I hate how women have been suppressed over the centuries even. Let's hope for a better future. Sadly there are many places still today where it's not looking good.
I’m so glad you posted girl. I am confused and this is an eye opener. We should definitely embrace what makes us happy and free out of love. If we want equality, matriarchy is the key. God bless ✨💚
I liked that you said that it doesn’t matter ho much money that I have. That even a guy with resources can be stingy. I personally, strive to be generous and make sacrifices despite my low income. I will keep in mind that if a man isn’t a provider it will affect his self esteem. Thanks for sharing this message.
First time I fully agree with You. Yes, everyone got some shadows but most important thing is recognize it and stop fighting with your kinks, otherness, whatever. When You accept this then life is much easier and You as a person, member of society, are more helpful and needed. Of course this way is not easy so everyone need mentor or teacher so good luck !
I have always had a very large shadow, for as long as I can remember. Coming from my desire to please the Women in my life. This isn’t something that I was afraid of seeing in myself ever, but something that I thought others would be afraid or shocked at seeing. I believe that components of my shadow showed when I was very young, but we’re suppressed and made into what is my shadow today based off of what I observed and learned growing up. However, my shadow has gotten smaller over the past year, and over the past few months has been looked at very closely. Shining light on it, causing it to become less, it has blurred together a little more with my persona. Thank You, Ms Alla. This was super insightful and interesting. It really helps me look at myself as a person. You are so intellectual.
The most important lesson I have got from your videos is that we (males) show who we truly are my our deeds. Also it is important to change the mind set. Personally I have a good income but the wife is actually the bread winner. All our money goes into one account and she pays the bills and makes the household decisions. I cook, clean and do the maintenance work. The only place I'm the "alpha" is the bedroom because her pleasure is utmost. I'm truly in an FLR and very happy for it.
I believe you strive to bring out the best in people & you are deserving of respect & indeed are a person one would be very lucky to have help guide them to becoming a better & more useful individual. I once disrespected you & I am ashamed of myself for that. Thank You.
💜 You are Medicine. 💜 I've been exploring my Shadow sides through getting triggered / creatively expressing them in safe ways. A big aspect of my Shadow is being a Domme... And honestly, YOU really inspire me, how you OWN your POWER... I LOVE your videos and how you bring a Goddess dimension to being a Domme. Super inspiring. I am very interested to be Worshipped as a FinDomme... Curious what platform(s) you recommend?
Saturn in the 8th house of the birth chart reveals these truths to the chart holder over time. Particularly past their Saturn return. I have this placement and in the sign of Scorpio. Through study and practical application, you become an adept.
I would like to comment on the definition of personality, “which is the image that we want others to see.” In astrology, we call it the rising sign Example: I am a Capricorn. This we call the sun. My sun is Capricorn, but my rising sign, for example, is Sagittarius, which means the sun is the soul. My soul is Capricorn, but my personality is Sagittarius So yeah we are all complex in the most interesting ways
You have an interesting grasp on things i can appreciate Id be curious on your thoughts on the value of a man using the femdom archetype to deep his own connection to his light/dark feminine.
I think this analysis of the issue is incredibly interesting. Your point about the systemic repression of female sexuality and subsequent slut-shaming that occurs should women present sexual or hyper-sexual desire really hit the nail on the head for me. However your second point seemed a bit contradictory. You said that men are naturally providers. And that the self-worth of a man suffers if they cannot provide. Wouldn’t it make sense however that the societal expectation for men to be a resource provider is similarly unfair as an expectation that women take care of the house? It seems to me that simply choosing a male partner based on their ability to provide resources for you would be a rather shallow relationship, and not at all balanced. Would it not make more sense to assume that regardless of gender, both men and women have the right to be sexual beings, and should provide for each other?
Спасибо за видео! В сети очень мало разумной информации о фемдоме, тем более с позиции юнгианства. Тем более в такой сногсшибающей подаче. А все три фактора не совпадали никогда до этого момента :) Правда, я с вами не согласен (но буду следить за вашими размышлениями)
How To Develop Self-Respect by Dr Peterson: Part of the reason people watch anti-heroes and villains is that there is a part of them crying out for the incorporation of the monster within them. This is what gives them strength of character and self-respect because it is impossible to respect yourself until you grow teeth. And if you grow teeth and you realize that you are somewhat dangerous, or even seriously dangerous, then you might be more willing to demand that you treat yourself with respect - and for other people to do the same thing. That does not mean being cruel is better than not being cruel. What it means is that being able to be cruel, and then not being cruel, is better than not being able to be cruel at all. Because in the first case, you are nothing but naïve, and in the second case, you are dangerous but you have it under control. A lot of martial arts concentrate on exactly that as part of their philosophy of training. They are not training you to fight. They are training you to be peaceful and avoid fights. However, if you are competent at fighting, that actually decreases the probability you are going to have to fight. The reason is that when someone pushes you, you will be able to respond with confidence. And this is certainly the case in dealing with bullies. It is a matter of facing the thing you least want to face. This is an interesting thing about the integration of the shadow because recognizing yourself as the locus of evil, in some sense, gives you far more respect for yourself, strangely enough, because of the same respect you might have for a wild animal or even a monster. So then maybe you learn to treat yourself differently.
Как же несправедливо, что мужская природа принимается и поощряется обществом. Типа "Да, мы постоянно хотим секса, да, мы вот такие вот, и это совершенно нормально". А женская природа хотеть от мужчины защиты и ресурсов осуждается и клеймится. Женщин постоянно назывпют меркантилтными с.ками. А ведь это действительно совершенно есстественно!!! До меня только сейчас это дошло, благодарю Вас Алла.
Belle interprétation d'une philosophie...cependant, Karl est mort et la psychologie a évolué au delà de tout les possibles...il est important de coller l'influence du jour à la réflexion ne pas calquer un fonctionnement d'un temps passé avec une réalité actuelle mouvante...
I agree that a dominant woman is not obligated to perform all BDSM practices if she does not like them, and that a real male servant should be aimed at satisfying her sexuality and not her own. For example, if a woman does not like to be active on top and wants aggressive sex, then her slave can, on her orders, become on top and work actively until a seventh sweat to satisfy her, but without violence and disrespect for her. However, if a woman asks to beat her, or write in her mouth, to humiliate her, then forgive me, in my opinion, this is not a femdom. What a male dominance. And it hurts women. Because a man can start treating all women this way. I know a good guy who, after actively watching porn where women give blowjobs, hit them in the face, began to become impudent over time and disrespectful to women.
@@alla_mephistopheles Then I agree with you 100%. I also noticed that many women who say that they want a man to dominate them in sex, in fact, do not want a man to dominate, they want a man to be more active and serve them better, not be lethargic and did not expect that a woman will do everything for him. This is especially noticeable for those women who do not know how to properly saddle men in sex, as a result of which they jump up and down on the penis, quickly get tired and, as a result, do not enjoy it because they are distracted by fatigue. Cowgirls who love to ride men as a rule do not jump, but slide on the penis, as a result of which they do not get tired and come to orgasm before the man.
Well what's the problem about the last part exactly, if women like it, then it's okay if they are disrepected. What's the difference with everything written here ?
I don’t understand why men should accept the idea that women want (only money) I would never accept to let a lady come out with me to pay for anything we do it together. But why should i pay for her personal things?? (Car gas, gold..ect) I mean ..personal thing a man should pay only for his family, his kids and his wife (his real goddess) Yes, it is natural for woman to want money….but some ladies take it sooo fare and teas men using men’s weakness to pay all there money . In summer (i think): 1-mens money should be for his family , kids and his goddess wife or to do some charity (if him and his queen want to do that). 2-yes, sex worker have the right to take ((acceptable amount of money)) as its there job (as a job) but it become bad if she steal all what this man have and gives him nothing in return (just under the umbrella of femdom) 3-A real man even in vanilla life , will not be able to go out for a dinner or date with a lady and not pay for everything . This is normal
I hate how women have been suppressed over the centuries even. Let's hope for a better future. Sadly there are many places still today where it's not looking good.
I’m so glad you posted girl. I am confused and this is an eye opener. We should definitely embrace what makes us happy and free out of love. If we want equality, matriarchy is the key. God bless ✨💚
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I liked that you said that it doesn’t matter ho much money that I have. That even a guy with resources can be stingy. I personally, strive to be generous and make sacrifices despite my low income. I will keep in mind that if a man isn’t a provider it will affect his self esteem. Thanks for sharing this message.
This was a very interesting perspective and right on point. I have been practicing FemDom for nearly 15 years now.
Oh very good! =)
Thank You Goddess Alla Mephistopheles for blessing me with Your Vast Knowledge each and every day, be it here or on Twitter! It is Truly PRICELESS!!!!
First time I fully agree with You. Yes, everyone got some shadows but most important thing is recognize it and stop fighting with your kinks, otherness, whatever. When You accept this then life is much easier and You as a person, member of society, are more helpful and needed. Of course this way is not easy so everyone need mentor or teacher so good luck !
You're the only most genuine girl I've ever seen
I have always had a very large shadow, for as long as I can remember. Coming from my desire to please the Women in my life. This isn’t something that I was afraid of seeing in myself ever, but something that I thought others would be afraid or shocked at seeing. I believe that components of my shadow showed when I was very young, but we’re suppressed and made into what is my shadow today based off of what I observed and learned growing up. However, my shadow has gotten smaller over the past year, and over the past few months has been looked at very closely. Shining light on it, causing it to become less, it has blurred together a little more with my persona. Thank You, Ms Alla. This was super insightful and interesting. It really helps me look at myself as a person. You are so intellectual.
My good booooy😘
The most important lesson I have got from your videos is that we (males) show who we truly are my our deeds. Also it is important to change the mind set. Personally I have a good income but the wife is actually the bread winner. All our money goes into one account and she pays the bills and makes the household decisions. I cook, clean and do the maintenance work. The only place I'm the "alpha" is the bedroom because her pleasure is utmost. I'm truly in an FLR and very happy for it.
I believe you strive to bring out the best in people & you are deserving of respect & indeed are a person one would be very lucky to have help guide them to becoming a better & more useful individual. I once disrespected you & I am ashamed of myself for that. Thank You.
💜 You are Medicine. 💜 I've been exploring my Shadow sides through getting triggered / creatively expressing them in safe ways. A big aspect of my Shadow is being a Domme... And honestly, YOU really inspire me, how you OWN your POWER... I LOVE your videos and how you bring a Goddess dimension to being a Domme. Super inspiring. I am very interested to be Worshipped as a FinDomme... Curious what platform(s) you recommend?
Twitter plus your payment methods 😁 and if you want to post content, I use LoyalFans mostly.
Thank you 🖤
@@alla_mephistopheles Thank you Queen. Love you Soul much!! 💜💜💜💜✨
Goddess/Femdom. I love this association. Perfect.
You should do a piece on self -awareness and the strength of the shadow.
Saturn in the 8th house of the birth chart reveals these truths to the chart holder over time. Particularly past their Saturn return. I have this placement and in the sign of Scorpio. Through study and practical application, you become an adept.
Mistress can u start a podcast? I think it wiĺll be very helpfull
I would like to comment on the definition of personality, “which is the image that we want others to see.” In astrology, we call it the rising sign
Example: I am a Capricorn. This we call the sun. My sun is Capricorn, but my rising sign, for example, is Sagittarius, which means the sun is the soul. My soul is Capricorn, but my personality is Sagittarius
So yeah we are all complex in the most interesting ways
You have an interesting grasp on things i can appreciate
Id be curious on your thoughts on the value of a man using the femdom archetype to deep his own connection to his light/dark feminine.
I think this analysis of the issue is incredibly interesting. Your point about the systemic repression of female sexuality and subsequent slut-shaming that occurs should women present sexual or hyper-sexual desire really hit the nail on the head for me. However your second point seemed a bit contradictory. You said that men are naturally providers. And that the self-worth of a man suffers if they cannot provide. Wouldn’t it make sense however that the societal expectation for men to be a resource provider is similarly unfair as an expectation that women take care of the house? It seems to me that simply choosing a male partner based on their ability to provide resources for you would be a rather shallow relationship, and not at all balanced. Would it not make more sense to assume that regardless of gender, both men and women have the right to be sexual beings, and should provide for each other?
Women going for every men that is right
Спасибо за видео! В сети очень мало разумной информации о фемдоме, тем более с позиции юнгианства. Тем более в такой сногсшибающей подаче. А все три фактора не совпадали никогда до этого момента :)
Правда, я с вами не согласен (но буду следить за вашими размышлениями)
How To Develop Self-Respect by Dr Peterson:
Part of the reason people watch anti-heroes and villains is that there is a part of them crying out for the incorporation of the monster within them. This is what gives them strength of character and self-respect because it is impossible to respect yourself until you grow teeth. And if you grow teeth and you realize that you are somewhat dangerous, or even seriously dangerous, then you might be more willing to demand that you treat yourself with respect - and for other people to do the same thing.
That does not mean being cruel is better than not being cruel. What it means is that being able to be cruel, and then not being cruel, is better than not being able to be cruel at all. Because in the first case, you are nothing but naïve, and in the second case, you are dangerous but you have it under control. A lot of martial arts concentrate on exactly that as part of their philosophy of training. They are not training you to fight. They are training you to be peaceful and avoid fights. However, if you are competent at fighting, that actually decreases the probability you are going to have to fight. The reason is that when someone pushes you, you will be able to respond with confidence. And this is certainly the case in dealing with bullies.
It is a matter of facing the thing you least want to face. This is an interesting thing about the integration of the shadow because recognizing yourself as the locus of evil, in some sense, gives you far more respect for yourself, strangely enough, because of the same respect you might have for a wild animal or even a monster. So then maybe you learn to treat yourself differently.
I love you sis💕💕
Hey Goddess, are you into/practice the Occult?
Thank you mistress i love you mistress
Как же несправедливо, что мужская природа принимается и поощряется обществом. Типа "Да, мы постоянно хотим секса, да, мы вот такие вот, и это совершенно нормально". А женская природа хотеть от мужчины защиты и ресурсов осуждается и клеймится. Женщин постоянно назывпют меркантилтными с.ками. А ведь это действительно совершенно есстественно!!! До меня только сейчас это дошло, благодарю Вас Алла.
Goddes 💛
Is this true religion?
Belle interprétation d'une philosophie...cependant, Karl est mort et la psychologie a évolué au delà de tout les possibles...il est important de coller l'influence du jour à la réflexion ne pas calquer un fonctionnement d'un temps passé avec une réalité actuelle mouvante...
I agree that a dominant woman is not obligated to perform all BDSM practices if she does not like them, and that a real male servant should be aimed at satisfying her sexuality and not her own.
For example, if a woman does not like to be active on top and wants aggressive sex, then her slave can, on her orders, become on top and work actively until a seventh sweat to satisfy her, but without violence and disrespect for her.
However, if a woman asks to beat her, or write in her mouth, to humiliate her, then forgive me, in my opinion, this is not a femdom. What a male dominance.
And it hurts women. Because a man can start treating all women this way. I know a good guy who, after actively watching porn where women give blowjobs, hit them in the face, began to become impudent over time and disrespectful to women.
Definitely didn’t mean the second part 😅 was more about the first one
@@alla_mephistopheles Then I agree with you 100%. I also noticed that many women who say that they want a man to dominate them in sex, in fact, do not want a man to dominate, they want a man to be more active and serve them better, not be lethargic and did not expect that a woman will do everything for him. This is especially noticeable for those women who do not know how to properly saddle men in sex, as a result of which they jump up and down on the penis, quickly get tired and, as a result, do not enjoy it because they are distracted by fatigue. Cowgirls who love to ride men as a rule do not jump, but slide on the penis, as a result of which they do not get tired and come to orgasm before the man.
Well what's the problem about the last part exactly, if women like it, then it's okay if they are disrepected. What's the difference with everything written here ?
I don’t understand why men should accept the idea that women want (only money)
I would never accept to let a lady come out with me to pay for anything we do it together. But why should i pay for her personal things?? (Car gas, gold..ect)
I mean ..personal thing a man should pay only for his family, his kids and his wife (his real goddess)
Yes, it is natural for woman to want money….but some ladies take it sooo fare and teas men using men’s weakness to pay all there money .
In summer (i think):
1-mens money should be for his family , kids and his goddess wife or to do some charity (if him and his queen want to do that).
2-yes, sex worker have the right to take ((acceptable amount of money)) as its there job (as a job) but it become bad if she steal all what this man have and gives him nothing in return (just under the umbrella of femdom)
3-A real man even in vanilla life , will not be able to go out for a dinner or date with a lady and not pay for everything . This is normal
Are You Really Mom? 🙋♀🙋♀🙋♀
Ok u are right but women have both right then y this happen 🙄🙄😔
Nice talk but dont understand
Why women going for money this is a right 🙄🙄🙄