Amen! And that goes for women in general. But the much malined black woman once was praised for the stereotypical curvy figure. But now, feel even that's been hijacked. So they feed on the insecurities. Let's not allow it on our watch!
The thing that Nicki and cardi b, and female celebrities of the like, don’t inform you on is they have money to go back to the surgeons to undo whatever has gone wrong.
Cardi’s needed her breast done a few times and they still look hella fake. I got my boobs done in NYC. They look great. I have to convince ppl that they are fake. I say this to say, do your research. Do not travel abroad looking for a discount. It is too risky.
@ Flying Snake, one thing is for sure, bargain hunting might come In handy in many areas of life but surgery and your health are not one of those areas.
I've been mocked since childhood for being slim basically no butt and bust and that's majority of Africa's standard of beauty, but I'm bent on working with what I have. No need for cosmetic reconstruction. I'm okay like this.
Societal beauty standards are BS and can't be matched. Look at the surgeries people get. Then there's the teeth stuff as well. We'll be chopping limbs off soon for bionic ones. I'll always say "what will it be like when you start to age" some of these celebs don't even look human. Plus you risk getting addicted as well look at those that spend thousands to look like certain people or characters
It is sad that the female body image is often based on trends. When you look back at music videos from the early 2000's for example the body types are very different to what you see now. I also hate the fact that plastic surgery is often portrayed as female empowerment.
They do it's called "Business Marketing" every successful business you see in any industry successfully profited from marketing every business owner invest in advertisement
@@rickr0113d me getting a breast reduction wouldn’t be about looks, it’d be about not having the back pain that comes with having breasts that’s just too big, which is why a lot of women get breast reduction.
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Can we start being able to sue influencers on social media! Coz they get paid to lie to people who trust them.... it’s your work as an influencer to do your research and make sure you are selling something legit Apaku! Everywhere
Trust me this girl blatantly lied that she was not being sponsored, that she didn't get a reduction. She didn't not answer the question but lieeeeeeed, the areola girl should legit sue her. She's now in drama for trying to molest another girl if only BBC knew
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Listen ladies, when the breasts sag as a result of breastfeeding or any reason, this should make us proud as mothers just buy the right support of course not one that will permanently damage our bodies. Please we don't need to have a certain type of body, the one each one of us has is perfect.
Dear black people It is about time we all stopped putting our lives in the hands of other people. they don't care about us .we don't even care about each other ... I really feel for us as a people
That’s because of makeups, filters and editing. And this is so sad those are the pictures people see on ig and thinks ooo she beautiful, spotless. Don’t be fooled
I see this all the time on social media. Black women can dramatically alter their features with clever makeup tricks that make them look more European. Add a wig and false lashes and hey presto, black barbie. However without all the fakery they look plain and average. The warped mentality is harming young black girls because they don't understand the illusions at play. There's nothing wrong with makeup but it should be used to enhance not to fool. Btw I know none black women use the same makeup tricks too but we don't have follow everything they do!
Im not trying to throw any shade but i swear the transformation of makeup to no makeup be so mind blowing 😭 she looks like two completely different people or am I tweaking?
To anyone reading this, I just want to remind you that; “you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God.” (Psalm 139:14). Therefore, the value of your life is not contingent upon how big your breasts are or how big your bum is or any material possessions you have. My prayers go out to the 2 ladies in this video, gosh you could almost taste the pain in Monica’s voice 💔. May God heal both women from the pain, hurt and trauma they have experienced from these cosmetic surgeries in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏾
There are so many days where I hate my body and yet I would NEVER take a risk such as this. People really gotta learn to love their bodies the way they are.
If your willing to spend top dollar on genuine expensive brand fashion, why not show the same respect to your own body and go to the top clinics instead of these cheap overseas scam clinics?
Unfortunately with bbl doesn't matter which top clinic you go to there's a reason bbl has the highest fatality rate of all procedures. In the UK where these girls are from bbl is actually banned because of the high fatality rate. Its a risky procedure doesn't matter how much you pay or which top clinic, there's a high possibility it may not work. Unfortunately just because people see a lot of girls with it on instagram they think its easy but not a lot of these insta baddies are honest to talk about complications. Its a lottery with your life and Unfortunately a lot people go for it.
You have no idea about the things you say. There are 1000 successful surgeries and few goes sideways. You are informed about it beforehand too. Also you are probably talkin this way just because clinic is in turkey.
@@onurs.4581 bbl is banned in uk because of its high death and complications rate. If something is banned in the uk, I wonder why any sane person will travel to turkey to do it.
@@swiitdoll still doesn't give the right to shit talk about Turkey. They knew the risks. I personally know the doctor. He did a surgery on me too. These people on İnternet are so racist and biased it's actually disgusting.
Unfortunately, cultivating self esteem, confidence and character isn't a strong focus in the schooling system or within family dynamics, so impressionable minds will find it elsewhere. No different to gangs. Popular culture can be destructive too.
This is heartbreaking, they are so young to have been changing their bodies already! The influencer who has now apologised to her viewers, doesn't look like her natural, authentic self.. avoid too many filters, exercise and eat right, that's the best way x I pray they heal from these experiences, mentally and physically.
My Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (RHEMA ORPHANAGE HOME) in Nigeria, Port Harcourt, before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call or contact the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp)+2349035045681)Or (rhemaorphanageh@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
You'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror one day and be thankful you never got any work done. Just look at some of the celebs that had it done properly when they age.
Aint it weird that these women would never buy a fake fashion brand, but have no problem risking there health with a knock off doctor. It's your body. You have it for life. Invest in it properly.
Don’t change your skin tone (bleach or tan) just for fake beauty standards don’t do plastic surgery to fit fake beauty standards We are beautiful in our diversity all women are beautiful and that’s it Your natural blonde hair is gorgeous Your natural black her is gorgeous Your natural curly hair is gorgeous Your natural straight hair is gorgeous Your thin lips are adorable Your full lips are adorable Your pale skin is beautiful Your dark skin is beautiful You are gorgeous,beautiful and amazing
As a curvy woman I always wanted to be skinny. Then after the whole blow up of Instagram I felt like I wasn’t curvy enough. I deleted all my social media. (Because I was comparing myself to others and other reasons for my mental health) And now I just don’t give af. I eat healthy, I lift weights. As long as I am in good health that is all I care about.
Same! I deleted social media for the sake of my mental health. When I came back it was worse because now people were really getting paid for promoting their bodies and certain lifestyles. It used to be clout was currency now its both. Now I focus on myself daily and my future, I got so much of my time back
you guys need to understand that people actually get BULLIED for how they look causing them being so insecure about how they look that they want to change it. pls be more understanding
Exactly! I’m seeing so many “love yourself” comments when the so-called ideal look that these influencers post and perpetuate is in our faces every damn day. Let’s not forget the beauty standards men and pop culture want certain women to have. People get shamed for looking natural esp when it doesn’t fall under “conventional” beauty stands and shapes promoted by society.
There have also been allegations of sexual assault from individuals associated with clinic hub. There should be actual disclaimers that people have edited or had surgery in thier Instagram posts
I learned from nurses that doctors will send patients to icu or post operative recovery room after surgery and whatever happens there or after is called “ post-operative complications” therefore doctors are always clean from “complications” or “deaths” on their record because it technically didn’t happen while they were operating. Doctors will also send dead patients to ICU on breathing machines or medicine that keeps them “ alive” just enough to get to the ICU where they then will say they died due to post operative complications. This was shared in a forum where a lot of nurses shared their story behind the curtains.
Pure vanity. She didn't care about anyone but HER 'brand'. Sorry doesn't reverse things. People like her need to think more carefully and do something worthy that actually benefits humans instead of only thinking of appearance, cash and popularity.
More Than a Body: Seeing as God Sees By Lexie Kite, Ph.D. and Lindsay Kite, Ph.D. A negative body image may be holding you back, but you have the power to change the lens you see yourself through. "After years of struggling, things changed. We even started swimming again. But it wasn’t dieting or makeovers that did the trick-it was learning how our skewed views of our bodies had held us back in every way. Our research has showed us that developing positive body image-or feeling good about your body from the inside, not just how it looks-is a key to health, happiness, and seeing ourselves as God sees us. Our culture tends to objectify both women’s and men’s bodies. It teaches us to see people as bodies (or objects) first and people second, which leads us to judge and value people by how they look. This leads to negative body image because we are taught that our bodies are the most important things about us and that we need to "fix our flaws" in order to be happy. So many of us compare ourselves to social media influencers and celebrities who fit all of today’s ideals. What we don’t see is all the digital editing, styling, trainers, and cosmetic surgery that often goes into getting that look. …The objectifying messages in our culture tell us to think of our own bodies from an outside perspective, as though we were looking in at ourselves. This is called self-objectification. Studies show that when girls are self-conscious of their looks, they don’t do as well on math, reading, or physical fitness tests. …Self-objectification is at the root of negative body image because it puts all the focus on how our bodies look rather than how we feel or what we can do. It prevents us from seeing ourselves as God sees us: as children of our Heavenly Parents with inherent, unchangeable value. In our research, we found that a key to improving body image is what’s called "body image resilience.” Being resilient means being able to bounce back from difficult experiences. Our objectifying culture might create trials and burdens for us, but with body image resilience, those trials can be opportunities to grow and improve the ways we cope. We can become more knowledgeable and compassionate and feel better about our bodies because of how we respond to that pain, not in spite of it. To develop body image resilience, we first need to recognize and reflect on the ways distorted messages about bodies have shaped our views of ourselves and others. We can then practice new strategies to grow in response to those views and painful experiences. One of those strategies is to understand our divine identities as children of loving Heavenly Parents. Let’s start with recognizing and reflecting on the distorted ways we are tempted to think about bodies. How many times have you seen yourself in a picture or video taken by you or someone else? Think of the many lenses through which you might be watching yourself grow up: the lenses of family and friends’ cameras, your own cellphones, filters, even beauty-enhancing apps. The Apostle Paul taught, "For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." "For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." - 1 Corinthians 13:12 But Paul’s words could imply that we could one day see ourselves as God sees us. We are known to God and can learn more of who we really are through that loving lens. So how do we clean our lens so we see more like God does? Here are four things you can do. 4 Tips to Clean Your Lens 1. See your body as an instrument, not an ornament. Think of your body as a tool for experiencing life the way God intends, not just something to be looked at. Focus on how you feel and what you can do. 2. Try a media cleanse or fast. Try taking a break from media, and then take inventory of what you’re viewing when you go back. Do the images you see or the accounts you follow spark your body anxiety or shame? Do they objectify people? If so, you have the power to unfollow, unsubscribe, and fill your feed with goodness. 3. Take responsibility for your own thoughts and actions. Regardless of what anyone else wears or does, you can decide to view them as a person, not an object. Respect others’ agency to make choices that are different from yours and treat them with dignity. 4. Join forces with others to see more and be more. Ask friends and family to join you in rejecting objectifying media and conversation. Speak up about the importance of seeing ourselves and others as more than a body, and back it up by how you talk about yourself and others. Our Heavenly Parents want you to be happy and understand your value, power, and potential in this world. The Holy Ghost can help us to "see things as they really are", not through distorted lenses. You can contribute so much to this world that is in need of you-not just a pretty vision of you, but all of you-regardless of your physical ability or appearance. We are all more than a body, and when we can see more in ourselves and others, we can be more."
Some of these surgeons do this stuff on purpose but I feel bad for people who die or have complications from needed surgery, not vanity. They knew the risks, so o well.
To everyone saying just love your body shape I’d like to say : you all say this as if it’s something easy to do. But then unknowingly support distorted body types. A small waist and a big butt is the social standard and it rarely comes naturally. Many men and women make fun of body types that don’t fit that standard ... so saying love yourself to a person who understands what society wants isn’t really doing anything. I’m not necessarily in support of unnecessary surgery but I understand it. The only thing that will make it easier to allow people to love their body’s is to make everybody type socially acceptable saying love yourself when society encourages people to do these things to themselves bc of the high social standards we have set is putting a bandaid on the issue and not addressing why people want to change themselves in the first place!
Self love is the best love hun... loving yourself come with so much happiness and advantages and also the courage to look at those hater and laugh in their face because you know who you are and your happy with that sh*t...
@@satanyahinds838 i never said it wasn't im saying most of society is double minded by criticizing people who do change themselves to fit with the ridiculously high standards we set. while pretending to be understanding to the majority who don't fit those standards out in the open but still continuing to demand those unrealistic body standards! loving yourself is important but when it comes to harmful social standards that play a part in this entire equation how can we aggressively continue to promote those high standards everywhere while telling people loving themselves is enough. If that were true there would not be 1 body type everyone is currently obsessed with... loving yourself will always be enough for you but according to the rest of society's standards it wont be enough for them. Because their standards are unrealistic. so i say again the standards must also change. If they don't saying love yourself to someone faced with the social reality we live in absolutely does nothing for them but slap a bandaid on the problem! real change starts with what we promote as a society.
@@mayao5685 true that... We can't save all the minds and the souls we just got to pray for an eye opener... And take everything day by day .. I can't believe this is what everything as come to things really have changed hugely.... Ppl being brought down for the way they were built.. Even these mothers doing their body after having a baby talking about bout the bady messed up their body figure like come on now ... So now the kids grow and see that and do the same sh*t.. Sometimes I feel some of them be having kids just to have an excuse to do their body... Ppl be out hear putting a painted picture out there idea of what should be considered a beautiful body.... Smh way too much for us being to carry on ourselves...
I remember I wanted a bbl sooo badly and was goin to get one but I think it was god that kept showing me all these videos on RUclips of the deaths from them that i didn’t even look up or look up bbl videos, people don’t know the big risk of this surgery, they just want the big ass
Be thankful to God that you were born with all the limbs intact yet still not happy. There re people out there that are born with missing part of their body and yet manage with what they have got.
I am not against cosmetic surgery, if a woman wants to fix something in her body, maybe she feels insecure about her nose, physique or something else she can do what she wants, but at least make sure the doctors you are operated on are good and qualified doctors. And I honestly believe black women are gorgeous and awesome, black skin shouldn't be a shame, it should be your pride.
@@ishaj1792 I met so many black girls that told me that they're ashamed of being so black or they didn't felt comfortable with it . Of course not every black woman thinks the same
@@ishaj1792 obviously she isn’t saying everyone thinks like this she’s just making a generic statement based on those she’s met because it is true that a lot of us black women sometimes are not proud of who we are it shows in more than just cosmetic surgery but in weave etc
Sometimes instagram influence will mislead the people look now the permanent injury you’ve caused to yourself and and ton of yourself followers who took the same route. Look black woman you’re beautiful without all those cosmetic surgeries, wigs and or those shit skin bleaching.
Everyone tells women not to get surgery or change their appearance but will you also encourage the women in your own life and support them as they are? Many people shame and harass women based on their appearances which leads them to seek "solutions". Make sure you are not contributing to a culture of harassment
One thing I can tell these women is that you are beautifully and wonderfully made in a unique way! You do not need to make any changes in/on your body for gaining love from anyone ! Love yourself the way you are! There is no one else like you in this planet so why do you have to change yourself?
The point is that these companies are making a lot of money off of women that inspire to be Instagram models. They don't care about their bodies they care about the money and promotions they are making.
Always love yourself and seek wellness and peace and rest for your soul and mind. This world can really drive a person mad when your too wrapped up in it..
This girl Renee is forever calling someone or something toxic, but if you’ve ever seen her channel, she’s the most toxic person smh.. I couldn’t even take it
Why do people this days live like their gonna be young forever , seriously get some serious jobs instead of standing infront of the mirror n taking selfie to post on social media or the recent trends like 'only fans' , time will always move ahead without waiting for none while your busy invested in your looks n selling your body without inward growth , your outer beauty will pass away oneday n you won't have anything to fall back 🙄
Investigate in stop listening to people .Love yourself.Going to another country to a doctor that dont know nothing about your health history is very risky.People out here dying of a virus .
Someone needs to instill self love into people when they're young. Teach them they are beautiful and matter before their impressionable minds are told otherwise by society.
"Social media and pop culture increasing promote images of black women with a certain body shape." Another reason I resent Cardi B, Nicki Minaj and the like.
Ladies I'm giving you guys a tip for getting a bigger butt go to the gym and do weighted exercises with the machines like leg presses and squats with weights and then go to McDonald's after. My butt grew
McDonald's is the worst advice. Highly processed and junk food. Just eat food with high protein level food and exercise. Mine grew naturally and I am also plant based. Very happy with it.
@@maame6768 girl stfu. Fat thighs that rub are not it. Toned thighs are. Go to the gym and stop blaming projecting your insecurities on girls who work out. It’s not their fault society pushed their image 20 freaking years ago!
Sukihana had a bbl and went to a place that takes care of you afterwards… like a hotel with nurses around the clock. If I couldn’t afford all that I wouldn’t do it
This is so sad. Young girls have been feed this image of beauty that makes them feel less than if they don’t conform to it which in turn makes them think surgery is the solution this unscrupulous “doctor” butchers feed off of this like vultures.
@@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944 i mean she always talking about us africans but She looks more african than me tbh i dont even know how to explain it she just sounds stupid 😂
please, protect your mind and soul from social media. it can be so toxic, especially to younger children. God made you so so so beautiful. I was so insecure, then everyday I started telling myself I am beautiful, out loud, in front of the mirror please keep safe and affirm your natural beauty
Well all I can say is I'm glad I'm in my fifties, the world had gone mad. I look back to my youth where everyone was so natural and genuine, now half the young people are full of plastic, filler or silicone, and a lot of the ones that are not, have a desire to join the madness....sad.
Dear Black women - when God created you HE made no mistake. He gave you his everything. Your beautiful melanated skin, your beautiful nose and mouth, your afro hair. Stay the way you are - don't let the western beauty standards define 'what is beautiful'. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
her Karma came before the confession. if she wasnt damage - she would have never reveal it was paid advertising. Having thousands of women fall into bad medicine. JUST FOR LIKES Renee deceived her followers and the surgeons did her the same way. its par in my eyes
SOME of us have this shape naturally; not most of us do not need this surgery. And those who do not have this look: you're fine! you're beautiful! Just as YOU are.
Please dig dig dig and do your OWN research. Don’t just trust a pretty face online. Although the influencers experience was great, doesn’t mean yours will be. Sometimes companies give influencers a perfect experience just so they can get the free promotion.
Everyone is starting to look the same and there is nothing attractive about that. May we all be comfortable in our own skin.
Amen to that!
Thank you!💖
Ameeeennn
Agreed💯
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I am as flat as flat can get. And am not changing for no man or no peer influence. I am beautiful, intelligent and a sweet soul. I focus on that.
Yes you ARE!!!
@@chelsea9641 ♥️♥️😩
And that's all that matters.
I love this!!
Period!!!
They feed on women insecurities and it’s sad. 😔
Yup! And most are foolish and falls for it! 🙄
Unfortunately so. But we CAN teach our children better and we CAN stop buying into the lie that we need the affirmation of people we don't even know.
All Businesses feed on people's insecurities
exactly its disgusting that they call themselves influences when they just hurt people
@@Bee-dp3st don’t call then foolish wtf is wrong with you
Don't bleach your skin and don't do plastic surgery...we are beautiful just the way we are!
True. Black women are naturally gorgeous
Even if you have saggy skin with stretch marks and cellulite :)
Amen
Amen! And that goes for women in general. But the much malined black woman once was praised for the stereotypical curvy figure. But now, feel even that's been hijacked. So they feed on the insecurities. Let's not allow it on our watch!
Amen
The thing that Nicki and cardi b, and female celebrities of the like, don’t inform you on is they have money to go back to the surgeons to undo whatever has gone wrong.
And they can also afford the best doctors, surgeons, etc in the world
Yes every day people can’t afford the up keep!
Cardi’s needed her breast done a few times and they still look hella fake. I got my boobs done in NYC. They look great. I have to convince ppl that they are fake. I say this to say, do your research. Do not travel abroad looking for a discount. It is too risky.
@@numerologicatarot3333 Mine too. I live in Miami and i got my boobs done here in Miami with a very good surgeon. They look very natural as well.
@ Flying Snake, one thing is for sure, bargain hunting might come
In handy in many areas of life but surgery and your health are not one of those areas.
Why is this on BBC news Africa? She’s from the UK and did this in Turkey
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Im asking the same question
Everybody must hear this!! it’s necessary I think 🤔.
@@prettypriss8324 but Africa as a continent has the least amount of plastic surgeries. Speaking for my country Kenya, no doctor does BBLs
@Maria The future will tell. 🤣🤣
I've been mocked since childhood for being slim basically no butt and bust and that's majority of Africa's standard of beauty, but I'm bent on working with what I have. No need for cosmetic reconstruction. I'm okay like this.
Body changes like this never look good when you age a bit. You'll look back in future and think "thank f***! I didn't go for that".
I literally have the same problem ❤️❤️
Societal beauty standards are BS and can't be matched. Look at the surgeries people get. Then there's the teeth stuff as well. We'll be chopping limbs off soon for bionic ones. I'll always say "what will it be like when you start to age" some of these celebs don't even look human. Plus you risk getting addicted as well look at those that spend thousands to look like certain people or characters
Good for you for not falling for the BULL.
It is sad that the female body image is often based on trends. When you look back at music videos from the early 2000's for example the body types are very different to what you see now. I also hate the fact that plastic surgery is often portrayed as female empowerment.
It’s the soul that needs the surgery... 🎶
Amen to that!
Exactly so!
Yup, not the body that houses the soul and spirit.
Actually it's the mind that needs to be renewed...
@@Vee-yc5ht Amen. Both!
True clinics don’t pay to promote surgery 💀
She got played 💀🤧
Course they do. What do you think adverts are? Free?
@@SKOLAH that’s different then paying an influencer to promote
They do it's called "Business Marketing" every successful business you see in any industry successfully profited from marketing every business owner invest in advertisement
They do , infact all over the world
Everyone needs to take a sabbatical from Instagram. Looking at these distorted images everyday over and over warps your sense of reality.
So true!!
Girl, yes!!!
Yes!!!
And congregation said Amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Not one lie told in this post. Please say it a little louder so the church can hear you in the back
The best advice I've heard
Why do people only regret it when it's botched...
LITERALLY
Frrr
Well their not gonna regret it if it came out good are they
Because they finally see that what they get is not what they wanted.
I’ve been asking the same question
This is so horrible! The girl that got a reduction was probably doing so for relief and ended up worse off than before.
It's so painful to watch..
I said the same thing
Exactly, I have huge boobs too and have thought about getting a reduction, but this is why I’m scared.
@@Tash_inBloom also i think you look fireee 🤩😩, but if it’s a case of it being uncomfortable maybe exercise but even so I don’t think always works.
@@rickr0113d me getting a breast reduction wouldn’t be about looks, it’d be about not having the back pain that comes with having breasts that’s just too big, which is why a lot of women get breast reduction.
Ladies... Pls you're ok as you was born... Plssssssssss... No need to enhance any body part just the brain...
True
😂😂 I bet if brain was selling they wouldn't buy.
My Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (RHEMA ORPHANAGE HOME) in Nigeria, Port Harcourt, before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call or contact the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp)+2349035045681)Or (rhemaorphanageh@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..
Can we start being able to sue influencers on social media! Coz they get paid to lie to people who trust them.... it’s your work as an influencer to do your research and make sure you are selling something legit
Apaku! Everywhere
Trust me this girl blatantly lied that she was not being sponsored, that she didn't get a reduction. She didn't not answer the question but lieeeeeeed, the areola girl should legit sue her. She's now in drama for trying to molest another girl if only BBC knew
My Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (RHEMA ORPHANAGE HOME) in Nigeria, Port Harcourt, before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call or contact the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp)+2349035045681)Or (rhemaorphanageh@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
@@pastordowell844 LMAO this is too funny🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MooseImoose agree
They need to be held up to trading standards guidelines. They are advertising agents.
Accept your body shape and you won't regret. Anyway sorry for the black girls
For sure but it can be hard, especially when some black people will make fun of you for not having a big bum or big boobs
There is nothing wrong with
Surgery. It's like wearing makeup.
Nyamah Chernogod make up will come of with a simple wipe🤦🏿♀️ surgery will last forever, both cannot be compared
@@NBC09 the problem one wrong move on the surgery ur fawkes
@@NBC09 lollll look at this fool when you're in a coffin due to complications you'll know
She body shamed people online because she went for a cheap surgery she needs to be sued I don't know why people are taking stupid apologies
Awwwwww nigel that's harsh 😭
Where’s the money Renee??
@@HuStLeBuniiie the harsh truth
Finally a dope comment.
Sued thats their own choice. She wanted cheap she got cheap. These don’t like to do research that believe these influencers
So because she's black you guys think this should be on BBC Africa when this vid has nothing to do with Africa. Smh
Yknaaa
Exactly
im crying i was so confused
I didn’t even notice you were Yoruba, but yea this makes no sense
It needs to be everywhere imo
I just don’t understand, why all these women want to look like Kim or Cardi ,🤮! U r beautiful just the way u r!!
Kim and Cardi paid for for their bodies too. People should love themselves and they won't need to get plastic surgery
For men’s attention
@@thegworlsarefighting well they need to question why they are attracted to men like that. Especially if he isn’t attracted to you.
@@Midnight-og3rk 🤷🏾♀️ Chile idk I’m natural so
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To all my black queens you are all beautiful don’t let SOCIAL MEDIA lie to you 🏆💯❤️
It's foolishness! Appreciate how God makes you...
People are miserable and mad out there!
There’s something called insecurities
Or build naturally these people think they better than other girls because of Fake Yash
@@mary-annesade but you can eat good and work out to over come those insecurities
Listen ladies, when the breasts sag as a result of breastfeeding or any reason, this should make us proud as mothers just buy the right support of course not one that will permanently damage our bodies. Please we don't need to have a certain type of body, the one each one of us has is perfect.
Dear black people
It is about time we all stopped putting our lives in the hands of other people. they don't care about us .we don't even care about each other ...
I really feel for us as a people
Well said
They don't listen.
Umm why these girl aren’t doing serious research they wanted cheap promo surgery. Why take risk on your body
She looks so different without the make up
Biggest scam
Different is an understatement
That’s because of makeups, filters and editing. And this is so sad those are the pictures people see on ig and thinks ooo she beautiful, spotless. Don’t be fooled
She looks so much darker there aswell..
I see this all the time on social media. Black women can dramatically alter their features with clever makeup tricks that make them look more European. Add a wig and false lashes and hey presto, black barbie. However without all the fakery they look plain and average. The warped mentality is harming young black girls because they don't understand the illusions at play. There's nothing wrong with makeup but it should be used to enhance not to fool. Btw I know none black women use the same makeup tricks too but we don't have follow everything they do!
Im not trying to throw any shade but i swear the transformation of makeup to no makeup be so mind blowing 😭 she looks like two completely different people or am I tweaking?
You're not throwing shade. It's fact, she does look dramatically different without makeup.
@@Coco-uk9tv With make - up she's a 4/10, without it, she's a 1/10.
No offense but I would never agree to endorse a surgery clinic. That sounds weird af.
Cool for you, bro
To anyone reading this, I just want to remind you that; “you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image and likeness of God.” (Psalm 139:14). Therefore, the value of your life is not contingent upon how big your breasts are or how big your bum is or any material possessions you have. My prayers go out to the 2 ladies in this video, gosh you could almost taste the pain in Monica’s voice 💔. May God heal both women from the pain, hurt and trauma they have experienced from these cosmetic surgeries in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you
@@fifiluxesparkles5093 you're welcome
Bless you
Amen sister God Bless you 🙏🏾
@@chelsea9641 Amen. God bless you too!
There are so many days where I hate my body and yet I would NEVER take a risk such as this. People really gotta learn to love their bodies the way they are.
Sam e
😂😂if y’all get influenced by renee and listen u deffo lost baby find yourself
I'm saying. How can you put your life in the hands of some mug online. Social media influencers are the biggest liars and pretenders
Ikr. Smh
She didn’t even do her research. She wanted cheap she got cheap
Self esteem
Be comfortable in your skin
I don't find the Kardashian shape beautiful
Fellow women especially Africans, were naturally beautiful
Every race looks better natural shaped if you ask me. Kardashians just made it so bad
She literally said "the company cared for nobody but their own brand" sounds like the same thing she was doing to her followers
I feel so bad for ‘ Monica “ may god protect her
If your willing to spend top dollar on genuine expensive brand fashion, why not show the same respect to your own body and go to the top clinics instead of these cheap overseas scam clinics?
Unfortunately with bbl doesn't matter which top clinic you go to there's a reason bbl has the highest fatality rate of all procedures. In the UK where these girls are from bbl is actually banned because of the high fatality rate. Its a risky procedure doesn't matter how much you pay or which top clinic, there's a high possibility it may not work. Unfortunately just because people see a lot of girls with it on instagram they think its easy but not a lot of these insta baddies are honest to talk about complications. Its a lottery with your life and Unfortunately a lot people go for it.
You have no idea about the things you say. There are 1000 successful surgeries and few goes sideways. You are informed about it beforehand too. Also you are probably talkin this way just because clinic is in turkey.
@@onurs.4581 bbl is banned in uk because of its high death and complications rate. If something is banned in the uk, I wonder why any sane person will travel to turkey to do it.
@@swiitdoll still doesn't give the right to shit talk about Turkey. They knew the risks. I personally know the doctor. He did a surgery on me too. These people on İnternet are so racist and biased it's actually disgusting.
Unfortunately, cultivating self esteem, confidence and character isn't a strong focus in the schooling system or within family dynamics, so impressionable minds will find it elsewhere. No different to gangs. Popular culture can be destructive too.
This is heartbreaking, they are so young to have been changing their bodies already! The influencer who has now apologised to her viewers, doesn't look like her natural, authentic self.. avoid too many filters, exercise and eat right, that's the best way x I pray they heal from these experiences, mentally and physically.
My Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (RHEMA ORPHANAGE HOME) in Nigeria, Port Harcourt, before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call or contact the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp)+2349035045681)Or (rhemaorphanageh@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
No surgery thank you 🙏 I want to stay with my ugliness
You'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror one day and be thankful you never got any work done. Just look at some of the celebs that had it done properly when they age.
@@robertjebediahfreeman4177 thank you 🙏 man 👨
@@brockennation2756 where u think he ugly someone else will love what you call ugly trust me beauty is in the eye of the beholder😉
@@skyeblacc2163 thanks 🙏 man 👨
@@brockennation2756 don't mention it bro 😉💯🙏🏾
Dont go to "clinics" for your plastic surgeries. Choose "hospitals" instead. Not just in Turkey, even in UK
Aint it weird that these women would never buy a fake fashion brand, but have no problem risking there health with a knock off doctor. It's your body. You have it for life. Invest in it properly.
They must just love themselves as they are and stop being stupid.
Don’t change your skin tone (bleach or tan) just for fake beauty standards don’t do plastic surgery to fit fake beauty standards
We are beautiful in our diversity all women are beautiful and that’s it
Your natural blonde hair is gorgeous
Your natural black her is gorgeous
Your natural curly hair is gorgeous
Your natural straight hair is gorgeous
Your thin lips are adorable
Your full lips are adorable
Your pale skin is beautiful
Your dark skin is beautiful
You are gorgeous,beautiful and amazing
As a curvy woman I always wanted to be skinny. Then after the whole blow up of Instagram I felt like I wasn’t curvy enough. I deleted all my social media. (Because I was comparing myself to others and other reasons for my mental health) And now I just don’t give af. I eat healthy, I lift weights. As long as I am in good health that is all I care about.
Same! I deleted social media for the sake of my mental health. When I came back it was worse because now people were really getting paid for promoting their bodies and certain lifestyles. It used to be clout was currency now its both. Now I focus on myself daily and my future, I got so much of my time back
Social media out here killing people with the harsh words online
you guys need to understand that people actually get BULLIED for how they look causing them being so insecure about how they look that they want to change it. pls be more understanding
Exactly! I’m seeing so many “love yourself” comments when the so-called ideal look that these influencers post and perpetuate is in our faces every damn day. Let’s not forget the beauty standards men and pop culture want certain women to have.
People get shamed for looking natural esp when it doesn’t fall under “conventional” beauty stands and shapes promoted by society.
@@KawelaMule exactly!!
@@KawelaMule exactly I was bullied by family and classmates for not having a big butt
@@onepunch2310 people can be so cruel and not everyone is able to not care what others think/say about them.
There have also been allegations of sexual assault from individuals associated with clinic hub. There should be actual disclaimers that people have edited or had surgery in thier Instagram posts
I learned from nurses that doctors will send patients to icu or post operative recovery room after surgery and whatever happens there or after is called “ post-operative complications” therefore doctors are always clean from “complications” or “deaths” on their record because it technically didn’t happen while they were operating. Doctors will also send dead patients to ICU on breathing machines or medicine that keeps them “ alive” just enough to get to the ICU where they then will say they died due to post operative complications. This was shared in a forum where a lot of nurses shared their story behind the curtains.
Pure vanity. She didn't care about anyone but HER 'brand'. Sorry doesn't reverse things. People like her need to think more carefully and do something worthy that actually benefits humans instead of only thinking of appearance, cash and popularity.
Wow she looks extremely different with and without makeup (Renee).
I shared this story faster than that clinic rushes those women out after their surgeries.
Beauty is diversity ❤️
More Than a Body: Seeing as God Sees
By Lexie Kite, Ph.D. and Lindsay Kite, Ph.D.
A negative body image may be holding you back, but you have the power to change the lens you see yourself through.
"After years of struggling, things changed. We even started swimming again. But it wasn’t dieting or makeovers that did the trick-it was learning how our skewed views of our bodies had held us back in every way. Our research has showed us that developing positive body image-or feeling good about your body from the inside, not just how it looks-is a key to health, happiness, and seeing ourselves as God sees us. Our culture tends to objectify both women’s and men’s bodies. It teaches us to see people as bodies (or objects) first and people second, which leads us to judge and value people by how they look. This leads to negative body image because we are taught that our bodies are the most important things about us and that we need to "fix our flaws" in order to be happy.
So many of us compare ourselves to social media influencers and celebrities who fit all of today’s ideals. What we don’t see is all the digital editing, styling, trainers, and cosmetic surgery that often goes into getting that look. …The objectifying messages in our culture tell us to think of our own bodies from an outside perspective, as though we were looking in at ourselves. This is called self-objectification. Studies show that when girls are self-conscious of their looks, they don’t do as well on math, reading, or physical fitness tests. …Self-objectification is at the root of negative body image because it puts all the focus on how our bodies look rather than how we feel or what we can do. It prevents us from seeing ourselves as God sees us: as children of our Heavenly Parents with inherent, unchangeable value.
In our research, we found that a key to improving body image is what’s called "body image resilience.” Being resilient means being able to bounce back from difficult experiences. Our objectifying culture might create trials and burdens for us, but with body image resilience, those trials can be opportunities to grow and improve the ways we cope. We can become more knowledgeable and compassionate and feel better about our bodies because of how we respond to that pain, not in spite of it. To develop body image resilience, we first need to recognize and reflect on the ways distorted messages about bodies have shaped our views of ourselves and others. We can then practice new strategies to grow in response to those views and painful experiences. One of those strategies is to understand our divine identities as children of loving Heavenly Parents.
Let’s start with recognizing and reflecting on the distorted ways we are tempted to think about bodies. How many times have you seen yourself in a picture or video taken by you or someone else? Think of the many lenses through which you might be watching yourself grow up: the lenses of family and friends’ cameras, your own cellphones, filters, even beauty-enhancing apps.
The Apostle Paul taught, "For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known."
"For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known." - 1 Corinthians 13:12
But Paul’s words could imply that we could one day see ourselves as God sees us. We are known to God and can learn more of who we really are through that loving lens. So how do we clean our lens so we see more like God does? Here are four things you can do.
4 Tips to Clean Your Lens
1. See your body as an instrument, not an ornament. Think of your body as a tool for experiencing life the way God intends, not just something to be looked at. Focus on how you feel and what you can do.
2. Try a media cleanse or fast. Try taking a break from media, and then take inventory of what you’re viewing when you go back. Do the images you see or the accounts you follow spark your body anxiety or shame? Do they objectify people? If so, you have the power to unfollow, unsubscribe, and fill your feed with goodness.
3. Take responsibility for your own thoughts and actions. Regardless of what anyone else wears or does, you can decide to view them as a person, not an object. Respect others’ agency to make choices that are different from yours and treat them with dignity.
4. Join forces with others to see more and be more. Ask friends and family to join you in rejecting objectifying media and conversation. Speak up about the importance of seeing ourselves and others as more than a body, and back it up by how you talk about yourself and others.
Our Heavenly Parents want you to be happy and understand your value, power, and potential in this world. The Holy Ghost can help us to "see things as they really are", not through distorted lenses. You can contribute so much to this world that is in need of you-not just a pretty vision of you, but all of you-regardless of your physical ability or appearance. We are all more than a body, and when we can see more in ourselves and others, we can be more."
Wow, God bless you for sharing 🙏🙌👍😇
@@kristodea8067
My pleasure.
Ladies love yourself and the body God bless you with you are a masterpiece formed in his image
Turn off that tv for starters...
Some of these surgeons do this stuff on purpose but I feel bad for people who die or have complications from needed surgery, not vanity. They knew the risks, so o well.
To everyone saying just love your body shape I’d like to say : you all say this as if it’s something easy to do. But then unknowingly support distorted body types. A small waist and a big butt is the social standard and it rarely comes naturally. Many men and women make fun of body types that don’t fit that standard ... so saying love yourself to a person who understands what society wants isn’t really doing anything. I’m not necessarily in support of unnecessary surgery but I understand it. The only thing that will make it easier to allow people to love their body’s is to make everybody type socially acceptable saying love yourself when society encourages people to do these things to themselves bc of the high social standards we have set is putting a bandaid on the issue and not addressing why people want to change themselves in the first place!
Love your body
Self love is the best love hun... loving yourself come with so much happiness and advantages and also the courage to look at those hater and laugh in their face because you know who you are and your happy with that sh*t...
@@satanyahinds838 i never said it wasn't im saying most of society is double minded by criticizing people who do change themselves to fit with the ridiculously high standards we set. while pretending to be understanding to the majority who don't fit those standards out in the open but still continuing to demand those unrealistic body standards! loving yourself is important but when it comes to harmful social standards that play a part in this entire equation how can we aggressively continue to promote those high standards everywhere while telling people loving themselves is enough. If that were true there would not be 1 body type everyone is currently obsessed with... loving yourself will always be enough for you but according to the rest of society's standards it wont be enough for them. Because their standards are unrealistic. so i say again the standards must also change. If they don't saying love yourself to someone faced with the social reality we live in absolutely does nothing for them but slap a bandaid on the problem! real change starts with what we promote as a society.
@@mayao5685 true that... We can't save all the minds and the souls we just got to pray for an eye opener... And take everything day by day .. I can't believe this is what everything as come to things really have changed hugely.... Ppl being brought down for the way they were built.. Even these mothers doing their body after having a baby talking about bout the bady messed up their body figure like come on now ... So now the kids grow and see that and do the same sh*t.. Sometimes I feel some of them be having kids just to have an excuse to do their body... Ppl be out hear putting a painted picture out there idea of what should be considered a beautiful body.... Smh way too much for us being to carry on ourselves...
Their....
Love yourself.
I remember I wanted a bbl sooo badly and was goin to get one but I think it was god that kept showing me all these videos on RUclips of the deaths from them that i didn’t even look up or look up bbl videos, people don’t know the big risk of this surgery, they just want the big ass
Glad you didn't risk yourself. 👍
A big ass that you can build in one year in the gym as well
Love your shape no matter what, I appreciate my beautiful body.
Be thankful to God that you were born with all the limbs intact yet still not happy. There re people out there that are born with missing part of their body and yet manage with what they have got.
I am not against cosmetic surgery, if a woman wants to fix something in her body, maybe she feels insecure about her nose, physique or something else she can do what she wants, but at least make sure the doctors you are operated on are good and qualified doctors.
And I honestly believe black women are gorgeous and awesome, black skin shouldn't be a shame, it should be your pride.
It’s not a shame. It is our pride. I don’t know who told you that it’s not. Also, women of all races do cosmetic surgery.
@@ishaj1792 I met so many black girls that told me that they're ashamed of being so black or they didn't felt comfortable with it . Of course not every black woman thinks the same
@@ishaj1792 obviously she isn’t saying everyone thinks like this she’s just making a generic statement based on those she’s met because it is true that a lot of us black women sometimes are not proud of who we are it shows in more than just cosmetic surgery but in weave etc
@@نورهانحَدّاد-ظ8س are you iranian?
Do an investigation on some of the doctors in the Dominican Republic as well
Sometimes instagram influence will mislead the people look now the permanent injury you’ve caused to yourself and and ton of yourself followers who took the same route. Look black woman you’re beautiful without all those cosmetic surgeries, wigs and or those shit skin bleaching.
Everyone tells women not to get surgery or change their appearance but will you also encourage the women in your own life and support them as they are? Many people shame and harass women based on their appearances which leads them to seek "solutions". Make sure you are not contributing to a culture of harassment
One thing I can tell these women is that you are beautifully and wonderfully made in a unique way! You do not need to make any changes in/on your body for gaining love from anyone ! Love yourself the way you are! There is no one else like you in this planet so why do you have to change yourself?
Seriously, am trying to get rid of my big bum but others are literally dying to get big tushes. I don't get it.
LMAO IF UR GETTIN INFLUENCED BY SOCIAL MEDIA U NEED TO RE-EVALUATE UR HEAD
Not a black woman issue - white chicks chase a certain body image too.
The point is that these companies are making a lot of money off of women that inspire to be Instagram models. They don't care about their bodies they care about the money and promotions they are making.
Brazilian but lift is number one procedure in Brazil and comimibia too. I think it's an issue everywhere!
Always love yourself and seek wellness and peace and rest for your soul and mind. This world can really drive a person mad when your too wrapped up in it..
If you don't want back fat and you want a bigger behind, go to the gym. Cheaper and less chance of complications.
This girl Renee is forever calling someone or something toxic, but if you’ve ever seen her channel, she’s the most toxic person smh.. I couldn’t even take it
😥😥 heal ladies!
The health officials should require every person wanting cosmetic surgery to go through therapy first.
Why do people this days live like their gonna be young forever , seriously get some serious jobs instead of standing infront of the mirror n taking selfie to post on social media or the recent trends like 'only fans' , time will always move ahead without waiting for none while your busy invested in your looks n selling your body without inward growth , your outer beauty will pass away oneday n you won't have anything to fall back 🙄
Investigate in stop listening to people .Love yourself.Going to another country to a doctor that dont know nothing about your health history is very risky.People out here dying of a virus .
Someone needs to instill self love into people when they're young. Teach them they are beautiful and matter before their impressionable minds are told otherwise by society.
No accountabilty; she chose to destroy her body.
She is strong and independent so she can cope with the consequences of her foolish decisions.
Surgeries don't solves insecurities you accept your flaws you dont fix them you're beautiful just the way you are
You cannot believe the internet... nothing is as it seems.
"Social media and pop culture increasing promote images of black women with a certain body shape."
Another reason I resent Cardi B, Nicki Minaj and the like.
Dont take risk ......dear girls....love ur natural body
Women in general need to just learn to love themselves but I do feel that black women are very very insecure
Ladies I'm giving you guys a tip for getting a bigger butt go to the gym and do weighted exercises with the machines like leg presses and squats with weights and then go to McDonald's after. My butt grew
Weights and proteins basically. You can avoid the mcDonald part. Just eat good proteins
McDonald's is the worst advice. Highly processed and junk food. Just eat food with high protein level food and exercise. Mine grew naturally and I am also plant based. Very happy with it.
I just want to be a Bcup
@@kimmieyc6476 maca root & fenugreek but be careful and monitor your hormones
@@maame6768 girl stfu. Fat thighs that rub are not it. Toned thighs are. Go to the gym and stop blaming projecting your insecurities on girls who work out. It’s not their fault society pushed their image 20 freaking years ago!
Sukihana had a bbl and went to a place that takes care of you afterwards… like a hotel with nurses around the clock.
If I couldn’t afford all that I wouldn’t do it
the existence of an "influencer" is utterly ridiculous. they demonstrate how ordinary you all are. classic!
Lmao it’s because the society is bored and not using our potential to its full actuation.
@@fruitlove8842 nah. society is boring. big difference. the bar is on the floor, so as to potential...meh.
@@JohnnyBot71 you practically said the same thing I did...
@@JohnnyBot71 you may think society is boring but that’s an opinion, the truth is people are bored.. and lame.
@@fruitlove8842 saying that society is boring is same as saying they are lame. Confused...
So, she went back to London, checked into a hospital & letting the tax payers pick up the tab. Nice.
The sad truth is these trendy looks will become outdated in a decade's time.
They'll just be lopsided former heaux in the nursing home wearing XXXXL Depends.
She is British, Jamaican and This was based in Turkey why is this on BBC Africa
There's a reason we are born without things in certain places 😑
Love your differences .The unique way you look from other people is what makes you special.
This is so sad. Young girls have been feed this image of beauty that makes them feel less than if they don’t conform to it which in turn makes them think surgery is the solution this unscrupulous “doctor” butchers feed off of this like vultures.
why do women go out of their way to please the lust of men at the detriment of their own health?
what's this got to do with Africa? she's not a African living in Africa and her surgery wasn't done in Africa.
and she's not even an African lmaooo. she always has something bad to say about africans.
@@kizzak1459 its funny because she looks more african than any african ive seen 😂😂
@@kizzak1459 yes always with that ridiculous accent her and her cousins do
@@angelsalwayswithme1 what do you mean?😹
@@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944 i mean she always talking about us africans but She looks more african than me tbh i dont even know how to explain it she just sounds stupid 😂
please, protect your mind and soul from social media. it can be so toxic, especially to younger children.
God made you so so so beautiful.
I was so insecure, then everyday I started telling myself I am beautiful, out loud, in front of the mirror
please keep safe and affirm your natural beauty
Well all I can say is I'm glad I'm in my fifties, the world had gone mad. I look back to my youth where everyone was so natural and genuine, now half the young people are full of plastic, filler or silicone, and a lot of the ones that are not, have a desire to join the madness....sad.
Just love yourself the way you are period!!!!!!!
Thank you for sharing my story I hope I can help a lot of people 🙏🏾❤️
ren why’s it on bbc Africa ?
People need to start loving themselves because plastic surgery won’t change it, just will make it worst
lol Renee is getting noticed beyond her followers good on her ✨✨
I'm over here like "renee? BBC news Africa?" 😭
Dear Black women - when God created you HE made no mistake. He gave you his everything. Your beautiful melanated skin, your beautiful nose and mouth, your afro hair. Stay the way you are - don't let the western beauty standards define 'what is beautiful'. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
love her for being so upfront
her Karma came before the confession. if she wasnt damage - she would have never reveal it was paid advertising. Having thousands of women fall into bad medicine. JUST FOR LIKES
Renee deceived her followers and the surgeons did her the same way. its par in my eyes
Madness
SOME of us have this shape naturally; not most of us do not need this surgery. And those who do not have this look: you're fine! you're beautiful! Just as YOU are.
You reap what you sow!!
God has created us in a unique way!! #BeautyComesFromInside
Amen
You’re perfect the way you are don’t let social media damage your soul ❤️
This is wrong we are sitting at our homes feeling insecure of our bodies because of your videos and you are here telling us it was wrong
Please dig dig dig and do your OWN research. Don’t just trust a pretty face online. Although the influencers experience was great, doesn’t mean yours will be. Sometimes companies give influencers a perfect experience just so they can get the free promotion.