@Dr.GD4 Right!! I'm so happy to see a man say this. I was thinking about how her mom and dad had to know about how he wanted to hit. Like sir, please stop.
Oh they do !!!! I was pretty much mocked by a girl i know who is married to a dude that has cheated on her like 3 times THAT WE KNOW!!!!! people outside the marriage, he cares al little tompretemd he doesnt cheat on her Yet she acts all mighty cuz she is married and inam not ... Like girl, please, imprefer to be alone that disrepected everyday
@@AyAReI00 I can relate to this. My childhood friend(ex friend now) was in a group chat making fun of the fact that I'm single and don't have kids, we're 29 this year. So the joke is that I'll be entering my 30s alone and miserable according to her. Meanwhile I run into her husband frequently at a pub I love (they have the best burgers and my fav cider) LoL... Her hubby out here getting well acquainted with multiple women while she's at home with the kids. Husband even got in trouble for messing with an underaged girl, but in her mind she's better than me and believes deep down that I'm jealous of her life... It's sad, because honestly I don't want this for her.
Gotta be for his homies, cause those vows also embarrass his family not just the Bride and the Bride’s family. They raised that beast that vow does them deep shame, that vow was just for his home boys.
She doesn't love herself. The end. My mom thought she won when my dad married her after she fell pregnant. She thought she won because she dated my father knowing very well she wasn't the only one. After 35 years of marriage, my father has had 5 plus kids out of wedlock. I stopped counting when one was born in 2022.
Damn My grandma always warned me to never let a man marry you because you're pregnant especially when it was never planned ",shotgun wedding". Because you don't want him 20 years later to say he only married you because he got you pregnant.
Let a woman up there say “First time we talked I thought you were a joke, I wasn’t attracted at all but you bought me lunch everyday then I got to know you”
Those laughs would’ve been replaced with “ wow she said that”,“she should be ashamed” and “she know she’s not right for that”. They would’ve been ready to fight her rather verbally or physically. I didn’t find any of the vows funny especially the last one. He promise to smack that ssa every night? Reallllly? 🤦🏾♀️
I clocked that too. Why did she stay so long, why did she let him knock her up. Why is he such a douchebag 😢. If the man hasn't proposed after 3 or 4 years he doesn't want you and its time to give an ultimatum. The fact men can seriously tell if your wifey after the first date, six months into the relationship and fully after at least a year or 2 is wildddd. She wasted 15 years 😢
@@girlofanimationThat’s so sad, then they get ruined and become like this guy or become a Good Man. To think Children are better humans than Adults is insane, we are meant to have a deeper understanding than Children to guid them.
He has other girlfriends and want them to know he's still available. That's what these humiliation rituals are about. I married her but I don't like her like that.
He hates her. The end. Men know how to act, this shows that this woman let him get away with bad behavior. You can tell he’s gonna cheat his ass off in this shut up marriage! Take notes.. this is what happens when all the side chicks leave and he has to go back to you 🤦🏽♀️
He likes the fact that she was a challenge. Listen to what he says, all the others were easy. She's serious, so he wants to chase, and then discard her when he finally got her
@@bluebutterfly5062 💯 After FIFTEEN years he has finally made it to the shut up ceremony and soon the _discard_ her stages. The only way this marriage will last is because SHE won't leave. He's gone if/when he finds another victim he feels is a solid safety net.
Don't worry, it's not. That's play-play in those videos. That's the dangerous thing about the internet - it gives people freedom to misrepresent marriage.
I mean, who wouldn't love wedding vows from dudes in Batman villain suits, looking like Darkwing Duck, the Joker or Riddler in front of all your friends and family?
I wouldn't file the license. Hearing vows like these, it makes me think of the man that learned Mandarin to speak to his new in laws at the wedding. That's what we should be expecting. Nothing less.
100%. If a dude said something like the first 2, I would finish the ceremony and then just not file the license, and move out the next day probably. If the dude pulled some shit like the 3rd one, I would drop the bouquet at his feet and walk all the way out the door, do not pass "Go", do not collect $200 😂
@@BritishTeaFGC My husband's BF was with his girlfriend for 24 years, they decided to get married to celebrate the 25th. They got divorced 2 years later.
He doesn't like her..he's probably jealous of her because he can't wear the dress and veil, so he has to take the attention off her and put it on himself and make her look LESS THAN. I am so sick of seeing men disrespect the bride on the wedding day. Just let men marry each other...leave the women alone.
These men can take notes from the English gentleman that took the time to learn his bride and family’s language (Korean) and spoke at their wedding in Korean surprising them. It was a well written speech too
I agree. And I think we women should take accountability for the men that we’re choosing. We are so much smarter than what we give ourselves credit for. And we deserve much more. Most of these men today aren’t worth it.
@@Caseinpoint1777 That doesn’t sound pleasant though. Life is way too short to look for a romantic partner. There’s nothing wrong with being single. It can be liberating.
When I first saw videos of brides being disrespected like this I always was baffled none of the bride’s guests (especially her family) would get upset and call the groom out. But it makes more sense that this kind of disrespect is not new behaviour to the people in the audience, there’s undoubtedly a LOT of guests who have witnessed this appalling behaviour over and over and have tried so hard to talk her out of saying in this relationship but have finally given up trying to help her because she refuses to listen and already know from experience she’ll just take his side and defend his behaviour even if someone tried to speak up for her. Hence why the audience just sits there gritting their teeth in silence as this man once again humiliates her.
He didn’t just wake up and start embarrassing her, if he was that comfortable embarrassing her on THAT day, he’s BEEN embarrassing her…and she’s been accepting it…defending him
As much as I wanna blame the men, the woman staying in those relationships are equally stupid. Either they're pick me's and just want to say they're married, or they think that behavior is tolerable.
Well it's not always as easy as "just leaving" lol. Landlords expect 6 months rent and deposit upfront which is basically 10k. Or I need to earn between 40-60k which isn't possible with minimum wages even working 50 hours a week. And with a child they don't accept children they literally make it impossible to move in the uk. Not sure how it is in america. But landlords don't care about references even if I pay my rent on time every month etc. So leave to where lol. I dont have family to help me. Lucky for me I guess in a sense I have gotten help finally to move due to domestic violence which I have to sort of prove with a police report and all that to help my case. Because it got physical this time. And yeah not sure where im going or when I don't get much choice in where I move to unfortunately but I'm waiting and shouldn't take longer than 2 months I'm guessing. 🤷♀️ only the past 6 months or so I've learnt about gaslighting and he's literally a full blown narcissist it's crazy to think. And it's hard to wrap your head around the fact like this person doesn't like you but doesn't want you to leave or won't leave you. And watching these sort of things (not sheraseven) but these sorts of videos explaining everything getting it really into your head and telling the you and helping me to understand really helps break that mindset and the cycle you get stuck in. The relationship won't be like how it is in the beginning. It's all gradual and the abusive is subtle and constant or not all the time. And it does escalate. It's all different in different people's situations. It's very easy to be quick to judge especially when you're not in the situation. And you don't even know what the person and been through prior. I just wanted to leave my abusive home that's why I moved in with him and I was vulnerable at 22. But it turned out to be like this and this is the situation I'm in. Just because women "allow" it or put up with it etc. Also doesn't justify the men's behaviour. They shouldn't be acting that way to begin with.
I'd rather count all the leaves on every tree on earth, climb Mt. Everest without warm clothes, dance naked in a pit of vipers before I wait 15... FIFTEEN years to be some man's last resort wife. Like my sister says, "every woman's tolerance level is different" 🥴
Absolutely!!! Sisters, seriously. 1) *Never EVER accept a shuttup ring* 2) If he hasn't proposed by 2 years (assuming that's what you even want), *LEAVE* 3) For the love of God stop getting baby-trapped by these men WTF & 4) IDGAF what you stand to lose, don't ever let a man disrespect you twice. It only gets worse from there.
The fact that he mentioned her complexion when he is the same complexion speaks volumes. Also, the grammar…..yikes! He thought he was on a street corner with his homies.
Yesssssssssss he straight devalued her! So disgusting! You would have thought he was at a barbershop talking to the boys. The colorism, grammar, disrespect etc. 😢
i've been telling yall for years ßlàçk males, especially brownskin bm like the one in this video, stay fetishizing & objectifying us dark skinned bw & even brownskin bw in rarer cases.🤦🏿♀️
I follow the bride and she’s a fitness coach. She’s a “no excuses you’re fat stop eating” type. I think it’s a reflection of how she’s treated. And that gown was thousands upon thousands.
“I wanted to hit I ain’t gon hold you” it actually baffled me that a man would publicly say that. He actually could’ve taken it to his grave. It’s one of those things that happens everyday but no wife should ever have to hear that on her wedding day or period from her husband that’s wild to proceed with marriage after that level of disrespect.
Yeah it’s hard to feel sorry for women. I mean when the self esteem is so low you aren’t thinking clearly. All you need is an ounce of validation no matter how you get it and that’s actually a shame.
@@tarahbruno3793she did say we should hold women accountable but I heard many stories of men acting in a certain way just to marry band then change 180 degree.
@@tarahbruno3793she did say we should hold women accountable but I heard many stories of men acting in a certain way just to marry band then change 180 degree.
I totally understand and agree with your commentary. Marriage is considered as a sacred thing in most cultures . Many have no concept whatsoever about being in a marriage . They see it as an item on a to do list ☑️. 😂😢😮
It’s crazy these people met when I was a freshman in high school, I am now 30. He’s just now marrying her… I was 14-15 in 2009, I AM NOW 30 , that was HALF OF MY LIFETIME WHEN THEY MET!!!! I can not believe a beautiful woman would wait almost 2 decades for a man to marry her and on top of that, THESE ARE HIS VOWS?!!!?!! To a woman he’s known for 15 yearssss?!?! Whewwww 🤦🏾♀️🙄❤️🩹
Shut up rings and weddings... To each their own. This is what you get when wearing the white dress is the end goal. Good for them, but no fool will ever embarrass me like this!
Due to tears and foggy glasses, my husband couldn't read his vows so he did them on the fly. We were together five years, engaged for two. His vows made EVERYONE cry. It's not about time. It's about love, honor and respect.
11:17 the purple suit reminds me of A pimp named Slick back, sis the suit and the shade of purple speaks volumes! He is going to treat her even worse once they are married, it is a very sad situation but oh well let me mind my single business
Who raised these BOYS. My mom would drag my brother by his ears off the aisle. He would never ever especially infront of his parents he respects. So their disrespect is universal. What????
I would like to start a petition for a rehearsal of vows. Thats also a good way to see if this is a shut up ring/wedding & will say whatever to try & go viral. This is why I support courthouse weddings-I can’t imagine realizing your husband hates you, it’s gone viral and now you’re out of thousands of dollars…
She didn't just realize he hates her at the wedding, it's that she wants the wedding/marriage MORE than protecting her self-esteem! That is the problem!
If he speaks to her like that in public in front of their friends and family he’s probably far more disrespectful to her in private. The woman is complicit in her poor treatment though so I don’t feel bad for her or any other woman in this situation.
Imagine saying that to your bride on her wedding day in that ethereally beautiful dress and veil. Men feel shame but not about the right things, he should have felt ashamed to even think of making this his vow, let alone following through with it
You can tell the woman who said "as it should" when he was talking about how it took the bride time to develop feelings for him doesn't like him at all. If only the bride listened to her. 😂
The groom who said their first date lasted three days.... If that's the only inappropriate thing he said and the rest of his vows were sweet, I think that could have been a genuine mistake. He probably just thinks of that time as being a very romantic and magical experience between the two of them, and hadn't considered what judgements outsiders might pass. I only say this based off of that very short clip and the fact he didn't realize it might mean anything bad until he saw others' reactions (meanwhile, the other grooms in this compilation KNEW what they were saying and were immediately laughing at their own jokes and paused to look at the audience, expecting them to laugh along). But that might also be me giving him too much benefit of the doubt.
I was looking for this comment because I don't understand what's wrong with that. I think it's sweet that they liked each other so much they wanted to spend 3 days together back to back... only thing that's maybe embarrassing about them is that they don't have anything better to do with their time to be able to spend 3 days on a date 😂
@@Dee_Dee216 I think the implication is that she stayed the night and then didn't leave... not that they met up three days in a row. I think it was a mistake on that groom's part. But the other two...? Eech.
@TheDVantOne OH okay I get that. I saw a comment slightly after that explained. I still don't think he should be grouped with the rest of these degenerates either way though. I have been on 3 day dates where I slept over at a guy's place and nothing happened we just talked and connected. And even if they slept together, there's nothing wrong with doing that they are both grown so it's understandable that he wouldn't think it would be that big a deal to mention it.
Still making excuses for grown men? The man knew what he was saying was disrespectful. He said what he said as a way to publicly humble the lady. That is not cute nor funny.
The women who settle for such a man are victims of the societal message, “the best thing you can aspire to is to have a beautiful wedding.” Having a wedding as a life goal is insane. Things are changing for women…not fast enough.
Just have babies women its the most important job you can do its the only job actually im so excited for my wife to be a home maker and be everything she was always meant to be, a floor cleaning poopy underwear wiping sex doll!
There's a whole conversation about how grooms who really hate their brides will show OUT on their wedding day. They embarrass the heck out of them because they truly resent them for making them have to get married. This is embarrassing.
At this point we need to really start being honest with ourselves. These women allow this behaviour..why would u marry a man that had u waiting for decades... they speak to these women like this because she allows it. We show ppl how to treat us.. raise your standards babes.... these joke marriages won't last
The “I just wanted to hit” man could’ve said that so much better but he knew his wording would incite a negative reaction. It really aggravated me. Could’ve been: “when I met you, I was someone that pursued meaningless relationships. I allowed lust to cloud my mind and I will admit, initially my intentions with you were not pure. But when I saw that you were looking for something meaningful, I knew I should value you and know you as MORE. Over the years knowing and growing with you, I’ve learned to want better for myself. And YOU are better.” But hell if he said that then he’d actually love her.
I just mentioned that to someine else. His wording was poor. The way you wrote it is from the perspective of someone that has grown to love and appreciate their significant other... he has not. He said what he meant.
You want a wedding, not a marriage. There's an event where women (and men) get all dressed up in wedding dresses, the whole nine yards, and do a pub crawl and generally party together. It's called Brides of March and if you want to get your wedding dress ya-yas out, do that. 100% recommend.
I don't feel bad for them. I'm just glad they will never be able to act like they have it better than single women just because they're married. Not when all corners of the world now know that your husband hates you.
If a bride used her vows to make the groom the butt of all these jokes, you know the men would be screaming about her being a red flag and he shouldn’t marry her
This is what women tolerate when they are desperate to get married. This is the “Atleast I got a ring, at least I’m a wife.” They are ok with their husbands being someone else’s boyfriend because “ at least they got a ring.”
Nothing in this world would make me hold my peace if I attended a wedding of someone close to my heart and heard such filth in vows. Does the official leave out "If anyone has any objections speak now or forever hold your peace." Everyone nervously laughing instead of speaking up. Then again these women know who they are marrying so they must not wish to be saved. This is a sickness of the highest power.
I'm so glad I've never really fantasized about getting married. Matriage is a big, legally-binding life change that should be taken seriously. Don't enter into a life contract with an idiot or someone who will harm you (physically & psychologically).
The groom who mentioned the first date lasted 3 days, I think was an innocent mistake. He was just trying to point out a meaningful connection but instead she got a little embarrassed. But I don’t think he’s malicious as the other 2 grooms who set out to shame their brides.
He wrote those vows. He wasn't having random word vomit. He had time. He didnt care because 1) he did not consider her feelings and 2) because she isn't human to him.
We're done giving them free passes for lacking emotional intelligence. Also, wonder whose idea it was to have a first date that lasted three days? Probably his.
Exactly! And it doesn't sound like those 3 days were full of sexual acts because he said she made him wait for it. People are taking portions of his clip to voice their opinions instead of letting the full video of what he said play out.
Either way, why would you be with a person who even would think in this manner? I keep ppl around me that show me decency, courtesy. That story is not cool in front of family - in so many ways. That’s why the vid is getting a reaction - cause why would one do that for a wedding vow? …. In a vow for the rest of my life I would want someone to say why they think I’m the one to go down a road with them. Not a how we met - I know how we met.
The last wedding seemed worse to me, having to be asked several times if that's all you wrote, by the pastor/priest as well. I would feel humiliated. Women will start checking vows now and this will be added to the list, alongside wedding pranks as a possible red flag 😢.
I'm not tracking - the "first date lasted three days" guy tried to be genuine and endearing, but unintentionally missed the mark. The other two "just wanted to hit" - don't both men deserve just as much criticism? Neither were seriously romantic or endearing. One is just as bad as the other - rag on both of them just as hard!! Don't let either of them slide.
But why would you assume people would interprete it that way. If she hadn't reacted no one would have known she let him hit. And also she's grown so what? He was just casually telling their love story and didn't disrespectfully mention that they slept together, every one else just assumed which is on them for having dirty minds😂
WTFE 😮😮😮 MEN I SWEAR. MIND YOU I'M MARRIED WITH 4 KIDS THIS SH*T IS RIDICULOUS AND HORRIBLE MY HUSBAND SAID I WAS A FRIEND AND A LOVER THAT FILLED HIS SOUL IN WAYS HE DIDN'T KNOW HE NEEDED AND HE WANTED US TO WALK THIS LIFE TOGETHER BECAUSE OF ALL THAT
This sounds like my dad’s eulogy to my mother. It made her seem like a doormat. “She told me she loved me, but I didn’t love her yet” when talking about their relationship in the beginning.
Men know within 6 months if they want to marry a woman or not. If a man has you move in with him before he has made up his mind about marrying you he does not want to marry you. It does not take men that long to fall in love and emotionally invest in a woman. When a man falls in love he decides immediately to be with you because most men are not in love with the women they just date and live with and when men are in love they are inspired to action.
Can we normalize women leaving disrespectful men like this at the alter? I would happily protect my girlies who walked away after hearing such disgusting behaviour from their grooms. Why are women tolerating shit men would never tolerate? If women were saying vows like this to their groom,I can guarantee those men would throw tantrums and punches for the disrespect.
New subbie I love the honesty and holding all parties accountable. These excuses are clear as day and they’re being overlooked. This is the age of accepting the bottom it’s sad as hell!
My dad would have pulled me aside! I eloped and the response was not what I thought.... not even just my family, I overheard his family yelling at him that he did not do things right. We didn't get any congratulations, it was more like "if that's what you want".. now, he won't give me my divorce! He's holding on, for what?
DAMN 😂. At this point all you can do is laugh. Wtf 😭🤦🏾♀️. Don’t get angry for these women. Don’t feel bad for them either. They see the signs. These videos y’all make ain’t gone help em. Let them learn. All we can do is hope for the best
As annoying as these videos are, I think it's good they go viral cause once the bride knows everyone has seen it, she can NEVER pretend that she has it better than single women cause they will bring up this video🤣
@@omphilemoerane2569 Ohhh daaang. I didn’t even think of this. Now everyone will know that her self esteem is in the trash. The second hand embarrassment is real. Some people are so desperate that they’ll take anything. Hope she finds peace. This is sad af
I haven't heard the entire vow(1st clip) to know if he was clownin or just really happy he got his woman? He is looking deeply at her the whole time so I believe he really truly loves her and from his words she was different🤔.
She is going to divorce him one day women are divorcing men like him everyday it's disgusting and gross for a grown man to say that just to say you are married you don't have to settle for less marriage is not a goal
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Wise words
The suit should have been a warning ⚠️⚠️
Yes
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That part!
*sigh * Ladies, lets normalize leaving men at the altar please.....
I think we should normalize leaving men _before_ the altar
@@bluebutterfly5062 that part 😅
@@bluebutterfly5062 🙏🏾
Let's normalize having some standards and not just marrying any old thing just because you want to be married.
@@BabalonNuit or “flex” on single women who are doing them and are stress free. Meanwhile you at the alter with a man playing in your face.
Do men forget that you have elders in the audience. Your grandma and great aunt have to hear this mess...it's just gross.
As a man, I was disgusted. No class at all.
@Dr.GD4 Right!! I'm so happy to see a man say this. I was thinking about how her mom and dad had to know about how he wanted to hit. Like sir, please stop.
These men, have lost respect for themselves, so the elders, are an after thought!
They're fully aware; they simply don't care.
Even if the audience was 100 two year olds, he should have HONORED her. That's what lacking.
I know so many women in toxic marriages like this and they have the audacity to judge single women 🤣.
I would rather cook rice grain by grain than to be miserable in a marriage with a man who hates me.
@@tarahbruno3793😂😂😂not grain by grain
Oh they do !!!! I was pretty much mocked by a girl i know who is married to a dude that has cheated on her like 3 times THAT WE KNOW!!!!! people outside the marriage, he cares al little tompretemd he doesnt cheat on her
Yet she acts all mighty cuz she is married and inam not ... Like girl, please, imprefer to be alone that disrepected everyday
@@AyAReI00
I can relate to this.
My childhood friend(ex friend now) was in a group chat making fun of the fact that I'm single and don't have kids, we're 29 this year. So the joke is that I'll be entering my 30s alone and miserable according to her.
Meanwhile I run into her husband frequently at a pub I love (they have the best burgers and my fav cider) LoL... Her hubby out here getting well acquainted with multiple women while she's at home with the kids. Husband even got in trouble for messing with an underaged girl, but in her mind she's better than me and believes deep down that I'm jealous of her life...
It's sad, because honestly I don't want this for her.
“At least I got a man” Yes sis. “At least” is correct.
Are these vows for their home boys ? Gross, he reduces her to a thing. 😢
Yup. Still showing out for his homies in the audience. Smh.
He’s more in love with them.
#dlgang 😷
@@ibabechanel 🤣🤣
Gotta be for his homies, cause those vows also embarrass his family not just the Bride and the Bride’s family. They raised that beast that vow does them deep shame, that vow was just for his home boys.
"I just wanted to hit" and ppl proceeded to laugh. Ew and ew!!!
The laugh cause they know she’s about to be locked down with a clown
the way my dad wouldve knocked his teeth out...
No woman would say this, not even them strippers of s*x workers.
Yeah it was nervous laughter
Me personally i would have boo’d
She doesn't love herself. The end.
My mom thought she won when my dad married her after she fell pregnant. She thought she won because she dated my father knowing very well she wasn't the only one. After 35 years of marriage, my father has had 5 plus kids out of wedlock. I stopped counting when one was born in 2022.
Yoh 😮
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Damn
My grandma always warned me to never let a man marry you because you're pregnant especially when it was never planned ",shotgun wedding". Because you don't want him 20 years later to say he only married you because he got you pregnant.
That white guy not even taking the pastor's hint to clean up his statement was sad
She married a toddler.
This is what happens when you get a shut up ring ☕️
That it.
Yep.
Sheesh
@@Priscilla_Boye did you watch the full clip? Were you at the wedding? Do you know them personally?
And he still aint shut up. He embarrassed her smfh….
Let a woman up there say “First time we talked I thought you were a joke, I wasn’t attracted at all but you bought me lunch everyday then I got to know you”
OoOOh. YoUrE a GoLdDiGgEr!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly!
That wedding party would be stopped ✋️ right there
Those laughs would’ve been replaced with “ wow she said that”,“she should be ashamed” and “she know she’s not right for that”. They would’ve been ready to fight her rather verbally or physically. I didn’t find any of the vows funny especially the last one. He promise to smack that ssa every night? Reallllly? 🤦🏾♀️
Well put and definitely a double standard
Did he really say 2009 ?! So he made her wait 15 years and he admitted in his wedding vows that he only wanted her for sex ?! Wow. 🤦🏿♀️
He didn’t make her wait. She made a choice to stay AND get impregnated by him. Maybe she was blinded
Seriously smh just come on now.
I clocked that too. Why did she stay so long, why did she let him knock her up. Why is he such a douchebag 😢. If the man hasn't proposed after 3 or 4 years he doesn't want you and its time to give an ultimatum. The fact men can seriously tell if your wifey after the first date, six months into the relationship and fully after at least a year or 2 is wildddd. She wasted 15 years 😢
She allowed a man to date her that long.
@@dw9524 A man knows after 1 year. 2 years should be the max for dating without a ring.
A 40 year old man said all this. He’s childish and has a massive ego
I've seen some children, little boys, being much more romantic and respectful towards the little girls they have crushes on.
@@girlofanimationThat’s so sad, then they get ruined and become like this guy or become a Good Man. To think Children are better humans than Adults is insane, we are meant to have a deeper understanding than Children to guid them.
If he humiliates you he hates you
U mean she waited 15 yrs for this man ? If true, nothing said will help her.
Ladies, don't waste your time and youth on men like these.
He has other girlfriends and want them to know he's still available. That's what these humiliation rituals are about. I married her but I don't like her like that.
Yes, it was a bat signal! To his friends who knows he's a dog too! "Yeah, she ain't really lock me down. I'm still in these streets"
Thank you .
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Whew chile, projection
You know what-this comment tho!!! Nothing but facts!!
He hates her. The end. Men know how to act, this shows that this woman let him get away with bad behavior. You can tell he’s gonna cheat his ass off in this shut up marriage! Take notes.. this is what happens when all the side chicks leave and he has to go back to you 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly....he knows what he is doing...
He likes the fact that she was a challenge. Listen to what he says, all the others were easy. She's serious, so he wants to chase, and then discard her when he finally got her
@@bluebutterfly5062
💯 After FIFTEEN years he has finally made it to the shut up ceremony and soon the _discard_ her stages. The only way this marriage will last is because SHE won't leave. He's gone if/when he finds another victim he feels is a solid safety net.
If this is marriage.. I don't want it 😒
Don't worry, it's not. That's play-play in those videos. That's the dangerous thing about the internet - it gives people freedom to misrepresent marriage.
It’s definitely NOT! Very poor representation of what God created marriage to be.
@@reesebloom8093 nope...that's exactly what marriage is.
@@oanaion4899 You are miserable. Stay by yourself. Don't get married & you should be fine. No use making life miserable for someone else.
I mean, who wouldn't love wedding vows from dudes in Batman villain suits, looking like Darkwing Duck, the Joker or Riddler in front of all your friends and family?
🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 Not Darkwing Duck! XDD Not the whole bat family!
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I can’t unsee Darkwing Duck 🤣.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yasssssssssss
I wouldn't file the license. Hearing vows like these, it makes me think of the man that learned Mandarin to speak to his new in laws at the wedding. That's what we should be expecting. Nothing less.
100%. If a dude said something like the first 2, I would finish the ceremony and then just not file the license, and move out the next day probably. If the dude pulled some shit like the 3rd one, I would drop the bouquet at his feet and walk all the way out the door, do not pass "Go", do not collect $200 😂
The bar is set in the buttcrack of hell yall
As long as a man loves and respects you, even if he doesn't learn your language, you are blessed.❤
Seems a bit unrealistic but I get the point
But the bride would already know that her hubby speaks like this. You don’t discover this at the wedding.
We’ve made it this long” men like him will keep trying to see how much they can push your limits and this guy knew she’s just gonna take it
He saw he in 2009 and they just now getting married? These women just wanna say they are married they’ll take anything
How much do you want to bet they already have multiple children together
@@Caseinpoint1777yep they already have two I’m sure. She probably makes more money than him too
ANYTHING!! Standards will be in the depths of hell and they are ok with it 😔😔
She waited 15 years to get a ring🤯🤨 that's effing crazy....She is house Mat
Ages ago almost 20 years
She will not be happy in that marriage.
Yas
They’ve been together for fifteen years though. What’s going to change now that they’re officially married?
@@BritishTeaFGC My husband's BF was with his girlfriend for 24 years, they decided to get married to celebrate the 25th. They got divorced 2 years later.
she better make it work. she waited 15 years😩😩😩
I hope thats an assumption and not a wish? Got to be an assumption
He doesn't like her..he's probably jealous of her because he can't wear the dress and veil, so he has to take the attention off her and put it on himself and make her look LESS THAN. I am so sick of seeing men disrespect the bride on the wedding day. Just let men marry each other...leave the women alone.
Right he seems soooo feminine. There’s no way she’s not paying at least half of the bills
@@Caseinpoint1777
It's usually 🙋🏽♀️95/ 5🙋🏾♂️
EDIT: corrected to reflect her parenting & domestic labor AND him paying the light bill.
@@beeznhoney4323 does that ratio include all of the domestic labor she’s doing?
@@Caseinpoint1777
NOPE! I corrected my post
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@@beeznhoney4323 Lol! Much more accurate
“It’s his fault for being that way but it’s your fault for deciding he is still marriage material …that’s on you." THE END. Period.
Exactly!!!💯
These men can take notes from the English gentleman that took the time to learn his bride and family’s language (Korean) and spoke at their wedding in Korean surprising them. It was a well written speech too
I watched that video ❤️😍🥰 It made me cry with joy!! That is the standard ❤❤
I would’ve had to stop him right there. Because he’s not gonna do this in front of my entire family and all of my friends
My family and friends would've stopped him. That was horrible!
Guarantee this not the first time they said something crazy.
Seriously. Respect is big in keeping a good relationship.
She should have said no to him day one
@@transparentsunflower8295 I agree. I know a lot of women who would tolerate this type of treatment just to have a man. It's a damn shame.
I want to sympathize with these women that go through this but honestly it’s 2024 y’all I’m tired of women letting bozos like him treat them like this
I agree. And I think we women should take accountability for the men that we’re choosing. We are so much smarter than what we give ourselves credit for. And we deserve much more. Most of these men today aren’t worth it.
@@flutatious_music4that means they will be single for a long time and some women are so afraid of being single they would rather be mistreated
@@Caseinpoint1777 That doesn’t sound pleasant though. Life is way too short to look for a romantic partner. There’s nothing wrong with being single. It can be liberating.
When I first saw videos of brides being disrespected like this I always was baffled none of the bride’s guests (especially her family) would get upset and call the groom out. But it makes more sense that this kind of disrespect is not new behaviour to the people in the audience, there’s undoubtedly a LOT of guests who have witnessed this appalling behaviour over and over and have tried so hard to talk her out of saying in this relationship but have finally given up trying to help her because she refuses to listen and already know from experience she’ll just take his side and defend his behaviour even if someone tried to speak up for her. Hence why the audience just sits there gritting their teeth in silence as this man once again humiliates her.
@@flutatious_music4 I agree. To me being married to a man who publicly and privately disrespects me seems like a nightmare
He didn’t just wake up and start embarrassing her, if he was that comfortable embarrassing her on THAT day, he’s BEEN embarrassing her…and she’s been accepting it…defending him
When the other men in the room are looking at you and asking "that's it? are you sure?"... and you still don't get it. You are beyond help
There is another viral video where the paster even ASKED the groom if "I'm going to tap that ssa" is all he has to say and he still didn't get it.
And she looked embarassed after he said that, by her body language
literally
As much as I wanna blame the men, the woman staying in those relationships are equally stupid. Either they're pick me's and just want to say they're married, or they think that behavior is tolerable.
Yeo
A lot of women still need to learn the hard way, apparently. *sigh
Well it's not always as easy as "just leaving" lol. Landlords expect 6 months rent and deposit upfront which is basically 10k. Or I need to earn between 40-60k which isn't possible with minimum wages even working 50 hours a week. And with a child they don't accept children they literally make it impossible to move in the uk. Not sure how it is in america. But landlords don't care about references even if I pay my rent on time every month etc. So leave to where lol. I dont have family to help me. Lucky for me I guess in a sense I have gotten help finally to move due to domestic violence which I have to sort of prove with a police report and all that to help my case. Because it got physical this time. And yeah not sure where im going or when I don't get much choice in where I move to unfortunately but I'm waiting and shouldn't take longer than 2 months I'm guessing. 🤷♀️ only the past 6 months or so I've learnt about gaslighting and he's literally a full blown narcissist it's crazy to think. And it's hard to wrap your head around the fact like this person doesn't like you but doesn't want you to leave or won't leave you. And watching these sort of things (not sheraseven) but these sorts of videos explaining everything getting it really into your head and telling the you and helping me to understand really helps break that mindset and the cycle you get stuck in. The relationship won't be like how it is in the beginning. It's all gradual and the abusive is subtle and constant or not all the time. And it does escalate. It's all different in different people's situations. It's very easy to be quick to judge especially when you're not in the situation. And you don't even know what the person and been through prior. I just wanted to leave my abusive home that's why I moved in with him and I was vulnerable at 22. But it turned out to be like this and this is the situation I'm in.
Just because women "allow" it or put up with it etc. Also doesn't justify the men's behaviour. They shouldn't be acting that way to begin with.
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I'd rather count all the leaves on every tree on earth, climb Mt. Everest without warm clothes, dance naked in a pit of vipers before I wait 15... FIFTEEN years to be some man's last resort wife. Like my sister says, "every woman's tolerance level is different" 🥴
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This read is remarkable lady🎉!
Absolutely!!! Sisters, seriously. 1) *Never EVER accept a shuttup ring* 2) If he hasn't proposed by 2 years (assuming that's what you even want), *LEAVE* 3) For the love of God stop getting baby-trapped by these men WTF & 4) IDGAF what you stand to lose, don't ever let a man disrespect you twice. It only gets worse from there.
The fact that he mentioned her complexion when he is the same complexion speaks volumes. Also, the grammar…..yikes! He thought he was on a street corner with his homies.
Yesssssssssss he straight devalued her! So disgusting! You would have thought he was at a barbershop talking to the boys. The colorism, grammar, disrespect etc. 😢
Seems like he liked her dark skin and objectified her beauty.
@@nickj12yeah he said "dark skin thaang" as a compliment. Still pathetic that he objectified her.
i've been telling yall for years ßlàçk males, especially brownskin bm like the one in this video, stay fetishizing & objectifying us dark skinned bw & even brownskin bw in rarer cases.🤦🏿♀️
Yall a mess and miserable
I follow the bride and she’s a fitness coach. She’s a “no excuses you’re fat stop eating” type. I think it’s a reflection of how she’s treated. And that gown was thousands upon thousands.
she still needs to lose some weight from what i seen in that video.
And I'd bet she footed the bill. 😮
What’s her sm
Which bride 👰🏾
“I wanted to hit I ain’t gon hold you” it actually baffled me that a man would publicly say that. He actually could’ve taken it to his grave. It’s one of those things that happens everyday but no wife should ever have to hear that on her wedding day or period from her husband that’s wild to proceed with marriage after that level of disrespect.
thats how much he hates her but she allows it
Yeah it’s hard to feel sorry for women. I mean when the self esteem is so low you aren’t thinking clearly. All you need is an ounce of validation no matter how you get it and that’s actually a shame.
At this point, stay single 😂
Or leave at the first sign of a man playing in your face. This woman knew what he came for and she still held on..ew!!
@@tarahbruno3793she did say we should hold women accountable but I heard many stories of men acting in a certain way just to marry band then change 180 degree.
@@tarahbruno3793she did say we should hold women accountable but I heard many stories of men acting in a certain way just to marry band then change 180 degree.
I totally understand and agree with your commentary. Marriage is considered as a sacred thing in most cultures . Many have no concept whatsoever about being in a marriage . They see it as an item on a to do list ☑️. 😂😢😮
Marriage has always been the legal sale of daughters by their fathers.
Yeo
Totally agree. Ask most men the meaning/purpose of marriage, I promise they wouldn't be able to tell you.
"When a guy gets up and says offensive vows, it's because he's been trying to get rid of you the whole time, and you will not take the hint."
wow !!! why do men not just tell the woman to leave?!!
@@rachelo8294 because they don't want to be the "bad guy" and see you cry.
Also why get rid of vagina when you have free access?
@@rachelo8294 because most men are actually cowards.
@@rachelo8294they be comfortable
Saw that and wanted to yell at her to run.
If my man said that to me during vows, my heart would be broken.
Can you imagine marrying a man who calls you little dark thing on his marriage vow.😮
lmfaoo like imagine retelling your wedding story to your daughter and you have to repeat that 😂
The way they speak is so disrespectful and rude. Gross.
Sadly he’s done things like this before. I bet he’s actually done worse. He knows she’s going to stay.
He said it during the vows! He said usually the girl would come running but she was different
@@Stacy..Hand he’s gonna humble her for that. How dare you not chase me
It’s crazy these people met when I was a freshman in high school, I am now 30. He’s just now marrying her… I was 14-15 in 2009, I AM NOW 30 , that was HALF OF MY LIFETIME WHEN THEY MET!!!! I can not believe a beautiful woman would wait almost 2 decades for a man to marry her and on top of that, THESE ARE HIS VOWS?!!!?!! To a woman he’s known for 15 yearssss?!?! Whewwww 🤦🏾♀️🙄❤️🩹
Shut up rings and weddings... To each their own. This is what you get when wearing the white dress is the end goal. Good for them, but no fool will ever embarrass me like this!
Due to tears and foggy glasses, my husband couldn't read his vows so he did them on the fly. We were together five years, engaged for two. His vows made EVERYONE cry. It's not about time. It's about love, honor and respect.
Oh that is so beautiful!! ❤❤❤ congratulations! 😘💐
It's giving "I definitely slept with someone during bachelor party" vibes
11:17 the purple suit reminds me of A pimp named Slick back, sis the suit and the shade of purple speaks volumes! He is going to treat her even worse once they are married, it is a very sad situation but oh well let me mind my single business
😂😂😂omg ikr they even look similar
0:09 I know she is not standing here looking absolutely breathtaking while he is breathing hot breath at her? You could leave sis now is the time
Uhhh the classic “I was a dog but I picked you” speech but at a wedding. At the alter. Given by the groom. Gotta love it.
"You don't have to chase a man around. And they're not like women. They are not going to grow in love. It's just not possible."
Who raised these BOYS. My mom would drag my brother by his ears off the aisle. He would never ever especially infront of his parents he respects. So their disrespect is universal. What????
They are not a victim they are volunteering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👉🏾🇨🇻
😂😂😂🇨🇻🇨🇻🇨🇻
It’s so crazy that he would say that in front of their parents, grandparents, elders. My God! Everything doesn’t have to be said!
Speaking of the groom who said “he just wanted to hit”.
I would like to start a petition for a rehearsal of vows. Thats also a good way to see if this is a shut up ring/wedding & will say whatever to try & go viral. This is why I support courthouse weddings-I can’t imagine realizing your husband hates you, it’s gone viral and now you’re out of thousands of dollars…
Naw 😂 let them speak the bs on their minds. So we know. 🏃♀️
She didn't just realize he hates her at the wedding, it's that she wants the wedding/marriage MORE than protecting her self-esteem! That is the problem!
Do a rehearsal in front of the father's brides, brothers, uncles, male cousins and see if gets "approved "
People do have wedding rehearsals though, it's been a thing. Unless they've stopped.
If he speaks to her like that in public in front of their friends and family he’s probably far more disrespectful to her in private. The woman is complicit in her poor treatment though so I don’t feel bad for her or any other woman in this situation.
She said looking like the joker or dark wing duck! LOL, whew that was a well deserved read.
Imagine saying that to your bride on her wedding day in that ethereally beautiful dress and veil. Men feel shame but not about the right things, he should have felt ashamed to even think of making this his vow, let alone following through with it
You can tell the woman who said "as it should" when he was talking about how it took the bride time to develop feelings for him doesn't like him at all. If only the bride listened to her. 😂
Ewwwww these guys are so disrespectful
I would 100% walk myself right back up that aisle & peace out if my soon to be spouse EVER talked that way about me. The audacity is near stupefying.
Some women will endure anything to get to the goal of marriage. But sometimes you gotta realize what looks like a win is really a loss.
Today: aT lEaSt sHe maRRiEd
6 months from now: sHe sHoULdA cHoSe beTTeR…😕
The groom who said their first date lasted three days.... If that's the only inappropriate thing he said and the rest of his vows were sweet, I think that could have been a genuine mistake. He probably just thinks of that time as being a very romantic and magical experience between the two of them, and hadn't considered what judgements outsiders might pass.
I only say this based off of that very short clip and the fact he didn't realize it might mean anything bad until he saw others' reactions (meanwhile, the other grooms in this compilation KNEW what they were saying and were immediately laughing at their own jokes and paused to look at the audience, expecting them to laugh along).
But that might also be me giving him too much benefit of the doubt.
I was looking for this comment because I don't understand what's wrong with that. I think it's sweet that they liked each other so much they wanted to spend 3 days together back to back... only thing that's maybe embarrassing about them is that they don't have anything better to do with their time to be able to spend 3 days on a date 😂
@@Dee_Dee216 I think the implication is that she stayed the night and then didn't leave... not that they met up three days in a row. I think it was a mistake on that groom's part. But the other two...? Eech.
@TheDVantOne OH okay I get that. I saw a comment slightly after that explained. I still don't think he should be grouped with the rest of these degenerates either way though. I have been on 3 day dates where I slept over at a guy's place and nothing happened we just talked and connected. And even if they slept together, there's nothing wrong with doing that they are both grown so it's understandable that he wouldn't think it would be that big a deal to mention it.
I agree with this.
Still making excuses for grown men? The man knew what he was saying was disrespectful. He said what he said as a way to publicly humble the lady. That is not cute nor funny.
The women who settle for such a man are victims of the societal message, “the best thing you can aspire to is to have a beautiful wedding.”
Having a wedding as a life goal is insane. Things are changing for women…not fast enough.
Just have babies women its the most important job you can do its the only job actually im so excited for my wife to be a home maker and be everything she was always meant to be, a floor cleaning poopy underwear wiping sex doll!
They stay embarrassing the women they "love."
There's a whole conversation about how grooms who really hate their brides will show OUT on their wedding day. They embarrass the heck out of them because they truly resent them for making them have to get married.
This is embarrassing.
At this point we need to really start being honest with ourselves. These women allow this behaviour..why would u marry a man that had u waiting for decades... they speak to these women like this because she allows it. We show ppl how to treat us.. raise your standards babes.... these joke marriages won't last
The first lady looked so embarrassed in that video. She knows what she has and settled. I can't feel bad for her, or those other brides.
The “I just wanted to hit” man could’ve said that so much better but he knew his wording would incite a negative reaction. It really aggravated me.
Could’ve been: “when I met you, I was someone that pursued meaningless relationships. I allowed lust to cloud my mind and I will admit, initially my intentions with you were not pure. But when I saw that you were looking for something meaningful, I knew I should value you and know you as MORE. Over the years knowing and growing with you, I’ve learned to want better for myself. And YOU are better.”
But hell if he said that then he’d actually love her.
I just mentioned that to someine else. His wording was poor. The way you wrote it is from the perspective of someone that has grown to love and appreciate their significant other... he has not. He said what he meant.
Thank you he could have said it in such an eloquent and appropriate way but he did it by devaluing and degrading her. Smh
And you just came up with that while he had months to prepare, revise and review those vows but still came up with THAT.
They will embarrass you. They think the world is theirs and everyone else is just a pawn to them
yes! it’s a game. life is literally a game to them. A simulation. We women are just in it.
@@rachelo8294 A game to them! Thats such a good way to put it.
You want a wedding, not a marriage. There's an event where women (and men) get all dressed up in wedding dresses, the whole nine yards, and do a pub crawl and generally party together. It's called Brides of March and if you want to get your wedding dress ya-yas out, do that. 100% recommend.
15 years !!!!!!!!!!!
Right!👀 that part alone is a nightmare! I’ll leave after 3 days and if a man starts playing in my face 😂
Men think they’re really doing something being “honest 🤷🏾♂️” like this. Save that shit for your homeboys
It is a time for seriousness, not a stand up comedy routine
These ladies know who they are marrying. I feel like social media is upset on behalf of these women that are willing participants
I don't feel bad for them. I'm just glad they will never be able to act like they have it better than single women just because they're married. Not when all corners of the world now know that your husband hates you.
Girl I just watched 4 of ur videos and im hooked! Love ur channel ❤
If a bride used her vows to make the groom the butt of all these jokes, you know the men would be screaming about her being a red flag and he shouldn’t marry her
Sad ! That women have to allow themselves to settle ! In a for nothing marriage
This is what women tolerate when they are desperate to get married. This is the “Atleast I got a ring, at least I’m a wife.” They are ok with their husbands being someone else’s boyfriend because “ at least they got a ring.”
And men wonder why there is a 4B movement
Nothing in this world would make me hold my peace if I attended a wedding of someone close to my heart and heard such filth in vows. Does the official leave out "If anyone has any objections speak now or forever hold your peace." Everyone nervously laughing instead of speaking up. Then again these women know who they are marrying so they must not wish to be saved. This is a sickness of the highest power.
I'm so glad I've never really fantasized about getting married. Matriage is a big, legally-binding life change that should be taken seriously. Don't enter into a life contract with an idiot or someone who will harm you (physically & psychologically).
The groom who mentioned the first date lasted 3 days, I think was an innocent mistake. He was just trying to point out a meaningful connection but instead she got a little embarrassed. But I don’t think he’s malicious as the other 2 grooms who set out to shame their brides.
He wrote those vows. He wasn't having random word vomit. He had time. He didnt care because 1) he did not consider her feelings and 2) because she isn't human to him.
We're done giving them free passes for lacking emotional intelligence.
Also, wonder whose idea it was to have a first date that lasted three days?
Probably his.
No babe, there so many other creative jokes he could have cracked but chose that. Remember, people practice their vows before the wedding day
Exactly! And it doesn't sound like those 3 days were full of sexual acts because he said she made him wait for it. People are taking portions of his clip to voice their opinions instead of letting the full video of what he said play out.
Either way, why would you be with a person who even would think in this manner?
I keep ppl around me that show me decency, courtesy. That story is not cool in front of family - in so many ways.
That’s why the vid is getting a reaction - cause why would one do that for a wedding vow?
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In a vow for the rest of my life I would want someone to say why they think I’m the one to go down a road with them.
Not a how we met - I know how we met.
The last wedding seemed worse to me, having to be asked several times if that's all you wrote, by the pastor/priest as well. I would feel humiliated.
Women will start checking vows now and this will be added to the list, alongside wedding pranks as a possible red flag 😢.
I'm not tracking - the "first date lasted three days" guy tried to be genuine and endearing, but unintentionally missed the mark. The other two "just wanted to hit" - don't both men deserve just as much criticism? Neither were seriously romantic or endearing. One is just as bad as the other - rag on both of them just as hard!! Don't let either of them slide.
All are ignorant trash imo
But what was implied with “first date lasted 3 days” is she gave it up on the first date and the escapade lasted 3 whole days.
@LeoGeminiPassyon Yeah... he missed the mark.
But why would you assume people would interprete it that way. If she hadn't reacted no one would have known she let him hit. And also she's grown so what? He was just casually telling their love story and didn't disrespectfully mention that they slept together, every one else just assumed which is on them for having dirty minds😂
@@LeoGeminiPassyon so what? They are grown, you can tell he had sweet things to say about her
WTFE 😮😮😮 MEN I SWEAR. MIND YOU I'M MARRIED WITH 4 KIDS THIS SH*T IS RIDICULOUS AND HORRIBLE MY HUSBAND SAID I WAS A FRIEND AND A LOVER THAT FILLED HIS SOUL IN WAYS HE DIDN'T KNOW HE NEEDED AND HE WANTED US TO WALK THIS LIFE TOGETHER BECAUSE OF ALL THAT
This sounds like my dad’s eulogy to my mother. It made her seem like a doormat. “She told me she loved me, but I didn’t love her yet” when talking about their relationship in the beginning.
2009? A man has 1 year to figure it out
15 years of “dating!!!!”
Men know within 6 months if they want to marry a woman or not. If a man has you move in with him before he has made up his mind about marrying you he does not want to marry you. It does not take men that long to fall in love and emotionally invest in a woman. When a man falls in love he decides immediately to be with you because most men are not in love with the women they just date and live with and when men are in love they are inspired to action.
My mother would've stood up and walked out, right down the middle of the aisle 💅🏾
Thank you for this video. I gotta remember this when a man tries to spin the block on me. Nah you picked what you wanted so be happy about it
Can we normalize women leaving disrespectful men like this at the alter?
I would happily protect my girlies who walked away after hearing such disgusting behaviour from their grooms.
Why are women tolerating shit men would never tolerate? If women were saying vows like this to their groom,I can guarantee those men would throw tantrums and punches for the disrespect.
New subbie I love the honesty and holding all parties accountable. These excuses are clear as day and they’re being overlooked. This is the age of accepting the bottom it’s sad as hell!
I'm so embarrased for these brides. They got jokes for husbands. Divorce will be the destination, no doubt.
My dad would have pulled me aside! I eloped and the response was not what I thought.... not even just my family, I overheard his family yelling at him that he did not do things right. We didn't get any congratulations, it was more like "if that's what you want".. now, he won't give me my divorce! He's holding on, for what?
why did you elope?
You couldn’t pay me to legally join myself to one of these weirdos.
DAMN 😂. At this point all you can do is laugh. Wtf 😭🤦🏾♀️. Don’t get angry for these women. Don’t feel bad for them either. They see the signs. These videos y’all make ain’t gone help em. Let them learn. All we can do is hope for the best
As annoying as these videos are, I think it's good they go viral cause once the bride knows everyone has seen it, she can NEVER pretend that she has it better than single women cause they will bring up this video🤣
@@omphilemoerane2569 Ohhh daaang. I didn’t even think of this. Now everyone will know that her self esteem is in the trash. The second hand embarrassment is real. Some people are so desperate that they’ll take anything. Hope she finds peace. This is sad af
If you settled for a goofy man, check his vows before the wedding. Hell, make him write his vows before you accept the proposal.
I love this idea 💡
This man is not goofy. He's just a clown 🤡
Or you could just not deal with these low brow dudes and have some self-esteem. 💅🏾
He gives you his vows daily by the way he treats you.
@@RahYisrael99ooh I love this! Yes!!!
I haven't heard the entire vow(1st clip) to know if he was clownin or just really happy he got his woman? He is looking deeply at her the whole time so I believe he really truly loves her and from his words she was different🤔.
Not darkwing duck!!!😂😂😂
Do a vow rehearsal in a full room, in front of the father's brides, brothers, uncles, male cousins and see if gets "approved "
She is going to divorce him one day women are divorcing men like him everyday it's disgusting and gross for a grown man to say that just to say you are married you don't have to settle for less marriage is not a goal
I used to think these dudes were actually adults. But many of them are just stunted as far as maturity goes.
Good Lord, every groom that said a foul sentence I wish that bride would’ve left that place asap!