GETTING OUR SON CIRCUMCISED IN A NIGERIAN HOSPITAL...It was emotional for me + LIFE WITH A NEWBORN

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  • Hey guys! Micah got circumcised and though i got very emotional and anxious, he took it quite well. Life with a newborn baby after five years has been hectic but worth it.
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Комментарии • 103

  • @JosephineInterchannel839
    @JosephineInterchannel839 Месяц назад

    Alma say "leave him alone for me." Your daughter is so smart. Here is a double support.

  • @camillelondon3273
    @camillelondon3273 3 месяца назад +24

    It's over 42 years ago , as a student nurse, that I first saw circumcisions being done on 2days old baby boys before discharge, by both Dr and Rabi . Some cried and some slept like nothing was happening. My son is 36 but I don't recall anything about his . Mia you're too much 😂😂😂. Be blessed with your 2 lovable bundles ,they are your light ❤❤

  • @nwannekaokudo2377
    @nwannekaokudo2377 2 месяца назад

    I cried in January, I was sitting down the hall away from the room they circumcised my son . He was screaming and it was piercing my soul. So sorry Micah ❤

  • @lynnettekarimi2860
    @lynnettekarimi2860 3 месяца назад +5

    I love how your mom has been there for you during this period

  • @mimiray
    @mimiray 2 месяца назад

    Four months Ago, my Son was circumcised , I was close to the room I heard him scream at the top of his voice . I started crying like a baby. The nurses had to beg me to stop crying .
    Like I still hear that cry till today😊
    I won't try it next time to stay close to the room where my baby is being circumcised .
    Jisike Alma🙌

  • @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143
    @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143 2 месяца назад +1

    This was so emotional and sweet at the same time! 💞 Love seeing you bond and love on Micah and Mia! 💙💝 That's what up Mimi, lots of poopy smells but all worth while. 🤭

  • @IamShamille
    @IamShamille 3 месяца назад +9

    Mia's love for Micah is pure and beautiful to watch 🤍

  • @enidiroanya9087
    @enidiroanya9087 3 месяца назад +3

    You sure don’t look like what you’re going through. You’re a strong woman and you have a great support system from your family members. I tell you girl you are blessed ❤

  • @ujdee
    @ujdee 3 месяца назад +4

    I remember when my younger brothers were circumcised, my mum asked me if I wanted to be in the room, I refused.
    I could feel the pain afterwards 😂🥹

  • @sandralaiana
    @sandralaiana 3 месяца назад +1

    Ohh my! In the uk they can come to your house and do it for your child in your sitting room, or you just go to a small clinic. It’s very quick, it’s hard to watch but honestly it’s ok, I’m happy I watched and held his little legs while they did it

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      But, why circumcise the baby??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.

  • @faithhealingandself-care8972
    @faithhealingandself-care8972 3 месяца назад +2

    Alma, this was the right time for his circumcision. One of my brothers wasn't circumcized as a baby and had it done as an adult and it was extremely uncomfortable as was the recovery period. You made the right move. Did you see my message asking if you had a diaper genie or similar device for disposable diapers? I would like to get you one.

    • @Fluuuv
      @Fluuuv 2 месяца назад

      What country is this? Circumcision is highly archaic. Only around 10% of newborn males are circumcised in Canada and the number declines every year.

  • @florenceakwasi434
    @florenceakwasi434 3 месяца назад +1

    My dear, the Lord is your strenght. That's how it is for being a new mother, you just have to have patient the situation will pass and you go back to leave your life.

  • @EnaAthena
    @EnaAthena 3 месяца назад

    Awwww Alma. I can feel your pain, In a few days he’ll be fine.
    Mia, mummy didn’t swallow Micah ooo 😂 these kids and questions 😂😂

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      But, why circumcise the baby??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.

  • @Chinwe_Nwosu
    @Chinwe_Nwosu 3 месяца назад +4

    I don't think i could handle the cuteness in this video🥰
    . Micah is such a cute and calm baby. God bless him!

  • @funmiboluwade1981
    @funmiboluwade1981 3 месяца назад +2

    Ordinary ear piercing for my daughter,i gave her to her grandma😁.. Thankfully they firget the pain ..i love this new phase for you..❤❤

  • @Ginika_Okafor
    @Ginika_Okafor 3 месяца назад

    Yes ooo as nursing mothers our handbags are on break till further notice😂
    That hospital policy is very nice ooo because me I can't stand it at all I always stay outside till they are done.

  • @samcox718
    @samcox718 3 месяца назад +1

    I am a Labor and Delivery nurse in the states, I hate circumcisions 😭 my I cried too when my son had his done, trust me there's no way we would be able to witness it.Thankfully they don’t remember it but i feel your pain Mama Micah ❤

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 месяца назад +2

    I couldnt get myself to enter the room they were doing the circumcision 😢😢😢the crying no be here😢😢😢😢

  • @gloriaopara8300
    @gloriaopara8300 3 месяца назад +3

    I feel you Alma, thank God Micah is a very strong boy. I think he didn't cry so much. My son cried from the hospital till we got home, I wished we could use an aeroplane to get home speedily

  • @sclera74
    @sclera74 3 месяца назад +1

    One of the best things you can do for a baby boy. Please don't feel bad. He'll thank you when he's old enough to appreciate it 💙 - sincerely, a happy circumcised boy whose mum also had him done after birth 😁

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      Why circumcise the baby??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      Circumcision is absolutely unnecessary in infants (babies, newborns) and healthy young children who cannot consent or decide. It is a terrible and cruel male gnital mutilation that must be rejected, prohibited and punished. Circumcision damages the glans for life. Circumcision has no benefits or advantages in healthy babies and children because the foreskin is the best skin because it has many important and beneficial sexual and protective functions, thousands of nerve endings, veins and blood capillaries, therefore the foreskin must be kept intact and wash the glans in each bath or shower to prevent infections such as balanitis or urinary tract.

    • @Fluuuv
      @Fluuuv 2 месяца назад

      Huh. Lots of men aren't circumcised and happy 😂

  • @HAPINESSPETER
    @HAPINESSPETER 3 месяца назад

    I rem how I held my first nephew down to be circumcised, that period was a very long sad day for everyone cos he kept crying for days, he is 15 years old now. I think the method of circumcision now is less painful compared to before. During my son's time, I was so scared of the whole process due to what I experienced with my nephew but he only cried during the circumcision and was fine after I had breastfed him. God is great and thank God for technology. It is far better now than before. I was also not allowed in and I also cried when they brought him out crying.
    Say hi to grandma ❤

  • @ATvee
    @ATvee 3 месяца назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg!!! MiaRose 🤣🤣 I almost choked when she said you swallowed him.

  • @SheunAdesina
    @SheunAdesina 3 месяца назад +1

    The Hospital I circumcised my son didn’t let
    Me in too. I cried and crewed🤣🤣🤣🤣but it’s best done at the early stage. Wishing you an energetic postpartum ❤

  • @noxolomatshaka2257
    @noxolomatshaka2257 3 месяца назад +2

    Oh my dear sis I can really feel your pain about Micah's circumcision...Sorry to the very cutest Prince ever for encountering such pain. May he heal fast in Jesus Mighty Name. Oh Mia is such an amazing hands on big sis even though she does not like the poo side of things..she is so amazingly loving her cute brother

  • @lavenderosuagwu7675
    @lavenderosuagwu7675 3 месяца назад +4

    OMG!These kids are the same,my kids bursted out with laughter as Mia fell on the bed as she perceived Micah's poop,that's our reaction here whenever someone farts😂😂😂😂

  • @shafaatuhalilu3083
    @shafaatuhalilu3083 3 месяца назад +4

    I remember when my son go circumcised I cried like a baby I understand your feelings alma don't worry he'll be fine and it good you got him circumcised now that he's still a baby my son was circumcised when he was a year 3 months I regret arguing with my doctor to get him circumcised at birth but lesson learnt I'll never try that again 😊 hi grandma weldone ma'am

  • @thatboujeechick2585
    @thatboujeechick2585 3 месяца назад

    Awww baby Micah so sorry cutie 🥹 omg Mia is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣. Thank you Grandma for being the best grandma ever ❤

  • @TinaHaneet
    @TinaHaneet 3 месяца назад

    Awwww dear Alma, As someone who has circumcised babies of different ages it is indeed better to do the circumcision now than later. And he would be given analgesics before the procedure which will reduce the level of pain.
    I'm sure Micah took it like a Champ

  • @ugochinyerenwachukwu4195
    @ugochinyerenwachukwu4195 3 месяца назад

    I have three boys and I was there all through the circumsicion process for each of them. I even made a video of my second baby because I invited the midwife to come and do it at home. I was shocked my fragile heart could take the process. So sorry momma❤️❤️❤️. But I was consoled that by the fact that the pain eases off after the first painful pee.😢😢

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      But, why circumcise the babies??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.

  • @globbs2581
    @globbs2581 3 месяца назад

    Alma your baby boy seems to know all the various sounds around him especially his sister who always kissing him.As he opens his eyes his ears wide.His daddy shirt : "Daddy loves me " is coming.His father loves holding him at any moment and he raising his head at this stage means he gonna be a fast goer.He gonna develop rapidly.

  • @sidimuslim9353
    @sidimuslim9353 2 месяца назад

    Congrats and all the best, good recovery greetings from Austria.

  • @ifyodogwuumeh9321
    @ifyodogwuumeh9321 2 месяца назад

    Me I am IDAN in the circumcision thing…. My mind have over strong 😂😂😂 in my hospital I am always present bcos hubby isn’t always around … me I will be with them in the theatre, as mama boys 😂😂

  • @lovethwendy
    @lovethwendy 3 месяца назад

    I literally cried with my baby on the day he was circumcised. 😢

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      But, why circumcise the babies??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.

  • @godsfavourite9379
    @godsfavourite9379 3 месяца назад

    Welldone Alma. I resonate totalling with you. When my son was being circumcised, I went to wait at the gate of the hospital as I could not bear to hear him cry. It was my hubby who stayed with the hospital staff. My boy is 22 years old !!!!!

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      Why circumcise the baby??? Foreskin is not a birth defect!!! Foreskin is the natural protection of the glans and a healthy natural tissue that provides protection, lubrication, pleasure and benefits for both sexual partners therefore the foreskin must be kept intact. Circumcision should always be performed as a last option and solution to any problem and always with the consent of the person themselves and never be performed for hygienic reasons because hygiene should be performed by progressively retracting the foreskin without forcing it in each bath or shower.
      Circumcision of healthy babies is a terrible and cruel form of genital mutilation with no benefits.

  • @omoyesings
    @omoyesings 3 месяца назад

    It's Mia's explanation of conception for me😂😂

  • @jumokesolomon237
    @jumokesolomon237 3 месяца назад

    The real work and pain starts after the hospital. Hmmmm, it is well with him❤❤❤

  • @quinnelmonte9435
    @quinnelmonte9435 3 месяца назад

    Poor Micah ❤ 🙏🏾 praying for a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

  • @alexandraanigbo7432
    @alexandraanigbo7432 3 месяца назад

    Mia rose is a full character😂😂😂 I almost choked while laughing🤣🤣

  • @omoyesings
    @omoyesings 3 месяца назад

    I wasn't allowed in too. I was wailing outside...like "spoil face, spoil mouth" kinda wailing. 😅

  • @pattyuba4805
    @pattyuba4805 3 месяца назад +1

    Is ok, I went through it with my 3 sons. He will be fine.

  • @ucheokoye6744
    @ucheokoye6744 3 месяца назад

    Mia dearest 😂 Micah is a superstar enjoyed watching ❤❤❤

  • @aminaagboola382
    @aminaagboola382 3 месяца назад

    Mia loves her little boy brother so cute

  • @chinwendujoseph4251
    @chinwendujoseph4251 3 месяца назад +1

    So sorry cutie, it's always an emotional ordeal 😢

  • @unekwuharuna4141
    @unekwuharuna4141 3 месяца назад

    The hospital where I circumcised my son too didn’t let me in, only my husband

  • @jessrookai9875
    @jessrookai9875 3 месяца назад +1

    Micah is a champ! Such a calm beautiful boy. 💜😍

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 3 месяца назад +3

    Awww so sorry cutie💕.

  • @unaezefortune5104
    @unaezefortune5104 3 месяца назад

    Micah looks soo much like u..

  • @HarrietLovesCooking
    @HarrietLovesCooking 3 месяца назад

    You have actually done well to take him now because the pain receptors are not much.. sending you love from Zambia ❤❤

    • @edwardma-6559
      @edwardma-6559 3 месяца назад

      Circumcision of healthy babies is a terrible and cruel form of genital mutilation with no benefits.

  • @shafaatuhalilu3083
    @shafaatuhalilu3083 3 месяца назад +3

    Notification gang first to like and comment

  • @mira.J.
    @mira.J. 3 месяца назад

    This baby is such a beauty oh God.
    Please I want your mum to react to your deliver.
    I just want to hear her version as the one who birthed Micah.
    Me I will not agree oh I must be there.
    You are glowing.

  • @toriodi4494
    @toriodi4494 3 месяца назад

    I don't carry a handbag too, Micah is your twin cute superstar ❤

  • @momoftheJohnson4
    @momoftheJohnson4 3 месяца назад

    Congrats and I love the way Mia said Micah came into the world. Kids are so darn cute. Suck up all this love bc you deserve it. Beautiful family ❤

  • @ifeomaoragwu1613
    @ifeomaoragwu1613 3 месяца назад +3

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Alma so you swallowed Micah. Never heard this before.😂😂😂

  • @ngozidibia7278
    @ngozidibia7278 3 месяца назад

    Micah is looming so good.

  • @theresaopokuma-fs3qs
    @theresaopokuma-fs3qs 3 месяца назад +1

    Your baby girl is so funny and lovely

  • @life_as_sophyy3445
    @life_as_sophyy3445 3 месяца назад +2

    He is so cute❤

  • @amybb1805
    @amybb1805 3 месяца назад

    Mia isi gini?? 🤣🤣... Kids are hilarious.
    Awww Micah... I pray he's all healed now. 🙏❤️

  • @theresaopokuma-fs3qs
    @theresaopokuma-fs3qs 3 месяца назад +1

    After seeing all this you will later be strong don't worry After 4 or 5 days the wund will heal cute Micha ❤love you all

  • @xoxokaebeauty
    @xoxokaebeauty 3 месяца назад +2

    It never did my son’s I took him in for the doctor to roll his for-skin back…no circumcising for my boy…he is 22 now…its just the applying cream during that time was hard for me

  • @deneenogbeide5087
    @deneenogbeide5087 3 месяца назад

    When my first son had the procedure my husband had tears in his eyes. I was like😮 and suddenly it was over it was like magic. God is good to bless doctors. My baby was not in pain they absolutely can’t process what’s happened. God is amazing. The procedure is like using like a can opener…super fast.

  • @ezinneokereke4660
    @ezinneokereke4660 3 месяца назад

    Pretty Alma I'm already crying 😭😭. But it's fine he did it..

  • @chimdindupeace995
    @chimdindupeace995 3 месяца назад +1

    Is for his own good, he will be fine

  • @toriodi4494
    @toriodi4494 3 месяца назад +1

    In the UK 🇬🇧 they do it at home, and use new tech to do it. Not very painful

  • @Nonsocorner
    @Nonsocorner 3 месяца назад

    See the way am just smiling. Mia is just a caring and beautiful big sis. God bless your beautiful children ❤❤❤. Happy New Month to you and family. And happy birthday in advance to your mummy. We rep June 18th ❤❤❤❤

  • @evita.enwefah
    @evita.enwefah 3 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations, Alma! I'm so happy for you. 🥰 I remember following your blog "The Style Cheapskate" and it's amazing to see how far you've come. God bless you and your lovely family.

  • @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg
    @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg 3 месяца назад

    OOO baby Sorry 🥰

  • @everythingNen
    @everythingNen 3 месяца назад

    You look happy ❤

  • @NkechiIhuoma
    @NkechiIhuoma 3 месяца назад

    I used Goya oil

  • @chisomshirley6292
    @chisomshirley6292 3 месяца назад

    Mama M❤❤❤

  • @jenniferchijioke860
    @jenniferchijioke860 3 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations Alma
    Looking gorgeous

  • @unaezefortune5104
    @unaezefortune5104 3 месяца назад

    Awwww he is strong naw😂

  • @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg
    @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg 3 месяца назад

    Happy new Month 👍♥️

  • @Dinma830
    @Dinma830 3 месяца назад +2

    Mummy so u swallowed Micha😂😂😂😂
    Kids can ask questions eeh😂😂

  • @chiomaoseji1970
    @chiomaoseji1970 3 месяца назад +1

    Cutie

  • @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg
    @Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg 3 месяца назад

    AMEN 🙏

  • @user-ix2gg9du8i
    @user-ix2gg9du8i 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @uniquefavgisttv13
    @uniquefavgisttv13 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tah_hee_rahgoldenz3499
    @tah_hee_rahgoldenz3499 3 месяца назад

    Aunty Alma so you swallowed micah ... please teach us ooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chisomshirley6292
    @chisomshirley6292 3 месяца назад

    Mia is a drama queen reacting to baby’s poo😂😂

  • @arowoloomolara8187
    @arowoloomolara8187 3 месяца назад

    OMG Mia is a drama queen 😂

  • @jenniferchijioke860
    @jenniferchijioke860 3 месяца назад +13

    You swallowed Micah and polluted him at the hospital 😂😂😂

  • @TinaHaneet
    @TinaHaneet 3 месяца назад

    Mia said you swallowed Micah and polluted him 🤣

  • @user-yx2mh3pi1o
    @user-yx2mh3pi1o 3 месяца назад

    Mummy so u swallowed micha
    Nd now u pollute him❤😂

  • @aliceevans1803
    @aliceevans1803 3 месяца назад +1

    You spat him in your own image lol

  • @aallthingsbeautiful
    @aallthingsbeautiful 3 месяца назад +1

    Awwww, whether they allow at not...I won't be able to be in there to watch my baby go through that i just can't. 🥲 congrats mama

  • @ifyodogwuumeh9321
    @ifyodogwuumeh9321 2 месяца назад

    Me I am IDAN in the circumcision thing…. My mind have over strong 😂😂😂 in my hospital I am always present bcos hubby isn’t always around … me I will be with them in the theatre, as mama boys 😂😂

  • @ujdee
    @ujdee 3 месяца назад

    I remember when my younger brothers were circumcised, my mum asked me if I wanted to be in the room, I refused.
    I could feel the pain afterwards 😂🥹

  • @toviaaustin
    @toviaaustin 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @suziehinds4064
    @suziehinds4064 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤