Sifiso failed to connect with his daughter esakhona manje abantu are expecting Ayanda to do it. Ayanda owes Nothile nothing especially after how her Mom and grandmother treated Ayanda when she was gracious about the whole situation.
Seniziba ngomaka Nonke, Sfiso did not only have Nothile as an illigitimate child, Sfiso had 4 illigitimate children, where are others their grandmother's also ill treated Ayanda?
Question 1: Did Sfiso ncwane recognize those children and provide for them while he was still alive if not why should his widow be responsible for recognizing those children when their father did not. Question 2: Did Sfiso ncwane introduce all his children to Ayanda while he was still alive? Question 3: Were all the children named in the estate and in the will. If no is the answer to all those questions why are we burdening a widow with fixing her late husband's mistakes when she has her own children to worry about.
Leave the poor Woman alone. Everyone dragging her should go and ask the ghost of Sifiso Ncwane why his other children did not attend the event? Men must stop making outside babies hoping that when they die wives will take care of them. Never
Can ppl leave Nonku alone, Sfiso has few more kids besides Nothile from other women, that Ayanda never bothered to take care of after izimali za Sfiso ziphumile, this was one of the reasons Sfiso's mom didn't like her cos Sfiso was an absent father to his other kids including Nothile, now who's the common denominator??
Nonku said it her self, she didn't want Sfiso around Nothile, even said Sfiso tried to pay damages but yena ubengafuni. Her husband even adopted uNothile. If he was an absent father to he's other kids, you blame the woman, as if he wasn't a capable human being. And Sfiso's mom left him at 2 weeks old, who is she to hate on Ayanda.
@@Mthimkhulutt yes there’s no need for that. It’s a choice, it’s not necessary. You can’t force people to have a personal relationship and invite them to intimate spaces.
Hau kanti weren't we watching the same thing where it was clearly stated that abusive ex husband didn't allow Nothile nor Nonku to make contact with the Ncwanes🤔
@@thembekapatiencengcobo7840 while that is true, she also admitted to not allowing sfiso to see or pay for damages because she was angry at him. And that was when she was asked why didn't she ask damages from sfiso, when she wanted Ayanda to pay damages.
Haaibo you are also talking something you know little about, Sfiso did not only have Nothile as an illigitimate child, Sfiso had 4 illegitimate children, where are others their mothers refused as well
Mama ngicela uhlukane Makoti wakho uya mhlukumeza , the bible said if l get married l leave my family behind an stand with my wife .if it was Ayanda who passed on would you do the same. Lapha awunalitho yamukela ukuthi indodana yakho ayisekho ubeke konke kumdali uma Kuno yawo lwemfene uzophendula unkulunkulu but awuna lutho emsjadweni wendodana yakho uma ekupha kukuye uma engakuniki alikho icala .sengathi kukhona umuntu oku adverzayo uyakulahla .uhlukumeza ingane yabantu.bonga ukuthi itaphusha abazukulu baya khula.kodwa ayikukoloti. If you move away your son will rest .
I don't know what is going on. I just know that no mother wants to lose a child. Whether it's through marriage or death. Sfiso's mother is a mother that has lost a baby and anybody who has never experienced that must shut up because they do not know the feeling. They are only speculating. Ayanda is a mother and in future she doesn't want to lose her own children to the same fate. What both of them as mothers should have done was to understand the feeling of motherhood and its difficulties. And come to a compromise and understanding that both would never want to loose a child. Marriage doesn't mean parents must lose their . The same way that no parent should lose a child through death. To the young women, pls know that one day you are going to be mothers faced realities of life and you do not want to lose your children under any circumstance. Mithers inlaw and daughters inlaw should know they have one thing in common- Being mothers who do not want to lose their children. The pain is immeasurable. Sons and daughters should know mothers didn't choose to have that feeling about their children. It is a devine thing. Have that understanding that one day you will have it too when you have children. Rude people can answer to this but the truth in my words will never change.
Was it necessary for Ayanda to mention that uSfiso couldn't utter a single english word when they met🚮 ay uyathanda nje ukubukwa nangento engenasdingo. English is just a language bakithi, ukungayazi akukwenzi umuntu ongasile or ongahlakaniphile
Ayikho nje Sisi into e wrong eshiwe u Ayanda ukhuthaza ingane yakhe nje ukuth ubaba wakhe kuningi abengakwaz but umntwana kuningi akwazito shuth kuningi angakufeza .... Kahlen ukuphapha
Advise to Ayanda . Don't respond to someone is behind this l. am man married have children an house if l pass on no one in my family must provoke my wife if she did something she will answer to god .cause it's my choice.i can't be a mama s boy for a ever .usile mama.ufaka nabatwana be ex
Haaibo kanti abantwana be ex akusibo yini abantwana baka Sfiso labo who even deserved a share ku inheritance and his Estate. Yazi pips you will really answer before God you think God takes lightly into ye deadbeat parent. Even the Bible says those believers who do not take care of their immediate family are worse than non believers
If it was me since kubaba wazo nazo although yena he didn't care about them esaphila bengizozi invite depends on their mothers and the kids if they accept my invitation or not kodwa mina ngikwenzile okufanele after all ngimenzela ngemali yami naye umawakhe ngamabomu nje but don't give her any platform especially yokuthi to be on the programme
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Sifiso failed to connect with his daughter esakhona manje abantu are expecting Ayanda to do it. Ayanda owes Nothile nothing especially after how her Mom and grandmother treated Ayanda when she was gracious about the whole situation.
Seniziba ngomaka Nonke, Sfiso did not only have Nothile as an illigitimate child, Sfiso had 4 illigitimate children, where are others their grandmother's also ill treated Ayanda?
Question 1: Did Sfiso ncwane recognize those children and provide for them while he was still alive if not why should his widow be responsible for recognizing those children when their father did not. Question 2: Did Sfiso ncwane introduce all his children to Ayanda while he was still alive?
Question 3: Were all the children named in the estate and in the will. If no is the answer to all those questions why are we burdening a widow with fixing her late husband's mistakes when she has her own children to worry about.
Amen🙏 well put. If the father failed to step up don't blame or come after the widow.
Leave the poor Woman alone. Everyone dragging her should go and ask the ghost of Sifiso Ncwane why his other children did not attend the event? Men must stop making outside babies hoping that when they die wives will take care of them. Never
Can ppl leave Nonku alone, Sfiso has few more kids besides Nothile from other women, that Ayanda never bothered to take care of after izimali za Sfiso ziphumile, this was one of the reasons Sfiso's mom didn't like her cos Sfiso was an absent father to his other kids including Nothile, now who's the common denominator??
Nonku said it her self, she didn't want Sfiso around Nothile, even said Sfiso tried to pay damages but yena ubengafuni. Her husband even adopted uNothile. If he was an absent father to he's other kids, you blame the woman, as if he wasn't a capable human being. And Sfiso's mom left him at 2 weeks old, who is she to hate on Ayanda.
Nonku is harassing Ayanda over nonsense. She didn't make that kid with Ayanda. Can people leave Ayanda alone, please
Idrama and level of entitlement, there is no need for her to invite the daughter
There is no need to invite the daughter to her father's unveiling?
@@Mthimkhulutt yes there’s no need for that. It’s a choice, it’s not necessary. You can’t force people to have a personal relationship and invite them to intimate spaces.
@@Mthimkhulutt yes she's not forced especially after what Nonku & her mom did to Ayanda, how do you extend an invite to your attackers?
Nazi ngani ukuthi akamenywanga, what if kwanwaba abazali
waze wayifaka iPressure enganeni🙄😭😭😭😭
Yeyi bakithi 😂
😂😂😂
Ay shame 😢
😂😂😂
It's called speaking life into your kids aybo
People just love negativity. The daughter could’ve declined, or given Nonkus parenting style, she forbade her daughter from attending
True, i mean she didn't want sfiso to meet his child.
Hau kanti weren't we watching the same thing where it was clearly stated that abusive ex husband didn't allow Nothile nor Nonku to make contact with the Ncwanes🤔
@@thembekapatiencengcobo7840 while that is true, she also admitted to not allowing sfiso to see or pay for damages because she was angry at him. And that was when she was asked why didn't she ask damages from sfiso, when she wanted Ayanda to pay damages.
Haaibo you are also talking something you know little about, Sfiso did not only have Nothile as an illigitimate child, Sfiso had 4 illegitimate children, where are others their mothers refused as well
Siphakathi ezindabeni zabantu nkosiyam. 😂😂
Mama ngicela uhlukane Makoti wakho uya mhlukumeza , the bible said if l get married l leave my family behind an stand with my wife .if it was Ayanda who passed on would you do the same.
Lapha awunalitho yamukela ukuthi indodana yakho ayisekho ubeke konke kumdali uma Kuno yawo lwemfene uzophendula unkulunkulu but awuna lutho emsjadweni wendodana yakho uma ekupha kukuye uma engakuniki alikho icala .sengathi kukhona umuntu oku adverzayo uyakulahla .uhlukumeza ingane yabantu.bonga ukuthi itaphusha abazukulu baya khula.kodwa ayikukoloti. If you move away your son will rest .
Waze wa iyenza into o Ayanda by doing that damn show
Tlohelang Ayanda le shebe taba tsa lona pleaseeeee
Amanda will soon go crazy...a tope, hope amaphepha e strateng
Yey I thought that's her congregation 😅
😂😂😂😂😂Me too
@@nthabee 😂😂😂😂😂
Bayamu phaphela!!!!🗣
I don't know what is going on. I just know that no mother wants to lose a child. Whether it's through marriage or death. Sfiso's mother is a mother that has lost a baby and anybody who has never experienced that must shut up because they do not know the feeling. They are only speculating. Ayanda is a mother and in future she doesn't want to lose her own children to the same fate.
What both of them as mothers should have done was to understand the feeling of motherhood and its difficulties. And come to a compromise and understanding that both would never want to loose a child. Marriage doesn't mean parents must lose their . The same way that no parent should lose a child through death.
To the young women, pls know that one day you are going to be mothers faced realities of life and you do not want to lose your children under any circumstance.
Mithers inlaw and daughters inlaw should know they have one thing in common- Being mothers who do not want to lose their children. The pain is immeasurable.
Sons and daughters should know mothers didn't choose to have that feeling about their children. It is a devine thing. Have that understanding that one day you will have it too when you have children.
Rude people can answer to this but the truth in my words will never change.
Guys no
Umaka nothile umnakwabo ! Wathathelwa indoda uyanda. Uyanda Ajike azoba successful!
Akafuni unothile abo na kale angathi i beggar ku mncane wakhe.
Kodwa phela phakathi kwakhe noNonku engathi akuphelanga kahle. Kuningi nje, let's hope ngelinye ilanga kungaba right phakathi kwabo for the sake yezingane.
uNonku ufuna bahlawule ingane kodwa wayengafuni ngayo uSfiso ephila. She acts as if she knew sfiso more than Ayanda. Akavuse uSfiso azohlawula ingane.
Hei bandla siyabuka ka mhlaba😮
The hair style of the guy
😂😂😂😂
Was it necessary for Ayanda to mention that uSfiso couldn't utter a single english word when they met🚮 ay uyathanda nje ukubukwa nangento engenasdingo. English is just a language bakithi, ukungayazi akukwenzi umuntu ongasile or ongahlakaniphile
Ngempela 😂😂😂😂cause eyiii abantu nje
Yena naye ukhuluma yaka grade 4 musi, that was definitely not necessary shem 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Lapho yena she does not know the difference between he and she. Mxm!
😂😂😂hey kunzima
Ayikho nje Sisi into e wrong eshiwe u Ayanda ukhuthaza ingane yakhe nje ukuth ubaba wakhe kuningi abengakwaz but umntwana kuningi akwazito shuth kuningi angakufeza .... Kahlen ukuphapha
Qubeka ukhulise labatwana kahle usuke kulomama , if abantu beshadile awazi ukungena phakathi kwabo worse omunye emgasekho omama abakhuze .
Haibo uAyanda untenable phi besides the one who was supposed to connect them is no longer there leave her alone haibo
Guys ngishadile and I full aware that my husband has got kids and siyezwana nje kakhulu
Ay kunzimq shame
Am not a stepmom but this is not make sure shem
Khuluma isizulu girl …uyeke English 😂
Yati 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Ok’salayo Nothile is her father’s daughter. She is the only one who looks like her father. Funny how God gives people a reality check
Advise to Ayanda .
Don't respond to someone is behind this l. am man married have children an house if l pass on no one in my family must provoke my wife if she did something she will answer to god .cause it's my choice.i can't be a mama s boy for a ever .usile mama.ufaka nabatwana be ex
Haaibo kanti abantwana be ex akusibo yini abantwana baka Sfiso labo who even deserved a share ku inheritance and his Estate. Yazi pips you will really answer before God you think God takes lightly into ye deadbeat parent. Even the Bible says those believers who do not take care of their immediate family are worse than non believers
OK guys what about umamaKaSfiso ugogo wezingane zakhe usisi kunzima amhlabeni
That gogo is toxic & not a saint always dragging Ayanda in the media so I don't blame Ayanda for cutting her off
She was suppose to invite the daughter because this was actually about her father, abantu abaningi abayalwanga ubephuma emakubo beyogana
There are many kids besides the daughter 😂😅. What she did is a bit off.
If it was me since kubaba wazo nazo although yena he didn't care about them esaphila bengizozi invite depends on their mothers and the kids if they accept my invitation or not kodwa mina ngikwenzile okufanele after all ngimenzela ngemali yami naye umawakhe ngamabomu nje but don't give her any platform especially yokuthi to be on the programme