Tears of happiness when I saw Ares, you and the children all together. You are a beautiful family and kind, loving parents. I pray you have peace in your family and a blessed new year! (I know Zar..it is not the same without mom. I miss my mom every day.)
Zar, mention your mom as much as you want, it’s your channel and your life! You two were extremely close and you can grieve as long & how you want. Wishing you all a wonderful new year 🤍
Zar I am so glad you mentioned your mum because I thought it was just me every year at Christmas. I think I’m going to get excited and Christmas is gonna be great and the day comes and it doesn’t for me anyway and like you but I’m glad that you mentioned it and was a heavy heart. My dad is very ill and this will be his last Christmas has been his last Christmas he’s not got long so but I try every year too thank that shit will be better and it’s not anyway it was lovely to see all you guys and you just got to make the best of it. That’s what I say anyway anyway it was lovely to see you see the kids and our take care I’ve been watching you from the beginning. I don’t know if you remember me or not but anyway take care and have a lovely New Year. Suzanne from Scotland Xx
What AMAZING parents you are… You have the MOST LOVING, Super Happy, Appreciative, Intelligent & Articulate children I have Ever seen!!! ❤from Montreal
Awwww, Zar, you literally have the most beautiful kids and family. I haven't watched in a couple of years, and I thought I'd check in. You are so blessed!
I love how appreciative they are. It’s so refreshing to see this, as most children you see on RUclips rip through their presents with no comments, hardly acknowledging what they have received and very few thanks. Nice to see Ares. Happy New Year!
Papi’s socks are so cute! And Lyla picking up wrapping paper. Awhhhh. So sweet. Now what? Sing “Happy Birthday” to Baby Jesus. 🎂 Thanks for the smiles. Wishing you every happiness in the New Year.
I love the relationship you had with your mother! ❤ I didn’t grow up with a loving mother so now that I am a mother (she is 13) I make sure to hug my girl and tell her how much I love her multiple times a day. Christmas for me always reminds me of the love & affection I didn’t get. You are blessed to have that in your life and have all of the memories! ❤ Mention her often and always…. 🙏🏻❤️ I hope you all have a wonderful 2025 and you continue to have love, positivity, good health and laughter in your life! ❤️
You look so happy in this vlog, & I am glad to see you happy... your husband is there too.. your kids, their faces when they opened their gifts, so, adorable... Take care, & God Bless...
Thank you for sharing, I am grateful 🙏. I love seeing you all together. The kids are thriving, they are both so polite and loving. Kudos to you and Ares, beautifully guiding those two adorable children as they grow, with love and happiness. I completely understand your grief.I had 5 members of my immediate family pass away. Now, in a matter of 3 months, I lost the love of my life, my husband of 42 years, Next, our aunt and lastly, my mother-in- law. It's been a challenge, but I take it one day at a time. Don't be afraid to be happy and joyful, do for as your parents did for you. Don't let them ask, now what. Oh, and maybe I am just an old romantic, but I truly wish whatever happened between you and Ares, can be worked out. But thanks again for posting this video, blessings to each of you 🙏 ❤️
You made a lovely Christmas for the kids, Zar, and it is so good to see Ares. I hope 2025 will bring you and your family good health and happiness! Love from Mississauga ❤🇨🇦
Oh my goodness!! This was the sweetest vlog! I loved how they went and showed Ares everything. And the “Daddy! Daddy! Rapunzel!” really got my heart. Happy new year to you and your family. ❤❤
You had such a love for your mom!! You can grieve as long as you want!! There is no right way or time!! No one knew your mom’s love like you did!! We had family from Boston, NYC, and CT come visit us in Scottsdale, AZ this year at different times!! It was so nice!! Love Lyla’s expression and excitement!! They are both very happy children!! You’ve done a great job!!Love your Christmas Jammie’s!!
Connection with truly significant persons is never gone even if they passed away. We live with them spiritually; speak to them occasionaly; cry sometime because we miss them so much. I guess this experience happen while we continue to live normally. I hope 2025 will unfold with so much blessings from the Lord for your family; a year of healing, greater joy and peace for everyone. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Such a lovely Christmas morning.❤️The children are so appreciative and joyful. Rowan helping clean up the paper was too adorable. Please just be who you are on the vlogs - it’s so important to talk about your Mom you had such a close relationship. There will always be people that disagree with what we do or think they know better. This is about you and your authenticity which is what makes you so special. Love your vlogs❤️
Your Christmas videos with your Mom were great. I miss getting to see them each year. Everyone's mourning is a very personal thing. No one can tell you how, or how long, to mourn. Merry Christmas! Happy New Year! May 2025 bring you only wonderful things.
Unbelievabale how careful both kids are. They put away the wrapping paper without having to say anything. Respect Lyla and Rowan!!!! And Lyla is so enthusiastic - a long and loud "Woooooow" for every present. ...... And finally: I love your "this is us"-wall! Happy new year Zar, Ares, Rowan & Lyla! Stay healthy and save.
The children were so happy on Christmas Day! Memories for the rest of their lives - and they will remember! Condolences on another Christmas without your Mom. Everyone grieves in their own way. You will be fine and you will remember your Mom to your children . Wishing you and your family a Happy New Year!
This was such a cute, happy video. I was smiling the whole time your kids were opening Christmas presents. They were so very excited. I loved the matching pjs. I'm sorry, not everyone is kind online. I'm glad you all had a great Christmas. Things won't ever be the same without your mom but you're doing a wonderful job raising your kids.
Bless, that was a truly delightful video. Full of joy and happiness. Lyla and Rowan, were delighted by all their gifts. Lyla's excitement was palpable. So very sweet. You all looked gorgeous in your Christmas pajamas, too! You and Ares, created a lovely/magical day, which will live long in the children's memories. Zar, i totally get you missing your mum. She would of course have been thrilled to have seen/shared this happy time with you. Christmas is a particularly poignant time of the year when we ache for those we've lost. Mention her all you want. Her love for you is forever, as is your's for her. All best wishes for a happy and, most importantly, a healthy 2025. Take care. With love and light from England, UK. 💞🌟🤗 xx
Be grateful you have a family of your own to celebrate Christmas with. I haven't had one in several years now. Both my parents are gone, I've never been married and my brother doesn't want anything to do with me and I don't even know why. So count your blessings.
Your humor is great Zar. Just because they share their opinions doesn't mean they know what they are talking about. It's God that does the healing of those kinds of loss. So don't worry, feel free to express whatever you want about your memories of your mom she was an important person in your life. The kids are so happy, Lyla is shouting her little heart is happy. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾 God is good no matter the circumstances his love for us is unmatched.
Screw what people say it's ok to still grieve over your mom. My grandma that basically raised me died 10yrs ago Christmas Day I still grieve every Christmas. If you want to grieve you have that right
I hope you two can find each other again.... . I was thinking about your vlogs from when you two were in love and not yet married....I never thought this could ever happen.....I have a feeling...it wasn't you....Zar... but it's time you really were forth coming with some answers for the followers that were here since the beginning.... that feel the elephant in the room....😊
@@JustJillin61I agree. We have been following her for years and although we only want happiness for her, it’s only fair to be honest with us as we will then have a better understanding of their situation.
Has it ever been said that Ares and Zar no longer live together? It’s an assumption viewers may have made because Ares is no longer featured in videos, isn’t it? Perhaps Ares just got tired of negative or entitled comments from followers. Think that’s possible? Well,I think it’s possible and unless Zar makes an announcement, I think I will leave this family with their privacy and freedom from this follower’s speculation, comments, and inappropriate questions. It would be nice if others did, too.
@@leslieobrien4690 Two comments on your comment. 1. Think about what YOU are doing here. Zar does not need to be defended. She is an adult and can decide for herself how to deal with these questions. You are patronizing her if you take over the reprimands here. I really think she does not need that. ...... 2. Asking questions is not fundamentally wrong, it is human and important and above all it is social behavior. Commentators have usually been around for a long time and know the videos. Some will be worried or want to encourage her. A lot of viewers send her prayers. Speculation about whats going on is completely normal in human behavior and also indicates that someone is not indifferent to the other person (or something). I am convinced that you often do that yourself. So let Zar decide for herself when and how she reacts to speculation/questions. Even if you feel good about not asking her more personal questions, it is still legitimate for others to do so. Live long and prosper.
So sweet seeing you all together! Your family is lovely! I hate that you feel you have to say or do things a certain way when it comes to your mom... 😔 You don't owe anyone an explanation and there's no timeline on grief! Please allow yourself to feel however you feel! Happy New Year to you all! I wish you all the best in this year!
This was such a nice treat. Zar, my mom passed away last Sept. and I can’t imagine not thinking or something would come up that would remind me of my mom. Everyone’s deal with grief differently. Just because our love one are not here doesn’t mean you can’t think or talk about them. ❤️ Thanks for sharing your beautiful family Christmas tradition. Through the years I love watching you guys dress up for Halloween and Christmas so cute. Have a happy healthy New Year. 🎄☃️🐶🎉🎊
Happy happy New Year!!!❤❤❤❤ With those wonderful adorable sweet kids, you can't miss!! I'm so sorry you have to go through the sadness of missing your mom...😢 God Bless you all and May the New Year be filled with happiness and peace and love!! ❤
Nothing wrong with mentioning your Mother. I just lost my Mommy ( i am 59) on December 4th this year and I am non stop talking about her and always will keeping her memory alive for my granddaughters as well. It has been a really hard time and its comforting hearing you mention your Mother too. Mothers are everything to some of us that were fortunate to have good ones. I miss my Mom so much it hurts. ❤ Btw absolutely love your matching Christmas pjs!!❤ The children's excitement is best‼️❤️
YOUR A SWEETHEART, LET THE HATERS HANG! YOUR FEELINGS ARE YOU, AND TO BE SHARING THEM IS OPENING UP THAT SOME PEOPLE HATE THIER MOTHERS RELIESH YOUR MOTHER AND HER MEMORY AND WHAT YOU HAD. A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.
Merry Christmas and Happy New years 2025! Wow your children are just little angels! I am so glad that as a family all of you were together! I am not trying to fan any flames but please do not allow anyone to make you sad about remembering or missing your mom! We all deal with things differently and in our own time. Clearly you miss her as you would. and it hurts. Sending you lots of love and hugs.
Zar I’m a huge fan of yours and live in the same city. Don’t let anyone say your need to deal with your moms passing, You lost your Mom far too young, I lost mine when she was 91 and I will always miss her. We talked twice a day. You feel however you feel Zar. Liala is too cute and excitable on Christmas morning. Happy New Year to you my wish for you is happiness and health.
Couldn't imagine a better way to spend the holidays..... it's tough there's no time limits to greif.... yes we have to keep living.... but when we love someone that much its hard to not feel that loss frequently.... your doing great Mama! 🐧
Zar, your mom and my mom passed around the sametime. My mom actually passed on Christmas day. I started following you because of our moms. The difference is, I was in my 50's, so she saw all the big events. My wedding, birth of my daughter, when I became a teacher. She was my best friend. I always felt it was so UNFAIR because you were so young! That will always hurt. I am thankful you have your beautiful children.
Zar. I feel you so deeply. I know that when I lose my mom it will feel like my life is over. I don't have a partner or any kids and I'm nearly 32. She is my world. I'm going to mention her multiple times a day until my day comes. Sometimes there is simply NO WAY to get over the grief. Sometimes that hole in our hearts is just never filled.
Thank you for sharing with us ! Zar you can talk about your mom anytime i too miss my mom and she passed in 2016 and the pain never goes away and then i lost my dad 2024 and it was very hard im still dialing with his lost it's not easy! Sending you hugs it was so nice to see the kids reaction its the best sending you all my love may God bless you all for the year 2025 and for ever ❤❤
My hen just hatched 7 chickens today so that makes 22 for us now! We stayed in the same routine as we homeschool. Husband only gets off Christmas day but his scedule is easy to work with. much love to your fam.
Beautiful family with wonderful holiday memories that will last forever ♥♥♥♥ Abundant blessings of health, happiness and love to all of you in 2025 :) 🎄🎊
I lost my mom 12 years ago now and am much older than you and I still struggle with Christmas. I really try because I have grandchildren now but it is still a struggle. No one can tell you how to grieve or how ling it should take, feel your feelings and remember her as much as possible
I am so with you that Christmas not being the same without a lov3d one. I saw something that said 'This Christmas isn't Christmasing like previous Christmases have Christmased' We are missing our dog and other family issues have made this Christmas just not the same
Happy New Year to all of you. Hope 2025 is a great one for all. I lost both my Parents now, so Xmas just isnt the same for me. But I still try to do the best for my Son and Grandchildren. Your Christmas was beautiful with the kids. So glad to see Ares as well.❤❤
Absolutely beautiful Christmas. The kids are so happy. You can talk about your mom anytime. Mine will be gone three yrs on the 30th. We talk about her everyday. It’s ok.
Zar, this was an absolutely precious and such wonderful video! I love you for gifts too! We adults don't get gifts anymore, so it isn't quite as much fun. ) : But, Seeing the joy on my grandkid's faces, is my new joy at Christmas! ( : I adored watching the kids open their gifts at your house! They were sooo sweet and excited overall their toys! It was absolutely precious! ( : Thank you so much for sharing, Zar! Happy belated Chris band Happy New Year to you and all the family! ( : ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗
YAY you had Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 🎉 Such a fun Vlog. Airplane ✈️ 😮Switzerland 🇨🇭 🙏🤞I miss it 😅How nice if that's where you are headed. The Family must be SO Excited 🎉❤
@@vloggingblondeit will God knows how to get you to that place. And while you will always remember them. You can talk about them and still smile that's progress. 😊
Sweetie, Everyone deals with grief in their own way.I have lost a newborn, a still birth, an ectopic pregnancy, my parents, 6 of my 8 siblings, the father of my children, my sweetheart/ partner/best friend of 20 years and in Dec of '23 my daughter's brother in law( who was like my own children to me). It breaks us! Loss is forever. Whatever you feel is yours to feel. No one else knows how you feel. If talking about your mom helps you to remember her that's OK. My heart breaks for you.If you needs a shoulder and a listening ear,I'll be here for you!!! I'll listen.🫂🫂🫂
Mention your mom as many times you want too. It would be fine if you wanted to mention her beginning of ever video. I lost my husband 3.5 years ago and I say something every day about him. that's my way of keeping him alive.🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
Oh my . Had a wonderful time, started with the flu, on Christmas Eve. Hubby started on 27th. We have coughed almost all the time. I'm now getting on my own nerves, it's now into January, this is taking too long.....
Guys!!! She doesn’t owe anybody an explanation about her relationship! Just because you watch her or have been watching for years doesn’t give you a right to know anything about her private life! She doesn’t even have to explain to her family! Never mind strangers on the internet. The entitlement is absolutely insane!
I would be at a loss entirely if I lost my mom, so I don't blame you for feeling that way. Just gotta remember that you're the mama now, so you gotta make the magic and answer the "what do we do now?" part for the kiddos and everyone else and make new traditions to cherish instead
Hi there. I wasn’t following for a long time and noticed that ares isn’t anymore to see. Now he is back with the kids for Christmas. May I asked what happened to you both?! PS: since it’s your channel you may talk about your mom as much and as long as you like. Best wishes from Austria 🌹🌹🌹
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Tears of happiness when I saw Ares, you and the children all together. You are a beautiful family and kind, loving parents. I pray you have peace in your family and a blessed new year! (I know Zar..it is not the same without mom. I miss my mom every day.)
Zar, mention your mom as much as you want, it’s your channel and your life! You two were extremely close and you can grieve as long & how you want. Wishing you all a wonderful new year 🤍
Thank you so much....if only everyone was as understanding as you!
@@vloggingblonde keyboard warriors will always be that, do not give them any power! Sending prayers and lots of love your way!
Zar I am so glad you mentioned your mum because I thought it was just me every year at Christmas. I think I’m going to get excited and Christmas is gonna be great and the day comes and it doesn’t for me anyway and like you but I’m glad that you mentioned it and was a heavy heart. My dad is very ill and this will be his last Christmas has been his last Christmas he’s not got long so but I try every year too thank that shit will be better and it’s not anyway it was lovely to see all you guys and you just got to make the best of it. That’s what I say anyway anyway it was lovely to see you see the kids and our take care I’ve been watching you from the beginning. I don’t know if you remember me or not but anyway take care and have a lovely New Year.
Suzanne from Scotland Xx
@@beasleyben9191 they are not worth it. They just hide behind the keyboard.
What AMAZING parents you are… You have the MOST LOVING, Super Happy, Appreciative, Intelligent & Articulate children I have Ever seen!!! ❤from Montreal
Awwww, Zar, you literally have the most beautiful kids and family. I haven't watched in a couple of years, and I thought I'd check in. You are so blessed!
Layla’s gratitude and excitement is so awesome! She is clearly a happy little girl!! They have both grown so much!
We love when you talk about your mom. You can talk about her as much as you want. Happy New Year’s. ❤️
aww thanks a lot... this is just such a sweet comment!
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I love how appreciative they are. It’s so refreshing to see this, as most children you see on RUclips rip through their presents with no comments, hardly acknowledging what they have received and very few thanks. Nice to see Ares. Happy New Year!
Papi’s socks are so cute! And Lyla picking up wrapping paper. Awhhhh. So sweet. Now what? Sing “Happy Birthday” to Baby Jesus. 🎂 Thanks for the smiles. Wishing you every happiness in the New Year.
I love the relationship you had with your mother! ❤ I didn’t grow up with a loving mother so now that I am a mother (she is 13) I make sure to hug my girl and tell her how much I love her multiple times a day. Christmas for me always reminds me of the love & affection I didn’t get. You are blessed to have that in your life and have all of the memories! ❤ Mention her often and always…. 🙏🏻❤️ I hope you all have a wonderful 2025 and you continue to have love, positivity, good health and laughter in your life! ❤️
Lovely to see you all together we don't usually see dad very much now ❤
Anything can be forgiven, maybe not forgotten. True love is true love. Praying for you. Happy New Year to all of you .
Their little voices are just too sweet ❤ my heart melted watching their Christmas morning joy
You look so happy in this vlog, & I am glad to see you happy... your husband is there too.. your kids, their faces when they opened their gifts, so, adorable... Take care, & God Bless...
Thank you for sharing, I am grateful 🙏. I love seeing you all together. The kids are thriving, they are both so polite and loving. Kudos to you and Ares, beautifully guiding those two adorable children as they grow, with love and happiness. I completely understand your grief.I had 5 members of my immediate family pass away. Now, in a matter of 3 months, I lost the love of my life, my husband of 42 years, Next, our aunt and lastly, my mother-in- law. It's been a challenge, but I take it one day at a time. Don't be afraid to be happy and joyful, do for as your parents did for you. Don't let them ask, now what. Oh, and maybe I am just an old romantic, but I truly wish whatever happened between you and Ares, can be worked out. But thanks again for posting this video, blessings to each of you 🙏 ❤️
You made a lovely Christmas for the kids, Zar, and it is so good to see Ares. I hope 2025 will bring you and your family good health and happiness! Love from Mississauga ❤🇨🇦
Oh my goodness!! This was the sweetest vlog! I loved how they went and showed Ares everything. And the “Daddy! Daddy! Rapunzel!” really got my heart. Happy new year to you and your family. ❤❤
You had such a love for your mom!! You can grieve as long as you want!! There is no right way or time!! No one knew your mom’s love like you did!! We had family from Boston, NYC, and CT come visit us in Scottsdale, AZ this year at different times!! It was so nice!! Love Lyla’s expression and excitement!! They are both very happy children!! You’ve done a great job!!Love your Christmas Jammie’s!!
So nice to see you all! Happy new year! All the very best for 2025.xx
Connection with truly significant persons is never gone even if they passed away. We live with them spiritually; speak to them occasionaly; cry sometime because we miss them so much. I guess this experience happen while we continue to live normally. I hope 2025 will unfold with so much blessings from the Lord for your family; a year of healing, greater joy and peace for everyone. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Such a lovely Christmas morning.❤️The children are so appreciative and joyful. Rowan helping clean up the paper was too adorable. Please just be who you are on the vlogs - it’s so important to talk about your Mom you had such a close relationship. There will always be people that disagree with what we do or think they know better. This is about you and your authenticity which is what makes you so special. Love your vlogs❤️
So nice to see you guys all together in a Vlog. ✨🧡
Your Christmas videos with your Mom were great. I miss getting to see them each year. Everyone's mourning is a very personal thing. No one can tell you how, or how long, to mourn. Merry Christmas! Happy New Year! May 2025 bring you only wonderful things.
Unbelievabale how careful both kids are. They put away the wrapping paper without having to say anything. Respect Lyla and Rowan!!!! And Lyla is so enthusiastic - a long and loud "Woooooow" for every present. ...... And finally: I love your "this is us"-wall! Happy new year Zar, Ares, Rowan & Lyla! Stay healthy and save.
The children were so happy on Christmas Day! Memories for the rest of their lives - and they will remember! Condolences on another Christmas without your Mom. Everyone grieves in their own way. You will be fine and you will remember your Mom to your children . Wishing you and your family a Happy New Year!
So lovely to see you all together. Happy New Year and may you all be healthy and happy thru 2025. 🎉🥰❤️
This was such a cute, happy video. I was smiling the whole time your kids were opening Christmas presents. They were so very excited. I loved the matching pjs. I'm sorry, not everyone is kind online. I'm glad you all had a great Christmas. Things won't ever be the same without your mom but you're doing a wonderful job raising your kids.
Bless, that was a truly delightful video. Full of joy and happiness.
Lyla and Rowan, were delighted by all their gifts.
Lyla's excitement was palpable. So very sweet.
You all looked gorgeous in your Christmas pajamas, too!
You and Ares, created a lovely/magical day, which will live long in the children's memories.
Zar, i totally get you missing your mum. She would of course have been thrilled to have seen/shared this happy time with you.
Christmas is a particularly poignant time of the year when we ache for those we've lost.
Mention her all you want.
Her love for you is forever, as is your's for her.
All best wishes for a happy and, most importantly, a healthy 2025.
Take care.
With love and light from England, UK.
💞🌟🤗 xx
Perfectly stated!
Be grateful you have a family of your own to celebrate Christmas with. I haven't had one in several years now. Both my parents are gone, I've never been married and my brother doesn't want anything to do with me and I don't even know why. So count your blessings.
Your humor is great Zar. Just because they share their opinions doesn't mean they know what they are talking about. It's God that does the healing of those kinds of loss. So don't worry, feel free to express whatever you want about your memories of your mom she was an important person in your life. The kids are so happy, Lyla is shouting her little heart is happy. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾 God is good no matter the circumstances his love for us is unmatched.
Screw what people say it's ok to still grieve over your mom. My grandma that basically raised me died 10yrs ago Christmas Day I still grieve every Christmas. If you want to grieve you have that right
Thank you... I'm sorry to hear about your grief as well... I feel like it's hard to understand grief unless you're living it.
Sending you lots of love
@vloggingblonde I'm sending you lots of hugs and so much love. We just learn how to survive the holidays the best we can for our kids.
Nobody gets to decide how long you grieve for but yourself
I hope you two can find each other again.... . I was thinking about your vlogs from when you two were in love and not yet married....I never thought this could ever happen.....I have a feeling...it wasn't you....Zar... but it's time you really were forth coming with some answers for the followers that were here since the beginning.... that feel the elephant in the room....😊
I agree…it’s obvious he doesn’t live there. She doesn’t owe an explanation but I wish she felt comfortable being honest to her loyal viewers.
@@JustJillin61I agree. We have been following her for years and although we only want happiness for her, it’s only fair to be honest with us as we will then have a better understanding of their situation.
@@JustJillin61 Really? I've never thought of that before. They live seperated - maybe?!?
Has it ever been said that Ares and Zar no longer live together? It’s an assumption viewers may have made because Ares is no longer featured in videos, isn’t it? Perhaps Ares just got tired of negative or entitled comments from followers. Think that’s possible? Well,I think it’s possible and unless Zar makes an announcement, I think I will leave this family with their privacy and freedom from this follower’s speculation, comments, and inappropriate questions. It would be nice if others did, too.
@@leslieobrien4690 Two comments on your comment. 1. Think about what YOU are doing here. Zar does not need to be defended. She is an adult and can decide for herself how to deal with these questions. You are patronizing her if you take over the reprimands here. I really think she does not need that. ...... 2. Asking questions is not fundamentally wrong, it is human and important and above all it is social behavior. Commentators have usually been around for a long time and know the videos. Some will be worried or want to encourage her. A lot of viewers send her prayers. Speculation about whats going on is completely normal in human behavior and also indicates that someone is not indifferent to the other person (or something). I am convinced that you often do that yourself. So let Zar decide for herself when and how she reacts to speculation/questions. Even if you feel good about not asking her more personal questions, it is still legitimate for others to do so. Live long and prosper.
My mom has been gone 25 years. I still miss her so much. Never apologize for you loss. Sending love and hugs
So sweet seeing you all together! Your family is lovely! I hate that you feel you have to say or do things a certain way when it comes to your mom... 😔 You don't owe anyone an explanation and there's no timeline on grief! Please allow yourself to feel however you feel! Happy New Year to you all! I wish you all the best in this year!
This was such a nice treat. Zar, my mom passed away last Sept. and I can’t imagine not thinking or something would come up that would remind me of my mom. Everyone’s deal with grief differently. Just because our love one are not here doesn’t mean you can’t think or talk about them. ❤️ Thanks for sharing your beautiful family Christmas tradition. Through the years I love watching you guys dress up for Halloween and Christmas so cute. Have a happy healthy New Year. 🎄☃️🐶🎉🎊
you have a pure heart do amazing we all grieve in our own way,time doing your best is what counts you have a beautiful family
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us Zar❤
Happy happy New Year!!!❤❤❤❤ With those wonderful adorable sweet kids, you can't miss!! I'm so sorry you have to go through the sadness of missing your mom...😢 God Bless you all and May the New Year be filled with happiness and peace and love!! ❤
The kids riding off into the sunset in the Barbie car was a perfect end to the video!
Nothing wrong with mentioning your Mother. I just lost my Mommy ( i am 59) on December 4th this year and I am non stop talking about her and always will keeping her memory alive for my granddaughters as well. It has been a really hard time and its comforting hearing you mention your Mother too. Mothers are everything to some of us that were fortunate to have good ones. I miss my Mom so much it hurts. ❤
Btw absolutely love your matching Christmas pjs!!❤ The children's excitement is best‼️❤️
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YOUR A SWEETHEART, LET THE HATERS HANG! YOUR FEELINGS ARE YOU, AND TO BE SHARING THEM IS OPENING UP THAT SOME PEOPLE HATE THIER MOTHERS RELIESH YOUR MOTHER AND HER MEMORY AND WHAT YOU HAD. A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.
Merry Christmas and Happy New years 2025! Wow your children are just little angels! I am so glad that as a family all of you were together! I am not trying to fan any flames but please do not allow anyone to make you sad about remembering or missing your mom! We all deal with things differently and in our own time. Clearly you miss her as you would. and it hurts. Sending you lots of love and hugs.
Cant believe how fast time has passed. Sending lots of hearts and blessings
Zar I’m a huge fan of yours and live in the same city. Don’t let anyone say your need to deal with your moms passing, You lost your Mom far too young, I lost mine when she was 91 and I will always miss her. We talked twice a day. You feel however you feel Zar. Liala is too cute and excitable on Christmas morning. Happy New Year to you my wish for you is happiness and health.
Looks like you had a beautiful Christmas! Thank you for sharing with us such a special moment. ❤
You have such a beautiful and loving family. I am so happy for you 🥰 I wish you health, peace and happiness!
Couldn't imagine a better way to spend the holidays..... it's tough there's no time limits to greif.... yes we have to keep living.... but when we love someone that much its hard to not feel that loss frequently.... your doing great Mama! 🐧
So glad you had a great Christmas with Rowan and Lyla soo cute xxx love the PJs xxxx❤❤❤how cute Lyla was gibing Daddy his special socks xxxxxx🇦🇺🇦🇺👍👍😍😍
Zar, your mom and my mom passed around the sametime. My mom actually passed on Christmas day. I started following you because of our moms. The difference is, I was in my 50's, so she saw all the big events. My wedding, birth of my daughter, when I became a teacher. She was my best friend. I always felt it was so UNFAIR because you were so young! That will always hurt. I am thankful you have your beautiful children.
Love your Christmas Day. Everyone had so much fun. Xx
Thank you for sharing.
Zar. I feel you so deeply. I know that when I lose my mom it will feel like my life is over. I don't have a partner or any kids and I'm nearly 32. She is my world. I'm going to mention her multiple times a day until my day comes. Sometimes there is simply NO WAY to get over the grief. Sometimes that hole in our hearts is just never filled.
Thank you for sharing with us ! Zar you can talk about your mom anytime i too miss my mom and she passed in 2016 and the pain never goes away and then i lost my dad 2024 and it was very hard im still dialing with his lost it's not easy! Sending you hugs it was so nice to see the kids reaction its the best sending you all my love may God bless you all for the year 2025 and for ever ❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful family with us Zar ❤️ wishing you all a very happy, healthy, peaceful and prosperous New Year 🥰💜
My hen just hatched 7 chickens today so that makes 22 for us now! We stayed in the same routine as we homeschool. Husband only gets off Christmas day but his scedule is easy to work with. much love to your fam.
Merry Christmas and a happy new year to you and your family! 🥰🎅
Looks like a great Christmas! Nice family! Thanks for sharing!
Your children are the sweetest
I'm glad to see you all. ❤
Beautiful family with wonderful holiday memories that will last forever ♥♥♥♥
Abundant blessings of health, happiness and love to all of you in 2025 :) 🎄🎊
Looks like you had a wonderful Christmas….and keep talking about your mom…❤️…😊❤️🇨🇦
I lost my mom 12 years ago now and am much older than you and I still struggle with Christmas. I really try because I have grandchildren now but it is still a struggle. No one can tell you how to grieve or how ling it should take, feel your feelings and remember her as much as possible
Merry Christmas everyone
I am so with you that Christmas not being the same without a lov3d one.
I saw something that said 'This Christmas isn't Christmasing like previous Christmases have Christmased'
We are missing our dog and other family issues have made this Christmas just not the same
Happy New Year to all of you. Hope 2025 is a great one for all. I lost both my Parents now, so Xmas just isnt the same for me. But I still try to do the best for my Son and Grandchildren. Your Christmas was beautiful with the kids. So glad to see Ares as well.❤❤
Absolutely beautiful Christmas. The kids are so happy. You can talk about your mom anytime. Mine will be gone three yrs on the 30th. We talk about her everyday. It’s ok.
Happy New Year,such a lovely family ❤. What a beautiful and heartwarming Christmas. God bless sweet family……🍃♥️🍃
Zar, I totally understand...I've lost both my parents..they are gone, but never forgotten...
Me too.
gosh I am so sorry... sending you lots of love
@@vloggingblonde Thank you sending you lots of love too. God Bless.
Zar, this was an absolutely precious and such wonderful video! I love you for gifts too! We adults don't get gifts anymore, so it isn't quite as much fun. ) : But, Seeing the joy on my grandkid's faces, is my new joy at Christmas! ( : I adored watching the kids open their gifts at your house! They were sooo sweet and excited overall their toys! It was absolutely precious! ( : Thank you so much for sharing, Zar! Happy belated Chris band Happy New Year to you and all the family! ( : ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗
Merry Christmas...glad to see all of you ❤️
such a beautiful family
Happy New Year beautiful family ❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Merry Christmas Zar!! You’re doing so great!! Never give up! ❤
YAY you had Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 🎉 Such a fun Vlog. Airplane ✈️ 😮Switzerland 🇨🇭 🙏🤞I miss it 😅How nice if that's where you are headed. The Family must be SO Excited 🎉❤
Love seeing Herc!
Happy New Year Love and God Bless Y'all
Merry Christmas!
🙏Blessings for the New year 💫🌈.
LOVE🩷💙!!! God Bless, Zar 💗
Hey girl - I love your hair ❤ do you get it professionally coloured? If so, would love to know what you get done!
You are the mother now, Zar. Happy New Year!
yes I am ....but I also am still a daughter.
@@vloggingblonde Your Mom was with you I know it. Just like my Dad was with Me 😢 ❤
🎄🐧 Merry Christmas.
We grieve as long as we are alive. It’s called missing someone ! There should be no judgement from anyone
Merry christmas lovely family God bless from malta❤
I know what you mean about your mom! My mom loved Christmas so much! It’s not the same!
I am so sorry! Such a bittersweet time of year.... I keep hoping the magic will return!
@@vloggingblondeit will God knows how to get you to that place. And while you will always remember them. You can talk about them and still smile that's progress. 😊
Sweetie, Everyone deals with grief in their own way.I have lost a newborn, a still birth, an ectopic pregnancy, my parents, 6 of my 8 siblings, the father of my children, my sweetheart/ partner/best friend of 20 years and in Dec of '23 my daughter's brother in law( who was like my own children to me). It breaks us! Loss is forever. Whatever you feel is yours to feel. No one else knows how you feel. If talking about your mom helps you to remember her that's OK. My heart breaks for you.If you needs a shoulder and a listening ear,I'll be here for you!!! I'll listen.🫂🫂🫂
Your smartwatch looks so beautiful would you mind sharing the link to it? ❤
Cutest family on the internet!
aww thanks for saying that!!
Mention your mom as many times you want too. It would be fine if you wanted to mention her beginning of ever video. I lost my husband 3.5 years ago and I say something every day about him. that's my way of keeping him alive.🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
I know where you're coming from, Zar. My mom passed away in June 2024. Hence, it's our first time to spend Christmas and New Year without her.
Holidays aren’t the same when your parents are gone 😢
Oh my . Had a wonderful time, started with the flu, on Christmas Eve. Hubby started on 27th. We have coughed almost all the time. I'm now getting on my own nerves, it's now into January, this is taking too long.....
My daughter got that karaoke machine for Christmas. It stopped working by the 27th. I hope yours still works!
Guys!!! She doesn’t owe anybody an explanation about her relationship! Just because you watch her or have been watching for years doesn’t give you a right to know anything about her private life! She doesn’t even have to explain to her family! Never mind strangers on the internet. The entitlement is absolutely insane!
"Never mind strangers on the internet" - what about your comment then?
I would be at a loss entirely if I lost my mom, so I don't blame you for feeling that way. Just gotta remember that you're the mama now, so you gotta make the magic and answer the "what do we do now?" part for the kiddos and everyone else and make new traditions to cherish instead
Ohh trust me, I made that day as magical as possible for the kids! They deserve it and it was a great day!
Hi there. I wasn’t following for a long time and noticed that ares isn’t anymore to see. Now he is back with the kids for Christmas. May I asked what happened to you both?!
PS: since it’s your channel you may talk about your mom as much and as long as you like.
Best wishes from Austria 🌹🌹🌹
I’d love to buy one of the warm bucket hats, how do I do that?
Hi! here is the link :)
roly1.com/shop/hats/adult/bucket-hat/bucket-hats/?swcfpc=1
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Pj link and microphone link please
I know what you mean. I lost my mom 23 years ago 😢😢😢😢😢
Hi I’m trying to purchase a couple of your amazing hats can you please help I’m in New Zealand and I want two but will only let me add one to cart only.
Hi! Sorry about that! can you try again? I think it's fixed now! xo
@ thanks so much and I did my order. Can’t wait to get them. 🌻🌻🙏