I feel you madam. 😭😭😭 Pumunta ako sa US 2 years ago. Sa unang taon ko dito wala akong work only my husband worked for both of us. Tapos may mga pamilya ako na hindi pa nga ako nakaka settle chat ng chat sakin manghiram pera at sumasakit puso ko sa bawat time na wala akong mapahiram kasi umaasa lang din ako that time sa hubby ko. Kaya bawat may makita akong dollars pag ginagawa ko laundry namin asawa ko iniipon ko just in case mangailangan pamilya ko may maipadala ko. Kahit mga plastic bottles and cans iniipon ko para lang maibenta at magkapera. After a year I applied for a job. And I am now working. Still not financially stable because we just bought a house, new car, and we do have a lot of bills na hindi maintindihan ng pamilya natin sa pinas. Though nung nagkawork nako dun ko na napapadalhan ng pera consistenly especially parents ko saka tatlo ko pang mga nakakabatang kapatid that still go to school. Then may mga kapatid din akong may mga asawa na na minsan sakin hihingi ng tulong ultimo pangpa anak nila sakin pa. At pag hindi mo napahiram dahil marami karing bills sasama loob at makakarinig ka pa ng masasakit na salita. Lagi lang ako kakamustahin pag may hihiraming pera na hindi naman babayaran (which is wala namang problema pag hindi na binayaran sakin) pero yung abuso na hindi na nagsisikap at aasa nalang sakin ay hindi ko na nakayanan. Dumating sa point na tiniis ko hindi pansinin mga chats nila na manghiram pera para naman magsikap sila gumawa ng paraan para sa mga problema nila kasi marami rin kaming problema mag asawa. Before my husband and I bought a house we were homeless for 3 weeks. Ngayon yung may mga married kong mga kapatid hindi nako pinapansin. I've tried to explain my situation here to them but instead of understanding me they got mad at me. I've received judgement instead of comfort from them. Now, I'm 14 weeks preggy and I have cut my ties with them. They have caused so much stress and negativity. I've realized family can be toxic. I've realized sometimes you need to set bounderies in your own family para hindi ka abusuhin. I've been there too madam. I have cried so many times. I got depression caused by my own family. I told them I'm preggy nobody was happy not even my parents. You know what they said when I told them I am pregnant? "OH WALA NANG SUSUPORTA SATIN" instead of "I'm so happy for you." None of them were happy that this time I chose myself. I am married for 5 years now and I've always wanted to be a mom. But I always hesitate to get pregnant because I was always thinking I need to help my family first in the Philippines. But it's hard to help people kung sila mismo hindi tinutulungan sarili nila. I am still consistently sending money for my parents and younger siblings but I have set my limit to my married siblings. It's hard to be a breadwinner. Thank you for this awareness madam. Hugs from California. 🤗
I feel you mam, Ived been here in us for 8 years but it will takes time to finally be settle here. Its takes and effort to grow here, you need to work out and forget to saved for yourself and enjoy your life. Its hard to be a breadwinner in the family but let them realized that life here in united states is not that easy. You have work hard to keep goin and lots of bills. Takecare!
Same here , ngaun limit narin me sa family q. Lalo na mag 3 na anak namin ng husband q. Nakka sawa cla minsan. Yung tatay q nga sabi q hndi na kmi makka bakasyon muna matagal Tagal pa, Ang sagot ng tatay q , kahit hndi ka umuwi Basta lang papadalhan mo lang kmi. See ! Mas mahal pa nila Ang pera kaysa sa anak nila ,hndi nila aq mahal, mahal lang nila aq pag nakkatanggap cla ng pera galing sakin. Sumasama loob q. Ang mga nararamdaman ninyu ay nararamdaman q rin.
Ako naman Madam 19 years sumusuporta sa pamilya. This year I finally come to term na "hindi masama maging madamot dahil kailangan din Ito sa peace of mind ko". I'm in 40s na,. kailangan ko namang isipin future or retirement ko. I done my best to helped them, they have to help themselves too. Parents ko nalang suportahan ko, enough is enough!!!
Chibay is one of my bestfrienddddd, sobrang hangaaaa talaga ko kay madam kung pano sya maghandle bilang mama kay chib, yung kahit may reason para magalit ng sobra si madam never nagalit ng sobra bagkus kinakausap ni madam ng maayos!!❤️
I feel you madam. I'm actually in the process of cutting ties with my own family. Naubos na lahat ng pagmamahal ko sa kanila, lumalapit lang sila sa akin kapag may pera ako. They only cause me stress and depression, nothing else.
Set boundaries. It's ok to say "No" to any requests. It's okay to let them work so they can achieve their own goals, pay for their on vacation, etc. And it's okay for OFWs to focus on their health and their happiness too. To pamper yourself kesa ibigay lahat sa kamaganak para may pang shopping sila or to go on a trip. Always take care of yourself. Help them stand on their feet so they won't have to depend on you for everything. Self reliance is key to your own success.
Tama po. Minsan tayo po ang pumipigil sa pag-asenso ng ating kapamilya kapag palagi pong bigay ng bigay. Isa pa po nakikita ng mga anak ang pagiging palaasa sa kapamilya ng magulang tuloy hindi rin po nagsisikap sa buhay.
Sabi nga wag mo yakapin Ang buong puno if ndi kaya.... that's the bad side of having an extension family. Bka magising kn n lng ubos kn at Wala Ng matira sayo kahit LAKAS. Sabi nga ni Lord turuan mo cla mangisda ndi ung ikaw mangingisda para sa kanila.
My mom currently felt right now. Shes forcing us( Fam) na panoorin tong vlog ni madam chaps, and after i heard her statement, this is what her situation to be for like decades also, because partial of my fam didn't realize what's be like OFW and a bread winner .....Cheers & biggest hug to all our fellow mom and belove who are apart away from us just to support what we needs.
Same here madam! Un simpleng "kamusta ka jan at magiingat ka" lang sapat na, pero di pa din nila magawa. Pero pag may kailangan sila mayat maya ang message at tawag. Minsan gugustuhin mo na silang sukuan at tiisin but in the end para sa kanila pa din ba't ka nagsisikap at di mo pa din sila matitiis. In times na pasuko ka na iisipin mo na lang talaga na God gives His toughest battle to His strongest soldiers and everything will be perfect in His time. Hugs madam!Fighting!
ahh.. the way michael cares for you.. nung tinanong ka nyang "are you okay" melts my heart.. 🥺🥺🥺 kung ako tinanung ng ganyan ng partner ko mag bebrake down talaga ko.. 😢😢 napaka swerte mo sa partner mo madam kilay.. virtual hugs for you.. keep safe always and keep healthy physically, emotional and spiritually. 🥰🥰 love lots! 😘😘😘
Ako din ramdam ko un napa iyak ako nung sinabi Nia are you okei then hinalikan k Nia sa noon . Ganyan din ako pag n iyak ako sa partner ko n pute n stress ako sa family ko .
I feel you Madam, kailangan e disiplina rin natin ang mga pamilya natin.. na remember ko tuloy ang true story na narinig ko sa program ng radio sa hk na may sakit na sya at gusto ng umuwi dahil may taning na... ang sagot ng pamilya sa kanya ay paano na kami...so sad d ba?wag natin silang gawing tamad at dependent...making strict din tayo when it comes sa money giving Madam...take good care sa sarili mo & God Bless you both ni Michael..❤️🙏
I understand how you feel beh! Whatever we do is never enough. There will come a point na mapapagof ka talaga. Specially if they don’t appreciate the hard work and effort you do. Parang obligasyon pa natin Mga anak lalo ba pag panganay ka. Also it’s more than ok to vent out. Kasi masakit sa loob yan pag Hindi nailabas
I'm praying for you madam. It's currently,3am in CA and I couldn't sleep so I came across your vlog. As a mother like you I understand and one thing I can say we don't stop being a mother even when our kids get older. You need to be careful with the depression and start taking care of yourself if you want to see your grandkids grow up. I learned the after I suffered a major stroke that left me paralyzed on my right side. I was hard working like you to provide the best for my family that I forgot about me. I love you and your beliefs. Stay humble with God's grace and mercy everything will be alright. I'll keep you in my prayers.🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
I feel you, madam. Naranasan ko yan. Yung parang sobrang pagod at emotionally drained kana. Minsan you will come to a point na tanungin ang sarili mo paano na kapag it's your turn na kailangan mo ng support sino sa kanila ang nandoon, hindi man material kahit man lang moral support. Ganyan naramdaman ko iyak lang ako ng iyak tapos parang pagod na pagod na. Basta stay strong...iiyak mo lang, and of course, nanjan si GOD and si Michael to be there for you.❤️
Financial problem kaya mo pang harapin ng nakangiti, pero ang emotional problem ang hirap talunin. Ang mga palatawa talaga, may mabigat na dinadala. Behind close doors, nawawala ang saya. Keep the faith. Mahirap sabihin na piliin maging masaya kasi araw2 ang laban. Basta laban lang po. Kaya NATIN toh♥️
Gravee, I feel you Madam. 🥺 I’m also a bread winner and I did my best as well to provide the needs of my family. Sad thing is even you did good things do them, you pay all the bills without complaining how much Will it cost, you bought groceries If you still have money left on you they can’t appreaciate you. And, the most sad thing that I experienced is when you buy things for yourself they will tell you something as if you don't deserve to buy it on your own. 🥺 Haysss! 😭 Lavaarn lang madam. I Love you! ❤️
It’s up to her she needs to teach them to get their own feet specially her kids not always open when it’s needed or emergency then that’s understandable, but don’t let them comfortably depend on you always think yourself we don’t know what’s gonna happen tomorrow we can’t tell our health when in needs but you’re family can’t help you.
I feel you Madam Kilay, very well said..Big respect to the Bread Winner of the family na palaging priority una ang pamilya.Someone who doesnt know how to say No most of the time. The one who had the most unavoidable responsibilities and obligations. As you said, marunong din mapagod, pero di susuko. I am single mom of 4 at nagiisang suporta ng pamilya ko. However, when my Dad passed away 3yrs ago. His last word stick in my mind " learning to love yourself, its the greatest love of all" love yourself...somehow, we need to prioritize ourself, our own needs that we set aside for a while because of family. To maintain our sanity, to be able to sustain all the needs of everyone. Cheer up Madam! Di ka nag iisa. Marami tayo❣
You did the right thing, to voice out your feelings, Madam Kilay. We OFWs have common problems. We cannot say no to them because of their situation in the Phil. but they don’t consider our situation here esp. if we are just an ordinary employee. Yes, jealousy and intrigues within the family that make us sad and angry, I could relate to that, and for sure most OFWs too. I reach out to people who can give me advise and comfort that helps ease the pain in my heart. Seek medical attention for your daughter, depression could be treated, i have a daughter with the same situation, good thing she is with me here in Canada. I shared this video for the awareness of relatives of OFWs in the Phils. Thanks for your video and praying for the early recovery of your daughter 🙏🙏🙏. God bless you always 🙏🙏🙏
Stay strong Madam! Isipin mo na lang yung mala Fairytale mong Lovelife with Michael. Excited na kami sa update ng Wedding after ng proposal sa Pinas. Expected ng mga fans tuloy tuloy na ang Team Micki. 💚💚💚
I feel you Madam kilay! Akala kc nila masarap ang buhay dito s America d porket nanditu tyu kala nila marami n tayung pera. Parang pilipinas din ditu kng d ka magtratrabaho wala kng kakainin.
You are soooo Brave to share this with us.You are the only vlogger I am fond of watching because you are authentic and genuine.In whatever trial you and your family is facing,remember that God loves you.Seek for his guidance,comfort.🙏🙏🙏
Madam Kilay... I can relate to you.. kahit Hindi Ako OFW, dito Ako ngayon sa Pilipinas... Tama ka nakakapagod dahil Hindi nila alam na inutang ko Ang binigay ko sa kanila. Ang masakit lang lalapit Sila pag nasa gipit pero kung Sila Ang may Pera, Wala Ako sa isip nila... Ni pangungumusta ok lang ba Ako. Walang kumustahan.. dba nakakapagod...
I just watched Ms. Kalad Karen's vlog with full of emotions, and here I am, tearing up because I just leave my family last day. It's hard when it comes to our family/loved ones. It'll completely destroy our hearts! Be strong Madam K. God is always with us😇🙏
Sending virtual hugs madam K... Ikaw ang naging boses ngaun sa nararamdaman ng kapwa natin ofw, realtalk sa pinaka-realtalk talaga... Laban lang lagi💪 God will always guide us. Keep spreading ur positiveness sa ibang pinanghihinaan ng loob.. Godbless you more madam K....
Pray Lang always Madam Kilay . God will heal us whatever we have in ourself . Everyone of us ay iba2x ang problems but vent out to God and talk to HIM. I’m an OFW as well for 9 yrs
Madam lavarn lang! Can completely relate to this dahil pareho tayo stado ng buhay. Nag migrate ako dito at the age of 14 (I’m 40 now) ako lang mag isa Dito sa Boston although May family ako sa California. Since pandemic I’ve developed depression which affected me in many different ways emotionally, mentally and physically. Until isang araw I broke down and got hysterical. As an introvert, I’ve learned to go directly to the source and talk to my family about what I was going through which helped a lot. Thank you for being vulnerable and showing us this side of you. You are courageous, strong and a fighter 💪🏼 lavarn Lang madam! Madami pa tayong kakaining bigas! Charrr ❤️
I feel you madam. Ganyan po talaga buhay. Partida nasa abroad and my business kapa nyan. Pano pa kaya kaming mga andto sa pinas na nagtyatyaga sa maliit na sahod sa kabila ng mataas na standard ng company. Minsan talaga we need time for ourselves. Na tayo naman muna bago sila. baka kasi sa sobrang effort naten sa pagpapasaya sa pamilya, nakalimutan na naten kung pano pasayahin yung sarili naten. I've been working almost half of my life and naexperience ko na rin po na hindi iappreciate at isantabi. Pero I kept that all feelings to myself. And hirap ng ang bigat ng dinadala, tapos wala man lang nagtatanong kung okay paba ako or kaya kopa ba. Pinapagpasa dyos ko nalang lahat at umaasang balangbaraw, bbgyan nya ko ng chance para sarili ko naman. Laban lang madam 💪
its true ramdam ko rin yan mam..kahit na sarili mo hindi mo naisip.may painagdadaanan din ako na hangang ngayon hindi paron tapps at ng uuimpisa palang..minsan naisip ko nlng mawala sa mundo para mawala lahat ng problema
Laban lang madam K♥️ natumbok mo lahat!👍🏻 Pagdating tlga sa family,walang hindi pwede. Pagdating nman sa ibang bagay na nagbibigay ng toxic I learn to let go nalang.Life must go on. Huwag sayangin ng dahil sa mga bagay na hindi makakatulong.Mas importante ang sampo kesa sa isa lang. God Bless✨
Laban lng madam life is to short gnyan tlaga ang buhay may pgsubok sa buhay ako nga single mother may tatlong ank laban lng plage madam habang may buhay may pag asa
Stay strong Po MADAM kilay. I've been there since last yr. Whole year I'm DEPRESSED. 7 months kinulong ko SARILI KO SA KWARTO KO MADAM KILAY. Kasi Hindi ako umiinom walang bisyo. Kaya ini iyak ko the whole 7 months. Kulong na kulong. Hindi halos naliligo. Sa Isang buwN parang 5 or 3 times ako nakakaligo. Wal g tulog KAHIT 3 days straight
I feel you. Depression is like a poison that will slowly destroy your life. I have been in the same boat but thanks God I was able to overcome it. Prayer helped me a lot. There were times that I was crying out loud in prayer and asking for help. But God heals. Speak with people around you and always surround your self with positive people.🙏
I feel you madam🥺 sending hug! Ofw feels like Lalo aq naiyak when Michael comfort you, thanks Michael for loving Madam K fully, stay strong to both of you💞💞💞 God bless you more Madam K
Stay strong madam kilay... Grabe iyak ko dto sa vedio mo😭😭😭😭 sobrang relate ako sa lahat ng mga sinabi mo po😭😭 kc isa rin akong breadwinner sa pamilya..bilang isang ofw mahirap pero kilangan maging matatag para sa pamilya 😭😭😭 basta lagi lng tayo bigyan ng lakas at tatag ng loob..Godbless sa lahat ng mga breadwinners ofw at mga taong kinakaya para sa pamilya...
Lahat ng sinabe mo Madam K ay totoo! Hindi tumatae ng pera ang mga OFW! At hindi lage dapat naasa ang kamaganak sa mga OFW! At lalong lalo na ang Depression ay hindi biro! Praying for your daughter Madam! She will be okay.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Through prayers po guidance kay Lord malayo man kayo sa mga anak nyo Madam Kilay... I salute all OFW's with all their sacrifices for their families... Matthew 11:28-30 Our God is a gracious God, our God can do healing He is out Healer and Provider. May God gives you strength and Bless you as well as your families. 😍😍😍
Very related Madam Kilay as an OFW.. Nakakatouch.. Naiyak namn aq. It's all true. Laban lang tayo. Mas mahirap ang problema ang emotions kaysa sa pera. Cheer Madam. Watching u.. All the way here Jeddah KSA.
I feel u madam ako almost 6yrs nag ofw pero Wala man lng ako naipon kasi lahat bigay ko sa kanila pero ngayon di na ako nakakatulong kasi nagasawa na ako nafeelko nag iba narin sila di narin makausap lagi busy samantalng dati Lagi chat chat ngayon kung di pa mangumusta di ka pa maalala
Real talk Filipino mentality It doesn’t matter how much expensive or how much money or pasalubong you share to your close family either brother sister ka mag anak when you don’t have things for them your nothing When you post something nice things expensive stuff you won’t get respond. I’m get to the point distance my self my close family I can’t share to my husband I feel that way. But at the end I still send balikbayan box
Just pray madam kilay mabuti andyan si michael na sobrang nagmamahal sa yo importante youre both happy at nakita mo na ginawa muna lahat pra sa pamilya mo you will be bless by God
Relate ako dyan kabayan..I did well for my sibling and niece and nephew..eventhough kahit kape wala nag offer. everytime bakasyon ako.i have to learn to distance myself to them..why? Mga selfish tangna..kahit ano pa ibigay mo no appreciation..n9w bahala sila sa buhay nila..
@@rowenaczubek6641 i agree with you.Kaya ako hinde nagbabakasyon sa pinas importante sa knila dala mo at pera pag wala kang dala maka rinig ka pa ,na galing abroad walang dala.
Sending hugs and prayers for you and for your family🙏🙏🙏Stay strong Madam Kilay...Iiyak mo lng lahat sa Panginoon.. Salute po sa lahat ng ofw..God bless 😇 Stay safe always madam.. Sobrang bait mo po sa family mo sana marealize nila lahat ng sacrifices mo para sa kanila ...Laban lng Madam Kilay...
Hope you’re doing fine now Madam Kilay! You were one of my sources of entertainment when I was so down when I was reviewing for my boards (now i’m a licensed physician). I hope you get pass through this. It’s ok that you don’t vlog only happy stuff, mas maganda nga na we know anong pinagdadaanan mo. :)
Hi Madam. I'm one of your fan and it's hard to watch you crying but it's okay sometimes you need to voice out the pain para mabawasan yung dinadala. I've been diagnosed and suffering from major depression and anxiety disorder for almost 10 years now kaya I can say na it is really not a joke talaga to suffer with your own battle and sometimes yung stigma ang nagttrigger ng sakit dahil imbis na maunawaan nakuha pang i-judge at tawanan ng iba. Laban lang madam! And hoping for your daughter to feel better soon. ❤️❤️❤️
totoo yan madam kilay isa ako sa ofw na umuwing sawi, sobrang hirap sa ibang bansa lalo kapag DH halos walang tulog lalo kapag ramadan... lahat ng sahod papadala ko as in lahat, 2x akong nag abroad nung pangalawa na sa lola ko na ipinapadala yung sahod at thankful naman ako na kahit papaano may naipagawa sya at may naabutan ako sa pinaghirapan ko... May the Lord bless you more madam kilay and magpakatatag ka lalo ngayon dalawa na kayo... ingat palagi and God bless
Hindi ako sanay na umiyak sa content mo madam,nagkataon na positive ako ngayon sa covid at sa abroad pa kaya napaiyak ako now while watching this,cheer up lng po,lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang burdens in life at super relate ako sa buhay mo ..God will lift us up..never give up.
Be strong and look after yourself too. You are blessed you have Michael who seems to be very sweet and supportive. All of these will come to pass. Thank you for sharing with your viewers. I really hope that everything will be sorted out especially with your daughters. Take care.
That’s why dapat ibreak etong toxic trait ng mga Pinoy, yung sobrang tumulong to the point na nagiging abusado na ang mga pamilya at nagiging tamad. Walang masama sa tumulong pero kng tumutulong ka to the point nagiging tamad ang tinutulungan mo, yan ang masama! Nagiging sobrang dependent at mataas ang kompyansa na palaging ganyan ang buhay. Again, hnd masama ang tumulong, ang masama yung tinuturuan ang pamilya paano maging tamad at palaging umaasa sa OFW na myembro ng pamilya. All the best, Madam!!! “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30
I feel yo po Madam Kilay. Totoo lahat ang sinasabi mo. 15 years po ko OFW pero sobrang napagod isip at katawan ko.. nitong pandemic nagkaroon ako ng anxiety sa sobrang takot lungkot at pagod. Nagdecide akong mag for good, sabi ko health is more important than money..kailangan kong isipin ung sarili ko this time..ngayon po meron akong maliit na sari sari store.. awa ng dios dito ko kami nabubuhay mga magulang ko. Stay strong po. God bless
You've done more done enough Madam!.. been watching your videos since then, and honestly i really admire u, for loving your family so much and for being such a strong woman.. i admire how you've changed and how you succeed.. so sad seeing you cry, sending hugs madam💚
Virtual hugs to you Madam Kilay! I feel you. Ive once a breadwinner. Naranasan q dn mging OFW. Ginive up q ung own happiness q pra sa family q. Kht na nakakatulong na q, decision pa dn ng mama q sinusunod. Gang one day at age of 30, i fell inlove first bf, in just 4months i got pregnant. Natakot pa q aminin sa mama q kc madame pa q pangarap sa knila dpa natatapos ung bahay. Gang sa tinanggap nman nila. Kaso later on napansin q iba na rn ung nging treatment. Hndi katulad noon. Prang ngaun ang tingin nila kakompetensiya ung mga anak q. Am a single mother of 2 little boys. I gave up my career pra sa mga anak q. More than 3 years na q d ngwowork. Live selling pra kht pano mkasurvive. Hndi aq mkpgwork kc wala rn mag aalaga ng mga anak q. Ung mama mas focus xa sa mga alagang hayop kesa sa mga anak q. Masakit makarinig ng d maganda lalo pg nag aaway kme. Dun q lng naeexpress lahat ng mga hinaing q. Prang ending ako pa masama, ako pa ung prang walang kwenta at ako pa ung failure and disappointment dhil lng gnito na sitwasyon q. Anyway, up to now nilalabanan q ang stress, depression at anxiety q dhil my mga anak ako. Iiyak ky Lord, tpos okay na. Lahat Diyos ang nging sandigan q. Sa Kanya q lahat sinasabe while crying. Kaya tama MAPAPAGOD PERO DI SUSUKO. Godbless madam!
Hey sorry with all due respect. I'd rather not expect my parents to really be there to take care of my kids. They are NOT the parents of those kids. Right? You are. So it's your responsibility NOW. Maybe perhaps your parents are just disappointed on what you have become. Meaning me pangarap kc sila sayo nuon & they want you to really be successful kc pra sayo din nman un. Makapag asawa at magkaroon ng magandang buhay. It's not that they don't love you it's more on heartache coz they're seeing you like that now - nahihirapan. So let's not get too sensitive na pkiramdam mo they're not taking care of your sons that much or nag iba treatment sayo or whatever. Again they did not wish for that to happen to you. Right. Lahat ng yan bunga ng wrong choices MO. So instead of holding grudge to your parent's actuations hence rise above the occasion tutal ginusto mo yan eh... Db. Parents did their part to raise you. Graduate na sila jan. You helped them before yes kc un ay ikaw bilang anak na nagppasalamat. Eh pwede ka nmang hndi tumulong. Choice mo nman yun. Hndi nman obligation tlga ng anak tulungang pabalik ang magulang.... PERO dhil mabuti kang anak. Ginawa mo ang pagtulong dati because of LOVE. Ngyong feeling mo di ka nila tinutulangan. Di kaya dapat isipin mong nagkka edad na din sila na dpat ini enjoy na lng din nila "retirement" nila? Na hndi na din ganun kalakas mga katawan nila pra mag bantay pa ng mga batang maliliit db? Kaya please ponder on this po kc ang mga magulang iisa lng po sila. Pag nawala sila dun ka mag lolook back on how you treated or you felt bad at them whilst buhay pa.
@@SavedbyGrace43 u dnt know the whole story. But i respect ur opinion. 😊 just to clarify, I NEVER EXPECT MY PARENTS TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF MY KIDS. ano ba nman ung khit pano my CARE db???? Especially my mom! Do u get it? Also, KAYA NGA Q NGING BREADWINNER EH! AT THE AGE OF 30??? DONT U CONSIDER MYSELF AS SUCCESSFUL IN ANYWAY???? NAPAGTPOS Q MGA KAPATID Q. NKPGPATAYO AKO NG BAHAY AT PINUNO NG MGA APPLIANCES. HNDI AKO PARIWARA KC LATE NA Q LUMANDI 30 YEARS OLD. I HAD MY FIRST BORN 31 YEARS OLD.
I feel you madam. Almost 30yrs nag OFW si tatay ko ramdam na ramdam namin yung hirap nya sa saudi. Thankful lng kami kasi si mother ko sobrang responsable din na hndi nya sinayang yung lahat ng pinapadala at pinaghirapan ng tatay ko. 6 kami magkakapatid lahat kmi napagraduate nila ng college at nakapatayo sila ng bahay nila. Sa sobrang ayaw ng tatay ko na mag alala kami sknya hndi nya snsbi yung nrrmdaman nya sa abroad dumating yung time na tnwagan nalang kami ng katrabaho nya at nasa hospital na si tatay ko at nastroke:( thank god at may angel na sumubaybay kay tatay ko at napauwi si tatay ko samin at ngyon 70% nakarecover sya. Kaya dasal lang po madam kilay. Yun lang ang lagi nating kakampi. Godbless po madam kilay stay safe always! Saludo ako sa mga OFW na handang isakripisyo ang buhay nila para sa pamilya!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Praying for God's guidance, comfort and strength. Draw strength from the Lord Madam K He's the only one who knows everything deep within your heart ,your soul. Everyday always pray for God's protection for the kids. Napanood ko vlog ni Doc Will you need to say no sometimes sa emotional giving n tinatawag. Thank God khit ppno andyan si Michael for moral support. Be strong and trust God for every solution. He cares for you and the children.
Thank you for this vlog madam, I hope this will be an eye opener for the families sa pinas na hindi masyadong naappreciate ang mga breadwinner specially ofw..😌
Naka pa sakit nito bilang isang Ina na makita mong nagkakaganyan anak mo.grabi😭😭 I'm praying for you and you're whole family madam kilay. Everything will be okay sa tulong ni Lord. Pray Lang po tayo madam. God's give his hardest battle to his strongest soldier.🙏
Madam Kilay,kaya mo yan. Ang mga hard process ng buhay,may matutunan ka.At upang maging matatag ka at mabuting tao ka pa lalo. Patuloy ang pagdasal,lahat ng nangyayari may dahilan at solusyon. LOVE & LIGHT❤🙏GOD bless you and your family.
Iba Ang tingin Ng iba tao kapag sinabing "depression and Anxiety" until now nanjan ako.. may doctor ako and diagnosed ako as psychosomatic na Ang anxiety ko kaya nauuwi sa depression.. Hindi madali napaka hirap wla namang TAONG Gustong mapunta sa ganito sa ganitong sitwasyon but Meron katulad Namin Hindi lang kami Ang dumaranas Ng ganito.. kaya ung stigma sa ganitong sitwasyon Hindi tangap Ng Ibang tao para SAKANILA eh nag "IINARTE" ka na lang.. Yan Ang sad part sa ganitong kapansanan Hindi bukas Ang utak Ng iba sa pagtangap na mag nag e exist na ganito.. kaya pakatatag ka lang madam K kayanin Ng anak mo Yan kailangan Ang support group Lalo na Ng family Lalo na Ikaw mas maging open pa Ang communication at iparamdam din Ng kapatid ma kahit malayo SI mama at papa eh nandito lang ako sa tabi mo ate.. may god bless u and ur children madam🙏🙏
Hello Madam Kilay, Thank you for sharing this. People need to see more of this type of videos, so that others are aware too. I too have a daughter that git pregnant at the age of 17. It was a lot to go through especially with the family. My daughter went through a depression, even tried take her own life at one point. But I left everything to GOD. And let’s just say he answered all my prayers and now blessed us even more. So stay strong Madam, especially to your kids.💕💕💕
Yes madam. Pag nagsabay sabay talaga lahat mauubos ka. Tama yung ginagawa mo na nagta Timeout ka muna sa vlogging. Tama din na nilalabas mo lahat ng mabibigat sa'yo. Dapat din malaman nila lahat ng mga nagpapabigat sa'yo, you deseve to Choose yourself now more than them. Hope they will learn and understand you para isipin ka nman nila na kala nila lagi kang malakas. LABAN pa din tayo. ❤️ Good thing Michael is there genuinely loving you. Stay strong and choose to stay happy kayong 2 pa din. 🙂
I feel you madam. Mahirap minsan. Pag d kalang mag bigay ikaw pa masama. Masakit talaga pag ganyan d ma appreciate yung mga naitulong sa kanila. Lavan lang tayu mga breed winner. Ingat.
Same here... I helped my parents sent my brother to school helped my niece to accomplish something, helped my nephew . Now they are all done school I still have to help another brother that is married with one daughter that I am sill helping...It's unending sacrifices. Not all the time I am well!
Sus ang luha ko hndi ko mapigil.. Relate na relate ako madam.. Malalagpasan mo dahil mabuti kang tao..malinis ang puso mo.. Il pray for you..hndi mo ako kilala but lagi mo akong pina patawa sa mga vlog mo bilang dh dto sa Singapore malaking malaking bagay ang mapatawa mo kaming mga pagod physically emotionally and mentally. Mabuhay ka madam kilay!!!!. Kapit lang and wag mag sasawa mag dasal.. May dahilan ang lahat bakit nangyayari ang mga bagay sa buhay natin mabuti man o hndi mabuti..God bless you ang your family ...LABAN LANG!!
Real talk, giving what we got for the family kahit konti makapagshare, kahit wala matira sayo, wag ka na umarte jan Madame kilay😂"di ka special" sabi nga ni Nicole Hyala at Chris Tsuper, dami nakakarelate sayo!!!! 🥰🥰🥰virtual hugs🥰More than a million nagmamahal sayo at may Michael ka jan! 🥰🥰🥰 Mabuhay ang mga BreadWinner , Mabuhay ang OFW! 🎉🎉🎉 #StopAnxiety #StopDepression #Breadwinner #OFWareHEROes
Gnyan din ako madam kilay khit meron din akong problema hindi ko sinasabi sa knila khit wala ng matira sa akin basta mapasaya lng sila..ramdam kita madam kilay..god bless sayo at sa ating mga nandito sa ibang bnsa laban lng 😢🙏
Sabi nga nya di ba ngvvent lng xa , hindi xa ngddrama. That’s reality tlga s karamihan ng meron family n nsa abroad . Di nmn kelangan mging harsh s comment section. Masakit tanggapin ang problema n mhirap solusyonan ng kht anong materyal n bagay or pera besides hindi nya nksama mga anak nya for the sake of family, May mga bagay emotionally mbigat tlga dalhin . Kaya mo yan madam kilay I’ll include you in my prayers as well as ur family ❤️❤️❤️
Ay namis-interpret po ang comment ko!!!! 😅😅😅please I love Madame Kilay!!! The words came from Tambalan(basahin lahat and please interpret intelligently!) Hahahaha Pinoy talaga maka-comment agad!!!! 😅😅😅✌️✌️✌️ Share love and godvibes lang! ❤️
I feel you Madam Kilay, a simple “kamusta?” Is a big help. Pero wala magmemessege lang pag kailangan ng pera. Akala nila pag nasa abroad sarap buhay. Di nila alarm yung feeling madiscriminate, over work and magkasakit magisa. 😭💔
Sobrang relate ako, ang dami akong iyak, ngayon lang ako ng comment sa vlog mo madam kilay, sa dami ng vlog mo dito ako natamaam. Ang hirap kse breadwinner ka, akala nila marami kang pera,.Nakakastress tlaga pag sobrang nadodown ka sa sarili mo pero laban lang para sa buhay at sa pamilya😘🙏godbless you madam.
I feel you madam,hindi naman kc lahat ng OFW malaki ang kinikita,kala kc nila kapag nasa abroad ka,tumatae ka ng pera,kaya hingi lng ng hingi,pati sa pagpapackage inoobliga ka,ang sama pati buong brgy.gusto nila pasalubungan mo ..haisst
I feel what is feeling you madam kilay. Dapat yung tao tumutulong ginagawa nyo treasure o sana ay pahalagahan ang bawat sentebo binibigay. And always thankful what he/she did. Small thank you and kumusta is a big appreciate sa tao tumutulong
Be strong madam! Kaya natin ito💪Sa totoo lang madam Sobrang nakaka stress tlga kpg Ikaw lang inaasahan Tama lahat ng sinabi mo. Kaya nung d ko na kinaya, blocked ko lahat ng toxic sa buhay ko Kahit na kapatid at magulang ko. Pero Sabi ko sa sarili ko” D kasi sila matuto kung aasa na lang sila palagi sakin” Kailangan tlga matuto din sila kumilos Paano na kung Wala na ako. Na realized nila d palagi na aasa sakin, na mali ung palagi aasa na lang dba. Tao lang tayo napapagod. Pede tumulong ng konti Hindi lahat sasaluhin. Kailangan natin matutunan madam Paano natin sila tiisin at Tulungan natin sila matuto. Kaya minsan tlga tayo din ang May problema d natin sila matiis, Pero Kailngan! I thank God at ok na ako ngaun, at natuto nmn sila tlga. Alam nila kpg Puro problema sasabihin nila matik na blocked agad ulit.
I feel you madam.. As breadwinner, ginagawa mo nmn talaga lahat para sa family mo pero kahit anong effort mo hindi nla na appreciate. Hindi nla nakikita lahat ng mga ginagawa mo. Sinasabihan ka pa na sariling lng iniisip😭😭😭
Congrats! It takes humility para umiyak at aminin ang real situation. Lahat tayo may problema, iba't ibang klase nga lang depende sa capacity ng tao. Kahit gaano kalaki ang problema mo, kaya mo yan! hindi i-aallow ni Lord ang di natin kaya. may gusto lang si Lord ma "plantsa" or matama sa buhay mo para may real peace ang happiness ka deep within. at para din magiging productive, happy at may peace ang lahat ng family members. i feel inallow ito ni para gawa ka ng adjustment or changes para makaiwas sa mas malaking problema at stress and burn-out. these 2 can cause cardiac arrest kung pabayaan. malalampasan mo rin ang lahat. there' always sunshine after a storm. i agree sa sinabi mo about OFWs. Grabe ginagawa nila para sa pamilya. kaya ang prayer ko, wala ng ofw. na magiging blessed ang pinas at wala ng mag work sa abroad. sabi nga libre ang mangarap so gawin na nating mataas na pangarap, total libre. i lay-down mo sa paanan ni Lord ang lahat ng kabigatan mo. hindi Niya will na magpasan ka ng mabibigat na bagay for He cares for you. Hindi masama ang tumulong. in fact yon ang mission nating lahat --- to help others (family, friends, country, etc) but needs wisdom lang. may time kailangan magbigay ng isda at may time din na magturo paano mangisda. after this "storm" you will shine, mas malambot ang puso, mataas ang value (karats), mas matapang harapin ang challenges in life. Panalo si Lord sa buhay mo at talo ang enemy ni Lord na naging enemy rin nating lahat. i salute you sa pag iyak mo, sign yan ng bravery, humility at walang halong kayabangan. God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. He will lift you up. Kapit at laban lang. Gob bless you more!
Be strong and keep on praying. Your so blessed. Totoo hindi tayo nagtatae ng pera sometimes they think we are pick and pick only the money abroad. Hirap ng work natin. Limit your help to them not always. You need to teach them how to stand on their feet. Wag natin silang turuan maging tamad.. God bless keep it up..
Cheer up Madam K..when I was at your situation your vlogs made me happy behind pain..and now that you need someone to make you happy,OFW sending hugs.....#ofw
Surrender everything to God..let Him lead you through His great love, grace & understanding. Dahil ang Diyos hinding hindi ka niya iiwan at pababayaan. Remember the footprints in the sand, in every sorrow, grief, sadness there is only one pair of footprints in the sand because in all of the sorrow He carried/s you all those time. God bless Madam Kilay always trust in the Lord and everything will fall into place with His plans. ❤❤❤💐💐💐
Hi Madam Kilay ! Lahat ng pamilya May drama talaga. Salamat sa real talk na to. Sana matauhan na ang mga nagdulot sa’yo ng sama ng loob. We are here for you Madam Kilay. Sana gumaling na anak mo.
ang dami kong iyak habang pinanunuood ko tong video mo madam K! damang dama ko, relate na relate ako hahaha, OFW din ako lumalaban sa hamon nang buhay :)
Laban lang madam kilay.pray lang tiwala kay Lord maayos dn ang lahat.I pray na mka recover na ang anak mo at maayos na lahat ng problema mo in Jesus Name!🙏🙏🙏
Cheeeer up madam swerte ngapo ng family mo both side e☺ napaka bless nila sa.inyo samin nga.angat sila.at down kme ma's Dina.down pa🥺 kau po ay isa sa inspiration ko para mag sikap n di pa huli ang lahat kahit part ako ng LGBT go lang madam we love you❤❤❤ god bless po
Girl be strong,kaya mo yan! Ako nga girl hnggang ngayon tumutulong pa din sa pamilya,kahit na malapit na akong mmatay.. Stage 4 yung sakit ko na CKD,at nag-hhemo dialysis ako dito sa japan.. Kaya natin to girl,minsan tlga nkkaiyak lang tlga na hndi nila makita ung mga effort natin na mga OFW.. Hayaan mo marrinig din ni GOD mga prayers natin,for our family and for ourselves.. Godbless..
Naiiyak ako sayo madam ramdam na ramdam ko ung pinagdadaanan mo 😢😢cheer up po were here to give you moral support and thanks to Michael for always being there for you that's what matters a man who always stand by your side no matter what❤❤🙏🏼 Stay strong madam you'll be fine God 🙌
Na shocked talaga ako kasi akala ko drama lang... Pero habang pinapanuod ko vlog mo madam Kilay, naluha din ako sa mga sinabi mo... Be strong para sa mga anak mo at apo mo. Ganun talaga ang buhay minsan masaya minsan malungkot.. Sana habang nagbabasa ka sa mga comments, mabawasan ang bigat na dinadala mo sa dibdib mo...
tama nmn ang cnasab mo madam kilay 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻kailangan dn tulungan nila un sarili nila at pasalamat na lng tlga na may tumutulong sa Pamilya mo 🙏🏻 may kasabhan nga madam na ang pagtulong kahit Pamilya mo may hangganan talaga 🙏🏻
Laban lang madam napakaswerte Ng pamilya mo Meron Ako ate sa US pero Hindi kami umaasa sa kanya Yung mapadalhan kami every Christmas at birthday Namin leaking pasalamat n nmin sobrang bait mo pagpalain k nawa lagi Ng Panginoon at huwag k nyang pabayaan. Hiling ko sa Diyos n making Kyo n ni Mike forever. God bless you madam and may you always be a blessings to others🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ganyan din mga family ko madam, ako din ang inaaasahan nila lahat,stress din minsan , kasi sila pa ang magdawn skin kapamilya ko, hindi nila naintindihan ginawa kona lahat , maraming magselos pag hindi mabigyan lahat, at nakatampuhan sa pamilya, ginwa kona lahat para matuwa sila skin, nattulungan ko nman sila , Pero hindi parin sapat ganyan din pamilya ko, madam pero keep praying lang lahat sa panginoon ko lahat pinagpray, ingat palage ,Godbless.
Maaayos din ang lahat Madam Kilay. Dadaan at dadaan ang problema pero kakayanin naman talaga. Be strong we know how good person u are. Take care always & love u Ms.Jinky ❤
I feel you madam! I’m a breadwinner sa family at ofw din ako. Ganyan din yung nararanasan ko at na fefeel ko. Laban lang tayong mga breadwinner at the same time ofw 💜
That’s true! Same here, maalala ka lang pag hihingi ng pera at may pabili after that not even once they ask you if how are you? Ok ka lang ba dyan? Nagpapagod ka para kumita non stop magwork, but they never ask if I am okay. Magisa ka nagwowork sa ibang bansa para mkatulong but still not enough. 😭
I Love you Madam .. isa ako sa mga nanunuod ng mga vlog mo .. sobrang na iinspired ako sa mga vlog good vibes . Then etong vlog mo nato .halus iyak nako ng iyak sobrang nakakarelate po ako sayo .. ang hirap po talaga ng sitwasyon ng isang breadwinner peru laban lang para sa mga mahal natin sa buhay .. GodBless you madam keepsharing the Good vibes .. lagi pong my Balik satin ang mga nagagawa nating pagsasakripisyo sa pamilya natin ..Laban lang po .. Hugtight 😘 from Bataan 😘😘
We feel you madam K! Take your time to rest. Mas mahalaga we are in good condition emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually para maganda ang maging content. Andito lang kami. Praying for you. 💚🙏
Sending Virtual hugs for you madam💕Thank you sa laughters , goodvibes and inspirations in Handling life challenges....i really appreciate it specially from the first time i watch your videos pandemic times... I am one of the millions who loves you from a far ♥stay strong and just have faith that all the struggles will put into an end one day just trust God above all♥sabi nga nila nothing is permanent in this world except CHANGES 🙏 kaya laban lang tayo madam ah...susuka pero di susuko 🙏✌i love you madam♥
BE ON PPA GOD CENTER ALWAYS ON UR JOURNEY IN LIFE SIS MADAM KILAY DE MAN PO NILA ACHIEVED WHAT ARE U NOW’BUT ONE ☝️ THING FOR SURE PAPA GOD HAS ALWAYS SEE ON UR ADVOCACY IN LIFE.. BE TOUGH AND KEEP HEELING AND MAKE CENTER ALWAYS HIM.. LOVE ❤️ U AS UR FAN YAKAPIN MU NG BUONG BUO SYA ATKAUSAPIN SYA NG BUONG PUSO SYA KCNO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED IN LIFE THEY HAVE ALWAYS ANSWERS PRAYER 🙏 PRAY 🙏 PRAY ON HIM SIS MADAM KILAY’ feel Kita kc damay at ranas k yn 😇🙏👼KEEP IT UP GODBLESS GOODLUCK
Maraming salamat mga chaps!! LAVARN pa din Tayo SA life!! For the goods💪💚God is always here with us!
Warm and tight hugs Madam Kilay from KSA. 🥺
Hindi ka nag iisa madam i feel you, nkakasama ng loob pero alang alang sa magulang nalang, tas pag iisipan kapa ng kung ano ano.ang sakit sakit tlga
Yes po pahinga din pag my time..
Very true madam I feel you ☹️
Sending you tight hugs and kisses! 💕
I feel you madam. 😭😭😭 Pumunta ako sa US 2 years ago. Sa unang taon ko dito wala akong work only my husband worked for both of us. Tapos may mga pamilya ako na hindi pa nga ako nakaka settle chat ng chat sakin manghiram pera at sumasakit puso ko sa bawat time na wala akong mapahiram kasi umaasa lang din ako that time sa hubby ko. Kaya bawat may makita akong dollars pag ginagawa ko laundry namin asawa ko iniipon ko just in case mangailangan pamilya ko may maipadala ko. Kahit mga plastic bottles and cans iniipon ko para lang maibenta at magkapera. After a year I applied for a job. And I am now working. Still not financially stable because we just bought a house, new car, and we do have a lot of bills na hindi maintindihan ng pamilya natin sa pinas. Though nung nagkawork nako dun ko na napapadalhan ng pera consistenly especially parents ko saka tatlo ko pang mga nakakabatang kapatid that still go to school. Then may mga kapatid din akong may mga asawa na na minsan sakin hihingi ng tulong ultimo pangpa anak nila sakin pa. At pag hindi mo napahiram dahil marami karing bills sasama loob at makakarinig ka pa ng masasakit na salita. Lagi lang ako kakamustahin pag may hihiraming pera na hindi naman babayaran (which is wala namang problema pag hindi na binayaran sakin) pero yung abuso na hindi na nagsisikap at aasa nalang sakin ay hindi ko na nakayanan. Dumating sa point na tiniis ko hindi pansinin mga chats nila na manghiram pera para naman magsikap sila gumawa ng paraan para sa mga problema nila kasi marami rin kaming problema mag asawa. Before my husband and I bought a house we were homeless for 3 weeks. Ngayon yung may mga married kong mga kapatid hindi nako pinapansin. I've tried to explain my situation here to them but instead of understanding me they got mad at me. I've received judgement instead of comfort from them. Now, I'm 14 weeks preggy and I have cut my ties with them. They have caused so much stress and negativity. I've realized family can be toxic. I've realized sometimes you need to set bounderies in your own family para hindi ka abusuhin. I've been there too madam. I have cried so many times. I got depression caused by my own family. I told them I'm preggy nobody was happy not even my parents. You know what they said when I told them I am pregnant? "OH WALA NANG SUSUPORTA SATIN" instead of "I'm so happy for you." None of them were happy that this time I chose myself. I am married for 5 years now and I've always wanted to be a mom. But I always hesitate to get pregnant because I was always thinking I need to help my family first in the Philippines. But it's hard to help people kung sila mismo hindi tinutulungan sarili nila. I am still consistently sending money for my parents and younger siblings but I have set my limit to my married siblings. It's hard to be a breadwinner. Thank you for this awareness madam. Hugs from California. 🤗
So proud of you po.. God bless you mam!
I feel you mam, Ived been here in us for 8 years but it will takes time to finally be settle here. Its takes and effort to grow here, you need to work out and forget to saved for yourself and enjoy your life. Its hard to be a breadwinner in the family but let them realized that life here in united states is not that easy. You have work hard to keep goin and lots of bills. Takecare!
@@nancylongcanaya3230 Godbless you too! 💋😼
@@analynramos38 Makakaraos din tayo. Dasal lang. Basta ingatan sarili. Yan puhunan natin para kumita ng pera. 😊
Same here , ngaun limit narin me sa family q. Lalo na mag 3 na anak namin ng husband q. Nakka sawa cla minsan. Yung tatay q nga sabi q hndi na kmi makka bakasyon muna matagal Tagal pa, Ang sagot ng tatay q , kahit hndi ka umuwi Basta lang papadalhan mo lang kmi. See ! Mas mahal pa nila Ang pera kaysa sa anak nila ,hndi nila aq mahal, mahal lang nila aq pag nakkatanggap cla ng pera galing sakin. Sumasama loob q. Ang mga nararamdaman ninyu ay nararamdaman q rin.
Ako naman Madam 19 years sumusuporta sa pamilya. This year I finally come to term na "hindi masama maging madamot dahil kailangan din Ito sa peace of mind ko". I'm in 40s na,. kailangan ko namang isipin future or retirement ko. I done my best to helped them, they have to help themselves too. Parents ko nalang suportahan ko, enough is enough!!!
Chibay is one of my bestfrienddddd, sobrang hangaaaa talaga ko kay madam kung pano sya maghandle bilang mama kay chib, yung kahit may reason para magalit ng sobra si madam never nagalit ng sobra bagkus kinakausap ni madam ng maayos!!❤️
I feel you madam. I'm actually in the process of cutting ties with my own family. Naubos na lahat ng pagmamahal ko sa kanila, lumalapit lang sila sa akin kapag may pera ako. They only cause me stress and depression, nothing else.
Same here i feel you
Same here
Bigyn or lagyan mo ng limitadyon Ang pagtulong sa pamilya or khit knino kc d cla matuto na tumayo sa Sariling mga paa
Priority mo mga anak mo magulanh mo hnuon in po
Same
Set boundaries. It's ok to say "No" to any requests. It's okay to let them work so they can achieve their own goals, pay for their on vacation, etc. And it's okay for OFWs to focus on their health and their happiness too. To pamper yourself kesa ibigay lahat sa kamaganak para may pang shopping sila or to go on a trip. Always take care of yourself. Help them stand on their feet so they won't have to depend on you for everything. Self reliance is key to your own success.
Agree... they just become parasites
Tama po. Minsan tayo po ang pumipigil sa pag-asenso ng ating kapamilya kapag palagi pong bigay ng bigay. Isa pa po nakikita ng mga anak ang pagiging palaasa sa kapamilya ng magulang tuloy hindi rin po nagsisikap sa buhay.
Sabi nga wag mo yakapin Ang buong puno if ndi kaya.... that's the bad side of having an extension family. Bka magising kn n lng ubos kn at Wala Ng matira sayo kahit LAKAS. Sabi nga ni Lord turuan mo cla mangisda ndi ung ikaw mangingisda para sa kanila.
My mom currently felt right now. Shes forcing us( Fam) na panoorin tong vlog ni madam chaps, and after i heard her statement, this is what her situation to be for like decades also, because partial of my fam didn't realize what's be like OFW and a bread winner .....Cheers & biggest hug to all our fellow mom and belove who are apart away from us just to support what we needs.
Same here madam! Un simpleng "kamusta ka jan at magiingat ka" lang sapat na, pero di pa din nila magawa. Pero pag may kailangan sila mayat maya ang message at tawag. Minsan gugustuhin mo na silang sukuan at tiisin but in the end para sa kanila pa din ba't ka nagsisikap at di mo pa din sila matitiis. In times na pasuko ka na iisipin mo na lang talaga na God gives His toughest battle to His strongest soldiers and everything will be perfect in His time. Hugs madam!Fighting!
ahh.. the way michael cares for you.. nung tinanong ka nyang "are you okay" melts my heart.. 🥺🥺🥺 kung ako tinanung ng ganyan ng partner ko mag bebrake down talaga ko.. 😢😢 napaka swerte mo sa partner mo madam kilay.. virtual hugs for you.. keep safe always and keep healthy physically, emotional and spiritually. 🥰🥰 love lots! 😘😘😘
Ako din ramdam ko un napa iyak ako nung sinabi Nia are you okei then hinalikan k Nia sa noon . Ganyan din ako pag n iyak ako sa partner ko n pute n stress ako sa family ko .
Hello mam Joy pasupport PO
Sana makita ito sa lahat na mga pamilya na may breadwinner na OFWs…
Laban lang sa life, MK… 💕
I feel you madam Kilay! Mabuhay tayong lahat na bread winner! May God bless you more 🙏😇
that's why i love you Madam K,keep strong and God bless you always❤️❤️❤️❤️
I feel you Madam, kailangan e disiplina rin natin ang mga pamilya natin.. na remember ko tuloy ang true story na narinig ko sa program ng radio sa hk na may sakit na sya at gusto ng umuwi dahil may taning na... ang sagot ng pamilya sa kanya ay paano na kami...so sad d ba?wag natin silang gawing tamad at dependent...making strict din tayo when it comes sa money giving Madam...take good care sa sarili mo & God Bless you both ni Michael..❤️🙏
I understand how you feel beh! Whatever we do is never enough. There will come a point na mapapagof ka talaga. Specially if they don’t appreciate the hard work and effort you do. Parang obligasyon pa natin Mga anak lalo ba pag panganay ka.
Also it’s more than ok to vent out. Kasi masakit sa loob yan pag Hindi nailabas
Madam wag kang bibitaw dasal ngaun ka kailangan ng iyung anak
Hello mam Lynn pasupport po
Prayers is the best po naiyak po ako kasi naka relate po ako
I'm praying for you madam. It's currently,3am in CA and I couldn't sleep so I came across your vlog. As a mother like you I understand and one thing I can say we don't stop being a mother even when our kids get older. You need to be careful with the depression and start taking care of yourself if you want to see your grandkids grow up. I learned the after I suffered a major stroke that left me paralyzed on my right side. I was hard working like you to provide the best for my family that I forgot about me. I love you and your beliefs. Stay humble with God's grace and mercy everything will be alright. I'll keep you in my prayers.🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
🙏🙏🙏 Prayer is the best medicine.Keep on praying Madam kilay.
Kapit lang ky Lord.Mama Mary loves you.Laban lang sa buhay.
I feel you, madam. Naranasan ko yan. Yung parang sobrang pagod at emotionally drained kana. Minsan you will come to a point na tanungin ang sarili mo paano na kapag it's your turn na kailangan mo ng support sino sa kanila ang nandoon, hindi man material kahit man lang moral support. Ganyan naramdaman ko iyak lang ako ng iyak tapos parang pagod na pagod na. Basta stay strong...iiyak mo lang, and of course, nanjan si GOD and si Michael to be there for you.❤️
di po madali maging ofw, kaya lang ganon ang ating jga family ayaw nila mwdyo angat tapos di mo sila bigyan otherwise sasabihin mataas kana 😢😢😢😢
Financial problem kaya mo pang harapin ng nakangiti, pero ang emotional problem ang hirap talunin. Ang mga palatawa talaga, may mabigat na dinadala. Behind close doors, nawawala ang saya. Keep the faith. Mahirap sabihin na piliin maging masaya kasi araw2 ang laban. Basta laban lang po. Kaya NATIN toh♥️
Gravee, I feel you Madam. 🥺
I’m also a bread winner and I did my best as well to provide the needs of my family. Sad thing is even you did good things do them, you pay all the bills without complaining how much Will it cost, you bought groceries If you still have money left on you they can’t appreaciate you. And, the most sad thing that I experienced is when you buy things for yourself they will tell you something as if you don't deserve to buy it on your own. 🥺 Haysss! 😭
Lavaarn lang madam. I Love you! ❤️
It’s up to her she needs to teach them to get their own feet specially her kids not always open when it’s needed or emergency then that’s understandable, but don’t let them comfortably depend on you always think yourself we don’t know what’s gonna happen tomorrow we can’t tell our health when in needs but you’re family can’t help you.
Sobra Naman nasa atin din kase wag Silang spoiled magtirabpara sa sarili😊
Madam kilay totoo po yan kht
Mismong kapatid utak talangka.
I LOVE YOU MADAM! My mom is the breadwinner in the family and I'm so proud of her, I appreciate her and I love her ❤️
I feel you Madam Kilay, very well said..Big respect to the Bread Winner of the family na palaging priority una ang pamilya.Someone who doesnt know how to say No most of the time. The one who had the most unavoidable responsibilities and obligations. As you said, marunong din mapagod, pero di susuko. I am single mom of 4 at nagiisang suporta ng pamilya ko. However, when my Dad passed away 3yrs ago. His last word stick in my mind " learning to love yourself, its the greatest love of all" love yourself...somehow, we need to prioritize ourself, our own needs that we set aside for a while because of family. To maintain our sanity, to be able to sustain all the needs of everyone. Cheer up Madam! Di ka nag iisa. Marami tayo❣
You did the right thing, to voice out your feelings, Madam Kilay. We OFWs have common problems. We cannot say no to them because of their situation in the Phil. but they don’t consider our situation here esp. if we are just an ordinary employee. Yes, jealousy and intrigues within the family that make us sad and angry, I could relate to that, and for sure most OFWs too. I reach out to people who can give me advise and comfort that helps ease the pain in my heart. Seek medical attention for your daughter, depression could be treated, i have a daughter with the same situation, good thing she is with me here in Canada. I shared this video for the awareness of relatives of OFWs in the Phils. Thanks for your video and praying for the early recovery of your daughter 🙏🙏🙏. God bless you always 🙏🙏🙏
Stay strong Madam! Isipin mo na lang yung mala Fairytale mong Lovelife with Michael. Excited na kami sa update ng Wedding after ng proposal sa Pinas. Expected ng mga fans tuloy tuloy na ang Team Micki. 💚💚💚
Stay strong madam,God is good🙏
I feel you Madam kilay! Akala kc nila masarap ang buhay dito s America d porket nanditu tyu kala nila marami n tayung pera. Parang pilipinas din ditu kng d ka magtratrabaho wala kng kakainin.
You are soooo Brave to share this with us.You are the only vlogger I am fond of watching because you are authentic and genuine.In whatever trial you and your family is facing,remember that God loves you.Seek for his guidance,comfort.🙏🙏🙏
We don’t have a choice madam, lalo na pag may malambot kang puso. All we can do is to be strong 💪 and always pray madam ❤️
Madam Kilay... I can relate to you.. kahit Hindi Ako OFW, dito Ako ngayon sa Pilipinas... Tama ka nakakapagod dahil Hindi nila alam na inutang ko Ang binigay ko sa kanila. Ang masakit lang lalapit Sila pag nasa gipit pero kung Sila Ang may Pera, Wala Ako sa isip nila... Ni pangungumusta ok lang ba Ako. Walang kumustahan.. dba nakakapagod...
I just watched Ms. Kalad Karen's vlog with full of emotions, and here I am, tearing up because I just leave my family last day. It's hard when it comes to our family/loved ones. It'll completely destroy our hearts! Be strong Madam K. God is always with us😇🙏
I agree, same HERE 😭
Sending virtual hugs madam K... Ikaw ang naging boses ngaun sa nararamdaman ng kapwa natin ofw, realtalk sa pinaka-realtalk talaga... Laban lang lagi💪 God will always guide us. Keep spreading ur positiveness sa ibang pinanghihinaan ng loob.. Godbless you more madam K....
Pray Lang always Madam Kilay . God will heal us whatever we have in ourself . Everyone of us ay iba2x ang problems but vent out to God and talk to HIM. I’m an OFW as well for 9 yrs
Madam lavarn lang! Can completely relate to this dahil pareho tayo stado ng buhay. Nag migrate ako dito at the age of 14 (I’m 40 now) ako lang mag isa Dito sa Boston although May family ako sa California. Since pandemic I’ve developed depression which affected me in many different ways emotionally, mentally and physically. Until isang araw I broke down and got hysterical. As an introvert, I’ve learned to go directly to the source and talk to my family about what I was going through which helped a lot. Thank you for being vulnerable and showing us this side of you. You are courageous, strong and a fighter 💪🏼 lavarn Lang madam! Madami pa tayong kakaining bigas! Charrr ❤️
I feel you madam. Ganyan po talaga buhay. Partida nasa abroad and my business kapa nyan. Pano pa kaya kaming mga andto sa pinas na nagtyatyaga sa maliit na sahod sa kabila ng mataas na standard ng company. Minsan talaga we need time for ourselves. Na tayo naman muna bago sila. baka kasi sa sobrang effort naten sa pagpapasaya sa pamilya, nakalimutan na naten kung pano pasayahin yung sarili naten. I've been working almost half of my life and naexperience ko na rin po na hindi iappreciate at isantabi. Pero I kept that all feelings to myself. And hirap ng ang bigat ng dinadala, tapos wala man lang nagtatanong kung okay paba ako or kaya kopa ba. Pinapagpasa dyos ko nalang lahat at umaasang balangbaraw, bbgyan nya ko ng chance para sarili ko naman. Laban lang madam 💪
its true ramdam ko rin yan mam..kahit na sarili mo hindi mo naisip.may painagdadaanan din ako na hangang ngayon hindi paron tapps at ng uuimpisa palang..minsan naisip ko nlng mawala sa mundo para mawala lahat ng problema
Ang taas ng standard pero ang sahod natin hirap na hirap itaas.. lahat ng bilihin tumaas pa 😭
Nasa sayo din naman yan,ikaw lang din ang nagdadala sa sarili mo,your suffering depends on what you allow
relate minsan gusto ko ng mamatay sa sobrang pagod...kaya pray na lang
Laban lang madam K♥️ natumbok mo lahat!👍🏻
Pagdating tlga sa family,walang hindi pwede.
Pagdating nman sa ibang bagay na nagbibigay ng toxic I learn to let go nalang.Life must go on. Huwag sayangin ng dahil sa mga bagay na hindi makakatulong.Mas importante ang sampo kesa sa isa lang. God Bless✨
laban lng po madam K deserve nyo po lahat ng blessings.kasi napakabait mong tao. I love you madam K🙄🤗🤗😘😘😘😘😍
I feel you po,mahirap pero tlga lalo na as a single mom na ofw tulad q 10yrs dto sa Singapore walang na pundar😭😭😭
Laban lng madam life is to short gnyan tlaga ang buhay may pgsubok sa buhay ako nga single mother may tatlong ank laban lng plage madam habang may buhay may pag asa
Stay strong Po MADAM kilay. I've been there since last yr. Whole year I'm DEPRESSED. 7 months kinulong ko SARILI KO SA KWARTO KO MADAM KILAY. Kasi Hindi ako umiinom walang bisyo. Kaya ini iyak ko the whole 7 months. Kulong na kulong. Hindi halos naliligo. Sa Isang buwN parang 5 or 3 times ako nakakaligo. Wal g tulog KAHIT 3 days straight
I feel you. Depression is like a poison that will slowly destroy your life. I have been in the same boat but thanks God I was able to overcome it. Prayer helped me a lot. There were times that I was crying out loud in prayer and asking for help. But God heals.
Speak with people around you and always surround your self with positive people.🙏
I feel you madam🥺 sending hug!
Ofw feels like
Lalo aq naiyak when Michael comfort you, thanks Michael for loving Madam K fully, stay strong to both of you💞💞💞
God bless you more Madam K
Stay strong madam kilay...
Grabe iyak ko dto sa vedio mo😭😭😭😭 sobrang relate ako sa lahat ng mga sinabi mo po😭😭 kc isa rin akong breadwinner sa pamilya..bilang isang ofw mahirap pero kilangan maging matatag para sa pamilya 😭😭😭 basta lagi lng tayo bigyan ng lakas at tatag ng loob..Godbless sa lahat ng mga breadwinners ofw at mga taong kinakaya para sa pamilya...
Lahat ng sinabe mo Madam K ay totoo! Hindi tumatae ng pera ang mga OFW!
At hindi lage dapat naasa ang kamaganak sa mga OFW!
At lalong lalo na ang Depression ay hindi biro!
Praying for your daughter Madam! She will be okay.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Through prayers po guidance kay Lord malayo man kayo sa mga anak nyo Madam Kilay... I salute all OFW's with all their sacrifices for their families... Matthew 11:28-30
Our God is a gracious God, our God can do healing He is out Healer and Provider. May God gives you strength and Bless you as well as your families. 😍😍😍
Very related Madam Kilay as an OFW..
Nakakatouch..
Naiyak namn aq.
It's all true.
Laban lang tayo.
Mas mahirap ang problema ang emotions kaysa sa pera.
Cheer Madam.
Watching u..
All the way here Jeddah KSA.
I feel u madam ako almost 6yrs nag ofw pero Wala man lng ako naipon kasi lahat bigay ko sa kanila pero ngayon di na ako nakakatulong kasi nagasawa na ako nafeelko nag iba narin sila di narin makausap lagi busy samantalng dati Lagi chat chat ngayon kung di pa mangumusta di ka pa maalala
Real talk Filipino mentality It doesn’t matter how much expensive or how much money or pasalubong you share to your close family either brother sister ka mag anak when you don’t have things for them your nothing
When you post something nice things expensive stuff you won’t get respond.
I’m get to the point distance my self my close family I can’t share to my husband I feel that way. But at the end I still send balikbayan box
Just pray madam kilay mabuti andyan si michael na sobrang nagmamahal sa yo importante youre both happy at nakita mo na ginawa muna lahat pra sa pamilya mo you will be bless by God
Relax lng madam kilay pahinga dn pag my time pray pray lng po
Musta n p0 ang anak mo ngyn lakasan mo lng loob mo makakaya mo iyn ala nmn binigay c lord n pag subok n di natin kakayanin 🙏🙏🙏
Relate ako dyan kabayan..I did well for my sibling and niece and nephew..eventhough kahit kape wala nag offer. everytime bakasyon ako.i have to learn to distance myself to them..why? Mga selfish tangna..kahit ano pa ibigay mo no appreciation..n9w bahala sila sa buhay nila..
@@rowenaczubek6641 i agree with you.Kaya ako hinde nagbabakasyon sa pinas importante sa knila dala mo at pera pag wala kang dala maka rinig ka pa ,na galing abroad walang dala.
I feel you Madam, be stronger. Kaya mo yan. Ibulong mo lang ang mga problema mo sa KANYA. (THE ALMIGHTY GOD)
Sending hugs and prayers for you and for your family🙏🙏🙏Stay strong Madam Kilay...Iiyak mo lng lahat sa Panginoon..
Salute po sa lahat ng ofw..God bless 😇
Stay safe always madam.. Sobrang bait mo po sa family mo sana marealize nila lahat ng sacrifices mo para sa kanila ...Laban lng Madam Kilay...
Hope you’re doing fine now Madam Kilay! You were one of my sources of entertainment when I was so down when I was reviewing for my boards (now i’m a licensed physician). I hope you get pass through this. It’s ok that you don’t vlog only happy stuff, mas maganda nga na we know anong pinagdadaanan mo. :)
Hi Madam. I'm one of your fan and it's hard to watch you crying but it's okay sometimes you need to voice out the pain para mabawasan yung dinadala. I've been diagnosed and suffering from major depression and anxiety disorder for almost 10 years now kaya I can say na it is really not a joke talaga to suffer with your own battle and sometimes yung stigma ang nagttrigger ng sakit dahil imbis na maunawaan nakuha pang i-judge at tawanan ng iba. Laban lang madam! And hoping for your daughter to feel better soon. ❤️❤️❤️
Hello mam Michelle pasupport PO
totoo yan madam kilay isa ako sa ofw na umuwing sawi, sobrang hirap sa ibang bansa lalo kapag DH halos walang tulog lalo kapag ramadan... lahat ng sahod papadala ko as in lahat, 2x akong nag abroad nung pangalawa na sa lola ko na ipinapadala yung sahod at thankful naman ako na kahit papaano may naipagawa sya at may naabutan ako sa pinaghirapan ko... May the Lord bless you more madam kilay and magpakatatag ka lalo ngayon dalawa na kayo... ingat palagi and God bless
Hindi ako sanay na umiyak sa content mo madam,nagkataon na positive ako ngayon sa covid at sa abroad pa kaya napaiyak ako now while watching this,cheer up lng po,lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang burdens in life at super relate ako sa buhay mo ..God will lift us up..never give up.
Be strong and look after yourself too. You are blessed you have Michael who seems to be very sweet and supportive. All of these will come to pass. Thank you for sharing with your viewers. I really hope that everything will be sorted out especially with your daughters. Take care.
Sending virtual hugs to you Madam Kilay!! Stay strong !Take care of your self! God is Good all the time !! Laban lang sa life!!!
That’s why dapat ibreak etong toxic trait ng mga Pinoy, yung sobrang tumulong to the point na nagiging abusado na ang mga pamilya at nagiging tamad. Walang masama sa tumulong pero kng tumutulong ka to the point nagiging tamad ang tinutulungan mo, yan ang masama! Nagiging sobrang dependent at mataas ang kompyansa na palaging ganyan ang buhay. Again, hnd masama ang tumulong, ang masama yung tinuturuan ang pamilya paano maging tamad at palaging umaasa sa OFW na myembro ng pamilya. All the best, Madam!!!
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30
I feel yo po Madam Kilay.
Totoo lahat ang sinasabi mo. 15 years po ko OFW pero sobrang napagod isip at katawan ko.. nitong pandemic nagkaroon ako ng anxiety sa sobrang takot lungkot at pagod. Nagdecide akong mag for good, sabi ko health is more important than money..kailangan kong isipin ung sarili ko this time..ngayon po meron akong maliit na sari sari store.. awa ng dios dito ko kami nabubuhay mga magulang ko. Stay strong po. God bless
You've done more done enough Madam!.. been watching your videos since then, and honestly i really admire u, for loving your family so much and for being such a strong woman.. i admire how you've changed and how you succeed.. so sad seeing you cry, sending hugs madam💚
Virtual hugs to you Madam Kilay! I feel you. Ive once a breadwinner. Naranasan q dn mging OFW. Ginive up q ung own happiness q pra sa family q. Kht na nakakatulong na q, decision pa dn ng mama q sinusunod. Gang one day at age of 30, i fell inlove first bf, in just 4months i got pregnant. Natakot pa q aminin sa mama q kc madame pa q pangarap sa knila dpa natatapos ung bahay. Gang sa tinanggap nman nila. Kaso later on napansin q iba na rn ung nging treatment. Hndi katulad noon. Prang ngaun ang tingin nila kakompetensiya ung mga anak q. Am a single mother of 2 little boys. I gave up my career pra sa mga anak q. More than 3 years na q d ngwowork. Live selling pra kht pano mkasurvive. Hndi aq mkpgwork kc wala rn mag aalaga ng mga anak q. Ung mama mas focus xa sa mga alagang hayop kesa sa mga anak q. Masakit makarinig ng d maganda lalo pg nag aaway kme. Dun q lng naeexpress lahat ng mga hinaing q. Prang ending ako pa masama, ako pa ung prang walang kwenta at ako pa ung failure and disappointment dhil lng gnito na sitwasyon q. Anyway, up to now nilalabanan q ang stress, depression at anxiety q dhil my mga anak ako.
Iiyak ky Lord, tpos okay na.
Lahat Diyos ang nging sandigan q. Sa Kanya q lahat sinasabe while crying.
Kaya tama MAPAPAGOD PERO DI SUSUKO.
Godbless madam!
Hey sorry with all due respect. I'd rather not expect my parents to really be there to take care of my kids. They are NOT the parents of those kids. Right? You are.
So it's your responsibility NOW.
Maybe perhaps your parents are just disappointed on what you have become. Meaning me pangarap kc sila sayo nuon & they want you to really be successful kc pra sayo din nman un. Makapag asawa at magkaroon ng magandang buhay. It's not that they don't love you it's more on heartache coz they're seeing you like that now - nahihirapan.
So let's not get too sensitive na pkiramdam mo they're not taking care of your sons that much or nag iba treatment sayo or whatever. Again they did not wish for that to happen to you. Right. Lahat ng yan bunga ng wrong choices MO. So instead of holding grudge to your parent's actuations hence rise above the occasion tutal ginusto mo yan eh... Db.
Parents did their part to raise you. Graduate na sila jan. You helped them before yes kc un ay ikaw bilang anak na nagppasalamat. Eh pwede ka nmang hndi tumulong. Choice mo nman yun. Hndi nman obligation tlga ng anak tulungang pabalik ang magulang.... PERO dhil mabuti kang anak. Ginawa mo ang pagtulong dati because of LOVE.
Ngyong feeling mo di ka nila tinutulangan. Di kaya dapat isipin mong nagkka edad na din sila na dpat ini enjoy na lng din nila "retirement" nila? Na hndi na din ganun kalakas mga katawan nila pra mag bantay pa ng mga batang maliliit db?
Kaya please ponder on this po kc ang mga magulang iisa lng po sila. Pag nawala sila dun ka mag lolook back on how you treated or you felt bad at them whilst buhay pa.
@@SavedbyGrace43 u dnt know the whole story. But i respect ur opinion. 😊 just to clarify, I NEVER EXPECT MY PARENTS TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF MY KIDS. ano ba nman ung khit pano my CARE db???? Especially my mom! Do u get it? Also, KAYA NGA Q NGING BREADWINNER EH! AT THE AGE OF 30??? DONT U CONSIDER MYSELF AS SUCCESSFUL IN ANYWAY???? NAPAGTPOS Q MGA KAPATID Q. NKPGPATAYO AKO NG BAHAY AT PINUNO NG MGA APPLIANCES. HNDI AKO PARIWARA KC LATE NA Q LUMANDI 30 YEARS OLD. I HAD MY FIRST BORN 31 YEARS OLD.
I feel you madam. Almost 30yrs nag OFW si tatay ko ramdam na ramdam namin yung hirap nya sa saudi. Thankful lng kami kasi si mother ko sobrang responsable din na hndi nya sinayang yung lahat ng pinapadala at pinaghirapan ng tatay ko. 6 kami magkakapatid lahat kmi napagraduate nila ng college at nakapatayo sila ng bahay nila. Sa sobrang ayaw ng tatay ko na mag alala kami sknya hndi nya snsbi yung nrrmdaman nya sa abroad dumating yung time na tnwagan nalang kami ng katrabaho nya at nasa hospital na si tatay ko at nastroke:( thank god at may angel na sumubaybay kay tatay ko at napauwi si tatay ko samin at ngyon 70% nakarecover sya. Kaya dasal lang po madam kilay. Yun lang ang lagi nating kakampi. Godbless po madam kilay stay safe always! Saludo ako sa mga OFW na handang isakripisyo ang buhay nila para sa pamilya!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Praying for God's guidance, comfort and strength.
Draw strength from the Lord Madam K He's the only one who knows everything deep within your heart ,your soul.
Everyday always pray for God's protection for the kids.
Napanood ko vlog ni Doc Will you need to say no sometimes sa emotional giving n tinatawag.
Thank God khit ppno andyan si Michael for moral support. Be strong and trust God for every solution. He cares for you and the children.
Hello mam solenn pasupport PO
I feel you, Madam Kilay.
Kaya't next year magreretire na ko.
Alagaan ko na lng sarili ko.
Thank you for this vlog madam, I hope this will be an eye opener for the families sa pinas na hindi masyadong naappreciate ang mga breadwinner specially ofw..😌
Naka pa sakit nito bilang isang Ina na makita mong nagkakaganyan anak mo.grabi😭😭 I'm praying for you and you're whole family madam kilay. Everything will be okay sa tulong ni Lord. Pray Lang po tayo madam. God's give his hardest battle to his strongest soldier.🙏
I feel you madam! Pero minsan may hangganan din para matauhan din sila. Inggatan mo sarili mo and laban lang! Watching from Connecticut! ❤️❤️❤️
Agree.. katulad nangyari sakin, ginawa ko ang lahat na paraan, pero humantong narin sa sukdulan hangat sa akoy tuloyang sumoko.
Madam Kilay,kaya mo yan.
Ang mga hard process ng buhay,may matutunan ka.At upang maging matatag ka at mabuting tao ka pa lalo.
Patuloy ang pagdasal,lahat ng nangyayari may dahilan at solusyon.
LOVE & LIGHT❤🙏GOD bless you and your family.
Laban lang sa buhay madam minsan hindi talaga mapeplease lahat we miss you and we are always waiting for you!
Iba Ang tingin Ng iba tao kapag sinabing "depression and Anxiety" until now nanjan ako.. may doctor ako and diagnosed ako as psychosomatic na Ang anxiety ko kaya nauuwi sa depression.. Hindi madali napaka hirap wla namang TAONG Gustong mapunta sa ganito sa ganitong sitwasyon but Meron katulad Namin Hindi lang kami Ang dumaranas Ng ganito.. kaya ung stigma sa ganitong sitwasyon Hindi tangap Ng Ibang tao para SAKANILA eh nag "IINARTE" ka na lang.. Yan Ang sad part sa ganitong kapansanan Hindi bukas Ang utak Ng iba sa pagtangap na mag nag e exist na ganito.. kaya pakatatag ka lang madam K kayanin Ng anak mo Yan kailangan Ang support group Lalo na Ng family Lalo na Ikaw mas maging open pa Ang communication at iparamdam din Ng kapatid ma kahit malayo SI mama at papa eh nandito lang ako sa tabi mo ate.. may god bless u and ur children madam🙏🙏
Hello Madam Kilay, Thank you for sharing this. People need to see more of this type of videos, so that others are aware too. I too have a daughter that git pregnant at the age of 17. It was a lot to go through especially with the family. My daughter went through a depression, even tried take her own life at one point. But I left everything to GOD. And let’s just say he answered all my prayers and now blessed us even more. So stay strong Madam, especially to your kids.💕💕💕
Hello mam May pasupport po
Yes madam. Pag nagsabay sabay talaga lahat mauubos ka. Tama yung ginagawa mo na nagta Timeout ka muna sa vlogging. Tama din na nilalabas mo lahat ng mabibigat sa'yo. Dapat din malaman nila lahat ng mga nagpapabigat sa'yo, you deseve to Choose yourself now more than them. Hope they will learn and understand you para isipin ka nman nila na kala nila lagi kang malakas. LABAN pa din tayo. ❤️
Good thing Michael is there genuinely loving you. Stay strong and choose to stay happy kayong 2 pa din. 🙂
I feel you Madam.
I feel you madam. Mahirap minsan. Pag d kalang mag bigay ikaw pa masama. Masakit talaga pag ganyan d ma appreciate yung mga naitulong sa kanila. Lavan lang tayu mga breed winner. Ingat.
You inspire many kababayans. Tuloy lang yan Madam, you will overcome.👍🏼😊
Same here... I helped my parents sent my brother to school helped my niece to accomplish something, helped my nephew . Now they are all done school I still have to help another brother that is married with one daughter that I am sill helping...It's unending sacrifices. Not all the time I am well!
Sus ang luha ko hndi ko mapigil..
Relate na relate ako madam..
Malalagpasan mo dahil mabuti kang tao..malinis ang puso mo..
Il pray for you..hndi mo ako kilala but lagi mo akong pina patawa sa mga vlog mo bilang dh dto sa Singapore malaking malaking bagay ang mapatawa mo kaming mga pagod physically emotionally and mentally.
Mabuhay ka madam kilay!!!!.
Kapit lang and wag mag sasawa mag dasal..
May dahilan ang lahat bakit nangyayari ang mga bagay sa buhay natin mabuti man o hndi mabuti..God bless you ang your family ...LABAN LANG!!
Real talk, giving what we got for the family kahit konti makapagshare, kahit wala matira sayo, wag ka na umarte jan Madame kilay😂"di ka special" sabi nga ni Nicole Hyala at Chris Tsuper, dami nakakarelate sayo!!!! 🥰🥰🥰virtual hugs🥰More than a million nagmamahal sayo at may Michael ka jan! 🥰🥰🥰 Mabuhay ang mga BreadWinner , Mabuhay ang OFW! 🎉🎉🎉 #StopAnxiety #StopDepression #Breadwinner #OFWareHEROes
u thought u ate that
Gnyan din ako madam kilay khit meron din akong problema hindi ko sinasabi sa knila khit wala ng matira sa akin basta mapasaya lng sila..ramdam kita madam kilay..god bless sayo at sa ating mga nandito sa ibang bnsa laban lng 😢🙏
Sabi nga nya di ba ngvvent lng xa , hindi xa ngddrama. That’s reality tlga s karamihan ng meron family n nsa abroad . Di nmn kelangan mging harsh s comment section. Masakit tanggapin ang problema n mhirap solusyonan ng kht anong materyal n bagay or pera besides hindi nya nksama mga anak nya for the sake of family, May mga bagay emotionally mbigat tlga dalhin . Kaya mo yan madam kilay I’ll include you in my prayers as well as ur family ❤️❤️❤️
Ay namis-interpret po ang comment ko!!!! 😅😅😅please I love Madame Kilay!!! The words came from Tambalan(basahin lahat and please interpret intelligently!) Hahahaha Pinoy talaga maka-comment agad!!!! 😅😅😅✌️✌️✌️ Share love and godvibes lang! ❤️
iloveyou madam kilaayyyy kaya mo yannn..fighting larrnngg para kila Gimo 🥰🥰☺️☺️
I feel you Madam Kilay, a simple “kamusta?” Is a big help. Pero wala magmemessege lang pag kailangan ng pera. Akala nila pag nasa abroad sarap buhay. Di nila alarm yung feeling madiscriminate, over work and magkasakit magisa. 😭💔
Sobrang relate ako, ang dami akong iyak, ngayon lang ako ng comment sa vlog mo madam kilay, sa dami ng vlog mo dito ako natamaam. Ang hirap kse breadwinner ka, akala nila marami kang pera,.Nakakastress tlaga pag sobrang nadodown ka sa sarili mo pero laban lang para sa buhay at sa pamilya😘🙏godbless you madam.
I feel you madam,hindi naman kc lahat ng OFW malaki ang kinikita,kala kc nila kapag nasa abroad ka,tumatae ka ng pera,kaya hingi lng ng hingi,pati sa pagpapackage inoobliga ka,ang sama pati buong brgy.gusto nila pasalubungan mo ..haisst
I feel u madam, parehas po tau, na minsan iniisip ko na pag namatay cguro ako saka nila malalaman ang halaga mo. Laban lng madam. I love u madam
Mabunga k.. ganoon talaga laban lng.... Un health nio Minsan pansinin nio,,huag buhos sa pamilya,,lalot kau Ang kinakapitan.. d Tau bumabata..
Ako nga monthly 47k kulang pa nila daming gastusin, hirap kumita ng pera pagod ts at tipid sa pagkain.. d na bili ng mahalin kc padala sa pinas..
I feel what is feeling you madam kilay. Dapat yung tao tumutulong ginagawa nyo treasure o sana ay pahalagahan ang bawat sentebo binibigay. And always thankful what he/she did. Small thank you and kumusta is a big appreciate sa tao tumutulong
Be strong madam! Kaya natin ito💪Sa totoo lang madam Sobrang nakaka stress tlga kpg Ikaw lang inaasahan Tama lahat ng sinabi mo. Kaya nung d ko na kinaya, blocked ko lahat ng toxic sa buhay ko Kahit na kapatid at magulang ko. Pero Sabi ko sa sarili ko” D kasi sila matuto kung aasa na lang sila palagi sakin” Kailangan tlga matuto din sila kumilos Paano na kung Wala na ako. Na realized nila d palagi na aasa sakin, na mali ung palagi aasa na lang dba. Tao lang tayo napapagod. Pede tumulong ng konti Hindi lahat sasaluhin. Kailangan natin matutunan madam Paano natin sila tiisin at
Tulungan natin sila matuto. Kaya minsan tlga tayo din ang May problema d natin sila matiis, Pero Kailngan! I thank God at ok na ako ngaun, at natuto nmn sila tlga. Alam nila kpg Puro problema sasabihin nila matik na blocked agad ulit.
True po..kasi gagawa at gagawa din sila ng paraan ng solusyon ng problema…
I feel you madam.. As breadwinner, ginagawa mo nmn talaga lahat para sa family mo pero kahit anong effort mo hindi nla na appreciate. Hindi nla nakikita lahat ng mga ginagawa mo. Sinasabihan ka pa na sariling lng iniisip😭😭😭
Congrats! It takes humility para umiyak at aminin ang real situation. Lahat tayo may problema, iba't ibang klase nga lang depende sa capacity ng tao. Kahit gaano kalaki ang problema mo, kaya mo yan! hindi i-aallow ni Lord ang di natin kaya. may gusto lang si Lord ma "plantsa" or matama sa buhay mo para may real peace ang happiness ka deep within. at para din magiging productive, happy at may peace ang lahat ng family members. i feel inallow ito ni para gawa ka ng adjustment or changes para makaiwas sa mas malaking problema at stress and burn-out. these 2 can cause cardiac arrest kung pabayaan. malalampasan mo rin ang lahat. there' always sunshine after a storm. i agree sa sinabi mo about OFWs. Grabe ginagawa nila para sa pamilya. kaya ang prayer ko, wala ng ofw. na magiging blessed ang pinas at wala ng mag work sa abroad. sabi nga libre ang mangarap so gawin na nating mataas na pangarap, total libre. i lay-down mo sa paanan ni Lord ang lahat ng kabigatan mo. hindi Niya will na magpasan ka ng mabibigat na bagay for He cares for you. Hindi masama ang tumulong. in fact yon ang mission nating lahat --- to help others (family, friends, country, etc) but needs wisdom lang. may time kailangan magbigay ng isda at may time din na magturo paano mangisda. after this "storm" you will shine, mas malambot ang puso, mataas ang value (karats), mas matapang harapin ang challenges in life. Panalo si Lord sa buhay mo at talo ang enemy ni Lord na naging enemy rin nating lahat. i salute you sa pag iyak mo, sign yan ng bravery, humility at walang halong kayabangan. God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. He will lift you up. Kapit at laban lang. Gob bless you more!
Be strong and keep on praying. Your so blessed. Totoo hindi tayo nagtatae ng pera sometimes they think we are pick and pick only the money abroad. Hirap ng work natin. Limit your help to them not always. You need to teach them how to stand on their feet. Wag natin silang turuan maging tamad.. God bless keep it up..
I felt exactly the same feelings and a friend just told me that I’m just Overwhelmed. Stand still, stand firm, you’re not alone in your situations ♥️
Cheer up Madam K..when I was at your situation your vlogs made me happy behind pain..and now that you need someone to make you happy,OFW sending hugs.....#ofw
Magpakatatag ka Jan huwag Kang susuko.
Magpapahinga pero hindi hihinto.. labern lang madam kilay dito lang kami to support you ♥️♥️🙏
Surrender everything to God..let Him lead you through His great love, grace & understanding. Dahil ang Diyos hinding hindi ka niya iiwan at pababayaan. Remember the footprints in the sand, in every sorrow, grief, sadness there is only one pair of footprints in the sand because in all of the sorrow He carried/s you all those time. God bless Madam Kilay always trust in the Lord and everything will fall into place with His plans. ❤❤❤💐💐💐
Hi Madam Kilay ! Lahat ng pamilya May drama talaga. Salamat sa real talk na to. Sana matauhan na ang mga nagdulot sa’yo ng sama ng loob. We are here for you Madam Kilay. Sana gumaling na anak mo.
ang dami kong iyak habang pinanunuood ko tong video mo madam K! damang dama ko, relate na relate ako hahaha, OFW din ako lumalaban sa hamon nang buhay :)
ngayon lang ako naiyak sa vlogs mo madam kilay🥺 stay strong💪🏻 laban lang! we miss you☺️
It's time madam na lumapit ka kay lord pakumbaba ka,alamin mo yung gusto nya iparating sayo.baka may messages si God sa buhay mo.we love you Madam.
Laban lang madam kilay.pray lang tiwala kay Lord maayos dn ang lahat.I pray na mka recover na ang anak mo at maayos na lahat ng problema mo in Jesus Name!🙏🙏🙏
We missed you from being away❤️❤️❤️ We love you madam always supporting you from Bulacan! You can take all your time
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Cheeeer up madam swerte ngapo ng family mo both side e☺ napaka bless nila sa.inyo samin nga.angat sila.at down kme ma's Dina.down pa🥺 kau po ay isa sa inspiration ko para mag sikap n di pa huli ang lahat kahit part ako ng LGBT go lang madam we love you❤❤❤ god bless po
Ipag pray mo lang madam kilay😊😊😊
Girl be strong,kaya mo yan! Ako nga girl hnggang ngayon tumutulong pa din sa pamilya,kahit na malapit na akong mmatay.. Stage 4 yung sakit ko na CKD,at nag-hhemo dialysis ako dito sa japan.. Kaya natin to girl,minsan tlga nkkaiyak lang tlga na hndi nila makita ung mga effort natin na mga OFW.. Hayaan mo marrinig din ni GOD mga prayers natin,for our family and for ourselves.. Godbless..
Get well po. Keep praying lang. God bless po❤️
Get well soon sana malampasan moyan fighting lang
get well soon po!
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I feel for you madam Kilay. I also appreciate how you feel because I’m in the same boat as you. Basta pray lang tayo lagi. God bless us always💋♥️🙏🏻
laban lang madam. dumadating takaga tayo sa buhay na pinanghihinaan. stay strong and divert your worries sa mga bagay na magpapasaya sayo
Naiiyak ako sayo madam ramdam na ramdam ko ung pinagdadaanan mo 😢😢cheer up po were here to give you moral support and thanks to Michael for always being there for you that's what matters a man who always stand by your side no matter what❤❤🙏🏼
Stay strong madam you'll be fine God 🙌
Na shocked talaga ako kasi akala ko drama lang... Pero habang pinapanuod ko vlog mo madam Kilay, naluha din ako sa mga sinabi mo... Be strong para sa mga anak mo at apo mo. Ganun talaga ang buhay minsan masaya minsan malungkot.. Sana habang nagbabasa ka sa mga comments, mabawasan ang bigat na dinadala mo sa dibdib mo...
tama nmn ang cnasab mo madam kilay 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻kailangan dn tulungan nila un sarili nila at pasalamat na lng tlga na may tumutulong sa Pamilya mo 🙏🏻 may kasabhan nga madam na ang pagtulong kahit Pamilya mo may hangganan talaga 🙏🏻
Laban lang madam napakaswerte Ng pamilya mo Meron Ako ate sa US pero Hindi kami umaasa sa kanya Yung mapadalhan kami every Christmas at birthday Namin leaking pasalamat n nmin sobrang bait mo pagpalain k nawa lagi Ng Panginoon at huwag k nyang pabayaan. Hiling ko sa Diyos n making Kyo n ni Mike forever. God bless you madam and may you always be a blessings to others🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ganyan din mga family ko madam, ako din ang inaaasahan nila lahat,stress din minsan , kasi sila pa ang magdawn skin kapamilya ko, hindi nila naintindihan ginawa kona lahat , maraming magselos pag hindi mabigyan lahat, at nakatampuhan sa pamilya, ginwa kona lahat para matuwa sila skin, nattulungan ko nman sila , Pero hindi parin sapat ganyan din pamilya ko, madam pero keep praying lang lahat sa panginoon ko lahat pinagpray, ingat palage ,Godbless.
Ikaw ang pinaka gusto kong vlogger kc nammigay ka ng blessing mo dasal lang mattapos dn lahat yan. 🙏🙏
Maaayos din ang lahat Madam Kilay. Dadaan at dadaan ang problema pero kakayanin naman talaga. Be strong we know how good person u are. Take care always & love u Ms.Jinky ❤
I feel you madam! I’m a breadwinner sa family at ofw din ako. Ganyan din yung nararanasan ko at na fefeel ko. Laban lang tayong mga breadwinner at the same time ofw 💜
That’s true! Same here, maalala ka lang pag hihingi ng pera at may pabili after that not even once they ask you if how are you? Ok ka lang ba dyan? Nagpapagod ka para kumita non stop magwork, but they never ask if I am okay. Magisa ka nagwowork sa ibang bansa para mkatulong but still not enough. 😭
I Love you Madam .. isa ako sa mga nanunuod ng mga vlog mo .. sobrang na iinspired ako sa mga vlog good vibes . Then etong vlog mo nato .halus iyak nako ng iyak sobrang nakakarelate po ako sayo .. ang hirap po talaga ng sitwasyon ng isang breadwinner peru laban lang para sa mga mahal natin sa buhay .. GodBless you madam keepsharing the Good vibes .. lagi pong my Balik satin ang mga nagagawa nating pagsasakripisyo sa pamilya natin ..Laban lang po .. Hugtight 😘 from Bataan 😘😘
Be strong madam God is good all the time !!!
We feel you madam K! Take your time to rest. Mas mahalaga we are in good condition emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually para maganda ang maging content. Andito lang kami. Praying for you. 💚🙏
Sending Virtual hugs for you madam💕Thank you sa laughters , goodvibes and inspirations in Handling life challenges....i really appreciate it specially from the first time i watch your videos pandemic times... I am one of the millions who loves you from a far ♥stay strong and just have faith that all the struggles will put into an end one day just trust God above all♥sabi nga nila nothing is permanent in this world except CHANGES 🙏 kaya laban lang tayo madam ah...susuka pero di susuko 🙏✌i love you madam♥
Same for madam kilay. 🥺
susuka pero di susuko tama.. fight fight..fight..kelngn 3prra madami lavarn lng
BE ON PPA GOD CENTER ALWAYS ON UR JOURNEY IN LIFE SIS MADAM KILAY DE MAN PO NILA ACHIEVED WHAT ARE U NOW’BUT ONE ☝️ THING FOR SURE PAPA GOD HAS ALWAYS SEE ON UR ADVOCACY IN LIFE.. BE TOUGH AND KEEP HEELING AND MAKE CENTER ALWAYS HIM.. LOVE ❤️ U AS UR FAN YAKAPIN MU NG BUONG BUO SYA ATKAUSAPIN SYA NG BUONG PUSO SYA KCNO MATTER WHAT HAPPENED IN LIFE THEY HAVE ALWAYS ANSWERS PRAYER 🙏 PRAY 🙏 PRAY ON HIM SIS MADAM KILAY’ feel Kita kc damay at ranas k yn 😇🙏👼KEEP IT UP GODBLESS GOODLUCK
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