I called off the wedding after my Fiancée of 8 Years cheated on me at Her Bachelorette

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
  • I called off the wedding after my Fiancée of 8 Years cheated on me at Her Bachelorette
    author: u/throwaway_999666222
    #reddit #redditupdate #redditrelationship

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  • @juanhaines7295
    @juanhaines7295 7 месяцев назад +102

    I heard this one before. The audacity of some people calling op a misogynist or he should "work it out with her". The misandry needs to stop.

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Месяц назад

      Its so fecking annoying that people have to add on the disclaimer all the time, even when his fiancee sucked some other guys member he has to be like "Not all women though, I'm not a misogynist"

    • @darthbiscuit
      @darthbiscuit День назад

      Reddit is a cesspool of weak degenerates

  • @FroggyGirlDreams
    @FroggyGirlDreams 7 месяцев назад +92

    Im sorry about your 28 Fahrenheit

    • @kappadream569
      @kappadream569 7 месяцев назад +4

      That's just pure laziness, posting stuff read by bot without even doing an ear check

    • @A-Warthog-cc1wm
      @A-Warthog-cc1wm 7 месяцев назад +11

      Can someone get her a blanket? 😅

  • @theauditor3224
    @theauditor3224 7 месяцев назад +50

    so a man gets cheated on. and because he doesnt forgive her. he hates women and isnt a real man. God damn thats just..thats just incredible

    • @gotenblack2542
      @gotenblack2542 7 месяцев назад +5

      what do you expect form people these days they always think the man is in the wrong it a sad world

  • @eric98292
    @eric98292 7 месяцев назад +3

    Honestly, this is one of the most mature cheating breakup stories I've heard in a while. He handled it better than most.

  • @Ulfrick_viKingPin
    @Ulfrick_viKingPin 7 месяцев назад +7

    I've been drunk around random guys and they've tried touching me or encouraging this sort of behaviour and even in my drunken state, it made me feel sick and I started avoiding them when they started thinking they can get in my pants. If you love your partner, this sorta shit, these sorta thoughts do not plague you.

    • @carlanash1129
      @carlanash1129 5 месяцев назад +3

      Same, i was drunk( and I think someone put something in my drink) and I still said no and got out of there

  • @TopAndBottomText
    @TopAndBottomText 7 месяцев назад +14

    I am almost finished at the story, and by far, this is the saddest for me.

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Месяц назад

      Its one of the saddest in the sense that there was no real lying from her and you could tell she was remorseful and she basically ruined both their lives for no good reason. I don't think she is a bad person, but man she has created a bad situation out of nothing.
      I do have to wonder if she is lying about the cheating though, I can't imagine her being this close to being married and suddenly putting another mans cock in her mouth as a hehe moment.

  • @analyticgeometry9014
    @analyticgeometry9014 7 месяцев назад +13

    I'm at 13:16 and it seems like there was a lot that was missed?

  • @IdrisLehu
    @IdrisLehu 7 месяцев назад +89

    you literally started your relationship by being friends with benefits with your ex fiance but "casual sex is not for me" mkay dude

    • @listener709
      @listener709 7 месяцев назад

      Also constantly mentions how good at bed they are and how proud of his pecker and how woman think he is so masculine by wearing makeup

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 месяцев назад +5

      That’s not what he said lol

    • @InvasionAnimation
      @InvasionAnimation 7 месяцев назад

      ikr

    • @DustyHoney
      @DustyHoney 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@abcdefzhij That’s what “fwb” stands for, you’ve been lied to.

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 месяцев назад

      @@DustyHoney No, the guy didn't say "casual sex isn't for me".

  • @NoblesseOblige-17
    @NoblesseOblige-17 7 месяцев назад +24

    Fuck, this is just depressing. Feel bad for both of them (him more so, of course).

  • @Trentreid19
    @Trentreid19 7 месяцев назад +4

    Last I remember about this is that he started to date and a while later he met up with her later down the road. Guess she got worse in looks and they started to go as friends to dating, (I think). But yeah, it an old story I heard on FB.

  • @KilroyWasHere83
    @KilroyWasHere83 7 месяцев назад +7

    This is incomplete. There was more to this story. They started being friends again and were very slowly working towards trying again.

  • @desrayann
    @desrayann 4 месяца назад +3

    I must be a dinosaur but the fact that no one saw a problem with what his fiance did! Not even her meaning this is normal for them! The fact that the OP was so relax and so understanding shows that he as a doormat mentality! The fiancé and friends are all disgusting 🤢 🤮 and the fact that this OP took her back in the end is completely sick! To each their own but it’s just crazy how people don’t respect their bodies and a committed relationship mean no much these days! Because even if she was drunk she wasn’t single and shouldn’t entertain this kind of behavior!

    • @Douglas-nt7jd
      @Douglas-nt7jd 4 месяца назад

      He didn't take her back? He told her to stop contacting him.

  • @fonandoozmando5961
    @fonandoozmando5961 7 месяцев назад +6

    She sounds really sweet, shame that no one is really immune from peer pressure, worst when it comes from the wrong people

  • @Mathemaniac187
    @Mathemaniac187 2 месяца назад +3

    I completely respect this guys decisions, but I wish it didn’t have to end this way. I know it does, but it’s always sad to hear of lifelong friends, especially ones who became lovers, parting ways because of one mistake, despite it being like the biggest possible mistake. I wish it didn’t have to be, and I wish she didn’t make it have to be. Screw the toxic friend who pushed like hell for it all.

  • @seilvox
    @seilvox 5 месяцев назад +4

    I can't believe how many times I've seen stories of women finding another woman who's either getting married or is married and peer pressuring her to a strip club. Like, holy shit?
    Not only are you pressuring someone to cheat, but you're literally doing the thing that men do to women. Pressuring them into sexual situations??? Hello???

    • @click8708
      @click8708 Месяц назад

      These women tend to be single or in rocky relationships, I've never heard of a woman in a good relationship who acts like this unless its for revenge or something. Some women will ruin another womans life simply out of spite for what she has and that's it, no real reason, no revenge story, its not like they're enemies... hell sometimes they are friends.
      Men have our fair share of A-holes but women go rouge for some reason.

  • @TheVercci
    @TheVercci 7 месяцев назад +3

    That's the wrong username in the description, you added an extra 2 by mistake.

  • @NeoCreo1
    @NeoCreo1 2 месяца назад

    This is a very small section of a VERY LONG STORY. With twists and turns aplenty. I highly recommend looking for the complete one.

  • @muddyness
    @muddyness 3 месяца назад

    Engaged for EIGHT years? That wedding was mever going to happen

  • @hujefabagwan6823
    @hujefabagwan6823 7 месяцев назад +1

    Which website you used for captioning videos?

  • @Joeball_7
    @Joeball_7 7 месяцев назад +3

    first ha
    these kids got nothing on me

    • @SleddogHusky
      @SleddogHusky 7 месяцев назад +1

      If they cant say first, theyll say second, so it wont stop the idiots from being idiots😂

    • @ryanrussum9924
      @ryanrussum9924 7 месяцев назад

      ​@toriel truel._.

    • @ramonmeza566
      @ramonmeza566 7 месяцев назад

      True​@@SleddogHusky

  • @anzu755
    @anzu755 4 месяца назад

    Tbh Bachelor's partys should be stopped.

  • @gotenblack2542
    @gotenblack2542 7 месяцев назад +1

    people blaming the guy if the genders swapped everyone would praise op

  • @amandam8609
    @amandam8609 2 месяца назад

    I want to be 28 Fahrenheit

  • @edgarallanalejandro641
    @edgarallanalejandro641 День назад

    That so toxic thinking i like working with my hands i even did construction with my uncles in his business in high school and i did military reserve training in college as well but i still like to do traditional femini this like gardening and sowing as well, so your still a man even if you dont do traditional male things i mean f my dad was in the navy for 19 years and he like gardening and cooking.

  • @ianimations1656
    @ianimations1656 7 месяцев назад +12

    This is why i don’t date. They tell you just to watch out for red flags, but everyone fucks up. I don’t want to be hurt again.

    • @IdrisLehu
      @IdrisLehu 7 месяцев назад +2

      ok incel

    • @cavey001
      @cavey001 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@IdrisLehuThat's an insensitive, bullshit response.

    • @LadyZubat
      @LadyZubat 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@IdrisLehu there's a difference between being an incel and being single by choice you dipshit!

    • @InvasionAnimation
      @InvasionAnimation 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@IdrisLehu Attention Gardening tool.

    • @ianimations1656
      @ianimations1656 7 месяцев назад

      @@cavey001 Thanks, that guys reply low-key ruined my day but seeing you stick up for me made me feel a lot better

  • @tathagatabhattacharya5911
    @tathagatabhattacharya5911 3 месяца назад

    Am a wierd, but when I read this on reddit, I felt these two, would have been perfect couple, except for the asshat friend...

  • @Lofirainv2
    @Lofirainv2 7 месяцев назад +2

    turbo fake

  • @TheDCAUgothic
    @TheDCAUgothic 7 месяцев назад +1

    You probably should have censored 14:14 since it's a slur. 👀

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 5 месяцев назад

      Not a slur dumbass

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 4 месяца назад

      How

    • @att6484
      @att6484 4 месяца назад

      @@wooda7 wdym how its literally a homophobic slur. However I disagree with it being censored, it's part of the story and I think it should be said as posted, as a queer person myself.

    • @wooda7
      @wooda7 4 месяца назад

      @@att6484 I have never once heard of it being a slur

  • @GuyShōtō
    @GuyShōtō 7 месяцев назад +4

    I was wondering what the Fiance's friend mean't by Op not being a real man, but when I heard his appeal to the comment section to be nice, it instantly clicked for me. LMAO

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij 7 месяцев назад

      HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHA YOOOO OWNED HAHAHAHHAAHHAH WOONGNGSD

    • @GuyShōtō
      @GuyShōtō 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@abcdefzhij U good?

  • @ScarlettNightNyx
    @ScarlettNightNyx 7 месяцев назад

    Well nothing i can say about this, relationships and family are a joke to me, as to me everyone will eventually cheat and betray you so i trust no one.

  • @glenmassey3746
    @glenmassey3746 3 месяца назад

    NAH alcohol makes you lose inhibitions and maybe if she came clean, not a play on words, it might have been ok. But she went on and didn't say a thing. She was to immature to marry and would've ended worse if you had married.

  • @gusarmstrong563
    @gusarmstrong563 2 месяца назад

    Yeah, OK. Nothing says, "real man" like fingernail polish. Get real.

  • @Brodyb510
    @Brodyb510 7 месяцев назад +2

    2nd

  • @swordive
    @swordive 7 месяцев назад +1

    Second

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 7 месяцев назад +2

    Cheating is healthy