Teacher NOT FIRED for students UNBRAIDING hair. Let's DISCUSS.

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  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +31

    He needs to teach the topic he was paid to do . Period

    • @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS
      @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS 4 месяца назад +4

      Ok. But that topic don't make money. He teaching them how to make money in life. That's knowledge and power.

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV 4 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      😂😅🤣

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +21

    It’s a whole thing called boundaries

  • @FabiolaMo
    @FabiolaMo 4 месяца назад +32

    When I was 14, I had a teacher just like him - same behaviour towards female students. Long story short, a few months later, one of the girl ended up pregnant by him. He said to the board that their « friendship evolved to other feelings ». I don’t know this particular teacher but he check all the boxes of a predator. Students are not your friends. Students shouldn’t have access to your personal informations. Students shouldn’t touch you in any way. Don’t blur the lines and later cry. Young girls are very vulnerable at this age. Parents, be careful.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +4

      Damn that's crazy that happened! But I shouldn't be surprised SMH..

    • @FabiolaMo
      @FabiolaMo 4 месяца назад +5

      @@preciousfro Yeah.. the worst part is this sick guy is still a teacher. 😢 They just transfered him to another district when the story got too hot. The parents of this poor girl tried to press charges against him, but nothing happened as in my country the age of consent is 15. She kept the baby and stopped school.. This teacher was mid-thirty. Now, as a mid-thirty myself, I am more disgust than ever... Many kids are groomed by their teachers and most parents are blind!!! As I witnessed it several times during my young years, its still baffle me how kids are often unprotected by the system.

    • @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS
      @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS 4 месяца назад +1

      She wants to be a stripper.... teacher buys stripping pole 😂😂😂😂😂 type vibes. Bro wanna be a doctor. Let him operate 😂😂😂😂

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 3 месяца назад

      k

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +15

    I wouldn’t want this man around my son or daughter

  • @notknown6605
    @notknown6605 4 месяца назад +3

    Girls need to be taught about boundaries and what’s appropriate in different contexts. They need to keep their teacher at a respectful distance.

  • @C-137RichNègùPrimeDnaIRLT
    @C-137RichNègùPrimeDnaIRLT 4 месяца назад +12

    Yeah he'd have to see me after school was over as a father.

  • @Ztrangeart
    @Ztrangeart 4 месяца назад +12

    It is inappropriate, at school as the teacher you should be teaching not having a spa day 🙄
    Edit here: thank you for making this video and starting the conversation. It’s important to highlight this sort of behavior and establish how this sort of dynamic between teachers and students is not okay. The power dynamics are just to high and puts students at risk of being taken advantage of.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing! I def. thought people would have been fighting me on this one based off of some of the things i've seen on Tiktok. It's reassuring that a lot of people agree that this type of behavior is not appropriate in the classroom.

  • @esthertjones
    @esthertjones 4 месяца назад +8

    If this was a beauty school, I would understand, but in a regular school, this rings all kinds of alarms.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      Completely agree!

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV 4 месяца назад +2

      Even in beauty schools they aren’t practicing on teachers 😂

  • @kenshia08
    @kenshia08 4 месяца назад +13

    Look at this the color of everyone involved. That’s why he didn’t get fired…..

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +3

      I think you may be right..

  • @naturalwoman8315
    @naturalwoman8315 4 месяца назад +4

    I totally agree. There’s a time & a place for everything. A science classroom is not the place for this kind of conduct. He should be teaching science.

  • @veritatyson6317
    @veritatyson6317 4 месяца назад +12

    I don't believe the school's administration will forbid the teacher to continue allowing the young, female students to play in his hair. This behavior boosts the teacher's ego, grooms the young, female students, and teaches that crossing boundaries are acceptable.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      I really really hope that they set some type of boundaries for him but i'm sure we'll find out soon enough

  • @Tahesha
    @Tahesha 4 месяца назад +7

    Most definitely inappropriate 😡

  • @notknown6605
    @notknown6605 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow! I don’t think I ever touched one of my teachers since kindergarten.

  • @mx.chi2
    @mx.chi2 4 месяца назад +3

    thank you for this video. it's incredibly educational

  • @marie-dominiquedavin2674
    @marie-dominiquedavin2674 4 месяца назад +4

    Hello.
    In France , our député Olivier Serva from Guadeloupe (french West indies), got a law voted in the government to prevent black people from getting fired or not being hired because of their unbraiding hair, or their afro style hair.
    Well done 👏🏽 for that senator to have got this for us .
    Sorry for my english 😁.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      I'm not sure I understand, are you saying that a law was passed so that people with braids can't get fired?

    • @marie-dominiquedavin2674
      @marie-dominiquedavin2674 4 месяца назад +1

      @@preciousfro Oh no!!! It's the contrary . A law in benefits of black people regarding their hair texture. I changed my post hoping my message is clearer🤭🖐🏽👋🏽.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      @@marie-dominiquedavin2674 ooooh okay I understand! That’s great! Sounds similar to the “crown act” that we have here in the states. Thanks for sharing!❤️

    • @marie-dominiquedavin2674
      @marie-dominiquedavin2674 4 месяца назад

      @@preciousfro Glad to see you got finally my topic 😁 . And " I " thank you for your sharing overseas. It's important, as far as i'm concerned, to see black people being all together in the world to go foreward and make a better acceptance for our future generation. Great job you're doing. Go ahead! Well done 👏🏽.

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +7

    This dude is weird period

  • @superhooper425
    @superhooper425 4 месяца назад +1

    As a teacher who loves her kids and their parents. Also, students always trying to do adults hair. One of my students even asked his mom can he buy me some shoes. Teachers are taking on roles that many parents have not been able to. I do get your frustration. I do hope he can heal past this. I hate he even posted that.

  • @preyn49
    @preyn49 4 месяца назад +5

    I'm a retired social worker and I can tell that is highly inappropriate. The fact he brought up the situation regarding the dynamics of a adult male and female intimate relationship should have made him take pause. Supposed one of the young females in his class misconstrued his motives? That places him an awkward position. His biological sisters playing in his hair is definitely different in comparison. I will say this, if anyone is accused of inappropriate or suspicious behavior with young people, that's a difficult record to clear. Even if the allegations are unfounded it does tarnish a person's record.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! I couldn't agree more

  • @BooksandLooksTV
    @BooksandLooksTV 4 месяца назад +1

    Even if the parents agreed
    School policy is that he can’t do that
    People forget teaching is an entire profession

  • @LivingInTheShade
    @LivingInTheShade 4 месяца назад +7

    Wait what I thought he was fired! It's totally inappropriate. He can go to a beauty school to help them out in a controlled environment.

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 4 месяца назад

      oop

    • @sobruhkey
      @sobruhkey 4 месяца назад +1

      Yeah I remember seeing a post with him crying about it.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +3

      Nope, he wasn't fired. They just said that he was being "reassigned" while they did an investigation. Now that the investigation has concluded, they've determined that he can continue to teach at the school.

    • @LivingInTheShade
      @LivingInTheShade 4 месяца назад +2

      @@preciousfro Crazy, wonder if they would have done the same if the girls were from a different demographic?

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +4

      @@LivingInTheShade I have a feeling it would have been a much bigger issue if they weren’t dark skin black girls sadly…

  • @mx.chi2
    @mx.chi2 4 месяца назад +2

    if anything, he isnt paying them and it's during school hours. fr why isn't he using this time to teach them? the crying was super manipulative

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      Totally agree, the filming of the crying was over the top.

  • @stephanies3862
    @stephanies3862 4 месяца назад +4

    He seriously tried to make everyone else seem like the weirdo. As if letting his sisters play in his hair is the same as this nonsense. He know good and well he would not have been ok with any of his sisters playing in a male teacher's hair Lol.
    He very well may be a good person and a good teacher, but he is still way out of line letting students play in his hair, or touch him in any way.
    Annnddd... this is your place of work! I have students who are skilled at doing nails and have offered to do my nails during class after they were completed with their assignments. I've told them, "Thank you. But as much as I would love to get my nails cute and for free, it's just not an appropriate environment." It's boundaries I am not willing to cross with any student, male or female.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      I think you handled that perfectly! I thought that was common knowledge amongst teachers, it's crazy that it's not.

    • @stephanies3862
      @stephanies3862 4 месяца назад +1

      @preciousfro You would think this would be common sense for educators. Idk how it is within other school districts, but in my district in Florida, every single year they make us take a compliance course on sexual harassment and on child sexual abuse, but not on appropriate student-teacher relationships and boundaries. And I don't know why that is. But it needs to be added 🤔

  • @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS
    @BLOXKAFELLARECORDS 4 месяца назад +2

    🔥 OH IM TUNED IN. supporting ya channel 🔥 💯

  • @naturalwoman8315
    @naturalwoman8315 4 месяца назад +4

    Totally inappropriate. Where are the parents?

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +2

      I heard that they were okay with the videos going up on TikTok but who knows, thanks for watching!

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +1

    I agree with you 100 percent. Its crazy you talked about boundaries after I typed talking bout boundaries

  • @LethalLemonLime
    @LethalLemonLime 4 месяца назад +3

    I don't think it's inappropriate in a sexual predator type of way. It's inappropriate in a unprofessional type of way. I don't think his gender matters here. I just don't think it's appropriate. I even feel weird when my elementary students' randomly massage my shoulders. I don't even say I love you back when my students say they love me cause it just seems out of place to me especially as an American (but I don't work in America or the west). I don't think he should be fired for this, but he should get a warning. I think since teaching is a profession, we should be held to professional standards. We should not aim to be friends with our students.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      I think that all makes sense

    • @ruthantiaobong3502
      @ruthantiaobong3502 4 месяца назад +1

      Yo that's why I quit being a teacher! they want you to be an educator.....and parent ethically speaking. Like I don't think people understand that there's 168 hours in a week and we spend almost 45hr plus with some of these kids. Like this is a society we live in I don't know if anybody's awake yet lmao

  • @lastspoil5547
    @lastspoil5547 4 месяца назад +2

    God knows his heart and intentions. ❤

    • @adayinthelight7575
      @adayinthelight7575 4 месяца назад +3

      That may be true but he needs to learn from this.

    • @lastspoil5547
      @lastspoil5547 4 месяца назад +1

      @@adayinthelight7575 I totally agree.

  • @Tahesha
    @Tahesha 4 месяца назад +1

    I remember my space 🤣

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      Glad I’m not the only one!

  • @TeaMZ101
    @TeaMZ101 4 месяца назад +1

    I thought them taking out the braids was a one off thing, but now things are looking a little fishy. There needs to be boundaries. In what world does a teacher needs various beauty treatments in a classroom? Like is he a cosmetology teacher. 😂

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      Yes, that's why i included the multiple clips. If it was. one off thing, then i could see it being one dumb mistake, but this is clearly a habitual thing that he sees as appropriate to do in the classroom.

  • @sylviagray4206
    @sylviagray4206 4 месяца назад +1

    💯

  • @AmberGenea24
    @AmberGenea24 4 месяца назад +1

    It’s a NO for me. My son is 12 and all of that is inappropriate as hell! And it’s just not a good look.

  • @sherrisolomon8673
    @sherrisolomon8673 4 месяца назад +1

    The optics lookec bad to me only because he's using his employer's time for doing time doing something that IS NOT on the ciriculum not necessarily because it's sexually suspicious because for all we know the man may actually may be gay and not even into females. But since we don't know I can see the concern of the public.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      Agreed, i think it would be too far to accuse him of anything sexual, but the actions and the optics of it are concerning.

  • @Tahesha
    @Tahesha 4 месяца назад +2

    Fired

  • @BooksandLooksTV
    @BooksandLooksTV 4 месяца назад +2

    Your skin is beautiful and I love the lipstick and your hair

  • @Mrs.Grammaticus
    @Mrs.Grammaticus 4 месяца назад +2

    Precious, the lapse in judgment displayed by this teacher is staggering. The move was downright foolish, even with the best of intentions.
    The process of safeguarding is a two-way street. As important as it is to protect vulnerable children from harm, teachers must also take proactive measures to shield themselves. Despite what he claims, interacting physically with students leaves him vulnerable to allegations of abuse.
    Why would you gamble with your livelihood and reputation in this way?
    A lack of common sense prevailed here 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️😡!

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      That's a good point that I didn't think about, the danger that he could be putting himself in with those actions.

  • @sweetybyrd65
    @sweetybyrd65 4 месяца назад

    It’s a shame that this has to be an issue but it is very inappropriate. We can’t act like teachers aren’t having inappropriate relationships with their students and we as parents, caretakers, etc., have responsibilities to protect children.

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +1

    Chile

  • @Kedesh14
    @Kedesh14 4 месяца назад +1

    No way people are actually defending this behavior. You are a teacher those are students- where are the boundaries? Unacceptable in many ways. It’s actually scary the people siding with him.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад

      It has definitely shown that this is an issue that is slightly polarizing, which is very interesting. We all have our own set of beliefs and expectations when it comes to educators.

  • @empresslonnie1love391
    @empresslonnie1love391 4 месяца назад +2

    I think it’s inappropriate too what is he teaching anyways

  • @ruthantiaobong3502
    @ruthantiaobong3502 4 месяца назад +1

    2:45 not for nothing the only reason why I don't see a problem with this is because as a former teacher we spend like 45 to 60 hours a week with some of these kids. And I get people feeling uncomfortable blah blah blah but there are worse things going on in schools. Like honestly what it boils down to is more people need to start homeschooling their kids because there are worse things happening in schools. I would have loved it if my teacher would allow me to do his hair and set of always being treated as an other going through school. And I get it people are probably like freaking out because he is a signed a man at Birth or whatever he signs himself but honestly I don't think this is a big deal.

  • @EcoKeba
    @EcoKeba 4 месяца назад

    He is a weirdo.

  • @abbe1abbe156
    @abbe1abbe156 4 месяца назад

    Where are the fathers of these children?

  • @denyshadials5702
    @denyshadials5702 4 месяца назад +4

    My husband asked me about this when it was in the news.
    It’s on camera. He wasn’t sexual. Are there other/more appropriate ways of bonding with your students? Yes. Was this a good choice? No.
    Overall, I thought he should be reprimanded for being off task-it’s the student’s free time, not his. Furthermore, every teacher has an annual evaluation, which includes how efficiently students are learning the material (with all other factors considered, such as IEPs, student behavior, mastery of previous grade levels, etc.).
    To say that he ‘didn’t do his job’ only goes so far as what was on the clip. If homie got straight A’s on his evaluation, then, not only did he teach her the subject, but he taught it well.
    If he’s truly terrible at his job, I’ll accept it willingly, but I need hard evidence of such. And honestly, you would have to be a stellar teacher for a district to risk a possible lawsuit with parents. If it even smells fishy, the district ain’t risking it. So the fact he did not get fired for a viral video that made national news…speaks a LOT more about his teaching abilities than a short clip. As if he’s got a leg to stand on when it comes to his teaching ability. I genuinely want to be a fly on that wall.
    So, no. I see no reason for him to be fired, as no one was physically harmed and this occurred on school grounds, on camera. I would feel differently if this were a secret, not on camera, or at his or the students’ houses.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +2

      I understand what you're saying, but the on camera does not put me at ease. I wouldn't expect him to do something overtly sexual on camera, nor do i know what his intentions are. But it's not just a matter of him as an individual to me. It's the question of what is appropriate conduct as a teacher in general. Allowing teachers to participate in close interactions like this between grown men and young girls is a breeding ground for things that could go wrong and allow those who DO have bad intentions to take advantage of those type of situations.

    • @denyshadials5702
      @denyshadials5702 4 месяца назад +3

      @@preciousfro
      I understand you too, however, that is what this is about-what’s on camera, as far as the public is concerned. That’s the accurate judgment we can make, if that. Especially when what happened off camera was investigated. Because that’s truly what gives people pause, the ‘what if’, the ‘off camera’. The speculation. The unknown.
      That said, if nothing malicious truly happened within the unknown (the investigation/off camera) why treat him as if he’s guilty?…
      Was he harmful? It doesn’t seem so to me. Was he stupid? Yeah. But it’s also human to have those stupid moments. Just as it’s human to have more intense emotions about stupid moments when children are involved as opposed to adults, because of the what ifs. It’s scary and it’s understandable. It just doesn’t make him guilty. At least not to me anyway.

    • @LethalLemonLime
      @LethalLemonLime 4 месяца назад +2

      Such a good take, but I don't get why so many people can't see this. I don't get why it has to be sexual simply because he's a man and they're girls.

    • @denyshadials5702
      @denyshadials5702 4 месяца назад +2

      @@LethalLemonLime
      Because emotions are running high. Nobody wants their kid to be ‘that kid’ that got abused while in school. So everything and anything looks suspicious.

    • @ruthantiaobong3502
      @ruthantiaobong3502 4 месяца назад +1

      👍🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @littleleah310
    @littleleah310 3 месяца назад

    my think is, why is doing hair seen as sexualiz

  • @lnyawilliamsmoore
    @lnyawilliamsmoore 4 месяца назад +2

    Jehovah God created men and women differently to fulfill different roles especially in the family unit.
    (Gen 1:26-30; Psalm 83:18; Eph 5
    (Mothers do the naiis and style hair with their daughters etc. Fathers teach how men must treat women to their daughters etc)

  • @343ishill
    @343ishill 4 месяца назад +2

    Ngl I don't see it as weird. There's nothing wrong with having a close relationship with the children under your care, especially since school is a safe space.
    I remember having teachers who would braid students hair, because of how messy they get after playing during the day.
    I understand why people see it as weird and inappropriate. But others really taking it to far and treating him as a closeted pedophile.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +5

      I agree that to call him a pedophile would be too far. I think the problem is that typically pedophilia does begin as weird and inappropriate and then escalates. Again, I'm not saying that i know that to be his intention, but I think as a society we should call out weird and inappropriate before it becomes something more.

  • @k.rebuilding
    @k.rebuilding 4 месяца назад +3

    I don't think it matters. Plus, if we're being honest, most kids are molested by family members. So, we ought to be suspicious of fathers, based on stats. Not teachers. And, you said it, you're pretty biased.

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +1

      When did I say I was biased?

    • @k.rebuilding
      @k.rebuilding 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@preciousfro3:56 - 4:01. You would be less triggered by a female BECAUSE she's a female. That's bias

    • @preciousfro
      @preciousfro  4 месяца назад +3

      @@k.rebuilding no. I said that it would be inappropriate for a male or female teacher to do this, but that it’s WORSE Because he’s a grown man doing this with middle school aged girls, yes a female would be “slightly less triggering” as I stated in the video but it’s wrong regardless of the sex as I stated in the video.

    • @k.rebuilding
      @k.rebuilding 4 месяца назад +3

      @preciousfro but, that it triggers you LESS is bias. Bc the only thing that changed was the gender. If, I were to say, a black person doing this job would be slightly LESS TRIGGERING if she has straight hair. That is bias

    • @Ztrangeart
      @Ztrangeart 4 месяца назад +6

      @@k.rebuilding You have to understand that as people we all have biases whether we recognize it or not. Overall I think we can all agree that at school a teacher is there to teach. Not get their hair, eyebrows and nails done period. As the adult, this man needs to understand that there’s boundaries that you as an adult should not be crossing regardless of intention. It’s just overall unprofessional and unacceptable.