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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • HELLO BABES 💋
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  • @elizahoskins7522
    @elizahoskins7522 2 года назад +618

    So proud of her ❤ she has grown so much into a beautiful young mother and she has learned a lot from her past mistakes we all make mistakes we can't hold them against her forever 💙 ♥ 💜

    • @jjjddd8429
      @jjjddd8429 2 года назад

      ❤️🧡🧡

    • @eatmyblank1735
      @eatmyblank1735 2 года назад +4

      Cussing, sex before marriage, gluttony, liking/sexually active with the same gender, and cutting on the skin are sins . Believe in Jesus/God :)

    • @queensavage3856
      @queensavage3856 2 года назад +4

      @@eatmyblank1735 but yet here you are 🤣 you sinning now judging her on her past mistakes we all sin we all still learning DONT do that god DONT like that

    • @queensavage3856
      @queensavage3856 2 года назад +7

      @@eatmyblank1735 and i know you DONT say all that with a name like eatmyblank yeah go read the Bible

    • @peoplesvictory9166
      @peoplesvictory9166 2 года назад +2

      Yeah 💙🙏🏼

  • @IsalutedeeTV
    @IsalutedeeTV 2 года назад +1703

    “Y’all see a field, but I still see the house that was right here” 🥺😫🙏🏽 I felt that. I miss my Grandma so much.

    • @a1dev755
      @a1dev755 2 года назад +18

      Shit hit different, I was the same way wit my g.ma & great g.ma

    • @a1dev755
      @a1dev755 2 года назад +13

      @@jaygotslime that’s where she used to live wit her grandma Lulu but the house isn’t there anymore

    • @craftofgaming3656
      @craftofgaming3656 2 года назад +5

      I didn't lose a loved gma but i still feel like that abt bad mistakes i made in the past plus im constantly missing the past trying my best to look forward plus i always feel like im an nobody and i feel like im gonna die a nobody hand i always doubt my self but im healing from depression tho i just pray i accomplish my dreams in life

    • @HoneyBee-br6hi
      @HoneyBee-br6hi 2 года назад +1

      @@Envylilsin huh? Was the comment you’re responding to deleted?

    • @IsalutedeeTV
      @IsalutedeeTV 2 года назад +5

      @@craftofgaming3656 you got this! Just keep your intentions pure and pray you’ll make it far

  • @riah2rich250
    @riah2rich250 2 года назад +981

    The kentrell part hit deep cause neither one of them have been the same since they left each other and everyone knows it🥺

  • @Sam-tq7ct
    @Sam-tq7ct 2 года назад +695

    Awwww Jania don’t cry. Your Lulu is in your heart. I know She’s proud of you

  • @delia7915
    @delia7915 2 года назад +876

    I loved this. She’s growing up and it’s great to see. She is not her bad choices in the past. We all made them and paid for them and if we are lucky we learned from them. Awesome

    • @Cash.mir.99
      @Cash.mir.99 2 года назад +3

      Preach sis.🙏🏽

    • @geenelldandridge8536
      @geenelldandridge8536 2 года назад +4

      Yes we does I made a lot of mistakes in my past I don't regret anything I went through it made the woman I'm today

    • @Handsfreeff
      @Handsfreeff 2 года назад +1

      @Niyah _stowes really doing that for views clown 😁😁😎

    • @kareamamyers6273
      @kareamamyers6273 2 года назад +1

      Preach!!!

    • @salonahbaddie2360
      @salonahbaddie2360 2 года назад

      Kentrell was the best decision she made

  • @blondien6072
    @blondien6072 2 года назад +856

    Watching this documentary about your life made us understand you better. We are proud of you, you have gone through so much pain and hurt. Which leads you to become the strong lady that you are. Keep thriving and do your best .

    • @Dolerso
      @Dolerso 2 года назад +5

      I feel that she should do more story times.

    • @QueenLadyQ
      @QueenLadyQ 2 года назад +3

      Poverty in black America is real that's why it's important to understand what we are really up against. TD HIP HOP MEDIA TV videos along with Yvette Carnell and Tonetalks

    • @blondien6072
      @blondien6072 2 года назад +1

      @@Dolerso exactly

    • @blondien6072
      @blondien6072 2 года назад +1

      @@QueenLadyQ exactly

  • @shythecreator2001
    @shythecreator2001 2 года назад +543

    I love how realistic she is she’s able to admit she was wilding she’s made mistakes but she’s letting us know that them mistakes do not define her as a person I love it I love it ❣️

  • @BoujeeBrat.T
    @BoujeeBrat.T 2 года назад +308

    If you knew Jania before she gotten this far you’ll really understand ha development and progress I’m so happy to see her mentally,physically, emotionally happy we love you Jania

    • @donnapindell5419
      @donnapindell5419 2 года назад +1

      Me Tooo❤️❤️🌺💐🌷🌹🌹🌹

  • @robynogburn9632
    @robynogburn9632 2 года назад +168

    There has always has been something special about Nene....a certain spark or light that was waiting to shine. She is finally shining.

    • @ksh4657
      @ksh4657 2 года назад +7

      She is very special. I think its because of grandma. Grandmas give us a spark 😉

    • @robynogburn9632
      @robynogburn9632 2 года назад +2

      @@ksh4657 I agree!

    • @TheHoodHippi
      @TheHoodHippi 2 года назад +2

      Agreed !! Chosen

    • @godsgirl7201
      @godsgirl7201 2 года назад +1

      God

  • @robynogburn9632
    @robynogburn9632 2 года назад +84

    I love how when the young girl took a picture with her and gave her the compliment "You're so pretty" Nene said
    " thank you you are too"....thats Nene a genuinely sweet person.

  • @missrfabulousx
    @missrfabulousx 2 года назад +333

    I respect her so much
    honesty when Jania spoke about friends hit me hard. So proud of you. Your beautiful and your good on your own you got this sis not everyone loves you for you kacey is a lucky kid ❤️🌸

    • @chytown74
      @chytown74 2 года назад +8

      Definitely respect her a lot more after watching this...

    • @rekitanelson5053
      @rekitanelson5053 2 года назад

      Time stamp ?

  • @naimajordan3108
    @naimajordan3108 2 года назад +65

    The way she smile when she talk about kentrell 💙😘🥰

  • @EverythingWithToshaK
    @EverythingWithToshaK 2 года назад +553

    I found her and started following her when she was pregnant it was so messed up that she did not get to enjoy her pregnancy because of what was going on so I’m super happy for her. It was like watching a little sister go through life. I was one of the ones who left a few msg in her inbox for encouragement! 🙌🏽 But I love when she does this type of content, the growth good and bad. I’m all in, tuned in mann! Let’s go NeNe!💯❤️

    • @gickenjel35
      @gickenjel35 2 года назад +23

      @Niyah _stowes don’t play like that bitchh

    • @latoya278
      @latoya278 2 года назад +2

      @@gickenjel35 that part!!!

    • @kaylatucker3245
      @kaylatucker3245 2 года назад +1

      I did that same thing! She really blossomed 🌹🌹 She was strong when she was with NBA YB but she’s stronger now like watching this docu-series on her life is everything ❤️❤️

    • @dasiagraves1050
      @dasiagraves1050 2 года назад

      I really never judged her I see what she has been through and went through I feel like her being an influencer Is incredible she's a nice person helping people is amazing

  • @simplyshay4066
    @simplyshay4066 2 года назад +79

    Omg her personal life so relatable,her story a true testimony of overcoming adversity.Her brand seem about rediscovering/discovery who you truly are and embracing it,love how she use her platform to motivate others.She’s been inspiration✨💜

  • @teyannasoraw
    @teyannasoraw 2 года назад +385

    Love how you’re trying to show the world YOU, we support you sis 💕

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay 2 года назад +42

    5:09-6:04
    Shout out to Lulu!! I love it. Sounds like my grandmother. She taught me how to cook, she taught me to go to church, she told me to have life insurance, read the Bible, women are supposed to be clean, how to be a mother, how to respect myself, how to be family-oriented, keep women away from the man you love, and everything else it takes to be a woman. I love you maw maw.

  • @Envylilsin
    @Envylilsin 2 года назад +105

    Jania is really a sweet person like literally beautiful inside and out
    And she’s very humble…which is why most people don’t like her💯.

  • @janiyasimmons325
    @janiyasimmons325 2 года назад +64

    love how you was showing the world that you not they person they think you is you are a good mother and i good person and alot of people look up to you love u nene

  • @evemae8753
    @evemae8753 2 года назад +28

    Definitely broke down when you started to tell how your lulu treated you, my grandma treated me the same exact way, washed clothes, food ready when I got off the bus,everything, man its something about a southern woman love.

  • @hunterbelinda99
    @hunterbelinda99 2 года назад +157

    The way she grins while talking about Kentrell you can tell that she still loves him its just her growth and his failure to do so is keeping them apart.

    • @kisean3453
      @kisean3453 2 года назад +14

      Yb loves her stop the cap

    • @jaylajackson8449
      @jaylajackson8449 2 года назад +16

      @@kisean3453 I feel like they are soulmates but both of them trying to find love from different people.

    • @mikahsmith646
      @mikahsmith646 2 года назад +16

      @@jaylajackson8449 soulmate’s don’t beat on each other

    • @jaylajackson8449
      @jaylajackson8449 2 года назад +5

      @@mikahsmith646 lol you have a lot of soulmates who cheat on each other to but y’all don’t wanna talk about that shut up.

    • @lateshiabrooks2180
      @lateshiabrooks2180 2 года назад +3

      @@mikahsmith646 humans don't seem to understand that!

  • @prettygyrlny7115
    @prettygyrlny7115 2 года назад +48

    I don't care what anyone says its you who took a situation and ran with it its you Jania who made yourself a Brand & Business woman and im loving it !!💯😘

  • @magicalleeness7068
    @magicalleeness7068 2 года назад +45

    The growth speaks volumes! 🗣 she’s definitely matured a lot. Not to mention she’s comfortable with herself enough to speak on her & kentrell now, I love this💕

  • @sheformea11
    @sheformea11 2 года назад +50

    I know your grandma would be so so sooo proud of the woman your becoming. Be bless!!

  • @Lele-kv2gk
    @Lele-kv2gk 2 года назад +140

    They say “when a women has a son, it’s because she needs to love and be loved.”
    I’m sooo happy you’re growing and learning to love yourself ❤️❤️

    • @sconiproduction4349
      @sconiproduction4349 2 года назад +2

      Maybe but that sh** is not the same as intimacy

    • @Lele-kv2gk
      @Lele-kv2gk 2 года назад +8

      @@sconiproduction4349 well obviously its NOT the same. U wouldn’t be intimate with your child!! The theory is for females who lack their dad attention and love so we end up having a son because some females need that male love. Boys LOVE their mothers. Thats all some females need. Not necessarily intimacy, just someone who would need our love and attention forever. Havin kids make most females go HARDER!! Hell, sometimes even teaches them how to love themselves and another person unconditionally

    • @thanksmaddytv815
      @thanksmaddytv815 2 года назад +5

      @@Lele-kv2gk this is a sick theory. Your children are your children. They are not to make you feel whole. You make them whole by being whole before you conceive.

    • @love_ricaxoxo2887
      @love_ricaxoxo2887 2 года назад +4

      @@thanksmaddytv815 These kids be reciting memes and tik toks like they just said something so profound. They don’t even realize the toxicity in their regurgitated theories smh lol. 🥴🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ashaimoore
    @ashaimoore 2 года назад +249

    I love this documentary because she let us in her life as her supporters to let us know she was once just like us not in the eye of the public and she just like us and she come from a struggle to and she only human and she makes mistakes too and I’m happy you guys planned the baby he so handsome I really love how she was able to relate 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍

  • @calliewade6496
    @calliewade6496 2 года назад +128

    Not Nene having me cry within the first minute. 🥺 This was so beautiful. You growth has been a joy to watch. We love you!!! 🖤

  • @drekatofine
    @drekatofine 2 года назад +77

    This had me almost in tears! I’m also a only child and can relate to some of your situations, this made me love you even more, so proud of you and your growth keep going girl!

  • @sonjimarie1466
    @sonjimarie1466 2 года назад +133

    “I cling onto people” I felt that! I be wanting to keep the same people around me! The daddy issues as well because you just feel that void, but I’m glad you’ve become more mature! Keep pushing love!

  • @sinleshay8577
    @sinleshay8577 2 года назад +27

    Mannn When She Started Talkin Bout Her Grandmother I Cried With Her Cause I Understand Her Pain & Reminiscing About Life As A Kid 😭❤️💯

  • @DominiqueCamilla1
    @DominiqueCamilla1 2 года назад +107

    Omggg Jania me just watching this I see how far you’ve grown!!! You are so mature and have truly stepped into your womanhood! Don’t ever let anyone keep you from speaking your truth! Good and bad, you’re being so raw and honest and growing is a beautiful thing❤️ you really were #1 but you still moved on gracefully! I love you 10x more for this! Keep going baby🦋

  • @skivo3436
    @skivo3436 2 года назад +107

    Baby Kacey Is An Amazing Child 👶🏿, and the both of you are amazing parents ☮️🗣♾

  • @memyselfandi3024
    @memyselfandi3024 2 года назад +43

    I love how you speak on your LuLu I was to raised by my Gma and recently lost her in September of this year, I’m a grown woman let’s just say my oldest son will be 22 in February & you had me in tears just thinking about how I was raised and you named everything my Gma did for me that your LuLu did for you, keep that with you and continue to give that same love to your son ,

  • @KahniyaCooks
    @KahniyaCooks 2 года назад +67

    “He healeth the broken in heart , and bindeth up their wounds.” Pslam 147:3 KJV
    God is a merciful forgiving God , whom will heal anybodys “pain” or hurt” when you turn to him and turn from your wicked ways!
    Blessings to you Jania ❤️🙏🏽

    • @KahniyaCooks
      @KahniyaCooks 2 года назад +3

      I lost my dad at 5 , watched my mom get abused by my step dad all my childhood , and used to get mentally abused by my mom growing up …. Got touched on as a little girl and everything BUT GOD ! And the power of forgiving those people and letting go of all that hurt means way more to the LORD 🙏🏽

  • @ShettaaaaB.
    @ShettaaaaB. 2 года назад +6

    Her personality is GOLDEN ✨ she can literally walk into a room and you can just feel her energy I imagine..and her voice is calming and warm 🥺 Love you Jania,so happy and proud of you 🙏🏽❤️

  • @1siyah50
    @1siyah50 2 года назад +133

    Jania i wanted to cry throughout this whole thing so many times omg

    • @paigesanders5624
      @paigesanders5624 2 года назад +7

      I legit was crying damn near the hole thing, I would stop and then it would start again. Girl u shoulda just let it out 🤣😂

    • @shonyross410
      @shonyross410 2 года назад +3

      You too?! 🥴🥺

  • @kiyaalei
    @kiyaalei 2 года назад +30

    I love seeing this jania , especially when she told the part with kentrell that was a fun moment in her life but what her goals are now is good!! 💘 dis made me cry 🥺 .

  • @latoriajackson1961
    @latoriajackson1961 2 года назад +31

    I’m so proud she made it. She deserves all the happiness in the world

  • @patriciag5019
    @patriciag5019 2 года назад +20

    This entire video had me smiling and being so proud she got to where she is now. I’ve been there with her since long time ago when I first heard about her through the blogs. I’m so proud of where she is now and proud of how far she’s come. Keep doing you 👏🏼

  • @capreicewilliams6613
    @capreicewilliams6613 2 года назад +127

    So proud of you Jania baby. Continue to grow into a beautiful woman and mother that you are. I loved how strong of a person your are. You had me in 😭… Can’t wait for part 2!!

  • @biaswrld6303
    @biaswrld6303 2 года назад +14

    Y’all can see she still have that love for him but their own person doing their own thing 🥺💚 love them both 💯

  • @officialfabiohart
    @officialfabiohart 2 года назад +112

    I MISS HER AND KENTRELL TO TOGETHER. I REMEMBER HER BEING AT THE SHOWS. HE WAS SO HAPPY WITH HER. HE ALSO WASN'T GETTING IN TROUBLE TO MUCH, WHEN THEY WAS IN TOGETHER. I HOPE ONE DAY THEY WILL BACK TOGETHER.I HEARD HE WANT 1 MORE BABY. I HOPE IT'S WITH JANIA.

  • @xodierra
    @xodierra 2 года назад +23

    Jania has such a genuine aura about her. It doesn’t matter who her ex’s deal with after her. They just don’t have that special thing about them. #Capricorn

  • @aaliyahkeashawn5217
    @aaliyahkeashawn5217 2 года назад +37

    i love this new person she has become so humble , so uplifting , so positive you have came a long away accepting everything for what it really is it’s grown & i love that for her 💕💕💕

  • @iyannaaliyah1617
    @iyannaaliyah1617 2 года назад +57

    You came along way im beyond proud of you!!! You can tell she still love kentrell the way she talking about him😩💜

    • @alwayskourt
      @alwayskourt 2 года назад +4

      Yes lol. She definitely loves that man 😩

    • @alwayskourt
      @alwayskourt 2 года назад +4

      Her cheeks stayed high the entire time she was talking about him.

  • @sagittariusbeauty
    @sagittariusbeauty 2 года назад +113

    Jania I'm loving these videos of showing the real you, so much depth 🧡

  • @moneyheddplugster1269
    @moneyheddplugster1269 2 года назад +21

    It's crazy how some may call it God turned your story and pain into a ministry for young people all over... coming from a young king from Houston's Northside I must say this docu-series it's pure motivation

  • @zxxsilvadollaxxz
    @zxxsilvadollaxxz 2 года назад +21

    She reminds me of myself when I was younger, I got pregnant at 19 and was raised by my grandma who is no longer here. Makes me really like her even more. Wow that was beautiful!

  • @thats.jasminejones
    @thats.jasminejones 2 года назад +21

    This has my emotions all over the place. Girl Jania I love you so much. I never judged you through all your decisions because we are all human and we all make mistakes that helps us learn and builds character. You been pressure even through your storms and I’m sure most of us could see it. Keep striving and being the best you can be. God has his hands on you. You rockin and I’m rollin with you fasho. You’ll always have my support. I love to see you win. Keep inspiring us my gworl. 💕💕💕🙏🏾

  • @aquariusvibes2445
    @aquariusvibes2445 2 года назад +260

    Opening up like this had to be a big step for you I'm so proud of you jania girl keep it going

  • @lifeofmariah9257
    @lifeofmariah9257 2 года назад +21

    Literally watched Jania bloom from a young girl crazy in love, to a beautiful strong independent loving mother 🥲💞 love you girly, stay strong love!! 💕💕

  • @Ari5star
    @Ari5star 2 года назад +28

    She finally opened up to us about her that’s real I respect nene

  • @Dollhousebarb
    @Dollhousebarb 2 года назад +38

    I Frl wanna see more docu series of other influencers like Jayda & ari because honestly watching this goes to show you know theirs a lot of stuff going on in these influencers lives & their regular people just like us I wish the best for you jania Frl frl you deserve the best 🙏🏽💓

  • @Dionne25
    @Dionne25 2 года назад +177

    It's not where you come from, it's where you're headed. Keep progressing & reap all the benefits of this thing called life! You're destined for greatness 💞

  • @DollFaceBri
    @DollFaceBri 2 года назад +32

    You’ve definitely grown a lot baby girl! Your beautiful and a great mother. It’s ok to cry and be vulnerable at times. When I’ve been through a lot you start to learn from everything you’ve done and it’s makes u stronger and more responsible and your eyes and ears are open and your mental is aware. I can’t wait for part 2. Beautiful soul.

  • @paigesanders5624
    @paigesanders5624 2 года назад +79

    Wow, I wasn’t expecting this to be so emotional, raw and uncut!. The growth is amazing I loved it Jania. 🥺💕

  • @laurenmarie8579
    @laurenmarie8579 2 года назад +11

    I love your growth. I love how transparent you were during this video especially when you mentioned the part about spending. You acknowledge your mistakes, but you keep pushing and I admire that 💙

  • @Xxxxx386
    @Xxxxx386 2 года назад +11

    I loved this and can tell it’s still love for kentrell just the way how she was talking

  • @crystalkerstal
    @crystalkerstal 2 года назад +34

    It’s nice to see a personal side of an influencer. Because a lot of what we see is mere speculation and everyone trying to piece things together to make sense. This is very refreshing💚

  • @justtfabb1
    @justtfabb1 2 года назад +39

    This was so emotional but definitely growth Jania so proud of you and love this journey for you 🤍.

  • @Jazzy.Family91
    @Jazzy.Family91 2 года назад +17

    Your bullies can be your friends and I’m glad she said it I tell my daughter this all the time ❤️

  • @euniquenecole2821
    @euniquenecole2821 2 года назад +7

    The way she lit up when she started talking about her mom and her Lulu 🥰❣️2:50

  • @dezzyduke6963
    @dezzyduke6963 2 года назад +15

    I actually really loved this, I got ready eyed when she told us about her gma and talked about her son

  • @heavenlymcway6516
    @heavenlymcway6516 2 года назад +40

    As a single mom I definitely felt this so much ! You have matured so much ! A kid will definitely change you for the better 💯

  • @brianal846
    @brianal846 2 года назад +10

    being here in this present moment to see u from when u were transitioning you’re career to now u are such an inspiration to the people who care that are your supporters. We’re all human and move on when everything hurts inside and cant put it in words. We get up one day ready for change if anyone out there is alone and is scared there is nothing wrong. Life is just taking its course. Better days ahead, We got this! I love this only 7mins in.

  • @Justinotw872
    @Justinotw872 2 года назад +25

    I love you Jenny you're from keeping it real and letting everyone know who you really are and not hiding it and having no consequences about what these people say about you

  • @TheeincredibleDaisia
    @TheeincredibleDaisia 2 года назад +10

    You’ve grown so much and you’re still growing and we all see that❤️ I’m sure your grandma would be so proud of the woman you’re becoming. Your past doesn’t define who you are today

  • @vaseanwrld4066
    @vaseanwrld4066 2 года назад +52

    This was a really good video can't wait to see part 2 also the part where you got a motional baby girl it's okay to cry sometimes sometimes you just need to release of your emotions in due time you'll be okay❤❤❤

  • @veeyoung9694
    @veeyoung9694 2 года назад +17

    Aww jania I'm so sorry about your grandmother passed, your strong thinking about somethings that make you emotional, keep pushin 😭😘😘

  • @lifeofkyah7489
    @lifeofkyah7489 2 года назад +23

    Make episodes I wanna see how far u came please u inspire me so much 🥺 u teach me to keep going even if ppl bring you down🤍we support you

  • @tareal
    @tareal 2 года назад +36

    15:00 and 22:30 she talks about leaving and staying out stressing her mom out, being wild, giving moms a hard time. I feel that. We all done been a teen. Some females did not have strict parents they were allowed to do these things , some did and some was rebellious (like me) some was patient . At them ages a lot of teens didn’t really look at what we were doing, they just wanted to enjoy their life and be in control of things. Being able to understand, take accountability and acknowledge that. That’s growth 👏🏽❤️

    • @itzjess88
      @itzjess88 2 года назад +1

      I'm definitely learning first hand now. My 13 year old snuck.off and I couldn't find her. My dad raised me but he was always at work.and I would disappear for days smh. I called him crying and he said well now you know how I felt huh? Now get up and let's go find my grand baby. I'm not ready for this bs. I'm a recovering addict and the stress is driving me crazy. I don't want to stop her from going places but im so scsred someone will rape or hurt her like what happened to me. I was almost shot several times sneaking out tryna ve grown. Doing drugs. Having sex. It was a hot ass mess and I can't imagine my baby doing it. Maybe this is my karma.

    • @tareal
      @tareal 2 года назад +2

      @@itzjess88 BE STRONG MOM. Get some therapy for your mental health. And teach her. It’s better to be safe than sorry. Once a female starts going out , dating boys, partying they should know how to protect themselves and defend themselves. It’s better to be safe than sorry. I think you should try to get an understanding of her first. Find out where her head is at, what does she expects from you as her mother, her peers, people in her life and what does she expects from the way she is moving. Let her know what she’s risking. Get the support of family members like her aunt or uncle to be advisors in her life. A man would be better teaching a female about males, how they think what they do , what they can do, and how to defend themselves against a male. If not maybe boxing or self defense class. Teach her about self respect how she’s disrespecting you, the family or household. Teach her about the importance of having morals, standards and boundaries and what it saves her from. Teach her about humbleness. Teach her about discernment. Teach her about peer pressure, how to say no and stand on her word. Teach her about what a true friend is, what they do, what it looks like. Tell her what you expect from her and how you would like for her to carry herself and grow up. If you decide to show her tough love and allow allow her to make her own decisions. Set some grounds with her and let her know what will happen if she disobeys. Teach her about the importance of safe sex, what happens if you don’t practice safe sex (stds and babies). Even tell her stories. What to watch out for, show her what things look like and what can happen. (Bring her around someone you know what a similar story or background, make a Powerpoint with pictures, watch movies about specific topics and ask her what she thinks , get her point of view and give her your perception. If you can’t get her to stop doing drugs, teach her what to look out for, what to pass on, maybe even teach her how it is important to not use or buy drugs from any and everyone and where she shouldn’t do drugs at. Let her know about being laced and poisoned drugged up addiction rehab and jail time. Show her what it’s like . Take her on a trip. Teach her to always pay attention to her surroundings. Let her know how 1 bad or wrong move could change her whole life. If you believe in a higher power pray for her and get her on board. A teen that’s leaving out the house should always have a phone, make sure her portable charger power bank is charge up, maybe a backup phone such as a government phone (they are free). Get her a self defense keychain it has pepper spray, taster, dagger, etc and teach her know how to use it and when she should use it. There is SOS on iPhones and set up where you call the police and it automatically notifies emergency contacts and shares location.

    • @tareal
      @tareal 2 года назад +1

      @@itzjess88 better yet redirect her by showing her what all she could be and what all she could do. Help her find her passion. Show her something that’s better than drugs, sex, boys, and partying. Help her focus on what’s important.

    • @rochellebaptist794
      @rochellebaptist794 2 года назад +2

      @@tareal All of that as you covered EVERYTHING and then some 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @caribbeancutiee8543
    @caribbeancutiee8543 2 года назад +7

    The way she talked about Kentrell .She was really in love .😍🥺

  • @yourstrulytron3222
    @yourstrulytron3222 2 года назад +16

    I miss my Grandmother too.Talking to the girls and letting them know that all is not what it appears to be when it comes to fame was so important,and i hope they received that from you being you are living that lifestyle and have experienced the good and bad that comes along with it.Growth is a beautiful thing.

  • @nenedadonn5033
    @nenedadonn5033 2 года назад +49

    I ain’t gone lie looking at this video was so emotional but I really like the person u became Jania much love 💕

  • @prettyass.q5918
    @prettyass.q5918 2 года назад +2

    “ you’re so pretty “
    “ thank you, your are too “ - a beautiful soul 💕

  • @jaiiaalexiac
    @jaiiaalexiac 2 года назад +18

    I love her 🥺 & her mindset ❤️!!

  • @giastine5554
    @giastine5554 2 года назад +10

    This was a very smart move… jania is a lot smarter then most thought !! Great way to rebrand … God bless her 🙏🥰

  • @EstGem
    @EstGem 2 года назад +8

    This was so refreshing it’s like I can honestly say this is pure Jania no filter.

  • @breezytalks1013
    @breezytalks1013 2 года назад +10

    I love the fact that you have grown so much over the years. I have been watching you for a long time now. It’s ONLY UP FROM HERE BABY GIRL 💕

  • @imjustheretocomment7598
    @imjustheretocomment7598 2 года назад +15

    Jesus Jania, your growth brought me to tears!!! So proud of you my girl!

  • @Ummmidk243
    @Ummmidk243 2 года назад +15

    Jania making me cry 😭 when she was talking about her lulu

    • @Ummmidk243
      @Ummmidk243 2 года назад

      I had to rewatch this 😩 and cried every time so proud you bby🫶🏾

  • @jaydagochnour
    @jaydagochnour 2 года назад +15

    I love you Nene !!! I love your glow up. I’m a grown women and watched you from the beginning til now & I must say you really grew up. Ignore all the bs and stay in your bag. Your definitely a likable person & got the followers! Keep doing what your doing! You’ve always been my favorite! Kacey is so handsome & your a great mother. Good luck with everything! The world is yours .

  • @xSoSurreal
    @xSoSurreal 2 года назад +18

    Yessss. H-Town 🤘🏾🤘🏾. Jania you have grown so much and you are a great mother. I wish the best for you! Keep it up!
    -You speaking about your grandmother made me cry. I lost my grandmother, my Nanny, in September of this year and when I say that woman was my ROCK! She was my ROCK! She practically raised my sister and I as well. She was the definition of a beautiful, driven, hardworking, feminine woman and she taught me a lot as well! Cry if you need to but remember, your Lulu is looking down on you, her beautiful granddaughter just as proud as ever!

  • @melaninbody555
    @melaninbody555 2 года назад +9

    i felt it all. Lulu would be proud of you shes looking down on you. shes all around you. keep pushing. keep going. you can do it. xx and yesss with my little man too im always watching him tuff just so nothing happends to him.. crazyyy anxietyy. our micro humans are our everything!! I get youuu!!

  • @shanellsmith3293
    @shanellsmith3293 2 года назад +46

    Well said Jania so proud of you! You’re maturity the women you are becoming is amazing. We see you beautiful 🥰 We love you

  • @allureexotica2824
    @allureexotica2824 2 года назад +38

    Aww Jania. Keep growing I love to meet you. Have you ever thought about doing meet & greets and women workshops that gives advice on how to handle the ongoing pressure of being a public figure. Thanks hunny 😊

  • @ashleyparker7553
    @ashleyparker7553 2 года назад +9

    It’s so good to see this side of you, the other side is fun and we love you but to hear more about you and get to feel like we there talking to you. You got this girl, we live and we learn!! You go through it and grow through it. ❤️🤞🙏🏽

  • @LakeithaShunta
    @LakeithaShunta 2 года назад +6

    I love this video it had me so emotional especially when she start talking about her and Kentrell ❤️ I really do miss them together… and he do seem like he was so happy with her. Not like many baby moms she had nothing but positive things to say. Even tho they are no longer together the good do seems like they overplayed them bad. He just blew up ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shannyb4518
    @shannyb4518 2 года назад +1

    It's so amazing to see the level of maturity and growth that has taken place in their young Sister's life!!!So happy that she has evolved into a beautiful woman.

  • @mahamadz
    @mahamadz 2 года назад +26

    I’m so proud of you nene you have come a long way🥺🥰

  • @leslew4
    @leslew4 2 года назад +12

    I felt when you said, your friends were your bullies smh. I went through that as well, thank God for growth!

  • @lexissspeaks4337
    @lexissspeaks4337 2 года назад +3

    Watching this documentary is making me view you in a different light. Now I understand you better, I'm also 21 and it's hard to stay grounded especially with a child. Thank you for sharing your hardships

  • @lovelycece2573
    @lovelycece2573 2 года назад +14

    I was waiting for her growth we literally watch her make mistakes man I’m glad she learning ❤️
    Work hard while your young so you won’t have to work hard when your older .. that partying shi can wait period

    • @tymakaeli1480
      @tymakaeli1480 2 года назад

      And she will probably still make mistakes we all do but you can see she learning from them 😘😍🥰

  • @carlyshay1925
    @carlyshay1925 2 года назад +4

    I swear her and kentrell have grown I’m so proud of them ❤️❤️

  • @Diywithdez
    @Diywithdez 2 года назад +5

    She so 🔥🔥 Literally watched this girl grow into a beautiful mom and woman 💕

  • @KaeBrown
    @KaeBrown 2 года назад +8

    Soo proud of the growth you’ve achieved there’s a diff glow about you know and I love seeing it. Keep elevating and never stop being true to you.

  • @LalaSmiles
    @LalaSmiles 2 года назад +2

    Awwwww. I like that she talking to young girls 🥺💖 because people really look up to her. And telling her the truth like fame ain’t everything you think. Like she said famous with $10 and telling them to budget love that

  • @vibingwithzynasiah9501
    @vibingwithzynasiah9501 2 года назад +13

    I love how she drop videos back to back 😍

  • @marmmac7383
    @marmmac7383 2 года назад +14

    I’m tired of seeing the Jania other people wanna create. So excited to see and for you to show others the raw & real you 😍 boss mom

  • @Emmamaleee
    @Emmamaleee 2 года назад +14

    Love love love this version of Jania. Growth is a constant thing! 💕

  • @tiltuesday7667
    @tiltuesday7667 2 года назад +14

    Jania, so proud of you and the change that you made when you realized that party life and being on the seen everywhere AIN'T SHYT!!!! Stay awesome baby, kiss Kacey for me, I love him!