If you have a attraction towards an individual, you should go for marriage? because we are human beings, Allah has made us like this, so its natural for us to have attraction towards an individual, it not haram if you want to know a person, or be around with them, its about How you do it, and the best way to do it depends on the age of the individual, for example if someone is still young, and Likes an individual it is natural for that person to look at the person, and have urges, we cannot be blamed for How Allah has created us. In younger people dating(western) is more common, because they neglect the purpose of temporary marriage, temporary marriage is not just so a person can know an individual better by asking questions, its to see if one individual can "Live" happily and be satisfied around the individual they love, because sometimes people have "crushes" in schools, which is not what I mean by love, a crush is a attraction you get for someone because of your Hormonal developement in your body, and its natural, but the cause of such developement is the eyes of the individual, young people(especially in the western society) are vulnerable to such unpleasent sights, as our Imam said in a hadith, the chastity of Non-muslims is that of a donkey, In the sense that they are unchaste and you are exposed to some of their body parts, And its true, ofcourse as a young individual when your body goes through such stages, and considering your not fuly mature, you fall into this sin of looking at the opposite gender, In the case of Looking, its only haram to look at non-Muslim, and a muslim who does not cover herself fully. In my opinion the best thing to do at this stage is Mutah marriage, that is the sole purpose of why it had been allowed? because if the 2 individual really do love eachother, and are perfect for marriage their love won't fade away, if it does then they weren't perfect and None of the 2 are inflicted by any pain or grief, what I mean is that for example One person likes this girl dearly, There is nothing wrong if you want to do mutah with the person, because No.1 you are inflicting self-harm onto your self(Depression) No2. You are repressing your sexual desires, which is not What Allah has told us to do? Allah has told us to repress them interms of Sins like Adultery. Infact its not possible to repress your sexual desires, we are not infallibles These things happen naturally in our body, This is the way we are created} No3. If you dearly do actually love that person, it will effect the way you behave with your future wife( If she is another person) because if you 2 really did love eachother you will not forget eachother, which will harm you marriage. The Other problem in todays world is the parents, because No.1 most of them have not experienced what the younger generation has(Mix schools in western societies) So for them Marriage at a young age is abnormal, which is completely wrong because Allah Has created our bodies in a specific manner, it is completely normal to have attraction towards individuals when you are teen, and it is normal to think about marriage at that age. if you thinks its abnormal, then you are calling the creation of Allah and his way of creation abnormal, so this is infact a sin in my opinion and an assault on the child, because he is having to repress his urges, and go through such a devastating stage because of your ignorance. Now me Im talking from a bias perspective because im also in this stage, where I have wanted to marry an individual(at 15) But my parents have ignored it and said no because they are worried about how im going to take care of the wife, and don't want another burden in the family, which seems really absurd to me, the fact they value Money more than my happiness, Not that they are wrong in the sense that they probably don't want to become poor, which I understand but there has to be a better way in my opinion. Now Idk whether im wrong or not, but I think it is best to wait till I reach a certain age, where im financially stable but till then be with her by mutah marriage.
What a topic. Love the both of you for such and educational conversation. The views at times did not align but I felt that's because Ahmed and Syed Ali had a different upbringing? Both of you did an amazing job navigating a difficult discussion and we all appreciate the message behind the scenes. Syed Ali mentioned he has never been to Hawza but Mashalah all the episodes of you both is as if there's years of knowledge behind you. Looking forward to next weeks episode!
Matchmaking happens to be home of the hardest success rates atm as no one wants to commit, people are suspicious over the opposite sex and waiting for the better option, this is why I’ve created pre marital coaching service
Where do you draw line between ignorance & making effort to educate yourself rather asking ignorant questions. You making quite sinister accusations muta is associated with promiscuity.
@@Shia.Ahlulbayt if you don’t have the proper knowledge to understand my question and answer it accordingly, don’t get all defensive about it. I life in the western hemisphere and I seen it being abused by my fellow Shias and some got infected with herpes unfortunately.
@@samknights5774 I understand your question but clearly you don't understand the rules relating to muta. It isn't defensive to tell others to educate themselves on islam. If you know those who go round sleeping round catching things says more about the people you associate with
@@samknights5774 I lived in West longer than you I don't mixed with those who abuse it like you claim to know. If you had bit of common sense you would know the answer to this or ask a scholar. It amazes me you think people need knowledge to answer the filth you come out with. So what do you do? ask the knowledgeable people on you RUclips. Damn you are smart guy
@@samknights5774 You answered you own question you seen it being "abused"! How about they don't abuse it. if they do abuse it is questionable if they are even following the rules. Jahils like you damage our faith more than those intentionally trying to attack it. Mr I live in the West. Who do think watching English programs mainly.
Can Muslims date? Halal, Haram or depends?
If you have a attraction towards an individual, you should go for marriage? because we are human beings, Allah has made us like this, so its natural for us to have attraction towards an individual, it not haram if you want to know a person, or be around with them, its about How you do it, and the best way to do it depends on the age of the individual, for example if someone is still young, and Likes an individual it is natural for that person to look at the person, and have urges, we cannot be blamed for How Allah has created us. In younger people dating(western) is more common, because they neglect the purpose of temporary marriage, temporary marriage is not just so a person can know an individual better by asking questions, its to see if one individual can "Live" happily and be satisfied around the individual they love, because sometimes people have "crushes" in schools, which is not what I mean by love, a crush is a attraction you get for someone because of your Hormonal developement in your body, and its natural, but the cause of such developement is the eyes of the individual, young people(especially in the western society) are vulnerable to such unpleasent sights, as our Imam said in a hadith, the chastity of Non-muslims is that of a donkey, In the sense that they are unchaste and you are exposed to some of their body parts, And its true, ofcourse as a young individual when your body goes through such stages, and considering your not fuly mature, you fall into this sin of looking at the opposite gender, In the case of Looking, its only haram to look at non-Muslim, and a muslim who does not cover herself fully. In my opinion the best thing to do at this stage is Mutah marriage, that is the sole purpose of why it had been allowed? because if the 2 individual really do love eachother, and are perfect for marriage their love won't fade away, if it does then they weren't perfect and None of the 2 are inflicted by any pain or grief, what I mean is that for example One person likes this girl dearly, There is nothing wrong if you want to do mutah with the person, because No.1 you are inflicting self-harm onto your self(Depression)
No2. You are repressing your sexual desires, which is not What Allah has told us to do? Allah has told us to repress them interms of Sins like Adultery.
Infact its not possible to repress your sexual desires, we are not infallibles These things happen naturally in our body, This is the way we are created}
No3. If you dearly do actually love that person, it will effect the way you behave with your future wife( If she is another person) because if you 2 really did love eachother you will not forget eachother, which will harm you marriage.
The Other problem in todays world is the parents, because No.1 most of them have not experienced what the younger generation has(Mix schools in western societies) So for them Marriage at a young age is abnormal, which is completely wrong because Allah Has created our bodies in a specific manner, it is completely normal to have attraction towards individuals when you are teen, and it is normal to think about marriage at that age. if you thinks its abnormal, then you are calling the creation of Allah and his way of creation abnormal, so this is infact a sin in my opinion and an assault on the child, because he is having to repress his urges, and go through such a devastating stage because of your ignorance. Now me Im talking from a bias perspective because im also in this stage, where I have wanted to marry an individual(at 15) But my parents have ignored it and said no because they are worried about how im going to take care of the wife, and don't want another burden in the family, which seems really absurd to me, the fact they value Money more than my happiness, Not that they are wrong in the sense that they probably don't want to become poor, which I understand but there has to be a better way in my opinion. Now Idk whether im wrong or not, but I think it is best to wait till I reach a certain age, where im financially stable but till then be with her by mutah marriage.
What a topic. Love the both of you for such and educational conversation. The views at times did not align but I felt that's because Ahmed and Syed Ali had a different upbringing? Both of you did an amazing job navigating a difficult discussion and we all appreciate the message behind the scenes. Syed Ali mentioned he has never been to Hawza but Mashalah all the episodes of you both is as if there's years of knowledge behind you. Looking forward to next weeks episode!
Great video.. Knowledgeable and engaging!!
@13:30 wholeheartedly agree and appreciate what you've said
Matchmaking happens to be home of the hardest success rates atm as no one wants to commit, people are suspicious over the opposite sex and waiting for the better option, this is why I’ve created pre marital coaching service
Oh my god Syed Ali Radhawi's intro 😂😂😂
Haha. It's always nice seeing the funny side of our brothers 😂
Wonderful work brothers ❤
Question: where do you draw the line between temporary marriage and STDs/HIV ?
Where do you draw line between ignorance & making effort to educate yourself rather asking ignorant questions.
You making quite sinister accusations muta is associated with promiscuity.
@@Shia.Ahlulbayt if you don’t have the proper knowledge to understand my question and answer it accordingly, don’t get all defensive about it. I life in the western hemisphere and I seen it being abused by my fellow Shias and some got infected with herpes unfortunately.
@@samknights5774 I understand your question but clearly you don't understand the rules relating to muta.
It isn't defensive to tell others to educate themselves on islam.
If you know those who go round sleeping round catching things says more about the people you associate with
@@samknights5774 I lived in West longer than you I don't mixed with those who abuse it like you claim to know.
If you had bit of common sense you would know the answer to this or ask a scholar. It amazes me you think people need knowledge to answer the filth you come out with. So what do you do? ask the knowledgeable people on you RUclips. Damn you are smart guy
@@samknights5774 You answered you own question you seen it being "abused"!
How about they don't abuse it. if they do abuse it is questionable if they are even following the rules.
Jahils like you damage our faith more than those intentionally trying to attack it. Mr I live in the West. Who do think watching English programs mainly.