My thoughts exactly 😣 I couldn’t imagine! I know a couple who is in their 30s and married for over 5 yrs. They sleep in separate rooms because the girl likes her own space and do their own thing more often than normal. Weekends rarely spent together and work all week. I think that makes people grow apart. What’s the point of having a partner at that point ? and let me tell you, the guy likes attention from others because his wife doesn’t give it to him and doesn’t treat him like a partner. No one deserves that 🥺
@@Diana_C24not talking for 3 days and treating your partner like straight trash is not the same. some people need their space, and not talking for 3 days (in a secure and healthy relationship) could be good for people
Alone time even in a relationship was so important to me... Im very introverted and a single child with no cousins or anything so I really feel my best when Im alone. However, I met my bf and he also loves to have his alone time and it balances our relationship so well! I really hope you can find someone that special for yourself as well :)
There is nothing wrong with being picky in finding the right person, especially if this might be your forever person ❤you want to be picky and make sure they are right for you, especially if you talk a future or family together later. And go at your own pace, girl, don't let a man rush you into a relationship. The right one will come naturally and unexpectedly ❤ when it's time. I love how beautiful your makeup came out ❤ and I hope you had a good date.
I agree! I'm a very independent person and I enjoy my space and freedom. Clingy people make me feel trapped and extremely uncomfortable. The more space i have the safer and comfortable I feel. I have dated a lot of men who were very controlling and physically and emotionally draining. It would be nice to meet a guy to spend time with but he has to have his own life and be well established like I am. Not just be up under me all day with nothing going on for himself.
i used to be just like you where i wanted to date someone i would occasionally see and who would have their own thing going on.......until i met my bf lol I think you have to be really good friends with your partner where you see them as more as just a lover. I love spending time with him where we are both dead silent doing our own thing in the same room. Although time apart is def needed in every relationship!! i hope one day you find a friend in a lover where it doesn't feel forced
I love your dating story time videos but maybe u should talk about the men AFTERR the dating phase doesnt work 😭😂 but thats so crazy they watch ur videos, its expected tho its kinda like a cheat sheet into ur thoughts and whether or not ur feeling them😂😂😂
Sameeeee i use brown eyeliner pencil for my eyess i cant take the harshness of black eyeliner anymore i feel like brown gives the same feel but less harsh and more dreamy in my opinion ✨✨✨✨
Okay when you were talking about the neck/upper back pain i was speechless lol I have dealt with the same thing and thought i was the only one. I went to a chiropractor and instantly felt better. He recommended weekly visits along with massages once a month! Im a dental assistant so im constantly looking down 🥴
Do not settle, have those standards high. People just need to stop saying one has to lower their standards or so, they aren’t going to be the ones being with the person. You do what you have to do Meli 🩷
I’m so glad you didn’t get the Botox! I was watching your other video and wanted to comment but forgot. Basically the pain will just move to a different set of muscles!! I have had the same chronic symptoms as you and the biggest thing that has helped me is a physical therapist that specializes in “PRI” you can look up postural restoration institute and try to find a provider near you! If you’re using the wrong muscles to stabilize yourself it can cause all kinds of issues similar to your stomach issues you’ve mentioned as well!! Hope this helps!
tbh i wish i was like you, i’m struggling to work on my anxious attachment and the thought of going without talking for 3 days makes me think that the way i am i’d lose interest in the person, i would need a call or at least a text to connect in some way
Maybe you should think about the type of guys you are attracting and why are they drawn to you. I find that these days meeting folks online especially after they see your social media might already be a red flag. Personally I don't think that men who are on social media are typically looking for a relationship, instead they are looking for something esle. Hey I can be wrong and maybe I'm old school. Honesty via social media is extremely hard to come by. Just a word of advice from an older woman.
Love these videos girlie keep em coming 🫶🏾 i just got out of my relationship after a yr. it was my first real one he hurt me bad but im so glad im I’m officially done now. i feel more like myself again ! Im soon ready to start dating again have my eye on 2 ppl & need advice lol
I actually think your not obligated to fully state your occupation since it’s just a first few dates I think you could pull off saying you are in marketing and you work from home (similar or more details to what you actually do should be optional) 😂😉
Hermosa if you have TMJ that also triggers your neck and shoulder pain. You need to see a Maxilofacial doctor to get your TMJ fixed 🤗 I’m currently recovering from a surgery here in Mexico to fix my TMJ!
Melissa can you please do more dating videos/vlogs. I am exactly like you, where i struggle to find the right one because i am sooo sooo extremely picky. I am 25 and have only been in one relationship my whole life. although i have been dating consistently since the age of 17 or something i struggled a lot in finding the right person. when i finally found him, we broke up for reasons that were not in his control because he was genuinely a good person. Now that I am single and I have to do this whole dating process again is literally so annoying for me because I never end up liking anyone I go on dates with. But your videos are so fun and make me feel NORMAL for once. I see people around me get in and out of relationships overnight and eventually move onto new people so fast. I have never been like that, it is so hard for me to like someone because I date to marry and have high standards for myself. Your videos motivate me to continue trying and eventually we will all find our person.
It's relatable how I also don't like a person staying around me 24/7.. they should stay busy with their stuff and have some hobbies.. no talking and texting is fine too.. it's more comfortable that way I guess..
Maybe allow relationships to happen naturally instead of talking with men on the internet? Everyone has different experiences but I feel like these dating apps aren’t it
This is how I look at it! Going out of your way to use dating apps to find someone seems so forced. The right person will come along the moment you stop looking for them and you're at peace with yourself
I know this is off topic but , as a male subscriber, I just have 2 say that you have some of the most beautiful lips I have ever seen! Proof that God exists❤
im the type of guy that if im dating you i tend to go M.I.A for a few days at times . not because im unfaithful or because i dont care but because i dont think that if your dating that you have to talk everyday . im always working on myself and my relationship with Jesus so that comes with periods of isolation . i have not met a women ok with this yet tho lol
You've already ruled yourself out for good masculine men. The better the man the less he is going to want a social media girl just keepin it a buck. Men don't want women who put themselves out there, not for long term ofc they will entertain you tho because you are attractive no doubt
Hey How is Your Mental health Stunning thumbNail Tho Damn You Pretty As Hell Ur Makeup Always On Point Super Pretty Sexy Outfit Good morning Hope You Have a Magnificent Week Stay Bless N Be Safe AlwayS
Beeing picky is a good thing. It's better to be single than to be with the wrong person 😌🙌
Being in a relationship & not talking for 3 days is crazyyy girl
I was joking…… partially 😅😂
My thoughts exactly 😣 I couldn’t imagine! I know a couple who is in their 30s and married for over 5 yrs. They sleep in separate rooms because the girl likes her own space and do their own thing more often than normal. Weekends rarely spent together and work all week. I think that makes people grow apart. What’s the point of having a partner at that point ? and let me tell you, the guy likes attention from others because his wife doesn’t give it to him and doesn’t treat him like a partner. No one deserves that 🥺
@@Diana_C24that’s so odd at that point it’s a roommate relationship
@@Diana_C24not talking for 3 days and treating your partner like straight trash is not the same. some people need their space, and not talking for 3 days (in a secure and healthy relationship) could be good for people
@@JUS2324right!
I like that you just move on and date others. As it should be. Until the right guy come along.
Right, I admire it so much
Alone time even in a relationship was so important to me... Im very introverted and a single child with no cousins or anything so I really feel my best when Im alone. However, I met my bf and he also loves to have his alone time and it balances our relationship so well! I really hope you can find someone that special for yourself as well :)
There is nothing wrong with being picky in finding the right person, especially if this might be your forever person ❤you want to be picky and make sure they are right for you, especially if you talk a future or family together later. And go at your own pace, girl, don't let a man rush you into a relationship. The right one will come naturally and unexpectedly ❤ when it's time. I love how beautiful your makeup came out ❤ and I hope you had a good date.
I agree! I'm a very independent person and I enjoy my space and freedom. Clingy people make me feel trapped and extremely uncomfortable. The more space i have the safer and comfortable I feel. I have dated a lot of men who were very controlling and physically and emotionally draining. It would be nice to meet a guy to spend time with but he has to have his own life and be well established like I am. Not just be up under me all day with nothing going on for himself.
Girlll. I’m the same way. I also get turned off easily. (By any weird comment/ or action) & that’s ok!
i used to be just like you where i wanted to date someone i would occasionally see and who would have their own thing going on.......until i met my bf lol I think you have to be really good friends with your partner where you see them as more as just a lover. I love spending time with him where we are both dead silent doing our own thing in the same room. Although time apart is def needed in every relationship!! i hope one day you find a friend in a lover where it doesn't feel forced
I love your dating story time videos but maybe u should talk about the men AFTERR the dating phase doesnt work 😭😂 but thats so crazy they watch ur videos, its expected tho its kinda like a cheat sheet into ur thoughts and whether or not ur feeling them😂😂😂
yasssss do ths after dating phase!
why? the men should act right then if they wouldn't the internet to know what they did.
@@nicoleavery7238 in the perfect world yes but thats not the reality life.
Sameeeee i use brown eyeliner pencil for my eyess i cant take the harshness of black eyeliner anymore i feel like brown gives the same feel but less harsh and more dreamy in my opinion ✨✨✨✨
Okay when you were talking about the neck/upper back pain i was speechless lol I have dealt with the same thing and thought i was the only one. I went to a chiropractor and instantly felt better. He recommended weekly visits along with massages once a month! Im a dental assistant so im constantly looking down 🥴
Do not settle, have those standards high. People just need to stop saying one has to lower their standards or so, they aren’t going to be the ones being with the person. You do what you have to do Meli 🩷
the teaaaa bestie 😭 just keep living your best life!
I’m so glad you didn’t get the Botox! I was watching your other video and wanted to comment but forgot. Basically the pain will just move to a different set of muscles!! I have had the same chronic symptoms as you and the biggest thing that has helped me is a physical therapist that specializes in “PRI” you can look up postural restoration institute and try to find a provider near you! If you’re using the wrong muscles to stabilize yourself it can cause all kinds of issues similar to your stomach issues you’ve mentioned as well!! Hope this helps!
I literally love watching these videos it just feels so homy
LITERALLY ATE THIS LOOK UP 😍
love love the dating life updates its so entertaining to hear all these encounters and how it ends up 🤣💖 love you meliiii
Try posture classes! They helped so much with my shoulder & back pain
So beautiful! And your skin looks great!! ❤️
Hi melissa ! Your updo hair is soo cute , do you have a video on how you style that updo hairstyle?
I don’t think you’re being picky at all when dating. I am the same way and don’t mind being on my own. But the 3 days without talking is crazy 😂
tbh i wish i was like you, i’m struggling to work on my anxious attachment and the thought of going without talking for 3 days makes me think that the way i am i’d lose interest in the person, i would need a call or at least a text to connect in some way
I love watching ur vids girly but canyou plzzzz say all the products u use from makeup to fragrance xo
IM HERE MS ESTELLA!!
girl that outfit was sick!!
be careful girly cause men be crazy and have the wrong intention, maybe you should just say you do social media for brands and keep it at that
What? All men are crazy and have the wrong intentions? Where do you live, an imaginary world?
“I need to be able to hold my head up” I’m dying 😂😂😭
Girl same! I have been having tmj, neck and shoulder problems! I’m still trying to figure out what to do about them though also I loved this video ❤
you‘re so gorgeous! 💗
A man from VA?! 🙅♀️🏃♀️ GORL RUNNING
I love you’re video’s !🫶🏻
my new fav youtuberr
Good luck with the date beautiful! Be safe
They remind me of your wine videos 😍💕 I miss those
Lmao Melissa you got me laughing on the Leo #2 and the Rock watching your video 😭😂
You’re so gorgeous!!🥹💗
Maybe you should think about the type of guys you are attracting and why are they drawn to you. I find that these days meeting folks online especially after they see your social media might already be a red flag. Personally I don't think that men who are on social media are typically looking for a relationship, instead they are looking for something esle. Hey I can be wrong and maybe I'm old school. Honesty via social media is extremely hard to come by. Just a word of advice from an older woman.
I 100000% agree with you! You have to be picky with dating! Hermosa as always!🫶🏽🖤🖤
Where is your shirt from? SOOOO cute
I’d recommend a chiropractor for neck pain
babes the mist talk was 5 mins we want more tea talk
I kept fast forwarding & im like what the heck, is she still talking about that?😅😭
Love these videos girlie keep em coming 🫶🏾 i just got out of my relationship after a yr. it was my first real one he hurt me bad but im so glad im I’m officially done now. i feel more like myself again ! Im soon ready to start dating again have my eye on 2 ppl & need advice lol
Have you tried going to a chiropractor for your neck and shoulder pain? 🤔 I hope your day/night is going well. I love you girly 🤍
Ur so gorgeous I can’t 😍🤍
I like your perspective on dating! Very healthy! Be safe out there ❤
I actually think your not obligated to fully state your occupation since it’s just a first few dates I think you could pull off saying you are in marketing and you work from home (similar or more details to what you actually do should be optional) 😂😉
What is the lip gloss u used plss i love how it looks on you? Ps. I love your videos i feel like im listening to a bestie on facetime
looking gorgeous as always ❣️
how have you been doing ur brows lately? do u get them laminated?
Hermosa if you have TMJ that also triggers your neck and shoulder pain. You need to see a Maxilofacial doctor to get your TMJ fixed 🤗 I’m currently recovering from a surgery here in Mexico to fix my TMJ!
you're stunning
something ive learned, is that we're not picky. we just know what we want 💞 hope we find our person soon 🥰
Melissa can you please do more dating videos/vlogs. I am exactly like you, where i struggle to find the right one because i am sooo sooo extremely picky. I am 25 and have only been in one relationship my whole life. although i have been dating consistently since the age of 17 or something i struggled a lot in finding the right person. when i finally found him, we broke up for reasons that were not in his control because he was genuinely a good person. Now that I am single and I have to do this whole dating process again is literally so annoying for me because I never end up liking anyone I go on dates with. But your videos are so fun and make me feel NORMAL for once. I see people around me get in and out of relationships overnight and eventually move onto new people so fast. I have never been like that, it is so hard for me to like someone because I date to marry and have high standards for myself. Your videos motivate me to continue trying and eventually we will all find our person.
Did you do the lotion and oil in the shower?
Prob after cuz u wud prob slip and fall in the shower 🤷🏽♀️ and it’s not good for the drains it wud clog them.
I don't have tea, but I do have monster! ♡
I love this beautiful gorgeous 😍😍😍😍💖💖
Did you put freckles on your nose? Is that a thing??
It's relatable how I also don't like a person staying around me 24/7.. they should stay busy with their stuff and have some hobbies.. no talking and texting is fine too.. it's more comfortable that way I guess..
What brush do you use to set your under eyes?
Im dying to know where your top is from 🫣
Just curious…so who was that guy on the vlog? The Picnic? The rock?
Where is your shirt from? 😊
What color did you dye your hair?
Where is your top from?
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Outfit from?
Dude, I’ve been single forever and I am not settling down for anyone.
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Being picky is not settling for less than what your standards are and deserve
Maybe allow relationships to happen naturally instead of talking with men on the internet? Everyone has different experiences but I feel like these dating apps aren’t it
I agree fr
This is how I look at it! Going out of your way to use dating apps to find someone seems so forced. The right person will come along the moment you stop looking for them and you're at peace with yourself
I need to catch up I thought you were talking about the Dwayne Johnson (The Rock) 😅
real
I’m here for being picky, you know what you want and don’t want to waste your time, I’d do the same if I were dating.
I know this is off topic but , as a male subscriber, I just have 2 say that you have some of the most beautiful lips I have ever seen! Proof that God exists❤
Atp you should just create fake profile and give them that, so they won’t see your actual page
I’ve been so picky that its so hard for me to actually like someone 😪😅
Don’t have kids if u like your alone time lol
Yeah guys are creeps 😂😂😂
im the type of guy that if im dating you i tend to go M.I.A for a few days at times . not because im unfaithful or because i dont care but because i dont think that if your dating that you have to talk everyday . im always working on myself and my relationship with Jesus so that comes with periods of isolation . i have not met a women ok with this yet tho lol
THE ROCK?????? Dwayne Johnson???????
I want to meet you now that I’m newly single again… you look like the mother of the kids I have yet to have & dont. 😂❤
Can I take you on a date ? ❤ you remind me a lot of me literally I don’t know what your sign is but I’m a Virgo 😂
🥰😘😍😉😊💍
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How do you look so good after getting out the shower OMG hottie
Girl those lashes are not doing you good it just makes your eyes droopy like sleepy 😪
Go get a massage with a sobadora that worked for me. chiropractors didn’t work for me
You've already ruled yourself out for good masculine men. The better the man the less he is going to want a social media girl just keepin it a buck. Men don't want women who put themselves out there, not for long term ofc they will entertain you tho because you are attractive no doubt
Don't be victimized to the loser mindset.
Hey How is Your Mental health
Stunning thumbNail Tho
Damn You Pretty As Hell
Ur Makeup Always On Point
Super Pretty Sexy Outfit
Good morning
Hope You Have a Magnificent Week
Stay Bless N Be Safe AlwayS
Hella dates and no ring. Cuz men dont want to wife up 304s
Why are you here
@@melissaa_estrellaa lol run to the mirror look in it and lmk if you have the answer to your own question mami
I get so excited when you upload I feel like I’m getting an update on a friend 🫶🏼 ty for always sharing the things you do!
Gurl ilysm. ♥️🫶🏻 You're my fav utuber
i felt seen when you said 3 days 🥹🫶🏽 i don’t think people realize how healthy that actually is lol
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