This is one of the more cringey aspects of "pick-up"....make sure some other chick is watching while you tell a joke to a couple other chicks and time it EXACTLY right so as to reap the benefits. Sounds like more trouble than its worth 😂
Knowyourmeme says people have been saying, "I see what you did there," since 2005. A perfect demonstration that originality is not a characteristic you find from people running game out of Mystery's playbook.
I disagree. I am a good looking man but all my life I was extremely shy so I didn't know how to socialize. This made it very hard to attract women and keep them interested. My experience is that women will be attracted by looks in the initial stages of courtship, but looks only get you so far... Once they find out you have no personality that's when they just walk away and find a guy that can keep their interest.
As for the "acting cool" and stuff like that. Ive been at this for a while now and trust me, they arent looking for who acts like the coolest guy. They want the realest guy out there. Meaning you can act goofy, different, or uncool and still catch the attention of many beautiful ladies if your real and authentic. Women choose the men they do for specific reasons unlike the reasons that men choose a women. They like you because of who you are, not how cool you look or tough you act like.
That's in Mystery's second book and he refers to that as the "Ghost and Flame." There's no one way to be, and he said trying to look cool looks boring.
although at the same time I think some of the theory can be applied and may make you appear more confident which is a good thing so.. depends what you believe in I guess.
@izzynobre You're wrong actually sorry. He's teaching a lesson here on hired guns. He already taught lessons on getting women to surround you so he's not using circular logic in this case.
I have to laugh at PUA. What they never teach is the "now what?" moment when you landed the woman, she nags you constantly, you're spending all your money on her and she's stopped putting out. Congratulations! You won the girl....LOL.
DEAR ALL!!!! Im trying to find out what Mystery is up to nower days please let me know. any new Pua stuff or traing let me know. Got like $4000 I dont mind blowing on a seminar
No its proving you can get women and are good with women. That's the way of the world. Besides a lot of guys have female friends. Doesn't mean she's attracted you in that way but it does show you can be respectful. So if that's circular logic then surgeons must be really bad. To be a good surgeon you need to do surgeries. Its just how it works.
Also, don't believe that looks aren't important, they are a factor to EVERY one. Unless you have a real evil lady that is only after money etc. Basically, I'm saying if you are going so far as to look at these tricks for help, then go ahead and make yourself look good. Take regular showers, smell nice, brush your hair. Don't look like you've been sitting in a basement for years. :P It does matter at least to some extent. It's better safe than sorry amirite?
izzynobre This is pre selection. It's demonstrate such high value... How many woman you have, most atractive you are. But does not mean that you necessarily need woman, to pick up another women
no, he's essentially saying you can 'upgrade' to a beautiful woman (aka hired gun). Imagine coming out of nowhere and hitting on a bartender.. in that scenario you are almost guaranteed to fail.
He is still the grandmaster! My first pua guru. But game or gaming is all about getting better and enjoy fucking everything. Even corona make us pretty calm. Nah
People never liked him: You had the media making fun of them on most interviews, which they kept coming back to because people either loved their work or hated it. Now, with Feminism fully rooting as a cultural norm, which it was only starting to during this time, it was seen as the 'right' thing to hate PUAs. Their methods aren't perfect, and shouldn't be taken literally, but they give a shit ton of insight into human psychology and how we can apply that as a skill.
When I reach out to another human, I've found doing so from a place of total honesty lays the absolute best foundation. Tell Patrick Bateman I said "hi" at the next Tupperware party, killer.
I've accidentally happened to have been born with a smidgen of natural game, and I've observed everything Strauss wrote about Mystery and the rest of the PUA's in the field - meaning that over the years I've watched women react to different men, and everything Neil and Mystery said in the book, is all true. Mystery seems like the real thing, no one else I've seen so far seems real.
Women goes on looks, but that's not a static thing. It includes how you hold yourself, your body language and facial expressions. PUA covers that and includes how to nurture that initial spark of attraction. Quite right that it's difficult to change someone's (woman or man) mind once it's made up.
@DanMyers83 - Looks aren't that important man, women just want to feel secure. In order to make them feel that, you need to come across as being an alpha male (provider, protector and a leader). I read a program (the one on "be the bad boy {dot} com") and one of the many things it opened my eyes too is the fact that I needed to get over my shyness and to stop being so "nice", available and accommodating to the girls I was after because women associate that shit with weakness.
This is bullshit, You can't teach someone how to become a ladys man, what you need is skills that comes with experience, good social and communication skills and a confidence.
life is a game ! depends for who ! depends how you see , conceive things ! we are all playing a role some people are not aware of it some are ! its like a huge fucking movie / video game .... life's a game ! ;)
@NakenKenguruTiss maybe your doing it wrong, girls in a club dress up for hours and know they look good and usually enjoy being in photos. 2nd do you think the whole club who think your an ass for doing it. maybe one or two drunk guys would if you failed and they would forget anyway but who gives a shit about them anyway.
The guy has a point, when women who want to hook up see a guy with other decent looking women who's part of their group, the guy's status goes up. As compared to being alone, you come off as a creeper.
Yeah the whole thing is based off looks, I mean you see how some guys who are good looking can treat women its because of there looks. The whole you don't have enough game is just a shame tactic to blame the male for not being good looking.
@mastereismaname it's not a "trick" it's just people. people are ehoistic self centerd people and if they see some one who is "better" than them then the'll try to some how get past you.
Eh, I think it all depends on what women you are going after (this is to all the unsure guys). If you are trying to get women in the club, his techniques are spot on. And I'll say that some of his other tips, like confidence, are great in any situation. (but that goes for both sexes). Just don't lose yourself trying to be something you're not, especially if you are trying to get the girl of your dreams, (as opposed to someone you just want to have sex with.) Being true to yourself is hot.
Mystery was a performer- a professional magician/illusionist- so adapting a persona to keep and audience's attention was part of his work. His work is very helpful for performers also, especially about the pausing and body language. I respect his work ethic.
Anyone who's literate knows I'm not missing your point. You're saying we wear masks depending on what company we keep. But no matter how self aware you are of that twisted reality, if you're okay with that, it only makes you even more dishonest. Or more disingenuous. Or more unoriginal. Whichever adjective you prefer. We can totally agree on one thing though. MM is definitely no different.
@zinizterz He's definitively teaching entertainment; casual entertainment. Being magician, it makes sense. He is teaching how to entertain people in order to get them interested in further social interaction with you. Unfortunately, he doesn't make it sound that simple. Instead, he makes it sound so deep by using an invented pseudo-intellectual dialect full of dumb acronyms. It's huge pile of BS.
That was indeed circular. Well said. The guy is good but some of his methods are rather over complicated. Getting a woman's panties off need not be so complex. We are here because people have been having sex for as long as they have existed. The 'game' makes it seem enigmatic and complex. I prefer Alan Roger Currie to this guy. I did study Mystery years ago and had some success but the effort I had to put in was just not worth it.
@DavePazz To assume that every attractive woman is hit on a lot is ridiculous. Most aren't (except maybe at pubs/clubs, which are terrible places to try and pick up), and a bit of confidence and charm will get you a long way.
Everything has an expiration date, especially near-meaningless catch phrases. You don't actually think I'm depressed. You're just trying to be condescending. Trying and failing.
yeah youtube vids help make it easy to meet 5 out of 10s but if you want to pickup 10s you need to have game or you will get crushed study the video on PUA66.COM We run heedlessly into the abyss after putting something in front of us to stop us seeing it.
thats another story . mystery said he is wearing weird clothes so it can be used a pea cocking and it can be more hard more him to be '' accepted '' so he will be better at his game ! he is pushing boundaries :)
@Archibald: The reason to take the time to learn "game" is so you can differentiate yourself between the dozens of other guys that hit on them throughout any given week. It doesn't hurt to study up a bit on female psychology, body language etc. to increase your chances to get the girl to notice you. Learning "game" is your IN.. once you establish rapport with the girl, you can then be yourself.. Game just gets your foot in the door. Oh, and the program on "Mack Methods, com" is good man.
That's not true. How can it be weakness if you show courage to go for her and go for what you want no matter what. You are actually showing weakness by being someone you’re not. You are seeking approval because you think that being yourself is not good enough. It might work in the short run, but In the long run she’s going to see you were lying. The real weakness is you not being yourself to get approval not the other way around. You would have known if do something instead of reading something
Stevie van de Laar man,the be yrself line is total bollocks unless youre superman or batman..so you want a fat gross dude who munches on doritos 24 hours a day in front of his pc screen to be himself?
This guy is awesome. He is a machine with it. Totally smooth and easily keeps my ADD/ADHD ass focused.
This is one of the more cringey aspects of "pick-up"....make sure some other chick is watching while you tell a joke to a couple other chicks and time it EXACTLY right so as to reap the benefits. Sounds like more trouble than its worth 😂
Knowyourmeme says people have been saying, "I see what you did there," since 2005. A perfect demonstration that originality is not a characteristic you find from people running game out of Mystery's playbook.
Dude, you're blowing me up with these double-taps. You get 500 characters. Make 'em count.
why does Joe D always look like he's stoned?
@xXXdimixx He dresses like that on purpose. all part of the game
I disagree. I am a good looking man but all my life I was extremely shy so I didn't know how to socialize. This made it very hard to attract women and keep them interested. My experience is that women will be attracted by looks in the initial stages of courtship, but looks only get you so far... Once they find out you have no personality that's when they just walk away and find a guy that can keep their interest.
As for the "acting cool" and stuff like that. Ive been at this for a while now and trust me, they arent looking for who acts like the coolest guy. They want the realest guy out there. Meaning you can act goofy, different, or uncool and still catch the attention of many beautiful ladies if your real and authentic. Women choose the men they do for specific reasons unlike the reasons that men choose a women. They like you because of who you are, not how cool you look or tough you act like.
That's in Mystery's second book and he refers to that as the "Ghost and Flame." There's no one way to be, and he said trying to look cool looks boring.
I'm reading this book and I can't hate. It's good.
@BlazingStyle right, "help" them after you charge them hundreds if not thousands of dollars.
I didn't know it was possible to laugh if you don't have a soul.
although at the same time I think some of the theory can be applied and may make you appear more confident which is a good thing so.. depends what you believe in I guess.
@izzynobre You're wrong actually sorry. He's teaching a lesson here on hired guns. He already taught lessons on getting women to surround you so he's not using circular logic in this case.
mystery and matador are my fucking heroes
is that the PUA music in the back.
Have you ever picked up a woman? You have to be precise like a surgeon. And if she's ugly...
I have to laugh at PUA. What they never teach is the "now what?" moment when you landed the woman, she nags you constantly, you're spending all your money on her and she's stopped putting out. Congratulations! You won the girl....LOL.
LMFAO so true
Mystery is not an ugly guy. Therefore, doesn't that kind of negate half the stuff he is teaching to us normal guys?
DEAR ALL!!!! Im trying to find out what Mystery is up to nower days please let me know. any new Pua stuff or traing let me know.
Got like $4000 I dont mind blowing on a seminar
No its proving you can get women and are good with women. That's the way of the world. Besides a lot of guys have female friends. Doesn't mean she's attracted you in that way but it does show you can be respectful.
So if that's circular logic then surgeons must be really bad. To be a good surgeon you need to do surgeries. Its just how it works.
@DavePazz eh kinda not really though.
"Flash her from a distance." Isn't that a crime?
Also, don't believe that looks aren't important, they are a factor to EVERY one. Unless you have a real evil lady that is only after money etc. Basically, I'm saying if you are going so far as to look at these tricks for help, then go ahead and make yourself look good. Take regular showers, smell nice, brush your hair. Don't look like you've been sitting in a basement for years. :P It does matter at least to some extent. It's better safe than sorry amirite?
Strike up a conversation, be confident, be witty and charming, ask for the number and then leave. Fuck this 'value' shit.
I watched that video. "loophole in womens psychology?" NOW THAT'S the most sexist fuckign thing ive ever heard....
fuck yeah mystery.
Hey, is your aunt busy this weekend? Fat chix are my jam.
I approve and second this comment! Mode One is the best!!!
That's a horrible analogy, just so you know.
who else thinks this is creepy as fuck ??
***** may nobody else thinks because everybody here are creep themselves.
Judgmental bitch
And you actually paid 69$ for MackMethods?
I want to say something negative about this video, but I'll reframe for fear of being flooded with objective comments from PUA apologists.
@DavePazz Actually, it's called common sense.
Whats the name of the show ?
VH1 THE PICKUP ARTIST. AVAILABLE ON AMAZON
best
1:56
ahahahhahahaha priceless!
mystery method is too mechanical, everything is planned out nothing it natural.
that blonde guy is hot. why is he here?
What the fuck are they wearing ?
So all you needs is other girls friends and its easier to get a girl friend. :D? ahhh
Or you just go to the Philippine islamds and forget all this bs
God, what bullshit.
I watched the video. It sounds like a total fucking ripoff!
I love the circular logic in his teaching. "To get women all you need is to already have some women".
izzynobre This is pre selection. It's demonstrate such high value... How many woman you have, most atractive you are. But does not mean that you necessarily need woman, to pick up another women
easiest method ever.bringing a hot gal to the gym leads to so many encounters when you go alone later on
mano, pq caralhos o izzynobre tá aqui aushauhsuahushuashaush
@@nully6933 pq caralhos o brasileiro ali em cima tá falando em inglês com o Izzy? 🤣🤣
no, he's essentially saying you can 'upgrade' to a beautiful woman (aka hired gun). Imagine coming out of nowhere and hitting on a bartender.. in that scenario you are almost guaranteed to fail.
RSD WILL NEVER ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING AS BIG AS THIS
Kenny TheChefCurry already have
ruclips.net/video/w65qBE-5fWg/видео.html&ab_channel=JulienFreeTour
They’ve done way better at this point
I agree. RSD is too mainstream and becoming slightly politically correct.
What are you talking about, mystery trained owen, some concepts are same, some are different. But fundamentals are same
0:47 That Face though XD
@2:22 it's as if Homer simpson has signed up for the Game play..
*NEXT ON: Mystery Method Flashing HIV*
2:22 It's like he saying, "Wut?"
its strange how people are so negative to this guy but few years ago he was loved just wondering what happened??
They realized game is bullshit
They grew up.
The The black pill/ Incels addicted to porn have taken over the internet. Game is evolving but the human psyche. Takes millions of years to evolve.
He is still the grandmaster! My first pua guru. But game or gaming is all about getting better and enjoy fucking everything. Even corona make us pretty calm. Nah
People never liked him: You had the media making fun of them on most interviews, which they kept coming back to because people either loved their work or hated it. Now, with Feminism fully rooting as a cultural norm, which it was only starting to during this time, it was seen as the 'right' thing to hate PUAs. Their methods aren't perfect, and shouldn't be taken literally, but they give a shit ton of insight into human psychology and how we can apply that as a skill.
When I reach out to another human, I've found doing so from a place of total honesty lays the absolute best foundation.
Tell Patrick Bateman I said "hi" at the next Tupperware party, killer.
He behaves in a way that's so refined...
I think it is more important to actually have higher values, not just show them. Seduction may be a game, but life is not.
I've accidentally happened to have been born with a smidgen of natural game, and I've observed everything Strauss wrote about Mystery and the rest of the PUA's in the field - meaning that over the years I've watched women react to different men, and everything Neil and Mystery said in the book, is all true. Mystery seems like the real thing, no one else I've seen so far seems real.
Mystery is the godfather of this shit
So you have borderline personality disorder
Women goes on looks, but that's not a static thing. It includes how you hold yourself, your body language and facial expressions. PUA covers that and includes how to nurture that initial spark of attraction. Quite right that it's difficult to change someone's (woman or man) mind once it's made up.
These men already dress in a way that lowers their social value.
@DanMyers83 - Looks aren't that important man, women just want to feel secure.
In order to make them feel that, you need to come across as being an alpha male (provider, protector and a leader).
I read a program (the one on "be the bad boy {dot} com") and one of the many things it opened my eyes too is the fact that I needed to get over my shyness and to stop being so "nice", available and accommodating to the girls I was after because women associate that shit with weakness.
Genius!
Matador is desperately trying to stay awake throughout this whole video
this guy should teach social dynamics
This is bullshit, You can't teach someone how to become a ladys man, what you need is skills that comes with experience, good social and communication skills and a confidence.
No way, you answer my question first. What's your aunt doing this weekend?
life is a game ! depends for who ! depends how you see , conceive things ! we are all playing a role some people are not aware of it some are ! its like a huge fucking movie / video game .... life's a game ! ;)
The guy in the middle is like... almost falling asleep! Hahahaha
@NakenKenguruTiss maybe your doing it wrong, girls in a club dress up for hours and know they look good and usually enjoy being in photos. 2nd do you think the whole club who think your an ass for doing it. maybe one or two drunk guys would if you failed and they would forget anyway but who gives a shit about them anyway.
The guy has a point, when women who want to hook up see a guy with other decent looking women who's part of their group, the guy's status goes up. As compared to being alone, you come off as a creeper.
Yeah the whole thing is based off looks, I mean you see how some guys who are good looking can treat women its because of there looks. The whole you don't have enough game is just a shame tactic to blame the male for not being good looking.
@mastereismaname it's not a "trick" it's just people. people are ehoistic self centerd people and if they see some one who is "better" than them then the'll try to some how get past you.
at 1:07 Metador thinks about a specific situation with girls in the past:)
I suppose rockstars, celebrities and others with unique style fit this category too huh?
Eh, I think it all depends on what women you are going after (this is to all the unsure guys). If you are trying to get women in the club, his techniques are spot on. And I'll say that some of his other tips, like confidence, are great in any situation. (but that goes for both sexes). Just don't lose yourself trying to be something you're not, especially if you are trying to get the girl of your dreams, (as opposed to someone you just want to have sex with.) Being true to yourself is hot.
Mystery was a performer- a professional magician/illusionist- so adapting a persona to keep and audience's attention was part of his work. His work is very helpful for performers also, especially about the pausing and body language. I respect his work ethic.
LMFAO The guy at the end was like wtfffffff
Could you elaborate on that?
As a female, I think mystery's methods are sexist and stupid.
I'm Almost at that level!
............Orrrr you could just walk up to her with a big smile on your face and introduce yourself. Just a thought
hehe....
Anyone who's literate knows I'm not missing your point. You're saying we wear masks depending on what company we keep. But no matter how self aware you are of that twisted reality, if you're okay with that, it only makes you even more dishonest. Or more disingenuous. Or more unoriginal. Whichever adjective you prefer.
We can totally agree on one thing though. MM is definitely no different.
@zinizterz He's definitively teaching entertainment; casual entertainment. Being magician, it makes sense. He is teaching how to entertain people in order to get them interested in further social interaction with you. Unfortunately, he doesn't make it sound that simple. Instead, he makes it sound so deep by using an invented pseudo-intellectual dialect full of dumb acronyms. It's huge pile of BS.
That was indeed circular. Well said.
The guy is good but some of his methods are rather over complicated. Getting a woman's panties off need not be so complex. We are here because people have been having sex for as long as they have existed. The 'game' makes it seem enigmatic and complex. I prefer Alan Roger Currie to this guy. I did study Mystery years ago and had some success but the effort I had to put in was just not worth it.
@DavePazz To assume that every attractive woman is hit on a lot is ridiculous. Most aren't (except maybe at pubs/clubs, which are terrible places to try and pick up), and a bit of confidence and charm will get you a long way.
Everything has an expiration date, especially near-meaningless catch phrases.
You don't actually think I'm depressed. You're just trying to be condescending. Trying and failing.
yeah youtube vids help make it easy to meet 5 out of 10s but if you want to pickup 10s you need to have game or you will get crushed study the video on PUA66.COM
We run heedlessly into the abyss after putting something in front of us to stop us seeing it.
@izzynobre no he is talking about the "hired guns" not any woman
thats another story . mystery said he is wearing weird clothes so it can be used a pea cocking and it can be more hard more him to be '' accepted '' so he will be better at his game ! he is pushing boundaries :)
@shedmeat why don't you use that to invest on a buisness or "the betterment of your life" in general.
what a scientist of women. this guy is a genius
@Archibald: The reason to take the time to learn "game" is so you can differentiate yourself between the dozens of other guys that hit on them throughout any given week.
It doesn't hurt to study up a bit on female psychology, body language etc. to increase your chances to get the girl to notice you.
Learning "game" is your IN.. once you establish rapport with the girl, you can then be yourself.. Game just gets your foot in the door.
Oh, and the program on "Mack Methods, com" is good man.
He looks like Woody from Toy Story
And Peacocking. Use Bling, Bling necklace. Attention and DHV!!! Go to 69fishingrod
@CreepinCreepers it's not Sinn it's James Matador lol...this guy's a beast in the field!
this guy knows aliens and got into their research!
the guy reminds me of Chester Bennington...:P
Needed more than 500 characters to hammer the same point into the bedrock, huh?
This was not DHV in generel, but pre-selection. Bro.
yes, you do that. make me a sandwhich. hahaha.
@AmericanTakeover yea by a sumo wrestler lmao!
That's not true. How can it be weakness if you show courage to go for her and go for what you want no matter what. You are actually showing weakness by being someone you’re not. You are seeking approval because you think that being yourself is not good enough. It might work in the short run, but In the long run she’s going to see you were lying. The real weakness is you not being yourself to get approval not the other way around. You would have known if do something instead of reading something
Stevie van de Laar man,the be yrself line is total bollocks unless youre superman or batman..so you want a fat gross dude who munches on doritos 24 hours a day in front of his pc screen to be himself?
My favorite PUA is furious.
His techniques are bulletproof.
simple! :)