I was constantly accused of rolling my eyes, smirking, being snarky, having an ugly face at him (things I’ve never done), which he characterized as disrespectful to justify for his peevish petulant rages. I experienced his dark “shark eyes” three times over the years and it’s absolutely chilling, because when in that soulless state, I realized he was capable of horrible acts. I finally learned his accusations of me truly reflected his own thoughts and character. I finally left him and broke the mirror. Be patient with yourself, it takes time to heal…
Noticed this intense devlish stare or gaze without blinking next fo the elevator when my narc sister talked to me. I didn't look away, but felt uncomfortable.😮
I always say this about my bf because it's so true. He has black soulless eyes.... but not when he's around his friends. I've even pointed this out to him that there is a marked difference between the way he looks when he's putting on a show for other people and the evil person he becomes in private.
His beautiful brown eyes turned black as he screamed and yelled at me all night for months until I cried myself to sleep every night. I actually got physically ill from his sadistic behavior.
My ex girlfriend did this too. It was around christmas, i had days off before her from work, i was just doing my own thing and waiting to meet her to walk her home to her house. I meet up all smiley and happy and greeting warmly. Carrying her backpack. Suddenly she burst out in nonstop verbal abuse. From anything to whatever subject it could be from her being stressed from work and then having to walk with me was a hassle. I just stopped moving and froze.. and she completely changed for a second. We got home to her house. I put her groceries in the fridge.. while doing so. Another explosion that was the same type but different matters as to why she is so angry at me.. im a 28year old man. I dont usually cry.. but that night somehow she made me cry like a little kid.. all i remember was asking her.. why do you treat me like this? What have i done to deserve this? Under my questions i could see the smirk..
Numbers two three and four I am acquainted with. My mother has a hollow or empty look when she is just sitting around and no one is paying attention to her. She looks as if she is in another world. She also makes facial expressions and Body Language tells a whole lot about what's in her mind. Don't never say what was that look for, because she will tell you I didn't give no look, you're seeing things. There are also times when she says snarky and mean things. When she does this, you can see in her eyes and facial expression that she is enjoying it. That's when she intensely looks at you. Never call her out on it. It will always turn to be what's wrong with you you have horrible thoughts to think something like that about your mother.
What I realised recently is that he never has any expression on his face unless he's in public. At home, either he's bored, angry, sleepy, acting as if he loves me, happy or whatever, he always has the same blank pocker face. It's crazy and what's also crazy is that I realised it now! And now I know that this too is a major cause of my pain because I'm literally completely starved of any human interaction with him and genuine eye contact. It's as if I'm dealing with a robot. It's so unsettling and also very very damaging and it makes you also feel like you "don't exist" kinda.. I didn't know how vital a genuine eye contact and face expression is until I experienced the total lack of them 😞
That first intense gaze is their tactic to manipulate, control, and draw ur interest. That's the moment u avert ur gaze and walk or get far, far away, and never look back.
My husband did that one too. Right in front of me. He walked right over to a younger lady that was behind the bus stop. And looked behind it to talk to another woman. He looked like his head was turned in a weird way too appearing to look at her. To this day. This man Denises what I saw.
Their eyes “smile”, light up and sparkle when you’re in pain, but go dark and cold when you confront them about anything negative or disagree with them. Chilling!
Thanks for this vid, I can honestly say I had experienced all 4 on various different occasions, and I had experienced 2 dramatic incidences where his eyes went totally black lifeless and bone chilling while he smirked, I even find mine hovering over me while iam asleep and get woken up by some mysterious bumb, and believe me a chill from the wind is more welcoming than the chill I get from seeing him in that weird state of stare me to death while I sleep🤨 thank you yip the experiences are harrowing when you start seeing it, great vid🙏🙌🙌
Its the look of pure hatred. For no obvious reason. I just wished the narc i know a good evening. And the look he gave me was so unsettling. Ive seen the contempt before, but this just shook me. I couldnt wait to get away.
My darling man, I thank you!! I love you. All of the eye facts are true. He did possess all of the factual eye gazing,darkness and sneering.. Your an incredible person for educating the lay persons about narcissistic demons.
The person i know needs people to stare in his eyes for validation. He will pretend he drop something thinking you will look down and all you see is eyes looking up at you. If you dont look in his eyes he will get worse. He may also be a histrionic/npd. But he has all the same looks you are speaking of. So does his sister.
I have experience all of them. Raised by a narcissist. Encountered them my whole live because I used to think this behavior was normal. Now I know different. Took me a long time and many years of abuse and finally being educated about narcissistic traits and disorders,because of this channel and others. It is sad. You really have to know how to handle the narcissist or you came end up in a lot of problems.They take pleasure in trying to destroy your life. You have to go no contact or the cycle of abuse will continue and get progressively worse with each encounter. Learn the red flags and have no tolerance for these types of abusers. Set your posture and give them no entry into your life. Unless you want to be destroyed by one. There are millions of them out there. Be careful folks. I have learned my lessons and run at the first signs of their behavior. You must choose you. Do not fall for the drama.
He tries to stare me down whenever he thinks I say anything that makes him angry. They are black, hollow, and icy. I have started staring back with no other reaction. It's creepy
Haha each one of these... I was disgusted from myself that how could someone who loved me so much out of nowhere started smirking and raising eyebrows on me while taunting... also started behaving cold as a snake and talking to me without any blink... constantly blaming me of being a pshycopath... even I started believing it I am wrong but a voice inside me kept telling me otherwise... and this abuse became intense at the time of discarding when he left me
Definitely got almost continuous raised eyebrows & smirks from my ex. Always condescending to me, even when it was objectively clear there was nothing wrong/stupid about what I was saying/doing.
First date with my ex boyfriend I remember him sitting across the dinner table and he was staring at me so intensely and never blinked. I didn’t recognize at the time but he was 100 percent narcissistic/ perhaps even sociopathic. I finally left after he threatens to shoot me between the eyes. I don’t go near his part of town because he’s threatened me
There is only one universal thing about NPD and eyes. They can squint them, but they can't smile through them. Eye smiles are only possible by someone feeling happy, an emotion npd people can't have. Any other criteria will most likely vary wildly depending on their level of self awareness.
My grandmother (mom's side) had this weird smirk on her and hollow eyes whenever she passed out a taunt on me or my mother(also a narc) and it would just freeze me, looking at pure evil. I felt a lot of emotions in that second from anger to hurt. And her eyes were always wandering here and there, as I walk they'll follow me to the end of the room.
she looked at me like I was a cockroach in the end. Her pupils got very small/tiny even...it was wild. I felt so....dehumanized. I'll never forget it how trashy she made me feel.
I've experienced all of them, especially number four from many people, including my troubled late father, over the years, hence why I don't feel comfortable having much eye contact with anyone, but miss vital clues that way and look nervous. 🙁
I have seen them all 👍 I ask questions like: Why do you make faces like that? (silence and change of face); stare back (they stop staring); I say: I see something in your eyes, Im just not sure what Im seeing (oh, thats just how my eyes are) 😵💫
I have experienced all 4 😢, blood red eyes staring deep at me, wd make me shiver and loose my thinking, indicative of u will have it from me, sideward gaze on both sides , rolli ng eye movements
All 4. There might be a 5th one and it's sadistic psychopathic, it's when they witness someone being seriously physically harmed, they suddenly go into some type of fixated, hyper focused, predatory dark "trance", accompanied with the "joker" smile with teeth showing. It's rare but I have personally witnessed it first hand a few times, when you see it, you'll never forget it.
Yes I was injured in a car accident in my 20's. As I went in and out of consciousness, I could see people "rubber necking" at me with an unspeakable blood lust expression on their faces. It was always from men, and they thought I couldn't see them. I'll never forget that look. Maybe what Jesus saw while being crucified.
I have seen that last look you describe. I wish I understood what was going through his head when he did it. It was like he'd checked out of his body after being triggered to have a flashback to something very disturbing, the crocodile smile seemed completely inappropriate.
Noticed the black👹👺eyes at my mom when she was furious a few months ago. She seemed possessed. Very scary! She is a devouring mom, who is in denial about it at age 79.5 years old. She still hates my dad, although she was divorced when I was age 4. My dad lives in Paramaribo, USA and she lives in Rotterdam, the Netherlands. I told her to relax not necessary to stay mad.
First and last, I can absolutely relaaaaaate, But when you look back at them and stare back, the gaze becomes an inconfident look as they feel it's not having an effect and hide their fear of loosing control😂 The stare is the only tactic they actually have😮 Once you break it ohhhhh they will covertly retaliate and you know you were successful in hurting their ego
Seen the shame when they are caught red handed then the head drop which changes when the head comes back up and you see the real dead eyed total disrespectful hatred they feel .
Yes I noticed that he would just stare at me not just me but other women like he is trying to read something and women I left him he was a total narcissist thank you for bringing the stare up
I am often told that I have an intense gaze, and I often smirk at the demise of those I don't like (usually bullies). Does this mean I have narcissistic tendencies?
Are intentionally manipulating those around you? Or are these real amotions you are feeling? Are you feeling them as a result of your current situation? Things to consider.....
If you notice all of this and you're actually worried about it you're probably not a narcissit. Just because you do some things doesn't mean you're one. It's when you start to use those things to harm and manipulate others for your benefit.
You forgot #5. When you put them out and he (she)looks upon you the same way when you first met. Then quickly leaves. I held his clothes for thirty days ( as law requires in MD) and when I told him, of course he picked through it and grabbed a few pieces but left out with a (I was seriously just going to shake his hand) but a hug. He knows, KNOWS, it’s over. I’m over it and it’s a weird feeling to him. Or a familiar one- don’t be duped anymore
tickety-boo It's a huge YES from me and I know a highly narcissistic woman who wears sunglasses during the day and night, so can't see her eyes most of the time! I can imagine though and don't want to see any of her again anyway. 😎
Yes but blazing light green from deep blue those eyes burnt with an ice cold light! I've witnessed the black stare in few people but that green stare - still trying to find any reference -
Your narc. What are you claiming that demon.. There's no glare that's sending me nowhere... They live in fear so if you show them fear they got you.... Stand strong through King Jesus....
Befor breakup he send me a picture from gym. I thought it was cute. After breakup I looked at exact that picture and it was totally emptiness. I’m like: what ? How couldn’t I see that??? Omg that’s so horrific 😮
My dad used to say my sister shoots daggers with her eyes. I now think of it as the bully stare. It is the essence of bullying. My sister painted her haughtiness as sarcasm and joking, and I am finally realizing it was real all along. They can't hide it, and get away with it by making fun of it. I've been retraining myself to stop acting like them and am now going to be watching myself for raised eyebrows and eye rolling, which for me truly is joking because I had a crazy person teach me that's what joking is. My dad used to also say he was damned if he did and damned if he didn't with my mom and sister, and I finally understand what that meant, more than he ever did.
He wd trt me like object, sometimes slapping beatings and having what he wants , and leave me restless with pain, while he wd get sound sleep immediately
Number 4: when I accuse her of cheating on me she looks down aside with darker dead eyes that I can see only when I call her out on cheating... I think she has cheated on me...
Flowers of the field 🌻 That's an apt description and I know it only too well, which is a clear signal to stay away from the person, IF possible! I want to add that I absolutely love sunflowers because they're a symbol for my precious daughter, who lives in another country. 😊
@@TwinkTwankTwonkI've seen that black stare too! But the one that haunts me was blue eyes turning a light glowing green! Anyone else seen this? In my family it was recognised fact..mm
Seen it once the last time I was with the Psychopathic Narcissist ex and pray I never see it again. I was frozen to the spot in fear and was worried I might have wet myself. These people are evil and sick beyond comprehension. What is really scary is how good they are at masking it. 🎭
Can i say all 😂 but i was also in a relationship with a very subservient narcissist who didn't have sarcasm, criticism, physical violence traits or cheating. They were just in victim mode but clinically diagnosed narcissists
My boss is a coo hearted S,O.B because wild he is looking 👀 and crooking GOD is like and booking .He going to weep 😪 exactly what he had sew number 4 have a blessed night.
All ...my narcissist husband of 8 months I discarded him to save my life 😁...but when I discovered he's narc I cried for months PTSD victim ..I was already chronically depressed and I got narcissist husband cherry on cake am again lonely but god's command
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They are the darkest of humans, terrible predators.
I was constantly accused of rolling my eyes, smirking, being snarky, having an ugly face at him (things I’ve never done), which he characterized as disrespectful to justify for his peevish petulant rages. I experienced his dark “shark eyes” three times over the years and it’s absolutely chilling, because when in that soulless state, I realized he was capable of horrible acts. I finally learned his accusations of me truly reflected his own thoughts and character. I finally left him and broke the mirror. Be patient with yourself, it takes time to heal…
I can not believe how closely they follow the same play book. I am hopeful I will be away from this person soon!
Me too
I've see the dark gaze. Numerous times each year. It burrows into your soul. If I come up missing...
I survived that type
That look means
Hall ass n leave don't trust em period no matter what happens to them
Don't except money nor gifts .
My mother in law's eye looks scary when she talks to me she is ignoring me. I didn't notice any colour change but scary eye..
Noticed this intense devlish stare or gaze without blinking next fo the elevator when my narc sister talked to me. I didn't look away, but felt uncomfortable.😮
I always say this about my bf because it's so true. He has black soulless eyes.... but not when he's around his friends. I've even pointed this out to him that there is a marked difference between the way he looks when he's putting on a show for other people and the evil person he becomes in private.
bf???????
@@cynthiae6230 boyfriend
@@carmen6693 ; based on what you said it sounds like it would be better for your well-being if he became an ex-boyfriend.
@Cynthia E I do agree- my situation is complicated but I've been actively working on making that happen.
Very true
The smirk for sure!!!! He’d do something horrible that really hurt me and then the smirk. He was enjoying whatever he did or said to hurt.
What a waste of life they hv 😄
His beautiful brown eyes turned black as he screamed and yelled at me all night for months until I cried myself to sleep every night. I actually got physically ill from his sadistic behavior.
sick!
My ex girlfriend did this too. It was around christmas, i had days off before her from work, i was just doing my own thing and waiting to meet her to walk her home to her house. I meet up all smiley and happy and greeting warmly. Carrying her backpack. Suddenly she burst out in nonstop verbal abuse. From anything to whatever subject it could be from her being stressed from work and then having to walk with me was a hassle. I just stopped moving and froze.. and she completely changed for a second. We got home to her house. I put her groceries in the fridge.. while doing so. Another explosion that was the same type but different matters as to why she is so angry at me.. im a 28year old man. I dont usually cry.. but that night somehow she made me cry like a little kid.. all i remember was asking her.. why do you treat me like this? What have i done to deserve this? Under my questions i could see the smirk..
It’s called duping delight.. google this terminology.
All of the above. The smirk when I was upset. The sneer at my food. I eat vegetables. Cold detached with just enough evil to give you chills.
Numbers two three and four I am acquainted with. My mother has a hollow or empty look when she is just sitting around and no one is paying attention to her. She looks as if she is in another world. She also makes facial expressions and Body Language tells a whole lot about what's in her mind. Don't never say what was that look for, because she will tell you I didn't give no look, you're seeing things. There are also times when she says snarky and mean things. When she does this, you can see in her eyes and facial expression that she is enjoying it. That's when she intensely looks at you. Never call her out on it. It will always turn to be what's wrong with you you have horrible thoughts to think something like that about your mother.
Praying for you.
All 4 of them. The "rage" one looked funny to me, so I usually chuckled when it was shown to me, which triggered her even more.
What I realised recently is that he never has any expression on his face unless he's in public. At home, either he's bored, angry, sleepy, acting as if he loves me, happy or whatever, he always has the same blank pocker face. It's crazy and what's also crazy is that I realised it now! And now I know that this too is a major cause of my pain because I'm literally completely starved of any human interaction with him and genuine eye contact. It's as if I'm dealing with a robot. It's so unsettling and also very very damaging and it makes you also feel like you "don't exist" kinda.. I didn't know how vital a genuine eye contact and face expression is until I experienced the total lack of them 😞
That first intense gaze is their tactic to manipulate, control, and draw ur interest. That's the moment u avert ur gaze and walk or get far, far away, and never look back.
Exactly never look back
I’ve experienced all of these unfortunately. I wish I new this information sooner. Thank you Doctor for helping me through all of this abuse.
Definitely that devaluing gaze.
all of them plus the predatory stare as well ...when they are "studing" or sizing up the target
My husband did that one too. Right in front of me. He walked right over to a younger lady that was behind the bus stop. And looked behind it to talk to another woman. He looked like his head was turned in a weird way too appearing to look at her. To this day. This man Denises what I saw.
Makes my blood run cold.
Their eyes “smile”, light up and sparkle when you’re in pain, but go dark and cold when you confront them about anything negative or disagree with them. Chilling!
Hollowness, specially during intimacy...
Omg
I felt an element of victory. As if he conquered a territory. This expression was caught by my friends during my wedding which they later told
Always looking like they’re staring past you..
All of the above. I’ve told my spouse narc that he looks at me with hatred and discuss. His response “hatred and discuss! Please!”
Thanks for this vid, I can honestly say I had experienced all 4 on various different occasions, and I had experienced 2 dramatic incidences where his eyes went totally black lifeless and bone chilling while he smirked, I even find mine hovering over me while iam asleep and get woken up by some mysterious bumb, and believe me a chill from the wind is more welcoming than the chill I get from seeing him in that weird state of stare me to death while I sleep🤨 thank you yip the experiences are harrowing when you start seeing it, great vid🙏🙌🙌
Its the look of pure hatred. For no obvious reason. I just wished the narc i know a good evening. And the look he gave me was so unsettling. Ive seen the contempt before, but this just shook me. I couldnt wait to get away.
My darling man, I thank you!! I love you.
All of the eye facts are true.
He did possess all of the factual eye gazing,darkness and sneering.. Your an incredible person for educating the lay persons about narcissistic demons.
The person i know needs people to stare in his eyes for validation. He will pretend he drop something thinking you will look down and all you see is eyes looking up at you. If you dont look in his eyes he will get worse. He may also be a histrionic/npd. But he has all the same looks you are speaking of. So does his sister.
I have experience all of them. Raised by a narcissist. Encountered them my whole live because I used to think this behavior was normal. Now I know different. Took me a long time and many years of abuse and finally being educated about narcissistic traits and disorders,because of this channel and others. It is sad. You really have to know how to handle the narcissist or you came end up in a lot of problems.They take pleasure in trying to destroy your life. You have to go no contact or the cycle of abuse will continue and get progressively worse with each encounter. Learn the red flags and have no tolerance for these types of abusers. Set your posture and give them no entry into your life. Unless you want to be destroyed by one. There are millions of them out there. Be careful folks. I have learned my lessons and run at the first signs of their behavior. You must choose you. Do not fall for the drama.
Hollow eyes; when not acting she was empty. She was a covert narc. But those she acted for called her ' sweet'...
Thanks Danish!❤⚘
Those evil dark eyes!!...😮😮
Exactly what they have inside:
Deep dark anger hater jealous
Lies....
He tries to stare me down whenever he thinks I say anything that makes him angry. They are black, hollow, and icy. I have started staring back with no other reaction. It's creepy
I can relate. It's creepy as fuck. If I go missing...
I stare back until they break contact. Why? Greater is He who is in me, than the nothingness in the narc. No fear.. non.
Yes,I experienced intense gaze which is very uncomfortable.
the last one when he is filled with rage
All of them without a doubt.
I have experienced their raised eyebrows and smirks.
Haha each one of these... I was disgusted from myself that how could someone who loved me so much out of nowhere started smirking and raising eyebrows on me while taunting... also started behaving cold as a snake and talking to me without any blink... constantly blaming me of being a pshycopath... even I started believing it I am wrong but a voice inside me kept telling me otherwise... and this abuse became intense at the time of discarding when he left me
I see it all my life but I am finna be 23 soon god all ready got my ahead of me. Ever since I been going to church life been better he will pay deeply
Definitely got almost continuous raised eyebrows & smirks from my ex. Always condescending to me, even when it was objectively clear there was nothing wrong/stupid about what I was saying/doing.
I can relate
I can relate
I've seen all 4. Wow these posts are so enlightening. Thank ypu
First date with my ex boyfriend I remember him sitting across the dinner table and he was staring at me so intensely and never blinked. I didn’t recognize at the time but he was 100 percent narcissistic/ perhaps even sociopathic. I finally left after he threatens to shoot me between the eyes. I don’t go near his part of town because he’s threatened me
All of them….especially the eyes going totally black, you don’t forget that like it’s a demon
All 4 especially emptiness, hollowness smirks
There is only one universal thing about NPD and eyes. They can squint them, but they can't smile through them. Eye smiles are only possible by someone feeling happy, an emotion npd people can't have.
Any other criteria will most likely vary wildly depending on their level of self awareness.
My grandmother (mom's side) had this weird smirk on her and hollow eyes whenever she passed out a taunt on me or my mother(also a narc) and it would just freeze me, looking at pure evil. I felt a lot of emotions in that second from anger to hurt. And her eyes were always wandering here and there, as I walk they'll follow me to the end of the room.
Mine cannot look me in the eyes and typically has a leftward gaze!?
she looked at me like I was a cockroach in the end. Her pupils got very small/tiny even...it was wild. I felt so....dehumanized. I'll never forget it how trashy she made me feel.
My narc dad had shark eyes. The x had dead eyes.
All of the above especially with my mother.
I've experienced all of them, especially number four from many people, including my troubled late father, over the years, hence why I don't feel comfortable having much eye contact with anyone, but miss vital clues that way and look nervous. 🙁
I have seen them all 👍 I ask questions like: Why do you make faces like that? (silence and change of face); stare back (they stop staring); I say: I see something in your eyes, Im just not sure what Im seeing (oh, thats just how my eyes are) 😵💫
You’re seeing the demon in them
In fact I would say dirty eyes 👀 the eyes of a devil who is so sad so empty so insecure 😄😄😄😄
I have experienced all 4 😢, blood red eyes staring deep at me, wd make me shiver and loose my thinking, indicative of u will have it from me, sideward gaze on both sides , rolli ng eye movements
All 4. There might be a 5th one and it's sadistic psychopathic, it's when they witness someone being seriously physically harmed, they suddenly go into some type of fixated, hyper focused, predatory dark "trance", accompanied with the "joker" smile with teeth showing. It's rare but I have personally witnessed it first hand a few times, when you see it, you'll never forget it.
Yes I was injured in a car accident in my 20's. As I went in and out of consciousness, I could see people "rubber necking" at me with an unspeakable blood lust expression on their faces. It was always from men, and they thought I couldn't see them. I'll never forget that look. Maybe what Jesus saw while being crucified.
I know that look
@@cynthiae6230I'm betting he did!
I have seen that last look you describe. I wish I understood what was going through his head when he did it. It was like he'd checked out of his body after being triggered to have a flashback to something very disturbing, the crocodile smile seemed completely inappropriate.
@@JH-td4mn the smile is not a smile? More a barring of the teeth? Please protect yourself and and anybody little
Maybe that is what my ex Narc called himself doing. Staring at me in a daze I just thought he was in a deep thought lol makes sense now
How about when they are with you and take or make an unimportant phone call and just ignore you until their unimportant phone call is over???
Noticed the black👹👺eyes at my mom when she was furious a few months ago. She seemed possessed. Very scary! She is a devouring mom, who is in denial about it at age 79.5 years old. She still hates my dad, although she was divorced when I was age 4. My dad lives in Paramaribo, USA and she lives in Rotterdam, the Netherlands. I told her to relax not necessary to stay mad.
1,3, and 4. I hate the smirk and smile. It so evil and scary feeling.
All 4 are 💯spot on!!!
First and last, I can absolutely relaaaaaate,
But when you look back at them and stare back, the gaze becomes an inconfident look as they feel it's not having an effect and hide their fear of loosing control😂
The stare is the only tactic they actually have😮 Once you break it ohhhhh they will covertly retaliate and you know you were successful in hurting their ego
At least they have empathy inside 😅
I have experience all of them it’s a look of pure evil
I noticied narccists tend to watch you behind their eyes
Now I look just slightly off -do not engage-just act interested elsewhere quietly-ignore
Seen the shame when they are caught red handed then the head drop which changes when the head comes back up and you see the real dead eyed total disrespectful hatred they feel .
Yes I noticed that he would just stare at me not just me but other women like he is trying to read something and women I left him he was a total narcissist thank you for bringing the stare up
Yeah they really have empty eyes at normal times
Then a weird sadistic angry look when trying to attack someone
I saw emptiness in his eyes ; innocent and the evil to. And if i look at him someway.. hes a fraid from my eyes...
To add, when their eyes become reflective....
The narcissists I know bug out their eyes 👀 and look scary or intimidating.
Yes they have an entire Wardrobe of Stares.
I am often told that I have an intense gaze, and I often smirk at the demise of those I don't like (usually bullies). Does this mean I have narcissistic tendencies?
Are intentionally manipulating those around you? Or are these real amotions you are feeling? Are you feeling them as a result of your current situation? Things to consider.....
If you notice all of this and you're actually worried about it you're probably not a narcissit.
Just because you do some things doesn't mean you're one. It's when you start to use those things to harm and manipulate others for your benefit.
All of them!
I’ve experienced all of them. 😢
Black eyes when normally blue
You forgot #5. When you put them out and he (she)looks upon you the same way when you first met. Then quickly leaves. I held his clothes for thirty days ( as law requires in MD) and when I told him, of course he picked through it and grabbed a few pieces but left out with a (I was seriously just going to shake his hand) but a hug. He knows, KNOWS, it’s over. I’m over it and it’s a weird feeling to him. Or a familiar one- don’t be duped anymore
I have seen them all. Very scary stuff.
Intense game and smirk
Has anyone else seen the goofy eyes 😵💫? The black eyes ⚫️? The blazing, burning eyes 🔥?
Oh yes I have with my narc sister. Pathetic people
tickety-boo It's a huge YES from me and I know a highly narcissistic woman who wears sunglasses during the day and night, so can't see her eyes most of the time! I can imagine though and don't want to see any of her again anyway. 😎
Yes but blazing light green from deep blue those eyes burnt with an ice cold light! I've witnessed the black stare in few people but that green stare - still trying to find any reference -
…or the eyes bulging out of their head?
My Narc had a glare that could send you straight to hell.
My dad had those eyes.
So do these tigray thieves!
These people eventually go there
Your narc. What are you claiming that demon.. There's no glare that's sending me nowhere... They live in fear so if you show them fear they got you.... Stand strong through King Jesus....
Mine looked at me like he wanted to hurt me !
A lot!!!
I loved him though.
Unfortunately, I've experienced all 4 to varying degrees & many different situations & times....
Befor breakup he send me a picture from gym. I thought it was cute.
After breakup I looked at exact that picture and it was totally emptiness.
I’m like: what ? How couldn’t I see that???
Omg that’s so horrific 😮
Thanks bro
My dad used to say my sister shoots daggers with her eyes. I now think of it as the bully stare. It is the essence of bullying. My sister painted her haughtiness as sarcasm and joking, and I am finally realizing it was real all along. They can't hide it, and get away with it by making fun of it. I've been retraining myself to stop acting like them and am now going to be watching myself for raised eyebrows and eye rolling, which for me truly is joking because I had a crazy person teach me that's what joking is. My dad used to also say he was damned if he did and damned if he didn't with my mom and sister, and I finally understand what that meant, more than he ever did.
Has anyone else experienced The lack of eye contact during sex? Completely uncomfortable
All four, including dark and cold hatred
He wd trt me like object, sometimes slapping beatings and having what he wants , and leave me restless with pain, while he wd get sound sleep immediately
Are you sure you're not talking about my mother🤔
Sounds just like her
Thank you for your help and noticing and overcoming a narcissist.🤙🇨🇦😎
I have experienced all of these
Number 4: when I accuse her of cheating on me she looks down aside with darker dead eyes that I can see only when I call her out on cheating... I think she has cheated on me...
I felt a dead eye,which doesn't explain any emotion
I ve seen all of the excepth the hollowness. That is because maybe I saw myself through his eyes
Omgggggg all four!😔
WHEN THEIR EYES GO PURE BLACK JUST LIKE THE HORROR MOVIES ........ NOW THATS A MOMENT IN TIME YOU DONT EASILY FORGET
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Flowers of the field 🌻 That's an apt description and I know it only too well, which is a clear signal to stay away from the person, IF possible!
I want to add that I absolutely love sunflowers because they're a symbol for my precious daughter, who lives in another country. 😊
I seen those black eyes too on a guy I use to date. Scared the crap out of me too. Glad I'm not with that Demon no more.
@@TwinkTwankTwonkI've seen that black stare too! But the one that haunts me was blue eyes turning a light glowing green! Anyone else seen this? In my family it was recognised fact..mm
Seen it once the last time I was with the Psychopathic Narcissist ex and pray I never see it again. I was frozen to the spot in fear and was worried I might have wet myself. These people are evil and sick beyond comprehension. What is really scary is how good they are at masking it. 🎭
Can i say all 😂 but i was also in a relationship with a very subservient narcissist who didn't have sarcasm, criticism, physical violence traits or cheating. They were just in victim mode but clinically diagnosed narcissists
, experienced all of them
All of them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
How about rolling their eyes when you ask them to do something
My boss is a coo hearted S,O.B because wild he is looking 👀 and crooking GOD is like and booking .He going to weep 😪 exactly what he had sew number 4 have a blessed night.
All of the above!!!
All 4 without a doubt
3 out of 4. Never seen the full black eyes and don’t plan to
the gaze
All ...my narcissist husband of 8 months I discarded him to save my life 😁...but when I discovered he's narc I cried for months PTSD victim ..I was already chronically depressed and I got narcissist husband cherry on cake am again lonely but god's command
Black Eyes & face skin turned lite gray.
All of them.