American, Japanese families joined by war and remembrance

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  • Опубликовано: 28 май 2016
  • An Oregon couple is providing closure to the descendants of Japanese soldiers killed in World War II by repatriating the "good luck" flags they carried into battle, which were acquired by American GIs. Lee Cowan talks to veterans and their families about a respectful and emotional return - and of a bond born of war and strengthened in peace.

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  • @Ragnarswe
    @Ragnarswe 2 года назад +102

    Their fathers went to war - one survived, one didnt.
    Their children made peace.
    So powerful and it made me cry!

  • @Testacabeza
    @Testacabeza 5 лет назад +504

    "This is not a flag, it is the spirit of a soldier."

    • @diegorodriguez4171
      @diegorodriguez4171 4 года назад +12

      @J M that's not nice

    • @hiromikoyama82
      @hiromikoyama82 4 года назад +12

      @J M you're not wrong, even as a Japanese myself, i believe those people should acknowledge their mistakes. "Japan never did anything wrong!" seems like ignorants to me.

    • @hiromikoyama82
      @hiromikoyama82 4 года назад +4

      @J M Well received and peace be with you too, friend

    • @kostasgk1664
      @kostasgk1664 4 года назад +6

      I am not american nor japanese but i just want to say that your countries are the awesome.peace with you guys

    • @markusschultz4637
      @markusschultz4637 4 года назад +13

      Hiromi Koyama 戦争において何が正しいか正しくないかはかなりナンセンスだと思うが?あなたは日本人は自分たちが間違っていたという認識をしないことを批判してるけど、ではアメリカは正しかったと??
      It's meaningless to think what right and wrong are in war. You say those people should acknowledge they did wrong things. But do you think U.S. was right and Japan was wrong? If you think so, you ARE ignorant. No country is right in war.

  • @waltanthony1988
    @waltanthony1988 5 лет назад +314

    I am not going to lie, at 6:10 I am fighting back tears. What a beautiful gesture by the children of two warriors.

    • @itsEpsilon
      @itsEpsilon 5 лет назад +5

      Tried very hard to hold it on 6:00, on 6:10 i just couldn't.

    • @Shoorit
      @Shoorit 4 года назад +2

      TheSlot1942 I never get tears in my eyes for anything but I’ll admit even I almost had a tear in my eye. Heartwarming and extremely sad at the same time.

    • @pantherowow77
      @pantherowow77 4 года назад +2

      Oh ok great. I thought you were going to lie.

    • @Enclaveinator
      @Enclaveinator 3 года назад

      same

    • @Matcholadraw
      @Matcholadraw 4 месяца назад

      Even the cameraman is holding back his tears, what an incredibly emotional moment.

  • @TodayFreedom
    @TodayFreedom 3 года назад +46

    I returned photos to the family of a German soldier killed in combat and I can assure you there’s no greater sense of satisfaction...it means the absolute world to these families- more than you can possibly imagine.

  • @dieselboy610
    @dieselboy610 6 лет назад +322

    I love this and what Obon is doing. Makes me have faith in humanity.

    • @anibalbabilonia1867
      @anibalbabilonia1867 4 года назад +4

      Well said young man!🙏✌

    • @bab1374
      @bab1374 3 года назад +1

      Truly! I always have faith in humanity.

  • @CanalDoVota
    @CanalDoVota 3 года назад +45

    "Its better to give, than to recieve." My father used to say it to me. Now i see the depth of that meaning. RIP Dad.

  • @xtopia91
    @xtopia91 3 года назад +45

    "You can't keep hating on people..." deep..

    • @HKim0072
      @HKim0072 11 дней назад

      Easier said than done. I'm ethnically Korean, but grew up in the States.
      My Korean peeps have a lot of beef with people from the past especially the Japanese. And, still a bit annoyed about things that happened 500+ years ago with the Chinese.

  • @winkk911
    @winkk911 5 лет назад +47

    It hurts a lot that the fathers had to fight in the war and see some really bad things and do some too. It is good that the sons can come together and make peace in a way that the fathers were never able to do.

  • @mountainryder8
    @mountainryder8 6 лет назад +350

    I am of Japanese ancestry, but am totally illiterate in Japanese. A coworker came to me with one of these flags and asked if I knew anyone who could translate the flag. My parents probably couldn't because they are US born, but my uncle went to college in Japan (during WWII!) and was able to translate it. Unfortunately the translation process spun out of control and the daughter of the flag's owner got involved, and there was a lot of hurt feelings when my coworker donated the flag to the Pearl Harbor Museum instead of returning the flag. I am so glad that the Obon Society exists.... the flags need to go home.

    • @redx1106
      @redx1106 6 лет назад +11

      Kathy Mayeda so is the flag still there or can you get it back

    • @jed-henrywitkowski6470
      @jed-henrywitkowski6470 5 лет назад +26

      My grandfather was a Polish officer... My nephew is of partial German heritage. Forgive, and carry on.

    • @TigerNZ
      @TigerNZ 5 лет назад +33

      I myself think that all the flags and swords taken from the war should go back. Just like here were I live. My ppl are still trying to get back what is ours. Maori heads. They were once ppl my ancestors and there displayed in museums as trophies. That's crap. Most will never understand the likes of the Japanese or the Maori and there spiritual beliefs. Send the flags home. For closure of the family's that lose loved ones. It's that simple

    • @YurkoYuriev
      @YurkoYuriev 4 года назад +2

      @@jed-henrywitkowski6470 Mine was Soviet. He was of Ukrainian and Polish descent

    • @ronlackey2689
      @ronlackey2689 3 года назад +3

      @J M But you're a loser, so your opinion is irrelevant.

  • @ayakotami3318
    @ayakotami3318 3 года назад +27

    When he got emotional meeting him at the Airport I lost it. When her sister cried I even more lost it and finally broke down. That flag is home as all those Japanese Flags should be.

    • @KobyOwen
      @KobyOwen 2 года назад +1

      I wonder if their relative was a war criminal?

  • @BlueBoyJocks
    @BlueBoyJocks 8 лет назад +182

    This is so deep touches my soul.

  • @cmartin1959-qq2mi
    @cmartin1959-qq2mi 5 лет назад +25

    That was an act of pure kindness.

  • @tommyvinson6
    @tommyvinson6 6 лет назад +109

    My dad was in the US Army infantry in WW.2 and fought in the Pacific in the Phiilppines and on Okinawa. He talked very little about the war. My dad also had some things he brought back from the war He passed away 4 weeks ago at age 92.

    • @thehighlights9421
      @thehighlights9421 6 лет назад +6

      Tommy Vinson my condolences for you sir

    • @bahagharidon1940
      @bahagharidon1940 5 лет назад +10

      WAR is the worst stupid thing that human will do.

    • @Meko5
      @Meko5 5 лет назад +2

      Couldn't agree more. Humanity has been at it since we came to exist, but in this day and age, with the technology we have at our disposal, and the future we could achieve from it, the stars the limit.

    • @Christojyn
      @Christojyn 5 лет назад +1

      well, okinawa is not in the philippines but maybe your dad had been here in the philippines because american soldier had been here, they brought delicacies

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods 5 лет назад +1

      People everywhere are sick and tired of War they've had enough

  • @orneryokinawan4529
    @orneryokinawan4529 4 года назад +20

    His son is a spitting image of him. Made me cry. 😭

  • @roverman985
    @roverman985 4 года назад +37

    6:04, cried my eyes out. I'm so thankful to the people returning these flags to the rightful homes. Very honorable people.

  • @freeholdtacticalmed
    @freeholdtacticalmed 5 лет назад +20

    Powerful...Things like this bind people together and helps to heal old wounds and pain. Going to war is a hard thing. Surviving a war and seeing friends die, get maimed, killing people is an awful thing. Returning the flag to a family whose father was killed in a war, however long ago was a difficult and respectful thing to do. I’m proud of this man and the OBON society’s work in helping old wounds heal and reuniting a family.

  • @jonstarlight
    @jonstarlight 8 лет назад +79

    This video gives me incredible hope. My life was once spared by the mother of our enemy when I was deployed overseas. She literally let me live when she had every reason to take revenge. It's something beautiful and unique when you find love where once only hate existed. I'm so glad the son of the American veteran personally gave the flag to the son of the man who had died while serving in Japan's Army. I'll never forget this story and I shared it on my wall as soon as I saw it. Thank you for sharing it with me. Thank you so much.

    • @lojzalojzovic9519
      @lojzalojzovic9519 6 лет назад +1

      they butchered people with machetes are you serious ? nanking massacre read about it

    • @keyboardwarria
      @keyboardwarria 5 лет назад +8

      lojza, you can't really generalize like that. Would it be fair to say that "the Americans" massacred My Lai during the vietnam war? No because it was only a few bunch of soldiers from U.S. Army Company C, 1st Battalion, 20th Infantry Regiment, 11th Brigade who committed the murders.

    • @TheRiyad1
      @TheRiyad1 5 лет назад +1

      Aren't they part of the official US armed forces? really easy to just wash your hands off that and say it was just a bunch of rogue soldiers.

    • @Meko5
      @Meko5 5 лет назад +5

      So by that rationality are we beholden to all atrocities committed by our soldiers regardless of us never having been there or done these things? Things that are way long gone in the past? Do we keep old wounds open forever?

    • @samuelclayton08
      @samuelclayton08 5 лет назад +1

      wow, @Jon Starlight, that sounds like an incredible story, could you please elaborate that, and I mean that in sincere curiosity of hearing another tale of human compassion under the duress of war in addition to this heart-warming video.
      Cheers and God Bless

  • @vince4140
    @vince4140 3 года назад +6

    Thank you to the OBON Society! You did a great job in healing the past! Despite that every veteran is old, you still did this. This is amazing.

  • @lothar8077
    @lothar8077 3 года назад +6

    When that woman started weeping I lost it. War cuts so deeply into people's lives, it can be felt 3/4 of a century later.

  • @julietlicaycay8219
    @julietlicaycay8219 5 лет назад +32

    I was holding up tears. Im so glad that OBON made it possible for the families to find closure. Thank you for this vid.

  • @evilord6540
    @evilord6540 4 года назад +5

    I always thought m hardcore... But this make me cry... Respect to all the fallen soldiers irrespective of their nation.. Love from arunachal pradesh

  • @slooob23
    @slooob23 6 лет назад +12

    This is one of the most wonderful things I have ever seen.

  • @tomword5619
    @tomword5619 4 года назад +1

    What an amazing thing you all are doing and did. Thank you for sharing something so very personal with us. Thank you

  • @dlanska
    @dlanska Год назад +2

    This is just so incredible beautiful. Kindness can conquer fear, hate, and pain. Such wonderful people to work on bridging those terrible things with their own kindness and empathy.This is when you realize that there is still hope for a messed-up world.

  • @WhiteFalconMike
    @WhiteFalconMike 5 лет назад +7

    As a Combat Wounded Veteran...”You Cannot Be Hating Your Enemy Forever” You Fight In The War...But You Must Find Peace Within Your Heart After.

  • @JavierRamirez-mf3tl
    @JavierRamirez-mf3tl 5 лет назад +36

    I would like clint eastwood to make a film based on real events about flags returned to the Japanese people flag obon

  • @King-2077
    @King-2077 4 года назад +4

    We cant blame his dad for not wanting to give the flag back, many of those american soldiers fought for their lives, and seen the horrors of war. But I applaud his son for doing this and giving closure to the old conflict, and bringing peace between two races who once fought and hated each other.

  • @duschgel8960
    @duschgel8960 6 лет назад +42

    Damn this is so sad. I hope both soldiers is happy now in Heaven.

  • @revendran1
    @revendran1 5 лет назад +6

    This couple are saving lives..Bless The both of you .

  • @firstimeshooter6590
    @firstimeshooter6590 4 года назад +5

    This hits hard even for us who have never had family in the war. I think it hits hard because it was a dark time in history. A war that should have never happened. And as a human the least I could do is cry.

  • @kevinmuse6743
    @kevinmuse6743 2 месяца назад

    Omg, now watching..its never too late to watch this incredible documentary. Lers have peace everyone, NO To WAR..there is no good results/ending if we have war. I hope to all the countries & leaders this may bring a big lesson👍🙏

  • @redrust3
    @redrust3 5 лет назад +3

    My mom‘s cousin died defending Saipan. all the family received were a few bone fragments. These flags embody spirit of my uncle and his fellow warriors.

  • @chiregio58
    @chiregio58 5 лет назад +1

    SO touching,,, hard to express my feelings..

  • @dirbrody
    @dirbrody 8 лет назад +22

    Very moving!

  • @69Risko
    @69Risko 5 лет назад +11

    O god... I'm crying so bad right now

  • @theresearcher7400
    @theresearcher7400 8 лет назад +27

    This is a beautiful story.

  • @tonydoe877
    @tonydoe877 2 года назад

    Love these stories ❤️

  • @bahagharidon1940
    @bahagharidon1940 5 лет назад +8

    God Bless you Terry, you have a soul of a real warrior and have a heart of love. You did the right thing.

  • @neoxenia7014
    @neoxenia7014 6 лет назад +14

    My generation can learn so much from these veterans.

  • @trunocheah188
    @trunocheah188 4 года назад +1

    is so heartwarming. my tear flow out

  • @kiwiaviator7983
    @kiwiaviator7983 4 года назад +2

    Lived and worked in Papua New Guinea and the Solomon Islands. As a child, I remember playing on old WW2 Japanese ruins. This is so surreal and emotional to watch. Obon charity is the real deal. My Grandparents would never buy a Japanese vehicle post-war, you can understand that and I suppose, because of that, I could never disrespect some of these American veterans not wanting to return what they felt was theirs to keep. But as time passes the younger generation hurting with the loss of their own fathers who never talked about the war want to find closure in some way and do their part to reunite what was an incredibly personal item the Japanese soldier had on them during there final moments.

  • @WiserDaley-bz1rw
    @WiserDaley-bz1rw 7 месяцев назад

    Terry is unbelievable kind, caring and generous. Hats off to you Mr Terry ⭐

  • @turkeygerky2781
    @turkeygerky2781 2 года назад +1

    I just hope that one day, if this happens to me, that there are beautiful and kind people who would do this for my family.

  • @rockiemountin7535
    @rockiemountin7535 5 лет назад +17

    These old soldiers could teach this younger generation a whole lot about dignity and respect

  • @royarzunh
    @royarzunh 2 года назад

    I give my best wishes to Odon society for the beautiful work that you are doing. Receive a big hug from the end of the world, Puerto Montt, Chile.

  • @luismanuel2612
    @luismanuel2612 6 лет назад +5

    Very moving ...

  • @DelinProudmoore
    @DelinProudmoore 4 года назад +1

    So many years 73 old so much time a go they kids meets each other

  • @stratowhore9051
    @stratowhore9051 2 года назад +3

    I understand his father's feelings about the Japanese. My father felt the same way. He was deployed to Okinawa.

  • @bab1374
    @bab1374 3 года назад +1

    I cried so much, can not stop crying.Tears keep on falling down.Such a healing in this time of era ..crisis in our country..hatre..Please, we must all come together as one for the love of our nation where we are known of the melting pot. It is the beauty of America.

  • @karendalsadik7119
    @karendalsadik7119 2 года назад +1

    This is a beautiful story my father in law served in WWII and told my husband who was half Mongolian what some of the American soldiers did. This soldier didn’t understand the significance of the flag. Other soldiers took human heads which in Buddhism philosoply the soul can’t rest if body parts are separated.
    Since there wasn’t a body it was a huge reconciliation to send the flag home.

  • @johnsradios484
    @johnsradios484 4 года назад +3

    Too bad that most WW2 veterans never talked about the war. It’s history that will be lost, maybe it was too painful to revisit.

  • @LucAbroad
    @LucAbroad 5 лет назад +2

    You are very good people, very well done for your hard work and passion.

  • @thysblouw2727
    @thysblouw2727 4 года назад +5

    It's time for the world to come to gather and be one big nation 🇯🇵🇺🇸

  • @tomn.9879
    @tomn.9879 5 лет назад +57

    I have a flag like this from my dad’s service in the Pacific. I need to get it translated.

    • @Shregurun93
      @Shregurun93 5 лет назад

      your first comment by me ( 2019 )

    • @Shregurun93
      @Shregurun93 5 лет назад

      my name is not 2019 I’m just saying this is the year when I posted the comment

    • @Shregurun93
      @Shregurun93 5 лет назад

      oh wow your second comment by me ( 2019 )

    • @Shregurun93
      @Shregurun93 5 лет назад

      never mind you have 4 comments now this one and the other three well done Tom N. ( 2019 )

    • @Shregurun93
      @Shregurun93 5 лет назад

      bye your number five comment well done ( 2019 ) BYE NOW (:

  • @ramamurtipaluri2420
    @ramamurtipaluri2420 4 года назад

    So touchy.

  • @CoxJoxSox
    @CoxJoxSox 5 лет назад +1

    Beautifully done piece - great job

  • @michaelkevinmirasol8256
    @michaelkevinmirasol8256 2 года назад +1

    This means a lot to many Japanese families whose ancestors in their youth went to war have never returned home, not even a single hint of their bodies or remains. The flags meant the Japanese soldier's spirit have retirned to his respective family: an honorable welcome home indeed.

  • @Wolfoo1
    @Wolfoo1 4 года назад +1

    i am in tears ...

  • @vidtuby
    @vidtuby 4 года назад

    Obon Society, you guys are the greatest!

  • @dtbrjlmd
    @dtbrjlmd 5 лет назад +5

    Keeping the flags turned out to be blessing of preservation

  • @mairiconnell6282
    @mairiconnell6282 11 месяцев назад

    The OBON Society are doing amazing work. This is so important and I wish you well in your work. Terry you did well better to give than receive.

  • @kasfranzese8645
    @kasfranzese8645 4 года назад +3

    This is what this country is about! Freedom and watching out for ALL MANKIND.

  • @bryanmallorca8566
    @bryanmallorca8566 5 лет назад

    Goodwork, Godbless you Obon foundation!

  • @jamesandrew1117
    @jamesandrew1117 4 года назад +1

    Had me in tears.

  • @KarthickHari333
    @KarthickHari333 5 лет назад +5

    i actually cried....

  • @genesis2936
    @genesis2936 Год назад +3

    To have and hold their father’s blood laced flag carried near his heart when he passed is beyond any human emotion ! 🙏 OBON society !

  • @LanulembaJamir
    @LanulembaJamir 4 года назад +1

    It's so nice 😍..... good work

  • @tombystander
    @tombystander Год назад

    These are the kinds of videos we need to show kids in school

  • @purberri
    @purberri 5 лет назад +3

    Heartwarming

  • @jbliborio
    @jbliborio 5 лет назад +1

    Very emotional... God bless Obon and all that now are in peace...

  • @jrryap
    @jrryap 4 года назад +3

    Im crying 😭😭😭😭

  • @aammjaisriram
    @aammjaisriram 4 года назад

    Very emotional.

  • @LootandScoot
    @LootandScoot 4 года назад

    My grandfather was also a staff sergeant over in the Pacific in WW2 he never once talked about the war or even said a single bad thing about the Japanese all I have left of him are his dogs and the occasional story his 91 year old brother tells me during visits and holidays

  • @rmarkconger
    @rmarkconger 4 года назад +1

    My father was a decorated Hero of the Battle of Okinawa. He was wounded earning a Purple Heart and a bronze star. He was in the 381st regiment of the 96th Army Infantry. His platoon captured an enemy flag which he brought home and before he died he instructed us to never return the flag. The flag is covered with salutations the translate in various ways to mean killing the men that attacked. Dad told us it should be kept to teach future children that unchecked maniacs the attack the US will meet us on the field and we will prevail. Freedom is never free. That flag is in the possession of my oldest son to be passed on when he dies with the same message.

  • @thetruth9775
    @thetruth9775 4 года назад

    beautiful!

  • @525Lines
    @525Lines 6 лет назад +1

    It's a very common souvenir. I'm sure they'll get many more.

  • @JavierRamirez-mf3tl
    @JavierRamirez-mf3tl 5 лет назад

    Please make a movie about this.

  • @Oodychannel
    @Oodychannel 5 лет назад

    Thoses stories are giving me manly tears..

  • @VEGANSAM
    @VEGANSAM 8 лет назад +5

    wow!

  • @Allaiya.
    @Allaiya. 3 года назад

    What a great thing they are doing. Finally giving some closure to families.

  • @Ellenslife851
    @Ellenslife851 5 лет назад +5

    He hopes his father would have approved After all it did sound like his father had built up some hate after World War II. Because before his father died he asked me if he could get those flags back to the families and his father said no. But I can kind of understand how his father could feel that way because you’re fighting what you are told is the enemy you see things that you never want to see so it messes with your head a little building a bit of hate. But I also believe it is good to get that hate away and realize what is right.
    But then again maybe his father would approve

  • @S0ulinth3machin3
    @S0ulinth3machin3 6 месяцев назад

    This story illustrates why it's so important to treat the vanquished with respect. After WW1, the Treaty of Versaille basically blamed Germany for the war even though Germany was no more at fault than any of the other protagonists. The result was an aggreived nation and the world ended up with WW2. After WW2, George Marshall was determined to not make the same mistake. The Marshall Plan helped rebuild Germany and Japan and we ended up with friends and allies instead of enemies. Many generals understand how to win a war, but Marshall understood how to win the peace. For this reason, I consider him to be one of America's greatest and impactful generals. He changed the world for the better. The results of his actions are stories like this one, where people are able to let go, and with deep respect for one another.

  • @danlam7788
    @danlam7788 2 года назад

    Even they are the enemy of us, but something we learn is the love for their country is so powerful.

  • @scott6504
    @scott6504 4 года назад

    That's very beautiful.

  • @trainscronce6269
    @trainscronce6269 5 лет назад +1

    I wish they taught their students more about the war

  • @raven1462
    @raven1462 5 лет назад +3

    Japan has a beautiful history. Im glad where allies.

    • @souljaboyeminem
      @souljaboyeminem 4 года назад +1

      @J M There are rotten apples everywhere.

  • @KirkKiyosadaTome
    @KirkKiyosadaTome 5 лет назад

    Thank you, Mr. Stockdale. Both of you.

  • @TigerNZ
    @TigerNZ 5 лет назад +3

    Beautiful ppl right there. I understand what the flag means to the Japanese. It like a taiaha to a Maori. It's your ancestor. Just beautiful

  • @allgoo1964
    @allgoo1964 5 лет назад

    I grew up in a family happened to have a soldier(father side of uncle, elder brother of my father) who died in foreign country.
    Nobody ever talked about him, I've never seen a picture of him, probably they got rid of them.

  • @williamhill7312
    @williamhill7312 5 лет назад +1

    Really Beautiful

  • @cob4467
    @cob4467 Год назад

    Beautiful.

  • @malasagagaming9614
    @malasagagaming9614 Год назад

    Bro, I'm crying.

  • @jobengals86
    @jobengals86 6 лет назад +10

    Absolutely amazing video about our humanity; we need to recognize/nationalize more messages like these. Anyone know if that couple has a Kickstarter or a Patreon account?

    • @lojzalojzovic9519
      @lojzalojzovic9519 6 лет назад

      japanese during ww2 butchered chinese civilians with machetes they were with nazis ... wtf is wrong with you people

    • @e.i.3077
      @e.i.3077 6 лет назад +5

      Lojza Lojzovic Americans also killed Japanese soldiers, mutilated them and wore their pody parts on their uniforms as trophies. I would really want to know what was wrong with THEM.

    • @lojzalojzovic9519
      @lojzalojzovic9519 6 лет назад

      but soldiers they if you are soldier you know you are going risk your life ... japanese butchered civilians ..nanking massacre read something about that

    • @Metalman200xdamnit
      @Metalman200xdamnit 5 лет назад

      Look up the obon society on the web.

  • @relaxedout8657
    @relaxedout8657 4 года назад +1

    My heart

  • @silverlve70
    @silverlve70 8 лет назад +4

    So powerful

  • @Epicon8
    @Epicon8 5 лет назад

    What a beautiful video!

  • @algerianprophet9654
    @algerianprophet9654 2 года назад

    "...For Hatred dies, stifled by its stupidity baseness. But greatness is eternal." - LÉON DEGRELLE

  • @anibalbabilonia1867
    @anibalbabilonia1867 4 года назад +1

    That is so great what he did to return the flag to that family! God bless both of their family's🙏✌😪

  • @2wahineandadog
    @2wahineandadog 7 месяцев назад

    RIP to both soldies - well done to all the children!!!

  • @itscoffeeoclocksomewhere3075
    @itscoffeeoclocksomewhere3075 4 года назад +1

    Proof, that war is a game where everyone loses.