STOP ACCUSING CARL OF RELAPSING! Seriously. (Summer House Full Recap)

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  • @kategenest9225
    @kategenest9225 5 месяцев назад +67

    Oh gosh finally feeling brave enough to comment! I just wanted to say I appreciate you two so much and love your podcast. This episode meant a lot to me. I really struggled with my sobriety in postpartum but then found your podcast and heard about Steels sober journey, he gave me the courage to get back into meetings and back on track. Who knew a bravo podcast would make me a better mom and person. Thank you so much for all you give us during the week, it truly means so much ❤️

    • @bravbrospodcast
      @bravbrospodcast  5 месяцев назад +23

      This is incredible! Good for you! I didn’t give you that courage, that courage was always there you just found it. Congrats on getting back on the right track and keep on trucking. One day at a timr

    • @barbriley583
      @barbriley583 5 месяцев назад +11

      At 76 and a retired psychotherapist I can say my 46 yrs of being sober has had challenges…I never let my “bottom” be far from my mind esp. in hard times…you will see the payoff of sobriety as time goes by, Kate❣️❣️❣️

    • @stephaniesto3440
      @stephaniesto3440 5 месяцев назад +1

      Amazing! 🎉

    • @marielau5008
      @marielau5008 5 месяцев назад

      You’ve got this! I believe in you

    • @marielau5008
      @marielau5008 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for this episode!
      I’m an addiction counselor and struggle with my own sobriety.
      All I have to say is :
      PREACH BRUTHA PREACH!!!!!!
      Xoxoxoxoxo

  • @barbriley583
    @barbriley583 5 месяцев назад +15

    Steel…I’m 76 y.o. Retired psychotherapist who watches reality shows cause there is so much to diagnose🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂…I’m also 46 yrs sober and, wow, every day is a challenge if not the drinking desire it’s the not sober behavior to keep in check…this is a hard watch with Lindsey…you two did a great job putting a REAL spin on the episodes…❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @jfadell1
    @jfadell1 5 месяцев назад +12

    Lindsey been argumentative, not assertive, but aggressive, and a nightmare as a girlfriend from the beginning of this show! Every guy she ever had on the show that was supposed to be her boyfriend she was a complete crazy person to! it’s no surprise. She has no idea how to be in a relationship at all. Any guy that gets involved with her is asking for punishment. I’m just glad he’s out while he could same thing with all those other guys that she was on the show.

  • @BwInNewJersey
    @BwInNewJersey 5 месяцев назад +11

    As stated I dont think we can overestimate how damaging Lindsay’s behavior can be to Carl. Weaponizing his addiction against him for emotional leverage makes me sick. Free Carl.

  • @cait_husk
    @cait_husk 5 месяцев назад +16

    Here for Steel’s rant (actually always here but appreciated Steel’s rant)
    So being in the shoes of a sibling who has a drug problem who has “gotten sober” I do understand the PTSD comment when dealing with relapses. I put gotten sober in quotes because my sibling never truly got sober. With that being said I would NEVER question if he was sober or doing drugs even all the times he did release because I did not want to push him to do so. I use to be a Lindsey fan but this season has done me in. Love you guys. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @begona2909
    @begona2909 5 месяцев назад +8

    Steel, as a sober person myself on this challenging journey I, just want to thank you for your speech at the end of the episode. It was beautifully articulated and you touched my heart.

  • @TheYukonguy
    @TheYukonguy 5 месяцев назад +12

    I have to say something - Lindsay is all about her PR. She is concerned about how her drinking is going to come across and so she does her PR spin on the entire situation. She has done it to every single person she has ‘dated’ on this show. Remember the sandwiches? Remember telling the world that she miscarried a child before even telling the father?? The line Carl said in the trailer of her playing that she was blindsided for her to only say the exact words right after - that’s it exactly. This is the Lindsay game - same game play- PR and gaslight…
    Carl has a lot of credit coming to him given how calm and silent he has been in public this whole time - now she needs to get the hell out of that damn apartment and stop making him pay for it- she bought a home, so GET OUT!
    Thank you Steel! And thank you Scooter for supporting Steel! This episode really gutted me and made me think I would not be able to keep watching due to triggering me but I’m with Steel and I’m with the Carl- will watch it thru…

  • @charlottedhall1
    @charlottedhall1 5 месяцев назад +7

    I am so glad he left her! Lindsey is straight up nuts! Hard to believe anyone could be on her side.

  • @CSPeterson93
    @CSPeterson93 5 месяцев назад +14

    OMG so excited for the West interview. He’s such a great new cast member on summer house!

  • @JamieRohanna-wo6yx
    @JamieRohanna-wo6yx 5 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you Steel!! You said exactly what most of us are thinking & I’m hoping Lindsay can somehow see this because she needs to hear it!!
    I also agree with Shooter…Lindsay got emotional when she realized everyone in the house was backing Carl!! I’m loving watching how the atmosphere in the house is changing & people are no longer kissing Lindsay’s ass out of fear she’ll go off on them!! Lindsay’s a bully & I’m so happy to see people aren’t scared of her anymore!!
    Good episode guys!!

    • @NYCDNP
      @NYCDNP 5 месяцев назад +1

      I watched it TWICE 🌻🌻🌻

  • @daks84
    @daks84 5 месяцев назад +4

    Perhaps because of her past experiences that's why Ciara is hesitant. It's only been a couple of weeks in reality she doesn't really know West.

  • @NYCDNP
    @NYCDNP 5 месяцев назад +4

    I have been waiting for days to hear Steel speak about this episode. I empathize and i am so grateful you have a great platform to speak about addiction and mental health ❤🌻🌻🌻

  • @jillgeorge7286
    @jillgeorge7286 5 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks! Great review so sick of the use of "gaslighting" but Lindsay was defining it!

  • @dantecox820
    @dantecox820 5 месяцев назад +14

    Lindsey is a nightmare

    • @1nOnlyCeCe
      @1nOnlyCeCe 5 месяцев назад

      Complete nightmare!

    • @dantecox820
      @dantecox820 5 месяцев назад

      @@1nOnlyCeCe I owe Carl an apology because when I thought that she was blindsided, I dogged him out but she is truly horrible to be in a relationship with

  • @JasonJGriff
    @JasonJGriff 5 месяцев назад +4

    Steel, what a great open minded sum up on a real life situation that is happening to many many others as well!! Unless we have been in that situation, like urself, I feel the only position for us to take is listening with an open mind and heart. While also trying to understand and be there for the person struggling with an addiction every day of their life!!! Well said sir well said!!!

  • @najatm
    @najatm 5 месяцев назад +9

    Lindsay is a horrible person. My guess is Carl was starting to regret proposing before cameras went up and she decided to throw him under the bus by accusing him of doing drugs to thwart the reason he broke up with her was because of her. She's bad.

  • @nataliekosier4600
    @nataliekosier4600 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am in tears right now, thank you Steel for your heartfelt thoughts on the Carl Lindsay situation. Hearing your feelings as a sober person really got to me and while I was already extremely angry with Lindsay for what she is doing to Carl hearing your side of it makes me absolutely sick about it and so happy that Carl got out of that relationship. You guys are the best and I feel like I learn something new every day from my favorite bro-friends. Much love! 🩵

  • @leigharmstrong9940
    @leigharmstrong9940 5 месяцев назад +11

    Greatest rant EVER!👏🏼🫶🏼💪🏼
    Thank goodness you spoke for many of us, Steele. I feel like a proud momma!🫶🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼😘

  • @er985327
    @er985327 5 месяцев назад +2

    This is the convo about carl/lindsay that all viewers need to hear. Thank you and sending love to how this affected you ❤

  • @MsOthomson
    @MsOthomson 5 месяцев назад +6

    This BravBro's episode made me cry. Lindsay is a disgrace. I can't support her anymore.

  • @user-zj3vc7yd8c
    @user-zj3vc7yd8c 5 месяцев назад

    Steel’s discussions regarding addiction is 10000% spot on, everything he mentions when discussing addiction, has been verbatim how my husband has shared his journey during sobriety. So thank you for sharing and talking about it. (Also up until last season I really wanted to have Lindsay’s back but ugh, I just can’t now and this was definitely the tipping point.

  • @daly932
    @daly932 5 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing podcast episode you said everything I was yelling at the tv screen over from that episode. I knew from day 1 there was more to the story when Carl was all quiet. Those who watched summer house from day 1 know Lindsey in how she treats her boyfriends and friends. She’s a little terror when she doesn’t get her way.

  • @NYCDNP
    @NYCDNP 5 месяцев назад +3

    I can't wait for the west interview!!

  • @kayt.b.9569
    @kayt.b.9569 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing and educating us about sobriety this way. My son has just started his journey and I appreciate you teaching me.

  • @CharlotteKay-qq2nh
    @CharlotteKay-qq2nh 5 месяцев назад +1

    A remarkable session from you both. I am so glad you shared that you are surrounded by supportive people (Steel). I think you explained in a positive clear way - I hope that resinates with many! Lindsey needs to have some mental awareness training on how to deal with people. Looking forward to seeing how Summer House plays out!

  • @littlenutball22-cp6ne
    @littlenutball22-cp6ne 5 месяцев назад +2

    I rock with Steel 100% …u don’t mess with someone’s recovery ….in Steel and Shooter we trust ❤️

  • @palavergirl7450
    @palavergirl7450 5 месяцев назад +2

    I want to say 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽 for that final speech. This is exactly what ppl who support Lindsey, the dumb “girls’ girl” BS. I’ve been Team Carl since he began his sobriety journey and literally was scared for him when he fell for Hurricane Lindsey. She’s an agent of chaos always been. She as to fight with everyone and anyone to function. So, thank you for explaining how dangerous a Lindsey is, literally. 🙏🏽

  • @Iamtierrahogan
    @Iamtierrahogan 5 месяцев назад +2

    Lindsay’s defensiveness about drinking speaks volumes. I remember getting annoyed at ppl when they tried to call out my drunkness (in like college) but I only ever got defensive when I knew they were right. I was also an angry drunk person and eventually I had to stop bc that next morning guilt wondering if I yelled at someone the night before wasn’t worth it. I’m 32 now and I’m pro weed but I still will only have a little alcohol on occasion. Maybe it’s time for Lindsay to have a serious reflection and determine if she needs to adjust how she drinks. Being a someone sober will def shine a spotlight on your drunk behavior especially when it’s toxic. I hope she’s using this season to reflect. 🤞🏾😬😬

  • @Randomqtman
    @Randomqtman 5 месяцев назад

    You're actually one of MY FAVOURITE Bravo podcasts ever.

  • @robinsutherland3691
    @robinsutherland3691 5 месяцев назад +1

    As twisted as this sounds, I think Lindsay expected everyone to feel sorry for her having to deal with Carl’s possible relapse. She knew it wasn’t true but she thought it would make her the centre of attention. She is the centre but not the way she hoped. As the parent of an addict I was disgusted by her

  • @cicelywarrington363
    @cicelywarrington363 5 месяцев назад +1

    I completely agree with the closing thought that Lindsay wanted the relationship to look a certain way (having total control over Carol). She was lashing out once he stopped falling on the sword in Kyle’s phrase. Interesting point that they were great when she was sober!

  • @bellascott6478
    @bellascott6478 5 месяцев назад +5

    All I can say bros is 💯💯💯💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌

  • @me-hhhhhhgggh
    @me-hhhhhhgggh 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for explaining the ramifications of lindsay accusing carl of using. so many people are now dismissing the seriousness and impact of her actions and you've given me the words to explain why they're wrong 🙏

  • @katiegillespie1751
    @katiegillespie1751 5 месяцев назад +1

    Nothing describes my Sixers household than hearing my exasperated mom yelling Korkmaz at night. Only other player this happened with is Dalembert😂 Go Birds!

  • @ZacJj-2
    @ZacJj-2 5 месяцев назад +1

    I don't know how you can get the end of your pod to Lindsay or even Andy for the reunion but it needs to happen!

  • @msjulsfl
    @msjulsfl 5 месяцев назад +3

    I like the Wes and Ciara vibe!

  • @AP-wq9dv
    @AP-wq9dv 5 месяцев назад

    First time catching your show. Thank you for such a thoughtful breakdown of this toxic behaviour and the destructive impact on a person’s sobriety. Lindsay is a threat to Carl’s sobriety and could have driven him to relapse. It was horrible to watch her manipulate behaviour and it stands as a warning to anyone trying to live a sober life to stay away from such narcissistic people who never take accountability for themselves and blame others for their chaos. Lindsay is a master manipulator and Carl made the right decision.

  • @msjulsfl
    @msjulsfl 5 месяцев назад +2

    I actually love you guys. Take on things!

  • @rosebud824
    @rosebud824 5 месяцев назад

    Appreciate the timestamps. I don’t watch the show but wanted to hear Steel’s experience/strength/hope.

  • @ldpsvede
    @ldpsvede 5 месяцев назад

    New subscriber. Really enjoy your take on the Bravo shows and especially on this situation with Lindsay. I hate the term “gaslighting” but Lindsay truly does gaslight everyone. She’s done it with nearly everyone every season of SH. The first time she made the false accusations about Carl’s sobriety were unforgivable and he should have ended the engagement that night. She’s an awful person and I’m glad for Carl that he ended the engagement and the relationship. I think Lindsay was a threat to Carl’s health and sobriety. If she’s like that on camera imagine her behavior behind closed doors.

  • @NYCDNP
    @NYCDNP 5 месяцев назад

    West interview drops today?!! So excited

  • @msjulsfl
    @msjulsfl 5 месяцев назад

    I was actually thinking I had another episode! So that's good for Summer house!

  • @bond8870
    @bond8870 5 месяцев назад +1

    Steel thank you for your statements, especially the ending moments, I agree with, and live with this every day, it’s so valid, and encouraging towards those with sobriety, including myself . So maybe Ronnie @watchwhatcrappens and Steel can get into a joint podcast, as he defends Lyndsey and says Carl is a gaslighter. Much love to you both 51:57

  • @user-zj3vc7yd8c
    @user-zj3vc7yd8c 4 месяца назад

    My comments are not showing on correct episode because I’m not seeing it here yet.
    1-I really wanted to have a drinking game for every time Steele says ‘regardless’ 😂 but we would die 😂 I say this with pure humor.
    2- Kyle and Amanda. My perspective.. you can’t Change a person. They knew who they were marrying . They knew each others flaws/triggers. It comes down to deciding on whether or not they can accept the flaws or are the flaws going to end them. I see both their sides. They are both valid. Neither of them have changed who they are. The more they are both harped on for their flaws the more they feel worse about themselves, but they don’t change themselves. So I feel like they need to decide are these flaws a game changer or can they accept their spouses for who they are and try to come up with acceptable boundaries. My husband and I are coming up on 25yrs.. are we perfect? No. Are there things that we do that creates hurt? Probably. Have we decided to end our marriage? No. Are we strong and fight passionately for us, yes. Can anyone come btn us? Fuck no.

  • @jg3094
    @jg3094 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lindsay wants Carl to fail in his sobriety journey so that she can maintain control of him. She doesn't want a husband she wants a hostage. Malignant narc. Carl having to continue to pay half of the apartment rent is a small price to pay for his freedom.

    • @jg3094
      @jg3094 5 месяцев назад

      I appreciate your transparency about the constant commitment to your sobriety and overall health. Put past behavior in the rear-view mirror. Don't let Old Scratch/Mr. Slick remind you of where you've been or what you've done. Let the sobriety angels remind you of where you are and guide you to the good place you're heading to. You're 1 day from the next best thing.♥

  • @sudukemsn
    @sudukemsn 5 месяцев назад

    That rant at the end was ahmazing wow, that needs to get back to Lindsay somehow

  • @shellybeau2006
    @shellybeau2006 5 месяцев назад

    55:04 minutes - Couldn't have expressed that any better myself. 100% Her behavior is so triggering/frustrating to an addict in recovery. Difficult to even watch. 👏👏

  • @laurenturcios4006
    @laurenturcios4006 5 месяцев назад +3

    I really am wondering if Carl just pokes and pokes and provokes her in his own subtle way. I am still waiting to see, I do agree that it isn’t a good look for Lindsey, at all. It seems like she is accusing him to hurt him, and it’s wrong! I just wonder what Carl’s responsible for, at times you can see his tone and judgement of her. It’s seems to be driving her to lash out.

    • @lacysnake
      @lacysnake 5 месяцев назад

      Yeah. I wonder what is edited out and happens when cameras aren’t rolling. Last season when her friend didn’t want them to marry… I think there is a lot we don’t know.

  • @aeriles07
    @aeriles07 5 месяцев назад

    Still rooting for the bros to come to Iowa!😊 5 stars all around!

  • @deem132
    @deem132 5 месяцев назад

    just came here to say you guys should watch traitors & married2med! both phenomenal shows & a bit of a break & change from housewives but still super entertaining. maybe have a day where you discuss old seasons of shows your catching up on idk

  • @dianeemanuel8541
    @dianeemanuel8541 5 месяцев назад

    Craig said we would understand when we saw. The season ❤

  • @NYCDNP
    @NYCDNP 5 месяцев назад

    And now Carl is doing non-alcoholic lover boy ❤❤❤❤

  • @amybluepenguin
    @amybluepenguin 5 месяцев назад

    I'm not being sold on Lindsey being a " bride to be" in the next few months as I'm watching this show. She's coming off as dumpy, frumpy - the stuff she is wearing, even how she carries herself. She has her extension clips just showing for the world to see in last episode - total mess. Nothing I'm seeing is selling me that this gorgeous girl is a bride to be and about to be doing all her wedding things - showers, bachelorette parties, pictures in her wedding dress.
    Then I see a recent pic of her and she now is super skinny and back to her stylish, stunning self. Its just not tracking for me that this girl wouldn't be going all out and doing all the things as she prepares for her big wedding day. Because of this I'm even questioning if this engagement was real in the first place.

  • @jojocurtin6668
    @jojocurtin6668 5 месяцев назад

    I think the criticisms towards Lindsay are completely valid and accurate, but Carl is a not a saint and he knows how to push her buttons and I wonder if he is doing so knowing how she will react, especially when they cameras aren’t around. And I’m sorry, but at this point Carl had left Loverboy the prior fall, and they had spent $20k and six months for him to see a career coach and he said he still needs another year to figure out what he wants to do? That wouldn’t be fun to be attached to either. People are going to think I’m defending Lindsay, which I am not, but people are blinded by their hate of her and so happy that she is looking bad that they are giving Carl a completely free pass. We still haven’t seen the whole season, so there’s still a chance for Carl to show his ass too. But I’m sure everyone will overlook it because they hate Lindsay

  • @houman7784
    @houman7784 5 месяцев назад

    Lindsey is delusional. Unfortunately she’s also surrounded by people who aren’t straight up telling her, your behavior is completely inappropriate!!!!!! I know Gaby is trying but she should be more blunt with her. Carl did the best thing remaining silent after the break up and letting the audience watch this unfold. I’m shocked at Lindsey’s behavior. Even though I shouldn’t be.

  • @Balraj_loves_BRAVO
    @Balraj_loves_BRAVO 5 месяцев назад

    I agree with you, she is trying to put him in a very bad light, I feel sooty for Carl, he is in controling relationship, I recognise that as I have been in one, is just show women can be abusive

  • @tracyshannon6631
    @tracyshannon6631 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bravo!

  • @mollyabbott9632
    @mollyabbott9632 5 месяцев назад +1

    Korkmaz shout out for the win

  • @chronicallybriana
    @chronicallybriana 5 месяцев назад

    POP OFF KINGS!

  • @lesley1346
    @lesley1346 5 месяцев назад +1

    i think lyndsay is very concerned that people are going to question her relationship with alcohol. so she deflects. personally i think lyndsay is an alcoholic because so many of her problems occur when shes loaded.

  • @andrewesposito50
    @andrewesposito50 5 месяцев назад

    Please take this right way, but if u guys wanna go more mainstream, friendly advice, cut back on F word. Just Sayin, really dig your podcast.

  • @cynthiaforsman
    @cynthiaforsman 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks!

  • @Balraj_loves_BRAVO
    @Balraj_loves_BRAVO 5 месяцев назад

    Watching this with my hubby, Steel please can you ask shooter maggootr to not to scratch his private part, I usually hear you guys in the office but as is Friday I am watching on you tube, just positive criticism ❤

  • @jadechaya9025
    @jadechaya9025 5 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t think Ciara is into West. She’s looking for reasons out, (height, age, kissing and telling) I don’t think they last even the rest of the season. I hope I’m wrong! She’s so monotone it’s hard to tell

  • @amywendt6722
    @amywendt6722 5 месяцев назад +2

    First comment! Yay! I win. 🥇

  • @Burlgurl61
    @Burlgurl61 5 месяцев назад

    🌸🌺🌸🌺🦔

  • @msjulsfl
    @msjulsfl 5 месяцев назад

    I actually love you guys. Take on things!