Sooo true! Let me share my experience. I wanted this person so bad and i couldn't let go cuz i feared of losing him. I thought “I” could fix everything and i was always stressed. However when Allah made me realise that i need to let it go (stop all communications), focus on Allah alone, keep it halal and build a better version of myself, that fear was gone and instead my confidence of getting him back increased! Alhamdulillah. I honestly dont know how and when, all i know is Allah will make it happen. You just gotta be consistent and confident in your duas. He knows the right time. I’m still in the process of receiving and i’m being patient (it’s kinda hard ngl but i trust Him). When Allah reunites us in a halal way, i will update here in sha Allah🦋♥️
Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story! May Allah continue to guide and bless you on your journey, and may your trust in Him bring you peace and joy.
When I was so exhausted and almost gave up, allah send me you and this video! At first I was so exhausted physically and mentally so I didn’t understand what you are talking about. But after hearing it again I felt after a long time peace. I thought I have to take control of everything and the more I suffer the better the outcome. But it’s not like that. We don’t have to suffer like we’re almost dying. It doesn’t have to be that difficult to geht what we want. We just have to trust fully allah and what he is putting in our heart. This is our intuition and the thoughts the he put in our head to direct us in the right path. We just have to trust him and do what he is telling us by those thoughts without thinking. I realised that I had a fear of the outcome, the future, of failing. My focus was on that, that’s why I was so exhausted. I love Allah deeply from the bottom of my heart. I don’t have to worry because he is with me and Iam on his side not with the shaytaan. Shokran ktir❤️ Allah is helping me and answered my prayers through you🤍🤍
I used to know you when I was little! I haven’t seen you in maybe 15 years and your videos started popping up on my feed haha. I’ve steered away from Islam but your videos resonate with what I believe in, Islam or not, and I’m starting to realize that Islam can be open and flexible. I love this
I would say if it is distracting you from the new version of them, which would in most cases be yes. The root cause of refusing to let go of that is fear of not having what we want (not trusting in Allah)
Man idk how to move on like i always think he will come bavk i do ask Allah to remobe him crom my heart but then i start thinking about him again i even prayed for him while performing umrah tawaf so many times but i js domt know anymore and he and his friends did me soooooo so so bad but then i also feel like im the problem i was the one that caused it i just dont know if i should keep making dua or js stop completely bcz they say making dua consistently can change whats written
I feel your pain and confusion. It's understandable to feel stuck and unsure about what to do. First, let me tell you that it's amazing that you're seeking Allah's guidance and praying for removal of these feelings from your heart. That takes a lot of courage and faith. It's okay to still think about him, but try not to dwell on those thoughts. Instead, focus on your own growth, self-reflection, and healing. Remember that you are not the problem, and you didn't deserve to be treated badly. Keep making dua, but also work on forgiving yourself and others. And yes, consistent dua can change what's written, but it's also important to trust in Allah's plan and timing. You got this!
I liked a person, told him Abt my feeling, wanted him in halal way, he rejected me. I didn't lose hope I kept praying so hard now by end of Feb he is going to have his nikah with someone else, so shud I stop making Dua, am also leaving for Umrah. I asked for him for 6 months, during these times I also dreamt Abt him in gud way, even after istakhara,my cousin saying they were ur thoughts. So today I quit asking for him. Am I right?
Great question! When I say 'let go,' I don't mean that we shouldn't make duas or ask for what we want. Of course, we should always communicate our desires to God and ask for guidance. However, what I mean by 'letting go' is that we need to release our attachment to the outcome. We need to trust that God has heard our prayers and is working in our favor, even if we don't see immediate results. It's about having faith that our desires are being taken care of, and that God's plan is unfolding for our highest good. So, keep making those duas and asking for what you want, but also trust that God has got this!
I'm just wondering but do you celebrate differences as a Muslim? And one thing I've heard Muslims say is that the Quran doesn't celebrate differences of religions but I disagree.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! As a Muslim, I believe that Allah has created us all unique and diverse, and that's something to be celebrated. The Quran does acknowledge and respect the differences between religions, and encourages us to engage in respectful dialogue and coexistence. While it's true that Islam is the only religion that Allah accepts, the Quran also teaches us to be kind, compassionate, and just towards people of all faiths. Let's focus on building bridges and promoting understanding, rather than division and intolerance.
@fglowzahr I think there's a difference between tolerance and celebrating. An example of tolerance would be me accepting the existence of the Holi Hindu festival. Celebrating would be going to the celebration and having fun with the Hindus without worshiping Shiva.
@fglowzahr my beliefs are different I believe the Prophet Muhammad is the final prophet but I don't have a halal diet and I believe Muslim women can marry Christians and Jews. I question often. I believe in compassion over dogma.
@ria-z1d Incorrect. Al-waddud is a superlative quality. The 'al' means the highest concentration. This means WHEN Allah loves someone he loves THAT person the most. Allah DOES NOT love the unbeliever who transgresses. He does not love everyone, but he is merciful to everyone.
@ria-z1d In any case, nowhere does this name imply that Allah is love himself. We know that Allah is Noor but there is NO evidence to support that Allah is love. This is either mere assumption or innovation
I understand your point, and I appreciate your clarification on the meaning of Al-Wadud. However, I believe that Allah's love and mercy are not limited to just the believers, but extend to all creation. While it's true that Allah's love may manifest differently towards those who obey Him versus those who disobey, I believe that His love is still present and guiding all of us. Let's focus on spreading love, kindness, and compassion, rather than getting caught up in theological debates.
@fglowzahr That still doesn't make Allah 'love' itself. This isn't a 'theological debate', this is a sound belief required for proper faith. You have a responsibility to be more mindful and careful with your terminology. You are helping no one if you are misrepresenting the faith itself.
Sooo true! Let me share my experience.
I wanted this person so bad and i couldn't let go cuz i feared of losing him. I thought “I” could fix everything and i was always stressed. However when Allah made me realise that i need to let it go (stop all communications), focus on Allah alone, keep it halal and build a better version of myself, that fear was gone and instead my confidence of getting him back increased! Alhamdulillah.
I honestly dont know how and when, all i know is Allah will make it happen. You just gotta be consistent and confident in your duas. He knows the right time.
I’m still in the process of receiving and i’m being patient (it’s kinda hard ngl but i trust Him). When Allah reunites us in a halal way, i will update here in sha Allah🦋♥️
I’m going through the same thing, wishing you the best ❤
Ah! May Allah accept your duas too♥️
Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story! May Allah continue to guide and bless you on your journey, and may your trust in Him bring you peace and joy.
When I was so exhausted and almost gave up, allah send me you and this video! At first I was so exhausted physically and mentally so I didn’t understand what you are talking about. But after hearing it again I felt after a long time peace. I thought I have to take control of everything and the more I suffer the better the outcome. But it’s not like that. We don’t have to suffer like we’re almost dying. It doesn’t have to be that difficult to geht what we want. We just have to trust fully allah and what he is putting in our heart. This is our intuition and the thoughts the he put in our head to direct us in the right path. We just have to trust him and do what he is telling us by those thoughts without thinking. I realised that I had a fear of the outcome, the future, of failing. My focus was on that, that’s why I was so exhausted. I love Allah deeply from the bottom of my heart. I don’t have to worry because he is with me and Iam on his side not with the shaytaan. Shokran ktir❤️ Allah is helping me and answered my prayers through you🤍🤍
I used to know you when I was little! I haven’t seen you in maybe 15 years and your videos started popping up on my feed haha. I’ve steered away from Islam but your videos resonate with what I believe in, Islam or not, and I’m starting to realize that Islam can be open and flexible. I love this
this is a spiritual path. when you let someone go, you are freeing them. that is true love, freedom & liberation.
May Allah increase you in knowledge and raise your darajaat..
Ameen for all of us Ameen
what a timing
Thank you sister
May Allah (swt) bless you.
May allah bless u sister with ur speech u naver know who will learn something good from ur speech.
it really clicked and now i get why things didn't work the way I wanted. jzk for this video
posted a video today about the pressure of showing up online as a Muslim girl - Allah always knows best.
When you mean let go, do you mean like remove them from social media and stuff? And just let it happen on Allah swt timing?
I would say if it is distracting you from the new version of them, which would in most cases be yes. The root cause of refusing to let go of that is fear of not having what we want (not trusting in Allah)
Man idk how to move on like i always think he will come bavk i do ask Allah to remobe him crom my heart but then i start thinking about him again i even prayed for him while performing umrah tawaf so many times but i js domt know anymore and he and his friends did me soooooo so so bad but then i also feel like im the problem i was the one that caused it i just dont know if i should keep making dua or js stop completely bcz they say making dua consistently can change whats written
I feel your pain and confusion. It's understandable to feel stuck and unsure about what to do. First, let me tell you that it's amazing that you're seeking Allah's guidance and praying for removal of these feelings from your heart. That takes a lot of courage and faith. It's okay to still think about him, but try not to dwell on those thoughts. Instead, focus on your own growth, self-reflection, and healing. Remember that you are not the problem, and you didn't deserve to be treated badly. Keep making dua, but also work on forgiving yourself and others. And yes, consistent dua can change what's written, but it's also important to trust in Allah's plan and timing. You got this!
Surat Ar Rad 13:28 & the scent of jasmine will heal your heart, inshallah 🩷
I liked a person, told him Abt my feeling, wanted him in halal way, he rejected me. I didn't lose hope I kept praying so hard now by end of Feb he is going to have his nikah with someone else, so shud I stop making Dua, am also leaving for Umrah. I asked for him for 6 months, during these times I also dreamt Abt him in gud way, even after istakhara,my cousin saying they were ur thoughts. So today I quit asking for him. Am I right?
@@People14442 yep sadly him getting married to someone else is a sign for u to leave it
@@ethereal.baddie01 may Allah protect u and give u so many barakah in your life thank u so much
great video. thank you💙
Good wishes
Can you please link the other video you were talking about?
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When you say let go, do you mean not to make any more duas for what you want?
Great question! When I say 'let go,' I don't mean that we shouldn't make duas or ask for what we want. Of course, we should always communicate our desires to God and ask for guidance. However, what I mean by 'letting go' is that we need to release our attachment to the outcome. We need to trust that God has heard our prayers and is working in our favor, even if we don't see immediate results. It's about having faith that our desires are being taken care of, and that God's plan is unfolding for our highest good. So, keep making those duas and asking for what you want, but also trust that God has got this!
Thank you sister.
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I'm just wondering but do you celebrate differences as a Muslim? And one thing I've heard Muslims say is that the Quran doesn't celebrate differences of religions but I disagree.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! As a Muslim, I believe that Allah has created us all unique and diverse, and that's something to be celebrated. The Quran does acknowledge and respect the differences between religions, and encourages us to engage in respectful dialogue and coexistence. While it's true that Islam is the only religion that Allah accepts, the Quran also teaches us to be kind, compassionate, and just towards people of all faiths. Let's focus on building bridges and promoting understanding, rather than division and intolerance.
@fglowzahr I think there's a difference between tolerance and celebrating. An example of tolerance would be me accepting the existence of the Holi Hindu festival. Celebrating would be going to the celebration and having fun with the Hindus without worshiping Shiva.
@fglowzahr my beliefs are different I believe the Prophet Muhammad is the final prophet but I don't have a halal diet and I believe Muslim women can marry Christians and Jews. I question often. I believe in compassion over dogma.
It's interesting to hear your perspective. I understand where you're coming from, and I appreciate your emphasis on compassion and understanding.
God isn't 'love'.This whole video reminds me alot of theosophist spiritual grifters the way you use the term vibrations, focusing on future forms etc.
Allah is all loving Al-Wadud. the most loving.
@ria-z1d Incorrect. Al-waddud is a superlative quality. The 'al' means the highest concentration. This means WHEN Allah loves someone he loves THAT person the most. Allah DOES NOT love the unbeliever who transgresses. He does not love everyone, but he is merciful to everyone.
@ria-z1d In any case, nowhere does this name imply that Allah is love himself. We know that Allah is Noor but there is NO evidence to support that Allah is love. This is either mere assumption or innovation
I understand your point, and I appreciate your clarification on the meaning of Al-Wadud. However, I believe that Allah's love and mercy are not limited to just the believers, but extend to all creation. While it's true that Allah's love may manifest differently towards those who obey Him versus those who disobey, I believe that His love is still present and guiding all of us. Let's focus on spreading love, kindness, and compassion, rather than getting caught up in theological debates.
@fglowzahr That still doesn't make Allah 'love' itself. This isn't a 'theological debate', this is a sound belief required for proper faith. You have a responsibility to be more mindful and careful with your terminology. You are helping no one if you are misrepresenting the faith itself.