no she should channel some of it to her considering she's both disrespectful by saying she's the cause of her son's death that's something you never say to anyone
I have two son if l had a girl, l kmow the baby is my grandchild with a son its always a maybe you never sure and the girlfriend need know this. I seen this show a lots where 2 women said a man that die was the father of theirs baby and both women lie,
If I passed my child would be entitled to about 1400 per month. It's not much but it could help in addition to my life insurance policies. When my father passed I recieved 1100 per month until I turned 18
@@brit_brat No matter how much money is given... no amount can make up for a parent being dead. Which is why I dont understand the need to protest so much against any little bit that will help the child or the mother trying to make ends meet.
Probably because she knows so well what it is like so she doesn't like to see it repeated with other. However that is life. Hopefully the son will do better and not "get around" like his parents then the cycle repeats.
The girl don't have issues she is just tired... wouldn't u be if u we're in her situation...if she had issues it would be a total different scene in that court room...so yes she raised her voice but she didn't touch her...now the woman looks & sounds like she on something idk tho... could be wrong😣
I believe the grandmother has treated that girl poorly while pregnant. She not going to forget how she was treated while pregnant that's why so much animosity on the girl side.
And after, she obviously has no respect for her or her child, furthermore why is she so concerned if that young woman has a new man? She is not the property of your son and has every right to move on with her life.
Still does not give her the right to talk to the mother that way . Both acted very poorly but at age 26 I would never raise my voice at my mother-in-law and I don’t get along with her .
Yeahh they didn't say when the grandmother invited the girl to live with her..could've been whole 3 months after when the baby was born.. plus the whole undecisiveness of whether the girl killed her son or if she even knew him or how. I believe this case was needed for both women to clear their deep doubts so they finally could accept each other and move on.
I hate to say it, but even though that baby looked just like his father and grandmother, I was hoping that the test came back negative, so that young lady wouldn't have to deal with or share her child with her ex's mom. She was absolutely venomous and hateful to that young lady. I pray that God steps in and blesses that little boys life. Smh. Peace be still.
I agree in a way but with me loosing a child and not knowing what happened I feel the mothers pain and she angry at the world right now and she taking it out on everyone else eventhough she shouldnt. Everyone is bashing the mom but until you know how she really feels then why keep bashing her? I know she shouldnt be taking it out on the other girl but it will get better after she find out.
@@Yo-dm9bu I do understand and support your claim but she can still better yourself while grieving. From the looks of it she wasn't that nice even before he died.
Sometimes you're so unaware of someone's troubles they have with their parents. I was in a situation where I had been dating someone for a year the family was cool with me everything was good I got pregnant 🤰 and all of a sudden they distanced themselves wanted a dna test first I was mad but after learning 7 years prior another girl did the same but he wasn't the dad the mom was hesitant it took some time to grasp and understand her side
Sons dont always tell parents the truth. Instead of screaming at the woman try forming a relationship. It's not her fault the son died and how fast she moves on isnt for his mom to say.
Thats show she was unfaithful in her relationship to moved on so fast. How can u love someone as she said and not mourn his death? As the man died she had her back up plan. Im not blaming the mother because she was the one who had lost, just understand her situation.
@@optimisticman8680 so she was suppose to stay single the rest of her life? He died before the baby was born, the baby is how old now? I think she did her mourning and was able to move on.
Those eyebrows are telling the whole story! But I’ll entertain this anyway. The pain between these women is almost unbearable to watch! Jesus, I pray they both find a way to heal from this loss
I’m not understanding how the mother couldn’t see that this baby looks just like her and her son. The son’s mother dogged the baby mother out on national tv, so I can only imagine how she treated her behind closed doors. If someone talked to me the way she talked to the baby mother and constantly claimed my child wasn’t related to her when he looks just like her, I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with her either. Who knows how she would treat the baby since she claims she can’t stand the baby mother and blames her for her son’s death. As a mother of seven kids herself I don’t see how she can’t understand this. 🤷🏽♀️
Yea I understand grieving but the Momma was doin too much even disrespectful calling her the little girl even when she was calling herself being nice smh
My dad died while my mom was pregnant.. I thank God that my granny, aunties and uncles didn’t deny me.. They made sure they were in my life.. I pray this baby boy gets all the love he needs!!
I wish the judge wouldn’t be so nice to the grandmothers in these situations. It was unfair to see the mom bullied this whole time and no one step in for her.
@@danabrayboy7095 Hi...This is going to sound crazy but I think that you are one of my relatives. My grandmother's maiden name was Brayboy!!!Dear SWEET Jesus!!!
Did it say that she was a Nurse? If so, I wouldn't put all my business out there on Facebook.🤦🏽♀️ Potential employers look at social media platforms when considering people for hire. That's just like doing a background check.🧐
She has always been a triffling mother. She isncarrying it on into his death... Not only does she have multiple children, not married.... but her son has multiple children with mupltiple women. He clearly lived a terrible life.
She can't expect for the girl to mourn her son the same way she does.. that was her on and off again man not her son..there's a different type of love between a parent and a child. And not everyone heals and mourns in the same way.
Well, they were already on and off before he died. And let's not forget the other 3 women who claim him as their "baby daddy". Let's face it, she might have had to move on to someone else just as quickly if he were still alive. Obviously he wasn't the settling down type.
@@kennedicampbell8505 I agree with you to some degree. The mother may not ever get over it. But whether she does or not, is not this young lady's fault or responsibility. And I find it hard to understand that you guys are downplaying this young lady's grief. Just because her relationship with the baby's father wasn't perfect and he wasn't always around, doesn't mean she didn't love him, or that she's not greiving the fact that he will never be around again. They both lost him. And now this young lady has to raise her son without him. And the one person who should understand, sees nothing wrong with disrespecting her on national tv. I've said it before and I'm saying it again....Lord, please have mercy on your children.
@@kimberlymacklin3668 im not downplaying her grief she is obviously still sad. dont say yall if i didn’t say nun abt her not being sad. im just saying she cant expect the young woman to grieve the way she is
i am so confused. the grandmother has been contradicting herself the whole time. i understand that she’s upset and still grieving but she’s justifying her contradictions while going off on the baby mama about her choices. i just hope these two learn to be civil for the sake of the baby
Jada is beautiful & I love her braids! Mother is still in pain & she feels like Jada moving on & being in a new relationships signifies that she didn't love her son, but I don't think thats true..people deal w/ grief in ways that are comfortable for them.
@@ikindadontcare1610 I think he or she likes to be run over by people. I would question a person maybe more if they keep hanging around people that kept betraying them by being with multiple women.
I'm tired of this justification. If a love is deep and true, you don't step out...not in a relationship...not on a break...not quickly after the death of the one you "love". Plain talk. Are folks affected? For sure. But, it ain't that deep.
Maybe they were off and on becuz there were 3 other women who can claim he's their baby's father too, and not because her relationship to him wasn't strong. I'm just saying, dude was getting around.
@@mrsbdubc2174 facts that's what i was gonna say. Same way grown males are mistaken for men when they are boys. Same thing for woman being a mother doesnt make you a woman. Because there are immature females there with a child.
She wasn't proud, she was stating a fact. Handsome men like mr. Daniel have many options and she simply stated he had multiple partners. That's how nature works honey.
@@Widowson I don't agree. I think that she found _pride_ in her son being "handsome" and having "many options... multiple partners". Hate to burst the bubble, but good looks obviously does not make anyone a good "option" themselves. It is more common that someone with "looks" will be _shallow, narcissistic, selfish, and entitled._ Not always, of course, but it is more likely, especially if that person has a _Momma_ who is _so proud_ that her boy had multiple partners-- and cared little for any of them. Wonder if her ideals also applied to any daughters that she had.. or if it was so wonderful if her daughters were used and disrespected so horribly by some other mother's handsome son? Would she appreciate another grandchild who was denied and cheated of a decent, loving, responsible parent, and it was okay because of good looks-- and probably tons of half-siblings that they will likely never really get to know? Somehow I would bet she would not think it's okay. I think maybe the lessons she most needed to teach her son were how to respect himself and women, 100% responsibility for his own actions, behaviors, attitude, and lifestyle. It doesn't matter what others may do, or to be guilty of, you are still 100% accountable for every situation you put yourself in. He seemed to be the kind of person that did not value others much, and lived a dangerous lifestyle. Ultimately, his looks did nothing to save his life or to make his life a great one, right? Somehow I feel that speaks more to "facts" and "how nature works honey". Humans have the ability to overcome and rationalize what some people choose to blame as "nature"-- sadly, too often they don't try to do that. So we have war, violence, crime, death... irresponsibility. There are things in life that make no sense to me... one of them being that there should be some kind of pride in your offspring being an irresponsible hot mess-- I don't care how "beautiful" they may be on the outside. I have 5 beautiful children (all grown) and a stunningly beautiful grandson. What I want for all of them, and _have _*_always_*_ wanted for them,_ is to be honest, decent, hard-working, and respectful human beings-- for their own sake, above all, and for all of the people whose lives they will touch and improve on throughout their lifetimes. I did that. Their looks may one day fade, or some tragedy may mar the outside. What will keep them 100% in the hearts of everyone will be *_who they are as human beings,_* not _what they "look like"._ I have been truly blessed that I raised those kinds of people. Beautiful in every way. I don't forget that, ever. My best to you, sincerely! ~Peace!
The young lady was scared to move in with his mom and after watching how they interacted I could understand why. She did not make her feel welcomed. This was sad to watch. I hope the best for them all. I feel for the baby I know what it is like losing a father and I know it will not be an easy life for him so I hope these two ladies get it together and work on treating each other right for his sake and do their best to keep his father's memory alive.
Its good she didn't move in with her. That woman would have trapped her and that baby there in the way that bitter, nasty parents do. I would know, I came from one who tried it.
Judge Lakes and Jerome was so patient with these two. On another note I'm sorry but I wouldn't let that woman see my son for a while and she calls herself a nurse. I wouldn't want her no where near me or my child.
i'm not excusing what anybody said, but i have a feeling that his mother never treated that young lady with respect a day in her life. i truly believe that she had a evil spirit before her son was killed, and the grief escalated it.
@@SisterKnight The irony is, when you become a mother you too will become just as 'disrespectful' as her. Y'all out here trying to make it look like you know ish. Keep it 100!
These mommas really be acting like the son really be telling them the WHOLE truth. Me and my momma close af, i guarentee you she dont kno what kinda under wear I got on right now cause we dont tell eachother EVERYTHING lol
I know my son doesn’t tell me everything. God forbid if I were in this situation I wouldn’t disrespect the young lady but we would be getting a DNA test.
The mother said my son had many girlfriends in shame not praise. So if anything she kept the same energy about them both. Secondly, she was attempting to highlight how fast she moved on was surprising seeing as though her son a JUST passed.
These types of cases are so sad. I understand that the grandmother may have her doubts and that she is grieving, but the toxicity is not going to lead to a healthy bond with her grand child. I feel like as a grandparent you should stay neutral, ask for a dna test respectfully and take it from there. The animosity and accusations is just destructive. Saying sorry afterwards won't fix it.
You said a word at the end of your statement, "Saying sorry won't fix it it." Yes. 👏🏾🙌🏾 A lot of people don't understand that neither. The parties involve in the relationship has to take steps to getting it to a healthy, happy, and satisfying relationship but when you have one party whom refuses and just think oh well I can just apologize every time we have an argument isn't gonna cut it nor is it beneficial and healthy. In order for the problem to be fixed you got to start at the root whether it's either or personal problems with insecurities or jealousy or if it's something that we both need to work together on individually but nevertheless most people try to fix and repair broken relationships when they can just fix their own brokenness and then come back with a healthy state of mind and moving forward with a healthy happy and satisfying outcome. Sorry for rambling on but this just touch my soul here and it is oh so true.
I’m so fortunate that my dads family didn’t deny me.. My dad died when my mom was two months pregnant.. Hopefully, they’re able to reach common ground for the baby!!
PLEASE accept my deepest sympathy for ur loss!! I can't imagine how hard this was for u being 8 months pregnant & to lose the LOVE of ur life 😣😥 sending hugs, prayers & blessings to BEAUTIFUL you & ur family!! 🤗😇👼👼❤❤🙏🙏✌
The little boy favors the plaintiff’s son though🧐 WOW!!! The plaintiff is not very nice! I can’t stand mothers that think that their sons tell them everything🙄. News flash they DON’T!
I hate when the mothers or the family of the accused father acts as if they were there when he was sleeping with these women. It doesn’t matter if they met on fb and she moved in with him. That should be enough for her to take Adt believe it’s a possibility. Being in a rocky relationship doesn’t mean he’s not the father. All she had to say was she doesn’t know if that’s her son’s baby and would like a DNA test. Also, by her saying 2 other women are saying their pregnant means he DOESN’T use condoms and more reason to believe he is the father.
I have my own personal experience with this situation. I was with my sons father for 5 years we lived together. Engaged to be married 30 days before our wedding. He passed. While I was 7 months pregnant. His mom dragged my name through the mug and denied my son. Until we did a DNA test...he was the father.
@th1smomentisfate The reality is she doesn't know anything concrete. They don't live in the same state. It is completely acceptable for this young woman to date. The grandma was vile and I could only imagine her mouth outside the courtroom. She attempts to be intimidating but in the day and era people aren't just rolling over.
That grief talking and it’s not rational. She unreasonably expects the girl to grieve like her. She hasn’t moved on yet and she expects that anyone who loved him too would be the same way. Painful to watch.
Even if she is a widow (And in a way she is even tho they didn't get married), no one has the right to judge this girl on how she moves forward. Both of them are grieving but in their own way. The problem is that the mother feels there young lady should grieve in the same way and they can't.
Exactly! Those grandparent rights are difficult to attain as well and costly. Why not just.. i dont know.. treat one another with respect. There was too much animosity present. Mom didn't want to be touched.. she couldn't even respect that..
It never surprises me how many mothers come on and say "I know my son, we talked about everything".............NO CHILD DOES THAT, don't be so bloody naive, if you believe you know everything about your grown up kid then you know less than you thought.
Why do y’all think y’all can disrespect people and then get physical once they disrespect you back? Because that lady basically said it first and kept verbally abusing that young woman
Ummmmm so you're just going to skip over the part where the mom said it to her first see that's what I don't like it doesn't work like that respect goes both ways.... Point blank!!!
No, she's not perfect but she's not a bad person either. She's hurting, they both are. Both she and the other needs to learn to communicate. I think they are both up to it.. mama for sure because that baby is a piece of her son and she wants him in her life. I think they will be allright and make effort to make this work. Also the baby needs both part of family.. it's his grandmother, part of him
The grandma feels so entitled because her son passed away. But she never took into consideration how she was treating and disrespecting the young lady. I would not want my child with a person who has so much animosity towards me family or not.
So True my Daughter sat around and listened to the way her Grandmother use to talk about me at the time she was 3yrs old when her father brought her home she told me everything she said. She said mom I hate her I never want nothing to do with her. She 40yrs old now and still feels the same way. She has a son 13yrs old his Grandmother never met him. I never talk bad about
I wish it was commonly understood that we all grieve differently. There’s a lot of judgement in this world as it is, but judging someone’s methods of grief and mourning is not fair. What also stands out to me is that the grandmother judging the baby mom is part of HER method of grieving too. Nobody is right, nobody is wrong, and nobody wins. Truly tragic.
I get it but to say nobody is right or wrong is not holding people accountable for their chosen actions and words. Just because you are in pain/grief doesn't mean your bad actions are absolved from consequence... If that grieving mother pulled a gun and shot the son's baby mama, she would still go to prison. Her grief would not absolve her of actions so it shouldn't absolve her words eith. Grief/pain aren't defenses you can use in court. Lord knows if they were, then every one in jail today could blame their behaviour on grieving, trauma or being in pain & deserve to be free... THEY BOTH WERE WRONG and BOTH WERE IN PAIN/GRIEF. Grieving doesn't make them right or not wrong...
Judge, how can you stay pretty under all these stress? 6 years of working in customer care got me shriveled like a prune! Like my eyes show how tired I am. 😂😂😂
This is the saddest episode I've seen so far..I cried thinking about that little boy who has to go through life with no father and family fighting, I hope they get along now for the sake of that boy or the cycle of violence will just continue
This was actually really hard to watch, dealing with a similar situation, with the death of my sons father before he turned one. Not having the support of his family at first. Going back and fourth, and just letting it go. 7 years later they want to do better...but this episode brought up alot of emotions...I literally cried...guess I'm not fully over it.
Even though they were recklesssssssssssss in that courtroom, I had tears in my eyes the whole time. All the pain covered up with yelling and screaming. I pray for the best ❤️
That baby has that man entire face, I’d be surprised if it’s not his.
Looking just like the grandma
@@101KANDYCANE yeah in the live shot it looks like grandma but as a baby he looks like dad.
Shantelle Sweets same thing I said! He favors his potential grandmother (made the comment while watching).
Right!
Those eyebrows are definitely his!! So cute
The Grandma needs to channel her anger at the ppl who killed her child. Not this young girl.
no she should channel some of it to her considering she's both disrespectful by saying she's the cause of her son's death that's something you never say to anyone
You're right but it's hard when you feel that the woman, who you didn't know may have had your son murdered.
The young girl is loud, disrespectful to the older woman. I wouldn’t want nothing to do with her.
@@bellebellebelle5485 The mother is equally disrespectful. They're both hurt and grieving
It might be that her other boyfriend killed her baby daddy.
So many deceased, young fathers who have met their deaths through violence. It is Heartbreaking.
They need to choose better.
Yup! Blk men hurting each other is the biggest tragedy in the black community.
@@nadiar.7788 What do you mean?
Yes u r right especially AA.
@@nadiar.7788 they are many who are innocent
Every time the grandma says, “my son tells me everything..”. I roll my eyes. 🙄
Right I told my parents everything but I still did not tell.them.certain things lol
You might think your kids tell you everything, they tell us what they want us to know. We were kids once 😉
@@BBSYDmom ok
lol
Yes girl
These mom's need to realize that their son's be lying 🤦🏾🤦🏾
Not all sons lie
Women don't lie, no?
Terril Baptiste she didn't say all men lie.
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@@terrilbaptiste6560 not all tell the truth either 🤷🏾
You don't need DNA for this one, you can see him in the picture.
A person should never go by looks. She could have slept with someone who looks like the deceased
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Agree:) I hope these two women can find the space and time to love one another for the sake of that precious boy.
@@ieshagreen3293 telegony
Especially the eyebrows they share
Mommy and Grandma out there at each other throats while baby sleeping like a angel.
...and your right! Hoping they become closer, and less angry before he gets older!❤
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and what a cute baby
i mean that baby is a angel with gold wings
i knew he was the father before the results
my GOD those eyebrows are identical
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It takes DNA to be the father but today it's about the EYEBROWS.... the side by side pic with both of them are IDENTICAL.
Haha haha haha you are very funny dear
Lls 💯
Thank You!!! i was saying the same thing!!! LOLOLOL
@@SincerelyShardae good
Yep
"Do you wanna watch paternity court on tv?"
Me: "No,your honor,I'll stick to bingeing it on youtube."
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I wish people would be very careful about the things they say prior to the results.
Denise they both was wrong
Not really, facts are she was in and out!
I have two son if l had a girl, l kmow the baby is my grandchild with a son its always a maybe you never sure and the girlfriend need know this. I seen this show a lots where 2 women said a man that die was the father of theirs baby and both women lie,
Chile, it's sad but it wouldn't make the show if they were careful about what they said.
Because they won't forget it
The pain that these two ladies are in is horrible.....
They are both hurting. This actually makes me really sad
How are you dear
Well I think those brows gave it away.
They are both hurting but what that "Grandmother" did was unacceptable.
I agree
You can tell this young woman was 100% sure and passionate that he was the father
How are you mad about her moving on when you said your son “had a lot of girlfriends”
And that “ he denied him “ ?
Right!
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God. will. Judge
The deceased mother is trash. I saw her fb page
And she also said she has a bunch of kids herself, come on grandma
A single mother of 7 mad at another single mother trying to make ends meet. Social Security is not much sis...
Depending how the deceased work oh its plenty !! ask me how I know
@@terrifichill2604 In this case, it's not much!
If I passed my child would be entitled to about 1400 per month. It's not much but it could help in addition to my life insurance policies. When my father passed I recieved 1100 per month until I turned 18
@@brit_brat No matter how much money is given... no amount can make up for a parent being dead. Which is why I dont understand the need to protest so much against any little bit that will help the child or the mother trying to make ends meet.
Probably because she knows so well what it is like so she doesn't like to see it repeated with other. However that is life. Hopefully the son will do better and not "get around" like his parents then the cycle repeats.
Along with her grief, his mother has many, many issues.
And so does that little girl
Plenty of them this was an explosive hearing.
The girl don't have issues she is just tired... wouldn't u be if u we're in her situation...if she had issues it would be a total different scene in that court room...so yes she raised her voice but she didn't touch her...now the woman looks & sounds like she on something idk tho... could be wrong😣
Yes...she said she has 7 kids...im sure she had been a single mom with several daddies herself.
I hope this young lady keeps her baby from his grandmother because it seems she has a lot more issues than just the loss of her son!
I believe the grandmother has treated that girl poorly while pregnant. She not going to forget how she was treated while pregnant that's why so much animosity on the girl side.
And after, she obviously has no respect for her or her child, furthermore why is she so concerned if that young woman has a new man? She is not the property of your son and has every right to move on with her life.
If that was me i wouldn't let her near the baby ms.banks is a nasty women
Still does not give her the right to talk to the mother that way . Both acted very poorly but at age 26 I would never raise my voice at my mother-in-law and I don’t get along with her .
She invited her to Houston and bought her a plane ticket. I think she is offended
Yeahh they didn't say when the grandmother invited the girl to live with her..could've been whole 3 months after when the baby was born.. plus the whole undecisiveness of whether the girl killed her son or if she even knew him or how. I believe this case was needed for both women to clear their deep doubts so they finally could accept each other and move on.
That man had some strong DNA! Couldn't deny those eyebrows!!
That little boy looks exactly like him.
I said the same thing!
I was going to say the same 😀
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You knew that was yo baby, lady .. ray Charles can see that!! Wasting these ppl time 🙄
I hate to say it, but even though that baby looked just like his father and grandmother, I was hoping that the test came back negative, so that young lady wouldn't have to deal with or share her child with her ex's mom. She was absolutely venomous and hateful to that young lady. I pray that God steps in and blesses that little boys life. Smh. Peace be still.
I agree in a way but with me loosing a child and not knowing what happened I feel the mothers pain and she angry at the world right now and she taking it out on everyone else eventhough she shouldnt. Everyone is bashing the mom but until you know how she really feels then why keep bashing her? I know she shouldnt be taking it out on the other girl but it will get better after she find out.
She need to do some serious self work
@@JustBeREAL1st she doesn’t at all. She’s grieving and that’s where everything is coming from. ALSO she stated her son has many girlfriends..
Do true
@@Yo-dm9bu I do understand and support your claim but she can still better yourself while grieving. From the looks of it she wasn't that nice even before he died.
So you mean to tell me, that granny looks at the baby and thinks it's someone else's baby...that baby look just like HER
Sometimes you're so unaware of someone's troubles they have with their parents. I was in a situation where I had been dating someone for a year the family was cool with me everything was good I got pregnant 🤰 and all of a sudden they distanced themselves wanted a dna test first I was mad but after learning 7 years prior another girl did the same but he wasn't the dad the mom was hesitant it took some time to grasp and understand her side
I don't care DNA test results first
My first thought when they showed them
@@leerespass4716 exactly! Looks mean nothing! We seen results that prove that on this show before.🤷🏿♂️
indeed bc a grandchild will have some features like the grandparents wither u like them are Not
Sons dont always tell parents the truth. Instead of screaming at the woman try forming a relationship. It's not her fault the son died and how fast she moves on isnt for his mom to say.
She said she tried to do that, the baby mama ghosted her
She might have had something to do with it!!!! He met her on Facebook!!🤷🏿♂️
That's true, kids dont always tell you the truth. SOME kids do be fu*king up but act like everything is okay.
Thats show she was unfaithful in her relationship to moved on so fast. How can u love someone as she said and not mourn his death? As the man died she had her back up plan. Im not blaming the mother because she was the one who had lost, just understand her situation.
@@optimisticman8680 so she was suppose to stay single the rest of her life? He died before the baby was born, the baby is how old now? I think she did her mourning and was able to move on.
Remember to Pray today everyone. GOD Bless you all Have A Blessed day.
And you as well, Thank you 🌹
Amen thank u hope u have a blessed day to.
Why these moms always act like the social security check the child would get comes out of their own pocket 🙄😒
And why all these women automatically think they kid is gonna get a Social Security check from a deceased parent?
@@ButtonsCasey that is also a good point but I think it all had to do with how things are handled with those parties
Really is it possible
Because they want the social security check for themselves😂😂😂
And they act like it’s thousands. Baby will probably get like $200 a month.
Those eyebrows are telling the whole story! But I’ll entertain this anyway. The pain between these women is almost unbearable to watch! Jesus, I pray they both find a way to heal from this loss
🙏🏾 amen
Right! I was like mama know them eyebrows hereditary 😂😂
I know he’s his mini lol but I understand why his mom needed to know
I said the same thing those eyebrows
😂😂😂, I thought the same thing.
I’m not understanding how the mother couldn’t see that this baby looks just like her and her son. The son’s mother dogged the baby mother out on national tv, so I can only imagine how she treated her behind closed doors. If someone talked to me the way she talked to the baby mother and constantly claimed my child wasn’t related to her when he looks just like her, I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with her either. Who knows how she would treat the baby since she claims she can’t stand the baby mother and blames her for her son’s death. As a mother of seven kids herself I don’t see how she can’t understand this. 🤷🏽♀️
Looks are definitely deceiving
The mother was so angry it made her blind
@@xxxtantenciannaonfroydo1440 You’re right. At times they can be.
Yea I understand grieving but the Momma was doin too much even disrespectful calling her the little girl even when she was calling herself being nice smh
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My dad died while my mom was pregnant.. I thank God that my granny, aunties and uncles didn’t deny me.. They made sure they were in my life.. I pray this baby boy gets all the love he needs!!
Did they have a relationship with your mother outside of your father?
MrsBdubc 2 yup, still do..
Lil Kenshin a brain aneurysm
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Amen!
When they started blaming each other for the dudes death...yikes
Whew,
I wanted to leave the room on their behalf.
@@whitney1454 I literally left the room but couldn’t escape it because I was wearing Bluetooth headphones
Broke my heart.
Terrible 😬🤦🏽♀️
It was getting real awkward
“This lil girl,” start with changing that, she an adult as well
He has your WHOLE FACE!!! If anything the question is, who’s his mama 😂
Hahahaha
For real... he looks more like grandma than his own mother..
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Haha that’s what my hubby and I joke about with our daughter. She looks so much like him that I question whether I gave birth to her lol
Grandma full of it the baby looks just like her and her son.
I wish the judge wouldn’t be so nice to the grandmothers in these situations. It was unfair to see the mom bullied this whole time and no one step in for her.
I agree
@@danabrayboy7095 Hi...This is going to sound crazy but I think that you are one of my relatives. My grandmother's maiden name was Brayboy!!!Dear SWEET Jesus!!!
Agree
Agree
Did it say that she was a Nurse? If so, I wouldn't put all my business out there on Facebook.🤦🏽♀️ Potential employers look at social media platforms when considering people for hire. That's just like doing a background check.🧐
They need to include the clips of them meeting the child in the back with these positive results.
Yes!
OKAAAAAAY!
They used to include that I don't know why they don't do it now
THE GRANDMOTHER IS TAKING HER FRUSTRATION OUT ON THAT GIRL, ITS HARD TO WATCH. THE REASON WHY YOUR SON IS DEAD IS BECAUSE OF THE PEOPLE WHO K!LLED HIM
@Sean Tottenham Nope, none of the women I know act like that.
Hmm... 👍🏾👊🏾✌🏾🇳🇬🇺🇸
Felicia Grisham You act one
She has always been a triffling mother. She isncarrying it on into his death... Not only does she have multiple children, not married.... but her son has multiple children with mupltiple women. He clearly lived a terrible life.
Yes that was brutal!
She can't expect for the girl to mourn her son the same way she does.. that was her on and off again man not her son..there's a different type of love between a parent and a child. And not everyone heals and mourns in the same way.
Well, they were already on and off before he died. And let's not forget the other 3 women who claim him as their "baby daddy". Let's face it, she might have had to move on to someone else just as quickly if he were still alive. Obviously he wasn't the settling down type.
Yep
exactly she can get over it in 6 months and the mother will never get over it
@@kennedicampbell8505 I agree with you to some degree. The mother may not ever get over it. But whether she does or not, is not this young lady's fault or responsibility. And I find it hard to understand that you guys are downplaying this young lady's grief. Just because her relationship with the baby's father wasn't perfect and he wasn't always around, doesn't mean she didn't love him, or that she's not greiving the fact that he will never be around again. They both lost him. And now this young lady has to raise her son without him. And the one person who should understand, sees nothing wrong with disrespecting her on national tv. I've said it before and I'm saying it again....Lord, please have mercy on your children.
@@kimberlymacklin3668 im not downplaying her grief she is obviously still sad. dont say yall if i didn’t say nun abt her not being sad. im just saying she cant expect the young woman to grieve the way she is
i am so confused. the grandmother has been contradicting herself the whole time. i understand that she’s upset and still grieving but she’s justifying her contradictions while going off on the baby mama about her choices. i just hope these two learn to be civil for the sake of the baby
That baby sleep like he doesn't have time for the BS
I began to doze off, too.
Facts
He really doesn't. Hahahaha
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She keeps saying that that baby is all she has left of her son. Then she says it’s not her sons baby. What the heck is wrong with her?
Tripping
HURT, GRIEF, PAIN, GUILT......
She didnt know how to be a mother... and clearly doesnt know how to be a grandmother...
I give mothers who lost a child a break. From what I've been told it's a real struggle to keep it together.
She seems unstable to me
Never seen a baby looking more like his dad than this one!! A spitting image!!! Those eyebrows, the mouth, the face in it self.
Jada is beautiful & I love her braids! Mother is still in pain & she feels like Jada moving on & being in a new relationships signifies that she didn't love her son, but I don't think thats true..people deal w/ grief in ways that are comfortable for them.
n or if she knew about other women he dealing w she moved around n continued to live her life
You trash , I hope you get into that situation in your life
@@faheema6736 She said nothing but her opinion, you don't like it? Ok so what. What was the point of threatening/ wishing that on someone?
@@ikindadontcare1610 I think he or she likes to be run over by people. I would question a person maybe more if they keep hanging around people that kept betraying them by being with multiple women.
I'm tired of this justification. If a love is deep and true, you don't step out...not in a relationship...not on a break...not quickly after the death of the one you "love". Plain talk.
Are folks affected? For sure. But, it ain't that deep.
"We had a strong relationship, we were off and on." Girl... what.
Girl. I was watching this episode while cleaning... and I did a huge side eye after I heard her say this nonsense Record🤦🏾♀️
Maybe they were off and on becuz there were 3 other women who can claim he's their baby's father too, and not because her relationship to him wasn't strong. I'm just saying, dude was getting around.
Hahaha, my thoughts exactly... makes no sense
How can you be on and off , but have a strong relationship?? 🤔🤔
I thought she said we had a struggling relationship
Judge is so sophisticated , yet too down to earth .. bless her soul .
The grandmother is just plain rude...calling her a little girl when she is a woman with a child.
And she a woman with 7 kids
And i didn’t like that the judge didn’t stop her from calling her a little girl
Women can act like little girls. Having a baby doesn't make anybody grown or your age. How you handle your business and carry yourself does.
@@donovan3x64 and....
@@mrsbdubc2174 facts that's what i was gonna say. Same way grown males are mistaken for men when they are boys. Same thing for woman being a mother doesnt make you a woman. Because there are immature females there with a child.
The mother is proud talking about my son had a lot of girlfriends like it's an accomplishment 🤦♀️
Ikr. Crazy
yeah she was wrong for that..but we will see bc if it is true she will be back in court bc them maybe moms gona want that SS
She wasn't proud, she was stating a fact. Handsome men like mr. Daniel have many options and she simply stated he had multiple partners. That's how nature works honey.
She was just trying to push the point that that young girl was no more important to him than any of his other girls... just wrong
@@Widowson
I don't agree. I think that she found _pride_ in her son being "handsome" and having "many options... multiple partners". Hate to burst the bubble, but good looks obviously does not make anyone a good "option" themselves. It is more common that someone with "looks" will be _shallow, narcissistic, selfish, and entitled._ Not always, of course, but it is more likely, especially if that person has a _Momma_ who is _so proud_ that her boy had multiple partners-- and cared little for any of them.
Wonder if her ideals also applied to any daughters that she had.. or if it was so wonderful if her daughters were used and disrespected so horribly by some other mother's handsome son? Would she appreciate another grandchild who was denied and cheated of a decent, loving, responsible parent, and it was okay because of good looks-- and probably tons of half-siblings that they will likely never really get to know? Somehow I would bet she would not think it's okay.
I think maybe the lessons she most needed to teach her son were how to respect himself and women, 100% responsibility for his own actions, behaviors, attitude, and lifestyle. It doesn't matter what others may do, or to be guilty of, you are still 100% accountable for every situation you put yourself in. He seemed to be the kind of person that did not value others much, and lived a dangerous lifestyle. Ultimately, his looks did nothing to save his life or to make his life a great one, right? Somehow I feel that speaks more to "facts" and "how nature works honey". Humans have the ability to overcome and rationalize what some people choose to blame as "nature"-- sadly, too often they don't try to do that. So we have war, violence, crime, death... irresponsibility.
There are things in life that make no sense to me... one of them being that there should be some kind of pride in your offspring being an irresponsible hot mess-- I don't care how "beautiful" they may be on the outside. I have 5 beautiful children (all grown) and a stunningly beautiful grandson. What I want for all of them, and _have _*_always_*_ wanted for them,_ is to be honest, decent, hard-working, and respectful human beings-- for their own sake, above all, and for all of the people whose lives they will touch and improve on throughout their lifetimes. I did that.
Their looks may one day fade, or some tragedy may mar the outside. What will keep them 100% in the hearts of everyone will be *_who they are as human beings,_* not _what they "look like"._ I have been truly blessed that I raised those kinds of people. Beautiful in every way. I don't forget that, ever. My best to you, sincerely! ~Peace!
🥲🥲My heart aches for both of these women.
The young lady was scared to move in with his mom and after watching how they interacted I could understand why. She did not make her feel welcomed. This was sad to watch. I hope the best for them all. I feel for the baby I know what it is like losing a father and I know it will not be an easy life for him so I hope these two ladies get it together and work on treating each other right for his sake and do their best to keep his father's memory alive.
I agree
Its good she didn't move in with her. That woman would have trapped her and that baby there in the way that bitter, nasty parents do. I would know, I came from one who tried it.
Mrs. Tiffany they are to much alike
@@sarahwalls7621 maybe that is why her son chose the girlfriend to be with. They do seem similar in ways
The first picture of the baby and I just told myself, "I'm wasting my time."
Judge Lakes and Jerome was so patient with these two. On another note I'm sorry but I wouldn't let that woman see my son for a while and she calls herself a nurse. I wouldn't want her no where near me or my child.
I wish they’d stop cutting out when the father or grandparent meets the baby.
I honestly feel bad for their loss, I hope they get the help they need.
It's really sad.Such a young handsome man.
@@123418205 where is that man
Munir Latif heven..
@@Lea-vq1kk how do you know that
Munir Latif they were saying he was dead literally this whole time and I know them personally
The baby has the grandma's whole face. I hope these 2 women made peace, for the sake of this sweet lil boy 🤞🏼
I hate it when mom are so caught up in their child’s relationship! Like you wasn’t there when they were making love!
Who said baby boys HAVE to be named after their father? Nobody so just because his name is DIFFERENT, doesn't mean that isn't his child smh
@@lamarionevans-coleman4713 say that! She was really pressed about that and it makes no sense at all smh....
And the baby still has a part of his name
Right that baby can have his own name..she should tell one of her other kids to use his name with their kids if its that important
It’s tradition in some cultures, but in paternity court world it usually means it’s not the man’s child!
@@mandymaeK1 what culture? And it's his baby so that still makes no sense 🤦♀️
This Baby Boy has his Daddy's eyes and whole entire face. He looks like you Grandma cause he pulled all your Son's features
Mother isn't the easiest person to get along with so I can understand why baby mama is so upset. There is so much pain here I hope they heal.
i'm not excusing what anybody said, but i have a feeling that his mother never treated that young lady with respect a day in her life. i truly believe that she had a evil spirit before her son was killed, and the grief escalated it.
She gives major 'I disrespect everyone and feel like I deserve respect because I'm a mother' vibes. I cant stand evil spirited women like her.
Exactly. I usually dump a guy whose mother acts like his woman, instead of his mom. Guys don't get it.
@@SisterKnight The irony is, when you become a mother you too will become just as 'disrespectful' as her. Y'all out here trying to make it look like you know ish. Keep it 100!
Right! Because she was just upset and didn’t wanna believe it.
Don't young people show respect to people's mothers anymore? If I spoke to my MIL like that, stars would have been the next thing I see.
What a sad episode..But that baby look just like his grandma.
Hope he doesn't turn out having Grandma's personality.
These mommas really be acting like the son really be telling them the WHOLE truth. Me and my momma close af, i guarentee you she dont kno what kinda under wear I got on right now cause we dont tell eachother EVERYTHING lol
I know my son doesn’t tell me everything. God forbid if I were in this situation I wouldn’t disrespect the young lady but we would be getting a DNA test.
Say that!!!!
Gurrrrrrl!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I feel u!
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Let me find out we related Alexis 🤔. Hickman is my maiden name
Grandma gonna regret everything she said talk all that mess then want to be a part of the babys life ...yeah no
*child and father appears on the screen side by side*
Me: That’s his child
*clicks to the next episode”
them eyebrows alone tell me that that’s that mans baby, but lemme watch...
Okay?!?! Identical af!!!!!
Isis this is what I was saying the entire time. It was nothing but the eyebrows for me!
The mother said my son had many girlfriends in shame not praise. So if anything she kept the same energy about them both. Secondly, she was attempting to highlight how fast she moved on was surprising seeing as though her son a JUST passed.
Yesssss honey yesssss
I really feel bad for Jerome! He’s got so much screaming in both ears 🙁
😂😂😂😂
Hahaha. Cool.
Love Jerome
🙂
That’s the most I’ve ever see him have to get involved.
At the end of the day these men need to start telling their mothers the TRUTH.
The moms ain’t dating the sons they owe the moms nothing. That’s what the dna test for.
Chile!
They don't need to tell their mom or dad nothing
These types of cases are so sad. I understand that the grandmother may have her doubts and that she is grieving, but the toxicity is not going to lead to a healthy bond with her grand child.
I feel like as a grandparent you should stay neutral, ask for a dna test respectfully and take it from there. The animosity and accusations is just destructive. Saying sorry afterwards won't fix it.
You said a word at the end of your statement, "Saying sorry won't fix it it." Yes. 👏🏾🙌🏾 A lot of people don't understand that neither. The parties involve in the relationship has to take steps to getting it to a healthy, happy, and satisfying relationship but when you have one party whom refuses and just think oh well I can just apologize every time we have an argument isn't gonna cut it nor is it beneficial and healthy. In order for the problem to be fixed you got to start at the root whether it's either or personal problems with insecurities or jealousy or if it's something that we both need to work together on individually but nevertheless most people try to fix and repair broken relationships when they can just fix their own brokenness and then come back with a healthy state of mind and moving forward with a healthy happy and satisfying outcome. Sorry for rambling on but this just touch my soul here and it is oh so true.
I couldn't agree with you MORE
For sure. You cant apologize all that away.
The g/f has an attitude as well. A relationship is a two-way street.
I’m so fortunate that my dads family didn’t deny me.. My dad died when my mom was two months pregnant.. Hopefully, they’re able to reach common ground for the baby!!
I felt this my sons father got killed when I was 8months pregnant i so glad he's family was so supportive i hope they find peace within each other
Sorry 😞 for your loss my condolences 💐
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PLEASE accept my deepest sympathy for ur loss!! I can't imagine how hard this was for u being 8 months pregnant & to lose the LOVE of ur life 😣😥 sending hugs, prayers & blessings to BEAUTIFUL you & ur family!! 🤗😇👼👼❤❤🙏🙏✌
Sorry for loss
This is sad. So much anger & pain. Blaming the mom for her son's death was foul. What a tragic situation.
The little boy favors the plaintiff’s son though🧐
WOW!!! The plaintiff is not very nice! I can’t stand mothers that think that their sons tell them everything🙄. News flash they DON’T!
also he had 2 other women preg sounds like he messy
gm is another one, i hate moms like that
Seeing their pain is so hard to watch. I wish them nothing but peace.
His death caused so much pain, it’s sad. Sometimes people don’t think rationally when they lose a loved one. I hope they both manage to find peace.
Wow! She said “You’re the reason your son is dead”. I wanted to hear her finish.
Right. I think he was out of state to be away from his crazy momma.
For real
Do yall think the baby momma ex killed him?
Me too.
th1smomentisfate nah she’s not evil. Granny said all that other bs and put the death on that girl but you say the girl is wrong...
This looks even worse when you consider that the son might see this in the future
To many young brothers out here losing their lives and leaving kids behind.
How do you expect someone you dragged through the mud to want to be touched by you later?
I hate when the mothers or the family of the accused father acts as if they were there when he was sleeping with these women. It doesn’t matter if they met on fb and she moved in with him. That should be enough for her to take Adt believe it’s a possibility. Being in a rocky relationship doesn’t mean he’s not the father. All she had to say was she doesn’t know if that’s her son’s baby and would like a DNA test. Also, by her saying 2 other women are saying their pregnant means he DOESN’T use condoms and more reason to believe he is the father.
I have my own personal experience with this situation. I was with my sons father for 5 years we lived together. Engaged to be married 30 days before our wedding. He passed. While I was 7 months pregnant. His mom dragged my name through the mug and denied my son. Until we did a DNA test...he was the father.
Exxaacctly
@@latoyacumberbatch8646 that heffa would never get to see my child
Talking bout they was SO close to they sons.......
CHILE come a lil harder
@th1smomentisfate The reality is she doesn't know anything concrete. They don't live in the same state. It is completely acceptable for this young woman to date. The grandma was vile and I could only imagine her mouth outside the courtroom. She attempts to be intimidating but in the day and era people aren't just rolling over.
She needs to stop.calling that babys mother "lil girl" she is a whole grown women with a child of her own.
I looked at those eyebrows and knew the baby was his. NO TEST NEEDED!
Ok twins
Eyebrows = DNA 🧬
The "I'm sorry" in the end is the most hypocritical thing in the world. She behaved awfully to the mother of her grandson. Shame on her.
How is it your business if she moves on....she ain't a widow...This Grandma is a real actress ...she is giving me some cookie(empire) vibe🙄
That grief talking and it’s not rational. She unreasonably expects the girl to grieve like her. She hasn’t moved on yet and she expects that anyone who loved him too would be the same way. Painful to watch.
Even if she is a widow (And in a way she is even tho they didn't get married), no one has the right to judge this girl on how she moves forward. Both of them are grieving but in their own way. The problem is that the mother feels there young lady should grieve in the same way and they can't.
Even if she is a widow whose businesses is it how quickly the widow moves on... Smh
@@KassiaPoties EXACTLY!!!! I'm tired of people judging widows!!#
@@angelique707 SHE'S AN ADDICT.
First off that lil boy have the same eyebrows and can we say that jayda makeup is BOMB!!
It kills me how they went from SCREAMING at each other to "I'm sorry..." in like 0.23746 seconds.
Seriously. God is still working on me. I can't do it that quickly.
How the gma think she's gonna have gma rights and not deal with the baby's mother..
And some people actually clapped in the audience when she so rudely said that🤔
Exactly! Those grandparent rights are difficult to attain as well and costly. Why not just.. i dont know.. treat one another with respect. There was too much animosity present. Mom didn't want to be touched.. she couldn't even respect that..
A lot of them think like this.
Thats exactly why grandparents dont have any automatic rights.....
Britany Bianca yes they are
It never surprises me how many mothers come on and say "I know my son, we talked about everything".............NO CHILD DOES THAT, don't be so bloody naive, if you believe you know everything about your grown up kid then you know less than you thought.
As soon as that girl said I’m responsible for my son’s death, I would’ve been held in contempt. 👊🏾
The mom said it first tho
Mum said it first, and you would never have seen your grandson until he was 18 years of age (& if he wanted to meet you).
Why do y’all think y’all can disrespect people and then get physical once they disrespect you back? Because that lady basically said it first and kept verbally abusing that young woman
Ghetto
Ummmmm so you're just going to skip over the part where the mom said it to her first see that's what I don't like it doesn't work like that respect goes both ways.... Point blank!!!
Praying that these two women work out their differences for the sake of this beautiful baby boy.
I would keep that grandmother AWAYYYYYY, she is just too angry.
No, she's not perfect but she's not a bad person either. She's hurting, they both are. Both she and the other needs to learn to communicate. I think they are both up to it.. mama for sure because that baby is a piece of her son and she wants him in her life. I think they will be allright and make effort to make this work. Also the baby needs both part of family.. it's his grandmother, part of him
Yes for real
Everything is just so fresh , I bet the case is still opened and I bet paternity court got them some closure faster/ before the case of his death
She’s just hurting. I think they will work it out
Hopefully this baby will help her heal.
The grandma feels so entitled because her son passed away. But she never took into consideration how she was treating and disrespecting the young lady. I would not want my child with a person who has so much animosity towards me family or not.
So True my Daughter sat around and listened to the way her Grandmother use to talk about me at the time she was 3yrs old when her father brought her home she told me everything she said. She said mom I hate her I never want nothing to do with her. She 40yrs old now and still feels the same way. She has a son 13yrs old his Grandmother never met him. I never talk bad about
Bad about her Grandmother are her father you got to be careful kids listen to everything you say.
14:51 After all that abuse, Jada really needed a minute and I feel for her.
Jasani means love of God what a beautiful name .
That baby looked so much like his daddy. Beautiful young man. Guidance and Blessings to them all.
I wish it was commonly understood that we all grieve differently. There’s a lot of judgement in this world as it is, but judging someone’s methods of grief and mourning is not fair. What also stands out to me is that the grandmother judging the baby mom is part of HER method of grieving too. Nobody is right, nobody is wrong, and nobody wins. Truly tragic.
I get it but to say nobody is right or wrong is not holding people accountable for their chosen actions and words. Just because you are in pain/grief doesn't mean your bad actions are absolved from consequence... If that grieving mother pulled a gun and shot the son's baby mama, she would still go to prison. Her grief would not absolve her of actions so it shouldn't absolve her words eith. Grief/pain aren't defenses you can use in court. Lord knows if they were, then every one in jail today could blame their behaviour on grieving, trauma or being in pain & deserve to be free...
THEY BOTH WERE WRONG and BOTH WERE IN PAIN/GRIEF. Grieving doesn't make them right or not wrong...
Jerome’s job isn’t easy. 😒
😂😂Jerome is the definition of unbothered
Poor Jerome 😕
@@naddij3733 where are you from Nadia
He always looks like he is neither here nor there.
@@naddij3733 lol 😂
Can we just acknowledge how beautiful the grandmother is like 👁👄👁 she doesn’t look a day over 30
Yes she looks young.
Oh man, this one was tough. Even though they are yelling you can they are both hurting so bad.
If we haven’t learned anything else from Paternity Court, we’ve learned we can’t go solely off looks, but that baby had his dad’s whole face!
No one can fake the wolf brow ...
Judge, how can you stay pretty under all these stress? 6 years of working in customer care got me shriveled like a prune! Like my eyes show how tired I am. 😂😂😂
Same here, 😆 Judge saying she stress free
I saw them eye brows and knew he was the father 😂
Me too omg
YES!! Absolutely!! That little boy is so cute!!
i said the same thing!!He look too much like him.i dont see how the grandmother didnt see that.
Facts
Exactly
This is the saddest episode I've seen so far..I cried thinking about that little boy who has to go through life with no father and family fighting, I hope they get along now for the sake of that boy or the cycle of violence will just continue
😭😭😭 I felt this on my heart.
Yeah both hiring and taking it out on her.
Wait, most of these kids grow up without fathers whether the father is alive or not.
The makeup artist/team for this show is incredible - seriously and consistently does stellar work.
This was actually really hard to watch, dealing with a similar situation, with the death of my sons father before he turned one. Not having the support of his family at first. Going back and fourth, and just letting it go. 7 years later they want to do better...but this episode brought up alot of emotions...I literally cried...guess I'm not fully over it.
Did you let them back in his life?
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I had the same my son's family are not in his life and he's an adult now.
@@Ms.AnnDrist I did but they don’t even try to see him. So my main focus is his happiness .
I'm sorry to hear this 😢
Even though they were recklesssssssssssss in that courtroom, I had tears in my eyes the whole time. All the pain covered up with yelling and screaming. I pray for the best ❤️
I had tears too
Man I clicked on this by accident and I'm crying. I hope they work it out for the child and work through their differences.
I'm so glad the grandmother has closure. Both ladies are hurting. Prayers for the family.