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She had a point about "women lose" and men "have their virginity given"
i disagree. when i graduated i asked my female friends if they lost it. lost and taken is a stupid thing to be mad at.
@@daquoncooper9259 can you read?
@@ajajjajsjjshshhs3715 i can but i see where i went wrong, i meant i ask both. No one ever ask a male if theyre are given, you say taken or loss. But regardless thats stupid to get mad about nonetheless.
And the thing about duct tape that was only taught to her is so disgusting. She cried after something that should have been a nice memory because she was taught she was worthless has a human now?? Some religions are just weird.
@@daquoncooper9259 no it's not stupid because it's an indication of a bigger issue. Whats actually stupid is to think something you will never go through doesn't matter. Not being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes. That's called low emotional intelligence and its a problem...you should probably look into that.
Virginity is not taken or given, just an experience.
More people need to realize this
I needed this
Or the absence of an experience
I disagree
@@lifeaslala5682 cope, incel
I remember my mom raised me to not only save my “virginity” for my husband but also my “first kiss”. I remember the day I finally kissed my boyfriend (who is now my husband). We had been seriously dating with the intent for marriage for 7 months at the time. I was 19 and my husband was 18. It was a simple sweet make out with the love of my life who I had fallen deeply in love with. Neither of us knew what we were doing but it was very innocent. I came home that night around midnight and my mom came into my bedroom, sat on my bed and looked at me blankly and asked “did you kiss him?” I could never lie to my mom… (especially not back then) and so I told her yes. She stood up, walked towards my bedroom door, turned around just before exiting and said “I’m very disappointed in you”. I cried like a baby… feeling like something had just died inside of me that I could never get back
Oh gosh this hit home. I had a similar experience with my mum, who was raised Catholic but never actually carried the pratices further than her childhood, the beliefs however were burnt into her and passively pushed onto her kids. She didn't talk to me for a week after I told her in confidence I had sex for the first time (I was 18). I hope you didn't carry the guilt with you for too long, it was such an innocent thing I really feel for you.
@@kla9914 it took a little bit. But it helped me as an adult to grow and decide what I wanted to believe and hold on to as an adult. I was able to decide what hurt me and what boundaries to set. It was healthy for me in the long run
That’s just idiotic tbh
I'm so sorry that was your experience 🥺
Your moms crazy
the duct tape thing is just horrifying, i'm sorry it was said to you. Can we just stop comparing women to objects? You know what women have in common with duct tape, keyhole or other objects we are often compared to? LITERALLY NOTHING, those are objects we are people. Imagine if people started comparing men with objects and sexualizing them in order to say how invaluable they are. Like "A hammer is only there to bang on the nails, if it doesn't bang it, it's useless": it can work both ways, you know, because you can make analogies with literally anything to prove a point
I was raised fundamentalist chreestian and it took decades to undo all the distorted programming. So happy to see enlightened clips like this, and twentysomethings who can’t be fooled. 👍
We were told to pass a disposable cup around to 4 people, with each one spitting in it. Then asked if anyone was willing to drink it. 🤮
its awful that something so natural like s3x is seen so negatively, especially to women
I agree people need to stop that but at school i see people that cant even eat a hotdog or corn dog without gettin made fun of so like people to compare some of mens things to other things but that is mostly a joke when i see it but nonetheless im just being devils advocate, i agree with you
@@sadiereece783 I had the exact same one except we had to eat an Oreo before we spit 😬 we were also told we could get warts on our face and pubic lice in our eyelashes from oral. I was 13! I do not know who the hell thought that was a good idea
mans didn't even know his boyfriend's age 💀
They coulda gotten the age mixed up, since they would be the same age. But that was my interpretation.
It’s like they were lying the whole time one saying lube the other saying Vaseline like gurl get it together..
@Play Smith help💀
Like it's one year and it was a long time ago so it's kinda normal to forget I guess
it could be that their ages of overlap, like sometimes they're the same age and sometimes not depending on the time of year. Then he might've just subtracted the years without thinking
I understand when she talks about being raised in a super Christian culture, most of the time we feel guilty for having sex (no matter what age) about something that is natural.
For sure, the guilt trip is horrible. I've not even dared going there untill I was over 21... and years later I heard that my older brother went to a sex worker to lose his virginity because he was too afraid to ask his gf at the time because of the whole stigma around it.
why are there so many super christian cultures in the us?? here in italy its totally dying out, only very old people even go to church. on of the reason for that could be the priests who raped a lot of little boys in europe
Pretty genious of the church if you think about it. Making something as natural and instinctual as sex a "guilty sin" that you have to pay them to get rid of/forgiven for.
is it natural tho?
@@mimosasseat9860 It's one of the most natural things on earth. Almost every single species has sex.
Can we take a moment to think about how cruel the discussions around sex are in religion, particularly in the Abrahamic religions? I left the church (I'm EXMO) when I was 15, moved out of my parent's house as soon as I turned 18. I am now 36, years of therapy later, and I still deal with shame, embarrassment, and body issues stemming from religion trauma.
Sorry you had to go through that, religion is a touchy topic but you should 100% feel comfortable about the body you’re on. No religion should place a value on your body depending on if your pure or not. Live your life in a way you can be proud of and not anyone else.
I assume you mean ‘particularly in Christianity’ right? We Jews (at least most of us that aren’t ultra-orthodox) are really not like that...
In a similar boat.
@@Nooticus that what you say is truth for all abrahamic religions. :) but the ultra ppl care more about no sex (jews christs and moslems)
I'm sincerely awfully sorry to hear about your trauma. No one deserves to go through it. However, it does sound like you're generalising Christian values of chastity on all the other Abrahamic religions. In Judaism, it's considered a mitzvah (blessing) to have pleasurable sex and some rabbinical scholars have compared orgasms to experiencing a taste of heaven. Not to say there are no oppressive views on sex or just general misogyny in Jewish communities (or Muslim or Baha'i, but I'm not going to speak for them as I'm not a part of them)... But when most people say "religion stigmatises sex", they're thinking of the ways that Christianity is shit with sex, and generalising it to the other Abrahamic religions without fully knowing them.
I'm just fascinated that two people can experience the exact same thing at the same time and remember different things.
@Jake J yall just believe in anything
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THE FACT THAT YOU GUYS ASKED THE GIRLS TO SAY WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT THE TERM "VIRGINITY"!!! tbh it's a word that makes me deeply uncomfortable and i was kinda thinking of messaging you about in on ig, but i mean... you're just perfect
They asked about the *phrase* "losing your virginity" not the word itself. Why does the word bother you? Obviously they discussed the connotations attached to the phrase but why is the word itself triggering enough to warrant a dm?
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@@K.RUclips2 oll
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I'm not fully convinced the gay couple has ever actually slept together... they're literally recounting entirely different stories 😭😭
Fr 💀
how does spawns of satn even sleep
"How long did you last?"
"About 20 seconds"
"Rate it out of 10, she said 7"
"Oof, I think that goes back to that she-finished-and-I-didnt thing"
BOY SHE FINISHED IN 20 SECONDS? As if lol
Thought the exact same thing 😅
His full of himself 😂
Yeah I was like…👀 My guy, no woman in the history of ever has ever had an orgasm that fast, not even under perfect circumstances…
Thank you. I was looking for the comment to call him out on this 😂
She’s gonna be obsessed with him
The fact that one said it was planned and the other one said it wasn’t.... then one person said they used protection but one said they didn’t... geez... But kudos to them for staying in touch with their first partner lol
Keeping in touch? Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm quite sure all of them are still together...
@@shoelacedonkey it didn’t sound like all of them were but I don’t know any of these people personally! if you do you know better than me😊
@@lovexanisa I know none of them... I just figured if they weren't together anymore it'd be "ex-partners" or something in the title. I was amazed already that they found so many couples who were both their first :P
have u seen the title lol
i wanna know why y’all two so pressed about my comment. are you losing money or sleep?
I was 16 and freaked the hell out about how disappointed my family would be. The guilt after made me feel like I was walking in a dream. I was so out of it. My bf at the time thought he had done something wrong lol He hadn't. So not only did I feel guilty about my family but also about him. It was a mess. I don't regret it though. It's just another memory from my younger years lol
A toxic cultural ideology, which objectively means absolutely nothing, brainwashed you to feel that way
Did it hurt or did he have trouble at first putting it in? Sorry for the intimate questions, I’m 18 and I think I’m ready for the first time but kinda scared.
@@Jennifer-uh8th relax have fun be confident
And just go with the flow
Once u start to enjoy it just go with the flow
It's Hella wrong but yeah
We fucked in a dave and busters bathroom
The whole duct tape analogy is so messed up 😩🤦♀️🤦♀️
Asian cults of death...
Do another 12 hour blind date
Oh it’s coming!
i’ve written this before, but i’m going to write it again… some people choose to do it with someone they really care about. some people choose to do it with a random hook up. some people like the feelings or emotional parts, and some don’t. it doesn’t really matter which one you choose. just do it on your own terms not because someone pressured you. it’s also okay if you choose to not have sex again for awhile after for whatever reason. it’s also okay if you want to do it immediately again right after. you might not like it your first couple of times, and that’s okay. sometimes people just need to find the right person to realize that sex can be enjoyable. the person who makes you realize sex can be amazing can be a significant other, one night stand, friend with benefits, etc.
I needed this, thanks ❤️
"I loved him a lot more" precious.
being a 21yo Christian female who has yet to “lose it”, i totally understand the guilt she felt afterwards, even if it was only 20 seconds. i feel guilty even thinking about it.
"I was 19"
"and how old was he?"
"he was also 19"
"I just turned 18"
Let's be Honest We knew it
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I am so HORRIFIED by that duct tape analogy are you kidding me!? had me in actual tears. It’s horrifying and heartbreaking that that is how so many people represent something that is supposed to be the ultimate love and justice and GRACE like bro have these people even read the Bible they claim to be speaking for. 😭
the using religion as an excuse to be awful makes me sick to my stomach and genuinely angry because not only is it HORRIBLE and chronically harmful to so many people (and from such a young age!!), it’s also a complete misrepresentation of what the thing they’re claiming to stand for is supposed to be!! AH. hurt people hurt people but my goodness don’t pretend God is telling you it’s good and fine because I promise you He isn’t.
And it makes no sense…so even if you wait and get married, the first time you sleep with your husband is the only good time???? And for the rest of your marriage/life you’re like used duct tape???? Smh
I went to a public school in NY and one of my teachers used that analogy in a class. I was shocked at the time anyone would say something so disgusting. Honestly, 6 years later I’m still shocked.
@@naomilee9866 FR
@@naomilee9866 K mean sex is using each other up. I don't see how its incorrect
the bible doesn't teach it's ok to be a hoe for men and women. It was practice sex with your spouse.
Good work Cut. Glad to hear you included questions regarding the terminology surrounding virginity.
the guy in the hat and his s/o are so freaking cuteee😭😭
theres so many guys in hats
@@danas5846 oh i meant the white couple lmaoo
@@ItsJC-gu3jz LMAO
Makes me sick hearing "took" the virginity. No one is taking anything from anyone, it's a made up nonsense that no one can take
It’s a belief and just figure of speech, I don’t know why you’re so angry that people believe they want to preserve their virginity
It’s figurative speech. You don’t have to take it so literally. E.g if I say “Woah you’re on fire” that does not literally mean that you’re on fire - it’s simply a way to convey how well you’re doing. I see the “taking/losing your virginity” phrase in the same light.
@@fos1451 exactly
@@jvstred9112 you’re correct
I count losing my virginity to myself, cause like I'm the first person to make me feel pleasure and I opened that door of sexuality to myself. Even when I had sex for the first time it was like me gaining my confidence and being comfortable and in control of myself.
THIS. I so agree.
After all, if one cannot gain the pleasure on his/her own, what can you expect from the partner? Totally agree with you, that counts!)
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The religious woman made me wanna hug my younger self 😭
This was so sweet! This was surprisingly... wholesome? Very cute. Good job to all involved!
I am sorry to all those who have felt guilt and shame by their religious institutes. While I personally am waiting til marriage with my partner, it is not out of fear or guilt. It is because we were raised to view sex as something so bonding and intimate that you’d only want to do it with your spouse. I couldn’t imagine being that vulnerable with just anyone (not everyone views it that way of course). And I definitely think it’s pretty harming to put just a woman’s virginity on a pedestal, it goes both ways I feel. Great video for discussion 👍🏼.
The thing I wonder about people who make this decision is ...do you worry you and your future spouse may not be sexually compatible? I know that wouldn't be a deal breaker for some, but if I made that decision and I was not compatible with my spouse I would feel so uncomfortable all the time. Interested to hear your opinion.
@@epicjen
I will not lie and say it isn’t something in the back of my mind. Here’s the thing though, we don’t know what our sexual preferences are just yet. Neither of us have experienced that aspect of life. We have amazing communication and that is a key factor. Also, talking about sex before getting married is a must, esp if you’re waiting. Having realistic expectations too. It is probably going to be a bit awkward in the beginning, but you work through it together. Another thing, while sex can be a very important factor in a relationship (some people don’t prioritize this and that’s totally fine) I’m not marrying him for that reason. I would marry him regardless of sex, because we make each other better people, make each other laugh, etc. Also there are going to be times where sex is going to be on the back burner, like right after having a baby, long distance, whatever the reason and we’ve already had experience with waiting and still being happy and content. Hope that gives you some insight 😅.
@@SweatPea0014 I like to think it will be fine if you and your partner are both understanding of each other, respect boundaries, and aren't pushy. And it sounds like you have a very healthy relationship just from what you said, so I wish you luck!
You're absolutely ridiculous. Smh.
But there's nothing magical about a piece of paper saying you're legally married. If you two love, trust, and respect each other, sex with be intimate and special anyway. Just do it and enjoy yourself. It's never going to be mind-blowing the first time anyway, just take the pressure off. By the time you're married, you may actually be really good at having sex together.
my ex bf and I at the time we’re both 17. We were in high school and one day we decided to be each other’s first time after school. It lasted a total of probably 20 seconds and then nothing happened after and I just cried in his bed and he held me. I have no idea why I cried because I wasn’t emotional that day but I think when you give away something you promised your church you would never give away until marriage it kinda makes you feel guilty. Especially because my christian best friend was judging me for years after. However, now looking back my best friend and I laugh about my first time and honestly it’s just an experience everyone goes through unless there is no consent.
context: i’m 24 now
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I'm so glad my mother was too chicken to give me the sex talk, because I'm sure she would've said some duct tape bullshit to me lol
he thought she finished in 20 seconds?? LMFAO
Yeah, its that whole Christian church education. lol
for real like 😭😭😭
Her: desciribing a pretty horrible experience
Also her: 7/10
But daaamn... The duct tape
I shouldn't be surprised by how different their recollections are but I'm somehow shocked that they remember things so differently.
3:48 i laughed so hard when he said "probably a 3½" 😂😂😂
I love all the couples!!
Purity culture has such detrimental effects. I wish education was promoted in religious communities so their reasoning behind younger people abstaining is so they avoid STIs and STDs as well as unwanted pregnancy.
To guilt people into not having sex is not beneficial.
I know it's always been so taboo for sexuality in general to be discussed in my immediate family. It led me into relationships and situations i never should've been in.
Finally had sex at 27 and i have nobody to go to for advice because both my parents would be disgraced and disappointed.
Wait til they find out I'm polyamorous
This is awkward but intresting
The couple that got married and the wife took his virginity gives me hope lol❤️
"Did you use protection?"
Him: "Yes"
Her: "No"
*Something may be wrong here*
@Jake J Thank you :)
The phrase “losing my virginity” should be replaced with “giving my virginity” as lose sounds like lost which give a sad meaning of a bad sexual experience. Just think about it.
„Then we got out, put our clothes back on… then I cried“ 💀😅😂
Communication is key to getting the best outcomes.
I love a good Ole CUT vid❤
the concept of virginity is pretty sad
Cut found a way to completely camouflage backwards cap dude
Dude fuck yea the duct tape thing fucked up my whole teenage year
This Doug guy. So respectful ❤️
Really random and not making any philosophical statements lol but the girl with the glasses is absolutely beautiful. & I love her smile! I'm so sorry for her and anyone that has to ever go through anything that makes them feel anything other than completely happy worthy and free.
I feel bad for the girl that felt guilty bc honey it does not Make you worthless. Your worth is in Jesus.
Back of a Blazer at 17 lol I was so nervous but even more about what my girlfriend thought 😂😂😂. Love these videos 🤓.
Doug killed it
thank you homie
@@dougbranlund6113 u are in the video??
I say study ahead of time. Articles, interviews and doctor's journals. Anything to have some type of clue.
As long as it's not porn
@@Jennyfisch Those are streaming exclusives. Not instructional videos.
@@darryldavis6063 Some guys would beg to differ, unfortunately.
Please read my whole comment and reply on it !
I am 22 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development.
So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her?
I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us.
I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach.
I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’ it is unscientific & judging someone on the basis of this is also wrong.) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ?
Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If one Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual/serious relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values.
Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past.
So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view.
their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone.
If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for whole family although mistakes was done by only one partner.
I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect.
Even if we agree on other points and we like each other then i will be ready to marry rape victim or person who had faced something wrong in past because in this case it was not that person’s mistake. Even i will give emotional support to her and stand for her. After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk.
I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in whole life ,she is the only one for me in whole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this !
But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion!
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In my opinion those who wants to be in relationship should clear each and everything before getting into it. Both should clear honestly everything regarding past,expectations and another things related future life. If matching then be together and if not then give wishes and move forward. There shouldn’t be lying or cheating!
I am against hiding,cheating,lying!
I just want to say like others, virgins also have point of view and honest expectations which i have mentioned in my above comment in detail. Because of that no one should call us narrow minded. Respect our expectations as we respecting your personal decisions.
i always try to have rational,progressive and liberal approach. And as per this you have to respect each and everyone’s rational and good personal choices. But i am against those hypocrites. I hate their hypocrisy that at one side they support personal choice but at other side they are opposing and denying totally the personal choice of choosing life partner on our personal terms and criteria.
I think people like me or people who have attitude like me don’t have representation.
I am against judging someone and against extremist of both sides cause I would like to think rationally..
I don’t judge anyone and totally respect each and everyone’s past and their personal and private life. I am no one to make statement on it . But their are many hypocrites who are indirectly making atmosphere In the name of ‘past is past’ against us where we just cannot have our terms. If we put our terms or criteria then they are ready to attack and comment on us that ‘we are narrow minded’. With this attitude they are making environment of inequality where we just can’t demand or expect like “if our partner is going to first love for us then why we should not expect same from him/her ?”
I am against imposing opinions, defaming our personal criteria and purposefully making unfavourable atmosphere related us and our opinions. I believe in ‘live and let live’
Nobody reading all of that bro
@@asxzsf3 many people have read & replied on my this comment on different videos of RUclips. If you want then you may..
I "lost" mine with my best friend from high school. We were both 16 at that time. Ngl I was quite nervous and expected the worst but I haven't backed down. In the end, it was the opposite. It was thrilling and orgasmic. 😂
Ya I don’t see it as “losing.” Fr. Virginity is a social construct.
@@anon2218 Yes it is and it's quite annoying. Like you've never heard of a virgin cow, sheep, goat, deer and etc. Then some people tend to use the hymen as an excuse, but you can rupture it with simple street workout.
@@anon2218 literally everything is social construct
@@majavojvodich why would people care if a cow is virgin or not?
You do hear virgin cow sometimes if that’s what the buyer is looking for, for example, Only virgin female cows can be sold as Matsusaka beef
@@fos1451 boy why are you under every comment? Just stick with your pedo instincts and go off
I died inside listening to the purity culture couple. Fuck religion. Sorry, not sorry.
Lol why is the background the same exact color as the white couple shirts'? Was that intentional?
You don´t lose o give you virginity, no matter if you are a male or female. Is better to understand it as you start you sex live, like the guy with the glasses said is not a lose is a gain.
This is so sweet
Lost my vCard the night/morning, twenty one pilots -stressed out, came out lol. Was fire
2/10 but expectations were too high.
I was 27 lost my virgin
I hope it was a beautiful experience for you. Or at least not a bad one.
how did you wait that long??
@@saeed05 what’s the problem?
I guess you could say the gay couple couldn't get their story... straight 😎
I thought they were in the same room lmao 😂
I officially have a fear of missing out….19M still single never have a GF
Amazing stuff!
Love this 😂❤
Sex has a lasting bond remember that kids…be safe out there
Do a 12 hour blind date
The two people talking about their first time make me concerned. Their stories are so dissimilar that I wonder if they weren't talking about the same person. Oh, dear.
bring doug back
honestly i cant imagine being told the story with the duct tape. i have struggled with feeling shame after sex for a long time with just a few shameful comments (not religious at all). i dont know how i would be if i was so pressured from a whole community
0:28 inside out shirt 😭😭
good job doug
thank you homie
Does ANYONE have a GOOD first time????
something I am wondering while watch9ing cut an jubilee videos as an italian is, if theres really that many hardcore christians in the US? I always thought my parents were hardcore christians because they wanted me to go to church with them every weekend, but here noonce cares whenever you lose your virginity and noone really puts pressure on you. but if I look at some of these guys from the video it feel like christianity is taken way more seriously than here, it honestly feels like a sect.
I have a lot of passion about this topic because even at my age I have a hard time wrapping my head around the need for purity culture, so I apologize in advance for this long answer. Pretty much across the board, from my experience living in the US and as a Christian, losing your virginity before marriage is an absolute no-no. Even as a casual Christian, if you lose your virginity, you just try not to tell people. Purity culture, also in my experience, is also heavily emphasized in cultural churches. At a religious conference I went to when I was younger, the girls and boys were separated, and the female leaders (not pastors but just women in their 20s-30s) told us that we would have sexual urges and to deal with them, we should pray, meditate, have someone hold us accountable to avoid stumbling into sexual sin, and to potentially eat chocolate (because supposedly this removes the urge of feeling sexual frustration). This was already a crazy development at our age because no one ever talked about the sexual desires of women in a more casual setting like this. I'm in my early 20s and I do believe in Christianity, going to church, and loving others as Jesus would, but even as a more liberal person - I still have a lot of sexual shame and do not want to participate in the act of penetrative sex. Even people I know who are engaged are not supposed to live with their significant other before getting married because they are NOT allowed to have sex, as per the church and their families. My cousins are engaged and will have their fiances over, and our parents assume that my cousins and their fiances are sleeping in separate rooms...sorry long ramble to say, the younger generation (for people I know) holds less traditional values but there is definitely a lot of sexual shame all around. Like my parents would never let me travel alone with my boyfriend (if they knew I had one lol).
Yes there are
seems like religion is still doing what it does best, traumatizing kids
Bring back Daniel and Dietrich!
I lost it and had my first kiss at 18, with my current bf, he waited 8 months and almost two weeks for me to get comfortable enough (religious trauma) to do it. For his 18th birthday his friends gifted him condoms (regular durex) and we decided to use it, we also had lube prepared, when he tried putting on the condom, he went soft and couldn’t understand why so I said it’s okay, maybe it’s the condoms, let’s just buy a bigger size tomorrow and we can try again. So we went and bought the XXL (60mm diameter ones) and they fit him and he wasn’t going soft anymore and we could do it in peace. He also had his first orgasm that day so I was very happy about it, it was very romantic even if it was in the middle of the day while my parents were gone, it just felt soul tying to me and he also expressed that after like a week he felt really attached to me. 10/10 experience.
you were so young, and your comment Is pretty old but i would like some device, can i ask you smth?
@@ssaromyy sure go ahead, I’m open. Also made a little mistake in my comment, I just rectified it 😅
@@thaisya7479 hahahahaha, well, i'd like to try it out with my bf, he Is the right person for me but, I'm really worried about pregnacy I'm young and i dont Wanna get pregnat lol. did you also feel scared? i overthink abt this a lot
The guy with the glasses sounds like a white Tyler The Creator
I think it's adorable home boy with the backwards ball cap thought she 'finished in 20 seconds.'
@Jake J rofl...dude there's literally a verse in the Bible where women were forced to have abortions if they had sex out of wedlock or cheated on their husbands. Get out of here with that foolishness.
crazy how many people are addicted to porn
damn they’re still together
5:47 Sorry, what? Did this guy just foreshadow intent to break up with his boyfriend or something?
Bro looks like deuce Tatum
The best video in the world 🤣
I need Woody again!!! Love him🫶🏻
aww I love them
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I don't find anything wrong with the phrase "losing your virginity", nor has it been just women it's been applied to. I understand the arguments against it, but I think people make a bigger deal out of it than it is. There's a RUclipsr named Lacigreen who I've been watching for almost 15 years. She was making sex-ed videos for a while and she came up with the term "sexual debut" as alternate phrase for the first time someone has sex. I thought that was kind of cool.
i def feel like there’s a huge stigma applied to taking/losing virginity especially for women. for men they gain ego/confidence when they finally jump the hurdle of having sex, for women, there’s a huge pressure of being a “hoe” losing it too early, just the idea of “losing” something in general implies “losing” purity or otherwise “losing” something valuable that comes with virginity and that’s an outdated mindset. it’s exoticizing a trait that shouldn’t effect the way you perceive someone’s character
@@woozworldbabe312 I understand that. I don't think the stigma is as bad as it used to be, though. I grew up in the late 90s and early 2000s and slut shaming back then was pretty much a way of life. I personally never did that. That shit always bothered me. However, I've noticed in the last 10 years or so that there's a lot less of it. We're becoming more sex positive and less shamey, which is awesome, but we still have a ways to go. Prudes will be prudes.
I never lose🗿
i just know the virgin guy is a scorpio
the christian one
Which you would be wrong
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that was my main focus too 🤣 i was like hey!!
same i was looking for someone to say this
is that coop772
DOUGLASSSS
the ductape ???
2:41 that’s literally my culture but for women who don’t veil or talk to guys. It’s so dumb
I'VE WATCH
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Nah the duct tape thing is hella on point
how does a woman compare to a piece of tape..
what is the connection?
It's literally made up and only used to instill shame
15?!!!
That’s the age I lost mine :)
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