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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @MelJoy
    @MelJoy  7 лет назад +982

    hi my loves! i hope this cleared up any miscommunications because I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH & i hope you know that. thank you for hearing me out on this & i hope you guys are excited for two times a week upload! xx

  • @samijeannette
    @samijeannette 7 лет назад +200

    To be honest, i love you so much mel, but you explain yourself too much! You’re beautiful, you’re amazing. You don’t need to apologize at all! This is your life! Fuck what anybody has to say!! We all love you so much..

  • @jadearmanii2124
    @jadearmanii2124 7 лет назад +348

    *As long as YOURE happy that's all that matters*

    • @11FanMiley1
      @11FanMiley1 7 лет назад

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 +++

  • @Mette545
    @Mette545 7 лет назад +410

    don't always take life so seriously guys, live your life as you like but don't hate others for living it as they like too. you do you💛and ily Mel

  • @Niks777.
    @Niks777. 7 лет назад +265

    Mel, dont take this the wrong way because you are the sweetest person ever but please for your own good STOP FEELING THE NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF TO OTHERS. I get it that your in the public eye and influence a lot of young girls and thats why you came forward about your lip injections to put a stop to young girls feeling insecure, trying to reach unrealistic beauty standards that are claimed to be natural, and i truly do think that`s beautiful how you keep it real. With that being said, if you just briefly said you got them done it would have been much better than needing to make 2 videos explaining to people why you did something for yourself, that is not big deal and is a very small difference. Its your body, do what makes you happy, no ones goddamn business. When it comes to getting work done, you can never convince all people to be supportive for there are always ignorant people who just hate on others for living their lives( most that hate would jump at any opportunity to get something done that they have been rather insecure about). Your sweet, but next time come on saying :``Yah i got my lips done because i wanted to, and its my body so idc what anybody's opinion is. I dont even need to explain myself further but i just wanted to briefly announce this for young girls out there that get influenced by the media since i like to keep it real, so deal with it and get over it.``
    Also, I do believe you love yourself, you can love yourself even if you get work done. Loving yourself means doing whatever for you personally and not others, while still being content with the you before getting work done. I disagree with botched surgery or going overboard, but as long as you dont lie about it, why shouldn't you get stuff done that makes you feel your best??This was long asf ik, but ily and wanted to take time out to say this. Xoxo

    • @janiahjackson15
      @janiahjackson15 7 лет назад

      Nikss I totally agree

    • @Niks777.
      @Niks777. 7 лет назад

      glad we are on the same boat girl xx

    • @melodypha2310
      @melodypha2310 7 лет назад +1

      It's important to talk about these things though. She cares about things like this because she cares for us and it's good for people to care what others think because you want them to think in a positive way and she doesn't want us thinking negatively. Yes, haters hate and need to stop but hate exists for a reason. And I think that one of those reasons is to learn of what is good. The difference between love and hate and right now you are criticizing her but you should already know society and the hate that celebrities and stars deal with. It's normal. Instead of telling her what she should or should not do, you should be showing love to each other and lift each other up. That goes for everything and everyone. Also, You can't not let hate affect you; that's impossible. You'd be inhumane if you did. Hate affects everyone and exists only for the reason to make us stronger human beings. To strive to be superior and to not let others bring our potential down. God could let us live happy and remove all the bad things of this world. But why doesn't He??? Because he wants us to grow. We can't grow if we don't have hardships thrown at us or difficult times. He does it for a reason and there is always a purpose. I promise you, when all of this is over, you'll all understand but for now, be patient and wait. Those who wait will be rewarded. God has plans so stop criticizing and worrying and depend on Him. ❤️🙏🏻

    • @melodypha2310
      @melodypha2310 7 лет назад

      Now that's just being careless and uncaring. You can't get too cocky with yourself or lazy of knowing how others think. It's very important to know how we and others view things because it's changes everything and how we live in this world. There's always a reason. Those haters will learn their lessons eventually but that's that. You don't have to hate on them or teach them what because it's on them. They will learn of their own mistakes by theirselves. If we're too careless in this world, it can ruin the next generations to come and possibly ruin their lives. We don't want to teach kids to not care about others. Caring is the bond between humans that keep us together in tact which is love. A little more love in this world changes the whole world. Patience and understanding is key to being more loving and less hating.

  • @itsnm07
    @itsnm07 7 лет назад +65

    I totally understand where you’re coming from and honestly I feel so sorry that you felt like you needed to make this video. Tbh you getting lip injections doesn’t change who you are & honestly you can barely tell you got them. I just hope that you know you still have people who support you!!

  • @emilyuxui
    @emilyuxui 7 лет назад +203

    True fans won’t judge you Mel. We are all still here for you. We love you Mel, very much.

    • @Niks777.
      @Niks777. 7 лет назад +1

      fan or not, if you judge her on this, your a frickin idiot. Its her body she can do whatever she wants as long as she keeps it safe. I cant understand why one would even hate on this video in the first place. If anyone hates on her they probably are just girls who are insecure about themselves and like to pour it out on Mel :)

  • @cocochinelo
    @cocochinelo 7 лет назад +439

    i'll always be ready to hear whatever you have to say! love ya mel! ❤️

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +8

      i love uuu thank you b really means a lot to me

    • @hirrashah79
      @hirrashah79 7 лет назад +1

      Coco Chinelo love ur channel btw it's amazing love u

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo 7 лет назад

      Hirra Xo aww thank you so much, i love youuuuu

  • @samanthanelson2374
    @samanthanelson2374 7 лет назад +4

    Mel honestly I have been through so much- I have been to mental hospitals and eating disorder centers and the hardest part was that I would judge myself and hate myself. I hope you know that even though I am one person I completely support you and even if you just want to cry for a whole video and do not say anything I would still support you and your journey. Please, please do not worry about your message. You have helped me in the hospital and now you are helping out of them. Please know that you are loved by me. Thanks for being you.

  • @zara-cx9ro
    @zara-cx9ro 7 лет назад +478

    oh my god MEL STOP putting out videos of yourself "clearing things up" or explaining yourself and stuff!! You're just making yourself more vulnerable and the people who dropped hateful comments on past videos probably don't even follow you OR care about this video to watch it. It's mostly your subscribers and people who enjoy your videos and personality who watch these explaining videos. You need to stop caring so much about what people think of you honey; this is youtube, it's public and its open to everybody, and honestly it doesn't look like you're ready to take it. You always say things like we shouldn't care what anybody says about you, but it feels more like you're just trying to convince yourself, because you care way too much. I know what it feels like so I get it, but you need to stop focusing so much on the hating. Your lips look rad!!! You look glowing, quit focusing on the negativity. Either that or you just quit, because it looks like it really affects you. DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOU. Remember you are stronger than that. Sending you all the love xx

    • @brij4007
      @brij4007 7 лет назад +17

      zara THIS. Mel, with a huge following on a social platform, hate is inevitable. Don’t take them seriously or you will get crushed because 1. they will get pleasure knowing they can get to you or 2. They won’t even watch in the first place. Your followers rly love you and will support you no matter what!

    • @zara-cx9ro
      @zara-cx9ro 7 лет назад +2

      Bri Jirowetz that's exactly my point!

    • @melodypha2310
      @melodypha2310 7 лет назад +5

      It's important to talk about these things though. She cares about things like this because she cares for us and it's good for people to care what others think because you want them to think in a positive way and she doesn't want us thinking negatively. Yes, haters hate and need to stop but hate exists for a reason. And I think that one of those reasons is to learn of what is good. The difference between love and hate and right now you are criticizing her but you should already know society and the hate that celebrities and stars deal with. It's normal. Instead of telling her what she should or should not do, you should be showing love to each other and lift each other up. That goes for everything and everyone. Also, You can't not let hate affect you; that's impossible. You'd be inhumane if you did. Hate affects everyone and exists only for the reason to make us stronger human beings. To strive to be superior and to not let others bring our potential down. God could let us live happy and remove all the bad things of this world. But why doesn't He??? Because he wants us to grow. We can't grow if we don't have hardships thrown at us or difficult times. He does it for a reason and there is always a purpose. I promise you, when all of this is over, you'll all understand but for now, be patient and wait. Those who wait will be rewarded. God has plans so stop criticizing and worrying and depend on Him. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @ceci2984
    @ceci2984 7 лет назад +116

    AHHH UR POSTING TWICE A WEEK IM CRYINGGG YAYYY

  • @sweettreatsyt
    @sweettreatsyt 7 лет назад +333

    your lips look so good! you do you mel, as long as you're happy that's all that matters! always here for you girl 😘

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +5

      aw thank you!! so sweet

  • @MsOhFabi
    @MsOhFabi 7 лет назад +184

    YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. LOVE YOU FOR THIS. :")

  • @lishtvoldacc2287
    @lishtvoldacc2287 7 лет назад +14

    yeah 100% understand, looking at myself for hours to edit has definitely made me a bit more self conscious/pick my flaws apart. I love you and thanks for always being honest

  • @nayelietorres2817
    @nayelietorres2817 7 лет назад +42

    Honey boo!! Stop apologizing!!!! It's okay.. you dont need to explain yourself !! You do you!!!

  • @mayiakruer2528
    @mayiakruer2528 7 лет назад +5

    I have no idea why I didn’t realize this until now, but you are my favorite RUclipsr. You’re so real and it’s so refreshing to see that. Thank you for making these videos and helping me through my problems.

  • @livvargus
    @livvargus 7 лет назад +641

    you are the SWEETEST person ever! beautiful inside & out 💛

    • @floorjonker
      @floorjonker 7 лет назад +1

      Olivia Vargus aaahhh my loves💓💓

    • @angel127_
      @angel127_ 7 лет назад

      omg my fav

    • @leyla9102
      @leyla9102 7 лет назад

      I love you Olivia your channel is the best 💛😊

    • @emrose202
      @emrose202 7 лет назад

      Olivia Vargus I LOVE U OLIVIA💗💗💗💗

    • @emrose202
      @emrose202 7 лет назад

      Olivia Vargus I LOVE U OLIVIA💗💗💗💗

  • @sandraaubin815
    @sandraaubin815 7 лет назад +38

    Love u Mel, can't wait for the 2 videos a week. As long u know who you are that's all that matters at the end of the day.

  • @heidimartinez1140
    @heidimartinez1140 7 лет назад

    she's the perfect example of being beautiful from the inside and out💛 so many people do things in the industry for the fame but you can clearly tell she loves what she does and loves her fans just as much and I love it.

  • @sarahberniquer9484
    @sarahberniquer9484 7 лет назад +41

    Mel, just do whatever the fuck you want

  • @chloebarnum2913
    @chloebarnum2913 7 лет назад +6

    been here since day one, and love who you were then and who you are now. I totally support whatever you choose to do 100%, don't listen to the haters lol. love you Mel!

  • @kirstyhunt2145
    @kirstyhunt2145 7 лет назад +17

    I just love you so much and will stand by you and all your decisions just be you and that is the best you can be Mel ily xxx

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +3

      i love you so much thank you for this angel

  • @kosiimnk
    @kosiimnk 7 лет назад +78

    it’s just that you have never talked about being insecure with your lips, so when all of a sudden you got lip injections, half of us, even your biggest supporters were very surprised. it’s okay mel. i’m just ready for your channel & videos to get back to normal lol

    • @Niks777.
      @Niks777. 7 лет назад +7

      Lol yah she never mentioned she was insecure but thats why its called an insecurity, its cuz you dont like to talk about it and point it out to people. She loved herself before too, but now she feels her best.

    • @leapaulino
      @leapaulino 7 лет назад +1

      I remember watching a vid of her saying her lips is a insecurity of hers cuz theyre too small.

    • @biancavelissariou
      @biancavelissariou 7 лет назад

      Simply Kosi she has talked about the fact that she's insecure about her lips so much 🙊

    • @biancavelissariou
      @biancavelissariou 7 лет назад

      Simply Kosi don't say stuff like this is you don't even watch all her videos

    • @kosiimnk
      @kosiimnk 7 лет назад

      Bianca Troskie i have watched all her videos.. i’ve been subscribed for more than 3 years. and if she has, i don’t think a lot of people remembered or thought she would ever get lip injections bc of it. that’s all i’m saying

  • @asleepgirl4472
    @asleepgirl4472 7 лет назад

    I've never expected you to be perfect and I'll never judge you by one single thing you did. You are an inspiration for many of us and you try to teach us so many things! Thank you for everything. Don't worry too much, we get you and we love you, Mel!

  • @tittieye1138
    @tittieye1138 7 лет назад

    whoa this video really puts things in perspective. i look at someone like Mel and think that she would never have insecurities, that she has nothing to worry about because she already looks perfect. it really goes to show that even the most beautiful people have insecurities. this video makes me feel so much less alone, i sometimes look around and think that everyone else is beautiful and have never worried about how they look. thank you for making this, Mel. :)

  • @ceci2984
    @ceci2984 7 лет назад +38

    Mel loves mee!!

  • @KinseyandCourtney
    @KinseyandCourtney 7 лет назад +57

    you are literally SO stunning & sweet 💓💓💫

  • @sabeekachaudhry1900
    @sabeekachaudhry1900 7 лет назад +29

    i rlly don’t get it tbh. if something makes you feel good about yourself and raises your self confidence, then do it! no one is to judge. ily mel 💗

  • @Hannah23222
    @Hannah23222 7 лет назад +15

    girl that beanie looks so good on you !!💜💜

  • @lesleys3096
    @lesleys3096 7 лет назад

    I LOVE YOU MEL! you have inspired me for so long! and i fully support your choices.. it’s your life, and living it the way you want it is exactly how you find happiness..

  • @brittanyqueen9348
    @brittanyqueen9348 7 лет назад +5

    I'm so proud of you Mel! 💕 much love

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад

      thank you love

  • @ceci2984
    @ceci2984 7 лет назад +80

    Melly!! Stay strong and please know Ilysm!!! - Eileen

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +3

      ily more bb!

    • @ceci2984
      @ceci2984 7 лет назад +2

      Mel Joy NOT POSSIBLE I LOVE YOU MORE GURLL!!

  • @lus.7599
    @lus.7599 7 лет назад +33

    I just hate that society has gotten to the point she has to explain what she does to HERSELF because people are so judgmental lol love u Mel, u look amazing

  • @leilabron7034
    @leilabron7034 7 лет назад

    Melody is honestly the most honest and dedicated person on RUclips. I love her

  • @amygarcia1436
    @amygarcia1436 7 лет назад

    you are beyond beautiful inside and out, do whatever makes YOU happy. if getting lip injections does that and makes you feel more confident in yourself, then so be it. i love mel & ‘mel loves me and i know it’ 💛

  • @EmilyEasthom
    @EmilyEasthom 7 лет назад +4

    girl stop defending yourself when talking about your lip injections!!! you have the right to do whatever makes you happy and fuck anyone who says anything negative about it!! love u

  • @ceci2984
    @ceci2984 7 лет назад +29

    #SNAPCHATSQUAD where ya at??

    • @chloebarnum2913
      @chloebarnum2913 7 лет назад +4

      She didn't even post about this vid on snap yet loll

  • @AmiKamara
    @AmiKamara 7 лет назад +11

    I can be early to watch RUclips videos but can’t turn in my assignments on time 😕

  • @febelowe3093
    @febelowe3093 7 лет назад

    you do you girl, you are one of the most honest youtubers when speaking to their fans and i respect that. I just wish that some people will leave you be, and accept your decisions. you are the realest, love you xo

  • @nurrhana7768
    @nurrhana7768 7 лет назад

    mel loves me and I FREAKIN KNOW IT, you're a wonderful person, you can do wtvr you want, this is YOUR life. live your life to the fullest, you don't need to be sorry for everything you did, you did it because you want yourself to be happy and there's nothing wrong about it. you don't need to explain yourself over and over again, people just need to understand that we can't control someone's decision in life. i love you mel and I SUPPORT EVERYTHING YOU DO, GO MELODY JOY!!!

  • @94brulee92
    @94brulee92 7 лет назад +5

    I love you mel no matter what ❤️❤️

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад

      i love you so much b

    • @reinaaris
      @reinaaris 7 лет назад

      hello guys my name is reina and im new this youtube things i would love for you to support my channel and help me grow as a youtuber and if u want me to support u just mention soo thank youuu for ur time

  • @Saraxjoy.
    @Saraxjoy. 7 лет назад +134

    anyone wanna be youtube friends??💞💞

  • @angelw3842
    @angelw3842 7 лет назад +65

    I love you Mel Idk why you disabled the comments on your last video I was gonna comment you look beautiful no matter what❤

  • @kayla-tm7lq
    @kayla-tm7lq 7 лет назад

    Bottom line, life is too short! Do what you want! Do what you love! Thank you, Mel, for preaching about such an important message.

  • @renattaatsiila7340
    @renattaatsiila7340 7 лет назад

    Mel, we love you so freaking much. its honestly fine to experiment with your look. People who hate on you and your desicions are just jealous that you're very beautiful, you're very blessed and that you're able to experiment with yourself. People shouldn't hate based on how you love yourself, how and what desicions you choose to take, how you grow and so forth. True fans will respect your desicions, whatever you do. We'll laugh with you, we'll mourn with you, we'll cry with you, we'll learn with you. I love you melodyy

  • @shannonboissinot8361
    @shannonboissinot8361 7 лет назад +132

    mel loves me

  • @EmmaRomano15
    @EmmaRomano15 7 лет назад +9

    i love you

  • @hollyrose250
    @hollyrose250 7 лет назад +12

    💛💛💛YOU ARE SO AMAZING

  • @christinachoi2251
    @christinachoi2251 7 лет назад

    You make a lot of videos explaining yourself. You do not need to do explain yourself ever. It's your life. Your decisions. Your career. Your happiness. Do whatever makes your heart full!! Love you Mel

  • @sanadastgeer1838
    @sanadastgeer1838 7 лет назад

    I feel like mel is the only RUclips that truly cares about her supporters, I love ya girl, you will always be my inspiration 💕

  • @marlenafox7736
    @marlenafox7736 7 лет назад +15

    LOVE U❤️❤️

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +2

      I LOVE UUU

  • @csmmurphy425
    @csmmurphy425 7 лет назад +7

    lol 😂 people take EvERytHiNg personal, don't address them I don't really like when you address unesseccary people in your videos bc you shouldn't be affected by it. I love you Mel ❤

  • @laurent882
    @laurent882 7 лет назад +7

    Mel loves me and I know it♥️♥️

  • @karinachavez2803
    @karinachavez2803 7 лет назад

    yes! I definitely agree with you that we sometimes take life too seriously, and we should be happy and be true to ourselves

  • @11FanMiley1
    @11FanMiley1 7 лет назад

    you have such a big fucking heart and you’re so admired for it.
    you make me feel so darn happy when we interact and there is nobody like you !! know that we love you so incredibly much and are so thankful that there are actually people out there who give us hope that there are good people. you are the epitome of a good, loyal and kind soul. the relationship you have with your subscribers is so great. we love you more than you know, thank you for that
    but most of all, thank you for being YOU

  • @AmyLeoXx
    @AmyLeoXx 7 лет назад +4

    Mel, it is your life, do what you want to do, but you have to realise, you are so pretty, I would die to look like you, you have always made me feel shit about myself because you are visually perfect, so hearing about the lip injections did upset me just because I have admired your beauty and the fact that you cannot accept yourself means I cannot accept myself, but you always will be stunning, and you do what you have to do, your body, your decisions, I just had to give my views and I want to boost your self love up.

  • @rgilbride
    @rgilbride 7 лет назад +15

    girl i came on here bc i thought u did smth problematic but like!! girl u did nothin wrong!! luv u bb

  • @javeriayousaf6672
    @javeriayousaf6672 7 лет назад +40

    I still love you mel and I do understand why you got lip injections a lot more now. BTW U LOOK SO GOOOOODDDDD IN THAT BEANIEEEE
    mel loves me & I know it :)

  • @maria-xe7wl
    @maria-xe7wl 7 лет назад

    honestly as a teenager going through the annoying crisis-y teenage mess i can't imagine how hard it is to also be on youtube specially being a role model and inspiration to a big audience . Make sure you don't get caught up in that and don't worry about it too much be kind to yourself
    and props to you for doing what you're doing keep up the good work always supporting you xx

  • @bennyb.636
    @bennyb.636 7 лет назад

    mel loves me and I know it!! ahhahaa And I love you Mel, you are one of the youtubers that have remain real through their journey, and I really freaking love that. When ever I finish watching one of your videos I always end up having the biggest smile on my face! The world that we leave in sucks, people trying to have opinions on others without hearing their stories or knowing the real reasons of their actions, it's bad. I love you so much, been here since the start and will till the end! Through thick and through thin, always. Keep on killing it, and keep on keeping it real.
    SO HAPPY FOR TWO VIDS A WEEK AHHHH

  • @Jaiiii19
    @Jaiiii19 7 лет назад +214

    You say you don't like our society,yet you don't try to change it
    You say that you shouldn't care about what people think,yet you felt the need to explain your self
    I know no one is perfect but sometimes we have to take a moment and reflect about ourself

    • @chloethedog00
      @chloethedog00 7 лет назад +25

      Jenin AL-Shubbar she says she doesn’t want to follow society’s standards, yet she gets lip injections because they’re “in”

    • @leilamaria3162
      @leilamaria3162 7 лет назад

      ur missing the point😂

    • @elliekeegan3170
      @elliekeegan3170 7 лет назад +5

      ONE PERSON CANT CHANGE SOCIETY FFS WHY DONT YOU TRY TO CHANGE IT REFLECT ON UR OWN SAD ASS LIFE

    • @lorena.e
      @lorena.e 7 лет назад +4

      I'll bet she hates how judgements society is and how people care so much about other people's lives, kind of like you. Damn, just let her do what she wants with her life. It is literally in no way affecting yours

    • @breannamay8800
      @breannamay8800 7 лет назад +2

      ellie keegan You think she's the only person who wants society to change? Lots of people are trying to change it, and Mel just isn't helping.

  • @MorganKangaroo
    @MorganKangaroo 7 лет назад +10

    no hate, but i think the only reason she's doing all the "change" that everyone is referring to is because she follows every trend. she's not original and claims to love yourself but she's not confident in herself (which i don't get bcuz she literally is perfect). idk, i think that girls might get the wrong message that if you're unconfident, then you can get it fixed w extensions or plumpers.

    • @2000nc
      @2000nc 7 лет назад

      i know !! exactly

  • @vaishnavi-tw7lb
    @vaishnavi-tw7lb 7 лет назад +21

    Tbh , you've just turned out like all other RUclipsrs who completely lose interest in RUclips after they hit a million subscribers. Your videos are not as fun and interesting anymore and it feels like you're just making videos for the sake of it and not because you want to. I'm not the only one who's noticing this change in your channel for sure. I want the 500k subs Mel back , she was the best.

  • @caoilinnkenny589
    @caoilinnkenny589 7 лет назад +1

    Mel do whatever you want to make yourself happy and don't ever apologise for it no matter what people say. I love you and live your life for yourself x

  • @justalicia7496
    @justalicia7496 7 лет назад

    omg you're the purest person!! love you so much, thank you for consistently being yourself :)

  • @ayahaltareb5442
    @ayahaltareb5442 7 лет назад +4

    mel your honestly so strong. humans are shitty and and love fast forwarding to some dumbass conclusions. if i were you at this state of mind, i would have flopped through all the negativity and hate, but ur head stays up and thats one of the best things about you. i love that your u. society is so full of shit now a days. just know that in the end were all homo sapiens, we all bleed red, were all gonna die, and were all fucking human. mel you deserve all the love in the world and beyond, i love u so much and just know u mean so much to me as a youtuber and person. stay strong my love and just remember. F U C K S O C I E T Y!!!

  • @bethgreen8730
    @bethgreen8730 7 лет назад +7

    early squad where you attt? 💗💗

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +1

      my lovasss

    • @bethgreen8730
      @bethgreen8730 7 лет назад

      Mel Joy - so so proud of you my gorgeous, love you 💛💛

  • @em_07
    @em_07 7 лет назад +8

    Mel I love and care about you to and I will never stop watching you and you have already gotten so far and you deserve to get so much farther! I love you so much and I will care about you forever and I hope I get to meet you one day ♡♡♡♡♡

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  7 лет назад +2

      you're too sweet thank you for this qt i love you!!

  • @bellematias9740
    @bellematias9740 7 лет назад

    I feel you Mel. Stay strong. I feel exactly the same as you. I'm always trying new things. I had bangs for like a day then I got bored of them so they're just pushed to the side. I've had short hair and really long hair. Highlights and lighter hair. Different eyebrows. Different wardrobe. I feel as if all of this just. means..I'm finding myself. I'm seeing what works and what doesn't. I like change, but then again I feel like we all fear change sometimes. I feel though that it's better to change than to just keep wondering what if. I love how you like to switch it up. It just means you're growing as a person. Much love xx

  • @maddyanticona1456
    @maddyanticona1456 7 лет назад

    i truly do think you are amazing,,no one can make you happy,,you are the only person that can make yourself happy. so i am glad that you are doing this that make you smile and make you feel more confident

  • @Sara-yj2wg
    @Sara-yj2wg 7 лет назад +103

    is it just me that literally barely noticed a difference

  • @federicanizzoli45
    @federicanizzoli45 7 лет назад +14

    Actually I wasn’t able to find much aggressive comments in your past video (at least until you blocked them). I personally think that you should be more opened to criticism, especially when you actually do something questionable such as your lip job. I mean, of course bad comments are AWFUL and most of the times unmotivated and unfair, but the ones I read in the last video were just questioning your coherence and stuff...
    No hate btw, I only think that you should expect this kind of reaction from us (average girls/boys who can’t afford all of this) because it’s normal 💕

  • @1d1love
    @1d1love 7 лет назад +12

    why do u always like over explain and blow things out of proportion.. ahh no offense but no one cares i just wanna see good content again and all u do now is talk about yourself.. unsubscibe sorry

  • @Breannaluvsbieber
    @Breannaluvsbieber 7 лет назад

    I love watching your videos simply because of how real you are in your videos. You’re an amazing person and have such a big heart. Keep doing you and I know you won’t let anybody stop you from being yourself. You’re so strong. ❤️

  • @CarlieLongo
    @CarlieLongo 7 лет назад

    What I have always admired about you and your channel is how appreciative you are of your viewers. You can tell the difference between creators who make videos to help their viewers, and who make them for the wrong reasons. Everything you do is honest. Keep staying true to yourself, however you want to do that! 💜

  • @MiKaylaRose
    @MiKaylaRose 7 лет назад +5

    You do you! If you feel confident with changes, do it!

  • @NirveerRama
    @NirveerRama 7 лет назад +5

    mel loves me and i love mel and i know it

    • @haileyc4686
      @haileyc4686 7 лет назад

      This comment is cute and it made me laugh 💗

  • @saffp99
    @saffp99 7 лет назад +6

    Okay but the real question is...how does her getting lip injections affect YOUR life?

  • @alexandraseidenberger8275
    @alexandraseidenberger8275 7 лет назад

    Mel you're just such a beautiful person inside out. This truly helped me and I'm very thankful💗

  • @Daniela-kp2hy
    @Daniela-kp2hy 7 лет назад

    Girl you are such a big inspiration! I love you so so much and I'll never let you down! Because you are perfect the way you are - with all your imperfections! And that's what makes you YOU - that's what makes you special! MEL LOVES ME AND I KNOW IT!!

  • @iloveshoes1111
    @iloveshoes1111 7 лет назад +26

    Quit explaining why you did your lips. Who cares!
    You did it for you. Not us. So just move on & do your vids & live life. Xoxo

  • @shellys6850
    @shellys6850 7 лет назад +3

    There's no need to explain yourself Mel. It's your life and you can do whatever the hell you want. It's great you think of your followers in these situations but, you can't please everyone. People are so quick to judge and unsubscribe simply because you chose to alter a part of your body (temporarily might I add). I don't understand what the big deal, I mean people get braces to change how their teeth look permanently and no one bats an eye at that but when it comes to lip injections or another alteration it suddenly becomes a big deal. For those saying she should just love the way she was born need to understand that not everyone thinks that way and is confident like that. People have their own preferences and if their choices aren't affecting you in a negative way then stop making a big deal out of nothing.

  • @marinawilson826
    @marinawilson826 7 лет назад +9

    Not judging you for lip injections when I myself want a nose job, but I just feel like now your channel is based on you trying to prove to us that you haven't changed because of the materialism and I honestly just don't see the careless joy you used to have in you. I think that's what triggered me to loose interest in your channel is that you are not in touch of just letting loose like you used to without a care.

  • @marsyamarzuki8856
    @marsyamarzuki8856 7 лет назад

    i was a subscriber since u had like less than 50k and im proud of where u are and who youve come into now

  • @BeckaMeoww
    @BeckaMeoww 7 лет назад

    Mel loves me, and I love her. I'm so proud of you. Thanks for being true to yourself and encouraging us to do the same thing. ♡

  • @katelynn2573
    @katelynn2573 7 лет назад +685

    If you’re gonna make nothing but videos about explaining yourself, you’re gonna lose viewers. Please stop caring what people say. This isn’t me being mean. It’s just a little aggressive advice. Just say “fuck all of you” and do what you want with your channel and your life. You’re in a mental prison. Please break out before it’s too late. I love you

    • @rubymalcolm563
      @rubymalcolm563 7 лет назад +2

      she can do what she wants doesn't matter about views phhh

    • @katelynn2573
      @katelynn2573 7 лет назад +18

      It matters if that’s how she’s paying for her rent. I’m looking out for her. I’m not here to break her down.

    • @elizabethdicken4031
      @elizabethdicken4031 7 лет назад +20

      i agree. i love mel and she’s the most down to earth person but it’s really bothering me

    • @kehk7147
      @kehk7147 7 лет назад +4

      Katelynn her “explaining herself” videos actually get a lot of views compared to her other videos though:/

    • @nicolekeith705
      @nicolekeith705 7 лет назад +8

      OH MY GOD THANK YOU. I've literally tried so many times putting what you just said into words but never could. This is exactly what I was thinking.

  • @Noname-qw1nl
    @Noname-qw1nl 7 лет назад +24

    Her lips look the same..

  • @serenahickey
    @serenahickey 7 лет назад +32

    Mel, I cannot imagine being scrutinized so much by a huge audience at your young age.
    I know you want to be a good role model (AND U ARE) but these people are acting like youtubers are responsible for raising our children.
    You're a vlogger. You share your life for entertainment purposes. You're not responsible how your subscribers turn out! 😂

    • @myacentia4732
      @myacentia4732 7 лет назад +1

      Serena E I feel this on a deep level😂😂 idk why people get mad over someone changing something about themselves! Losing a bunch of weight or gaining a bunch of muscle weight is a bigger dramatic crazier change and we're all bout that

  • @alexcraven9569
    @alexcraven9569 7 лет назад

    mel, thanks for spreading some positive vibes. You're so inspiring

  • @sophiej2553
    @sophiej2553 7 лет назад

    I love Mel's message. Everyone should just stop being a little too hard on her. Love you Mel!!!!

  • @carolbpmatos
    @carolbpmatos 7 лет назад +4

    yo people are weird as fuck, you guys care too much about things that dont fckn matter lol girl, do you, lip injections no lip injections, says nothing about how much you love yourself, you def know you are gorgeous either way xo

  • @milliewood7437
    @milliewood7437 7 лет назад +9

    The most caring youtuber out there ❤️❤️
    like if you agree💓

  • @sarahfink1958
    @sarahfink1958 7 лет назад +22

    kinda sad because i used to think my lips were alright but after watching the video it made me feel like i needed to get lip injections as well

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 7 лет назад +6

      Thats exactly why social media can be so toxic. DO NOT conform to what society wants, especially online

    • @gracievicente861
      @gracievicente861 7 лет назад +5

      We live in a world so focused on appearance now. What happened to little girls growing up saying they'd rather be smart than pretty? Life gets so much easier when you learn to love yourself

    • @constanzaaarociolg9726
      @constanzaaarociolg9726 7 лет назад

      then get offline bitch

    • @francesoconnor7962
      @francesoconnor7962 7 лет назад

      Attention seeking bitch

  • @alexiawaldrop8162
    @alexiawaldrop8162 7 лет назад

    Mel loves me and I know it. I love you so much Mel and you are such a freaking inspiration, you care so much and that's one of my favorite things about you. You have helped me through so much and I could never thank you enough.

  • @maddyhector2880
    @maddyhector2880 7 лет назад

    mel i hope u know that we all love you no matter what you do with yourself because its not their body its your so stay positive bc you have so many supporters that love you so muchhhh so stay u my love💛

  • @isabellamoulders7503
    @isabellamoulders7503 7 лет назад +10

    You do too many "explaining" videos now. Theres no content anymore. Stop explaining yourself, you get afraid of loosing of followers and you have to apologize. Stop being so scared to make someone mad. You keep saying you dont care what people say about you changing yourself and yet here you are explaining yourself again. Get back to the content videos please

    • @hopeliedberg4914
      @hopeliedberg4914 7 лет назад

      I agree, she did say that she didn't care but DEEP Down I think she does, like u said if she didn't care then why tf is she sitting here explaining herself??? she needs to just get back to the content videos and do more blogging.

  • @matildacool3949
    @matildacool3949 7 лет назад +3

    you did not need lip fillers and you should not have got them. you should be happy with how you look so WHY THE FUCK DID YOU GET LIPFILLERS!! what a waste of money

  • @h22nn22h
    @h22nn22h 7 лет назад +3

    Her lips don't even look very different. I honestly can't even notice. Let her live and stop feeling like she needs permission from strangers.

  • @kelseygolden3260
    @kelseygolden3260 7 лет назад

    Just because you change your appearance does not mean you've changed who you are as a person. Mel you're amazing! Much love

  • @OmgMusicLover1
    @OmgMusicLover1 7 лет назад +1

    People complain she apologizes too much or explains her self too much but if she doesn't yall gonna be complaining and hating for whatever "wrong" she does. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ love u Mel keep being you life goes on just be your true self much love 💕x