The parents didn't seem to be competent enough to parent in the first place. They ignored the only child they had for 15 years. And had no idea how to raise the one they wanted.
I came here to say this exact same thing. Showering a child with attention and acquiescing to their every demand is not the same thing as being a good parent.
I always love the. "I know I should cut them off but I'm going to do it this way". Then why are you asking for advice just own up to your decisions and move on...
It's because of social media and how it's helped raise a generation of people who need validation and agreement from others before they can decide on what to do
This situation has nothing to do with OP. Ironic how the parents wanted a daughter so badly and ended up with a disobedient, uncontrollable little monster. The fact that the parents are asking OP, who does not even have a relationship with his younger sister because they kicked him out before she was old enough to even know him is proof of how desperate they are. If she's not going to listen to her own parents, why the hell would she listen to a complete stranger?
He should of told the parents that he would only fincially help them out if they explain the actual truth to their daughter instead of the story they created to make him look bad. Then once they tell her the truth cut all contact with them and allow them to suffer in their own design.
They pushed him away all his life, did the bare minimum for him as required by law if that. Now that their miracle golden child is deservingly raking them over the coals, it will be all HIS fault for not making everything better for them since he is 'FAMILY.' Is he wrong? In my humble opinion, NFW! Tell them they don't have any concept of family; thus, they couldn't possibly teach him such things before they threw him out. They poisoned the sister against him for years, so there is no turning back for her. He should turn, walk away, block all of them everywhere, never look back and get a protection order if required.
The parents always thought he was the problem child and the girl they have is the problem child because of ignorance they have to live with by this child's terms and not their own son or anyone else who was part of their lives.😅
The parents didn't seem to be competent enough to parent in the first place. They ignored the only child they had for 15 years. And had no idea how to raise the one they wanted.
I came here to say this exact same thing. Showering a child with attention and acquiescing to their every demand is not the same thing as being a good parent.
I always love the. "I know I should cut them off but I'm going to do it this way". Then why are you asking for advice just own up to your decisions and move on...
I swear these OP's are asking for a ball kicking/ b*tch slap for a reality check.
It's because of social media and how it's helped raise a generation of people who need validation and agreement from others before they can decide on what to do
In the last update OP shouldv'e call the CPS (or whatever it's called in his country) and tell them the cituation with his sister.
They raised a monster and cry now that its gone on a rampage.
Time for them to deal with the carnage alone
This situation has nothing to do with OP. Ironic how the parents wanted a daughter so badly and ended up with a disobedient, uncontrollable little monster. The fact that the parents are asking OP, who does not even have a relationship with his younger sister because they kicked him out before she was old enough to even know him is proof of how desperate they are. If she's not going to listen to her own parents, why the hell would she listen to a complete stranger?
He should of told the parents that he would only fincially help them out if they explain the actual truth to their daughter instead of the story they created to make him look bad. Then once they tell her the truth cut all contact with them and allow them to suffer in their own design.
I also hate that it's your duty it's not your duty for anything you didn't have them they had you
They pushed him away all his life, did the bare minimum for him as required by law if that. Now that their miracle golden child is deservingly raking them over the coals, it will be all HIS fault for not making everything better for them since he is 'FAMILY.' Is he wrong? In my humble opinion, NFW! Tell them they don't have any concept of family; thus, they couldn't possibly teach him such things before they threw him out. They poisoned the sister against him for years, so there is no turning back for her. He should turn, walk away, block all of them everywhere, never look back and get a protection order if required.
Doormat
Yep, fake ai bs. But still fun to listen to
Pathetic. Grow a spine and block them.
The parents always thought he was the problem child and the girl they have is the problem child because of ignorance they have to live with by this child's terms and not their own son or anyone else who was part of their lives.😅
Maybe ai will write a decent story about an op whos not a doormat. Does this happen irl? Yes but this just seems soo stupid.
It took them 15 years to destroy one child and another 13 years to destroy their golden child's life they are the definition of shitty parents.
Idk why the op entertained that family
Do they created that monster let them handle it now and that whole being the bigger person that just means to be a chump