ASMR - am i the a**hole? reading stories from the aita subreddit…

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  • Опубликовано: 8 июл 2024
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    0:00 intro :))
    0:22 explaining AITA
    1:27 AITA for sending my coworker into anaphylactic shock?
    4:38 AITA for not telling a guy what i do for work, and letting him pay for my drinks during the whole evening?
    7:35 AITA for wanting my daughters bf/soon to be fiancé to know her dark secret before marriage?
    12:28 WIBTA if i asked my pregnant wife to move out because her and her best friend decided to "test" my loyalty?
    15:09 AITA for serving a pregnant woman a non-alcoholic cocktail?
    19:01 AITA for not forgiving my husband for a mistake, and not trusting him with our child?
    25:06 AITA for telling my friend's friend that he couldn't keep the jackpot that he hit on my antique slot machine?
    28:14 AITA for changing all the locks in my house without letting my mom know?
    31:59 AITA for refusing to go to my daughter's graduation ceremony?
    36:22 AITA for trying to talk my friend out of taking a paternity test?
    39:20 outro
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  • @cinemaspire7258
    @cinemaspire7258 Год назад +202

    Hearing the sociopathic daughter one was a breath of fresh air, because that is what a true sociopath is; not the self diagnosed tiktok definition of being a "sociopath" because they think it's cool to be one.

    • @shivdiaz
      @shivdiaz Год назад +16

      everyone with aspd is different just like everyone ever is different. there are lots of different ways sociopathy presents & it isn’t a rare disorder so chances are a lot more people have it than we think. some people with aspd can feel empathy and love as well, it’s a spectrum

    • @issh1n
      @issh1n Год назад +9

      @@shivdiaz aspd is very rare and only in super rare cases can a person with aspd feel love. do more research

    • @shivdiaz
      @shivdiaz Год назад +2

      @@issh1n aspd isnt super rare at all. it seems like it when you look at the stats but even 1% would still be like 80 million people, and the latest data i could find says 5% of the population which would be 400 million people

    • @issh1n
      @issh1n Год назад +4

      @@shivdiaz at the most there’s like 150 million people on the planet with it so idk where you’re getting your data from. also it occurs in like .5 to 1 percent of women and 1 to 3 percent of men so id consider that rare.

    • @shivdiaz
      @shivdiaz Год назад +4

      @@issh1n research by mental health of america states that the percentage of people diagnosed with or who qualify for an aspd diagnosis is 2-5%

  • @Samammt92
    @Samammt92 2 года назад +404

    I got a lot of allergies too, and I've been pretty cautious about what I can and can't eat. BUT, what I can't fathom, is why someone with allergies would steal someone else's lunch. If I was her, I'd keep all my food to myself, and PERSONALLY make my lunches the night before... Just saying... (Love your vids btw... :3)

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +41

      for real… i had a really bad gluten intolerance when i was younger and i can’t fathom stealing other peoples lunch especially when you don’t know what’s in it 😭

    • @sarie2635
      @sarie2635 2 года назад +1

      There is an update for that story, it's not completely what it seems

    • @pineappleplaguedoc
      @pineappleplaguedoc 2 года назад +1

      @@sarie2635 ?? the story is pretty much what it seems.

    • @sarie2635
      @sarie2635 2 года назад +1

      @@pineappleplaguedoc idk the dad was exaggerating what happened making up bills that didn't exist? And the girl did apologize to op? Idk if I'm thinking of something else but I was more sympathetic to the girl after cuz with a dad like that?

    • @pineappleplaguedoc
      @pineappleplaguedoc 2 года назад +3

      @@sarie2635 are we talking about the same story?? where the boss's daughter steals the guys lunch? what do you mean by bills?

  • @andrewhines2565
    @andrewhines2565 2 года назад +30

    How tf am I supposed to sleep when these stories are so interesting

  • @olliehe9972
    @olliehe9972 2 года назад +236

    12:30 you'd think a MARRIED couple going through a pregnancy would've already made up their goddamn minds about loyalty

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +43

      no for real…

    • @megiggity
      @megiggity 2 года назад +12

      i think they need some couples therapy but then again she’s pregnant so she is gonna be acting weird if you get me as her hormones will be fucked up. i’m sure she would stop with the craziness after she gives birth? i don’t know just find it interesting :)

    • @ThatGuy-en2nn
      @ThatGuy-en2nn 2 года назад

      I like how he was the a$$hole by popular vote.....I guess people were thinking of the kid or just felt uneasy because she was pregnant.

    • @yefriareli
      @yefriareli 2 года назад +16

      @@megiggity I’m pregnant and hormones are the worst. However we do know what we’re doing. If I’m emotional then I let my bf know but I also know that it’s not okay to be an asshole to my partner. And the testing of loyalty is just childish. I think they need therapy, apart and couples. I’m also confused as to why he said kick her out and not divorce. If you’re in marriage then you both work it out but he can’t be kicking her out while she’s pregnant and potentially bringing her back in after she’s giving birth because he might think she won’t be an asshole to him. Do I make sense? Lol sorry

    • @elneneromeo2224
      @elneneromeo2224 Год назад +1

      @Ollie HE99. EXODUS 20:7 reads: Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.

  • @jessicagrafius3610
    @jessicagrafius3610 Год назад +27

    Upon researching the matter I found out that a bar tender or restaurant cannot refuse alcohol to someone based on pregnancy or perceived pregnancy which is literally so insane to me.

    • @minijamk6726
      @minijamk6726 Год назад +5

      he might get fired but they can definitely publicly shame them and let everyone in the Bar know what the mother's doing. I'd probably just do that and then quit

    • @demetriam2408
      @demetriam2408 Год назад +2

      It's probably because of profiling issues, where because of someone's bias they might not let certain women drink because they're pregnant, like overweight women. This could also apply because of liability issues, where bars paid lawmakers to make sure that they would not be liable for serving pregnant people, but in effect made it so they couldn't deny them. These are just theories though.

  • @recoverydisorderASMR
    @recoverydisorderASMR 2 года назад +182

    I am living for this. I love your Reddit scary stories and I love this Reddit thread. I’m probably not “with it” but Reddit is extremely confusing to me and I don’t quite understand the subreddit rabbit hole

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +23

      reddit is definitely a bit frustrating at times but it’s a really nice platform once you get adjusted !!! and i’m so glad you enjoyed it :))

    • @recoverydisorderASMR
      @recoverydisorderASMR 2 года назад +8

      @@madiduvasmr you could read cleaning bottle labels or drug guide pamphlets and I would listen and re-listen

    • @Varangiangaurd
      @Varangiangaurd 2 года назад

      Reddit is a shithole don't touch it

  • @rainyday_1307
    @rainyday_1307 2 года назад +59

    ik this was posted a few days ago, but i didnt see any time stamps, so i figured id make some as i watch!!
    0:01 - intro :))
    0:22 - explaining AITA
    1:27 - AITA for sending my coworker into anaphylactic shock?
    4:38 - AITA for not telling a guy what i do for work, and letting him pay for my drinks during the whole evening?
    7:35 - AITA for wanting my daughters bf/soon to be fiancé to know her dark secret before marriage?
    12:28 - would i be the asshole if i asked my pregnant wife to move out because her and her best friend decided to "test" my loyalty?
    15:09 - AITA for serving a pregnant woman a non-alcoholic cocktail?
    19:01 - AITA for not forgiving my husband for a mistake, and not trusting him with our child?
    25:06 - AITA for telling my friend's friend that he couldn't keep the jackpot that he hit on my antique slot machine?
    28:14 - AITA for changing all the locks in my house without letting my mom know?
    31:59 - AITA for refusing to go to my daughter's graduation ceremony?
    36:22 - AITA for trying to talk my friend out of taking a paternity test?
    39:20 - outro

  • @Fri3ndly.Gh0st
    @Fri3ndly.Gh0st Год назад +8

    Side eye to the mom who didn’t go to her daughter’s graduation. Like, shes being emotionally manipulated by her father.. and instead of getting mad at him.. for setting the “rule” and then ditching.. you want to “teach HER a lesson?” BFFR. Don’t be surprised when your ass ends up in nursing home 💀

  • @themillennialteacherasmr
    @themillennialteacherasmr 2 года назад +16

    First person is definitely NOT the asshole. If you have a food allergy, it is your responsibility to 1) advocate for yourself; 2) not eat foods that contain contaminates…i.e. NOT EAT SOMEONE ELSE’S LUNCH

  • @DarkShadows713
    @DarkShadows713 Год назад +6

    Even ONE alcoholic beverage can give your child fetal alcohol syndrome... unless you're planning on having an abortion, that is child abuse because it affects them once they are born. That woman is the asshole in this situation. What the hell??

  • @cerealmilk6
    @cerealmilk6 2 года назад +35

    I wonder why the dad hasn’t actually just asked his daughter if she actually loves her boyfriend? He says he knows she’s attracted to him and likes his company, but he doubts she loves him. Why not just ask? Also if she gets upset when he talks about telling her boyfriend the truth out of fear of scaring him away, maybe she does love him?

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +8

      that’s a really good point 😭

    • @itsybitsyblondie457
      @itsybitsyblondie457 Год назад +14

      People of this condition are incapable of ever loving anyone or anything. The thing is, love and attraction are very different things. She very clearly is attracted to him and enjoys being in his company. Having to mask emotions with imitations of the real thing and never fully being empathetic of your partner’s feelings can’t go unnoticed forever. Many of these people can have healthy relationships if they’re open about what they’re facing. In this situation, her partner has zero idea and wants to move to marriage. How are you going to be in a marriage with someone who’s hiding that big of a part of themselves? Lack of empathy and genuine love is a huge component missing from a relationship.

    • @shivdiaz
      @shivdiaz Год назад +1

      @@itsybitsyblondie457 that’s not entirely true. just like any other disorder, sociopathy is a spectrum

    • @blade7506
      @blade7506 Год назад

      sociopaths are incapable of love

    • @Th3_Sage
      @Th3_Sage Год назад

      he should know tho

  • @KekerikiGreen
    @KekerikiGreen Год назад +5

    Unpopular opinion but I support the fifth guy. Maybe he should have just straight up refused the group more drinks, but as someone who has seen the effects on children of mothers doing substances while pregnant, I think he made a good choice. The effects of FAS are disastrous. It's really a situation where someone did the "wrong" thing for the right reason.

  • @aneveningmorning
    @aneveningmorning 2 года назад +62

    I’m so tired of parents trying to teach their kids lessons 😭 just be there for your kids man

    • @aylinitzel.
      @aylinitzel. Год назад +1

      That is the worst time to teach them a lesson. I understand the mom was hurt, but the daughter is still a young and stupid, it wasn’t right leaving her alone that day.

  • @DjDj-hk9rq
    @DjDj-hk9rq 2 года назад +14

    IDK HOW BUT THIS VIDEO IS QUICKLY BECOMING MY FAVORITE STORIES VID IT'S JUST SO PERFECT. THE STORIES ARE SO ENTERTAINING SO I CAN LISTEN WHEN IM NOT SLEEPING. AND YOUR GENERAL WHISPERING IS ALWAYS GOOD SO I CAN FALL ASLEEP TO IT. PLUS AS ALWAYS YOUR APPEARANCE/OUTFIT IS AMAZINGGG

    • @PolarGarlic
      @PolarGarlic 2 года назад +1

      YES OMG YES

    • @taka-yt9or
      @taka-yt9or 2 года назад +1

      I second this, the whispering is so goooood

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +3

      I’LL BE SURE TO TURN IT INTO A WHOLE SERIES

  • @Bbyon28s
    @Bbyon28s 2 года назад +18

    The pregnancy and drinking alcohol one is so stupid. It should be illegal to drink heavily or do drugs while pregnancy when your aware. Wtf is wrong with people disgusting woman.

  • @graycole
    @graycole 2 года назад +4

    This was a really good video, I agree with most of the consensus’s and I loved how well detailed everyone made their posts and it didn’t feel like there was any inconsistencies or holes in them. Also, your whisper is so relaxing :) have a good night

  • @kathology7792
    @kathology7792 2 года назад +2

    love this video!! ive been too scared to watch ur reddit scary story videos so i’m so glad u made this

  • @katedan9939
    @katedan9939 2 года назад

    you should definitely do more of these i absolutely love all of your scary stories and love these stories as well

  • @jesuspadilla1231
    @jesuspadilla1231 2 года назад

    So happy to see your channel grow! You truly deserve it

  • @createdinscience
    @createdinscience 2 года назад +3

    I loveee this series, more of this pleaseee💕

  • @hozic9929
    @hozic9929 2 года назад +5

    Asmr + Reddit content is amazing

  • @elenakuzina6793
    @elenakuzina6793 Год назад

    ty for this video!! i've had an awful day and i just can't fall asleep without being distracted by some story.

  • @gr33n0liv3
    @gr33n0liv3 2 года назад +1

    this was the best aita video i’ve seen it’s so entertaining good job madi

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +1

      aweee thank you so much for saying that

    • @gr33n0liv3
      @gr33n0liv3 2 года назад +1

      @@madiduvasmr ofc !!

  • @pineappleplaguedoc
    @pineappleplaguedoc 2 года назад +4

    great content as always! these videos are perfect to fall asleep to.

  • @AirMantis01
    @AirMantis01 2 года назад

    Couldn’t fall asleep but your voice is soothing so I enjoyed it. I listened to the stories but probably would have enjoyed you just talking about your day or something just as much 😊

  • @Karma-ji6ud
    @Karma-ji6ud 2 года назад +7

    In that first one, can they not literally just report them or some shit or just leave to find a new job? Because if that behavior continues, it's just a matter of time before it escalates once more.
    They have no evidence against this person, no matter how badly the boss' daughter was affected because of it. And even if they are led to believe it was the OP, they can't say whether the taking of their lunch was consensual or not. Honestly, at that point it's just natural selection if you're just grabbing food and eating it without asking what's in it.

  • @HamSammye
    @HamSammye 2 года назад +30

    Omg this is so fun! I love your video selection I feel like it has such a good mix of things for everyone to enjoy :)

  • @CiaraRichardson
    @CiaraRichardson 2 месяца назад

    Would love more of this series with your own opinions at the end of each story

  • @90sbby37
    @90sbby37 2 года назад +7

    perfect timing! I was about to start working on some stuff and needed something to listen to...thank you madi! 💞
    edit: madi! this was amazing! I'd love more aita videos from you omg!!

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад

      so glad to hear you enjoyed it

  • @ardensanossian155
    @ardensanossian155 2 года назад +2

    I had a crappy day so this is a great video plus I always love these stories

  • @tylerjeffries6738
    @tylerjeffries6738 2 года назад +3

    I love these reddit reading videos their litrally my favorite

  • @lilkorok
    @lilkorok 2 года назад +9

    best way to end a crappy day at work, thanks maddie. have a great weekend

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +1

      hope your evening was lovely, you deserve it

  • @lapsedgoth
    @lapsedgoth Год назад +3

    I think that sometimes, just because YTA doesn't mean you're automatically in the wrong. Sometimes you have to be the asshole or you'll be put in the place where you'll end up being the asshole no matter what you do.
    What's really wild to me is the man about to blow up his relationship over some whack friend telling him to get a paternity test for his kid. Like how do you not realize that's going to hurt the person you're supposed to love and trust. If my husband did that to me I'd leave to stay with my mother till he sorts himself out....

  • @megiggity
    @megiggity 2 года назад +3

    oh my god this is like the minecraft parkour or subway surfers reddit tik toks but asmr 🤣i am so excited to watch this rn!!! you’re a genius girl 🥰

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад

      BAHAHAHAHA SO TRUE - hope you enjoyed :))

  • @howtomakepancakes8925
    @howtomakepancakes8925 Год назад

    I love storytime/AITA asmr thanks for this !!

  • @ctrlaltshift
    @ctrlaltshift 2 года назад +27

    Am I crazy for thinking the mom is totally the asshole in #9?
    Like, granted not letting your mom come to your ceremony is absolutely horrible, but if your daughter is crying because no one is going to her once-in-a-lifetime graduation ceremony, you shouldn't just not go so you can "teach her a lesson".
    There's a time and place to teach lessons but if she wanted her dad to be there that badly this is clearly an important moment for her. You are literally traumatizing your child because they were an asshole to you after getting manipulated by their dad. The dad not coming to the ceremony was her lesson. She already feels like shit because of it. The mom going to hang out with sister instead is just salt in the wound and tells the daughter that nobody cares about her.
    I definitely feel like the daughter has every right not talk to her mom for a while after that, but maybe that's just me.

    • @pkbanana289
      @pkbanana289 Год назад +9

      Agreed! Like that’s the kind of lesson you teach for like a girls night out, not you’re *high school graduation*. She knew no one would be there and still let her daughter go alone. Like you said, she already felt horrible about her dad not going, someone she wanted to share at least one last good moment with, but not only did he bail but so did her mother who she was close with. She’s a horrible mom and should feel like an asshole.

    • @Coincidence..
      @Coincidence.. Год назад +6

      Absolutely, she needs to realize that this is the reason her daughter isn’t going to talk to her anymore

  • @itsevelynxx1275
    @itsevelynxx1275 2 года назад +14

    Aaa it's my 20th bday today xx. Love ur videos so much they really do relax me throughout some stressful times. Uni has been a pain but you have made it so much better

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +2

      HAPPY BIRTHDAY

    • @itsevelynxx1275
      @itsevelynxx1275 2 года назад

      @@madiduvasmr thank u so much x sorry about the late reply had a really busy day 💕

  • @Vlogss.531
    @Vlogss.531 2 года назад

    I loved this video it was so interesting and your voice was so smooth I would definitely love more of these AITA videos

  • @TK--hp4ob
    @TK--hp4ob Год назад +1

    GET THIS PERSON MORE SUBS. The content is superb.

  • @alondra3696
    @alondra3696 2 года назад

    Your hair is so pretty!!!

  • @sydthepinksquidasmr
    @sydthepinksquidasmr 2 года назад +1

    Yayyy I’ve been waiting for more of your reading voice

  • @AdrianSilva-wv6bn
    @AdrianSilva-wv6bn 2 года назад +1

    Really relaxing for my tingles and sleep 😌😴

  • @massylii
    @massylii 2 года назад +1

    My discovery of the day 💜💜

  • @DarkShadows713
    @DarkShadows713 Год назад +3

    "Am I the asshole for bringing food for me to eat and not anticipating that someone with severe allergies would steal and eat it?" fixed the title of the first story. Lol

  • @kourtthewart8
    @kourtthewart8 10 месяцев назад +3

    hear me out: I don’t think the server who substituted the alcoholic cocktails with virgin cocktails is an asshole. The woman (and her friends, to an extent) with blatant disregard for her unborn baby is indeed the asshole.

  • @butterthetoast8139
    @butterthetoast8139 2 года назад

    More please. This was a brilliant video idea. Keep it up 🙂

  • @howieziegler3110
    @howieziegler3110 Год назад +1

    The second chance story is sooooo sad… for her. He will never protect her or their children from harm. He can’t even protect her from himself.

  • @morblol
    @morblol 2 года назад +1

    EXCITED FOR THIS !!!!!!!!

  • @dogtoyz654
    @dogtoyz654 2 года назад +11

    Oh yeah I already know this'll be good

  • @brxndon8231
    @brxndon8231 2 года назад +2

    first one makes me so happy

  • @miststepwcue221
    @miststepwcue221 Год назад +1

    Honestly I love this video bc the scary stories scare me and keep me up but I love hearing you read!

  • @nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh777
    @nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh777 2 года назад +5

    Can you do more of these videos? This is like my two fav things to watch at once lol

  • @TTV_Juuud3s19
    @TTV_Juuud3s19 2 года назад +3

    I was looking for the cutest asmrist to help me fall asleep and i think i found her

  • @acd7869
    @acd7869 2 года назад +2

    I love this

  • @24kandis
    @24kandis Год назад

    Dude, can I just say that I loooovvvveeeee your hair? It's really cool

  • @grisennike848
    @grisennike848 2 года назад +23

    *Will update as I go thru the video but heres my opinions~
    1. NTA, speaks for itself, who does that
    2. NTA and honestly OP seems hillarious
    3. This is a tough one but im saying a mix between NAH and ESH because everyone has things that both make them an asshole and in the right? The daughter def should tell her boyfriend about her diagnosis since its something you cant clearly notice (If itd had been ex autism thatd be another thing since the autism symptomps arent "hidden") but at the same time, sharing your mantal health is har
    The father because while he just wants whats best for the boyfriend its also very much not his place to tell, plus he doesnt know their relationship like his daughter does and there could be major pieces of information they know that he doesnt that would make their relationship healthier than its pictured here (Ex. the boyfriend could know abt her feelings to an extent and accept that, he couldve noticed her sociopathic behaviour without the label actually being used, she could be overexagerating with not feeling love for others (I know people with mental health issues that very much have done so)) A tough case!
    4. NTA/NAH if she hadn't been pregnant it would be a 100% NTA but at the same time I'm assuming a lot of this is pregnancy mood swings? I agree with the couple counceling though since not all of this can be excused with mood swings (More it enhances her behaviour?) I agree with the couples counciling one though to 100%
    5. YTA it wouldve been one thing if op had asked the pregnant woman if she was sure or made it clear they wouldnt give her an alcoholic drink because of the fetus but its still her choice if she drinks alcohol or not and you shouldnt lie like that to a customer
    6. NTA i was actually thinking of a NTA/NAH mix until it said he had been racist because while sure, she who was innocent didnt deserve that, from his pov it mustve looked Very Much like she had cheated and while sure he probably overreacted, would people say he was just as obviously terrible incase she had cheated?
    (I am getting tired so I will stop here)

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +3

      yesss i agree with you on all of these so far !!!

  • @TrufeaboutGaming
    @TrufeaboutGaming 2 года назад +2

    Your look is so unique

  • @alexwheaton
    @alexwheaton Год назад

    I'm a 33yo "millennial", and even though I identify a lot more with my "friends" in the "GenZ" category, I've never really been on Reddit (other than a few specific stories and things that were sent to me by friend. MadiDuv, thanks for exposing me to some great ass content (love the Reddit scary stories too, I listen to them when I can't sleep in the wee hours of the morning when music is too much but silence is triggering) great channel!! Always impressed and entertained!

  • @Wybieishott
    @Wybieishott 2 года назад +2

    Please do another scary Reddit series 😅

  • @alexwheaton
    @alexwheaton Год назад +1

    Mom's an asshole for not going out of spite/teaching her a lesson, BUT at the same time. If your mom (or anyone) has been on ur side your whole life and then you change up in favor of someone who hasn't. Don't be surprised when A, the one that was never there once again bails and B, the one you turned your back on is butthurt and wants to hurt you back. I mean I think mom's an asshole, but I would have done the same honestly

  • @rrameado
    @rrameado 2 года назад +3

    omg you started curling your bangs ! they suit you sooo well 🥹🥹 u r too cute
    #1: nta, why is she stealing peoples lunches 🤨
    #2: nta guy had his head so far up his ass he thought he was superior to her because he assumed she was a cashier
    LMAOOO my plan was to post my opinion on the stories but i didn’t realize how many stories there were 😭😭😭

    • @rrameado
      @rrameado 2 года назад

      #3 this is very hard 👁👁 the bf should know about this but i think he should hear it from her but since she won’t tell him i guess the dad should tell him??? but then again that’s his daughter’s business and it’s not for him to be informing people but his dad is only watching out for the bf idk 😪😪😪

  • @ephie4351
    @ephie4351 Год назад

    Hair game is 10/10

  • @AlexSmith-sz5ru
    @AlexSmith-sz5ru Год назад

    i love ur hair :)

  • @CH4SEWarZ
    @CH4SEWarZ 2 года назад +2

    I know I asked a bit ago but you should definitely still try to do the eden roleplay when the new ST season comes out

  • @gr33n0liv3
    @gr33n0liv3 2 года назад +3

    here are my very overthought opinions on these if anyone wants to read them
    1. absolutely not i think everyone who thinks they are is crazy😭 it’s not their fault ESPECIALLY BECAUSE IT SMELLS AND TASTES NUTTY WTF HOW DO YOU NOT REALIZE THAT plus you can’t borrow someone’s lunch you can’t like give that back😭
    2. again absolutely not he was such an asshole though like being proud of yourself fine but then only focusing on that and urself and assuming the other person is a cashier because their friend is ??? makes no sense and also you can’t insist to pay for someone then get mad after all that
    3. definitely a very tricky issue and i don’t think you can morally win either way but also i think it’s better if the guys knows the truth especially because he’ll probably find out someday so better sooner rather than later like after they get married because that would be a lot worse in a lot of ways but mostly emotionally and financially and also i feel like if he’s really understanding and he really loves her and he understands that she will never feel love for anyone then he can choose to stay with her but also it’s his decision he can choose to stay or leave when he knows idk if that makes sense😭
    4. she’s being a dick and “loyalty tests” are so dumb like if u can’t trust ur partner don’t be with them and couples therapy is a good idea and after that i think it’ll be a clearer answer
    5. i think his intentions were good but i think there were better ways of going about it like asking her or refusing to give her alcohol or even just letting her know it was virgin before she drank it so maybe ??? tbh i don’t think anyone was REALLY an asshole here there just could’ve been better decisions made
    6. the dad is the asshole because like i get it you don’t want to be cheated on like that’s terrible but also if you assume that don’t destroy everything they have just over an assumption like if they actually did then yeah fine cheaters fucking suck but not just over an assumption AND ALSO THE FACT HE WAS RACIST ??!!! like there’s never an excuse to be racist so fuck him AND the fact that he spread a rumor to her family and made them turn on her like that’s families fault for blaming her but his fault for starting it
    7. mmmm kinda yeah because like at least give him something but also if they know how much is in there and they let people use it knowing that that’s a possibility you cant get surprised and mad when someone does and if you cant afford it fine but explain that and compromise because it wasn’t really theirs to begin with?? i mena it sorta was but still
    8. no he’s not i mean his mom treated her own son like shit for a guy who she’s dating/newly married to and it is his legally so he did nothing wrong like madi said it’s not the nicest thing to do but he’s not being an asshole
    9. no if the dad wanted to be there for her life he could’ve been but he chose not to and when he finally gave her hope he fucked her over which is the dads fault and i get that if they abandon you and then seem like they wanna be in ur life again youd want that but also since her mom had been there through everything and they were really close it really really wasn’t fair to her and her dad didn’t deserve to be there especially if it means her mom couldn’t go
    10. the friend who brainwashed nick is the real asshole here but i don’t think it’s any of their friends business and i agree that jess needs support and love and not questioning and doubt from nick

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +1

      you’re so right for all of these 🙏🙏

    • @gr33n0liv3
      @gr33n0liv3 2 года назад

      @@madiduvasmr thank you!!

  • @sadboy-vc4qo
    @sadboy-vc4qo 2 года назад +3

    Answers:
    1-No
    2-No
    3-No?
    4-No
    5-No
    6-No
    7-Yes
    8-No
    9-No?
    10-No?

  • @choosedeath
    @choosedeath 2 года назад +11

    i think the man who served the pregnant woman virgin cocktails was in the wrong, but i also think he had very good intentions in not wanting the pregnant woman to consume alcohol for fear of fetal alcohol syndrome. he definitely should have just refused to serve her any drinks, and on the surface it is tampering with someone’s order, but i don’t think he should’ve been so unanimously scrutinized the way he was.

    • @harrybassett2809
      @harrybassett2809 Год назад +3

      Tampering? He removed alcohol from a drink. Acting like he spiked her or smt. Oh no u removed the alcohol and didn't give me the ability to make a horrible choice

    • @rachelelliott9100
      @rachelelliott9100 Год назад

      That would be a valid concern….IF that was how Fetal alcohol syndrome worked. Most babies that have FASD have mothers who drink heavily/regularly throughout pregnancy. Not have a few drinks.

    • @blade7506
      @blade7506 Год назад

      @@rachelelliott9100 it can occur even if ONE drink is consumed

    • @nicolewagner5320
      @nicolewagner5320 Год назад +2

      pregnant woman who knowingly drink disgust me so much

  • @adoz.p
    @adoz.p 2 года назад +1

    Hi MadiDuv, recently I found your chanel, I like the way you move your hands at the begining, sound like butterflies. Sorry about my basic english. Never give up, RESPECT.
    Un fuerte abrazo para ti

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад

      no need to be sorry, thank you so much for being so kind

  • @PercyBoom69
    @PercyBoom69 Год назад +2

    nah, anyone who thinks the bartender is the asshole is insane. When talking about a reddit story, we're not looking at it legally, but morally. He was morally correct to not give her alcohol, even though he should've told her.

  • @alexwheaton
    @alexwheaton Год назад

    Damn dude, the dad of the daughter with ASPD is a hard one. As someone diagnosed with "Cluster B Personality Disorder NOS" (it's a "not otherwise specified" group of personality disorders than include "multiple of any of the following but none of all of the traits of any of the specific diagnosis" of Anti Social Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Histornic Personality Disorder.) This all means I get both the feelings and emotions (or lack there of) of the daughter and how hard it makes dating difficult (I chose not not because even though I've never felt guilt, I do have a measure of empathy for some ppl, spawning from the fact that I have more BPD traits than ASPD probably due to my trauma and the fact that I had a loving family and lots and lots of mental health care from a very young age.) At the same time I understand the dad's quandary. He likes and respects and "feels" for the guy who's in love with her daughter and wants to protect him. Lmao 🤷 well dad's an asshole I guess for this ONE thing, but I'm general, ppl with ASPD are "assholes" in a more general way so I guess IMHO this situation is a wash

  • @minijamk6726
    @minijamk6726 Год назад +1

    I disagree with the pregnant woman basically abusing an unborn baby. server was not the a hole. Bless that server we need more people like him and laws need to change.

    • @knifebaaastard
      @knifebaaastard Год назад

      Thank you bro, the conscious on that one baffled me

  • @PolarGarlic
    @PolarGarlic 2 года назад +5

    Am I the asshole for wanting more of these?

  • @palameno
    @palameno 3 месяца назад

    33:33 i think this daughter is valid idk i also don’t like “i will never forgive you for this” telling your KID that??? Wow

    • @palameno
      @palameno 3 месяца назад

      OOUUUH YTA

  • @peregrine5533
    @peregrine5533 11 месяцев назад +1

    oh man, the pregnant wife one is so sad - I know hormones can really throw you through a loop, but that isn't fair on him. If I ever decided I want childeren (it's not my plan at the moment. Kids aren't for me, but who knows. This is a hypothetical.), then I want to get couples therapy before kids, during pregnancy, and after the kid was shart out, even if we didn't have any problems. That's such a big change in your life, I'd imagine counselling is in order regardless.

  • @satsukiiranami
    @satsukiiranami Год назад

    While the second AITA was hard for a lotta people, I honestly felt it was quite easy for me to determine. I do agree for sure though that the author was in a damned if I do, damned if I don't situation. With that said my verdict is that he wouldn't be the asshole for telling the boyfriend about the fact his daughter is sociopathic. If anything I'd say it should've been thrown out there sooner. Say if the girl and the boyfriend got married. Hiding the fact you're a sociopath is such a huge thing to hide I would say. And sure it might screw up the relationship, but it was established in previous behaviors of the girl, that she doesn't feel love, empathy, or guilt. Hell she was indifferent to her close friend's passing. It might suck, but really she'd be indifferent to it assuming from her past behaviors. And when you think about it, imagine being so crazy for someone love wise and while you pour all your heart into that person, the other person feels a constant indifference to you unless it's sexually. Now not to say she doesn't like his presence, and I don't wanna make it seem like "She's a monster." But realistically, I feel like a disorder like being a sociopath should be mentioned at least once.

  • @ZackyASMR
    @ZackyASMR 2 года назад +1

    Hi Madi! Happy Friday 🧡

  • @benjaminwalker2984
    @benjaminwalker2984 2 года назад

    I agree with all these I just feel like some people change the story in there favor

  • @FreezyPope
    @FreezyPope Год назад

    The third one was actually the easiest one to make. She is withholding information from her soon to be husband because she’s afraid he’ll leave when he learns (automatically showing that she doesn’t trust him). She then also figures she can just marry him and it will be fine, you’re completely in the right to tell him. It doesn’t matter if she’s your daughter, you’re the main person who should be discouraging that behavior. And if you think otherwise, you’re delusional as hell.

  • @user-lt9eq6ni9w
    @user-lt9eq6ni9w 2 года назад +7

    this man does not have 80 hour workweeks and goes to the gym aint no way

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад

      yeah… that is so unbelievable 😭

  • @taka-yt9or
    @taka-yt9or 2 года назад +1

    Great video Madi :D

  • @coolvjh
    @coolvjh Год назад

    Interesting asmr. Thanks 😂

  • @mayami3228
    @mayami3228 2 года назад +1

    I can't believe you did my request

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад +1

      yesss it was SUCH a good idea 🙏🙏 thank you :))

  • @MuchyboiYt
    @MuchyboiYt 5 месяцев назад

    Am i the only 1 that thinks this hair looks realy cute on her

  • @Sophie-iq2tw
    @Sophie-iq2tw Год назад +1

    i think the sociopath's dad is morally in the clear in either case. however, i don't think he should tell the boyfriend.

  • @FlossSmile
    @FlossSmile 2 года назад +3

    How is he not the asshole for changing the locks while they were on holiday. He should have talked to them first and tbh should have given them the opportunity to rent before kicking them out to get new tenants

    • @endieisded
      @endieisded Год назад +1

      I think that one is more of an ESH

  • @RexMiseriae
    @RexMiseriae 2 года назад +2

    Where has your channel been for the past 3 years

  • @lionelndikita4277
    @lionelndikita4277 2 года назад +1

    Hey Maddi!, what camera did you use to film this ??

    • @madiduvasmr
      @madiduvasmr  2 года назад

      hey !! i use a surface pro 6 :))

  • @SonGoku-vf4qk
    @SonGoku-vf4qk 2 года назад

    21:00 the poster is cappin i stg.

  • @philipmaclean1560
    @philipmaclean1560 2 года назад +1

    firet one, everyone sucks. Coworker should not have stolen their lunch, but if your food has an allergen like nuts, which is a common allergy and can be deadly if someone goes close to it, you should mark it. You have to be careful with people’s allergies, it can be serious.

  • @DylanS-zv4dc
    @DylanS-zv4dc 10 месяцев назад

    Honestly if I was white, the mother of my child mixed, and my baby black, I’d also have some serious questions to ask about my fatherhood. I would NOT react as crazily as Jim did tho that was very out of line. I side with the mother on that one, easily…

  • @idliketobeleftalone
    @idliketobeleftalone Год назад +1

    i feel like the guy who changed the locks was kind of being an asshole,i do understand what he was going through and i feel bad for him but his mom didn't leave him and as he said she wasn't neglectful or abusive and she used to express how much she loved him and visited him often,yes she might did some bad/unjustifiable things but i believe he shouldn't just change the locks and basically kick his mom and her family out without informing them in advance because after all she's still his mom and telling her what is he planning to do in the house she's living in with a whole family would've been slightly better to avoid all of the chaos,again his mom made some bad dicisions that i don't support at all but i feel like waiting for them to come back and telling them about what was he planning to do besides getting to know what are they up to and how is their financial state would have been a safer and more rational choice so i think all of them were assholes here.

  • @gazingatnothing3040
    @gazingatnothing3040 2 года назад +1

    interesting choice of a subreddit

  • @davidparnell1903
    @davidparnell1903 2 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @Qwerty-by4rz
    @Qwerty-by4rz Год назад

    Yo hold up wait a minute is that a pentagram chain😮😮😬😱

  • @howieziegler3110
    @howieziegler3110 Год назад

    He can do the paternity test without her knowing.

  • @thegaminggod6200
    @thegaminggod6200 Год назад

    why do you not have more subscribers

  • @robertrico7289
    @robertrico7289 2 года назад +1

    She borrowed their lunch??🧐🧐

  • @xar1aa
    @xar1aa Год назад

    Idk if you were Saying everyone was the ah in the first was but i don’t see how you could think the op was😭

  • @jeffsisk8827
    @jeffsisk8827 Год назад +1

    At 5:38 did he just man splain it to them -_-?!

  • @lilyyy_bean
    @lilyyy_bean Год назад

    Blank space for you :)
    Goodnight