That One Shocking Thing FILIPINAS Do on First Dates with a Foreigner
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When I first met my wife, she had 3 friends with her! It was strange at first but I get it! She was 40ish with a daughter. We ended getting married after 4 years of living together and were married for 21 years till she passed in 2022. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and I do miss her every day!
Sorry for your loss Marc. You guys spent a great amount of years together. Hope you’re holding up.
And yes, its not a make it or break it situation. Just a quirk here in the PH. :)
I personally have no problem with a chaperone on the first time meeting especially in todays day and age. I fully admit to being old fashioned and i don't apologize for it. I for one want my date to feel safe and comfortable with me and I don't want her parents worrying when she is with me.
We all have our preference. We respect that Harvey 👌
Been married to my Beautiful Philippine wife for 14 years & yes on our 1st date's we had an extra person in toe but I understood why. Her English is very good to the point of correcting my slang (I am form East London)
Sounds great that it all worked out 👌
I met my Filipina on line internet 4 months before arriving in Cebu- Mactan. She met me at the airport. She was a province girl. We had arranged for an Airbnb with a lap pool In Mabolo. On first night we close connected. She is half my age. We enjoyed traveling Negros Oriental and many provinces on Luzon island.
We’re glad you had a good experience 👌
My friend's date have a chaperone and i met them in the mall...after 2weeks my friend and i both attended a bday celebration of our barkada....turned out that he and the chaperone are already engaged. Hahaha
Holy moly! Hahah 🤣🤣🤣 What a twist of events lol not surprising
Im impressed how good her English is, better than mine! I enjoy ur content, how u present it!
Glad you enjoy it Bradley 👍
Many Filipinas speak better English than some foreigners that come to the Philippines. Strangely, I have met European men in Manila that struggle with English. They don’t know Tagalog, either.
When I met my 37 year old Filipina the first time, she didn’t bring a chaperone, although she was nervous. We met at Ninoy Airport late at night and she almost turned around went home before we met. When finally found each other, we did a nice hug.
We’re glad she stayed and actually met you 😁
Arriving at the airport only to find out nobody is there would be quite a bummer.
Cheers
Watching from NYC, New York State, USA. Filipina here speaks good English. You are a fun couple, very conversational, easy going and informative. Happy New Year , 2024 is very soon here.
Much appreciated George 🙏
Happy New Year 🎆
Yes. Very affluent. Barely an accent. I work in healthcare so have known many Filipinos. My guess is she is a university gal or well traveled.
And great to hear that Eastern European - Russian accent to. I wonder if their community is very big in the Philippines?
Ive been with filipina for 12 years now, happily married 6 years.
Congrats! Thats impressive 👍 and we are also looking forward for a life long healthy relationship 🙏
I appreciate this in a culture, because it's a form of protection. As foreigners it probably would be best that to meet with the family first and build some trust, and set some boundaries. It's a messed up world and important to protect family.
It could be awkward for some so informing ahead at least would be a nice gesture 👍
I disagree, why would you meet the family BEFORE getting to know if she's even the type person you want to be with. Her family gets their hopes up just for things not to work out, how is that going to help her in her family situation.
@@ejtaylor73well you either meet them as chaperones beforehand or on the first date.
So to meet the family beforehand can build trust and they would allow you to have a first date alone
@@babsirants true...and the awkwardness is there regardless
My Filipina met Me at the airport with Her Brother and Cousin, but I knew that They would be with Her. We went directly to Church and then dinner afterwards. She was 30 years old then. Now I am engaged to Her, the Lady of My Dreams. Happy New Year.
Sounds great George 👍.
We are glad it all went smooth for you 👌
Most of my online GF's English is terrible, and their texting is even worse a lot of the time.
Looks like no luck. Keep lookin
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You guys are awesome! I would find a chaperoned date quite endearing. It would be like an exclamation point on their true conservatism. Second date, third date not so much. I mean at that point, am I dating the Phillapina or her uncle? I've seen 5 or 6 of your shows and enjoyed each one greatly, so I subbed. I'll look back when y'all have 75,000 subscribers and I'll say I'm glad I jumped on the Babsi team when I did. Y'all are VERY entertaining and thank you for the quality you both bring consistsanly. How about selling Tee Shirts saying "Team Babsi"? You two perfectly compliment each other!
So many kind words!
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I did live video chat with my Filipino she was 53 years old we talk for 3 months before I met her and she brought her niece with her to meet me at the airport
Was the niece plan B if the 53 year old discovered that she did not like you?
Looks like it could be helpful if meeting at the airport. It all worked out well Mike, right?
That’s kind of cute. I’m thinking it’s a protection thing.
Yup, it is interesting 😁
Great video 😊 thanks !!
Thanks for watching Morris 👍
Hi guys i know my first date with my filipina, we were catching a bus in london and she said to me Tena, which means come in tagalog, i thought she was asking me for ten pounds english sterling , and thought she was high maintenance 😅 but she is loving caring and so loyal ❤
Haha 😆
Well for sure your Filipino language skills are improved now 👌
the secret to a happy and successful relationship is to be loyal and faithful with each other and never get tired or stop loving each other even after you have been together for many years.
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Happy Holidays Sammy
The chaperones also grill you , how much you earn ? Do you own your own house ? Have you got a car ? And stuff like that !
Exactly!!! They feel entitled to grill you just because your date brought them. Crazy 😆
They are born gold diggers
To me, they are watching out for someone they really love when they go to meet an "unknown" that they really don't know. I would be more inclined to treat it as a first meeting of a group of friends and go on the offensive say, with the father and brother show showed up and get to know them. Then, yes, try to "date" at a public place, but more 1-on-1. If they can't back off a bit by then, then it might hurt things.
Different people with different levels of tolerance.
I guess it’s always good to be patient first before jumping into judgment.
Good luck 👍
My time visiting your channel, very informative. But since this might be the norm in your culture, it is always wise for a person visiting and planning to date, learn more about the other person's culture.
That’s right Ronald, always good idea to check on things
In my time as a western man we would usually go to the girls home to pick her up and of course meet the parents before taking her on the date. This was basically the same as a chaperone situation though the date would disconnect from the parents in the end.
Classic 👌
It’s incredible how the world is changing. Some things for the better and some things for the worse.
I've dated women that I meant on dating sites here in the US & always tell them that if they want to bring someone with them the 1st time we meet that I'll buy them dinner too!! Whats the big deal? I always want anyone I go out with to feel comfortable.
You are just one of the kind man Dale 👌
Cheers
Great topic, my Filapina is in her 30's and says she"ll be there alone!! i"m good with that!!
If she changes her mind at the last minute and brings someone along, please understand her decision, her nervousness. This meeting is huge for her, you are a possible life changing decision for her. Most likely whoever came with her at some point will magically remember something she had forgotten to do and she has to leave you two alone. BUT - if she's not alone and drops a whole crowd on you with no warning - the ball is in your court. Me....I would walk instantly and never look back. No excuses in this day and age, you are forced to start off with deception no matter how noble it is undertaken with? NO. Where is the consideration of your feelings, your nervousness, you in a foreign country, alone knowing no one no friends with few lawful rights in a country now legendary as are many others of scams and worse targeted specifically at you? Sincere Best Wishes Always despite my little rant, There's little that can repair a sense of hope and trust we all deserve that has been blindly and callously shattered through no fault of your own.
Sounds good Martin 👌
On a new date I meet for coffee which can be quickly terminated if no common connection
Sometimes things go not as planned.
But looks like it turn out to be good in your case 👍
I flew to the Philippines from American, we first met at the airport. I met my Filipina , surprise! her sister was with her, even stayed with us in the hotel for many days! (Her sister would not leave us alone together!)
Haha 😂 , we guess you’ve been counting hours to be finally alone one on one.
Hopefully everything worked out well regardless 👍
Happy holidays 🎉
I would have left them both in the hotel room together. If they are going to disrespect you from the first moment that a big red flag
I ended up marring her, time will tell if it was the right choice.
Respect each other’s culture
Thats right
I like your confidence with each other. I do not mind 1 companion coming with her but more than that and I would not be happy. In the Philippines it is supposed to be a safe country, I understand her concerns BUT where is the trust she should have to know he will not harm her.
I have a question for you both. What would your filipina think if you surprised her while she was having a meal with her family and you sneaked up on her and whispered in her ear not to turn around and you told her you just travelled 6,000 miles to meet her. She knows you from messages you sent to her but you have never met, and told her someday you would introduce yourself to her without her knowing when or where? From what you whisper in her ear she knows without a doubt it is you. She would be totally shocked.
I look forward to your answer.
Much love from Canada.
That kind of surprise is pretty cool 😎 and could be shocking to them.
As of the whispering part, not so sure it will go down 😁
You let us know later how it went 👍
Make it ya last Man!! Run Rabbitt Run 🏃♂️
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When i was “dating” in Colombia I had the girl’s mothers tag along with 3 different girls. It was odd but I just rolled with it. Another mother kept texting her daughter every 2 minutes to see what she was doing. That was a pain so I dumped her. She was a nice girl with a smoking body but her mother was going to be a big issue
Wow what a date 😁
Spotting red flags 🚩 early 👌
I’ve done 6 roundtrip s from USA to Medellin in the past 3 years. On my first trip a USA retiree introduced me to two fit svelte vetted girlfriends half my age. They are now waiting for my January return to continue joy and happiness sharing Colombia adventures.
For me a chaperone is appropriate for a young virginal girl. An adult over 30, single moms or even a non-virgin no. The traditional purpose of a chaperone was to protect virtue.
Gotcha.. it’s interesting to get an understanding of different perspectives on this matter. Really shows how complex we are. Thanks for the input 👌😊
What if they have three kids with three different guys?
Complex? Sad you mean.
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Thank you Bryan for kind words 🙏
Thats very disrespectful just turning up, especially if you have paid for something special for her. If that happened to me that would ruin the relationship given she failed to tell me, which is a lack of trust.
It happens here sometimes Andy 😁
I understand that pappie and mammie want to know who the man is but its not nice, can feel like a intorrigation, if the girl cant come alone she is not ready fore a serious relation
Agree with that 👍
The first time she could bring one chaperone if she tells me up front. I would probably make a venue change as well. I would be social but ignore the chaperone after the introduction and then after the date, she would need to do something to show me she's interested as a date. If she mentioned a chaperone again, I would just laugh as I hung up the phone.
You know what you want 😎
Happy new year guys ❤
Happy New Year David 🤗
In 30 years of dating Filipinas , only ONCE did the family, neighbours, and random people they may have turn all rocked up for our first date.
They all headed for Jolllibe assuming the poriner ( ako ) would be buying 30 people burgers and cokes etc. Ano ka hilo. Me, turned out I received a fake emergency call that my condo unit had a water leak and had to leave . There was no second date, not with that kind of nonsense. I have occasionally agreed a friend could tag along just while we meet and if girl was not experienced with a poriner, would give the one tagging along money to go get food somewhere else in mall. If Im expected to buy food/drinks for a girl I dont know, or want to know, the dates going to be over quick. Anyways after 30 years Im not very experienced ...lol
Haha 😂 what a story.
Well you know how to handle these situations 👍
It's okay if she brings a friend or chaperone, but ask her if after about 10 minutes or so, if she feels comfortable with you, if it would be okay if her friend left the two of you alone for a while to talk. The other part of this, is of course, meeting in a very public place like a coffee shop or restaurant to help her feel safe.
I do think if a foreigner is willing to live in PH that he could want a Filipina who respected his culture. Whereas if I brought a Filipina wife to the US I would try very hard to provide her with as much Filipino culture as I could. It's about meeting somewhere in the middle. Another option would be for a foreigner and Filipina move to some other culture like Thailand, Malaysia, etc... That way you both are in the same boat.
Yup this is an idea worth exploring as well for some people 👌
it's understandable but it wouldn't hurt for the woman to give a heads up
Chaperone is normal, it's not about trusting anyone or anything else, it's about ensuring that other Philippinas do not think that any funny business could even take place. Face, honour and purity are everything in Asia. If your daughter is not seen to be untouched then her value in marriage market will be seriously damaged. This is just life, get over it.
It’s interesting how people have different opinions on the subject 👍
Happy holidays 🎉
A chaperone i have experienced this in london , two is company in the uk 🇬🇧 and three is a crowd, but from a filipi a point of view i do understand the concept , plus you gotta pay for two instead of one !
Yup, something like that David
*Chaperone?* No thank you. It just means you are too young and your parents don't trust me, or they don't trust the girl. However, I would consider two beautiful young ladies who both speak English, who are over 18 or 21 (whatever the age is in the Philippines for adult .vs. minor).
Haha 😂 looks like you like em games
@@babsirants Seems he doesn't.
@@kingston163 for clarification, I don't play chaparone games, unless the chaparone is also very sexy, not a minor, not a gossip, and would be interested in a threesome.
Some Filipinas would bring a chaperone to film the first meeting and perhaps hoping the video would go viral on social media. 😊
Haha 😂 we didn’t even think about this one.
21st century indeed
Thanks for sharing
Our pleasure 🙏
At what tips can you give me of not getting played out of my money
It’s all about holding off giving until she shows you her real character. Dont be afraid to give them hoops to jump. People will show their true nature with pressure.
I think if the chaperone sat at a table out of ear shot of a normal speaking level would work pretty well. Then she could be watched in case she needed them, without intruding in the date.
This type of chaperone was used in spanish cultures I believe at one time. Sometimes someone would watch while being kept secret from the man or both the man and the woman, so that protection would be there if needed.
My question would be, is the man supposed to pay for the chaperones meals too if it's a dinner date? Now that could make a big difference in how I would respond, depending on how many "chaperones came with her".
But if I knew she was from the provinces, I would suggest to her when asking her out on the date, that option of one chaperone and out of ear shot if she must have one. I think I would also agree to pay for a beverage or something for the chaperone. But I think if they are there to look after her safety, then eating a dinner too would be too distracting from what they are there for. So they should buy their own meal if they choose to eat. But that's just my opinion.
Some of this is mostly just thoughts and ideas, but the separate tables is something I would for sure suggest, mentioning I would be happy to meet her family another time if we were hitting it off.
None of this likely would really apply to me personally though, since I'm 57 now and I don't think I would be looking to date a girl that young if I were to eventually travel to the Philippines to find love. Lol
Hahahah great thoughts and yeah as we grow old, we have no more patience for games 🤣
75% never get to the Philippines!
Most are still practicing that...going out with CHAPERON, esplly. first date.😔😔😔
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This is so true even if she's dating a Filipino! Some would even bring their little nephews/nieces or a bff-- to make the date 'wholesome' or less sexual. I can imagine it wil be worse in case of dating foreign men, since foreigners are perceived to be more intimidating, so expect her to be more shy/awkward.
Right??… Do you think this is too immature or do you agree with this trait and find this endearing? 😅
@@babsirants For Filipino men, it may not be a big deal since in a traditional courtship, its pretty normal for a guy to visit the girl's house with the family members being there.
But for a foreign man, it must be hell! 😅
She wasn't too shy and fear for her safety to talk to the foreigner in the 1st place and accept the date, why is she all of a sudden shy when it actually comes to the date?
@@ejtaylor73 obviously its so much different when you chat online versus talking face to face. are you kidding me?
Also, we should stop thinkingthat danger may come from one side only. It can come from both ways.
@@kristinhannah001 No I'm not kidding you, put a little thought into it, this video is about a chaperone, which means face to face dating, NOT online dating. If she talked to the foreigner and accepted the date it would be in a face to face meeting, if she wasn't shy then, why is she for the actual date.
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Good luck,
Hope everything works out well for you in the Philippines 👍
Enjoy!
My first date was amazing 👌
The best ❤️
I’m proud with all Filipino they all speak English , c’mon now I live in United States imagine some of people there doesn’t speak English .. I’m proud with Filipinos because lots of them speak different languages.. go to other country not much of them speaking English you gotta start hand ✋ gestures 😂 lol
Thats right, this why many foreigners choose Philippines 👌
@@babsirants Singapore is rated #1 in Asia and #2 WORLDWIDE for English proficiency, and far more modernized, it's just not as favorable an exchange rate.
A friend of mine was seated when the girl and her friend walked into the restaurant and sat down he stood up.put 200 pesos taxi money on the table thanked the girl for attending and said to her friend how she had ruined his first date and walked out of the place
Bold move 😎
I don't know what it is but probably bringing a companion, no big deal. If it's a big deal to you then you don't understand Pinay's 🙄🙄🙄. Of course she's going to bringing someone, you have two girl's to chat too. If you have a problem with this then get a life.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Philippines is definitely your place than 😁. Enjoy ✌️
Her English is excellent and they seem like a very sweet couple, but trying to place his accent?
Thank you!
Justin is from East Europe speaking Russian and Romanian languages
Yeah ,that's the truth ,when you try and date children , what do you expect ,,
Yup, pretty much so
@@babsirants,, here is what everyone missed ,,
The difference in maturity between a westerm or European girl and a phillipine or any girl in South East Asia to be honest ,
Is at least 5 to 7 years different , eg; ,, a girl from the west at 19 is more similar to a 25,26 year old girl from the phillipines , ,,now if the phillipines girl is 19 then your chasing a young teen 14 ,16 year old maturity wise , she mite fill your fantasy in bed , but try and have a grown up Convo and see how far you get ,
Too many men come to Phili ,thinking with their little head not their big head ,
I always wonder without the bars and famous for the pay to play ,sex scene , how many foreign guys would be visiting each year ,if sex wasn't so easy to score 🤔
I'm married for more than 30 years it's different . This last 10 years it changes its almost young woman and loves ticktok sexy and so revealing clothing...I can tell it's so different most woman before are more decent and always try to not to make other pinay or Filipino shame.
A first "date" with a chaperone is not really a date. It's when you meet family, before your first date.
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We foreigners should be careful -- when dating Filipinas. My own experience with dating them -- is that many of them are interested only in sex and buffet restaurants, not necessarily in that order.
You gotta choose wisely 👌
Yes every fillo girl loves a buffet why? Because 99% of them could not afford one and it is the most food many have ever seen so they go in hard smashing it.
😮 you mean they would take advantage of us foreigners using us for sex and food? Dear god! No please don’t do that😂
I can understand having a chaperone on a first date. Women across the globe are often seen as easy prey and I want my LDR pinay to feel safe, so bring along a friend, or family member. In Ireland this used to be the way to begin a relationship.
I love surprises, but some surprises do not like me. I'm big, rough and tough and I do not play games, so people learn quickly to not disrespect me. I can destroy a miscreant with just a stare. HA!
Thank you for sharing this.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on it 👍
Where does one find a filipina that understands American values and traditions?
Any Filipinas in America maybe?
@@babsirants none where I live. I thought of that. Any sites you recommend to look?
@@Loveacrosstheseas We heard of christianfilipina.com as being something good ( but we never used it ourselves ). Good luck!
Americans have values?
No whiskey?
Was for later 😎
Cheers
Me personally, I wouldn't accept a "chaperone". She had enough confidence and felt safe enough to talk to the foreigner in the 1st place and accept the date, which means she knew she would be seeing him again. She was adult enough to talk and accept the date, why is she not adult and confident enough to go on that date alone? If she shows up with another/multiple people, we wouldn't get to know each other, which is the whole purpose of the date. With another person there she wouldn't be comfortable answering questions because that other person is listening and judging her answers, and interrupting, so she either wouldn't answer or wouldn't be HONEST. As you said she's not comfortable talking in English and with another person there that speaks her own language, she will talk to them more, and I would just be sitting there staring at the wall waiting to pay. I wouldn't get to know anything about her to see if she has what I value in a partner. The other person would be interjecting THEIR opinion and not letting her think/speak for herself. I wouldn't find out anything about her personal character and there was nothing to pique my interest in her to make me want to have a 2nd date with her to want to get to know HER more. I want a PARTNER that will give THEIR opinion, not someone that just agrees or so shy she needs someone else there to speak for her, then she's not for me. But I'm also not interested in a 20 something, I don't think there would be enough in common and she wouldn't be MATURE enough to have in depth conversations with, talking about the weather all day everyday is of no interest. As you said, you felt uncomfortable just sitting next to someone doing it, how do you think the actual foreigner felt?
It's rude and disrespectful to the foreigner to just show up to a date with another person, expecting him to pay their way also. Foreigners like to plan ahead and your chaperone was not a part of his planning if you just show up with one. You may ask for forgiveness for not saying you were bringing a chaperone, and he may give it AT THAT TIME to be polite, but don't expect much more from him, you have already shown him disrespect. Not wanting to answer the questions you know will be coming is being lazy, shows immaturity, and a lack of trust, all traits I won't accept. YES, it can be a make or break situation, many foreigners have been dealing with western women that just show up to a date with 10 of her friends, and they are not going to accept it. What is she going to do when she thinks it's OK to just shows up with a chaperone and he's not going to accept it and walks away from the date, how is she going to feel and how is she going to look to that chaperone. The purpose of the date is to see if she possess the traits I value in a partner I would commit to, that's not going to happen with a chaperone, so there's no reason to continue pursuing her.
I've also heard that some that do show up alone, hide their phone on their lap and text her friends/family everything he asks to get their opinion (Does she think it's not VERY obvious every time he asks a question she looks at her lap). That also is an immediate "No thank you". I asked her on a date because I was interested in HER and want to get to know HER. I don't care about her friends/family's opinions, I want to know HER opinions. If she can't turn her phone OFF and put it away on her own, as I would do for her, she's showing me she's not really interested in me, I am not her focus.
I couldn’t agree more. Great points here Ej 👌
Then don't talk to or date a Filipina. You have to respect the culture of whoever you date. Particularly if you met her online, bringing a chaperone is understandable since you could be a total creep.
Not every culture thinks like yours. If you start talking to a person from a different culture, make an effort to learn about their culture too. Why do you expect her to change her culture to suit yours but you don't want to change to suit hers? You have an implicit assumption that your way is better; which is wrong and will make your relationship unsuccessful. In most cultures, you marry into a family and that is why family members take interest in who you are dating. The spread of western styled individualism have resulted in the decline of this family oriented practice leading to breakdown of family systems and values
She is a beautiful woman but you ? you are just an ordinary man BUT a good one.
Amen 😁
Good nice ladies 💃
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Filapinas make good nannies.
Thats true 😁
They also make great caretakers for the elderly. Philippina nurses also hold my top spot.
They make great lovers!
"gay" friend 😁 Actually, her husband / boyfriend?
Haha 😆 that would be quite a show Max
I agree with you guys better not to bring chaperon on the first meeting its kinds awkward lol
Exactly 💯
a chaperon is okey for first date, but please not a dad or mom hehe.
You have your preferences Kenneth 😁👍
I have a shocking trait as a foreign man on a first date. I expect the woman to pay the total cost of the first date.
Don’t expected to happen in Philippines to pay the total cost of first date ,unless this new generation it’s different…
You are a revolutionary 😁
@elviecogan5294 I've already done this with every first date in Indonesia & in Thailand. As well as in the USA & Australia. Any country that gave women the equal right to vote, I require them to take equal responsibility. This needs to be proven on the first date,. I'm quite happy to pay the full cost of the second date.
I've been out with philipino's in the west & they pay. It's about time you show them who is in charge of the relationship & and you're not easily exploited.
I’m not trying to make anyone upset ..@@babsirants
I didn’t meant to offend any one @@babsirants
When she brings
her family to a date,
that sets the precedent
of what to continue
between you two.
A man becomes ONE
with his woman
NOT with her family.
No disrespect but
THAT'S ass backward
thinking.
I'd tell her upfront that
it's just me and you.
If not agreed,
BYE!!!
You just know what you want 😁👍
@@babsirants
Thank you for understanding.
I won't even talk to a Filipina a 2nd time unless she understands that,
in the biblical sense,
a man/woman will both leave their families to become ONE with each other ONLY!
Literally! That's it! NO But, If or And!
Or, she can be somebody else's woman =problem.
I will NOT be a retirement saving ATM plan for NO woman's family.
Other people's financial struggles are NOT my business nor responsibility.
ZERO.
My ONLY responsibility is my wife and our kids.
Personally,
I'd rather dig a hole in the wall, grease it and hump it the rest of my life before I put up with such manipulative toxic nonsense.
I'm, unequivocally, in the strongest form, against rewarding bad habit/poor decision.
People should NOT make a mess for others to clean up.
In my opinion,
when people have kids that they can't financially support,
it's a crime against humanity.
Happy New Year!
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You are a good looking man how do you control or brush away women who wanted to flirt with you??
I have an amazing wife who is everything I ever wanted ❤️.
Plus Im mature enough now to self control and have boundaries when needed.
Happy Holidays 🎉
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I LIKE THEIR CULTURE.
Philippines is something special 👌
If what you saying is true why there so much single mothers
Very true
Nature. They start boinking at around 13.
Filipino Paradox 😁
...or their girlfriend comes too....
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...and who pays for the multitude of guests ?
Well…if you are a Man and a Foreigner…better prepare your wallet 😁
I live in the provins, and it is very few i have meet not speak english, they have english from the first day in school, so there is you wrong, i was dating my wife around 4 year, before we was meet first time, most becurse there was a aged gap on 21 year, and i was not realy ready for that, so for 3 year she call me on skype as a friend, but after 3 year she ask me, is it not on time i get a ring on, mean she have prove this 21 years not means any for her, so after 8 years,( have be merriet for 6 years now )and some trip to philippines we was get merriet , and from first time i come to Samar Catbalogan, was there no problems with talk to her famely friends and other, it only the older generation there not speak english
We’re glad everything worked out for you Tom 👍
We just pointed out how people in the provinces can be shy more often due to different barriers.
Cheers
Why do so many guys pedestalize filipinas? Or any woman for that matter?
This is the world we live in now
2 words, lonely and desperate
So if they meet up at, does he also have to pay for her chaperone?
OH YEAH! HAHAHA IT WOULD ELEVATE YOUR STANCE! GREAT COMMENT😹🫶
If you are a Man + American…yeah, the expectation can be there 😁
Thank you. So if you are not an American, you are not just seen as a money-bag?😁@@babsirants
@@henrikandersen3728 Possibly... But you also can get some privileges as a Foreigner here. So much for attention for starters :)
Is there a dating site to mee filipina women age35 and older who are interested in 70 and older men from USA
You might want to check ” cristianfilipina “ and see if it works for you.
Good luck 👍
Don't bother with them
I wouldn't mind that her family was at the first date. 2nd one is mine!
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Ask how much money you have
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new sub here hun :)
Thank you 😊 🤗
@@babsirants yw hun :)
Exspect her to be 2 hours late
That will give you enough time to hire a Pro, to get the job done, and then book a ticket to any place... Far Far Away from H3r?
“ Filipino Time “ 😁
If she shows up late, she would be standing there alone. It shows she wasn't interested in me because she wasn't excited enough to be on time. Being late is rude and disrespectful. If it was for coffee, I would go sit down and have coffee, if she's not there when I'm done, I'm leaving, I attended the date, she didn't. Time is the greatest commodity a person has, it is finite, don't let someone else WASTE yours.
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NOT TRUE ! Her English is so MUCH better than his. She must have entertained more travelers than he knows
Thanks Mark. We can both agree on her English. Glad she is not ignorant like you tho. Cheers! 🍻
@@babsirants The truth hurts
You marry a Filipino family....not just a Filipina women. If you don't agree...then move on.
who asked you?
are you sexpat
There could always be exceptions. But yeah, quite often it’s a package deal in the Philippines.
@@nonrepublicratImportant to know.
Terrible laughing! Unbearable for 15 minutes!
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Love the laugh a beautiful happy woman.
if im paying for two im boning two no cap
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I'm not a gambling man but I would be willing to bet you that you would not be boning anyone. Not in the Philippines, unless you want a bar girl.
@@JimPippin-wc7fq then i wouldnt be paying lol
You are a stud!
Never met a conservative Filipino. 99% of Filipinos don’t even know what it means when u ask them😀
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They just want the free food
Haha 😂
I meet her in makati she bring her sister and best friend. Who pay all