest things video when it came out & was looking forward to this one. I myself don't have kids yet & am honestly on the fence. So getting a truthful rounded picture is so helpful. I was wondering if you could share your thoughts (maybe in a future video!) about how you balance being a mom & maintaining a sense of self. That's probably my biggest holdup in having kids. The loss of the "old me," my hobbies, my free time, etc. is more than a little terrifying 😂So I would love your take on making time for yourself, doing the things that make you feel like "you," remembering that you're still your own individual person while still taking care of a child, being a mom and continuing to work, etc.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад +1

      yesss such a vital question - working on more content like this!

  • @myszkokicia7926
    @myszkokicia7926 Год назад

    I’m the mom to a 3 mo old and your #1 is definitely on my list. I love to tell him “I grew you!” and despite him not knowing what I am saying he responds with a giant gummy smile like I am his entire world. Definitely fills my cup ❤

  • @fabiennesand3851
    @fabiennesand3851 Год назад +3

    This video feels so so good to watch. I feel really apprechative for the past two years and even more since I watched you talkeing about the things you love. Feels so good during those ups and downs we all know!

  • @CatOutLoud
    @CatOutLoud Год назад +4

    I have a 6 weeks old baby and this video made me so emotional 🥹❤️

  • @megancox9549
    @megancox9549 Год назад +7

    Thank you, focus on the positive side of kids isn't shared nearly enough.

  • @adventurewtwo
    @adventurewtwo Год назад +5

    Love this! Currently pregnant with my first and I found so much comfort in this video.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      Awww so happy to hear this!!

  • @YourFriendAyana
    @YourFriendAyana Год назад +1

    My babe is almost12 months, and this video has me 🥹. I agree, there’s nothing more grounding and transformative. Being a mama is by far my favorite role I’ve had in this life.

  • @nicolemartel8661
    @nicolemartel8661 Год назад +2

    Baby girl is coming next week and I’ve been low key stressed so this was such a balm for the soul😅

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад +1

      WOW obsessed with this comment

  • @leahciothhenrici7205
    @leahciothhenrici7205 Год назад +3

    Younger follower 🙋‍♀️ I’m 28 and have really loved your content about pregnancy motherhood now that I’m considering that stage for myself. (You also were a factor of how I figured out I have celiac.)

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад +1

      Wow, glad you caught your celiac!! Sending love!

  • @theMad155
    @theMad155 Год назад

    To your point 12, my mom always says, I wonder what we used to talk about before we had kids 😅 I completely see that as my friends have become parents, I just love asking them about their kids and watching them grow and explore.

  • @xtinriver143
    @xtinriver143 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this with us, Lucie! I’m a new mom too and I agree with everything you said ❤

  • @bethanyharker3456
    @bethanyharker3456 Год назад +1

    Aww I'm 23 and am not thinking about having a baby but it makes me so happy to hear all of the joys! So excited for your next chapter in your new house!!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      thank you so much for being here!!

  • @heloisebrunet330
    @heloisebrunet330 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Lucie, I felt how emotional and grateful you are to talk about all this, you got me crying !!! What an amazing adventure, you 3 are doing so great ! I would say, agreeing with most of what you said, that I love how pregnancy and motherhood got me "growing" and evolving profoundly (as never anything else did), and how I managed to take care of myself during pregnancy (more than any other time in my life). Now I try to keep these good habits, and to keep in mind that I am worth taking care of myself even when I am not pregnant :D

  • @juliamiller3404
    @juliamiller3404 Год назад +1

    my nephew is due this november and this makes me so excited to have. ababy in the family!

  • @anasofy1936
    @anasofy1936 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this video! Also I love how you said “parenting team” because that is exactly how parenting should be approached… it’s not a 1-2 person job but a team job bc it’s impossible without help.
    Also where is you sweater from?! I love it

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      I actually ordered it on amazon! amzn.to/48Yemsi

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      And THANK YOU!

  • @zuzukizuzu5801
    @zuzukizuzu5801 Год назад +1

    Younger follower here ✌🏻almost 24 years old, female, Romania. Don't have a kid yet. Don't know if I want one. Love to get inspired by you. All the best!

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад

      Awww thank you for watching!

  • @cd2659
    @cd2659 Год назад +1

    Your own children are unconditionally loved.

  • @megcassidy9055
    @megcassidy9055 Год назад +1

    It made me so excited! Due in March

  • @darcibarreto7756
    @darcibarreto7756 Год назад +3

    Lucie ❤❤❤

  • @sarazhang2134
    @sarazhang2134 Год назад +1

    looking at a piece of pasta 🤣 that is so true!!

  • @gabyf5995
    @gabyf5995 Год назад +1

    🙂

  • @mlghs8771
    @mlghs8771 4 месяца назад

    Number 11,12,13

  • @juliamiller3404
    @juliamiller3404 Год назад

    i wonder if you will ever have twins since it runs in your family!

    • @jimmyfink136
      @jimmyfink136 Год назад +2

      Julia- just a note from Lucie’s dad. Lucie & Allie are fraternal twins. Only identical twins are hereditary. I think the older women get, the more likely they are to have twins. Lucie & Allie’s mom was 38 when she had them.

    • @luciebfink
      @luciebfink  Год назад +2

      correction dad!! @@jimmyfink136 mom was 40 when she had us! 38 when she had robbie!

  • @sunnysnow-v2s
    @sunnysnow-v2s Год назад

    Hello, I love your videos, they are so fun. Are you interested in cooperating with e-bike.