@@videogames9974 Melancholy is being sad for no apparent reason... Not being happy and sad simultaneously. Nostalgia is closer to this feeling of sadness and happiness.
I miss being a teenager in high school with my two best friends and when my grandma and my one friend was still alive and my other friend stopped going to school
i was so young when i started listening and im absolutely positive that i’ve listened to it at least 3k times, probably more. it means so much to me now
*checks the time* *realizes that I'm watching this at midnight* edit: i keep getting notifs about ppl replying to this and im sending you all a virtual hug from where im at. it feels so scary getting old but less so with all of u
i don’t wanna grow up. i feel like i physically can’t. i can’t see myself buying a house, keeping a good job, even going to college. i’m not suicidal or anything but i can’t see myself living past 18. i can’t do it.
i just miss the easier days. when i was little and my friends and i didn’t care about what anybody else thought. when the only scary thing to me was the monster under my bed. when i thought 100 dollars was a lot money. when i didn’t know how shitty the world was.
thinking about growing up is so suffocating. like i’m way to young to be worrying about the things that i think about, but at this point i can’t even deny i’m low key stressed out about not being able to be a teenager again. i feel like i’m not cherishing it enough or something idk but i’m trying to hold onto it so tightly
i felt just this way as a teen. when you are older, you'll discover that life is begging you to live. it's hard to see over the hill and the reality is not much at all changes, you just get better- i promise.
Take it day by day. It’s actually a very common thing to feel like that. You are valid to feel those emotions. There is a word for it but it escapes me for the time being. I’m only 25, and as much as I miss freedoms I felt as a teenager, what I have learned in my adulthood so far has been powerful in understanding my past traumas and how they manifest in my life now. And there is peace in that. You got this. ❤️
I never felt I'd make it past high-school, no way I'd live to 18. I'm 19 now with a decent job I enjoy, bought a decent car with cash, and met the love of my life who im going to marry this upcoming year. I sometimes feel like the 15 year old me who doesn't want to live for the future but when I think about my young nephews growing up or even having my own children, I decide to not waste my life by cutting it short.
this song hits different when you romanticized your teen years as a kid and now they're here and you are lonely, ugly and will never experience the things you dreamed of. I've never had a friendship like this in the song and I never will, but that just makes the song even better.
Stop. You are an absolutely beautiful human being with valid feelings. It's ok that you feel this way, and I know it's hard to feel lonely, especially in times like these. You have such a long and beautiful life ahead of you. Don't dwell in the past, but work towards your goals, big or small. You Matter. I love you
@@eIioperlman I feel you, my 16 bithday is in a mounth and I feel like a wasted a lot of time, with the wrong people and being the person that I'm not. But now, I found my people, and even if at home I will always feel alone, there are some moments that make me wanna live to the fullest, like screaming songs to the sea with my best friends... you should make a list with things you wanna do before you are 9teen and just do them, with someone or alone so even if you grow up you will have no regrets and you will always feel like a kid inside
Perfect song to listen to with earphones; you sit there and listen, the world continuing without you. A feeling of utter sadness, happiness too, mixed in a way that's so hard to explain; like you're simultaneously in the wrong place and where you've always meant to be:)
i cant be the only one who sees all these people having fun with their friends online and cant help but feel completely bored with my life. like nothing makes me happy anymore but im also not completely sad either. sure i will cry sometimes about things that used to hurt me and over tv shows but nothing is really happening to me. i feel numb. i want to be the average teen. skating and hanging out with friends at ungodly hours just having fun actually enjoying life, not wanting to leave as soon as i get there. it sucks. honestly.
this is what I imagine I'll listen to when I'm 40 with a career and I randomly decide to check out the music I used to listen to and then I see this comment and I remember writing it and what my life looked like. if you're reading this, hi me! I hope things have worked out for you, please don't forget to live
isn’t it weird to think that soon we aren’t gonna be a teen. like i feel like i’m just a teen. it’s what i am, but no, soon i have to be an adult, doing adult things, not just laughing in the car with my friends, or staying up all night with my parents yelling at us from down stairs.
Cherish it. I’m turning 24 soon and would give anything to go back in time so I can cherish my teenage years. It wasn’t long ago, but shit gets real fast.
Jennifer 24? 15? 19? no different. you live your life how you want. embrace 24 just as you’d embrace the day you turned 14 or 18. live now not then. don’t live in the past or overthink about the future. think about now. because now is now. you can do whatever you want “now”.
txbiixo I agree but the situation and lifestyle I have gotten myself into is really expressing and challenging to get out of. I’m working towards improving things but once you get down it’s really difficult to get back up. Still, nothing will compare to my teenage years.
this song reminds me of a party i hosted with my siblings when my parents were away. i was completely crossfaded and everything looked blurry. i remember squinting across our livingroom and seeing my friends laughing and having fun with everybody. In a house full of people, with music blasting and lights flaring in all directions, i still managed to feel alone. i remember everything felt like a daze, a memory or a dream. for a while, time slowed down but the feeling that lingered in the air remained.
The last day of the decade is overwhelming. I don't want to move on from the decade of my childhood. 12/31/19 2:03 pm EST Yep, 2020 is awful. Hide your toilet paper.
Listening to this I think about how I wasted the last three years of my most innocent childhood years on the person I thought was my first love, only to find out I was never important to them. I don’t want to move on from my childhood knowing it ended like this. 1/1/20 3:40 am
@@aslewofconstellations192 Marcella is right. But many would agree otherwise. What do you consider a set of 10 for counting years? A set of xxx1-10 or a set of xxx0-9? If you consider the first correct, then xx11-xx20 is a decade.
@@aslewofconstellations192 history classes lol. the romans didn't have a year 0. started at 1. that's why we're in the 21st century too, and not 20th. it feels antinatural but this decade is 2011-2021. but time is a social construct anyway. a decade can be between whichever numbers you choose. 2015-2025 is a decade. but "officially" (whatever that means) we're still in the same decade.
Lyrics The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old We can talk it so good We can make it so divine We can talk it good How you wish it would be all the time The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old We can talk it so good We can make it so divine We can talk it good How you wish it would be all the time This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old I want 'em back (I want 'em back) The minds we had (the minds we had) How all the thoughts (how all the thoughts) Moved 'round our heads (moved 'round our heads) I want 'em back (I want 'em back) The minds we had (the minds we had) It's not enough to feel the lack I want 'em back, I want 'em back, I want 'em You're the only friend I need Sharing beds like little kids Laughing 'til our ribs get tough But that will never be enough You're the only friend I need Sharing beds like little kids Laughing 'til our ribs get tough But that will never be enough
ribs reminds me of my best friend - we didn’t even meet as teenagers but in our early twenties. we both were on a study abroad programme but we spent every day together. on his last day on the programme we listened to ribs whilst we cried. it meant a lot. now, when i listen to the song, i think of nothing but pure friendship.
this song is so special to me i actually don’t know how to explain it. i feel like i’m on a rooftop somewhere and the suns just starting to rise and it’s that moment where for the first time in a long time everything is calm and peaceful, the roads are empty so everywhere’s quiet and the only noise i can hear is the soft sound of rain falling onto the pavement. It feels so calm and nostalgic, it’s intoxicating. reading all of these comments is so special because it proves no matter where you are and what you’re doing, at the end of the day we’re all human beings and this song somehow manages to make us feel the same kind of beautiful emptiness.
ribs - lorde (slowed n reverb): you good? me: **nods** ribs - lorde (slowed n reverb): you’re not baby, and it’s okay. you’re not good, and it’s okay. you don’t have to be good all the time. it’s okay to not be good edit: HELLO???? WHEN TF DID THIS GET 4K+ LIKES-
Since none of my friends care ima just put this out here. So hello random stranger reading this. Like most of the other comments say thsi song hits different. But it makes me really sad. It gives me feeling that's so hard to describe. It makes me want to feel love. But I just don't get it, I have such big expectations and dreams but I can never like anyone. I don't think I'm ever going to find love. Every night it's another song that I listen to crying wanting to feel what every one talks about. This song just mashes that feeling altogether. Anyway I'm sorry, hope you have a good day and thankyou for taking your time to read this :).
@@iambr00keeee You seem like such a sweet person, keep doing the best you can and idk if ur friends "care" about it, but i do and i dont really know you but the idea of you being happy makes me happy! We have to keep going and good things will come, we all deserve it after all.
I feel the exact same way. It's like idk how to describe it. It's just a void and.....and I find no peace. I feel like I'm numb to emotions now. I don't want to feel anything. Not even love
The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old We can talk it so good We can make it so divine We can talk it good How you wish it would be all the time The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old The drink you spilt all over me 'Lover's Spit' left on repeat My mom and dad let me stay home It drives you crazy, getting old This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old We can talk it so good We can make it so divine We can talk it good How you wish it would be all the time This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old This dream isn't feeling sweet We're reeling through the midnight streets And I've never felt more alone It feels so scary, getting old I want 'em back (I want 'em back) The minds we had (the minds we had) How all the thoughts (how all the thoughts) Moved 'round our heads (moved 'round our heads) I want 'em back (I want 'em back) The minds we had (the minds we had) It's not enough to feel the lack I want 'em back, I want 'em back, I want 'em You're the only friend I need Sharing beds like little kids Laughing 'til our ribs get tough But that will never be enough You're the only friend I need Sharing beds like little kids Laughing 'til our ribs get tough But that will never be enough
this song makes me feel like im at a carnival with my friends at exactly dusk when the sky is purple and the lights on all the rides are glowing. Me and my friend whom I have a crush on are riding the ferris wheel one last time before we have to leave. My feelings are wanting to jump out the entire ride, but I dont say anything. After that night I never see her again.
ok pov: your sitting in your room, tomorrow is the last day of this decade. you wanna listen to all your favorite songs but well slowed and reverbed is well better ahah. you feel and urge to cry because well this is the end of our generation. all of those songs we grew up with have already stopped playing on the radio. you go and send this song to your closest friends and the ones youve had the longest. you slowly accept this is the end of our childhood but memories can still be made. and your excited to here the new music that comes with our future. edit: i didnt expect this comment to get so many likes, but it did not age well, 2020 is wack. but i was right abt the music alot of bops were made in these hard times, almost 2021 now thats scary
this song makes me want to: dance in the rain, sneak out at 3am, watch sunrise at the beach, have picnics with friends everyday, eat popcorn at a fair at night, dance on top of a mountain, sit on a roof top look at the stars, go skating at 3am, run through a forest in the rain with the loml, scream till i lost my voice in a random car park, go on a 10 hour road trip but i have no friends lmao
why is this just getting views like a week after i commented there was barely any views. did someone make an edit with this song or is it a tiktok song now like wth
i’m 19 and i’m gonna be 20 in 3 months and i literally cannot fathom that thought. adolescence has literally been “my thing” for as long as i can remember. i love the act of coming of age and everything that has to do with being a teenager. i can’t believe i won’t be able to call myself one anymore. i still feel like im 16 again :( i really don’t wanna do this
God everything feels so pointless Edit: holy shit, being brought back to this comment makes me a bit embarrassed to be honest. I was so different and angry when I commented this, I don’t like the negativity and how horrible I felt then. I’ve come to learn a year later that there is no point in trying to find meaning in something that doesn’t have it. I have accepted it and thank you to the people who replied helping show me that.
because it is. you can try to convince yourself of a reason, through religion, or a person, or books and movies, and pretend this is all for some grand purpose. but there isn't one. i don't want love, i don't even want happiness, i just want a reason to exist. something to live for. something to die for. and i think that's what we all want, every single one of us.
@@natalya3250 exactly how i feel.. in reality were just like the birds in we see outside, with just more complex brains and emotions. the only real purpose for us is to live, reproduce, and then die.. what else.. i just want something to want to live for and it's driving me insane. everything really does seem pointless, its not like the actual world would be any different without me in it.
I remember the first time listening to this song with my headphones in in the back of my friends moms car. we were 15 and it was both of our first jobs, so her mom would drive us home and I cried a little bit while looking through the window. such a beautiful song I still can’t believe Lorde made this masterpiece at 17.
Ribs by Lorde gives off a bittersweet peace of knowing that we’re growing up and we need to let things go, but that growing up is a good thing because we get to have new first experiences. Smiling because it happened, crying because it’s over, smiling because we get to start new, crying we have to leave it all behind. Bittersweet, exciting, but all the while so terribly heart wrenching.
I'm not ready to graduate in 5 months. I feel like I'm not meant to be any more than a teenager. The idea of not going to high school everyday to see the same people I grew up with then coming home and seeing my family scares me. I'm not ready to grow up.
Dont worry, as a 20 year old med student, I am still in denial that im not a teen anymore. I feel exactly as I did when I was 16, but a bit smarter I hope!
You know when like you desperately need to cry so badly but no tears come out and you just sit there completely numb to absolutely everything around you and time just feels like a made up story they tell kids to make them behave, rather than a complex plane stretching and warping across the universe. And you feel so small in the great big universe cause your body just physically can’t do anything at all and literally moving feels like a huge task and you feel your heart being ripped apart into a million little pieces and you need to just scream but when you try to no sound comes out which only makes you want to cry harder but you still can’t so you just stare at the wall feeling so horribly broken inside cause you just can’t physically do anything but sit and feel so numb and time just slows and comes to a stop, not that it was ever real to begin with.
It's my senior year, and all through highschool I never really did much. I wasn't in band, any sports, never went to any of the football games, or pretty much anything. I never really went out to hang out with friends or anything either. I felt really alone throughout high school. This song kind of makes me mourn all the memories I could've had if I would've fought through the fear of rejection. Sucks I don't have any chance to make up for anything at the end of this year room. Maybe I can make college different.
@Reagan E Barnholt Thank you so much. I know I can make life what I want it to be and I have plenty of time to do that. I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. And thank you for being my bro too! ❤️
I felt the same way. I didn't join clubs, nor did I care about sports. I didn't really hang out with friends either- I just went home each day, studied, played some video games and went to sleep. I remember in June (I was class of 2020) I felt so sad because I felt like I missed out on something- Don't get me wrong, I liked high school, but I didn't really develop as a person. I had no hobbies, no interests, no job, and I didn't even have high grades either- basically the human equivalent of white bread LMAO. Now I'm in uni, and I'm hoping to change that too (literally as we speak I'm attempting to find a hobby- maybe I'll try drawing for a month and see if I like it).
@@lucasvandenbrink6003 College is going pretty good! I'm super excited for my next quarters classes! Although, because it's all online, I haven't met any new friends or done anything too fun but hopefully that will change in the future. I'm hopeful!
I remember listening to this album, specifically this song, religiously when I was 13. Lorde was a defining genre of music for me in my self-discovery as a younger girl. It's interesting coming back to it now at 20 and seeing how far I've come
Well, this personally hits home for me. About... 1 year and a half ago I lost my dad. It was a huge shock in our family, and I was only 15 when we lost him. We were very close, and it sucks more than ever now because theres so much I want to tell him, and do with him. But, how this relates to this song, we had just cleaned out his apartment, and I was holding a bag of his jackets. He smoked cigarettes, so it would kinda come through the bag, but I just remember it being a sunny day, and it was the first time I really kinda processed losing him. His smell, his last words to me where all I could think about because I didn't want to froget ever, and my older sister while this was happening was playing this song. It was the last time she talked to Dad was when she was about to see Lorde. So that entire week almost we listened to her songs. This song just brings me back to that day, and being with him. I swear, youtube is a great therapeutic place, just some things really reach to you😂 just felt like sharing my experience with this song❤
Please don't take this down, because when I graduate i'm going to listen to it, to remember my childhood, and everything + everyone I've grown up with, as well as the memories. It will be a long time before that happens but I already don't wanna grow up. I'm going through something and this song reminds me of the good times, I already downloaded this just in case, but chances are I'm not gonna have the same phone. This song makes me feel like I'm a teenager out with my friends and driving around, having the time of my life. I don't want to graduate. I don't want to get old... I'm not ready yet.
Crying cause im failing school, i have depression, i have daddy issues (mom issues too tbh), 0 self confidence.. should i go on? This song literally made me question my existence.
Whenever I feel like giving up I always remember this saying « It’s just a bad time, not a bad life » I don’t know where the original is from, but I’m here to tell you all to never give up. It will get better, I promise. Keep your head up, soldier.
I hate that I can’t prevent myself from crying at least once a month because of this. I don’t want to grow up. I don’t want responsibilities. I never asked to live. I didn’t ask to struggle in life. Why me? I just want life to be easy and everything given to me. It’s so unfair. There are so many kids with caring and knowledgeable parents. I have to go through life on my own. My high school transcript is going to look bad because I’ve been working since I was a freshman. I wish I knew what I now know. I wish my parents were wanting to pay for my college tuition. But it’s not like that. I must do everything on my own, and I’m not even mentally prepared for that.
but life isn’t about avoiding all the pain you can. it’s about finding a meaning in the suffering. finding good in the bad. that’s living. that’s what i’m trying to figure out with you right now.
this reminds me of being 10 . riding your bikes with your best friend, noon on a saturday in March. it makes me think about how far we've come but at the same time how worse weve gotten and how great it would be to have those times back.
This song remembers me of happy teenager/childhood moments but gives me anxiety about the future at the same time. It makes me see little movies in my head. I see my friends and I, chilling on my balcony. We laugh and laugh much more. I am so scared that things won’t be the same in a few years. I‘ll be going to college and be an adult. I hope I am not alone. •it feels so scary getting old•
i didnt think id make it to 20. i just could not see myself existing beyond there. simple as that. now im 23 and i don't know how to move forward, how to breath, how to live. for all the younger ones out there right now feeling the same way: you will exist. let yourself be excited for your life.
the last time i listened to this remix i was crying on my bathroom floor and in a really bad place in my life, i felt like my life ment nothing and nothing was going to get better. i felt pathetic. but over the span of 4 months i slowly started to find myself i started to feel like i had people who loved me. even tho quarantine can make us feel lonely just know ur not alone and ur life matters even if we all die in the end.
yo, so.. when the beat dropped, for some reason i thought of a person and i got a feeling in my stomach that i’ve never felt before. like butterflies, but it was different. i really hope this isnt a crush, cause i’ve never had one and it seems like a hassle having one. it honestly makes me kinda uncomfortable that i feel this way about this person since we’re friends. and just that. i guess i’ll just block out my feelings and hope for the best lmaoo.
??? Hey! Embrace the feeling :) it can be painful to think of your crush and not be in their arms, but there is some beauty in it that you only discover when you fully dive deep into your sinking stomach. And who knows what could develop. It’s part of being human and it’s part of life and it’s something that connects all of us and it shouldn’t be feared, but cherished, as it’s the glue between our disparate souls.
This song to me has always been about friends hanging out at night getting into trouble and enjoying their youth, as they fear getting older. But we listen to it out of sadness because we feel we are missing out on the stuff the song is about. I promise everything will be okay, and things may not be okay now, but they will be one day, your dreams will come true if you persue them, everything happens for a reason.
Everyone saying how it makes you feel, and I’m like nah it’s not gonna be that bad, bruh I got an empty ass feeling in my heart, when I legit have nothing to be upset about.
This’ll never be seen but that’s aight. I used to listen to this in the car when I was younger, the whole album. This one was one of my favorites. I’d talk to my seemingly loving father. Until one day, years later, he didn’t listen to it with me anymore. His new girlfriend soon became his wife, and I think he was so happy to no longer be lonely anymore that he realized my sister left, and I was still holding on. She brought him a new family, an older daughter, a younger one, and stupid older parents. He didn’t need me anymore He forgot about me He started to lie more His judgement was clouded with hate for my Mother His psychotic mind full of horrible thoughts made the part of him I loved gone And I’m still forgetting to let him go forever. This song will forever echo in my mind.
so nice to fall asleep to, makes me think about my friends and all the laughs we’ve shared. I’m scared of the future, but I’m young and have a whole lot of good ahead of me. I’m trying to enjoy this short lived life as much as i can.
this makes me feel like i’m coming off of a mdma high at 6am after a good trip but scared to go back to reality because it’s sad. if that makes sense LOL
So sad when the euphoria leaves and all your left with is trying to maybe at least take away a little bit of the perspective you had when you were soooo fucking high.
hey, at the end of the day nobody stays, the only person that's gonna be there for you at the end of the day, is you. take care of yourself, and know that life is what you make out of it, take risks, live like Ur gonna die tomorrow, happiness comes from within yourself, take care
this song makes me feel like i wanna dance around my room, reminiscing a life i never had. Growing up, movies always made it seem like your teen years are the best because you're wild and free and having fun like the world was ending tomorrow. But as I listen to this song at max. volume with my eyes closed, I feel so many emotions at once. I just want to cry but no tears are coming out. I'm turning 18 in 2 months and I have never really done much in my teen years. And this songs gives me that sinking feeling of despair that my teen years are coming to an end, but there's absolutely nothing i can do about it. I wish I could have had that late night skating, walking on the beach having deep conversations....I yearn for those late night drives, blasting music or sitting on the roof and just talking, while we stare at the stars...I wish I had a teenage love story. I just wish I had the romanticized version of teen years.
why does this make me feel so intensely sad and happy at the same time i literally discovered a new emotion-
@ its called melancholy.
bittersweet :)
@@videogames9974 Melancholy is being sad for no apparent reason... Not being happy and sad simultaneously. Nostalgia is closer to this feeling of sadness and happiness.
it's bittersweet
This song makes me feel rather nostalgic.
its crazy that we are all going through such different things and right now in this moment we are all listening to this song feeling the same emotions
Wow that's deep
das how human work
This comment is amazing
Becca Leanne shut up
@@christophersantander2767 sheesh
when she said “feels so scary getting old.” i felt that so bad
same i can’t imagine myself living without my parents .
I miss being a teenager in high school with my two best friends and when my grandma and my one friend was still alive and my other friend stopped going to school
@@girlboss8498 same, had a mental breakdown about that for the past month
@@girlboss8498 ikr
Same :(
It's so beautiful how somehow everyone relates to this song even though we're all worlds apart
i've listened to this an unhealthy amount of times i feel like
honestly
But its a emotion that cant be put on the scale its something we all feel and its sad...
i was so young when i started listening and im absolutely positive that i’ve listened to it at least 3k times, probably more. it means so much to me now
Why can’t all of us live in the same town and be sad together :’(
“Are you ok?”
Me: I’m fine.
Also me: *listening to ribs - lorde(slowed n reverb) at midnight*
yana me rn
*checks the time* *realizes that I'm watching this at midnight*
edit: i keep getting notifs about ppl replying to this and im sending you all a virtual hug from where im at. it feels so scary getting old but less so with all of u
It’s 1:50 am
New years midnight
Me rn, just at 3am
i don’t wanna grow up. i feel like i physically can’t. i can’t see myself buying a house, keeping a good job, even going to college. i’m not suicidal or anything but i can’t see myself living past 18. i can’t do it.
i just miss the easier days. when i was little and my friends and i didn’t care about what anybody else thought. when the only scary thing to me was the monster under my bed. when i thought 100 dollars was a lot money. when i didn’t know how shitty the world was.
thinking about growing up is so suffocating. like i’m way to young to be worrying about the things that i think about, but at this point i can’t even deny i’m low key stressed out about not being able to be a teenager again. i feel like i’m not cherishing it enough or something idk but i’m trying to hold onto it so tightly
i felt just this way as a teen. when you are older, you'll discover that life is begging you to live. it's hard to see over the hill and the reality is not much at all changes, you just get better- i promise.
Take it day by day. It’s actually a very common thing to feel like that. You are valid to feel those emotions. There is a word for it but it escapes me for the time being. I’m only 25, and as much as I miss freedoms I felt as a teenager, what I have learned in my adulthood so far has been powerful in understanding my past traumas and how they manifest in my life now. And there is peace in that. You got this. ❤️
I never felt I'd make it past high-school, no way I'd live to 18. I'm 19 now with a decent job I enjoy, bought a decent car with cash, and met the love of my life who im going to marry this upcoming year. I sometimes feel like the 15 year old me who doesn't want to live for the future but when I think about my young nephews growing up or even having my own children, I decide to not waste my life by cutting it short.
whenever i listen to this song i just always feel butterflies in my stomach and the urge to cry
matt cherry nostalgia
same...
that's a good way of putting it
me pretending i dont feel like that all the time
Same...
This makes me feel nostalgia like I’ve never felt it before.
there is a whole video explaining about the nostalgia this song brings to us
Yooo so we have the same profile pic and that freaked me out for a sec like “shit when did I watch this video” 😂😂
i thought u were me cause we have the same pfp
taro I’m so glad I’m not the only one
shit..... try listening to crystal castles.......
this song hits different when you romanticized your teen years as a kid and now they're here and you are lonely, ugly and will never experience the things you dreamed of. I've never had a friendship like this in the song and I never will, but that just makes the song even better.
Stop. You are an absolutely beautiful human being with valid feelings. It's ok that you feel this way, and I know it's hard to feel lonely, especially in times like these. You have such a long and beautiful life ahead of you. Don't dwell in the past, but work towards your goals, big or small. You Matter. I love you
Same
yeah. i have friends but past friends have taught me that they’re not gonna stay for long. i thought if i had anyone i’d have them (,:
ugh that hurt like a bitch
You are beautiful you know
hello to whoever is listening to this song I just wanna let u know it’s gonna be okay and I’m here for u
❤️
your pfp makes this comment 10x better. Thank you.
i literally read this turned away so sadly and accepted my league matchj lmfdaooooooooooo
@pickled milk lmaoo I’m sorry I can’t take it srsly with ur profile pic
Thank you, I was about to cry and then your pfp cheered me
this song makes me want to stay alive just a little longer
Please do.
me too :/
please stay alive the world needs you
Pls do, u r amazing 💖
666th like
crying alone to this on my 18th birthday. cheers everyone, take care
happy birthday
happy late birthday love!
Are you ok now?
@@Nancy-wb1cr not exactly. my 19th birthday is in two days. it feels so scary getting old
@@eIioperlman I feel you, my 16 bithday is in a mounth and I feel like a wasted a lot of time, with the wrong people and being the person that I'm not. But now, I found my people, and even if at home I will always feel alone, there are some moments that make me wanna live to the fullest, like screaming songs to the sea with my best friends... you should make a list with things you wanna do before you are 9teen and just do them, with someone or alone so even if you grow up you will have no regrets and you will always feel like a kid inside
so,,,,,,is this group therapy?
bowie miller yes
I think so
Yep
probably
Apparently
so i’ll see y’all at group therapy
zoe benjamin see you there boo 👌
this is group therapy 🥺
See ya there
someones bound to get offended about this joke
zoe benjamin legit wish bro I’m mega sad lol
Ribs is one of those songs you wish you could hear for the first time again and again.
“You’re the only friend I need” hits so different
me speaking to myself in the mirror while crying
sarina maloy i hope u are ok🥺❤️
Victoria Romero thank u 🥺🥺🥺
sarina maloy i do the same thing i like to remind myself if and when everyone leaves it will be ok because i have myself
What I said to my “best friend” that I had so much fun with but was so bad for me funny right lmao
Perfect song to listen to with earphones; you sit there and listen, the world continuing without you. A feeling of utter sadness, happiness too, mixed in a way that's so hard to explain; like you're simultaneously in the wrong place and where you've always meant to be:)
Repulsive _ this is the best possible way to describe this song
Repulsive _ do you want a hug
@@starsaregrrreat tbh... Yes:)
Oh shut the fuck up you miserable sack of shit.
Swag Mang omg bro you’re sooo funny
i cant be the only one who sees all these people having fun with their friends online and cant help but feel completely bored with my life. like nothing makes me happy anymore but im also not completely sad either. sure i will cry sometimes about things that used to hurt me and over tv shows but nothing is really happening to me. i feel numb. i want to be the average teen. skating and hanging out with friends at ungodly hours just having fun actually enjoying life, not wanting to leave as soon as i get there. it sucks. honestly.
feel the exact same.
this...
Yeah :/ but my parents are VERY overprotective. I wnat to have that freedom but I had to grow up at a young age
this is how i feel
@@pinchelena bruh the struggle.
this is what I imagine I'll listen to when I'm 40 with a career and I randomly decide to check out the music I used to listen to and then I see this comment and I remember writing it and what my life looked like. if you're reading this, hi me! I hope things have worked out for you, please don't forget to live
Whatsup you know! Ill meet you when im also 40 :)
Message for myself: im in a good place rrn The future looks bright Remember to always be the crazy self you are
Message to me.
I hope you get your shit together and find true happiness. Remember to love yourself
Hi? ☺️
Heyyyy
“you good?”
me: yeah
my headphones:
Ribs - Lorde
1:16 ───❍────── 4:20
↻ ⊲ Ⅱ ⊳ ↺
volume: ▁▂▃▄▅▆▇ 100%
happy qaseh how did you do that...
yass lorde loona stans follow me
that looks sick what
i’ve never felt anything more
that's the coolest thing I've ever seen, bro you have talent
When you don’t get taken seriously bc you’re the “funny/therapist” friend
It sucks that I relate to this
I Z Z Y C same
Ouch
if this isn’t me-
STOP DESCRIBING MY LIFE THEY KNEW
this is not how i expected my teenage years to turn out.
ouch. that is one of the realist things I've ever heard. I thought growing up would make my situation better.
Me too. I wanted to grow up making music. Now I can’t even leave the house, do choir, or anything else I used to.
Mine just started and Im already miserable I've been miserable since I was 11
@Allison George I’m 16 and I’ve been clinically depressed/anxious, and that backslash ain’t an “or” it’s an “and”
@UCTrMwfn3QN5NaRwany49SzA like, I hate this so much
isn’t it weird to think that soon we aren’t gonna be a teen. like i feel like i’m just a teen. it’s what i am, but no, soon i have to be an adult, doing adult things, not just laughing in the car with my friends, or staying up all night with my parents yelling at us from down stairs.
this made me cry :((
It scares me so much. I'm about to turn 17 but I'm so afraid of growing up. Scared of being alone forever....
Cherish it. I’m turning 24 soon and would give anything to go back in time so I can cherish my teenage years. It wasn’t long ago, but shit gets real fast.
Jennifer 24? 15? 19? no different. you live your life how you want. embrace 24 just as you’d embrace the day you turned 14 or 18. live now not then. don’t live in the past or overthink about the future. think about now. because now is now. you can do whatever you want “now”.
txbiixo I agree but the situation and lifestyle I have gotten myself into is really expressing and challenging to get out of. I’m working towards improving things but once you get down it’s really difficult to get back up. Still, nothing will compare to my teenage years.
this song reminds me of a party i hosted with my siblings when my parents were away. i was completely crossfaded and everything looked blurry. i remember squinting across our livingroom and seeing my friends laughing and having fun with everybody. In a house full of people, with music blasting and lights flaring in all directions, i still managed to feel alone. i remember everything felt like a daze, a memory or a dream. for a while, time slowed down but the feeling that lingered in the air remained.
WAIT ITS A ROSE??? IT LOOKS SO MUCH LIKE A ROTTEN TOMATO-
LMAO i thought that too
I was thinking either a rotten tomato or a rotten strawberry
Hahahahha
I CAN NEVER NOT SEE THE TOMATO NOW
Wait- it’s not a rotten tomato?
The last day of the decade is overwhelming. I don't want to move on from the decade of my childhood.
12/31/19
2:03 pm EST
Yep, 2020 is awful. Hide your toilet paper.
Listening to this I think about how I wasted the last three years of my most innocent childhood years on the person I thought was my first love, only to find out I was never important to them. I don’t want to move on from my childhood knowing it ended like this.
1/1/20
3:40 am
Then I got good news for you because the decade only ends in 2021 lol
@@marcella8137 what outlandish substance are you on?
@@aslewofconstellations192 Marcella is right. But many would agree otherwise. What do you consider a set of 10 for counting years? A set of xxx1-10 or a set of xxx0-9? If you consider the first correct, then xx11-xx20 is a decade.
@@aslewofconstellations192 history classes lol. the romans didn't have a year 0. started at 1. that's why we're in the 21st century too, and not 20th. it feels antinatural but this decade is 2011-2021. but time is a social construct anyway. a decade can be between whichever numbers you choose. 2015-2025 is a decade. but "officially" (whatever that means) we're still in the same decade.
"You're the only friend I need" hits so hard when you realize you don't have any friends...
honestly
Yup :((
Ikr
or when you lost them
This song sounds like Disassociating to a traumatic experience
the Jacky rabbit big bpd mood right there
the Jacky rabbit this is the one
Fuck you you’re right
You really did predict what half of my quarantine would look like, huh?
the Jacky rabbit this is the song playing in my head while I’m disassociating when my mom is yelling at me
Lyrics
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
We can talk it so good
We can make it so divine
We can talk it good
How you wish it would be all the time
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
We can talk it so good
We can make it so divine
We can talk it good
How you wish it would be all the time
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
I want 'em back (I want 'em back)
The minds we had (the minds we had)
How all the thoughts (how all the thoughts)
Moved 'round our heads (moved 'round our heads)
I want 'em back (I want 'em back)
The minds we had (the minds we had)
It's not enough to feel the lack
I want 'em back, I want 'em back, I want 'em
You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
Laughing 'til our ribs get tough
But that will never be enough
You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
Laughing 'til our ribs get tough
But that will never be enough
ribs reminds me of my best friend - we didn’t even meet as teenagers but in our early twenties. we both were on a study abroad programme but we spent every day together. on his last day on the programme we listened to ribs whilst we cried. it meant a lot.
now, when i listen to the song, i think of nothing but pure friendship.
I thought that was a rotten tomato...
Glenn Suan is it not
Pimp Spice it’s. a rose
i didn realise it until i read that it is a rose
In the thumbnail in looks like a tomato lols
Glenn Suan SAME
this song is so special to me i actually don’t know how to explain it. i feel like i’m on a rooftop somewhere and the suns just starting to rise and it’s that moment where for the first time in a long time everything is calm and peaceful, the roads are empty so everywhere’s quiet and the only noise i can hear is the soft sound of rain falling onto the pavement. It feels so calm and nostalgic, it’s intoxicating. reading all of these comments is so special because it proves no matter where you are and what you’re doing, at the end of the day we’re all human beings and this song somehow manages to make us feel the same kind of beautiful emptiness.
i feel this too bro
listened to this on the bathroom floor with the lights off.
we really do be sad over here
i’m sitting in my dark empty room i feel u
Dark empty room at night
Use me as the „crying to this song at 2am“ button
👇🏽
Literally how'd you know?
Bruh its 2:08 am
@@snovvfox yessir
Sophia's Demonic_Halos I’m a god damn wizard Harry
@@akglaser71 👺
I wish all these sad/happy reverb songs were on apple music
you can get them on spotify if you download it! spotify is better
Allogop wait huh??? how? i have spotify and i cant find these type of songs
@@laraflynn5032 it's a fairly lengthy process but you can download them and then import them into spotify, its worth looking it up
Lara Flynn ^you can actually do the same on apple music using a desktop, but also, this is uploaded on spotify as a podcast
pov: you're living vicariously through this song while stuck in your house for more than 2 months :(
:(
its been 5 now :(
@@yokaiyohi1476 oh god dont remind me 😭
It's been 7 now
@@rariulimaf now 8
this song makes me so nostalgic for a time that hasn’t even happened yet
this ruclips.net/video/4rVM246fHG8/видео.html
might help u.........
yes
i feel like i can’t breathe when i listen to this song
mia!mia!mia! ME TOO IDK WHY THO 😞
Same
I can’t breath at all I have asthma 🤪😝🤸🏻♂️
This song makes me want to lie on my rooftop on a chilly night and cry my eyes out as I reminisce on life.
ribs - lorde (slowed n reverb): you good?
me: **nods**
ribs - lorde (slowed n reverb): you’re not baby, and it’s okay. you’re not good, and it’s okay. you don’t have to be good all the time. it’s okay to not be good
edit: HELLO???? WHEN TF DID THIS GET 4K+ LIKES-
*me, sobbing*
sorry um excuse me hi why tf are you getting advice from the video and I'm not??
*that one TikTok audio*
the fact that i know exactly what audio your talking about- 😭😭
Thanks for making me cry:(
Since none of my friends care ima just put this out here. So hello random stranger reading this. Like most of the other comments say thsi song hits different. But it makes me really sad. It gives me feeling that's so hard to describe. It makes me want to feel love. But I just don't get it, I have such big expectations and dreams but I can never like anyone. I don't think I'm ever going to find love. Every night it's another song that I listen to crying wanting to feel what every one talks about. This song just mashes that feeling altogether. Anyway I'm sorry, hope you have a good day and thankyou for taking your time to read this :).
Hold on sweetheart, great things will happen. Take care💞
@@βικτωριακ7 thank you so much for that comment, it's only short but it made me tear up.💕
@@iambr00keeee You seem like such a sweet person, keep doing the best you can and idk if ur friends "care" about it, but i do and i dont really know you but the idea of you being happy makes me happy! We have to keep going and good things will come, we all deserve it after all.
I feel the exact same way. It's like idk how to describe it. It's just a void and.....and I find no peace. I feel like I'm numb to emotions now. I don't want to feel anything. Not even love
@@crownedcrow7428 exactly, its like idk every ones living and I just feel like I'm merely existing. I'm not depressed just numb.
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
We can talk it so good
We can make it so divine
We can talk it good
How you wish it would be all the time
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
The drink you spilt all over me
'Lover's Spit' left on repeat
My mom and dad let me stay home
It drives you crazy, getting old
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
We can talk it so good
We can make it so divine
We can talk it good
How you wish it would be all the time
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
This dream isn't feeling sweet
We're reeling through the midnight streets
And I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary, getting old
I want 'em back (I want 'em back)
The minds we had (the minds we had)
How all the thoughts (how all the thoughts)
Moved 'round our heads (moved 'round our heads)
I want 'em back (I want 'em back)
The minds we had (the minds we had)
It's not enough to feel the lack
I want 'em back, I want 'em back, I want 'em
You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
Laughing 'til our ribs get tough
But that will never be enough
You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
Laughing 'til our ribs get tough
But that will never be enough
thank you been searching through comments forever!!!
Thanks 🙌🏼😭
Thaankk you❤
who else is thinking about life before corona :(
Hope Davis me honestly. im saving this to make a completion of me an my friends and all the fun we had before we seperated :;;
lilac ribbons i can’t explain how much i miss it. i was so....happy
To be honest my life hasn't changed a bit because of Corona it's still the same as before..
I'm thinking of future life where I'm hopefully not living hell with a pinch if ok
What life?😂
this song makes me feel like im at a carnival with my friends at exactly dusk when the sky is purple and the lights on all the rides are glowing. Me and my friend whom I have a crush on are riding the ferris wheel one last time before we have to leave. My feelings are wanting to jump out the entire ride, but I dont say anything. After that night I never see her again.
wow, we need to film it
Sølar ëclipse VDHSJSH omg i was imagining being at the fair too chile eye 😳👁
Its crazy that in such a short time someone who was such a big part of your life becomes someone you don't even talk to
ok pov: your sitting in your room, tomorrow is the last day of this decade. you wanna listen to all your favorite songs but well slowed and reverbed is well better ahah. you feel and urge to cry because well this is the end of our generation. all of those songs we grew up with have already stopped playing on the radio. you go and send this song to your closest friends and the ones youve had the longest. you slowly accept this is the end of our childhood but memories can still be made. and your excited to here the new music that comes with our future.
edit: i didnt expect this comment to get so many likes, but it did not age well, 2020 is wack. but i was right abt the music alot of bops were made in these hard times, almost 2021 now thats scary
Are you reading my mind?
untamableLPS and stuff i dont know, am i?
reading that gave me chills i’m not even joking
You're shaking me to the core
Marvelous Dex ill be your friend🥺
i wanna give everyone in the comments a hug
Same
I’d like that :’)
Same
i’d like that as well (:
this song makes me want to:
dance in the rain, sneak out at 3am, watch sunrise at the beach, have picnics with friends everyday, eat popcorn at a fair at night, dance on top of a mountain, sit on a roof top look at the stars, go skating at 3am, run through a forest in the rain with the loml, scream till i lost my voice in a random car park, go on a 10 hour road trip
but i have no friends lmao
this ruclips.net/video/4rVM246fHG8/видео.html
might help u.........
ill be ur friend
Same here, maybe we can go together.
I hope one day I’m good enough friends with myself to do these things on my own. tired of waiting for life to pass me by
And no freedom lmao
do you feel emotions now
yes
never
Monkey Juice I feel nothing
Are u feeling it now mr krabs
why is this just getting views like a week after i commented there was barely any views. did someone make an edit with this song or is it a tiktok song now like wth
this. this is the peak of humanity.
i’m 19 and i’m gonna be 20 in 3 months and i literally cannot fathom that thought. adolescence has literally been “my thing” for as long as i can remember. i love the act of coming of age and everything that has to do with being a teenager. i can’t believe i won’t be able to call myself one anymore. i still feel like im 16 again :( i really don’t wanna do this
Happy late birthday 🥳 and I definitely feel your pain
Happy late birthday 🎉
You can do this girl you got this i know it hurts but its for the best the memories will still be w you.
It feels like something I’m not supposed to feel at this age, because of how young I am I shouldn’t feel this way. You know what I mean?
I so so so get you , your not alone
i’ve had mental illness since i was young, about 10 maybe. i definitely know what you mean
Yea like your teenage years are supposed to be happy but all I am is anxious and depressed
God everything feels so pointless
Edit: holy shit, being brought back to this comment makes me a bit embarrassed to be honest. I was so different and angry when I commented this, I don’t like the negativity and how horrible I felt then. I’ve come to learn a year later that there is no point in trying to find meaning in something that doesn’t have it. I have accepted it and thank you to the people who replied helping show me that.
Everything does.
that’s because everything is pointless
it helps if you have somebody to take care of
because it is. you can try to convince yourself of a reason, through religion, or a person, or books and movies, and pretend this is all for some grand purpose. but there isn't one. i don't want love, i don't even want happiness, i just want a reason to exist. something to live for. something to die for. and i think that's what we all want, every single one of us.
@@natalya3250 exactly how i feel.. in reality were just like the birds in we see outside, with just more complex brains and emotions. the only real purpose for us is to live, reproduce, and then die.. what else.. i just want something to want to live for and it's driving me insane. everything really does seem pointless, its not like the actual world would be any different without me in it.
I remember the first time listening to this song with my headphones in in the back of my friends moms car. we were 15 and it was both of our first jobs, so her mom would drive us home and I cried a little bit while looking through the window. such a beautiful song I still can’t believe Lorde made this masterpiece at 17.
I was literally watching dank Tik Toks and now I’m crying
Satan's Child fr like this is not what i signed up for!!1!!1!
i have an obsession with this song
i wanna be the main character😔
Everyone is a main character in their own show.
But being a side character is awesome! You can live your life for yourself without having to worry about other people.
same but make it 13 reasons why
@@duwummy7908 are you okay? 👁️👁️
um chile anyways so omg
this hittin different and ion know if i like the emotion im feeling
Poop Piss TBH
« you’re the only friend i need... »
damn... i felt this on a whole other level
Ribs by Lorde gives off a bittersweet peace of knowing that we’re growing up and we need to let things go, but that growing up is a good thing because we get to have new first experiences. Smiling because it happened, crying because it’s over, smiling because we get to start new, crying we have to leave it all behind. Bittersweet, exciting, but all the while so terribly heart wrenching.
this shit hurted
I'm not ready to graduate in 5 months. I feel like I'm not meant to be any more than a teenager. The idea of not going to high school everyday to see the same people I grew up with then coming home and seeing my family scares me. I'm not ready to grow up.
Graylyn Rhee LMAOO
Dont worry, as a 20 year old med student, I am still in denial that im not a teen anymore. I feel exactly as I did when I was 16, but a bit smarter I hope!
Graylyn Rhee lol i’m still having graduation but we’re doing it in august now. same w prom.
aww your comment made me so emotional...
im 100% not supposed to be an adult. I would make an awful adult
okay but why is youtube recommending this to everyone
Right? Thats the only reason why im here
Same actually, there’s no way I would’ve searched this on my own unless I wanted to be sad for a week
Doing the Lorde's work
We're all depressed
Idk, but I like it
I have never cried harder or more times to any other song than Ribs. It is the greatest song of all time, no questions asked.
You know when like you desperately need to cry so badly but no tears come out and you just sit there completely numb to absolutely everything around you and time just feels like a made up story they tell kids to make them behave, rather than a complex plane stretching and warping across the universe. And you feel so small in the great big universe cause your body just physically can’t do anything at all and literally moving feels like a huge task and you feel your heart being ripped apart into a million little pieces and you need to just scream but when you try to no sound comes out which only makes you want to cry harder but you still can’t so you just stare at the wall feeling so horribly broken inside cause you just can’t physically do anything but sit and feel so numb and time just slows and comes to a stop, not that it was ever real to begin with.
that feeling might be the loneliest i have felt
Oof that’s a mood
You just described all of it. thank you so much I didn't understand how to put it into words
same :((((
Same here:(
It's my senior year, and all through highschool I never really did much. I wasn't in band, any sports, never went to any of the football games, or pretty much anything. I never really went out to hang out with friends or anything either. I felt really alone throughout high school. This song kind of makes me mourn all the memories I could've had if I would've fought through the fear of rejection. Sucks I don't have any chance to make up for anything at the end of this year room. Maybe I can make college different.
@Reagan E Barnholt Thank you so much. I know I can make life what I want it to be and I have plenty of time to do that. I really appreciate you taking the time to reply. And thank you for being my bro too! ❤️
how is college going?
I felt the same way. I didn't join clubs, nor did I care about sports. I didn't really hang out with friends either- I just went home each day, studied, played some video games and went to sleep. I remember in June (I was class of 2020) I felt so sad because I felt like I missed out on something- Don't get me wrong, I liked high school, but I didn't really develop as a person. I had no hobbies, no interests, no job, and I didn't even have high grades either- basically the human equivalent of white bread LMAO. Now I'm in uni, and I'm hoping to change that too (literally as we speak I'm attempting to find a hobby- maybe I'll try drawing for a month and see if I like it).
im only in eighth grade but im hoping for you babe, you're doing great:)
@@lucasvandenbrink6003 College is going pretty good! I'm super excited for my next quarters classes! Although, because it's all online, I haven't met any new friends or done anything too fun but hopefully that will change in the future. I'm hopeful!
I remember listening to this album, specifically this song, religiously when I was 13. Lorde was a defining genre of music for me in my self-discovery as a younger girl. It's interesting coming back to it now at 20 and seeing how far I've come
Ugh, this makes me so happy. I love Lorde's music. a talent.
this version of this song is outside time and space
i’m happy you’re all alive, whatever you’re going through right now, just know you’re never alone and there’s someone out there for you ♡
thank you
Well, this personally hits home for me. About... 1 year and a half ago I lost my dad. It was a huge shock in our family, and I was only 15 when we lost him. We were very close, and it sucks more than ever now because theres so much I want to tell him, and do with him. But, how this relates to this song, we had just cleaned out his apartment, and I was holding a bag of his jackets. He smoked cigarettes, so it would kinda come through the bag, but I just remember it being a sunny day, and it was the first time I really kinda processed losing him. His smell, his last words to me where all I could think about because I didn't want to froget ever, and my older sister while this was happening was playing this song. It was the last time she talked to Dad was when she was about to see Lorde. So that entire week almost we listened to her songs. This song just brings me back to that day, and being with him.
I swear, youtube is a great therapeutic place, just some things really reach to you😂 just felt like sharing my experience with this song❤
I'm so sorry for your loss 💕
nefarious I’m sorry for ur loss❤️
the amount of people here makes me feel better
At least I'm not alone alone.
Please don't take this down, because when I graduate i'm going to listen to it, to remember my childhood, and everything + everyone I've grown up with, as well as the memories. It will be a long time before that happens but I already don't wanna grow up. I'm going through something and this song reminds me of the good times, I already downloaded this just in case, but chances are I'm not gonna have the same phone.
This song makes me feel like I'm a teenager out with my friends and driving around, having the time of my life. I don't want to graduate. I don't want to get old...
I'm not ready yet.
i wanna go to a party and have this song play, as it does everyone there starts singing it and dancing :-( imagine that,,,,,
they would never play this at a party because everyone would start crying asf
@@lurivera4002 that would still be amazing
Imagine this song turning on and everyone crying together
You could find a way to throw your own party
Crying cause im failing school, i have depression, i have daddy issues (mom issues too tbh), 0 self confidence.. should i go on? This song literally made me question my existence.
things will get better
im going through the same
im holding on to the fact that this too shall pass
love love...
love you
Whenever I feel like giving up I always remember this saying
« It’s just a bad time, not a bad life »
I don’t know where the original is from, but I’m here to tell you all to never give up. It will get better, I promise. Keep your head up, soldier.
hi, how are you doing?
The way i always was excited to grow up, and now I’m 22 and it really just hit me that it really feels so scary getting old.
I'm 25 and i can't... it's so hard :(
this song makes me feel as if everything is going past me, we are all growing up
i just want my childhood back
I’m so sad but I’m smiling and balling my eyes out listening to this
Never mind I’m just balling and sad as fuck now
I hate that I can’t prevent myself from crying at least once a month because of this. I don’t want to grow up. I don’t want responsibilities. I never asked to live. I didn’t ask to struggle in life. Why me? I just want life to be easy and everything given to me. It’s so unfair. There are so many kids with caring and knowledgeable parents. I have to go through life on my own. My high school transcript is going to look bad because I’ve been working since I was a freshman. I wish I knew what I now know. I wish my parents were wanting to pay for my college tuition. But it’s not like that. I must do everything on my own, and I’m not even mentally prepared for that.
I cry at least two times per day I just want to have fun that's it
but life isn’t about avoiding all the pain you can. it’s about finding a meaning in the suffering. finding good in the bad. that’s living. that’s what i’m trying to figure out with you right now.
this reminds me of being 10 . riding your bikes with your best friend, noon on a saturday in March. it makes me think about how far we've come but at the same time how worse weve gotten and how great it would be to have those times back.
This song remembers me of happy teenager/childhood moments but gives me anxiety about the future at the same time. It makes me see little movies in my head. I see my friends and I, chilling on my balcony. We laugh and laugh much more. I am so scared that things won’t be the same in a few years. I‘ll be going to college and be an adult. I hope I am not alone.
•it feels so scary getting old•
It feels scary getting older but it’s actually so awesome. So many people don’t get to know what that feels like. It’s kinda a privilege.
hits different when you find out your boyfriend cheated on you today
kellie ryan im so sorry :-( feel better
Shit bro- I'm sorry
I'm sorry, 💔💟
I’m so sorry 🥺, you deserve better
u deserve so much better even if i don’t know you. stay strong
this hits so different
Smoke a blunt and listen to this, literally 20 times better
i didnt think id make it to 20. i just could not see myself existing beyond there. simple as that. now im 23 and i don't know how to move forward, how to breath, how to live.
for all the younger ones out there right now feeling the same way: you will exist. let yourself be excited for your life.
the last time i listened to this remix i was crying on my bathroom floor and in a really bad place in my life, i felt like my life ment nothing and nothing was going to get better. i felt pathetic. but over the span of 4 months i slowly started to find myself i started to feel like i had people who loved me. even tho quarantine can make us feel lonely just know ur not alone and ur life matters even if we all die in the end.
yo, so.. when the beat dropped, for some reason i thought of a person and i got a feeling in my stomach that i’ve never felt before. like butterflies, but it was different. i really hope this isnt a crush, cause i’ve never had one and it seems like a hassle having one. it honestly makes me kinda uncomfortable that i feel this way about this person since we’re friends. and just that. i guess i’ll just block out my feelings and hope for the best lmaoo.
??? Hey! Embrace the feeling :) it can be painful to think of your crush and not be in their arms, but there is some beauty in it that you only discover when you fully dive deep into your sinking stomach. And who knows what could develop. It’s part of being human and it’s part of life and it’s something that connects all of us and it shouldn’t be feared, but cherished, as it’s the glue between our disparate souls.
it is probably a crush
Dive into your feelings. As cliche as it sounds, you only live once. Experience all you can, especially when you're scared to.
@@kakerswelll I love that. It sounds so scary but I love the vulnerability that comes with it☺
Potter x Malfoy i’m kinda over him, i kept telling myself that i don’t like him and it worked.. sorta
This song to me has always been about friends hanging out at night getting into trouble and enjoying their youth, as they fear getting older. But we listen to it out of sadness because we feel we are missing out on the stuff the song is about. I promise everything will be okay, and things may not be okay now, but they will be one day, your dreams will come true if you persue them, everything happens for a reason.
Everyone saying how it makes you feel, and I’m like nah it’s not gonna be that bad, bruh I got an empty ass feeling in my heart, when I legit have nothing to be upset about.
This’ll never be seen but that’s aight. I used to listen to this in the car when I was younger, the whole album. This one was one of my favorites. I’d talk to my seemingly loving father. Until one day, years later, he didn’t listen to it with me anymore.
His new girlfriend soon became his wife, and I think he was so happy to no longer be lonely anymore that he realized my sister left, and I was still holding on.
She brought him a new family, an older daughter, a younger one, and stupid older parents.
He didn’t need me anymore
He forgot about me
He started to lie more
His judgement was clouded with hate for my Mother
His psychotic mind full of horrible thoughts made the part of him I loved gone
And I’m still forgetting to let him go forever.
This song will forever echo in my mind.
i’m so sorry that must be so painful losing someone you loved here for you always babe
i’m so sorry. i love you
I love u , it will all be okay
I’m so sorry, know that we all love you
while were all in quarantine this song reminds me of all the summer nights and memories we could be making rn and now I'm really emo abt it
this made me feel an intense drop in my stomach/heart the kind you’d feel after finding out something that changes your life in some way
so nice to fall asleep to, makes me think about my friends and all the laughs we’ve shared. I’m scared of the future, but I’m young and have a whole lot of good ahead of me. I’m trying to enjoy this short lived life as much as i can.
this isn't just a song, it's a huge feeling 🥺🥺
this makes me feel like i’m coming off of a mdma high at 6am after a good trip but scared to go back to reality because it’s sad. if that makes sense LOL
That’s me with acid
So sad when the euphoria leaves and all your left with is trying to maybe at least take away a little bit of the perspective you had when you were soooo fucking high.
The only friend I really had was myself.
Same
Wish i could Stay the Same Thing but i hate myself:/ (and i don’t have real Friends)
It really sucks bc im such a bad friend to myself
ify.
how tf do they have true ones.
lowkey wanna go and find friends but i don't wanna hurt myself even more so...
hey, at the end of the day nobody stays, the only person that's gonna be there for you at the end of the day, is you. take care of yourself, and know that life is what you make out of it, take risks, live like Ur gonna die tomorrow, happiness comes from within yourself, take care
this song makes me feel like i wanna dance around my room, reminiscing a life i never had. Growing up, movies always made it seem like your teen years are the best because you're wild and free and having fun like the world was ending tomorrow. But as I listen to this song at max. volume with my eyes closed, I feel so many emotions at once. I just want to cry but no tears are coming out. I'm turning 18 in 2 months and I have never really done much in my teen years. And this songs gives me that sinking feeling of despair that my teen years are coming to an end, but there's absolutely nothing i can do about it.
I wish I could have had that late night skating, walking on the beach having deep conversations....I yearn for those late night drives, blasting music or sitting on the roof and just talking, while we stare at the stars...I wish I had a teenage love story. I just wish I had the romanticized version of teen years.
just got sucker punched with emotions i forgot i had thanks
I've never felt more alone
It feels so scary getting old
Im crying to this song everyday bc in a few months I'm 18 and Im scared of no feeling like a teen anymore
that's it!!!!! omg yeah!!! same, girl!!!!!!
I just wanna cry and I don’t even know why