Most male sexual abuse victims try to lock the hurt away due to not being able to comprehend what was happening to them when it was happening. They fear the opening of Pandora's box, they would have to acknowledge themselves a victim and all that, that brings. Self esteem & masculinity are *HUGE* issues for all males, once this is damaged so young (even for adult victims), it festers and can come out in many different ways. Please ask, give them permission to talk about it. Even being asked though, most males wont classify sexual abuse as sexual abuse due to not wanting to deal with it, it feels safer for them to try to keep it stuffed away. Denial is a major coping mechanism here, even if it is a poor one. This is why most never disclose, and the the ones that eventually do disclose do it decades later, and usually due to a crisis. Yet there is hardly any real help available for males.
So then what you're saying by extension of your own observation is, in effect, is that society A. needs to be more accepting of homosexuality, and B. needs to be more accepting of pedophilia.
@@Harlem55 sounds to me that you are putting your own fears or thoughts into his words. (Wishful?)Surmising in the mirror so to speak. Because nothing you wrote down has anything to do with what you stated.
Abuse occurs as a result of CONTROL & CLOSENESS!
Most male sexual abuse victims try to lock the hurt away due to not being able to comprehend what was happening to them when it was happening. They fear the opening of Pandora's box, they would have to acknowledge themselves a victim and all that, that brings. Self esteem & masculinity are *HUGE* issues for all males, once this is damaged so young (even for adult victims), it festers and can come out in many different ways. Please ask, give them permission to talk about it. Even being asked though, most males wont classify sexual abuse as sexual abuse due to not wanting to deal with it, it feels safer for them to try to keep it stuffed away. Denial is a major coping mechanism here, even if it is a poor one. This is why most never disclose, and the the ones that eventually do disclose do it decades later, and usually due to a crisis. Yet there is hardly any real help available for males.
So then what you're saying by extension of your own observation is, in effect, is that society A. needs to be more accepting of homosexuality, and B. needs to be more accepting of pedophilia.
@@Harlem55 sounds to me that you are putting your own fears or thoughts into his words. (Wishful?)Surmising in the mirror so to speak. Because nothing you wrote down has anything to do with what you stated.
@@elaineandrepont The fuck it doesn't.
The female therapist with the green shirt on and monotone voice looks so blank that she'd make me feel worse . Creepy woman .
May be she remind of you someone, think about it.
Biggest line of bullshit I've ever heard.