Pile 2 OMG Jess I finally met this person and they were like gift wrapped by spirit and served to me on a silver platter. He is amazing. He's everything I never knew I always wanted. Thank you so much Spirit! This is truly an answered prayer. 🥲
pile 1/3: Had pile 1 karma play out in this lifetime. It was only a mere fleeting moment but this person made a choice to stick with his friends and ego instead of stick up for me..saw him on a random street corner in the middle of the night and I was in shock bc I didn't know he was in town....he pretended to forget my name and just kept on walking and laughed with his friends.....he had fear in his eyes...he made a choice. I'm pretty sure in previous lifetimes it was a situation much more dire, and even life or death. It wounded me very deep for years.
I am in the same situation as you...he chose his friends over me and acted like he did not care at all..how did you move on from this situation and keep a positive outlook...assuming that you have done it because I want to. Thanks.
@@prakhya123 A lot of info below...I hope it helps. At first I blamed myself and like I wasn't cool or good enough. It helps to pinpoint the source of where you seek validation...I attracted these types of men because I felt not good enough for my father and like I had to chase his validation. Now we mirror those we attract, so its very likely he had this relationship with his mother, and seeks women who are unavailable instead of women who are seeking his validation....like a bad cycle for you and him.... It hurt because I questioned why he would be ashamed of me. Then I thought perhaps he actually put me on a high pedestal, and felt undeserving of me, and was just afraid of being rejected in front of his friends. But whatever "it" was, what helped heal me was accepting that whether he thought I was lame or whether he thought I was too good, it didn't really matter unless I claimed it, and made it my identity. Even if he thought I was ugly or uncool or whatever, it is only a projection of his own judgements about himself and the world, or just a sign that the attraction was not there. Sometimes we just aren't somebody's type and it is important to accept that and not take it personally, but if you felt a deep connection, the attraction probably was there... I realized that what he thought was "cool" was not objectively cool. Lets say a man rejects you because his version of cool is shallow, and has to do with how popular you are, or how nice your clothes are, etc., while your version of cool may include this, but ultimately, is based on a persons personality, their strength of character, their courage......then wouldn't this man who is shallow and concerned more about their image and afraid of standing up for love/truth be uncool to you??? Flipping it that way really helped me. I realized it was pathetic and cowardly for a person to place superficial and egotistical concerns over standing up for a connection they feel deep down. That isn't a type of guy I'd want. I shouldn't be made to feel ashamed and embarrassed of myself when I was the brave one, though that is exactly how I felt initially.....I realized he was the one behaving shamefully....we shouldn't hate people like this, but rather feel sorry for them, and detach our value from their opinion because it is likely much younger, near-sighted, and immature than yours It took a couple years of processing, but it made me more confident in myself, what I believe in, and what I want in a partner. Somebody who is brave, and you deserve that too.....wish you the best love
Thank you a lot for this valuable info...really needed this to fully process my emotions right now...I hope I am able to move on from him fully and detach from this situation. Thank you once again, I cannot agree with you more...this is so true in connection to what I experienced.
Wow so Pile 2, we met and the 1st night I told him he looked like an Angel. He also cannot use 1 hand due to an injury. 1st person besides my children that actually like the smell of. We only met 7 weeks ago but I feel like its been 7 years.
Pile 1: Just left a relationship…. This partner numbed their feelings with alcohol… His ex wife made up HUGE lies about me…and prevented us from being close…. But he will always deny the depth of the damage..his ex and drinking caused… He unfortunately never fully stood up for me… This reading was very insightful..
2-I began crying when you said he would take up for me when my family treats me badly. No one ever has done that for me.. My Gemini.. We are coming together to love and heal each other...
Thank you, spirit guides and including me, and Jess. I felt pile 3 and general message hits on point. I'm so tired of his narcissism that he says he struggles with and are healing. You tell it as it is. Thank you. I tried to tell him all this. He just projects all back to me as to why he cheats, blamed it on me, tells me I play the victim while he told non of my side of the story to his flying monkeys is on me. He seems very reasonable and intellectual and academic, but he projects like I am the toxic one. He even says he could choose the woman he cheats with because she was not toxic (read easily manipulated) and not a drama queen. I caught him with her head between his.. and she didn't know a shit about me. I hit him and he says I was toxic. It was hard. I was angry and that was being used against me. He says that this woman was so in love with him to my friend. I have been loyal, friendly and a bright light before I met him, during and more. I will just tell him to go back to her instead. 😂 I am done. 😅 Also I am pregnant with him. Ohh, he also pretend I am the immature one, when he doesn't know how to stay in a healthy communication. I fear this will be projected onto our kids. Only tells one side of the story. My friends tells me to run the opposite direction. He never tells the full story. Just his side of the story to make people and his community pity him. I like to stay private. No, this is unfair treatment. I stay away until he sees his own BS and stop using all narc tactics on me and blame me. My friends thinks he's very two sided. He's Taurus and Gemini placements. I tried to call out on his BS and stop him from manipulating me and blame things on me. But he doesn't see it yet. I'm aquarius.
Wowww Jess I'm moving this summer for a fresh start and more peace! Thank you so much for the beautiful and in depth reading. You've been my favorite reader for yearsss!!!💕
This last pile reasonates with my ex he dressed a certain way when we were together because I was spiritual and hippy like then he met a tramp who was dark and so he started getting dark tattoos and his dress sense changed.he reasonates with the female in the pile 3
Pile 1; this happened 2,5 years ago. Idk, who was meant to be my first future spouse but, I guess he missed the boat HAHAAHAH. I just don’t really understand why this is a future spouse read… because he’s clearly not HABAAH
@jesspucketttarot I have been following you both here and on Patreon for years now. As a neurodivergent person myself, I wholeheartedly believe that you are neurodivergent! Think of it as peer-review? ❤ Love you lots ❤
Pile 2 OMG Jess I finally met this person and they were like gift wrapped by spirit and served to me on a silver platter. He is amazing. He's everything I never knew I always wanted. Thank you so much Spirit! This is truly an answered prayer. 🥲
i am pile 3, it's an honor to be read by you. thank you jess 🤍
pile 1/3: Had pile 1 karma play out in this lifetime. It was only a mere fleeting moment but this person made a choice to stick with his friends and ego instead of stick up for me..saw him on a random street corner in the middle of the night and I was in shock bc I didn't know he was in town....he pretended to forget my name and just kept on walking and laughed with his friends.....he had fear in his eyes...he made a choice. I'm pretty sure in previous lifetimes it was a situation much more dire, and even life or death. It wounded me very deep for years.
I am in the same situation as you...he chose his friends over me and acted like he did not care at all..how did you move on from this situation and keep a positive outlook...assuming that you have done it because I want to. Thanks.
@@prakhya123 A lot of info below...I hope it helps.
At first I blamed myself and like I wasn't cool or good enough.
It helps to pinpoint the source of where you seek validation...I attracted these types of men because I felt not good enough for my father and like I had to chase his validation.
Now we mirror those we attract, so its very likely he had this relationship with his mother, and seeks women who are unavailable instead of women who are seeking his validation....like a bad cycle for you and him....
It hurt because I questioned why he would be ashamed of me.
Then I thought perhaps he actually put me on a high pedestal, and felt undeserving of me, and was just afraid of being rejected in front of his friends.
But whatever "it" was, what helped heal me was accepting that whether he thought I was lame or whether he thought I was too good, it didn't really matter unless I claimed it, and made it my identity.
Even if he thought I was ugly or uncool or whatever, it is only a projection of his own judgements about himself and the world, or just a sign that the attraction was not there.
Sometimes we just aren't somebody's type and it is important to accept that and not take it personally, but if you felt a deep connection, the attraction probably was there...
I realized that what he thought was "cool" was not objectively cool. Lets say a man rejects you because his version of cool is shallow, and has to do with how popular you are, or how nice your clothes are, etc., while your version of cool may include this, but ultimately, is based on a persons personality, their strength of character, their courage......then wouldn't this man who is shallow and concerned more about their image and afraid of standing up for love/truth be uncool to you???
Flipping it that way really helped me. I realized it was pathetic and cowardly for a person to place superficial and egotistical concerns over standing up for a connection they feel deep down. That isn't a type of guy I'd want. I shouldn't be made to feel ashamed and embarrassed of myself when I was the brave one, though that is exactly how I felt initially.....I realized he was the one behaving shamefully....we shouldn't hate people like this, but rather feel sorry for them, and detach our value from their opinion because it is likely much younger, near-sighted, and immature than yours
It took a couple years of processing, but it made me more confident in myself, what I believe in, and what I want in a partner. Somebody who is brave, and you deserve that too.....wish you the best love
Thank you a lot for this valuable info...really needed this to fully process my emotions right now...I hope I am able to move on from him fully and detach from this situation. Thank you once again, I cannot agree with you more...this is so true in connection to what I experienced.
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@@bankrolldame thank you for sharing your story, it really helps
Pile 3: what a great unique story, and the religion discussion and the recipe convo were very synchronistic too, thank you so much 😊
Wow so Pile 2, we met and the 1st night I told him he looked like an Angel. He also cannot use 1 hand due to an injury. 1st person besides my children that actually like the smell of. We only met 7 weeks ago but I feel like its been 7 years.
Yey! Pile 2 was so happeee! 😃 Jess you should sing adverts for extra cash! Advert Jingles?!
Blessings to you and thank you 🙏🌷
pile 2 - i feel i am such an alien on this planet but he sounds exactly like me haha... the reading was so specific too 😅👏
Maybe you are my person 😂❤😅
Maybe you are my person 😂❤😅
Pile 1:
Just left a relationship….
This partner numbed their feelings with alcohol…
His ex wife made up HUGE lies about me…and prevented us from being close….
But he will always deny the depth of the damage..his ex and drinking caused…
He unfortunately never fully stood up for me…
This reading was very insightful..
Pile 2 -01:03:00
Aww Pile 2 was sweet ☺️✨✨✨🫶🏼
2-I began crying when you said he would take up for me when my family treats me badly. No one ever has done that for me.. My Gemini.. We are coming together to love and heal each other...
2 the prayer ❤ I'm waiting for him my whole life💙💙💙 Wind God resonates😊
Pile 3: 1:24:53 Thank You for the reading 🩷
Thank you, spirit guides and including me, and Jess. I felt pile 3 and general message hits on point. I'm so tired of his narcissism that he says he struggles with and are healing. You tell it as it is. Thank you. I tried to tell him all this. He just projects all back to me as to why he cheats, blamed it on me, tells me I play the victim while he told non of my side of the story to his flying monkeys is on me. He seems very reasonable and intellectual and academic, but he projects like I am the toxic one. He even says he could choose the woman he cheats with because she was not toxic (read easily manipulated) and not a drama queen. I caught him with her head between his.. and she didn't know a shit about me. I hit him and he says I was toxic. It was hard. I was angry and that was being used against me. He says that this woman was so in love with him to my friend. I have been loyal, friendly and a bright light before I met him, during and more. I will just tell him to go back to her instead. 😂 I am done. 😅 Also I am pregnant with him. Ohh, he also pretend I am the immature one, when he doesn't know how to stay in a healthy communication. I fear this will be projected onto our kids. Only tells one side of the story. My friends tells me to run the opposite direction. He never tells the full story. Just his side of the story to make people and his community pity him. I like to stay private. No, this is unfair treatment. I stay away until he sees his own BS and stop using all narc tactics on me and blame me. My friends thinks he's very two sided. He's Taurus and Gemini placements. I tried to call out on his BS and stop him from manipulating me and blame things on me. But he doesn't see it yet. I'm aquarius.
Pile 3 - Thank you very much! ❤
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Pile 1 I dont recognize this situation in my life 😅. I dont really have a group of backstabbers in my life
This is such a trip! Extremely accurate
Pile #2 whooooaaaaaa this is so wild
Wowww Jess I'm moving this summer for a fresh start and more peace! Thank you so much for the beautiful and in depth reading. You've been my favorite reader for yearsss!!!💕
Thank you Jess xxx #1 waiting for my next one
This last pile reasonates with my ex he dressed a certain way when we were together because I was spiritual and hippy like then he met a tramp who was dark and so he started getting dark tattoos and his dress sense changed.he reasonates with the female in the pile 3
Your general is so spot on. Thank you.
You are so welcome 🩷
Pile 1 CW and pile 2 HVP. Thank you 💜
Pile 2 ❤❤❤❤ thank heaven !!!
And yes my nervous system was out of wack I had high cortisal around him we were destined and fated but he closed that door.
Pile 1: beautiful depiction
Pile 2 thank you 🙏🏼
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Pile 2 and 3, thank you!
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Pile 2! Diamond mind :)
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Pile 2 I claim this ❤
Pile 1; this happened 2,5 years ago. Idk, who was meant to be my first future spouse but, I guess he missed the boat HAHAAHAH. I just don’t really understand why this is a future spouse read… because he’s clearly not HABAAH
Pile 3🫶🏾
Group hug! 🎉❤ I felt like I have a coven.
Pile 3 He's strict Mormon. And well..I'm me. That says enough.
Omg it really ressonated
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You rock! ❤❤❤❤
Pile 1: I ran into a past life soulmate at work and it wasn’t a pretty environment.
thank you😊
Is it possible to have a consultation with you.
My name means the Noble Maiden pile 1 ❤
Pile 1 he didn't do 😢
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@jesspucketttarot I have been following you both here and on Patreon for years now. As a neurodivergent person myself, I wholeheartedly believe that you are neurodivergent! Think of it as peer-review? ❤ Love you lots ❤
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I just get sad that you have to deal with all these energies. Thank you for showing up.
Pile 2, thank you, so beautiful❤
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