found that helping and fixing is my trap. i understood that helping them means life is weak. fixing them tells lifes brocken. now no contact but still sending them healing intensyons everyday. now i know its not my responsibility to heal them when theyre not yet ready. i am surely going to enjoy what ever unfolds no expectations! thank you
Ok! Playing out in real life at this moment. Grab your coffee or tea... My daughter is a Scorpio sun and rising. Needless to say the force is strong with this one. She's 14 and just went through her first little mini drama with the boy that she was "hanging out with." They started a different high schools and decided to remain friends. however, he has a bit of an anxious attachment and almost immediately rebounded to another girl who was giving him attention. Needless to say my daughter was very upset but she handled it like a champ. I am a Scorpio rising, and I myself was simultaneously separating from an unhealthy dynamic that very same week. It is extremely surreal to listen to this and acknowledge how it applies to my life as well as hers. Even more so when we hit 2:39 and you mentioned helping someone who might find themselves in a similar situation. She LITERALLY just finished updating me on the fact that he came back around Just like I told her you would. He ended communication with the other girl an apologized for the upset. Surprisingly mature giving their age. Now he wants to take her to homecoming to which I told her to hold off on making a decision.. I know this comment is a little much but the real time synchronicity to not only what is being said but as it's happening is on another level right now. lol 👏🏽🔮👏🏽🧿
this girl is 28 and im 54 and i have never felt so strongly for anyone, simply hanging on but im standing firm also she is soooooo disrespectful and non transparent , lied to me and i dumped her, 3x still cant let go
Oh wow I think that age has nothing to do with it it’s about the person’s character when you live you’ll learn that. Somebody can be 23 and mature or 65 and childish. Hopefully you’ll figure out your situation. Plenty of people who have age gaps are perfectly happy the same way couples are the same age and miserable. Your person in question is almost 30 so if they’re playing games they’re just not that into you. Sounds like they have other options elsewhere to be leaving you hanging like that.
Yep 4 months and standing firm. If i can't have the commitment that i want, you can't have me at all. That simple.
Yep 5 months NC, standing my ground... yup cant seem to let go, as much as I want to. Thanks, I love your readings.
Spot on thank you . 🙏
found that helping and fixing is my trap. i understood that helping them means life is weak. fixing them tells lifes brocken. now no contact but still sending them healing intensyons everyday. now i know its not my responsibility to heal them when theyre not yet ready. i am surely going to enjoy what ever unfolds no expectations! thank you
Ok! Playing out in real life at this moment. Grab your coffee or tea... My daughter is a Scorpio sun and rising. Needless to say the force is strong with this one. She's 14 and just went through her first little mini drama with the boy that she was "hanging out with." They started a different high schools and decided to remain friends. however, he has a bit of an anxious attachment and almost immediately rebounded to another girl who was giving him attention. Needless to say my daughter was very upset but she handled it like a champ. I am a Scorpio rising, and I myself was simultaneously separating from an unhealthy dynamic that very same week. It is extremely surreal to listen to this and acknowledge how it applies to my life as well as hers. Even more so when we hit 2:39 and you mentioned helping someone who might find themselves in a similar situation. She LITERALLY just finished updating me on the fact that he came back around Just like I told her you would. He ended communication with the other girl an apologized for the upset. Surprisingly mature giving their age. Now he wants to take her to homecoming to which I told her to hold off on making a decision.. I know this comment is a little much but the real time synchronicity to not only what is being said but as it's happening is on another level right now. lol 👏🏽🔮👏🏽🧿
wooooow your so dead on.....cant believe the accuracy
It really resonates with me!
Thank you ❤
this girl is 28 and im 54 and i have never felt so strongly for anyone, simply hanging on but im standing firm also she is soooooo disrespectful and non transparent , lied to me and i dumped her, 3x still cant let go
If you don’t mind me commenting, it doesn’t sound healthy. Have you Googled ‘Limerence’?
26 years is a huge age gap. Have you imagined your life together say in 10 years time? 🤷🏼♀️
Oh wow I think that age has nothing to do with it it’s about the person’s character when you live you’ll learn that. Somebody can be 23 and mature or 65 and childish. Hopefully you’ll figure out your situation. Plenty of people who have age gaps are perfectly happy the same way couples are the same age and miserable. Your person in question is almost 30 so if they’re playing games they’re just not that into you. Sounds like they have other options elsewhere to be leaving you hanging like that.
@@TheDiamondEdge1 Not even 10, 5 that age gap is too much
I'm 28, my parents are that age lmao.
I’m stepping back- very little of this reading resonates for me except the fact of no contact following ghosting 4-5 years ago- my memory is skewed.
3:03
Yes tired
❤♏❤ tysm@ Dear one
He most definitely doesn’t deserve my love or anything ever again