Robert Burale on the dangers of a rebound and the best way to handle a breakup | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- What do you do when the person you love most breaks your heart?
Do you immediately think of a rebound to help you with the pain or do you find healthy ways to move past the breakup.
Relationship Coach Robert Burale is our guest on the Lynn Ngugi show and he will be talking to us on the dangers of a rebound and the best way to move past a breakup
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What your views on today's topic?
You can connect with Robert Burale here ruclips.net/channel/UC_DBxhaK8GcWRagHDdU-nMQ
To share your story on the show, kindly send a well detailed brief to Lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com
Thank you so much for watching.
So educating 💯
My all time mentor and crushie 🥰😍
I love the statement.Never avoid the process 🙏🏽🙏🏽
keep on keeping it Lynn ...i am always assured of learning something from here
We need him back again..
*Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive,safe, healthy and financially blessed Amen 🙏🙏🙏*
Amen and Amen
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Amen yarabi 🙏🙏
Amen
Amen
Upon listening to the coach, I can honestly say I have never dated, I was only used and dumped at one's will. May God Help me to find someone who will genuinely love me and care for me.
Ain't alone. Can relate though the advice is don't point fingers in blame. We also had our wrongs in it !
Stay strong mommy❤
There is nothing like falling in love 🔨 you nailed it sir. Falling in love is a deceiver. One has to take conscious decision to marry the other part. That is why there is too much divorce because once you fall out of the so called love you decide to move away from the relationship. But once you take a concious decision you be with that person no matter the challenges you face together you find a better solution and continue to build each other because you decided.
I like Robert coz he is very genuine. He is not fake.
We all need a person who can really talk to us afta a breakup,coz this what we lack....Lynn thanks for bringing Mr.Burale,he's a man who oozes wisdom and never lacks solution to any problem
Am I the only one who doesn't skip ads on Lynn's channel💯👏
Awww❤❤
Love you, thank you:)
@@LynnNgugi welcome❤🙏
Tuko wengi~
Am like how will she make the dollar 💵
And now without further ado, allow me thank Lynn ngugi for today's content ,it's reality💯 real life we all living
Lynn may God bless you beyond ur expectations for having walked with us throughout the year and bringing us different people with different contents, ur my no one this year
I wish those who are going through a break up a quick recovery. Rebound is a pandemic.
Yes, much truth und mostly respekt,....R.Burale ,and Lynn Ngugi ,... Absolutely true from the heart people.....one in very few!💞🙏🏻🙈🙉🙊💯
Excellent one. Am in my early 50ties and has been so hurt. Still single but his talk has really healed me.
Awww ❤ ❤ ❤
Same with me
On the same category..I hate changing men bcoz all are the same;as proverbs goes"bird of the same feathers flies 2gether..bng single wthout mingling best way ever..one become stress free(faithful men/women lke that of old days never exists...it's better to belief in urself or 4get completely who ure later.
Easy on you my friend... Take it slow
At was yr moment
I did exactly that Robert, vented on the opposite sex and they tried to be better than my ex and I played myself in the process! I did not last long though as I saw that I needed time alone to deal with me. Thank you Lynn for bringing Robert on your show. Appreciation from South Africa.
Thank you so much
Thank you so much sis. I'm in Botswana. So true..i am also a younger youtu.ber, I have a program called Marry who is ready, you may if you please, kindly check it out
Issue of rebound very true,had to call myself for a meeting we are good friends though.Thank you coach.
I agree with you Robert the bible is a service book for human being full stop
Great talk, i can listen to Burale over and over again, the guy has wisdom
I loved the bit about rebound relationships. After my separation, someone tried to convince me to sleep around and use men 'to revenge what my husband did to me' and I realized that those were the kind of people I didn't want to associate with at all. Just because a person has gone through divorce doesn't mean they're the best to seek advise from. Be discerning, and go for professional therapy!!
Wisdom. You destroy yourself when you think you are hurting your ex by sleeping around with men to sooth your pain.
This channel is all about learning something each and everyday, road to 300k subcribers. Keep moving girl
So much learning. What Blessings.
I have really learnt something ive been asingle for 23yrs thank you lyn keep going gal may God bless you iam watching from dubai.ruth
I love the spirit. I have been single for 7 years after several broken relationships, and today I feel more confident of what God has done in me.
Lynn we need more of this.What a wisdom packed guest.
Where were you Lynn in the past two days?Kept on checking on RUclips for something in vain.Thank God you're back .
I can't be quiet anymore.he he been a silent follower.
Just wanna say you're amazing
I am here now🙏❤❤
Robert burale to run for 2022 coach seat tunasema aje tena Na tena. You are here falling in love with his voice. I'm here looking at the shoe and salivating. We love you Papa.
Thank you so so much
A rebound is very dangerous when rushing to it for convenience. RB is 100% correct. Do not rush to the opposite sex for comfort by bed warming. Bad mistake. From a rebound, you need to stay far away from telling what happened to the wrong people. Take time to process away from bad influence groups fond of gossip. Quick fixes and hostile quest to fix a failed relationship is rethal. Take time to find your own side of contributing to that breakup and seek to be cautious next time. Relationships fail. It is the manner in which you handle it that matters guys.
Lynn a breakup has no timeline, it depends on your support systems and secondly what Burale has said about how fast you accept reality and your own mistakes.
"There is too much wrong information out there" perfect message.
Love is not enough guys, we can repeat this again and again till Jesus comes.....There is much more.
Waoh! The man is with a lot intelligence. Whatever he is saying is absolutely true. He should teach this generation the truth about the word of God which is is the light and it witl set them free.
Last month my husband and I disagreed to an extent we had to involve parents and wazees but by God's grace we were able to talk and settle things. I was so angry and I blamed everything on him and forgiveness was not easy but by the help of the Holy spirit I read John 8:3 about the adulterous woman and then romans 2:1,22 immediately I had to repent and I feel free and ready to let go of anger and bitterness.
This is the best conversation I have ever heard. Life experience and the truth being told. God bless you so much for bringing real people to this channel to speak about real life . God bless you too Robert Burale..
I've learned a lot from this ...Thank you so much I needed to hear this.I'm scared of being alone/lonely so I tolerated lot of heartbreak .I sometimes jumped from one relationship to the next...trying to fill a void that can't be filled and it has got me in a situation that I'm now not happy with.🤔
Very true Lyn,his voice is unique.. have learned alot ,it hasn't been easy to get over my ex but at least now I have a clue where to start , thank you.
WOW...burale 🔥🔥🔥🔥,am inspired ,I thought I was the only one who went through the trauma of breakup.thumps up burale.
One thing most people don't understand,is that a person who has failed in a relationship gives the best advice, I've learned alot from most of my failures.
Keep up R.B
If you meet christ when you are alive you meet a saviour when you meet him when you are dead you meet the judge..... Wow wow even if i don't learn anything else in this interview that one thing is enough 🙌🙌
Very true people confuse LOVE and LUST so it should be intentional love I like that
Asanteni sana. Nimefahamishwa, nimecheka kama kumbafu. Tuaschane na ujinga mob tu. Mungu awa bariki sana.
I also know one day will sit here with Lynn🙌🙌💯🙏
Oooh Burale you have nailed it!!!!!!generation ya today imepotea, they know no love; sexual immorality tu no wonder there are so may heartbreaks and breakups. Hawajielewi
Love Mr.Burale's insights....and he has a great sense of humor as well!
Lynn am addicted by your show.niko wa kwanza always. Kama kawaida with my popcorns 🍿 TO enjoy the show
This was really awesome!
Am so much educated.
May he come again and again.
I would like him to speak about how to redeem lost self esteem(failing to believe in yourself and feeling worthless in the face of everyone.)
Thank you Burale,Thank you Lynn
Sure sure, I hope Lynn sees this
Know your worthy first ...count yourself loved and worthy before God not before your offenders...you will heal so easy...
I have stayed for toxic marriage for 20 years before I could run away 3 time trying to make things work out and fearing to be called single mom coz I have raised up by a single mother so I hated that and I need to be in a man hands,I did have a Dad, grandfather or a brother and to uncles it was not good place to be coz of much things so in that marriage I tried to tie myself to him hata madharau yote nilikua na samehe coz I was saved and in me nilikua na jalibu kunyenyekea nione kama ita work but please it was killing me slowly and I was wrong to make someone know your most fear juu nimegogwa na kuto taka kua single but now for 8 months from the time I Divorce I feel I don't want to be near eny man and I feel to stay a lone is best , I have forgiven him and he have moved on and have married but for me I want to stay listening to the word of God all the time waiting for God guide line and He God who is helping me through Jesus and my helper Holy spirit 🙏🙏🙏 am composing my music and now I have a lot of song and believing to get money to record and to praise my God is my priority for now.
Was really waiting for this interview... Burale is full of wisdom
Single ladies I think you are taking notes. Thanks alot lyyn I love u sana
I just love this gentle man's advice
Thanks Lynn one day invite Burare and Pastor T together.Thanks for this topic.
Wooow! Bring Benjamin zulu too please🙏
I love this guy,,I wish I can get talk to him daily
RB a great man of God, everyday I learn a lot from you… live long mtumshi… nakupenda bure more blessings and to Lynn a great show baraka gal…
Honestly the two of you look amazing together 😍😍
Nakwambia separation hurt, it tears from inside. If separated by someone you love. But too you can't hold or force someone to love you or leave with you. It good to let them go and cry once; than holding them to make you crying
Exactly.
Hi darling Lynn, next bring BENJAMIN ZULU on the show, much love from qatar🥰
Benjamin Zulu is one of a kind, very wise and to the point. Will Lynn manage the maestro!!! He is very blunt.
@@TheFrancesZachary she will
Yea please do
Me too, I want benjamin
Benjamin is very loud
Some serious morning life classes before work 😊 Thanks Lynn.
Thank you Lynn for hosting Mr R. Burale! I like his accent,he is full of wisdom and humor 🤣. Eg : A husband with a public opinion 🤣
" If the person is not healed from the previous relationship,you are in danger." Thumb up !!
When the topic is all we needed!Lynn I want to view the ads for lyyn but at the same time I hate them inferering with my attention 🤗🤗🤗.its the therapy I needed today.lots love to you😍
He's really talking the truth💯💯 karibu nimsho aache kushout 😂😂🤣
Hahahaha
@@liliannzisa9630 😂😂sindio
Pounding on the truth again and again and again! Informative! To Lynn and Robert, kudos!
For there is nothing more flimsy than the human heart ❤️ time is a real healer ...by time we will all heal from our heartaches 🫂🙏let's forgive our offenders even if they didn't ask for forgiveness ❤️🙏
It's hard to especially when they don't say sorry and ask to be 4given
Always beautiful and educative to hear from coach burale.
Never never be judgemental but Let God to walk in all situation.
Great advice, accept it happened. For me I accepted nilichezwa. I accepted and accepted and accepted some more. And I moved on. I love my beautiful kids out of the relationship
Lynn Robert is so true. Everything he says is a reality and I love listening to him. Thank you bringing him. I now understand some happenings.
Wow..Finally Lynn noticed me🙏😂. Thank you so much 🙏
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Learning every day from this channel much love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
This man this man,, so real and honest kudos to you both ata sijui looking forward to the next show
Hi. Robert God bless you. Keep speaking to the broken hearts. This is an area the church has neglected.
I wish we had people like Burale in yesteryears. Some of us would not have been through what we’ve endured.
You hit all the major points. Be careful who offers you a shoulder to cry on .
Intentional love and falling in love i love the explanation once I was in the same condition nothing worse like breakups
Nice.. I love this guy.. He hits you with naked truth
Lynn Ngugi you always do a good job. Looking forward to sitting on your show and talk about men. However, you guys have tackled what I wanted to hear today.
Am loving Burare's point of view on relationships 👌 yes coaches are not players. Am a window advising married women all the time🙏
Like me I married a person who thought I will help him heal a break up,am still in but av been swimming in dam of emotional torture,now I get where it's all coming from.
Emotional abuse is worse than physical. Me and you same whatsapp group
The coach is a great God fearing man please Lynn allow him to come back and talk more on divorce and if one can remarry the same person they divorced
I would really love such content too.
Thank Lynn for this interview we need more of this topic
Its acceptance for me.i concur with you.acceptance is the first step to healing
Robert, I almost disliked you for pride but now I feel love for you. You are reach in genuine information. You are smart guy 👍🏾
I have watched two years later but I'm blessed by these words or wisdom. Belated thanks sister Lynn for your initiative to cover various subjects including this. Greetings from Uganda 🙏🏽
I thank God for Robert's advice. Lynn what Robert is saying it is not an enlightment that women we have been turned to objects of sexual gratification in the name of love. Love goes beyond that. And by the way as women we are now being abused from dating to marriage because we have become sex machines. It is tiring I am telling you a love relationship built on sex alone. It fades away very quickly
Intentional love that changes the generation
this topic was clearly ment fr my ears.always a pleasure when coach is dropping wisdom on us.
Because of RB, I say thank you
This was one of the best conversations ever thank you lynn
It is the small things that open you to big things.
And yeeeesssss bring RB back soon
This has woken me up, I have to keep learning to be single as a widow
Great lesson Lynn👍🏿Bring him back!He is speaking the Truth to shame the devil! Wow!wow!Truth👍🏿🙏🏿🙏🏽
Lynn i love your show.. Burale you are real but this life is hard am in diaspora and single am praying for God to give me a husband who is genuine and committed. Life is hard alone and we don't need rebounds in our lives..
Insightful topics there. Thanks Lynn & Burare for airling it🙏
This guy Burale is gifted and God sent to save relationships.
Wow! Much wisdom right there! Marriage is not grounded on love but being Intentional!!
This was really a blessing 🙏 thank you lyn ngugi and Robert 😘
Amazing
Not first time listening this man,,,I like his advice
You should check him out on his show, "OOH MEN SHOW"
Lynn you look absolutely gorgeous. You are beautiful and your content is top notch. Keep it up. I affirm you💯👌
Burale's voice is great, I agree to that compliment too Lynn.
Thank you Lynn for hosting Robert burale on your show irs was🙌🙌 am blessed beyond measure the wisdom from the man can't wait second session with him and learn more💃💃💃
His voice is can remove the snake from pangoni, anyway whichever language mmeelewa😂😂🤣
Thankyou so much Lynn for bringing this wonderful man on this show. Very educative and full of wisdom. We need this kind of talks in the show, Please bring him again. Our society do not address issues as they should and no wonder Gods people get lost for lack of wisdom.
Sure 100% no falling in love ....that one i really agree
Wow powerful teachings to young and elders to be encouraged with congratulation man and Lyn
😂😂. Lynn you've got me off guard apo kwa kupost mpaka memes anyway much grateful for this conversation a've learnt alot and also a huge shout out to our guest ♥️♥️
Yeah,let the gospel be preached in this dark world
Too much information, I agree. We need limits always. 👌🏿
Best friends is what to look for or etablish because you cant want to hurt your best friend...Wow
Hii kanairo watu wanaheal kweli???we break up take sometime in pretence of healing, then start again just to undergo character development in double dose...unalia hadi machozi ya kulia kwa mazishi inakosekana....
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I just love this man, Robert you are just real and I love that about you. Keep doing what you do.
I like listening to this man... You inspire me a lot, may God bless you
i know we tell people who dont care,it has sunk in,am learning to take a step back
Robert burale,l love you for free
Lynn never dissapoint - conversation was flowing naturally. Densel - Densel...
Coaching is what we all need,we need more coaches,am coming up