VLOG: Weekdays in my Life, Some Relationship Insecurities, A Scare + Doing Austin Things

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  • Опубликовано: 5 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 244

  • @MichelJanse
    @MichelJanse  2 года назад +90

    Thank you all so much for being accepting of my very random ~thoughts and feelings~ that I share in car chats. Sometimes, before uploading, I think “okay Michel this is silly to share” but time and time again y’all meet me here with such wisdom and understanding. I’m beyond thankful for this community. You are so special to me!

    • @maryellen9503
      @maryellen9503 2 года назад +2

      It sounds like you have good therapy somewhere. I've been working on the thought "I have never been someone's first choice." Which may or may not be true, but with these sorts of things, it's often what you feel, not what is objectively true.

  • @trisha250
    @trisha250 2 года назад +305

    Just my two cents: To the right man, you will be the MOST exciting choice. (And yes, you have every necessary quality to make you an exciting choice. You. Are. Amazing.) You'll know in your gut when you meet him. Wait for him. ♥

  • @NikitaUnique
    @NikitaUnique 2 года назад +119

    For whoever needs to hear this: The best spouse is one who loves YOU, not the concept of you. They will build you up, not tear you down, but hold you accountable when necessary. They will want to continue to learn about you as you grow and change over time, because you are dynamic and NOT static. Don’t settle for less. ❤️

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +9

      I’m going to remind myself this every day, beautifully said 🥰

    • @NikitaUnique
      @NikitaUnique 2 года назад +2

      @@MichelJanse Thanks, Michel! I need the reminder myself! 🥰

  • @fashionforwardmom8008
    @fashionforwardmom8008 2 года назад +53

    Don’t ever think that you weren’t interesting or good enough for someone else. I am sure your last relationships didn’t fully appreciate you for who you are. They will regret it sooner or later. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Relationships are hard work and always seem more exciting in the beginning. I think it really comes down to realizing what you need/are expecting from someone else to make you feel loved and communicating that well. If they don’t respect you for that, ✌🏼.

    • @evaowens1400
      @evaowens1400 2 года назад

      So true.

    • @crispblox3000
      @crispblox3000 2 года назад +3

      I have totally been thinking the same thing re: the other guys regretting letting her go. Men take years to grow and mature- and when they do, they realize (too late) what they had and callously let go of was a huge mistake.

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for these kind words 🤍

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 2 года назад

      Exactly. Men are looking for a short-term play time, some thrill. If that next relationship works out for them that is great. However, women also are looking for fun and exciting men with a personality probably as well. If a man has all that to offer, then awesome... Haha.

  • @lepetit84
    @lepetit84 2 года назад +34

    Oh Michel, even if it feels like someone was with you because you were "the logical choice," don't forget all the wonderful gifts you bring to the table as a person. It can be hard when the next person they're with is way different from you, but try to remember that that is not a reflection of you. Plus, sometimes it's helpful to look at a relationship through the lens of why YOU chose THEM, because that's the only thing you have real control over.

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +6

      This is a great way to re-frame thinking in a healthier way, thank you for sharing your wisdom 🤍

  • @alanacoletavares
    @alanacoletavares 2 года назад +4

    Okay so I mean this in the nicest possible way, I think it’s time for a new intro song! I love the current one but I feel like there’s a totally new vibe to your channel now and the vlogs are so different now (I love them by the way, I’m always excited for a new one!) it may seem silly but I feel like little changes like that can really make you feel different and new! Love you! 💗

  • @Blo039
    @Blo039 2 года назад +26

    Michel, I love these conversations where you just speak your mind and are vulnerable. You’re such a beautiful human being. I haven’t been here for too long but I can just feel that you’re a genuine person with beautiful feelings and sooo much to offer. This channel has become my comfort place when I just want to disconnect. You radiate so much joy even through this tough time in your life.

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +3

      This is all I want for sharing my life online, so thank you SO MUCH for these very kind words. I’m so thankful for you :-)

  • @alishavial1684
    @alishavial1684 2 года назад +8

    Girl you have so much to offer. Don’t settle for anyone who doesn’t see that. Your next relationship you should really not be content with anything but someone who sees you for how incredible you are & loves you for it.

  • @cassandraboyer7068
    @cassandraboyer7068 2 года назад +38

    Michel, you are such a beautiful person on the inside and outside. There is another beautiful person out there who will be the perfect fit. You will both understand why other relationships didn't work out with prior commitments. I always like to think that there is a REASON why things don't work out, even when we really want them to work at the time. I have found that I trusted that God removed me from the person/situation because there was a better opportunity for me out there. I can say that I finally have my dream job, married, house, kids, and dog now that I am 39. Pursuing my master's degree in Integrative Nursing Leadership. If I hadn't come across adversity, it never would of happened.

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад

      This brings me so much hope and joy. Thank you, Cassandra!🤍

  • @blueseptember2174
    @blueseptember2174 2 года назад +3

    Can your mom do a video on her skincare routine and life in general? I can tell that she has so much wisdom and a beautiful smile!

  • @jeanneewaseck6635
    @jeanneewaseck6635 2 года назад +5

    A bold color in a suitcase makes it easier to find on the carousel. Then again, there are such a thing as travel stickers 🏖⛪🏰🛫

    • @Kaibigan39
      @Kaibigan39 2 года назад

      Neutral will escape the notice of luggage theives better.

  • @ashleyhiemstra
    @ashleyhiemstra 2 года назад +61

    I was definitely an easy choice for my ex, and the transition from him to my husband now was wild because here was a man who chose and wanted and was excited about all of me. Even the hard parts he WANTED to figure out and stick with even more because he WANTED me and loved me for all parts. It was a crazy transition and I’m so thankful. He’s out there, Michel! I’m so excited for you to meet him one day and know without a shadow of a doubt that he is wildly excited about all parts of YOU! Because you are amazing🤍✨

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +7

      this is SO BEAUTIFUL. I’m so happy your husband loves you well, it warms my hear and gives me so much hope!🥰

    • @ashleyhiemstra
      @ashleyhiemstra 2 года назад +1

      @@MichelJanse ❤️❤️❤️

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 2 года назад

      Oh wow what a wonderful thing! My husband was wild about me but his addictions(that he did not disclose, he let win) and grew apathetic toward me. So sad.

    • @kelseysmith3297
      @kelseysmith3297 2 года назад +2

      I went through the same thing with my ex partner and my new partner. It's a night and day relationship experience. The right person cherishes, values and chooses you for you everyday. Even the hard days.

  • @najetteroberts5553
    @najetteroberts5553 2 года назад +33

    listen girl you bring a ton to the table and have to trust that. someone out there is going to be thrilled 😁 to be with you and truly love you! I have been divorced and also got married to a man that accepted me for me. 22 years so far. and three sons later we have shared together. it happens and I get you. trust you are enough!! much love and respect to you. keep pushing forward ⏩!

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +3

      This is so wonderful, thank you for the encouragement and sharing your story 🤍

  • @Dm777-7
    @Dm777-7 2 года назад +1

    You are exciting, loving and beautiful and have an ability to find joy and happiness. In your journey you will continue to see and learn that relationships which did not show you the love which you are and value were not the place for you. Your love for yourself, family and God will find a match. Believe it. 🌺💕🌺💕Thank you as always for your depth of sharing.

  • @karendelong850
    @karendelong850 2 года назад +2

    I also have felt in relationships like I am a "consolation prize". I could work in a pinch ,but they weren't really excited about me.
    I have been praying for you. Accept nothing less than God's best for you.

  • @cindyfroese245
    @cindyfroese245 2 года назад +21

    I think the part where you were talking about them choosing you because you’re the person they think they should be with you makes perfect sense. My ex and I were talking about this recently and he said that he would have married me because he knew I would be a good wife, a good mother and make his life easy. And then the girl he left me (and our baby) for was exciting and fun. Which is when I told him I wasn’t able to be fun around him. Because he expected me to be a certain way. And he never let me choose what to do, it was always his choice… I think it really opened up his eyes, but it also really opened up my eyes..

    • @summervonaesch7424
      @summervonaesch7424 2 года назад +4

      This reminds me of the twitter thread about how men don’t marry the person they loved the most, they marry who they are doing at the time and often settle. Obviously a generalization and doesn’t apply to everyone but I’ve heard about it happening a lot

  • @mandy833
    @mandy833 2 года назад +5

    I've had a similar experience. I think a lot of men liked the idea of me more than they liked me as a person. I think this is more common than you might think.

  • @Rach_lphillips
    @Rach_lphillips 2 года назад +7

    Michel, hearing you talk in your car chat broke my heart because I can relate so much. my relationship before my now fiancé was very mentally abusive and toxic, but I stayed for 4.5 years because it was comfortable and logical for both of us. I knew going into my relationship with my current partner that he would have to deal with what my ex broke and I wasn’t sure he would stick around. Boy was in wrong, he has surpassed my expectations and shown me that if he can he would. I hope you find the same love, respect and cherished feeling that I now have but that I never believed I deserved. I am 28 now and we have been together for 6 years this Monday. The right guy is out there and waiting for you. I’m proud of you. You’re amazing! ❤️

  • @elecops9825
    @elecops9825 2 года назад +2

    Michel, you're not perfect, not a single human being is. But you have so much to offer and so many exciting qualities! You are exciting, fun, spontaneous and adventurous! Just because people made you feel like you weren't exciting enough, doesn't mean everyone thinks that of you. You lead an exciting life, and people are going to be excited to spend time with you. Just look at how many friends, connections and adventures you've had since moving to Austin 💖

  • @nataliegarcia73
    @nataliegarcia73 2 года назад +1

    Totally relatable! What I prayed for in my now husband is: for someone to know me and love me for who I truly am. I am quirky and so is my husband, we love us and that's what matters!

  • @crispblox3000
    @crispblox3000 2 года назад +9

    Michel, first off, thank you for sharing your heart and being so vulnerable in your car chats. This one in particular made my heart ache for you. You are SO amazing- and I really hope you can get to a place where you really, really believe that. And second, you should totally do more deep convo videos like your car chats. Your insight and wisdom is beyond your 25 years!! xoxo

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад +1

      Thank you, sweet sweet friend 🤍

  • @sheilavanduynfote5539
    @sheilavanduynfote5539 2 года назад +3

    I totally understand where you are coming from, however, the next person will be very lucky to have this beautiful and exciting woman. Your ex never knew what a true treasure he had!! The right man needs to be so excited about your relationship that they want to spend as much time with you and NEVER EVER make you feel less. God definitely has a plan for you hang in there.❤️❤️❤️

  • @farahsummer1
    @farahsummer1 2 года назад +2

    Michel, can I just say..you are like the full package type chic. Seriously. I am thinking more that you were dating boys and not men. A man will see you for the prize you are. You are fire lady! A 10!!! I can’t wait for your future person to show you that one day. ❤️❤️

  • @jacelyn3024
    @jacelyn3024 2 года назад +10

    Just got done with my classes for the day, it’s raining, and I’m ready to watch this cuddled up on the couch!🤍

  • @karenwyand7884
    @karenwyand7884 2 года назад +2

    This string of comments is incredible! The people that follow Michel are amazing. She truly brings out the kindness in all of us. Xoxo

  • @cornjuiceproductions2887
    @cornjuiceproductions2887 2 года назад +3

    You should make a cute sisters montage for your sister's wedding gift!

  • @juliewells4282
    @juliewells4282 2 года назад

    Watching you just makes me feel good inside. Thank you for being you!

  • @memoirsofroyce
    @memoirsofroyce 2 года назад

    aww I feel like everyone has felt the same way that you experienced esp when somebody leaves in the relationship we usually have this tendency to ask ourselves "am I not enough?" , "what does that person have that I don't?" but in all honesty, it isn't you it is absolutely not your fault you are more than enough! and it just so happens that person never get to see more of you, they never took the time to appreciate you as you are and most importantly they are only in your life temporarily as life is teaching you to become this much stronger, more wiser & an even more beautiful soul so never ever doubt yourself, you are gorgeous! you are beautiful and you are more than enough and always be grateful for what you have because that is how you attract more good things in your life ♥️ love your videos btw!! 🥰😘

  • @lits3212
    @lits3212 2 года назад

    Michel, thanks so much for sharing this. I lived something similar but reading the comments and seeing you go throigh this gives me so much hope.

  • @HandmadeDawling
    @HandmadeDawling 2 года назад

    It’s so nice to see you are doing soooo well. Good for you!! ❤️❤️

  • @crystalri694
    @crystalri694 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being so open and relatable. I have also split with my partner of 6 years and the last words he told me were “I tried so hard to like you because you seem like the right choice and would be the correct choice but I don’t like you.” He is also now out with girls who are very much opposite of me (fun you can say), so you’re car chat is just another reason to know we must keep going and there is someone for everyone! You’re not alone and all your honesty and wisdom is appreciated ❤️

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 2 года назад

      That type of relationship won't last. I do hope they realize what they lost.

  • @implorapace
    @implorapace 2 года назад

    I love how you share your mind and thoughts. I might not have something wise to say but I do love to hear what’s on your mind 🥰✨ would love to see more of your childhood! Also I truly enjoy seeing peoples ordinary days, nothing fancy just being. 🌻

  • @kcourtney6826
    @kcourtney6826 2 года назад +1

    I loved you car chats you verbalize your feelings in a way everyone can relate. It reminded me when people refer to someone as a “good catch “ .

  • @tessabrugge4758
    @tessabrugge4758 2 года назад +5

    One day the right man will come along and you won't need to prove a thing to him. Be who you are without any fear. Love should not be forced or false, but natural for both parties. xxxx

  • @bridgetg2661
    @bridgetg2661 2 года назад +1

    Hi Michel! You will have someone who is completely invested in you for you - you're amazing and because you're young with so much wisdom and grace you will break through and live a fabulous life. I love watching your videos and know everything will be okay for you - more than okay. Have a great day - love from Australia :)

  • @dominiquehorn5204
    @dominiquehorn5204 2 года назад

    This was such an interesting vlog! I love when you share your thoughts about things! I FINALLY tried out getting my nails done and I’m so in love!!!!!

  • @arpdowell75
    @arpdowell75 2 года назад

    Thank you for your honesty. I sometimes feel the same way so I totally get it. I also think that young ladies that have it together can be intimidating for some men. We aren’t perfect but it somehow it gets in the way. But the right guy will come along and embrace and be excited about all of you and love the good and the messy parts of you! You have been helpful to our marriage. My husband overhears me watching you. He often feels similar to you! It has helped me also understand him better. Thanks for that!!!!

  • @annagorbatoff8716
    @annagorbatoff8716 2 года назад

    Love the green!! And I so resonate with today’s car chat. Thanks for putting words to it Michel 🤗💕

  • @jenniferrowe7484
    @jenniferrowe7484 2 года назад +1

    You deserve someone who loves you whole-heartedly! Don't settle.❤🙏🌷

  • @RachelKay528
    @RachelKay528 2 года назад

    That car chat...that hit me. I very much relate. Thank you for sharing 💕

  • @joycemyrick7053
    @joycemyrick7053 2 года назад +2

    It makes absolute sense. Hang in there. U got this. U have alot to offer anyone. Someone will come along that didnt realize life with u in it. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @morgandevlin155
    @morgandevlin155 2 года назад

    You have a light and excitement about life that the right man will see and cherish. You are exciting by just being you!

  • @julianna.3852
    @julianna.3852 2 года назад

    Thank for another amazing vlog!!! i started my channel during Covid and everytime I watch your videos you always motivate me to keep going Michel! Thank you for being your amazing genuine self. Sending love 💕

  • @lamar9331
    @lamar9331 2 года назад +1

    Going through all this made you realize your worth it and don't settle for anything less.

  • @sandiewilson7975
    @sandiewilson7975 2 года назад +2

    I'm in the first month of my seperation and I have felt this insecurity as well. Although the feeling of not being enough or exciting enough was felt throughout the 5 years. The lesson learned is : you are valuable just as you are, no matter what you do or don't do and no one gets to say or make you feel otherwise. ❤❤❤❤

  • @Murburns
    @Murburns 2 года назад +2

    Not that you said this, but in case it ever crossed your mind - don't try to change (to be more "exciting") thinking that that's what someone else wants. Someone will want you for you and all the things that come with it, all the history and all the future. I think you already know not to change, but just wanted to remind you :) You've got a whole community of 127k who love you, I'm sure there's plenty of men out there who would adore you if and when they get the chance to meet you.

  • @h4ley3lder
    @h4ley3lder 2 года назад

    michel….. i got chills when you said what your car chat was. literally last night i cried to my boyfriend telling him i want him to adore me. to love me for ME, not just because i’m the one he ended up with and loves because i fill a spot. i also don’t have advice for this…. but very weird and cool hearing that come out of your mouth after it being on my mind for a while.

  • @2134knees
    @2134knees 2 года назад

    It totally makes sense. I completely agree with you. I think sometimes people see us as 'safe". And I finally feel like when someone chooses me it will be the ENTIRE me and why they want to be.

  • @suddenlythree
    @suddenlythree 2 года назад +1

    Sending you lots of love. All things work out perfectly.

  • @andreakesterke2830
    @andreakesterke2830 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been the “good on paper” girl who “checked all of the boxes” too. I hope you find the person you really connect with. Embrace the imperfect. Best wishes to you!

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 2 года назад +1

    Aww so sweet seeing old footage of you & sister your mum ( it fun to look back 😜)
    That Banana treat looks soooooo yummy 😋 oh my 😅.
    Love the colour of your Nails ❤️. Great video take care .

  • @stellanovamontessori
    @stellanovamontessori 2 года назад +7

    Your car talk resonated with me not because I’ve had the same experience, but because my husband of 11 years (I’m 40 and we have 2 kids together) is eight years older than me and came with some baggage. He’s actually been married twice before, and he was so honest and upfront about it and we talked about what happened in those marriages extremely early on. I fell in love with HIM. Not even “despite”those divorces, but because of the husband that they crafted for me. He learned a lot and learned who he was and was fully ready for a lifetime of love with me. I got so lucky with him. The right person is absolutely there for you and will love you for exactly who you are ❤️

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад

      This is so special. Thank you for sharing, Kari 🤍

  • @chrissiedcohen
    @chrissiedcohen 2 года назад +3

    Love the car chat! Thank you for that! I think that I made the “right” choice when I got married 25 years ago. I was eager to settle down as I had just finished my master’s degree…I was 26 years old. I wish that my eagerness had been tempered with more patience. Even though we dated for 6 years before marrying, I think more life experience might have taken me in a different direction.
    You will surely be exactly the person whom someone else is looking for!😘

  • @treanabrown3080
    @treanabrown3080 2 года назад

    You got this Michel.. Just find what you think is exciting and then just start being that.. You are already cool in your own way 😌

  • @beverleydryland1146
    @beverleydryland1146 2 года назад

    You are so genuine.......that's why I enjoy your videos from Bunbury western Australia x

  • @maryrain2162
    @maryrain2162 2 года назад +1

    You are totally exciting, Michel!!! Any man would be BLESSED to have you❣❣❣Just make sure you are evenly yoked. 🙏🙏🙏✝️

  • @lauramarazzi1012
    @lauramarazzi1012 2 года назад

    The air filter was so satisfying to watch! Also love your car thoughts!

  • @anjelijayme4610
    @anjelijayme4610 2 года назад

    The right person will appear at the right time. Be thankful for the lessons and don’t ever put it on you as being a logical choice. Those are their issues and not anything you can control. So sorry that you had to go through the pain. You deserve way better ❤️

  • @birdie6916
    @birdie6916 2 года назад

    Hi Michel, I totally understand the thoughts about a new person choosing you despite your baggage... all parts of you! Not exactly the same as what I went through 6 years ago, with having cancer at a young age, and realizing the person I was with at the the time just couldn't handle it (and didn't want to). I took on the mindset that whoever was meant to be in my life after the cancer was really going to have to choose me and what I had endured... and be able to understand on some level that it would always be a part of my life. I was blessed to meet that wonderful man 3 years ago. So... sometimes when you least expect it, you meet someone who really truly loves you despite the baggage, or even because of it... because you were able to get through a hard, dark time in your life and come out the other side with newfound strength, gratitude, and perspective. 💖

  • @loudlittleroar675
    @loudlittleroar675 2 года назад

    Your brows look great!! And you have a sparkle in your eyes! The girls trip did you good!

  • @ms.hellobello3623
    @ms.hellobello3623 2 года назад

    Always here for the vlog fam! Loving your make-up, what’s your latest go to blush? I’ve been looking for a new one.

  • @joytimmerman6185
    @joytimmerman6185 2 года назад

    I actually teared up during your car chat and said a prayer that you would find a partner that just is so happy to be with you. I understand exactly where you are coming from. After a loooot of wrong turns I found my person. He is nothing I would have thought of but he is the one for me. I know you will find it and they will be so lucky!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 2 года назад +1

    Good morning michel happy Thursday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs is sooo good I'm proud of you gurl because you are sweetheart and you are amazing Supporter

  • @KasiJayPeil
    @KasiJayPeil 2 года назад

    Ug im sorry you feel that way, but im glad you see that the future relationship will be better and healthier ❤

  • @arickovalenciacarrasco4464
    @arickovalenciacarrasco4464 2 года назад

    You're so smart and I love how much you've grown since the divorce

  • @AvaCalhoun
    @AvaCalhoun 2 года назад +1

    your outfit is SO CUTE, i love it 💕

  • @nualanicghearailt8011
    @nualanicghearailt8011 2 года назад

    That is a gorgeous colour on you! Happy belated birthday too!

  • @Shop-Girl
    @Shop-Girl 2 года назад

    It seemed like it took forever for this Vlog to come out. I do not know why. It sounds like you are still growing and learning. Which is awesome, becoming the best version of ourselves, is I believe God’s plan for us. Love you girl! Keep being you.

  • @kimberlylewis4810
    @kimberlylewis4810 2 года назад +2

    Michel, fellow EDSer here. But me and my husband split in September. He was a serial cheater and I too am dealing with tons of insecurities because of that relationship (it was 20 year). I tried to put myself back out there and found someone who cheated. So I know fully how you are feeling. BUT We are already winning Bc we aren’t living with the Ex-liars. Hugs babe, we’ve got this.

  • @vitoriaxaraujo
    @vitoriaxaraujo 2 года назад +1

    love you so much Michel

  • @musicalpineapples8625
    @musicalpineapples8625 2 года назад

    I always choose bright suitcases so that I can find them easier in the airport. Just a thought!

  • @deniseolmstead6415
    @deniseolmstead6415 2 года назад

    Love love love the green nails!! Beautiful!! 😍

  • @beckywood5671
    @beckywood5671 2 года назад

    Do the reaction to family videos with your family! That would be so fun!!

  • @raebtfl
    @raebtfl 2 года назад

    Such a vulnerable car chat. Appreciate your vulnerability.

  • @rondastothers472
    @rondastothers472 2 года назад

    Two things….
    I loved the top you wore while Bree was over. I also love your grey sweater made from plastic water bottles. I have it and I love it so much. I bought two to always have one years from now.
    Cute coffee mug so I need to know the brand and where it is from.
    Pretty pretty straightened hair. I do switch out each week my shampoo and conditioner. I don’t buy huge bottles but I know this is great for your hair. You can do it each month with a three month rotation.

  • @grafffuller3265
    @grafffuller3265 Год назад

    We love your normal days, and we love you, too.

  • @elecops9825
    @elecops9825 2 года назад +3

    Your hair looks so pretty straight!

  • @JJ-pc3fh
    @JJ-pc3fh 2 года назад

    Happy belated birthday! A couple books that I really found helpful. This one is old, In The Meantime by Iyanla Vanzant & a new one, You Are More Than You Think You Are by Kimberly Snyder.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 2 года назад

    We have to realize and accept that some people are stepping stones in our life and so we need to also accept that we are stepping stones for others as well. Its ok to just be a character in their story for a while and then our time in their story is over. Because there will be people that are temporary characters in our story as well. Growing and maturing lets you makes peace with that

  • @allyssumrose
    @allyssumrose 2 года назад +2

    Lol Michel I didn't know that having your apartment building surrounded by SWAT & National Guard is a normal day for you 😂😂😂😂😂!!! Thank you for the much needed laugh!!! Oh hey I wanted you to know that I noticed the floor that had the honeycomb pattern 😁. I'm curious what you will think of the Olaplex products after you use them on a regular basis. I recently had my hair professionally bleached & it is 'damaged bad'! My hair was a medium brown with black sections underneath & mixed into the medium brown I had previously had blonde highlights. So going from brown with black to bleached blonde there was some damage happening there. I bought the Olaplex 0 & Olaplex 3 which is helping but it is a process in getting my hair as silky as it was prior. I recently bought the Olaplex no. 8 masque & I LOVE IT!!! If you haven't tried the Olaplex no. 8 masque I think you'll love it too!! *Hey is Brie your friend that had the rocking bangs? I ask cuz I didn't see those rocking bangs on her in this vlog 🙁. Bring back the rocking bangs Brie 😁👍* Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 😃

  • @mayalakhenpaul
    @mayalakhenpaul 2 года назад

    Your interesting and beautiful … just because your divorced it doesn’t mean someone has chosen you, you choose them too. Your channel is amazing and you deserve the best. I’ve been watching you for a while and think your so incredible xx

  • @laurielansue4131
    @laurielansue4131 2 года назад +7

    Just had to say something. Your aura is beautiful. Your ex's aura is not. I know you might be tempted to defend him because it is your kind, loyal nature. He did not and does not deserve you. Do not compare yourself to the next girl. Be you always! 💛

  • @jesreviews6429
    @jesreviews6429 2 года назад +2

    I LOVE the idea of digitizing home videos! Would you be able to share a link or a bit more info? That would make the perfect gift!

  • @Itsyvette22
    @Itsyvette22 2 года назад

    loving your vlogs!

  • @Chewtubehuskyhouse
    @Chewtubehuskyhouse 2 года назад

    Omg Michel you and your sis need to recreate some of these childhood clips as adults! Maybe IG reels or YT shorts? 💖💖💖

  • @le4905
    @le4905 2 года назад

    I haven't had Bananarchy in at least 11 years!! Omg.
    I love the long vlogs!

  • @cherylsimmons4540
    @cherylsimmons4540 2 года назад +3

    The brighter the suitcase the better if flying to see your luggage on the turnstile at the baggage pickup.

  • @dutches8384
    @dutches8384 2 года назад

    Love you’re new nail color! 🔥

  • @stzookster
    @stzookster 2 года назад

    I love the air filter part.

  • @patjennings3760
    @patjennings3760 2 года назад +1

    Any man would be blessed to have you. 🥰 beautiful inside and out x

  • @rjrambo
    @rjrambo 2 года назад

    My heart hurt so much for you talking about your insecurity..but I feel you, ive been there..and it will be easier to find someone that loves you for you now that you've realized that. Many hugs. I wasn't looking for the man that chose me, and here we are 6.5 years later with 2 little boys.

  • @thayerwilliams905
    @thayerwilliams905 2 года назад +3

    my last relationship was another of those "I was the useful option available " it took me a really long time to put that thought together. and 4 years after I left it still stings to know how much that factored in.
    and for me personally, having the right words to label and think and process things has always been crucial for me being able to appropriately handle things or process things

  • @kierstenr1993
    @kierstenr1993 2 года назад

    I had a similar thing with my previous exes as well. I finally just decided to not budge on any of my standards even if it made me seem rigid and mean. I figured the right guy would come along and he did! I’ve been married 7 weeks now and things are great! I’m glad I didn’t settle and I didn’t lower my standards for a guy.

  • @Hollyfae
    @Hollyfae 2 года назад

    I understand your deep thought completely and I have something to add - I think someone will be so excited to choose you for two reasons, Michel. 1. When you get married at a very young age (which I also did) you are a blank canvas. You don't know you yet, and they don't either. That can go either way, you could both grow in the same direction (like your parents)- or you could grow in polar opposite directions (like your relationship). 2. You have chosen yourself. You are getting to know yourself, you stood up for yourself, and you are blossoming into the full blown version of you. Someone is going to be SO excited about you Michel, they will adore the things that you fear are boring and you will adore them in ways you haven't even experienced yet. I can't wait for you to have that experience.

  • @raymars
    @raymars 2 года назад

    And don’t forget YOU have to be excited for your partner as well and never settle because it seems the right choice. 😉 It’s both ways. I wish you an exciting future 🥳❤️

  • @charissefhey
    @charissefhey 2 года назад

    Hi Michel! Super love hanging out with you ❤️❤️ could you also link your air purifier and the new filter? Thanks!

  • @tinad4182
    @tinad4182 2 года назад

    If I can be completely honest, I think some people can be temporarily excited about a person but can’t sustain it. While you may be safe, there’s nothing boring or unexciting about you. There’s going to be a man that will appreciate you for the rest of your days. That’s the man God has for you!

  • @kiwimitts2
    @kiwimitts2 2 года назад +8

    Always so happy to see your vlogs. I'm going through a divorce right now and your videos are somehow comforting I guess. Makes me feel less alone.

    • @joanneedwards5630
      @joanneedwards5630 2 года назад

      Sending love.

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  2 года назад

      I’m so honored to do life with you, especially during the challenging seasons 🤍

  • @mooremindfulmoments6599
    @mooremindfulmoments6599 2 года назад

    I think it can be really easy to decide to say yes to a relationship simply for the sake of being in a relationship versus actually committing to the person for the long haul. I know I have to check my heart with this
    Air filter wise sometimes you can buy ones that are washable if you just rinse them with a hose

  • @charlenesmith209
    @charlenesmith209 2 года назад +2

    Love your birthday sweater!! I love the pattern and the color! Your nail color is pretty too!! Your feelings are all yours now doll so however you feel that you should feel or look for in a mate, you satisfy you!! Find one that checks all your boxes!! I love going along with you on your daily journey!!