Am one of the women that advice men, - Never take the responsibility of educating your wife -Never take the responsibility of educating your wife's siblings -Never build a house for your wife's parents -Never be the bread winner in your wife's family -Never allow your wife's siblings and relatives stay in your house. Na heshima itadumu.
I got pregnant during my second year of nursing course.my husband was not well off and so struggled much to pay my fees coz my parents decided not to pay anymore😊gave birth and went back to class...I finally got employed and because my husband was still struggling,I took a loan akaeka an electronic shop😊I wish this lady can reach me out I share what we have achieved so far coz we both earning now.young man,may God give you a job
This lady here is rude she can never be like you my sister, at least you had and have respect for your man. This one karma is waiting for her, she'll regret, watch this space ❤❤
To my dr husband no matter what, i can't reach to an extend of cheating on you or disrespect you. For better for worse we are together forever. I feel for this man.
Naomba Leo niwakumbishe wanaume, mke wako siyo ndugu yako Bali ni rafiki tu, ndugu yako ni watoto wako. Wazaz wake hawajamsomesha wewe kihelehele chako ndiyo kinakukula
Stivo,sikuhizi umekua tu wa kusimama hapo saying nothing kama bubu, I expect you to engage and ask lots of tough questions,sikuhizi you do more of kusimama tu & saying nothing🤔
Why are women cheating with their bosses or their husbands bosses?! Mbona mimi nlipata mwanaume namfanyia kila kitu yet wanaume wanatreat wanawake hapa nje?!
usiwai saidia a women thats what have learned.I have seen most men appreciating their good wife by buying them cars after raising their kids well.Lakini jangili zingine acha tuu
Aiiiii this is more than pain😢 to this Man n to this poko mother of three behaving like a teenager just smashing with a principal man of his type now will have to pay this Maniac action dearly 😢😢 karma is just around the corner 😢 without this man she's useless anyway pole sana Mzee,,kiarugio kiugaga nikio kieringia 😢😢
Siku nliona majamaa akiambia mama mzazi afanye calculation maziwa alinyonya amlipe na atoke kama wanawakw atafute pesa ndio nilijua cursed people say such words like this lady,she won't go far despite financially stable karma never spares
all that a man needs from a woman is respect only hata kama hana kitu . remembering that alisacrifice amsomeshe .acha nisomeshe watoto . ujinga alitoka nayo kwao acha aishi nayo . Mr. get the money unapatiwa accha pia yeye aone you are not there and go back start a fresh . your mother will never stop loving you .. Stevo don't do a follow up for her uyo kiburi iko juu sana. muache life itamhumble uyo principal akimdump
As for me I thank my mom for not brainwashing us her kids that our dad is jobless.yes he is jobless but he is still our dad. Men reward your parents first call me mama boy but
Sasa huu mtungi wa maji😮.... another woman is crying somewhere because of her..Mwalimu can get a 24 year old. Pesa upotea,take it as a Casino game Mwalimu and you lost honourably. At your mothers house,there is true peace and love.... quite, refocus - and pick yourself up again.
I have one of my friend who also did the same mistake taking a girl to school na yeye ata class eight hajui ilikua inakaa aje,,lakini Ile kuachwa aliachwa Wacha tu.
Hio kiburi ako nayo ebu huyo mama lipe hio pesa anadai atarudisha,jamaa enda jijenge watoi you can always co parent. Am a lady but this is wrong in all angles
This woman will suffer sana. Hio kiburi intahisha. Leave her for the other man. Find and another woman and marry. Count your loss and move on. Do not live wirh this woman, she may kill you.
Nawenye anasema he shouldn't have educated the wife waache hiyo tabia. At this point they are going through some tough time. If he hadnt taken the initiative to educate her wangekuwa no where actually wangekuwa kwa streets.
I wish he took the 40k back fast fast that moment being money that belongs to him since she was so high with kiburi but going back to traditional home empty handed 😢 That money would have made all the difference eg farming etc
To those not reading my comments,you'll pass through this believe me you. read them n spread the news. STOP SPENDING MONEY ON YOUR IN LAWS! USE IT ON YOUR OWN BLOOD RELETED FAMILY! utanishukuru
Thank God I haven't felled to this TRAP of daughters of Jezebell... Damn------- I really pity that guy hadi amekonda tu stress lakini mbaya zaidi ni #MATHARAU kwa myu amekutoa chini... MALIPO NI HAPA HAPA DUNIANI... that I dare you, LAZIMA!!
Men i hope you are all ears .. taking notes daily from this channel ...this is where we go wrong as men NEVER SACRIFICE anything for a lady ... because they will turnish your efforts
Men, please, it's not your responsibility to educate women. No!no! no! That is the responsibility of the parents. You are a husband not a father. Once you take on the role of a FATHER, the woman has to now look for a husband. Don't educate her siblings and never become the husband of your mother in law by taking on ALL her responsibilities. You will suffer kabisa! Only help WHERE you comfortably can. This the truth which many don't want to accept. Why can't she pay off her education loan now that she is working? Because YOU are not a husband but a FATHER!
And right now there's a man somewhere struggling to educate a woman in the name of wife and love😢😢😢mtakufa vibaya😅😅😅 ...the woman will keep on deffering you with other men's hadi siku atapata taste yake hata muwe na watoto 10 ....some women they don't came to study but to look for soulmates .....take care mens.....utakaa na mtu physically .....but mentally and emotionally you are not together😊
It is not my problem with who's cheating or not but my question is when someone is caught cheating wanakua na hii attitude,,,, imagine she's where she is because of her husband and the only thing she's doing ni kuona mzee na matharau 💔 climbing a ladder Is hard but coming down is very easy madam karma is a bitch it will be late but for sure it will arrive 😢😢😢😢😢men go through alot
THERE'S ONE THING HAVE LEARNT HERE WE MEN ONCE WE BROKE AND HAVE GOT THING WE BECOME NOTHING AND MOST WOMEN WILL NOT STAND BY YOU BUT MOST MEN WILL STAND BY THEIR WOMEN EVEN WHEN THEY'RE BROKE....BETTER TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST LET THEM CALL YOU MUKONO NGAMU....I AM NOW SCARED OF SOME WOMEN IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY'RE MEN BE CAREFUL
A simple guide to men on how to reduce relationship disappointments: 1. Invest in yourself first 2. Never sacrifice your progress for anybody & only give what you can afford to lose 3. Date/ marry a woman who has something going for herself 4. Should you decide to educate a woman who is not your relative, don't date/marry her. Just have friends with benefits with her until she meets the love of her life
A man will put his happiness aside for his woman.A woman will put her man aside for her happiness.
I pity this man
Sad fact
Hiyo ni kali
This applies on both sides. Depends on the man and the woman in question
Word of the day
Why can't men understand that taking responsibility of a woman's education is the sole responsibility of her parents?
LIKE SERIOUSLY--- do not educate a woman if not a sister or your mom!! NEVER!!
Kula muguka 1kg kwa bill yangu
@@Kobe_254 kabisa mkuu
for sure youre right kwanza it seems to get someone mwenye hajiweza its a burden youre bringing to your life.....
Am one of the women that advice men,
- Never take the responsibility of educating your wife
-Never take the responsibility of educating your wife's siblings
-Never build a house for your wife's parents
-Never be the bread winner in your wife's family
-Never allow your wife's siblings and relatives stay in your house. Na heshima itadumu.
I got pregnant during my second year of nursing course.my husband was not well off and so struggled much to pay my fees coz my parents decided not to pay anymore😊gave birth and went back to class...I finally got employed and because my husband was still struggling,I took a loan akaeka an electronic shop😊I wish this lady can reach me out I share what we have achieved so far coz we both earning now.young man,may God give you a job
have a sister?
Rathimwo
I wish there are many with a heart and brains like yours. May the Lord God give you more mpaka ushangae......Bravooo....
You give me hope!!!
This lady here is rude she can never be like you my sister, at least you had and have respect for your man. This one karma is waiting for her, she'll regret, watch this space ❤❤
As the hubby kept yapping of his unsolicited benevolence towards her, she never gave a damn, a dime nor time for him.
a black heart after sacrificing for her no shame anymore and respect for the man.
MEN LEARN
I hope someone offered this teacher a job, i really feel for him
To my dr husband no matter what, i can't reach to an extend of cheating on you or disrespect you. For better for worse we are together forever. I feel for this man.
me too aki .. this just soo bad at all levels
Akiiii, painful
@@princessmela6692ladies yawa gaiiiiiiii
Sacrificing for a person who would not appreciate your efforts is like purchasing stocks in a company that is on the verge of bankruptcy.
Establish yourself before focusing on someone else.. being selfless is as much a sin as being selfish. I do feel for this man
My friend educate your wife at your own risk 😮😮
Akasomeshwe na watu wao. They should have a life before they enter marriage. Rescue no one to marry them. Never works.
If you educate the woman know that you are her parent😂😂😂
Sure
Amefanyiwa Ile kitu😂😂😂
Reveal number blade yote..tutaongea lift
The pain in his voice 😢😢God bless this man
Naomba Leo niwakumbishe wanaume, mke wako siyo ndugu yako Bali ni rafiki tu, ndugu yako ni watoto wako. Wazaz wake hawajamsomesha wewe kihelehele chako ndiyo kinakukula
mupanda ngazi ushuka. wewe mwanamke fikiria kabisa. yaweza kua kesho utamuhitangi .never ever forget the hands that ones helped you. God remember this man.
Men we should style up and learn to love ourselves
The attitude and audacity of this lady is beyond comprehension.
She's not even apologetic!!! Oh God.
mali kwa mali akipita najuanga it's about to gooooooo doooooown🤣🤣
What goes around comes around. Lady, you will come to regret it. Treat others as you would want to be treated
Pole Mola coz we are suffering nikukosa kukuuliza b4 hizi ndoa...put God 1st na wanawake wapumzishe Kuma weueh 😮😢😅
Someone to educate me,, I'll be loyal,,🤚🤚🤚wife material ako hapa and again our MALI MALI guys wako area😂😂
Mpatie bill alipe what you invested in her. Take your money and run. Start over.
Stivo,sikuhizi umekua tu wa kusimama hapo saying nothing kama bubu,
I expect you to engage and ask lots of tough questions,sikuhizi you do more of kusimama tu & saying nothing🤔
It's just a matter of time young lady you will come to regret utatafta this man but it will be too late 😢
Why are women cheating with their bosses or their husbands bosses?!
Mbona mimi nlipata mwanaume namfanyia kila kitu yet wanaume wanatreat wanawake hapa nje?!
usiwai saidia a women thats what have learned.I have seen most men appreciating their good wife by buying them cars after raising their kids well.Lakini jangili zingine acha tuu
ndugu yangu file for divorce, it's always difficult but you can always start a fresh,God will see you through
She is already fed up with him it's only that she can't say but her actions speak all
Aiiiii this is more than pain😢 to this Man n to this poko mother of three behaving like a teenager just smashing with a principal man of his type now will have to pay this Maniac action dearly 😢😢 karma is just around the corner 😢 without this man she's useless anyway pole sana Mzee,,kiarugio kiugaga nikio kieringia 😢😢
Siku nliona majamaa akiambia mama mzazi afanye calculation maziwa alinyonya amlipe na atoke kama wanawakw atafute pesa ndio nilijua cursed people say such words like this lady,she won't go far despite financially stable karma never spares
all that a man needs from a woman is respect only hata kama hana kitu . remembering that alisacrifice amsomeshe .acha nisomeshe watoto . ujinga alitoka nayo kwao acha aishi nayo . Mr. get the money unapatiwa accha pia yeye aone you are not there and go back start a fresh . your mother will never stop loving you .. Stevo don't do a follow up for her uyo kiburi iko juu sana. muache life itamhumble uyo principal akimdump
Man has sacrificed alot for her but she has disregarded him, Mungu halali
So sad when he said ataenda kwa mama yake. He should scout around for the private schools apate ka job
Hadi mzee anashindwa kunarate the story,we im a woman but fear us oooh😮
Steve uko good at kubomoa marriage za wenyewe tukikusho create ka group yah watu loyal and clean hutaki anyway team strong tukisonga
The day huyo principal atamurusha kando she will regret leaving her husband,
As for me I thank my mom for not brainwashing us her kids that our dad is jobless.yes he is jobless but he is still our dad.
Men reward your parents first call me mama boy but
Waaaa wanaume advice kutupeleka shule muache coz tunawacheza tu tukipata
Malimali guy🤣🤣🤣 sh#$@t about to hit the fan
Sasa huu mtungi wa maji😮.... another woman is crying somewhere because of her..Mwalimu can get a 24 year old. Pesa upotea,take it as a Casino game Mwalimu and you lost honourably. At your mothers house,there is true peace and love.... quite, refocus - and pick yourself up again.
THERE WOMEN OUTSIDE THERE WAKIPATA HUYO MWANAMME THEY WILL THANK GOD FOREVER
I have one of my friend who also did the same mistake taking a girl to school na yeye ata class eight hajui ilikua inakaa aje,,lakini Ile kuachwa aliachwa Wacha tu.
Mimi huyu ngepeleka Kitui arogwe..nkt
Sasa kama Teachers who we think atleast they educated and they talk this way... i wonder
Hio kiburi ako nayo ebu huyo mama lipe hio pesa anadai atarudisha,jamaa enda jijenge watoi you can always co parent. Am a lady but this is wrong in all angles
This woman is so rude my goodness 😢😢😢😢poor bro
This woman will suffer sana. Hio kiburi intahisha. Leave her for the other man. Find and another woman and marry. Count your loss and move on. Do not live wirh this woman, she may kill you.
Nawenye anasema he shouldn't have educated the wife waache hiyo tabia.
At this point they are going through some tough time. If he hadnt taken the initiative to educate her wangekuwa no where actually wangekuwa kwa streets.
Refund his money b4 you down coz for sure you will.maybe kids si wako
This woman is very ungrateful
I wish he took the 40k back fast fast that moment being money that belongs to him since she was so high with kiburi but going back to traditional home empty handed 😢 That money would have made all the difference eg farming etc
Women are Loyal to their Feelings not Your Sacrifices, Bro Accept and Move on.
If u want to know the true colours of someone empower them and regret later
😢😢😢but why...... Jameni.....inafika a place a man says better kwenda kwa mamake ..
This lady she's heartless....
Ni shule gani mtapelekwa musikie ......Wacha kusomesha wanawake mkuuu weka biashasha ajiendeleshe mwenyewe....hamusikiiiiiiiii
Mother's brainwashing kids is soo wrong baba pia ni mtu Na mtoto wa mtu
Nothing can pay for ANY sacrifice. It is only a fool...that will think sacrifice can be equated to any monetary refunds
To those not reading my comments,you'll pass through this believe me you. read them n spread the news. STOP SPENDING MONEY ON YOUR IN LAWS! USE IT ON YOUR OWN BLOOD RELETED FAMILY! utanishukuru
Ndio sababu wanawake tunauliwa tunaaza kulaumu wanaume 😢
Nyinyi wakisii mnasomesha mabibi mbona.
Unaenda kutesa mama na labda alikuwarn
Thank God I haven't felled to this TRAP of daughters of Jezebell... Damn------- I really pity that guy hadi amekonda tu stress lakini mbaya zaidi ni #MATHARAU kwa myu amekutoa chini... MALIPO NI HAPA HAPA DUNIANI... that I dare you, LAZIMA!!
This is painful indeed. BMS bring principal's wife on set
Women women women!!!!
Men i hope you are all ears .. taking notes daily from this channel ...this is where we go wrong as men
NEVER SACRIFICE anything for a lady ... because they will turnish your efforts
Don't joke with such a woman,,
Six feet under Boss...
Alafu mtu akichinjwa mnaanza kulaumu mtu😢😢
Wanaume sijui shida yenu ukua nini mnatafuta bibi ama mwanafunzi 🤔🤔🤔🥴🥴
Steve leta Andarson apa kiharibikie iki.kimama😂😂😂
Men, please, it's not your responsibility to educate women. No!no! no! That is the responsibility of the parents. You are a husband not a father. Once you take on the role of a FATHER, the woman has to now look for a husband. Don't educate her siblings and never become the husband of your mother in law by taking on ALL her responsibilities. You will suffer kabisa! Only help WHERE you comfortably can. This the truth which many don't want to accept. Why can't she pay off her education loan now that she is working? Because YOU are not a husband but a FATHER!
and if you educate her, make sure ata wewe umefika hapo
Huyu mama anafaa kuchapwa na radi walai
anacheat aje na hiyo kitambi,shame on her
Unafundisha bibi kwani Ulikuwa mzazi wake Sasa Ona unalia
Boychaild run as fast as your legs can carry u
ngai 😢😢😢 woman hio yote ni madharau
Shoe za stevo hazikosagi wamariiiiiiiiiiiiii
And right now there's a man somewhere struggling to educate a woman in the name of wife and love😢😢😢mtakufa vibaya😅😅😅 ...the woman will keep on deffering you with other men's hadi siku atapata taste yake hata muwe na watoto 10 ....some women they don't came to study but to look for soulmates .....take care mens.....utakaa na mtu physically .....but mentally and emotionally you are not together😊
Mapenzi shikamoo😂
Njoo kwa channeli yangu uone cucumber 🥒 from Tanzania 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿😂😂
She should pay the Man plus interest accrued.
Why taking parents responsibilities to ladies who secretly cheats on you 😢😢
It is not my problem with who's cheating or not but my question is when someone is caught cheating wanakua na hii attitude,,,, imagine she's where she is because of her husband and the only thing she's doing ni kuona mzee na matharau 💔 climbing a ladder Is hard but coming down is very easy madam karma is a bitch it will be late but for sure it will arrive 😢😢😢😢😢men go through alot
If the father did not educate her ......who are you......
Doesh know that also her she us lost everything husband and job please women let's think first before making any decisions 🤔
bibi asomeshwe na babake!
Sina comment 😢 leo
Let her send him the money chocha za bure tu na madharau
Malimali amerudi hatari
Leave her and start over...when the kids grow they will come looking for you
Alafu wakiuwawa mtanza ohh😂
Until men u understand that you are your own,u will be peaceful. #Simps will see DUST
On the first date ensure you ask if your prospective partners phone is accessible at any time or private.. if private run for your dear life
Who remembers such things when the love is hot hot?😅😅😅
@bellaolum9768 🤣🤣🤣.. I will carry an interview questions book owada to guide me .
@@peninaawuor 😀😀😀
Men please start investing in yourselves first, this current women can't be trusted..acha nijipende
Hii ni Mali mali hata watu wa Mali 🇲🇱 wame confirmed
ni wakamba sasa do you marry akamba surely
Hawa ndio wanakula panga na useme to hell
THERE'S ONE THING HAVE LEARNT HERE WE MEN ONCE WE BROKE AND HAVE GOT THING WE BECOME NOTHING AND MOST WOMEN WILL NOT STAND BY YOU BUT MOST MEN WILL STAND BY THEIR WOMEN EVEN WHEN THEY'RE BROKE....BETTER TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST LET THEM CALL YOU MUKONO NGAMU....I AM NOW SCARED OF SOME WOMEN IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY'RE MEN BE CAREFUL
Karma is waiting for you Lady.....Always remember those that helped/elevated you on the way to success
Pride comes before a fall, feel pain for the guy😢😢tuletewe principle on the board
There is no karma for fools. Why educate her while himself hajasoma to that level?
@@thukusimon Karma is For Everyone ......Fools Or No fools
Men need love and respect too!! They're not on this Earth ONLY to pay bills,Stress and die😢😢😢
So true
To some, they are only donkeys for endless workload 😅😅😅😅
Very true and well said
Ukweli kabisaa 👍👌
Very painful bitter truth 😢😢😢😢
A simple guide to men on how to reduce relationship disappointments:
1. Invest in yourself first
2. Never sacrifice your progress for anybody & only give what you can afford to lose
3. Date/ marry a woman who has something going for herself
4. Should you decide to educate a woman who is not your relative, don't date/marry her. Just have friends with benefits with her until she meets the love of her life
Bro sijui nikutumie pesa ya nyamachoma na coke baridi for that powerful advice.
@@edwardkamau773 Kama message imekufikia hapo ni sawa