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  • @HuatulcoGuy
    @HuatulcoGuy 8 месяцев назад +40

    This may be true for most people. However, I honestly believe that there is no boat coming for some of us, and we need to accept that reality.

    • @bak3456
      @bak3456 7 месяцев назад +2

      True , some losses represent a lifetime of grief

    • @schonstudio
      @schonstudio 6 месяцев назад +2

      true. but it might not be a boat. it could be Eurocopter EC130.

    • @LittleBird888
      @LittleBird888 2 месяца назад

      You make a boat happen then

  • @TheBirdKhan
    @TheBirdKhan 2 года назад +25

    ''Just because something haven't happened yet, it does not mean it will never happen.''
    Might be true, but in my whole life certain things just never happened and I have probably not much time left in this world.
    So there are some people who are excluded from certain things. I don't want to destroy any believes. I just want to show there are some special cases out there in the world

  • @She.33
    @She.33 8 месяцев назад +8

    My 2 year long distance relationship ended two months ago because our issues came up, we had a fight, and he abandoned me. At this two months mark, for the past few weeks I have been crying in such despair. Today is the first day I haven't cried, choosing instead to work on myself. (It helps to say out loud to myself "I don't want him anymore" even though I do) Thank you for your video. It's the first one I've seen of yours and I appreciate how short it is. Every day or so I get youtube burnout and though I want to watch more videos, I reach a point where I can't sit through another 20 minute video. You are concise and to the point, which I love.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your response. Let yourself feel all the emotions; ultimately, that's how you will heal vs. putting a bandaid on things. Here's a blog post on how to feel your difficult emotions that I wrote that you might find help: www.kimegel.com/blog/2022/3/22/how-to-feel-your-emotions-if-you-dont-know-how

  • @EricScofield22
    @EricScofield22 8 месяцев назад +29

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

    • @Ken_Johnson
      @Ken_Johnson 8 месяцев назад +6

      I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

    • @kanereall
      @kanereall 8 месяцев назад +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Ken_Johnson
      @Ken_Johnson 8 месяцев назад +4

      Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @kanereall
      @kanereall 8 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @EricScofield22
      @EricScofield22 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Ken, i really appreciate.

  • @IamAnson777
    @IamAnson777 7 месяцев назад +11

    I've been waiting 60 years for me hearts desire ...I think it's time to face that it's NOT going to happen

    • @bak3456
      @bak3456 7 месяцев назад +3

      they never address this point in these type of videos

    • @Elephant_King_Gj
      @Elephant_King_Gj 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sometimes people even at 70 or 80 have great success far beyond what anyone could have imagined possible or find the love of their lives. But that may not happen for you or me, still I think we can find a very true peace and love being with what is and whatever may or may not come.

    • @patriciatollison8655
      @patriciatollison8655 2 месяца назад

      I'm 61 and I can relate.

    • @sharonb519
      @sharonb519 3 дня назад

      57 here and I hear you loud and clear. I get it. My ship has sailed. ⛴️🥺

  • @tatelang6155
    @tatelang6155 9 месяцев назад +9

    This was randomly shown to me by the algorithm, but it is the best thing I've heard in the last few months. Every word was what i needed to hear. I was expecting to feel worse when i clicked on it, tbh so thank you!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 9 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for sharing that. I really appreciate your feedback and MOST importantly, I’m so glad you found it helpful.

  • @seanking6184
    @seanking6184 2 года назад +27

    This short video has really helped, going to keep coming back to this when I’m having a bad spell 🙂

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +1

      Thanks Sean! I appreciate you letting me know and I'm so glad to hear that. Cheers!

    • @jacobw2570
      @jacobw2570 2 года назад +1

      I do the same thing!!!

  • @FordMaverickFanatic
    @FordMaverickFanatic 2 года назад +19

    Thank you for this! I definitely needed to hear that. As someone recovering from a heartbreak and longing for love, this helps a lot. I'm certainly going to be rewatching this when I catch myself worrying or feeling anxious about things!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +2

      You are very welcome. Thanks for sharing your comment and I'm so glad you found it helpful. That's great to hear.

    • @sandykay4214
      @sandykay4214 2 года назад

      十2347016200110🪴🪴❄❄🔮適港, 港决很高興****❤️🎯✅

    • @sandykay4214
      @sandykay4214 2 года назад +1

      Hi friend I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my partner Back in 48hours after many years of separation.💯❤🎯💤✅💯

  • @NermalDiva
    @NermalDiva 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is precisely what I needed to see and hear today. Thank you. 💛

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 5 месяцев назад +1

      you are so welcome.

  • @DamonMatini
    @DamonMatini 2 года назад +8

    This video popped up and told the exact thing i needed to hear right now omg

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +3

      What's Up Damon! I love hearing that. Thanks for sharing. Synchronicity at it's best. Cheers!

  • @edberaga6357
    @edberaga6357 Год назад +10

    Love the present and feel the joy of the present instead yearning for something not possible for now,, it will create the opportunity later...
    thanks so much for creating this video!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад

      You are very welcome! Thanks for sharing with me.

  • @adilyakozyreva
    @adilyakozyreva 23 дня назад

    I can’t tell if I’m just being stupid or if I’m really suffering from it, but I’m craving for love, so I read books and then I’m just convinced that, that kind of man doesn’t exist and it brings me so much fear

  • @AgateUnheard-vp6rl
    @AgateUnheard-vp6rl 8 месяцев назад

    I am lucky and grateful this video randomly popped in my feed! It offered a new perspective on my situation which reduced my anxiety and hopelessness of longing for someone who loves me in words but not in deeds. 👍🏻

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you for letting me know that. I'm so happy it was helpful. Thanks for listening.

  • @makaer1
    @makaer1 Год назад +34

    But she died. That hurts me more

    • @PadmaPriya-dd3ik
      @PadmaPriya-dd3ik 10 месяцев назад +6

      I'm sorry :(

    • @k.saigaurav964
      @k.saigaurav964 10 месяцев назад +9

      I'm sorry for your loss :( Take care of yourself. You are strong.

    • @User00731
      @User00731 10 месяцев назад

      who died?

    • @terrycraig6386
      @terrycraig6386 9 месяцев назад +1

      Then you'll never get the reciprocation you crave.You need to heal.😮😢

    • @ironicjason257
      @ironicjason257 9 месяцев назад +5

      my man you are strong it's been a long time but even if you are not completely over the sad truth, you are giving your best so be proud of it.

  • @LightningShiva1
    @LightningShiva1 Год назад +4

    I just want to say Thank you! This really helped 😢

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад

      Thank you for letting me know. I'm so glad it did!!!

    • @LightningShiva1
      @LightningShiva1 Год назад

      @@kimegel Its been 2 months and now Im fully recovered. Time heals everything :)

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад

      @@LightningShiva1 I'm so glad that you are feeling more at peace.

  • @June-qw4mc
    @June-qw4mc 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much. Exactly what i needed to hear

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 9 месяцев назад

      Much love June. Thanks for letting me know. I'm so glad my words were helpful for you.

  • @scarletdarkwood
    @scarletdarkwood 7 месяцев назад

    Great video and fits perfectly with mystical principles. You have stop sending yourself subconscious messages through what you are feeding your conscious awareness. You also have to live like you already have what you want and take the mundane steps to work on getting it as well. Really think of what you want and fill in every detail about what it is like in all aspects. That visual picture will also feed your subconscious to help manifest your desire(s).

  • @saveriotorquato666
    @saveriotorquato666 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 9 месяцев назад

      you are so welcome.

  • @Margaro-l5m
    @Margaro-l5m 9 месяцев назад +2

    This is exactly what I'm doing. I still want a woman which means I'm clinging to false hope.

  • @sherigibson6087
    @sherigibson6087 5 месяцев назад

    Great advice

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

  • @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth
    @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth 6 дней назад

    Thank you❤

  • @jameshobsonusa
    @jameshobsonusa Год назад +4

    Thank You, Dr. Kim; what you are telling me is comforting. However, being that I am 55 and the rose of steadfast love still hasn’t delivered to my heart, could you please tell me how I can once and for all get over it, overcome and move beyond the pain and accept it so that I may begin enjoying my days off in solitude? Thank You, Ma’am… 💖 What you mentioned about missing a boat but not the ship would have been platinum to this shy guy had I been a few decades younger.

    • @FF-vc6ms
      @FF-vc6ms 7 месяцев назад

      same here

  • @onerider808
    @onerider808 6 месяцев назад +2

    Looking outside ourselves for fulfillment, happiness, or meaning is the definition of insanity.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 6 месяцев назад

      truth!

  • @antisycophant6496
    @antisycophant6496 2 года назад +3

    Powerful profound practical perspective 😊

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +1

      Thank you!!! I'm glad you found it helpful!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад

      @Chidera Kingsley Thanks for the comment!

  • @peterhewitson2669
    @peterhewitson2669 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Kim❤

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад +1

      My pleasure Peter!

  • @TBrazyy
    @TBrazyy 2 года назад +1

    Love this 💕

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +1

      Thanks for commenting Tierra! I really appreciate the positive feedback.

  • @АнаБуљешевић
    @АнаБуљешевић 2 года назад

    Such beautiful rings. And of course the content💞 thanks

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад

      thank you!

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking 8 месяцев назад +1

    Your rings are gorgeous.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for the compliment. I designed the Ameythst one. (I'm also a jewelry designer @kimegeljewelry.)

  • @mikeydraken7296
    @mikeydraken7296 Год назад

    Thank you so much ❤️✨

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад

      Of course. I'm so happy this was helpful for you. Thanks for letting me know.

  • @Mandrake591
    @Mandrake591 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 7 месяцев назад

      you are very welcome.

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why is it that when I open my heart I get love bombed and left after I let my guard down? I’m always open but continually get burned.

  • @jacobw2570
    @jacobw2570 2 года назад +1

    You just made me feel so much better!! Thank you!

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад

      Hi Jacob! I'm so stoked to hear that. Thanks for letting me know!

  • @kirkwhite1736
    @kirkwhite1736 9 месяцев назад +3

    I'm 50. I missed THEE Boat.

    • @terrycraig6386
      @terrycraig6386 9 месяцев назад +2

      If you never had a relationship by 50,then yes you did.😢

    • @Sargam14992
      @Sargam14992 8 месяцев назад +1

      No, you didn't. It would work out for you.

  • @rhuearian1358
    @rhuearian1358 2 года назад

    Thank you! ♥️♥️❤️

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад

      Thanks for listening Rhue!

  • @dukemarionrobertmorrison
    @dukemarionrobertmorrison 3 месяца назад

    bruh im lookin for how to stop wantin
    not acceptin that itl take time
    i’ve devoted most of my life to delayed gratification
    i know how to suffer and wait
    i want to stop desire
    i want to stop carin
    i dont want to wait for better tides i want to be happy with reality
    i want to establish my status quoe and be happy with it

  • @rvvideos5947
    @rvvideos5947 2 года назад +2

    This video has really given me hope to get back with my person. But it's really scary to hold on to the belief that things will get better.
    After all the bad experiences I had with this person I decided to move on and heal myself from the inside but some what I still feel stuck inside.. a feeling of should I hold on or move forward in life?

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +1

      Thanks for your comment. Everyone has such a unique situation, so good luck with making the right decision for you. I'm glad my words helped you. Thanks for sharing.

  • @kahoku451
    @kahoku451 Год назад

    thanks 🥺

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад +1

      You are so welcome.

  • @kenshinhirota9568
    @kenshinhirota9568 2 года назад +1

    tysm

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад +1

      You are SOOOO welcome! Thanks for listening.

  • @suestephens2400
    @suestephens2400 6 месяцев назад

    How do I get over a block after a divorce 13 years ago?

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 6 месяцев назад

      Hi Sue. Thanks for your comment. What a BIG question. I'm going to sit with that and see if I can make some content around it. I'll be in touch.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 6 месяцев назад

      some thoughts: with acceptance
      by allowing the grief and pain of the divorce to fully come up & be felt
      by looking at what you learned from the relationship
      by focusing on your present and learning to live in the now vs. in focusing on the past.

  • @PremKumar-hd2xt
    @PremKumar-hd2xt 7 месяцев назад

    love you

  • @ThiruNash
    @ThiruNash 8 месяцев назад

    My wife left without a trace all I have now is our three toddlers and the sweet memories that we had
    It's so painful.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that you're in pain. Thank you for sharing this.

    • @ThiruNash
      @ThiruNash 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much.

    • @Saintm-lk5iu
      @Saintm-lk5iu 8 месяцев назад

      @ThiruNash I'm so sorry to hear that, hopefully You can meet someone new to help you with the toddlers. Do you have any family, like parents or relatives that can help? May God help you and bless you and your children.

  • @terrycraig6386
    @terrycraig6386 9 месяцев назад +2

    Whats that " clanging"sound in the background? Its distracting as heck.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 9 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed! It was a wind chime that my neighbors had up… apologies because I know it’s super distracting.

  • @kkjl5737
    @kkjl5737 6 месяцев назад

    Well… he has a girlfriend. And in fact, he’s had two girlfriends after me. So, I don’t think he’s ever coming back.

  • @belogical3961
    @belogical3961 7 месяцев назад

    I feel that way about getting a horse. I'm waiting on the Lord, and I must admit, I feel even more longing in a purer form.
    However, I have been limerant about it. Not seeing how getting a horse, also comes with problems I am not prepared for yet. I blinded myself to those problems and got upset with my partner for not wanting to get one. Sometimes we just look at the sunshine when we are standing in a pile of horse shat.

  • @Kanałowszystkim2115
    @Kanałowszystkim2115 Месяц назад

    Plis Polish napisy

  • @zrarnrahim4616
    @zrarnrahim4616 10 месяцев назад +2

    English is a confusing language(long)ing🤔 aha 😟

  • @justinevo6625
    @justinevo6625 8 месяцев назад

    Hi Kim, I am trying to forget my ex after two month but she told me when we broke up that there might be a future later for us it feels like I need open my heart for the present but it's still hard for me I can't seem to let it go. Any more tips?😢

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 8 месяцев назад

      I'm just going to repeat to you what you wrote above "it feels like i need to open my heart for the present." Here's my question: How can doing something so authentically true for you lead you wrong? Also here's an article that might be helpful: www.kimegel.com/blog

  • @iamme5863
    @iamme5863 2 года назад

    💕💕💕😍

  • @Nocreditnoproblem
    @Nocreditnoproblem 2 года назад

    🤝🤝🤝

  • @ABlackGirlandHerCoffee
    @ABlackGirlandHerCoffee Год назад

    Thank you for this.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel Год назад

      Thank you for listening. I’m so glad you found it helpful. ❤️

  • @BlissBlissBliss720
    @BlissBlissBliss720 2 года назад

    Thank you.

    • @kimegel
      @kimegel 2 года назад

      You are very welcome.