And I'd like to add to those, your thoughtfulness...in the seriousness with which you take the questions asked, and the depth of thought you give to each of your replies.
I would never in a million years have guessed that Dr Scott was autistic..... maybe that's what makes him such a great vet. What a thoroughly nice man. 😊😊😊😊
I thought that Dr Scott was very high on the Autism/Aspergers Ladder (as it were) - but then again I am surrounded by peeps who have autism ... hubby, daughter, son, niece, sister in law, and others who have strong autistic traits. I think many of the human population - even perhaps all - have autistic traits in one form or another, and in different/varying amounts - even down to those who we refer to as ''neurotypical''. I embrace it and try to see the good points of how it affects folk, while being aware of the negative issues. As humans we are all beautifully different - and it would be a boring world if we weren't .
Hi Dr Scott. I loved hearing about you. We already knew you’re a very kind soul who absolutely loves animals! Me too! Sometimes I definitely prefer animals to people! When I stop and pet dogs on the street, they definitely know a sucker when they see one. No matter how old they are, I tell them they’re sweet puppies. Some actually brighten up even more when I say it. I swear they understand. I have a 12 year old cat who hates to be picked up. Is terrified of people coming in. She’ll belly run to hiding spots. I’ve noticed since Covid, she doesn’t come out to see whose come over. Pre-Covid, she’d come out stare at them, then go up and sniff their feet and do the open mouth smell after. That cracks me up even when she smells herself. She loves bum spanking. Weird cat! She’s the only cat I’ve allowed to sit on my end table. I use TV tray for my junk so she has space. I always say…she’s assumed the position so I can spank her. I can leave the room, come back a few minutes later and she’s still there! Chloe will be my last pet as I’m 70 now and even She might outlive me. 😻😻 Anyhow, you were saying you might do some international travel with pet rescue. It would be exciting to see you come here to Victoria British Columbia Canada. We’re on the southern tip of Vancouver Island, (not to be confused with Vancouver BC). Victoria is the capital city of our province of British Columbia aka BC. Always loved your shows. ❤️😊🇨🇦
Dr. Miller, I had no idea you and your wife separated. Tears welled up in my eyes listening to you talk about it. You two will do just fine co-parenting. You are a wonderful human. There is not one episode of Bondi Vet and Vet on the Hill that I haven't seen. Love from Kentucky, USA 👋♥
Autists are absolutely capable of empathy. But it doesn't come as natural as for neurotypicals. It must be learned in some ways. Once the code is cracked, autists can even be too empathetic at times, as limits also can be hard.
Those with autism actually have a tendency to be overly empathetic rather than no empathy. In fact, it is that empathy that can be so incredibly overwhelming for them and lead to a meltdown or overstimulation. For some with autism they can find it difficult to even identify the emotions that they feel, thus making it so much more frustrating to communicate with other neuro-typical people. I know that these are a couple of the things that I struggle with, and I am actually considered to be a high functioning individual on the autistic spectrum.
I am 65 and an autistic empath. We only seem to not have empathy, because our cues are different than others. I suffer daily, because I am too empathetic. I have learned to turn it off some, in order to survive. This is what autistic folks must do or our increased empathy debilitates us. We are in fact just the opposite dear.
The researched and documented reality is less that autism diminishes empathy and more that autistic people & neurotypical people tend to DO empathy differently, frequently _Very_ differently.
Oh doc😢I had no idea you had separated😥 that is so painful💔 it WILL get better, hang in there. I hope you feel the love, appreciation and support from us. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Thank you for your candor and the care you show every day. Genuine people seem a rare find these days. We have had the honor of being a part of your journey. Be well!
I have always so admired your vet skills, humor, compassion for pets and families, etc. Your “letting us in” like this shows how important transparency and inclusion is to you. And takes courage. I am so sorry to hear about you and Zoe…..sending you lots of positive energy Dr. Scott
I am so sad that you are separated from your wife. I hope you remain friends and are able to co-parent successfully. I love what you do and how you care for so many animals.
So sorry to hear of your separation. I went through a divorce many years ago and it will get better. I am convinced that sometimes things happen for a reason. My daughter has Autism as well - she is a great girl and doesn't let her disability stop her from doing anything. Love your show - keep up your good work with animals - it's heart warming to watch you.
Given who I personally have around me - who have autism et al - are more likely to be open and honest - again only referring to those who I personally know - their whole demeanour is "say/do it as it is" - honesty because why wouldn't I want to be any other way. I do, however, know that there is a small percentage of folk who I know, whether related to or not, who have been ''taken over'' by the negative side of the coin and are devious and maybe even narcissistic - however even those small number of folk have elements of honesty/deviousness in varying proportions.
Hey Dr. Scott! I'm a neurodivergent mom of grown neurodivergent kids. I sincerely believe that rescue pups bring out the best in us. They don't judge & take everything as it comes. If only they lived longer lives. So glad to see you focusing on rescue & helping rescue pets live longer, healthier lives as they find new forever homes. Keep up the wonderful work and I'll keep watching from the US.
Animals are the best in general. My cats don't know or care that other humans find me weird. They get their food, water, clean litter-boxes, and all the cuddles and attention they want because they are straight-forward enough to ask for it. If you wait for me to come to you… it'll never happen. I'm great at responding to your needs when you spell them out, so I will happily dote on anything confident enough to yell at me if the breakfast is one minute late 😅
We’ve just returned back to the States from Australia, and my Aussie husband had that same expression and tone to his voice when talking about Australia being his home, this is just his second home. I’m not sure folks can really understand how hard it is for Aussies to live away from Australia, even when it’s fully voluntary. It’s a really special place with a very different culture from America, Britain, and other places. ❤🇦🇺
I am a 70 year old grandma in California. I had a heart dog for 14 years. He was rescued from a kill shelter because of a deformity. He was 4. He lived the rest of his 18 years with me. I see so many things during the behavioral videos that explained his behavior. He didn't know toys or treats. I had to teach him. Thank you for showing the time and patience to allow them to learn to love and feel safe. I am saddened about your family situation but know that co-parenting works. It is an adjustment for everyone but the foundation of the family is still strong and healthy. Bless you all and bless the animals. 12:59
My grandson is almost 4 and was diagnosed with Autism - he has been nonverbal, but is starting to talk. He goes to pre-school 4 days a week and to an Autism center for therapy 6 hours a day (5 days a week). He is so loving and sweet, hilarious, dramatic (acts out shows), and very hyper, but on the other end he screams when he doesn't get his way or throws things - since he has been in therapy (almost a month) these behaviors have been less. He knows when people are upset, by reading facial cues. Just wanted to share my experience - I am helping to raise him so I see him everyday. Autism is a wide spectrum that a lot of people don't understand (from highly gifted to very love cognitive). I have a Master's degree in Special Education and taught school for 20 years. I have had students on both ends of the spectrum. I love this channel because you and the rescues you are involved in.
I loved you as a vet, i love you as a rescue vet, and i have immense amounts of respect for you as a person. seeing you be so honest and open has made me respect you even more. what a legend
Oh Scott I wish I could hug you! Never would have seen you and Zoe separating in a million years! You were together forever. Also, thank you for being so open and forthcoming. It makes your followers feel closer to you. You have autism? Really? If you hadn't said so I never would have dreamed. I used to work with people who had autism and were totally different from you. You have love, compassion, empathy, sympathy for your patients and their owners. That added to your creativity and you are simply brilliant! ❤
My 3 grandchildren that I adopted all have autism. My girl never paid much attention to our pets but sharing your videos with her has made her show affection to them now.
You are the vet everybody dream for their pets. People don't realise there is different spectrums of autism. I live in France and have been a fan since vets on the Hill. In France, you would not dare saying you are autistic. I am bipolar and i know if people find out they would change pavement. I also could see how hurt you were when you mention you current family situation. Remember? There is 50000 who love and follow you. I care about you for the person you are nice, genuine and who loves his patients.
@@Montyboo I'm sorry to hear they have such a limited understanding of neurodevelopmental disorders and mental health disorders in France. I for one don't think any less of you for being bipolar, rather it makes me understand that you are probably stronger than the average person if you manage a mental illness on top of all the other stuff we regularly have to manage in our lives.
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Thank you for this open and vulnerable video. My best friend is a late diagnosed Autistic, I feel she would appreciate your words. I am diagnosed with AuDHD and have the gullible part :) I think it's brought me to wonderful things for the most part ❤
I have discovered that I am on the autism spectrum but only figured it out at the age of 57 and am 60 now. One of my son’s who are twins is on the autism spectrum. He’s very high functioning, works in Cyber Security. And he didn’t discover his DX until he was in his late 20’s and is now going to be 35. Both of us have big hearts for animals.
Same here, I also discovered that I'm autistic late in life. Self diagnosed and it explains my life time of difficulties. But I have strengths too, one of them being a deep connection with animals, they are easier to understand than most people.
Hello Dr. Scott. My son at age 45 was diagnosed with ADHD. Because his boss cared about him, asked him what would help him at work. He wanted a quit area to work. He works on computers for others all day. Constant interruptions, folks just wanting “5 minutes” without following protocol. Moving him into the server where it is cool and quiet, made a major difference, but getting the diagnosis explained so much. The thoughts about himself and plans to re order his thinking helped also. Each person is different. You have a lot, right now. And when your heart hurts, but you have to continue wearing a mask to get through the day is so hard. And you are a “helper”. So kind, so caring of others and the wonderful animals. As a Retired RN I understand and had my episode where quiet and a reset was needed. The file cabinets in my brain were full and would not hold one more thing. Panic attacks are your body saying, ok, now even the little notes are too much, that file cabinet is tipping over. Time to empty some stuff. Therapy saved my life, taught me it is ok to have boundaries and say no. But helpers are also empathic. We feel others pain and feel compelled to help. We just don’t do that same care for our ourselves. You will take your new fur baby and get through this. Be kind to yourself. And asking for help is difficult, but shows strength, not weakness. The sunshine will soon find those shadows, in due time. Sending love and light to you and yours, and a big old “American Hug 🤗”! Your You Tube family here will support you.
WOW! Thank you for sharing your personal journey. I had no idea you had autism and that you're separated from your wife. Incredible! We love you Scott. You're an excellent vet and a wonderful, caring person ❤
I didn't even know you and zoe had separated, so sorry but hope you can continue to co-parent together x you are an amazing man and I'm sure you will continue to make the world a better place and find more happiness out there x
I am an autistic young adult about to start my first volunteering shift at an animal shelter here in Scotland now I've just graduated University! Your videos were a big inspiration to seek out a position at my local shelter. I'm so excited, and love animals so much :) It is so lovely to know one of my inspirations is also autistic! We are more common than Neurotypical people realise, I think!
Well done! The animal shelter is going to be Blessed for having you there with them, animals especially. God Bless you, have fun and know that the animals don't judge or care about our disabilities. They know and understand more than we do. Great examples and teachers of FORGIVENESS & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Thank you for your selflessness and greatest gift you can give any organization and that's your TIME:) Good Luck:)
In 2019, I adopted a snowshoe cat from the Las Vegas, NV SPCA. She chose me. When I moved to Kelseyville CA in July 2024, my cat got nervous as I packed part of the house. I reassured she was going with me. We drove for two days to get from Las Vegas to Lake County. My cat has settled into her new live in her new location I am happier here and fell less stress. We bless each other. I am blessed by her being in my life every day.
I didn’t realise you are autistic, me too! the acceptance is the hardest part, is what I’ve found. I was diagnosed at 25 and I’ve grown so much since then. I’m so proud of you for being so open about this :) thank you for all you do
I am 72 years old and was diagnosed in my 50s with autism. My diagnosis was a relief ... it explained so much of my past feelings of being different too. Also, I always felt more comfortable with my dogs and cats than with humans. Thank you for sharing as truth is freedom!
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
Truth be known, the Vet On The Hill parts of Bondi Vet were always my favourites, so I'm very happy to be tuning in to your new channel. Keep the content varied; pets with problems, new x-ray machines, meeting new staff members, keeping chucks in the back garden etc. etc. The sum of the parts always exceeded the whole, if you get what I mean. Good luck for the future.
Scott so sorry to hear that you and Zoe are not together now. You all seemed to be so happy. Autism is hard on all family members. Prayers going out for you and the family.
Autism is hard not because of the autism, but because society isn't built with autistic people or any people with disabilities in mind. It's not a problem with the people nor is it a disease. It's a problem with how our social systems are built.
Must tell you, you’re looking so relaxed and invigorated. As you may know, we Americans are in political turmoil and uproar constantly and it is draining We watch vets, animals, sports, music, cooking, nature series…anything requiring skill and offering some fun. Best wishes in your new endeavors. You will love editorial control…it’s heady stuff…
I was a mature diagnosed ADHD inattentive type. I understand about looking back and helping who I was as a child and understanding the total joy of finding like people. I cried when I found my community.
My identical twin daughters, 26, are autistic, so as you might expect, I am very happy to see that you are sharing your and your children's diagnosis openly and positively. Thank you.
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
Just in case, you should never feel obligated to answer any questions about your personal life, it's none of others business! Online/social media is one weird duck. Appreciate all you do, and sorry to hear you're going through a tough time with the seperation. I hope it all gets better soon, and i'm glad you guys have found a coparenting routine that works. Congrats on 50k suscribers!
Dr. Scott so sorry that you are going through all of these things. Hang in there, you are loved and we are here to support you. Thank you for being so open and honest and I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you for being so candid, Scott! It never occurred to me that you were autistic, or that I am until diagnosed at age 69. Have experienced and accomplished a lot, but always the nagging question, "What's wrong with me?", failed attempts to be "normal," and resultant burnout. A bumpy road to navigate, for sure. So glad your young ones were diagnosed early, have support, and can be their quirky, passionate selves. As for you, your passion and empathy have made so many lives better, including mine. ❤
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
I’ve always had such respect for you as a vet. Your compassion, humor, and dedication to helping all animals in need are phenomenal. I wish you and your team all the success in Rescue Vet. You are an amazing and beautiful person.
Thank You for this, Dr Scott. It’s always nice to get to know you more as a person. So sorry to hear that you and Zoe are separated, all the best to all of you!
Respect from a fellow Aussie, living in Ireland. You are a very kind and natural person and a great ambassador for our country. Keep up the good work and keep spreading sunshine.
So sorry that you are separated.😢 But you are an amazing dad... It's obvious from your discussion. I loved the episode with Quinn!🥰 It's amazing how quickly our kids grow up! I have soooo much respect for you with this episode. I saw a change in you with this new channel and it really touched me, even though I couldn't explain what I felt... And I like this new version of you. Your discussion of your autism was especially moving. You should be an international spokesperson for autism. Thank you so much for this amazing video. The respect I already had for you has just grown deeper!
I really like the description “neurodivergent” because it suggests people having brain detours rather than defective wiring. And I’ve always found that detours offered the most unique scenery. It just feels a more positive description.
So sorry to hear about your marriage but I wish you and Zoe the best with co-parenting with your kids and pets. ❤ I really enjoyed this Q&A video. Very insightful. I didn’t know you’re now doing your own channel so I have now subscribed. Wishing you all the best with your channel 😊
My god Dr Scot , you deserve 1 million subscribers and more. Your channel is educational, entertaining, funny and above all is a delight to listen and see you. 😊❤
Thank you for sharing your private life and family with us. It helps me to understand you. I worked for a wonderful Veterinarian for 25 years and I learned so much. He kept his life private rarely sharing with us even though I shared my life with him. I appreciate your openness. Your children are blessed to have you in their lives! 🥰
I love Vet on the Hill. Thank you for rescuing all the animals you do. My nephew is autistic who lives in a group home. He is in his late 30s. My granddaughter is 16 and autistic. She is an animal lover in a half. Autistic is a complex disorder. They are very smart in some ways but in other things they find difficult. All we can do is love them and be patient. Love you, Dr. Scott. ❤❤❤
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
I wasn’t diagnosed with ADD until I was 61, and I was starting to really struggle with keeping my mind on task and was about to be fired from my job. So I finally Went and was tested, So I am doing much better and able to concentrate. Thank you for your statements. And you love of animals ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so frank and open about your lived experience with an adult Autism diagnosis. I was just diagnosed with ADHD this year, and the process of looking back at my younger self and forgiving her for things I used to be angry at her for... that's so real. Neurodivergent representation matters, and your being so open about it is so incredibly valuable, so from the bottom of my little neurospicy heart: thank you. 💖
Not in a million years would I have thought you were autistic!. Obviously a brilliant vet, you speak with poise and dignity and speak clearly. My son is 24 now. He was diagnosed when he was 5 with PDDNOS (pervasive development delay otherwise not specified) which basically means he falls under the autism umbrella. He graduated college and is now working! Lemme tell ya, the struggle was real!! If you told me he’d ever graduate college I’d never believe it. But he’s a great kid now!(and the struggle was real with him growing up!!) I’m Really proud of him!
I know you're not a superperson, but you're definitely someone to look up to and we hope to somewhat emulate. To all the rescue animals...feel lucky that you have one of the best helping you.
Oh wow, I had no idea you had separated from your wife. I used to watch “Vet on the hill”…. I saw your beautiful family on there. I hope you all heal from this and I wish you all the best ever 💙
This was wonderful! You have the kindest heart. My son has autism, and at 30 years old with 2 children, he still calls me to ask what someone might've meant when they said or wrote something. My answer is always try to think and feel at the same time. It's not as easy as some people think. Much love to you and yours ❤
sad to hear about the marriage but glad you are co-parenting well and wishing we had a vet like you here in the USA..also happy to see you have adopted a new pupper...
I love your sense of humor , it's one of the reasons I enjoy your shows. Your wife is a caring person and sometimes the fix is better than the problem. Love and hugs from Pennsylvania, USA. God bless.
I'm also autistic. Many people think having autism means you are slow. I was once told by a teacher I would succeed at anything. It became my personal passion to prove them all wrong. I'm 43 and have succeeded at showing them they were wrong.
I am the mother of two autistic sons. I praise your candidness and empathy. Your words are very true and wise. You have come a long way... And I am not surprised at your love for animals. My elder son is contemplative and very fond of animals too.
Because of your honesty and transparency, my respect for you has grown even more.
And I'd like to add to those, your thoughtfulness...in the seriousness with which you take the questions asked, and the depth of thought you give to each of your replies.
Autistic people can have very profound empathy and perception.
I would never in a million years have guessed that Dr Scott was autistic..... maybe that's what makes him such a great vet. What a thoroughly nice man. 😊😊😊😊
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my ND radar is so strong i cant relate, i saw the title and was like yeah makes sense
I thought that Dr Scott was very high on the Autism/Aspergers Ladder (as it were) - but then again I am surrounded by peeps who have autism ... hubby, daughter, son, niece, sister in law, and others who have strong autistic traits. I think many of the human population - even perhaps all - have autistic traits in one form or another, and in different/varying amounts - even down to those who we refer to as ''neurotypical''. I embrace it and try to see the good points of how it affects folk, while being aware of the negative issues.
As humans we are all beautifully different - and it would be a boring world if we weren't .
Hi Dr Scott. I loved hearing about you. We already knew you’re a very kind soul who absolutely loves animals! Me too! Sometimes I definitely prefer animals to people! When I stop and pet dogs on the street, they definitely know a sucker when they see one. No matter how old they are, I tell them they’re sweet puppies. Some actually brighten up even more when I say it. I swear they understand. I have a 12 year old cat who hates to be picked up. Is terrified of people coming in. She’ll belly run to hiding spots. I’ve noticed since Covid, she doesn’t come out to see whose come over. Pre-Covid, she’d come out stare at them, then go up and sniff their feet and do the open mouth smell after. That cracks me up even when she smells herself. She loves bum spanking. Weird cat! She’s the only cat I’ve allowed to sit on my end table. I use TV tray for my junk so she has space. I always say…she’s assumed the position so I can spank her. I can leave the room, come back a few minutes later and she’s still there! Chloe will be my last pet as I’m 70 now and even She might outlive me. 😻😻
Anyhow, you were saying you might do some international travel with pet rescue. It would be exciting to see you come here to Victoria British Columbia Canada. We’re on the southern tip of Vancouver Island, (not to be confused with Vancouver BC). Victoria is the capital city of our province of British Columbia aka BC. Always loved your shows. ❤️😊🇨🇦
Dr. Scott, I wish you were my Vet.
Dr. Miller, I had no idea you and your wife separated. Tears welled up in my eyes listening to you talk about it. You two will do just fine co-parenting. You are a wonderful human. There is not one episode of Bondi Vet and Vet on the Hill that I haven't seen. Love from Kentucky, USA 👋♥
I think we have a misconception that autism diminishes empathy but you seem to disprove that. ❤❤❤
Autists are absolutely capable of empathy. But it doesn't come as natural as for neurotypicals. It must be learned in some ways. Once the code is cracked, autists can even be too empathetic at times, as limits also can be hard.
Those with autism actually have a tendency to be overly empathetic rather than no empathy. In fact, it is that empathy that can be so incredibly overwhelming for them and lead to a meltdown or overstimulation. For some with autism they can find it difficult to even identify the emotions that they feel, thus making it so much more frustrating to communicate with other neuro-typical people. I know that these are a couple of the things that I struggle with, and I am actually considered to be a high functioning individual on the autistic spectrum.
It a spectrum so things are different for everyone.
I am 65 and an autistic empath. We only seem to not have empathy, because our cues are different than others. I suffer daily, because I am too empathetic. I have learned to turn it off some, in order to survive. This is what autistic folks must do or our increased empathy debilitates us. We are in fact just the opposite dear.
The researched and documented reality is less that autism diminishes empathy and more that autistic people & neurotypical people tend to DO empathy differently, frequently _Very_ differently.
The affirmation you gave each of your children was beautiful. They are lucky to have you as their dad.
Oh doc😢I had no idea you had separated😥 that is so painful💔 it WILL get better, hang in there. I hope you feel the love, appreciation and support from us. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
This was a shock to me too.
Nor did I know of your family coping with Autism.
God bless you all from Australia ❤
I'll definately be tuning in❤
So sad
Been there, know how it hurts. You are a good man. Blessings!
Has Scott separated from Zoe that's so sad, your a fantastic vet love watching your vet shows. Xx
Thank you for your candor and the care you show every day. Genuine people seem a rare find these days. We have had the honor of being a part of your journey. Be well!
I have always so admired your vet skills, humor, compassion for pets and families, etc.
Your “letting us in” like this shows how important transparency and inclusion is to you. And takes courage.
I am so sorry to hear about you and Zoe…..sending you lots of positive energy Dr. Scott
Thank you for inviting me along on your journey. I have admired you from the very beginning. Let's make it over the top.
I am so sad that you are separated from your wife. I hope you remain friends and are able to co-parent successfully. I love what you do and how you care for so many animals.
Dr Scott... I hope that knowing how many people truly love you, helps you through the hard times❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So sorry to hear about the separation. I wish you, Zoe and the kids, nothing but the best. ❤
I'm devastated, so sad that it came to this, 😢
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How refreshing to see so many others who also have autism. You literally shared what I often say about my journey! Cheers!
Are autistic is more accurate.
Thank you Dr Scott for your kindness and understanding to all creatures.
So sorry to hear of your separation. I went through a divorce many years ago and it will get better. I am convinced that sometimes things happen for a reason. My daughter has Autism as well - she is a great girl and doesn't let her disability stop her from doing anything. Love your show - keep up your good work with animals - it's heart warming to watch you.
I was heartbroken when Scott said he was separated. They seemed the perfect couple.
Thank you for being so open, honest and candid. Stay well.
Given who I personally have around me - who have autism et al - are more likely to be open and honest - again only referring to those who I personally know - their whole demeanour is "say/do it as it is" - honesty because why wouldn't I want to be any other way. I do, however, know that there is a small percentage of folk who I know, whether related to or not, who have been ''taken over'' by the negative side of the coin and are devious and maybe even narcissistic - however even those small number of folk have elements of honesty/deviousness in varying proportions.
Thank you so much for your willingness to trust your audience, transparency, and love for your vocation. Very inspiring.
Hey Dr. Scott! I'm a neurodivergent mom of grown neurodivergent kids. I sincerely believe that rescue pups bring out the best in us. They don't judge & take everything as it comes. If only they lived longer lives. So glad to see you focusing on rescue & helping rescue pets live longer, healthier lives as they find new forever homes.
Keep up the wonderful work and I'll keep watching from the US.
Animals are the best in general. My cats don't know or care that other humans find me weird. They get their food, water, clean litter-boxes, and all the cuddles and attention they want because they are straight-forward enough to ask for it. If you wait for me to come to you… it'll never happen. I'm great at responding to your needs when you spell them out, so I will happily dote on anything confident enough to yell at me if the breakfast is one minute late 😅
We’ve just returned back to the States from Australia, and my Aussie husband had that same expression and tone to his voice when talking about Australia being his home, this is just his second home. I’m not sure folks can really understand how hard it is for Aussies to live away from Australia, even when it’s fully voluntary. It’s a really special place with a very different culture from America, Britain, and other places. ❤🇦🇺
I am a 70 year old grandma in California. I had a heart dog for 14 years. He was rescued from a kill shelter because of a deformity. He was 4. He lived the rest of his 18 years with me. I see so many things during the behavioral videos that explained his behavior. He didn't know toys or treats. I had to teach him. Thank you for showing the time and patience to allow them to learn to love and feel safe.
I am saddened about your family situation but know that co-parenting works. It is an adjustment for everyone but the foundation of the family is still strong and healthy. Bless you all and bless the animals. 12:59
My grandson is almost 4 and was diagnosed with Autism - he has been nonverbal, but is starting to talk. He goes to pre-school 4 days a week and to an Autism center for therapy 6 hours a day (5 days a week). He is so loving and sweet, hilarious, dramatic (acts out shows), and very hyper, but on the other end he screams when he doesn't get his way or throws things - since he has been in therapy (almost a month) these behaviors have been less. He knows when people are upset, by reading facial cues. Just wanted to share my experience - I am helping to raise him so I see him everyday. Autism is a wide spectrum that a lot of people don't understand (from highly gifted to very love cognitive). I have a Master's degree in Special Education and taught school for 20 years. I have had students on both ends of the spectrum. I love this channel because you and the rescues you are involved in.
I loved you as a vet, i love you as a rescue vet, and i have immense amounts of respect for you as a person. seeing you be so honest and open has made me respect you even more. what a legend
Oh Scott I wish I could hug you! Never would have seen you and Zoe separating in a million years! You were together forever.
Also, thank you for being so open and forthcoming. It makes your followers feel closer to you.
You have autism? Really? If you hadn't said so I never would have dreamed. I used to work with people who had autism and were totally different from you. You have love, compassion, empathy, sympathy for your patients and their owners. That added to your creativity and you are simply brilliant! ❤
My 3 grandchildren that I adopted all have autism. My girl never paid much attention to our pets but sharing your videos with her has made her show affection to them now.
You are the vet everybody dream for their pets.
People don't realise there is different spectrums of autism. I live in France and have been a fan since vets on the Hill. In France, you would not dare saying you are autistic. I am bipolar and i know if people find out they would change pavement.
I also could see how hurt you were when you mention you current family situation. Remember? There is 50000 who love and follow you. I care about you for the person you are nice, genuine and who loves his patients.
@@Montyboo I'm sorry to hear they have such a limited understanding of neurodevelopmental disorders and mental health disorders in France. I for one don't think any less of you for being bipolar, rather it makes me understand that you are probably stronger than the average person if you manage a mental illness on top of all the other stuff we regularly have to manage in our lives.
Thank you for this open and vulnerable video. My best friend is a late diagnosed Autistic, I feel she would appreciate your words. I am diagnosed with AuDHD and have the gullible part :) I think it's brought me to wonderful things for the most part ❤
Self acceptance is a great accomplishment.
Scott, you are such a lovely human. But you are Australian so of course you are kind, caring and love animals.
I have discovered that I am on the autism spectrum but only figured it out at the age of 57 and am 60 now. One of my son’s who are twins is on the autism spectrum. He’s very high functioning, works in Cyber Security. And he didn’t discover his DX until he was in his late 20’s and is now going to be 35. Both of us have big hearts for animals.
Same here, I also discovered that I'm autistic late in life. Self diagnosed and it explains my life time of difficulties. But I have strengths too, one of them being a deep connection with animals, they are easier to understand than most people.
Hello Dr. Scott. My son at age 45 was diagnosed with ADHD. Because his boss cared about him, asked him what would help him at work. He wanted a quit area to work. He works on computers for others all day. Constant interruptions, folks just wanting “5 minutes” without following protocol. Moving him into the server where it is cool and quiet, made a major difference, but getting the diagnosis explained so much. The thoughts about himself and plans to re order his thinking helped also. Each person is different. You have a lot, right now. And when your heart hurts, but you have to continue wearing a mask to get through the day is so hard. And you are a “helper”. So kind, so caring of others and the wonderful animals. As a Retired RN I understand and had my episode where quiet and a reset was needed. The file cabinets in my brain were full and would not hold one more thing. Panic attacks are your body saying, ok, now even the little notes are too much, that file cabinet is tipping over. Time to empty some stuff. Therapy saved my life, taught me it is ok to have boundaries and say no. But helpers are also empathic. We feel others pain and feel compelled to help. We just don’t do that same care for our ourselves. You will take your new fur baby and get through this. Be kind to yourself. And asking for help is difficult, but shows strength, not weakness. The sunshine will soon find those shadows, in due time. Sending love and light to you and yours, and a big old “American Hug 🤗”! Your You Tube family here will support you.
WOW! Thank you for sharing your personal journey. I had no idea you had autism and that you're separated from your wife.
Incredible!
We love you Scott. You're an excellent vet and a wonderful, caring person ❤
I am so sad and disappointed that you and Zoe are separated . . . but I wish you both the best as well as the kiddos. I enjoy your love for animals.
I didn't even know you and zoe had separated, so sorry but hope you can continue to co-parent together x you are an amazing man and I'm sure you will continue to make the world a better place and find more happiness out there x
Your daughter quin that featured in the volunteering video was a wonderful young woman. You should be very proud of your excellent parenting.
I am an autistic young adult about to start my first volunteering shift at an animal shelter here in Scotland now I've just graduated University! Your videos were a big inspiration to seek out a position at my local shelter. I'm so excited, and love animals so much :) It is so lovely to know one of my inspirations is also autistic! We are more common than Neurotypical people realise, I think!
Congratulations on your new journey. I wish you much success.
Well done! The animal shelter is going to be Blessed for having you there with them, animals especially.
God Bless you, have fun and know that the animals don't judge or care about our disabilities. They know and understand more than we do. Great examples and teachers of FORGIVENESS & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
Thank you for your selflessness and greatest gift you can give any organization and that's your TIME:) Good Luck:)
Dr Scott is a prime example that autistic people can, and many are very successful people in their lives.
When the world gets me down I watch your show. What a role model!
Absolutely
In 2019, I adopted a snowshoe cat from the Las Vegas, NV SPCA. She chose me. When I moved to Kelseyville CA in July 2024, my cat got nervous as I packed part of the house. I reassured she was going with me. We drove for two days to get from Las Vegas to Lake County. My cat has settled into her new live in her new location I am happier here and fell less stress. We bless each other. I am blessed by her being in my life every day.
I didn’t realise you are autistic, me too!
the acceptance is the hardest part, is what I’ve found. I was diagnosed at 25 and I’ve grown so much since then. I’m so proud of you for being so open about this :) thank you for all you do
You're not alone in that. My husband and I are both autistic as well!
I'm also autistic. It's like we flock to like-minded individuals :)
I am 72 years old and was diagnosed in my 50s with autism. My diagnosis was a relief ... it explained so much of my past feelings of being different too. Also, I always felt more comfortable with my dogs and cats than with humans.
Thank you for sharing as truth is freedom!
I didn’t know that Scott! When did you find that out? Autism is hereditary I heard.
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
“Lead with kindness”- what a great suggestion!
Truth be known, the Vet On The Hill parts of Bondi Vet were always my favourites, so I'm very happy to be tuning in to your new channel. Keep the content varied; pets with problems, new x-ray machines, meeting new staff members, keeping chucks in the back garden etc. etc. The sum of the parts always exceeded the whole, if you get what I mean. Good luck for the future.
Fellow late diagnosed autistic! I agree withe everything you said. It is a huge relief that comes with it!
Thank you Scott for being so open about everything..❤❤
Oh Dr Scott, 😢 so sorry to hear about your marriage. Sending hugs to all of you ❤
More more!!❤❤❤
Scott so sorry to hear that you and Zoe are not together now. You all seemed to be so happy. Autism is hard on all family members. Prayers going out for you and the family.
Autism is hard not because of the autism, but because society isn't built with autistic people or any people with disabilities in mind. It's not a problem with the people nor is it a disease. It's a problem with how our social systems are built.
Autism isn't hard but it isn't easy either. I'm autistic myself and there are things that can be completed or there can be great moments too.
Must tell you, you’re looking so relaxed and invigorated. As you may know, we Americans are in political turmoil and uproar constantly and it is draining We watch vets, animals, sports, music, cooking, nature series…anything requiring skill and offering some fun. Best wishes in your new endeavors. You will love editorial control…it’s heady stuff…
I was a mature diagnosed ADHD inattentive type. I understand about looking back and helping who I was as a child and understanding the total joy of finding like people. I cried when I found my community.
You and your wife/now ex not been together any more shocked me so much can’t believe it tbh . Hope u both find happiness ❤
Absolutely love you Scott, you're a wonderful person
Oh i am so sorry to hear your marriage hasn’t worked out your honesty is refreshing good luck with your new adventures ❤
My identical twin daughters, 26, are autistic, so as you might expect, I am very happy to see that you are sharing your and your children's diagnosis openly and positively. Thank you.
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
Thank you, Dr. Scott, for a special video. I admire you for your kindness, openness, and abilities.
My niece has autism and she’s the most generous, helpful individual.
Just in case, you should never feel obligated to answer any questions about your personal life, it's none of others business! Online/social media is one weird duck. Appreciate all you do, and sorry to hear you're going through a tough time with the seperation. I hope it all gets better soon, and i'm glad you guys have found a coparenting routine that works. Congrats on 50k suscribers!
I so appreciate your compassion, humor and care for so many animals. Thank you for being you.
Dr. Scott so sorry that you are going through all of these things. Hang in there, you are loved and we are here to support you. Thank you for being so open and honest and I will keep you in my prayers.
You should plan a visit to the Moons in France who have a RUclips channel. They rescue horses that have been retired from racing, jumping etc
Thank you for being so candid, Scott! It never occurred to me that you were autistic, or that I am until diagnosed at age 69. Have experienced and accomplished a lot, but always the nagging question, "What's wrong with me?", failed attempts to be "normal," and resultant burnout. A bumpy road to navigate, for sure. So glad your young ones were diagnosed early, have support, and can be their quirky, passionate selves. As for you, your passion and empathy have made so many lives better, including mine. ❤
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I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
I’ve always had such respect for you as a vet. Your compassion, humor, and dedication to helping all animals in need are phenomenal. I wish you and your team all the success in Rescue Vet. You are an amazing and beautiful person.
Thank you, Dr Scott, for your love and compassion for all. ❤
You did well! Continue just being yourself and sharing with everybody!
Thank You for this, Dr Scott. It’s always nice to get to know you more as a person. So sorry to hear that you and Zoe are separated, all the best to all of you!
you are such a good example of a great human being, you are full of love and i enjoy watching your videos, thanks
My favorite vet! I appreciate your empathy for these needy fur babies!
Be kind to yourself and heal and love your inner child 🤍
Respect from a fellow Aussie, living in Ireland. You are a very kind and natural person and a great ambassador for our country. Keep up the good work and keep spreading sunshine.
You’ve always been my fav doc on Bondi Vet 🥰🩵
So sorry that you are separated.😢 But you are an amazing dad... It's obvious from your discussion. I loved the episode with Quinn!🥰 It's amazing how quickly our kids grow up!
I have soooo much respect for you with this episode. I saw a change in you with this new channel and it really touched me, even though I couldn't explain what I felt... And I like this new version of you.
Your discussion of your autism was especially moving. You should be an international spokesperson for autism.
Thank you so much for this amazing video. The respect I already had for you has just grown deeper!
I really like the description “neurodivergent” because it suggests people having brain detours rather than defective wiring. And I’ve always found that detours offered the most unique scenery. It just feels a more positive description.
Your kindness is inspirational
So sorry to hear about your marriage but I wish you and Zoe the best with co-parenting with your kids and pets. ❤ I really enjoyed this Q&A video. Very insightful. I didn’t know you’re now doing your own channel so I have now subscribed. Wishing you all the best with your channel 😊
Un grand merci pour l'humanité qui vous anime.
My god Dr Scot , you deserve 1 million subscribers and more. Your channel is educational, entertaining, funny and above all is a delight to listen and see you. 😊❤
Thank you for being transparent, loving, caring and being you. I am a fan forever.❤
I'm so sorry for your seperation. I know it's hard. But your a great vet. Lots of compassion and love for animals and openess today.
Thank you for sharing your private life and family with us. It helps me to understand you. I worked for a wonderful Veterinarian for 25 years and I learned so much. He kept his life private rarely sharing with us even though I shared my life with him. I appreciate your openness. Your children are blessed to have you in their lives! 🥰
I love Vet on the Hill. Thank you for rescuing all the animals you do. My nephew is autistic who lives in a group home. He is in his late 30s. My granddaughter is 16 and autistic. She is an animal lover in a half. Autistic is a complex disorder. They are very smart in some ways but in other things they find difficult. All we can do is love them and be patient. Love you, Dr. Scott. ❤❤❤
Thank you Dr Scott for everything you do. You’re a very beautiful person inside and out. Sending love from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦.
Love the rescue channel! I’ve been rescuing for over 40 years so it’s dear to me🐾❤️
Scott l admire you for everything you do l have been watching you for years on bondi vet and the love you have for these babies is endless thank you
My 10 year old didn't talk until he was 6ish. Hes still got a delay but is a little man who tries so hard every day. Much love to you all ❤ xxxz
I want to share a great YT’r - Dr. Nikolai Raszek of Merogenomics (Canadian) - he has some great videos on autism ruclips.net/video/J4whWVFDN2I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/AWjoB4x_NDE/видео.html
You are such a kind and loving person.
What a brilliant description of your autism. I just love you.
I wasn’t diagnosed with ADD until I was 61, and I was starting to really struggle with keeping my mind on task and was about to be fired from my job. So I finally
Went and was tested,
So I am doing much better and able to concentrate. Thank you for your statements.
And you love of animals ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for being so frank and open about your lived experience with an adult Autism diagnosis. I was just diagnosed with ADHD this year, and the process of looking back at my younger self and forgiving her for things I used to be angry at her for... that's so real. Neurodivergent representation matters, and your being so open about it is so incredibly valuable, so from the bottom of my little neurospicy heart: thank you. 💖
Love neurospicy!
Love you Scott!❤❤❤
Doors close for a reason... I would love you to meet my rescue cat Frieda. We need more vets like you 🥰
Onya Scott,
best wishes for your wonderful channel, and to you and your beautiful family.
Full on adopter here. 2 of my 5 ferrets are rescues as are 3 of my 4 cats. Rescued is the best breed.
Not in a million years would I have thought you were autistic!. Obviously a brilliant vet, you speak with poise and dignity and speak clearly. My son is 24 now. He was diagnosed when he was 5 with PDDNOS (pervasive development delay otherwise not specified) which basically means he falls under the autism umbrella. He graduated college and is now working! Lemme tell ya, the struggle was real!! If you told me he’d ever graduate college I’d never believe it. But he’s a great kid now!(and the struggle was real with him growing up!!) I’m
Really proud of him!
I know you're not a superperson, but you're definitely someone to look up to and we hope to somewhat emulate. To all the rescue animals...feel lucky that you have one of the best helping you.
Oh wow, I had no idea you had separated from your wife. I used to watch “Vet on the hill”…. I saw your beautiful family on there. I hope you all heal from this and I wish you all the best ever 💙
This was wonderful! You have the kindest heart. My son has autism, and at 30 years old with 2 children, he still calls me to ask what someone might've meant when they said or wrote something. My answer is always try to think and feel at the same time. It's not as easy as some people think. Much love to you and yours ❤
sad to hear about the marriage but glad you are co-parenting well and wishing we had a vet like you here in the USA..also happy to see you have adopted a new pupper...
I love your sense of humor , it's one of the reasons I enjoy your shows. Your wife is a caring person and sometimes the fix is better than the problem. Love and hugs from Pennsylvania, USA. God bless.
My friend Deb Cravatta runs K.A.R.E.S on the big island in Hawaii. Perhaps a winter segment highlighting the work they do in Hawaii?
Definitely would like to see more! Thank you!🎉
Oh, I was wondering why I hadn't seen your lovely wife. Bless you both and your lovely children. All we can do in this life is our best.
Thank you so much for your great chat with us and we look forward to Rescue Vet and more talks from you.
I'm also autistic. Many people think having autism means you are slow. I was once told by a teacher I would succeed at anything. It became my personal passion to prove them all wrong. I'm 43 and have succeeded at showing them they were wrong.
I am the mother of two autistic sons.
I praise your candidness and empathy.
Your words are very true and wise.
You have come a long way...
And I am not surprised at your love for animals. My elder son is contemplative and very fond of animals too.