Accountability (Red Flags #4 + #5)

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  • @theprofesionalist7927
    @theprofesionalist7927 8 месяцев назад +757

    My lord, the level of projection when she said that this guy was too attached to to his phone brand.

    • @limitlessinfinite2284
      @limitlessinfinite2284 8 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly!

    • @mrkiky
      @mrkiky 8 месяцев назад +14

      He's the one too attached because he's not willing to change it when she asks, but she's not too attached for asking such a ridiculous thing 😂

    • @dirtedeuce5936
      @dirtedeuce5936 8 месяцев назад +3

      How do we know he wont change phones? huh?@@mrkiky

    • @mrkiky
      @mrkiky 8 месяцев назад +10

      @@dirtedeuce5936 Because he didn't want to continue to see her based on her "joke".

    • @Monaleenian
      @Monaleenian 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@mrkiky He didn’t say that he wasn’t willing to change phones. He just didn’t want to go on a date with the woman because he believed that she was fixated on him having an Android rather than an iPhone.

  • @Retrosenescent
    @Retrosenescent 6 месяцев назад +73

    She bullied him and then gaslighted him when he was annoyed. Narcissism 101

  • @milanpolak
    @milanpolak 8 месяцев назад +2205

    The real red flag here is "women using TikTok to talk about their dates"...

    • @TheHamburgler123
      @TheHamburgler123 8 месяцев назад +116

      Especially at her age. It's frankly sad.

    • @TheGreatOldOak
      @TheGreatOldOak 8 месяцев назад +105

      I shorten that for you "Women using TikTok" is a red flag.

    • @markaurelius61
      @markaurelius61 8 месяцев назад

      There seems to be an industry of women who can't get men because of their own mindset but they spin it as Men are trash. As Hoe_math says, they learn nothing.

    • @a-t5380
      @a-t5380 8 месяцев назад +71

      ​@@TheGreatOldOak i kinda get it if they are still younger. but a grown women who appears to be in her 30s, talking about her dating life like a teenager is a massive red flag.

    • @lolwtnick4362
      @lolwtnick4362 8 месяцев назад +15

      hell yes. underrated comment. it's right under having an OF for me.

  • @earlgrey2130
    @earlgrey2130 8 месяцев назад +72

    The red flag is her finding it funny to devalue someone to demonstrate superiority. Especially if you are just getting to know each other and dont have a strong relationship that can take a punch and recover. We men want someone that raises us up, not someone that tears us down.

  • @kree0101
    @kree0101 8 месяцев назад +698

    "We'll let it slide" was also a red flag statement. As in - "I'll, graciously, give you permission to make decisions that differ from mine." Foh...

    • @NutritionPolice
      @NutritionPolice 8 месяцев назад +90

      @kree0101
      Totally agree. Joking about the android, not exactly a huge deal... "We'll let it slide" is a huge red flag.
      Says she is a control freak, immediately sees you as an object to whom she gets to dictate what you can and can't do, uses corporate double-speak (we instead of I for the perception of being on the same team), and just the general patronizing tone.
      The "we'll let it slide" was an immediate tell of how toxic she is

    • @kree0101
      @kree0101 8 месяцев назад +10

      @@NutritionPolice well-said!

    • @liborrajm2916
      @liborrajm2916 8 месяцев назад +21

      Agreed. As Orion from PsycHacks would say, she's putting herself above the man, thus disrespecting him and that's a huge turnoff for any decent self-respecting man.

    • @ashfordj81
      @ashfordj81 7 месяцев назад +8

      It's controlling language meant to show dominance.

    • @natureshorts6657
      @natureshorts6657 7 месяцев назад +10

      I've had women who were clearly "below" me say stuff like this to me, as if they were doing me a huge favor to even allow me to keep talking to them. I immediately told them to buzz off. Blows me away anyone behaves so poorly. Learn some manners.

  • @synchacker25
    @synchacker25 8 месяцев назад +11

    "You either dont know or wont admit why you make choices." That is a statement that more could be said with. So much of that goes in society its crazy.

    • @TopJazzCat
      @TopJazzCat 3 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely. I've received more anger for simply asking people to elaborate or substantiate their actions/positions/statements than anything else in my life.

  • @kevinlove2749
    @kevinlove2749 8 месяцев назад +601

    You’re doing more for humans than the mental health system

    • @JackCarsonite
      @JackCarsonite 8 месяцев назад

      Don't worry, women conned us into paying for every form of therapy on our insurance dime. 6 years of raises gone due to ACA (Obamacare). FJB (O'bama)

    • @decwow
      @decwow 8 месяцев назад

      that's because unlike the "mental health" system, he's attempting to actually tell the truth instead of generating captured customers for a "treatment plan".
      If it hasn't occurred to you yet, these "treatments" that never get to the causes of the problem are a product for sale. In other words, *_they're a subscription to "mental healthcare"._*

    • @bigmikeobama5314
      @bigmikeobama5314 8 месяцев назад +13

      i agree but that also isnt saying much

    • @dom8429
      @dom8429 8 месяцев назад

      if I could choose between the two I would pick having a mental health system, even if it's one that works really poorly, over some entertaining shorts any day. but you do you :)

    • @jellybean3144
      @jellybean3144 8 месяцев назад +3

      As someone who left the mental health field, I can't even explain how much I agree with this statement. If I'd had these flow charts 15 years ago...

  • @vladimpaler3498
    @vladimpaler3498 8 месяцев назад +711

    My wife (economics degree unused) once quipped to me (practicing engineer) that, "we should have one apple device." I replied, "No. I can get the same functionality for less money." She was afraid we would not be 'cool' and I was afraid we would look stupid.

    • @themanwithnoname9578
      @themanwithnoname9578 8 месяцев назад +31

      I'm literally a millionaire and I don't buy 15$ phone paying several hundreds to look cool.

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox 8 месяцев назад +45

      I guess we know why she thought it was important to spend all that money for a degree

    • @gwynedd1
      @gwynedd1 8 месяцев назад +43

      She is not entirely wrong. It depends on what you do,. If you are in a status seeking public relation field etc. that female instinct might be correct. If its just to impress neighbors and friends then its misplaced and an unnecessary expense.

    • @vladimpaler3498
      @vladimpaler3498 8 месяцев назад +11

      @@gwynedd1 If I considered the former case to be advancing by taking advantage of what I would consider people's foolishness.

    • @claytonwatts3518
      @claytonwatts3518 8 месяцев назад

      Apple uses Uighur Muslim child slaves to make most of their products. That is why they are worse. Made through their partnership with Foxconn. Also why Tim Cook celebrated Xi Jinping in San Francisco recently.

  • @rmglover3191
    @rmglover3191 8 месяцев назад +666

    this man's ability to collect, collate, map, illustrate and explain in such short intense videos is a true gift. glad for this channel.

    • @TheNumberXIII
      @TheNumberXIII 8 месяцев назад +16

      If people could only comprehend the amount of thought & effort that goes into producing content like this. @Hoe_math deserves way more recognition by ALL forms of media, not just RUclips.

    • @theBear89451
      @theBear89451 8 месяцев назад +3

      And on the other hand, there are iPhone users.

    • @domoxd3020
      @domoxd3020 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@theBear89451I’m guessing that his comments about iPhone users were more about a person being attached to the identity of having an iPhone (fitting in) - not the fact that they have an iPhone.
      I have an iPhone, and I like it better than android phones (conclusion) because I’m more familiar with the way that it functions, because I’ve used iPhones most of my life (premise)
      If society flipped the script and started shitting on iPhone users for not having an android, it would be the same thing

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 8 месяцев назад

      To be fair, he parrots a lot of right wing nonsense. “Diversity hire” as a way to discredit women in high paying positions… you know what they say, “When you’re accustomed to privilege equality feels like oppression.” Think about that for a second, readers.

    • @TheNumberXIII
      @TheNumberXIII 8 месяцев назад +4

      @nickthompson1812 He NEVER discredited anyone outright. But you cannot honestly say that 'diversity hired' people (including people of color, race, origin, sexuality, or gender) is choosing whom is best versus whom you have to include. This is done in a manner so as to give the appearance of equality.
      As for the equality feeling like oppression. Idk who came up with that but that doesn't even make sense. If 1 has privilege they don't care to see or notice equality because they will always be in a position of privilege. The entitlement that being in position of privilege affords them equality would end up them getting the same reward/benefits that the oppressed would receive. Think about that.

  • @TheSpicyLeg
    @TheSpicyLeg 8 месяцев назад +139

    So far today, my wife and I have watched videos where a woman felt more violated that a stranger she brought home woke up and helped himself to food in her fridge, and a woman who was more worried about the brand of phone someone used than his life goals, ambitions, values, or character.
    As I’ve been saying for years, loose sexual mores would lead to a total inversion of the normal relationship priorities. You’ll let another person in your body without knowing a damn thing about them, but lose your shit because they didn’t go to the right corporation for a device.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      yeh shes a dog

    • @phillip6083
      @phillip6083 8 месяцев назад +19

      And it has nothing to do with the device per-se.
      They are concerned what their friends will think.

    • @gwynedd1
      @gwynedd1 8 месяцев назад +7

      People will sooner sleep with someone then lend them their car keys.

    • @limitlessinfinite2284
      @limitlessinfinite2284 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@gwynedd1 allow someone inside their bodies, than inside their vehicles!?!? That's insane!

    • @chrismaina1830
      @chrismaina1830 3 месяца назад

      ​@@limitlessinfinite2284 personally i would...because i love my baby

  • @NoUsernameProvided
    @NoUsernameProvided 8 месяцев назад +120

    "you are so attached to your phone that you can't take the joke"
    - person who gives someone shit about what type of phone they use

    • @tmike_tc
      @tmike_tc 7 месяцев назад +5

      And then posts whining content online about it

    • @GoodVideos-ry5ie
      @GoodVideos-ry5ie 2 месяца назад

      She is narcissist past the age of 40, who still thinks she is entitle to something.

  • @Bidenmytime
    @Bidenmytime 6 месяцев назад +7

    Women absolutely buy into the "i paid more for it it means im better"
    To me it shows someone is lacking knowledge on their choices

  • @asura8495
    @asura8495 8 месяцев назад +555

    there are a bunch of "content creators" like her on tiktok and elsewhere, but realize that when faced with reality they are the people who even are rejected by match makers for being too insufferable to be matcheed.
    Like hoe_math said, these are the people who will still be single in 20 years

    • @waltgreen8759
      @waltgreen8759 8 месяцев назад +28

      I think she IS the one that was rejected by the matchmaker! looks the same.

    • @lastreagandemocrat
      @lastreagandemocrat 8 месяцев назад +19

      It's her.

    • @asura8495
      @asura8495 8 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@waltgreen8759 that's what I was referring to. outside of tiktok comment sections nobody agrees with them but recognises them as the walking red flag and flawed character they are

    • @SkellyTonn
      @SkellyTonn 8 месяцев назад

      [Her type would love to distinguish the difference that she is _dating!_ Not understanding that that itself is a problem at her age! When one is searching for perfection without compromise but not recognizing that has a very brief time-limit, she will continue in old-age still "dating" around like a dope! Standards and expectations insanely high, biologically-unaware and common-sense usage extremely low; but will guaranteed blame *ALL MEN* for her lack of success in finding Mister --Right-- Perfect and marrying him! All the while sharing her cookie with the Fckk-boy Giga-Chads who would never wife her up! KS was rite; _You can't make this sh¡t up!_ Smh😑☕]

    • @N4chtigall
      @N4chtigall 8 месяцев назад +24

      The issue is that she propably won't be single. Even if you are the worst, most insufferable, toxic women you will find a partner because there are plenty of low esteem man who will take you.

  • @AccidentlyHero
    @AccidentlyHero 8 месяцев назад +153

    “The Wall” certainly does exist. And I’m looking forward to hearing the explanation of its non-existence.

    • @elgenerico6263
      @elgenerico6263 7 месяцев назад

      The Wall doesn't exist because a lot of men in their 20s fetishize women in their 40s. There, I said the quiet part out loud.

    • @newplayer5433
      @newplayer5433 7 месяцев назад

      Good women are desireable. Old or young. Widows or divorced. There are alot of single men out there at their level (age, status, etc.) who will pursue them for a long-term relationship. Obviously the Andtew tates of the world will choose the pretty and stupid girls as concubines, but for the typical monogamous man, one good woman is the goal.

    • @petes2feet
      @petes2feet 7 месяцев назад +8

      I concur,

    • @JoeJ-8282
      @JoeJ-8282 7 месяцев назад +9

      Yes, the so-called "wall" DOES exist for women, however, it is totally different for each individual woman, and it's not necessarily always by or at any specific age for all...
      WHEN it actually happens for any one individual woman, definitely depends on MANY factors, including but not limited to her lifestyle, habits, level of self awareness and Spiritual enlightenment, her overall physical health and fitness, her attitudes, moral standards and values, etc, among other individually important things, and that is also why it is such a misunderstood and disagreed upon concept, especially as to when or even "if" it actually exists...
      It DOES happen for every woman eventually, and to some it happens considerably sooner in life than for others, but the actual "line" of the "wall" is actually quite "blurry", and not really a definitive "line" or "wall", but instead it's more of a very large and gradual curve "speed bump", or rather a large hill or even mountain that women go over, and usually it's SO gradual that most of the time they don't even realize that they're going over it, rather than it simply being just a solid, flat faced, all of a sudden, immediately in your face, "brick wall" that they splatter into, lol!...
      Of course SOME women actually DO have that latter kind of "all of a sudden" experience, but I would say that the mass majority of them don't even know or realize what's happening to them until well after it's already too late for them to actually do anything to change or improve their life situation! (Unfortunately for them!... Then they just complain about their bad choices in life on TikTok, without ever taking any kind of accountability or responsibility for their continued bad decisions in life, LOL!... But those types of women we can ALL (hopefully) learn from at least, as to what NOT to do, and they also make for some greatly informative videos too, on channels like this one! Lessons learned... At least by others watching them... Probably not ever the women themselves who make said rather sad and pathetic video clips tho'!... Oh well.)

    • @skachor
      @skachor 7 месяцев назад +3

      The wall is just male sour grapes.

  • @harmlesscreationsofthegree1248
    @harmlesscreationsofthegree1248 8 месяцев назад +148

    To be fair, this had nothing to do with phones and everything to do with diminishing who she sees as the enemy, men. Any thing he did or said in those first few interactions that remotely sticks out to her will get attacked. She’s poisonous and selfish, but her worst feature certainly isn’t her brand loyalty to her phone.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 8 месяцев назад +19

      If not the phone, then she would have found something else. I've had women reject me for wearing a hat of a sports team she doesn't like, driving a car made by a company she doesn't like, enjoying the wrong kind of music or movies etc.

    • @TheodoreChin-ih7xz
      @TheodoreChin-ih7xz 8 месяцев назад +4

      100%

    • @kbruff2010
      @kbruff2010 6 месяцев назад +2

      Amen

  • @adamx7526
    @adamx7526 8 месяцев назад +5

    "I don't want this to be the rest of my life" is the definite winner here. Well done, sir.

  • @IsaacFoster..
    @IsaacFoster.. 8 месяцев назад +174

    Imagine going up to a match and seeing her wearing clothes you don't like and saying "oh, you wear those? That's a red flag", you obviously shouldn't be expecting her to stay.

    • @hans6500
      @hans6500 8 месяцев назад +16

      I will admit I was close to saying just that a few years ago when I dated a woman wearing pantherprint leggings on the date 🤐

    • @nalinmyhand8928
      @nalinmyhand8928 8 месяцев назад +8

      You haven’t seen the beef between Nike vs Adidas apparel 😂

    • @mstrikesback168
      @mstrikesback168 8 месяцев назад

      Adidas all the way! haha @@nalinmyhand8928

    • @mstrikesback168
      @mstrikesback168 8 месяцев назад +5

      Women dress horrific these days. So chances are, any that I find attractive are going to have a terrible wardrobes. That's where taking charge comes in. A man says what he wants and doesnt accept anything less.

    • @phillip6083
      @phillip6083 8 месяцев назад +2

      You mean like....
      Crocs?

  • @mysterymastermind175
    @mysterymastermind175 8 месяцев назад +32

    I call what women like Danielle "Phone Friends". It comes from the Movie "Her" where this loser guy falls in love with the AI companion in his phone. Basically, once women feel the dopamine kick of getting validated by strangers online they mentally fuse social media and their phone into a single entity that they treat like a person. They confide to it like a therapist and post their darkest secrets and dirty laundry failing to realize that anyone can look it up and see it.

    • @dirtedeuce5936
      @dirtedeuce5936 8 месяцев назад

      makes sense but they dont realize anyone can look it up? how not? or is it they dont care if its bad or good attention

    • @mysterymastermind175
      @mysterymastermind175 8 месяцев назад

      @@dirtedeuce5936 its an impulse. The same way a crack addict just chases a high, so do phone frienders chase the high of validation and attention.

    • @Elross_
      @Elross_ 7 месяцев назад

      @@dirtedeuce5936 Any attention is attention

  • @uncomprehendablename
    @uncomprehendablename 8 месяцев назад +151

    On the topic of “the wall,” you said that it doesn’t exist. Grifters may have diluted the term just like every other buzzword. “The wall” isn’t a specific age. It is a milestone where women can no longer get the attention the from the men they actually want. I don’t remember attractive men kicking down Betty White’s door in her golden years. That’s all the term “hitting the wall” means.

    • @NAPtubexvii
      @NAPtubexvii 8 месяцев назад +48

      He literally draws a line graph of men and women ages in his earlier videos and says after a certain age it's over for relationships. While he doesn't call it the wall, that's exactly what it is lol.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад +8

      between 30 and 40 latest (usually 35)

    • @qcriverrat
      @qcriverrat 8 месяцев назад +9

      I don't entirely disagree, but I think women have figured out ways to keep themselves relevant at any age. I know women who are in their 50's and stay in shape and get attraction from guys of all ages. In that sense I don't think the wall exists for them. And I don't think it's a limited number of women. In fact, I'd say it is true of almost all women who simply are not fat.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      Yeh younger guys use them for practise@@qcriverrat

    • @franciskeys9810
      @franciskeys9810 8 месяцев назад +15

      @@qcriverratThis is also true of men. Take care of yourself and you won't look like hell at 30. That means don't eat every goddamned piece of cake, don't smoke cigarettes, don't drink constantly, get some exercise, get some sleep. Generalizing this stuff across the population gets all fucked up by the people who are already circling the drain. It's probably more of a bimodal distribution than a normalized curve.

  • @photon4076
    @photon4076 8 месяцев назад +7

    Since I read an article about playing at status recently, I think I see what she was going for: It was a set-up for him to show dominance by responding with a better joke. She is trying to do the teasing-kind of flirting or at least giving the opportunity for it. He could have gone for the counter-insult ("To each their own I guess, some people care about a phone's compatibility and better hardware, others care about paying more money for their phone.") or the agree-and-amplify ("Are you sure you want to let it slide? What phone will we give our children when they turn three?"). Though if he doesn't like that style of interaction, good on him for bowing out.

    • @PolishedX
      @PolishedX 8 месяцев назад

      Can you share that, please? Now I'm curious.

    • @mgancarzjr
      @mgancarzjr 7 месяцев назад +4

      Whining about compatibility or hardware makes you sound like a nerd. It's not a comeback. It's cope.
      If you can't come up with something witty, just forget it.

  • @N4chtigall
    @N4chtigall 8 месяцев назад +119

    I find it interesting that what those women consider a "joke" is usually just something (usually stupid) that they got negative response for. They can't take accountability for their actions so instead they just say that it was a "joke" and that someone doesn't have sense of humor. Seriously, just take a look at women content creators who create girlboss/high value women content and you will realize how often they use this tactic.

    • @allefranz9031
      @allefranz9031 8 месяцев назад +16

      It's a case of Schrodinger's D-Bag. It's just a cop out for a person who is not being funny the majority of the time and exists in a state of being offensive and not being offensive all at the same time. It's purely dependent on your observation and response. There is the case of a forever offended victim mentality/does not like a person's joke because they just don't like the person. Some exhibit the victim mentality mindset so I think that should be taken into account when making jokes. I think in this case the joke was not funny.

    • @bitharne
      @bitharne 8 месяцев назад +20

      This is exactly why they can’t understand when jokes are explained to be jokes:
      They know that THEY use that phrase to hide the bad/evil things they do so when we’re explaining that Chapelles stuff are JOKES then these people only relate that to hiding their evil so double down on “it’s evil”.
      If they makes sense.
      People being unable to understand others don’t have their own brain and projecting their own feelings explains liek 99% of all these weird actions happening.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      u dont know what narcissism means, its overused.. and a narcissist wouldnt backpedal like that would they@_zantetsuken_

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад +2

      good point@@bitharne

    • @Volkbrecht
      @Volkbrecht 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@bitharne Not quite. What makes a joke a joke is the subversion of expectations. There is this saying: you can't be funny without a little malice. Being a bit nasty every now and then can indeed be funny, when it is unexpected. And, and herein lies the problem, when the person you are nasty towards likes you. Having your expectations subverted results in cognitive dissonance, and in that state the gut reaction, either anger or laughter, depends entirely on context. If it's a famous comedian like Chapelle on a stage obviously trying to entertain, you'll probably laugh, because that's why you're in the audience. If it's a douche you hardly know and still trying to find out if you can trust and like them, it will backfire. Which is why the mean type of joke usually comes later in a relationship, when both sides know that it's just a bit of rough teasing.
      My guess is a lot of these people have seen this kind of teasing behaviour with their parents or other elders, and try to imitate. Only they don't have a good grasp on the necessary context. This is where Hanlon's razor comes into play: never explain with malice that which you can sufficiently explain with stupidity. Another issue is that your personal appeal does influence the effectiveness of your jokes. If you are regarded as attractive, you actually WILL get laughs. This plays back into my initial point of context.

  • @p4punkrock
    @p4punkrock 5 месяцев назад +3

    I literally love you. This is my first video of yours that I've watched, and you deserve government grants to continue your work. Thank you for your service.

  • @txDDS
    @txDDS 8 месяцев назад +150

    "CONCUBINE TO A DRUG WARLORD" is going into the insult rotation for the next couple months.

    • @ComicusFreemanius
      @ComicusFreemanius 8 месяцев назад

      You smell like a turtle tank.

    • @Flesh_Wizard
      @Flesh_Wizard 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@ShannonBarber78I would like if she kept it a secret, unless she actually intends to do it so that way I see a sign that I should GTFO

    • @theycallmedoorway9913
      @theycallmedoorway9913 8 месяцев назад +3

      Change "drug lord" to Mafioso or gang member and women would see that as a compliment.

    • @matthiasthulman4058
      @matthiasthulman4058 8 месяцев назад

      ​@ShannonBarber78 I mean, you say that with the hopes of it being consensual.
      Warlord doesn't really scream consent lol

    • @mrkiky
      @mrkiky 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@ShannonBarber78 As long as she's rational enough to keep it a fantasy and the idea of actually being a concubine to a druglord would be terrifying in the same way I can shoot people in videogames, but the idea of shooting people in real life while getting shot at is actually terrifying. It's not about keeping it a secret, it's about distinguishing between fantasy/roleplay and reality.

  • @DoomCycle
    @DoomCycle 6 месяцев назад +4

    HUGE W for that dude not simping out

  • @aygwm
    @aygwm 8 месяцев назад +62

    If she’s on TikTok that’s generally a red flag

    • @SnabbKassa
      @SnabbKassa Месяц назад

      The rule used to be "If you go to someone's place and they don't have any books, get out." Now I would just ask if they use tiktok. Instant dealbreaker. We KNOW Chinese govt uses it to spread discord and push their agenda.

  • @carbon1479
    @carbon1479 8 месяцев назад +3

    3:04 - Negging doesn't always work, and sometimes the content of the neg tells people way more than what was intended.

    • @IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature
      @IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature 7 месяцев назад +1

      It also was likely less of a joke and more of a pointed comment she finds funny because it gives her a sense of superiority.

    • @carbon1479
      @carbon1479 7 месяцев назад

      @@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature superiority without effort is the best kind.

  • @1Thatstrangeguy
    @1Thatstrangeguy 8 месяцев назад +38

    Online dating is pure evil. She is acting smug and attacking him because in her mind her phone is literally bursting with texts of men willing to give her validation, Which to a point is true but how many of those men are actually a likely match for her?

    • @thenightcreeper
      @thenightcreeper 8 месяцев назад +3

      I guess it is like a kid with unlimited amounts of "bad for you" junk food, the average 30 year old, single women if she has 4 working limbs and a slightly above average head attached to a warm body believe me she has 100 men giving her validation, if 10 annoy her she can get 10 more within seconds, they will be categorized into simps and chads depending on her needs at the time. So when say a good for her stick of celery comes along she already has an unlimited supply of candy, chocolate and chips on demand, the fact something is the best match for her is irrelevant, it never appears to her that IT IS THE BEST OPTION because she is too deep in her bad choices and has too many of them (this is the reason we hear all men are the same because they chose a new bad choice to replace the old bad choice and never learn). Another analogy i like is water, the woman is drowning in options, they don't need to drink from the cup of men under an 8, men on the other hand are usually dying of thirst and that is why they drink anything they can get, even sea water or bleach, (this is why a lot simp for toxic women and think it is love). It is hard to see the other sides perspective I guess if your depending on your own limited experiences.

    • @SecretMarsupial
      @SecretMarsupial 8 месяцев назад

      @@thenightcreeper
      Real shit alert

    • @TheSuperappelflap
      @TheSuperappelflap 4 месяца назад

      none, she needs to become qualified to be a wife first

  • @pettersonystrawman9291
    @pettersonystrawman9291 8 месяцев назад +3

    This content is so great and I just hope more people see it. For the longest time I couldn't quite formulate this approach to life of looking where the decision leads in the long run and rejecting the neurosis of just making stupid decisions now and crying about it later.

  • @elijahwilson1422
    @elijahwilson1422 8 месяцев назад +48

    Years ago on Plenty Of Fish a Woman matched with me and sent me a DM and we had a lot in common including used to live close to each other. But then she ignores me and two weeks later she says in her bio that Men are assholes, when she had sent me a message it was an entirely different bio. So I called her out on the fact she wasted two weeks avoiding giving me a chance and then she aggressively "kids around" with me with backhanded remarks. Then goes ghost, it was at that moment I figured out WHY whoever she had spent those two weeks with dating or communicating acted like an asshole towards her.

    • @GlomezAtomZ
      @GlomezAtomZ 8 месяцев назад

      She wasn't hot enough to attract an audience, so she made you into a proxy for one.

    • @gwynedd1
      @gwynedd1 8 месяцев назад

      Assholes tend to go into operation when the shit arrives.

  • @yelinnmyat7126
    @yelinnmyat7126 4 месяца назад +7

    My man has infinite content. Truely living an abundance lifestyle.

  • @cizzymac
    @cizzymac 8 месяцев назад +243

    Ironic in a video about accountability they don't want you to use their names they use publicly on their social media accounts.

    • @cantrun5491
      @cantrun5491 8 месяцев назад +21

      its his choice. he probably just dont like singling out people and making it feel like a personal attack, so he rather just expose the problem and not the individual

    • @NicTheFreak02
      @NicTheFreak02 8 месяцев назад +28

      He's trying not to give them more publicity and/or doesn't want the narrative to dressed up as "bullying" bc the circle wagon will come after him for nonsense.

    • @janpeszek5897
      @janpeszek5897 8 месяцев назад +6

      Public doesn't need to know her name, since It's not about accountability to society, but to herself. It's a different ''type'' of accountability and has nothing to do with public scrutiny.

    • @OneNiftyBoi
      @OneNiftyBoi 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@NicTheFreak02 Yea more to do with RUclips's "community gudelines"

    • @moenibus
      @moenibus 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@janpeszek5897it's a public post. she lost her right to privacy, the moment she posted with her real name

  • @sebastianharrison6118
    @sebastianharrison6118 8 месяцев назад +2

    Hey just wanted to say thank you for your hard work just got out of a 5-year relationship thank God I had found your channel thanks for all the good advice and words of wisdom

  • @Rikki-Tikki-Tavi
    @Rikki-Tikki-Tavi 8 месяцев назад +49

    I've aged out of all of this. Its bittersweet, but I'm ultimately thankful.

    • @sc2836w
      @sc2836w 8 месяцев назад

      Really happy for you! May I ask if you know how that attitude was adopted to begin with?

    • @tonyb8660
      @tonyb8660 6 месяцев назад

      heard that

    • @rickiecomeaux8287
      @rickiecomeaux8287 3 месяца назад +2

      During the 70s, my classmates called me your username.

    • @shawndavis4837
      @shawndavis4837 2 месяца назад

      I feel you.

  • @vladibalan
    @vladibalan 6 месяцев назад +1

    "Better choices don't get an audience of half a million" - this is the gem of this video and our society in a nutshell. Pay more attention to people doing admirable stuff and less to delulus. That would be a start in the right direction.

  • @homemetalstudios759
    @homemetalstudios759 8 месяцев назад +18

    im so glad my wife of 10 years cheated on me early, so i don't have to deal with this crap with kids and an aging body. i feel for the older crowd that get left by women hitting their mid life crisis and throw their families away.

  • @caspertoo
    @caspertoo 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love that I learn new words and some of your videos such as intransigence. I had to look it up and I’m glad I did.

  • @sleepydragonzarinthal3533
    @sleepydragonzarinthal3533 8 месяцев назад +41

    "it's a turnoff that YOU are so attached to your phone that you can't take the joke" he's not attached to it, there was no joke, nothing was funny, and she is the one fixated on it lmao she came out of the gate giving him shit about his phone, an indication of HER insecurity of image with technology, which is already off putting, but she kept it up. He didn't give the response that comforted her insecurity so she dug in rather than back off. So let's add it up, she is arrogant even though her personality is based on crowd following, she so stubborn and incapable of taking responsibility and admitting she was wrong EVEN INDIRECTLY that she has to keep doing one thing until she gets the outcome she wants no matter how hard it fails. Thent o top it oall off, she parades it around the town square claiming it's his problem and she is just fine. She wears her red flags like a cape, which is pretty heroic, because if someone so mindlessly insecure and vapid actually hid their flaws with the same level of refusal to fix them and mature, she would be ruining lives. At least she has the decency to flaunt her lunacy for all to see and drive men away before they invest any time or emotion. I assure you, if said Android user saw her reaction to him, he is certainly thinking "damn, dodged the biggest bullet ever, she demands everything and offers nothing"

    • @GlomezAtomZ
      @GlomezAtomZ 8 месяцев назад

      Considering how old she looks, she probably hasn't gotten the memo that Mode 1 and The Rational Male have been published. So she still thinks insulting men is flirting. Meanwhile men, even stupid ones, are being advised to take mild displays of contempt at face value. LOL

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад +4

      yeh crazy how she tried to switch it on him wtf

    • @GlomezAtomZ
      @GlomezAtomZ 8 месяцев назад +1

      She could say that, but he could also say what Rollo recommends but with your actions. The verbal sentence to say to this is the following: "Why'd you act unavailable, stupid?"@@DeadManWalking-ym1oo

  • @SeanMerritt-k5u
    @SeanMerritt-k5u 6 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely love finding actual wit on YT, congratulations sir on not only speaking English well but for challenging everyone, not just women, to think. Keep up the fine work my friend, the truth shall set some of us free…

  • @MylesKillis
    @MylesKillis 8 месяцев назад +35

    When it comes to the wall I like to think of women as birds. Flying high and enjoying life. As they get older though they can only fly so high because they lack the strength to keep up. They can continue to try to fly high with other younger birds and occasionally a young male who’s coasting will entertain her or they can fly lower with the rest of the older birds. But they will never dominate the upper limits anymore.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад +7

      This is a perfect analogy.

    • @SecretMarsupial
      @SecretMarsupial 8 месяцев назад +6

      True, but damn, if that ain’t all of us eventually in a way.

    • @riperboyxl3216
      @riperboyxl3216 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@SecretMarsupialit's the same for us all, but man are used to loneliness as contrary to woman that's why they become nuts, but yeah we all eventually end fkd up

  • @peterv5935
    @peterv5935 8 месяцев назад +1

    Cultivating self awareness is a deeply humbling, personal endeavor that usually requires perseverance through suffering and loss to properly achieve. Most people who have it didn't even set out to get it, it just happened to them after a long struggle. Either way, when you know you know, and there's no going back.

  • @chuntoon1
    @chuntoon1 8 месяцев назад +58

    In your video, you discussed receiving hateful comments, which resonates with Nietzsche's observation about new philosophers or "free spirits." He noted that those who challenge established norms and question deep-seated beliefs often face hostility. Like these thinkers, your innovative ideas may unsettle the status quo, leading to misunderstanding and fear. Nietzsche understood that such a path can be lonely, with unconventional thinkers sometimes viewed as outsiders. Remember, this hostility often stems from the discomfort your truths provoke, a natural reaction when confronting the 'herd mentality.' Your work is important, and like Nietzsche's philosophers, you're pushing boundaries, which, though challenging, is a sign of meaningful impact. Keep inspiring with your unique perspective!

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov 8 месяцев назад +3

      Most people reading this will they’re the unique thinkers

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад +2

      his ideas aint innovative, plenty of men talk about the same things, hes good at illustrating the points in succinct ways.. and hes talking against women and Feminists, you aint allowed to point things out like that in a gynocentric society without getting tonnes of women screeching about it

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov 8 месяцев назад

      @@spiff1 Doesn’t matter. Influence is what counts.

    • @chuntoon1
      @chuntoon1 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@MikhailFederov I've yet to meet 2 people who agree on everything. Aren't we all unique thinkers?
      I just think some people's thoughts are better

    • @chuntoon1
      @chuntoon1 8 месяцев назад

      @@spiff1 His ideas are innovative, if only the thoughts he has on how to present other people's ideas in a new way, illustrating and talking. The idea of the presentation is an idea .. never mind the things he says are his interpolation of other people's ideas, and therefore, I'd agree, also new and innovative.

  • @DarkTrapStudio
    @DarkTrapStudio 2 месяца назад

    Thanks brother this is a blessing, Im really appreciative of your work and it serve a great purpose for Most Modern Countries wich is an epic thing.

  • @canadsian2747
    @canadsian2747 8 месяцев назад +207

    A fear of mine is, once I'm as old as this woman, that I am as lacking in awareness as she is and am thus unable to continue to grow.
    A healthy dose of introspection is so important.

    • @JonSkulemowski1
      @JonSkulemowski1 8 месяцев назад +30

      You're fine. She is not open to new information, certainly not intellectually curious. You being here means that your worldview is inherently better than hers.

    • @asura8495
      @asura8495 8 месяцев назад

      they grow by becoming even more arrogant, "discovering their true worth", raising their standarts even higher. so basically they grow in delusion instead of maturitty

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад +14

      @@JonSkulemowski1Depends on if OP is open to facing past hurts -- that's usually why people block off new information, because it requires introspection about dealing with roadblocks and life's hiccups that prevent them from advancing.

    • @JonSkulemowski1
      @JonSkulemowski1 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@Billy-bc8pk nah, she's operating at a pretty high level. She's thinking about thinking unbound by time.

    • @isodoubIet
      @isodoubIet 8 месяцев назад +8

      I don't think this woman is capable of the level of introspection displayed in this post.

  • @Wurps
    @Wurps 8 месяцев назад +3

    If you try to disprove the wall (regardless of validity) you will be further enabling geriatric hypergamy-maxxing. Your grandmother will be hunting for chad on tinder like she owns the place

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      hahaha

  • @billybanter9573
    @billybanter9573 8 месяцев назад +23

    This is literally the best rejection story.

    • @anj000
      @anj000 8 месяцев назад +6

      Literally!

    • @dearthditch
      @dearthditch 2 месяца назад

      He literally dodged a literal bullet. Her voice alone literally kills any sex drive

  • @Jestokost
    @Jestokost 8 месяцев назад +3

    Not that it *really* matters, but my inner tech nerd demands I mention that Androids are less “better hardware” and more “better per dollar” and “more varied hardware” vs. Apple. iPhone cameras and display tech are generally on par or better than the Android flagships, and their processors have been the best in the business for about a decade now. But, even in the areas that Apple leads in, Android can get you 85-90% of the way there for 60% the money. The diversity of Android models also makes a lot of them better suited for specific professional or hobby tasks than the more generalist/media-focused iPhones, though Apple’s software does make them pretty dominant within that specific media/content creation realm.
    Of course, all that said, the weird status symbol thing remains inexcusable.

  • @Jeff-cn9up
    @Jeff-cn9up 8 месяцев назад +15

    My man, you intend to go up against "the wall"?
    The wall is undefeated. Doubt you'll be the first past it, but this should be interesting,

    • @HateBear-real
      @HateBear-real Месяц назад

      He's just wrong. Typical that a degenerate like OP would be purple pill.

  • @farmthestars3962
    @farmthestars3962 8 месяцев назад +2

    Imagine dating someone who shames you for your texts being a different color.

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 8 месяцев назад

      I think it’s hard to tease in the beginning of a relationship and have it be known it’s a joke. ESPECIALLY over text. Once I texted a girl, she replied a few hours later and I said “Hey! About time 😅”
      I realized I did the same thing, gaslighting. It’s hard to tease without it being gaslighting. Probably just not a good idea in the beginning.

  • @Billy-bc8pk
    @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад +88

    There is a limited amount of time if you want to start a family, and waiting too late means there is a very small chance of that ever happening. For men, there is still some leeway if they are older but marry someone younger, but for women those chances drop extremely low at 35+ and practically nil at 40+.

    • @AJDaEnvoy
      @AJDaEnvoy 8 месяцев назад +14

      I'm 30 (male) and single and the whole dating thing plus trying to settle down and start a family just feels exhausting at this point. I am questioning how much is it worth it in the end because it can look depressing but being alone can also look that way. It's just stressing me out figuring when is the "right" time to do it

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад +14

      @@AJDaEnvoyI completely understand your pain, man. I will say this, a lot of it depends on where you look and how you look. For many of us it's a bit too late, because once you hit your 40s+ the pickings become less than slim. However, at 30 you still have some good options. If you're not religious, it will be hard for you, no doubts about it. If you are religious, then you can try a few Christian single communities where you can attempt to find someone who you can bond with over your religious/political beliefs. However, if you're trying to find someone on the basic secular apps, you likely won't be able to find someone who isn't just looking for a Peter Bob to take care of them after they had all their fun with Chad.

    • @SkellyTonn
      @SkellyTonn 8 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@AJDaEnvoy[Travel to Asian countries, see first-hand in what way family is still possible! Research their laws, customs and their negatives! Doesn't have to be Asian countries, but your options drastically improve with vetting and making a life where your earnings carry more weight! Bring a net-positive to that place and you'll potentially have a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment in your concerns! Bottom line, travel the world!🙏🏼😎]

    • @AJDaEnvoy
      @AJDaEnvoy 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Billy-bc8pk I am religious, not Christian though. Have used some apps, and it's confusing because you get mixed signals. I just feel like it's an exhaustive task and it feels draining to find someone rather than being this uplifting life-changing thing I was led to believe. I feel more anxious than excited about settling down and I think that would negatively impact my chances or the relationship in general. It's a tough position to be in.

    • @AJDaEnvoy
      @AJDaEnvoy 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@SkellyTonn Not opposed travelling the world but my life set up is in my country, so trying to move abroad permanently sounds like a whole other issue in itself.

  • @fiat_ow7876
    @fiat_ow7876 8 месяцев назад +1

    Women: “Look at me, I am making horrible decisions! Are you looking at me?”

  • @palazzo1113
    @palazzo1113 8 месяцев назад +17

    Around the 1:21 mark, this lady lets out a fart. And I think that's hilarious considering she then says she had to give the guy "a little sh!t" right after. Life is great sometimes.

    • @TheHamburgler123
      @TheHamburgler123 8 месяцев назад +7

      Holy shit, I can't unhear it. Props to you for discovered that.

    • @palazzo1113
      @palazzo1113 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@TheHamburgler123 I accept my new title as Fart Detective! Hahaha

    • @rajpatel8988
      @rajpatel8988 8 месяцев назад +1

      Lol

    • @dharmadasa66
      @dharmadasa66 8 месяцев назад +5

      They always tell on themselves. Quite apt.

    • @palazzo1113
      @palazzo1113 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@dharmadasa66and smell on themselves...
      I'm sorry.

  • @BenjaminIdle
    @BenjaminIdle 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am very impressed with how well you approximate the speaking patterns and aesthetic of an intellectually competent person, even though you're an autustic teenager.

  • @raymondpontemayor9474
    @raymondpontemayor9474 8 месяцев назад +17

    Thank you for informing the masses! We need more people like you to keep the world turning.

  • @willshad
    @willshad 8 месяцев назад +2

    The most amazing thing to me here is that a decent looking, thin woman actually matched with a man on a dating app and wanted to go on a date with him. I want to know how that guy got to the point of being in the position to reject a woman like that for her 'joke'. I'm guessing she made the story up for content purposes. No man in reality would pass up a date with her for such a small reason.

  • @AkiRa22084
    @AkiRa22084 8 месяцев назад +44

    The wall is very real. My mother gave birth to me when she was 36 and we both almost died.
    Women above 35, IIRC, have something like 90 percent of their ovums gone or non-viable, due to free radicals, cosmic rays, radiation, wear and tear, etc. that's happening throughout their lifetime

    • @NAPtubexvii
      @NAPtubexvii 8 месяцев назад +9

      He literally draws a line graph of ages in his earlier videos. While he doesn't call it the wall, it's exactly what it is.

    • @AkiRa22084
      @AkiRa22084 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@NAPtubexvii Oh, yeah, I remember that. Good memory.
      I hope he remembers too.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад +5

      pregnancy above 35 is known as a geriatric pregnancy

    • @AkiRa22084
      @AkiRa22084 8 месяцев назад

      @@spiff1 True.
      Hmm, I heard that geriatric pregnancy has bigger chance of deformities than inbreeding 20 year olds...

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      lol jeez, i better get a woman under 35, i'm 41.. also another fun fact, the older you get as a man, the more chance your child will be a girl@@AkiRa22084

  • @birdcall2422
    @birdcall2422 8 месяцев назад

    The first video I’ve seen by this dude and I love it, how you took the time to make a diagram is hilarious. Effort was put into this content and I’m subscribing because of it

  • @BrettLane256
    @BrettLane256 8 месяцев назад +40

    I've mentally gone through the same flow chart many times when i see a girl with an iPhone who makes a big deal about it. As a tech guy, i get that those who've had iPhones their whole lives like them for their convenience, but also as a tech guy i hate you can't find anything you're looking for on them if it's anywhere not on the beaten path they expect (or from some opinions, the path the Apple designers want you to go). It's an experience.
    While i was in college, i had two rules for girls i wouldn't date, and they were "if she didn't have a job/weren't trying to pay her own way" and "if she had an iPhone" haha. Now, I've eased back on these over the years since, because i don't wanna put people in boxes, but apparently people wanna be categorized these days so idk man

    • @Emolovesblack28451
      @Emolovesblack28451 8 месяцев назад +1

      I want to say, I got an iPhone because I wanted an Apple Watch and they wouldn’t work with Android. But I also really appreciate the privacy/no tracking options

    • @BrettLane256
      @BrettLane256 8 месяцев назад

      @@Emolovesblack28451 that's pretty cool! Then yeah, there you go! Those watches are really nifty, I've got a friend who has one and he's got it set up as a photo remote for his phone and other cool stuff.

    • @rogerm3708
      @rogerm3708 8 месяцев назад

      @@Emolovesblack28451 I always had Android but got a used Iphone from family because I wanted an Apple watch. I only use the phone now a few times a day for the larger screen and taking pictures

    • @Kydino
      @Kydino 8 месяцев назад +4

      Same thing, she can be stupid as much as she wants but decking on a guy for using android? REALLY? a &¨*#@ Phone OS brand is enough to tick you off? I know in truth it's not really the phone's fault and she's simply using any random thing to put down the guy but holy hell did that tick me off.

    • @blipblap614
      @blipblap614 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Emolovesblack28451 As a business, you can buy Apple Search Ads, same as Google. They exempt themselves from the "no tracking" permission. (All this stuff is anonymized, so it's kind of a moot point.)
      Think of a female celebrity. Google her name, plus the word "nude." The results are from her iPhone. That's the security you get with Apple, where 8 GB memory or 256 MB storage is a $200 upgrade.

  • @christianmires5128
    @christianmires5128 5 месяцев назад

    Some of these women take it so personally when they are the ones getting rejected.

  • @carls9310
    @carls9310 8 месяцев назад +8

    You simply cannot save self-saboteurs...nor should you attempt to.

  • @Jalreal
    @Jalreal 8 месяцев назад +1

    That "joke" isn't all the bad and him rejecting her over it that quickly is pretty harsh. But nothing occurs in a vacuum so she has to realize that "joke" is OOOOOOOLD and tired, lol. It makes sense he would be like yeah nah I know where this goes.

    • @spiff1
      @spiff1 8 месяцев назад

      he was right about her, this video proved it

  • @PinkMonkeyBird
    @PinkMonkeyBird 8 месяцев назад +47

    I don't know who advised you to remove names.
    They are posting publicly online, I kind of hate this idea people have that you're allowed to claim some sort of private ownership or privacy concerns over content you post publicly online.
    Criticism is an expected outcome of content generation.
    Can't deal? Don't post.

    • @tgheretford
      @tgheretford 8 месяцев назад +17

      Even if their names and faces are public, they could make a privacy complaint to RUclips. I've known it screw up channels before when someone made a complaint about their privacy being violated. Better to be safe than have your channel shut down.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад +12

      Actually YT has some rules in place where you can get a strike if it appears your content is "targeting" someone else. That's why the whole callout suib-culture has faded away.

    • @PinkMonkeyBird
      @PinkMonkeyBird 8 месяцев назад +14

      @@tgheretford Hence my distaste for these fucking crybully enabling policies. RUclips should do better.

    • @michaelbuddy
      @michaelbuddy 8 месяцев назад

      @@PinkMonkeyBird they don't like reality and accountability being introduced here on RUclips. They want people dumb, distracted and entering into really stupid financial contracts with demons like this iPhone lady.

    • @gregoryporch8395
      @gregoryporch8395 8 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@Billy-bc8pkCalling someone out isn't subculture, insulation from being called out is a luxury the real world doesn't offer.

  • @igooog
    @igooog 8 месяцев назад +1

    Idunno, owning an iPhone ought to be a red flag for poor purchasing decisions.

  • @hermestrismegistus3417
    @hermestrismegistus3417 8 месяцев назад

    I don’t even watch your channel with the intent to learn anything. I just find it comforting.

  • @asura8495
    @asura8495 8 месяцев назад +6

    android using master race here! 🤚

  • @brick1848
    @brick1848 8 месяцев назад +1

    realizing my ex from 6 years ago had a huge focus on "iphone is better"... realizing a lot of issue we had stemmed from that... realizing i made the right choice to breakup with her

  • @zachbeatty6196
    @zachbeatty6196 8 месяцев назад +19

    So here's my two cents on the Android to Apple conflict.
    Just for a disclaimer I have an Android and I've had one for the past few years but I started off with Apple.
    Android is more customizable in literally every way, it's got All the pluses that you mentioned in your video, plus a few like changing the operating system legally.
    From my experience there's only two real advantages to having an iPhone.
    Which is compatibility with other iPhones and Apple products. With things like iMessage, FaceTime, game pigeon, and a couple other things that you can probably guess.
    The other thing is it's very user friendly. My grandmother can easily figure out an iPhone. And after a few hours of explanation and a couple questions a month she has access to the entirety of her iPhone.
    Whereas with my Android I'm still figuring out new new things that I can do to this day. And I've had mine for years.
    iPhone also has a good camera on top of everything else. And some people just need their phones for a camera sometimes. So that's a big selling point

    • @Leonhart_93
      @Leonhart_93 8 месяцев назад +2

      Androids are cheaper for better hardware, that's all I need to say.

    • @kace999
      @kace999 8 месяцев назад +3

      This is a fair and honest take, as an iPhone user. I don't want all the customizability and I want it to just work out of the box with all my other Apple products. Why I'm in the Apple ecosystem in the first place is for similar reasons.
      But for most people, it's just about classism. iPhones cost more, so...

    • @harveypolanski755
      @harveypolanski755 8 месяцев назад +2

      From my experiences iPhone are more reliable and tend to last longer. Everything gets backed up; so even if the phone gets destroyed I can have an exact copy when I buy a new phone. Also, chicks care. So the whole blue messages thing; while being stupid, makes it easier to get laid.

    • @drpoppyseed
      @drpoppyseed 8 месяцев назад

      I just like that it works reliably and for a long time. Android product life is just shorter

    • @TarpeianRock
      @TarpeianRock 8 месяцев назад

      So kind of you to help your grandmother with her phone use.

  • @gibster9624
    @gibster9624 8 месяцев назад +1

    Literally, meant as literally and not figuratively, just the other day a chick was talking about not getting an Android because they refuse to text in green bubbles. Most of the comments were telling her that if she had an Android, she would never see green bubbles in text messages again. This is what it's like with your average iPhone user. They complain about a problem they cause and will blame you for it.

  • @DergEnterprises
    @DergEnterprises 8 месяцев назад +4

    Android is an OS that many electronic manufactures make a phone for. iPhone is a type of phone that run IOS as the OS and is Apple proprietary. Android is developed and maintained by Google. I could talk about this subject for hours, but those are the core differences.

  • @user-hx1ky1lg7z
    @user-hx1ky1lg7z Месяц назад

    She makes the stupid "joke" to test how much rubbish he will eat. Testing the boundary of her control.

  • @Beagfit458
    @Beagfit458 8 месяцев назад +7

    I love this channel! I’ve learned so much in such a short amount of time from you so thank you sir.

  • @jwg9338
    @jwg9338 8 месяцев назад +1

    The wall very much is a thing. Change my mind. I'd say 80% of the women my age (late thirties) are unattractive (most from years of poor choices). There is the odd exception, but as a rule of thumb, no. If you put in a mediocrum amount of effort at this age, you stand out, and the younger women notice.

  • @NorisSpecter
    @NorisSpecter 8 месяцев назад +5

    I don't know if there is a wall, but I doubt I'm the only one like this - I would never take seriously a woman in her thirties. I don't care what any pillers say. It's just too risky to make a family with a woman at this point. And I would definitely would like to get to know her if she single at that age, which makes things even worse.

    • @kurtvanluven9351
      @kurtvanluven9351 8 месяцев назад

      Then I'm a failure, alone at 61? my fiancee died at 38.

    • @NorisSpecter
      @NorisSpecter 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@kurtvanluven9351 I'm not trying to be rude. I'm just stating facts. I'm in my early 30s and don't look at women my age as candidates for building a family. Time works differently for women. No matter what age and gender you are, you can still build a relationship, but I'm addressing the wall he mentioned. There is "something" - if not a wall that changes when it's getting risky for her to bear a child.

  • @andrewcarlson2178
    @andrewcarlson2178 7 месяцев назад

    Expectation Inflation Program. That right there is freaking priceless. The most succinctly put yet definitive explanation of what happened to Western Society after social media.

  • @Shorty_Lickens
    @Shorty_Lickens 8 месяцев назад +9

    Oh, and I dunno if it was a conscious decision but what she did there was called "Shit Testing" and its a concept most men are familiar with but we don't all have the same term for it. There's loads of vids and articles on this subject and boiled down it means she does something awful specifically to see how you react so she can judge your manliness. Its very old fashioned in 2024 and says more about the woman than the man. Don't fall for it. And do no engage because it only encourages her.

  • @isaiahthomas4444
    @isaiahthomas4444 8 месяцев назад +1

    I can't wait to see the wall video. It'll be nice to have a different perspective

  • @redridingcape
    @redridingcape 8 месяцев назад +4

    I'm curious about your opinion on the Wall, since I think it is pretty obvious that older women are less attractive than younger women and that men in the 30-50 range that women want to date are just going to date younger women 99% of the time. So I wonder where we disagree.
    I do think 30-40yo women can still find a man, but he isn't going to be the one they want 99% of the time.

  • @michaellaforte6964
    @michaellaforte6964 6 месяцев назад

    His delivery is brilliant!

  • @dawnfire82
    @dawnfire82 8 месяцев назад +12

    "I was advised to re-upload with the names removed."
    Why? There's no legal reason for that.
    "not because we should hate these women"
    Well, we should. Hate is useful. Some things deserve to be hated, just like some things deserve to be loved. And hate defines who you are. Lots of people love the same things, because the things are good and loveable. But what you hate (and why) is how you're different.

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 8 месяцев назад +1

      Mass flagging is not punished on youtube. You just point a finger and boom, down ranked, you'll never see these videos again lest you're subscribed.

  • @the2ndhour469
    @the2ndhour469 6 месяцев назад +1

    The superiority complex the imessages app gives to iPhone users can be classified as racism

  • @nastynate101
    @nastynate101 8 месяцев назад +16

    Lmao the re post

    • @LeventK
      @LeventK 8 месяцев назад +6

      He apparently censored the usernames

    • @nastynate101
      @nastynate101 8 месяцев назад

      @@LeventK don’t wanna get in trouble

    • @breannaw7254
      @breannaw7254 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@LeventKthat's good

    • @JonSkulemowski1
      @JonSkulemowski1 8 месяцев назад +2

      Whatever. I'll watch it again.

  • @KadSkirata
    @KadSkirata 6 месяцев назад

    If I may, Teen Mom and it's ilk was for later millennials, early gen Z what SC is to late gen X and millennials.
    I now consider it a disservice my parents didn't let me and my brother watch MTV; yet Law and Order and Cops was almost routine as wink and an elbow nudge to remind us that crime doesn't pay. Seeing the debauchery that most other teens were being influenced by would've been nice to know as it was happening - we were essentially sheltered from pop-culture. I didn't watch that stuff until my baby mama would put it on when we started living together (pre-pregnancy). She was convincing at just entertainment and that "she wasn't like them" so to speak. But God damn bros, always trust your Gut!

  • @michaelwebber4033
    @michaelwebber4033 8 месяцев назад +6

    I have an iPhone. I have it only because I've had one for years and I'm used to it. It isn't any better than an android, it's just different. It doesn't make any difference to my dating life because I am so hideously ugly there isn't a woman on the planet who will date me anyway.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 8 месяцев назад

      Are you deformed? Barring that you can absolutely hit the gym, find a haircut that suits your jawline and work on your charisma by watching LA Knight and The Rock videos.

  • @mihajlohranisavljevic6412
    @mihajlohranisavljevic6412 5 месяцев назад

    This dude is just pointing out what i loooong time ago noticed, hell i was not even full grown adult.Still nice to see people are awakening ...

  • @wislordthewhite2823
    @wislordthewhite2823 8 месяцев назад +8

    I swear this is a re-upload

    • @nevechristopher
      @nevechristopher 8 месяцев назад +5

      The previous version from earlier today didn't have the names beeped

  • @ralpho37
    @ralpho37 5 месяцев назад

    The ran about misusing the word “literally” is the same rant I give to people who misuse the word “literally” down to the word

  • @ivanivanovic5857
    @ivanivanovic5857 8 месяцев назад +5

    The wall exists, it's just a lot earlier than people say it is. It hits the moment a woman breaks up with the first man she slept with.
    No hymen, no diamond

    • @SkellyTonn
      @SkellyTonn 8 месяцев назад +1

      🚫•🍒•🚫•💍!

    • @sniebl
      @sniebl 8 месяцев назад

      jeez you are seriously beyond helping at this point.

    • @SkellyTonn
      @SkellyTonn 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@sniebl[You do realise that amounts to shaming-language that Fems use, rite!? Why is he beyond help? Is a man having standards that offensive to you? Chixx can require a list of necessities, with no pushback from society! But the moment a guy says simply: "To be my wife, she can't be a hoar!" That's a line gone too far and beyond help!? Wow!😐]

    • @ivanivanovic5857
      @ivanivanovic5857 8 месяцев назад

      @@sniebl
      THE HARMFUL EFFECTS OF EARLY SEXUAL ACTIVITY
      AND MULTIPLE SEXUAL PARTNERS AMONG WOMEN:
      A BOOK OF CHARTS
      ROBERT E. RECTOR
      KIRK A. JOHNSON, PH.D.
      LAUREN R. NOYES
      SHANNAN MARTIN
      Read it. Learn.

  • @prima6170
    @prima6170 3 месяца назад

    She was mad because he rejected her for having a Why-Phone before she could reject him. She wasn't joking.

  • @Mister_Garibaldi
    @Mister_Garibaldi 8 месяцев назад +16

    As a single guy I had eight cats (long story)...NGL, it didn't make dating easy. Now I'm happily married and we are down to four cats. I know the cat thing is a "Jooooooke" but I really don't get why cat owners get all this hate. In my pre-marriage dating journey I've met PLENTY of women dog owners that will end up single and childless. Just saying....

    • @SkellyTonn
      @SkellyTonn 8 месяцев назад +6

      [Simply put: human interaction giving limited success, results in preference of feline companionship! More cats, less attempts at socializing beyond! Cat fanatics touch more 'nip than literal grass, ya' dig?!☕😐]

    • @M4dM4n96
      @M4dM4n96 8 месяцев назад +12

      It's not about the cats.
      It's about the inability to find love among your own species.
      The cats are just a substitute.

    • @Leonhart_93
      @Leonhart_93 8 месяцев назад +11

      You don't get hate for being a cat owner, you completely misunderstood it. It's that your lack of ability to form lasting human connection is measured later on by the amount of cats you have.

    • @Gizziiusa
      @Gizziiusa 8 месяцев назад +2

      ill do a speculative correlation, but obviously it is by no means definitive.
      Always been a "verses" with dog and cat owners, and it typically appeared there is/was that dog owners tended to be men, whereas cats with women (also keep in mind puss n boots, a cat...so cat = puss(y) = puss(y) is female. feline/female/feminine).
      dogs are dependent, whereas cats are independent, ergo feminist strong and independent
      so cats are the mascots (with boxed wine being the drink of choice), of independent feminist women.

    • @TheUltimegaMan
      @TheUltimegaMan 8 месяцев назад +4

      It’s about having a pet as a substitute for the love, affection,and caring for a child. It’s obvious that some unmarried older single women are using pets as a stand in for having a kid, even if they don’t acknowledge it, it’s part of their behavior. Some women just really like having cats, because cats are fun creatures and how they interact with them is as cats instead of as fur babies.

  • @hdrunk5
    @hdrunk5 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for addressing the “literally” vocabulary disorder. It’s like a contagious disease that’s affected 30% of the population.

  • @matt566
    @matt566 8 месяцев назад +5

    likability is the number one trait for everyone. it matters more than everything else by such a huge margin. i guess it’s hard because the things people generally dislike others about is maladaptive behaviors that developed over a long period of timebor through trauma etc and thus are hard to change. but yeah if you ever think you’re too ugly or too poor just know there is a way out and that’s the route of charisma. charisma creates attraction in everyone, gender independent.

  • @Dakafire
    @Dakafire 5 месяцев назад

    I recently had a girl ask me "how to get rid of bee's" on a dating app. So I replied with " its simple, you scare them. you go : Boo Bees" and she unmatched with me. I'm glad because that's an absolute banger of a joke.

  • @Trisket
    @Trisket 8 месяцев назад +5

    "Nooooo you can't use their names that they publically share to millions, that's bullying!" What a farce youtube has become.

  • @damzey911
    @damzey911 8 месяцев назад

    Almost 300k subs Man!!! Awsome! You got my vote,your vids are great.Keep em coming.

  • @Ali-sh3tg
    @Ali-sh3tg 8 месяцев назад +4

    Where is self maximize !!

    • @LeventK
      @LeventK 8 месяцев назад +6

      Let him cook

  • @Zajuts149
    @Zajuts149 6 месяцев назад

    One of my absolute red flags is women doing the "jazz hand, then stealing your fries" gesture on camera, no matter what topics they decided to make a clip of in their car.

  • @dougpatterson7494
    @dougpatterson7494 6 месяцев назад

    I love the opening! “If you start making better choices I’m going to have to find content elsewhere…”

  • @nevechristopher
    @nevechristopher 8 месяцев назад +4

    Did you get in trouble for saying names?

    • @hoe_math
      @hoe_math  8 месяцев назад +15

      no, someone just told me to play it safe

    • @M4dM4n96
      @M4dM4n96 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@hoe_mathProbably for the best.
      Revenge doxxing is a very real danger.

  • @vikingshark2634
    @vikingshark2634 7 месяцев назад

    We've spent decades telling women that their intuition is infallible, their feelings are always correct, and their actions and behaviors are always justified by their (correct) feelings. With so much time reinforcing that Wish equals Truth, these results are predictable.

  • @GuyGadbois1986
    @GuyGadbois1986 8 месяцев назад +3

    Unpopular opinion: When smartphones first came out I started with an Android and went back and forth with Apple with each phone upgrade. Eventually, I found the overheating issues, battery issues and app crashing issues to be too much of a nuisance with Android and just stuck with the iPhone. I'm writing this on an 11 year old Macbook Pro and have a 6 year old iPhone XS so, in my experience at least, Apple's quality meme has proven true.
    That said, I find the weird culty obsession with their products baffling. There are a subset of people who literally think owning Apple products bump them up to a higher social class and will condescend (like this woman) to those she thinks of a their lessors. It's always low value, shallow women and numale soi types doing this.

  • @GorillaBath
    @GorillaBath 8 месяцев назад

    She takes a shot at him in the first 2 sentences and then wonders why and plays victim