How can someone murder a pregnant woman and not be sentenced for life? That's horrible brother. Good for you for moving on. This story breaks my heart. I'm glad you've grown and moved on.
Yous good ppl bruh, I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that thru all the hell you made it out. Progress not perfection. Excellent video, some REALLY REAL in here folk need to watch.
Dude. I've been having a hard time dealing with being the only one left of my family (mom, dad, brother). Lost Mom and bro in '15, Dad in '20. Your statement to "live for them" really hit me. You were God's voice in the dark for me today. Thank you, sir. I'm very sorry for your loss, but I'm inspired by the changes you made to yourself to overcome.
I'm really sorry you lost someone that way. I can't imagine what that's like. I've lost a lot of people, a couple to murder, but no one close to me to violent murder. 17 is still a baby.
Fredo, you’re an incredible person with great resilience. I’m so sorry about your cousin & her baby, she’s with God now. Love your videos & your outlook on life!
Fredo, you feel like a son to me In my head! I think that you are so intelligent, clever, hilarious, and authentic. I'm 50 years old and I get inspired and lifted daily from your videos/rants/reactions. You got me telling folk unequivocally that "I guarantee it Istand by it!"😅 I pray all God's blessings upon you. I just think that you are amazing. Keep pushing. Keep loving. You've got people that you've never seen before loving and cheering you on! 🎉🎉💜 Thank you for being so vulnerable with this. I'm so sorry for your loss and wish comfort and peace for you. Thanks Fredo. 😊🥰✌🏽
Damn fredo to have the strength and courage to come on a platform and talk something so surreal to your audience is something I really truly admire bro We're all here for a reason maybe life is about finding that reason and sharing it with the rest of the world because wisdom only gets past down to generations to generations Bless up brother I'm sorry for your loss heart to heart no matter where you go bro they'll always be with you '
Crazy to me that the majority of people only see your reaction short videos, and won't watch this. People seem to forget that every content creator is a real person at the end of the day, and you're one of the realest ones out there Fredo. Much love
The title was such an apt description of the video. Not one part had any lack of entertaining monologue. I am truly impressed. This man is like someone doing all the side quests first. He's maxing out all his skills and stats. The final boss in his life is getting they timbers-a-shivering. I don't know where he's going, but imma be entertained regardless. The character arc insane.
Your story was really touching and something that I think far too many of us can relate to. I understand that everyone processes things differently but I also think that allowing yourself to cry is one of the best forms of self love and self care. It's difficult for sure if you've gone a long time without shedding a tear and I'm not suggesting you force it, but if you feel the sensation coming on naturally just be sure not to fight it and give in. We cry for a reason, just like we do everything else.
@@FredoOnTV One reason we cry is the body releases dopamine when you do. It biologically feels good in the moment for a reason my friend, just another person wanting the best for you and to not entirely fight every emotion.
I love seeing my sip fam in the chat. One thing I learn about life is no matter how you feel, life keeps going. I just do my best to keep up with it and hopefully one day I get ahead 💯
Being a pallbearer for loved one is a different kind of trauma. When I did it for my murdered brother, I felt hollow the entire time. I couldn't believe what I was having to do. And like you, I find it very difficult to cry.
Ty brother. U have no clue how many people needed this. (Me included cuz I’m pregnant and my bf is really scary) Sometimes u feel like ur alone in the immense pain u endure & so u don’t even talk about it thinking “no one will understand” then u spiral more from feeling completely alone. Loneliness kills, Ty for saving some souls today.
Fredo I can’t say how sorry I am about your cousin, I can’t imagine how you felt the entire time, but I’m happy that you continued to live the best life you know how to live in her stead, with all your talents, wit and wisdom. I’m glad you learned to be happy again and make others happy too 💖 You’re awesome my brother 🙏🏽 Bless
Hey Fredo, thanks for opening up about your painful experience about your cousin, it's an unfair world sometimes. I want you to know that your videos have helped me get through some tough days. The love you get is equal to the love you make, and you've made a lot. Thanks again Fredo for sharing.
The story about your cousin brought tears to my eyes. ❤ My condolences for your losses. As for respecting people because of their age, I agree with you, respect comes with demonstration of wisdom and capability for being respectable. I’ve always felt that way. I still won’t respect fools no matter how old or “educated” one is. For 25 you are wise beyond your years, sadly this is what trauma often does to us. The more traumatic our life the wiser and more mature we often become.
My friend, you made me cry, you made me laugh, u made me proud I'm a fan...I wish all the best for u Fredo... Ps. My dad died this last May & I've been in that dark place of not wanting to be here, what u said have me perspective... Thank u💕
You have to be one of the most down-to-earth people I've ever seen on this platform. I don't think I can even begin to fathom the pain you felt from losing your cousin the way you did, but you have my deepest condolences. You are an honorable person by always carrying her memory with you. 🙏🕊
I felt a very familiar feeling when received a phone call my son's father; when they told me my son's father had robbed a store and murdered someone. My son was just about 2 years old. You NEVER can forget a feeling.
Sorry to hear about yer cousin. The death that affected me was loosing my wife to kidney failure. The shitty part of was me. I was an opiate addict at the time. I’m 11yrs clean now. I now know my beautiful Irish beauty is rooten me on.
I was shook hearing your story, I legit shed tears for your loss bro! I'm so glad that you were able to find your way out of the darkness!! Props to you!! Love your work, dude 🔥
I'm listening to this a second time. I feel like there's some things I need to say. Your a stronger person then you know. I took have lost a lot of people in my life. As well as been through a lot in my life. I've had some hard and dark time. Life isn't easy. I find strength in others strength. I know what it's like to want to give up. I'm very familiar with being numb, wanting vengeance, blaming myself and even been suicidal. I did give up at one time. I've got the most part been able to turn it around. Now I'm trying to better myself and working on getting my health back. I'm 42 year old truck driver. I hope things are better for you now.
Thank you for being you. You are inspiring among the many positive adjectives that describe you. My day is better everytime I see you. Signed, an old factory worker.
I am so very sorry for your loss. You have wisdom beyond your years. I'm a mother of 4 young men and people like you give me hope for their future. Keep telling the truth and shining your light! Much love and God bless.
I'm so sorry for your loss... With how much happiness you bring, I never thought you'd have a backstory like this. I feel so bad for you and your family...
OMG I literally cried watching this😩 about all of the people u have lost ..I have similar stories.. I just want to hug u so tight because I literally understand the pain ❤️thank u so much for sharing this.. I feel closer to u❤️
That was heavy. Thank you for taking all that, and growing into the young man you are today, cuz watching these videos helps me keep my mood light and feeds y knowledge! Thanks.👍
The extra frustrating part is when you realize that our justice system will be harsher on you for killing a person in revenge than they were on the murderer who killed a pregnant woman without that level of motivation. The existence we reside in is broken beyond anything that could be considered as mild and benign as criminally insane. Nothing is ever right, and when we try to do right by others, someone or something comes around to stop us.
this man is a gift! How you gonna have me getting all misty eyed and then have me rolling 5 seconds later! it would be an honor to shake your hand one day
“They always knew that I was gonna be somebody.” Wise young man that you are, just know that you were most definitely somebody the day you came to be on this earth. If the world were filled with people like you, what a wonderful world this would be.. An XGen old head. If you were my son or nephew, I’d be so proud, I’d be bragging 24/7. I wish you a good life w/ less loss and struggle. You’ve had more than your share.
Wow. You truly are a multifaceted man! Thank you for sharing parts of your story with us. I'm sure that wasn't easy to talk about. I'm sorry you've gone through so much pain... But thank you for not letting it break you. Diamonds are created through pressure! 💎 Thank you for being you! ✨ We're glad you're here.
This video and the other videos like this, it's helping me in a time right now. I'm trying everything I can to be good, and not let the hate have control, but I'm fucking losing. I appreciate these videos, you continue to be a positive impact on me.
I know I don’t comment much anymore but I still watch every single one of your videos. Every time I hear about your cousin it touches something in my heart that can’t really be described. In part, it’s because I haven’t battled with those demons in my head yet. Hearing you talk about her even before this made me realize that you don’t have to let go to move on, you just gotta make it mean something. It’s awesome to see your growth on RUclips Deezy. Keep it up cause the best thing you can do for others is live your best life. ❤
grief is an old friend that knows you better than anyone. it can be difficult to listen to them talk sometimes. they can be intense. they are rarely wrong. listening to that friend and not clinging to attachment or ego allows you to permit the situation to flow through you. at the end of grief is gratitude.
I understand where you come from. I’ve been in a similar neighborhood of hell. There is love for you. There is peace for you. There is happiness for you. But you know these things and propagate positivity in the midst of hell, even sometimes when your still standing in it. That’s why you have love from those you’ve never met. I am your brother. I’ve walked with you, even if you don’t believe it’s possible. I applaud you friend for figuring out quickly, that which took me years to find out. Blessings and fellowship to you.
My brother, you are younger than me and yet you have had to go through so much pain... the only thing i can say is that you are The Man... you are doing your best to be better today than you were yesterday and you carry all that weight like a true warrior... the point i am trying to make is that i hope that i can be a badass like you and that i learn from you.. Respect brother.
You are absolutely amazing brother, When you had those thoughts telling you there was reason you were still here man you really have helped so many of us in dark times or even good times all of it man
so many points to process and retrieve through out the day and weeks ahead. it puts all the negative things on the back burner. I enjoy reading the comments and how it's hitting home. we're all in this together and as you've said 'welcome to the family'
You’re a good dude Fredo. Just discovered your channel a week ago and i can tell without a shadow of a doubt you’re a real one. Had me absolutely rollin a few times too 😂 thanks bro we all need some good laughs in this world!! Shit is medicine sometimes
Everytime I watch one of your videos it makes me feel something man , I hope you know wether its a laugh, a thoughtful moment or a reason to keep going you make an impact on so many people with your content.
Bro your content keeps me going more then you will ever know. An I'm sure most of us feel the same way. Thank you for being yourself big lil bro.real is something that's been missing for a while now in this entertainment industry.
Fredo, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain. I've had some losses, one of my best friends, we drifted apart real fast and for years we didn't even talk. Well over a few months we started talking two or three line texts. There was a day when I felt fuck it I wanna be his friend. That night he drove out and popped off literally. It fucks with me frequently. Also yo big nose is beautiful. I got a big nose and it don't even work.
Listening to the story of your cousin moved me. I am impressed by the acceptance that taking vengeance, however momentarily cathartic would as you said just take you and everything good about you from your living loved ones. Can't imagine how hard it was to hold back.
Only watched a small part so far. I am so sorry. However I am glad you found peace by letting go of the hate inside. Survivors guilt is shared and common, I have it as well. It took me a long time to let go, just like you. Find love, trust in God and keep doing what you are doing now. This is bringing joy in your way to others. Thank you. I found you while laying in the hospital late at night recovering. Been watching ever since. You are making a difference.
Fredo, my guy, you’re the embodiment of an all around chill guy that nonchalantly speaks facts respectfully. I tell you what, I tell you what, I’m here for it and I stand by it! ✊🏽
Just found your videos, this is my first Fredo rant and I mean I was already hooked, but now I am just addicted. You are absolutely admirable, I stand by it.
This is the first Fredo rant that I have watch and in a lot of ways it made me think which is not something I normally do when I watch videos, but after watching this one I'm hooked and cant way for more. keep moving Brother glad you doing better 🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss, man. Life giveth, and life taketh. I hope your present and future are bountiful and your hardships few. I still haven't properly grieved over a few losses I've had. And, on occasion, I found myself grieving over such losses months or years afterward. Grief is weird.
I'm reading a book right now called, "The Grief Recovery Handbook" by John W. James and Russell Friedman. People aren't equipped to process grief from loss of people, of trust, or life changes. Bad advice: "don't feel bad" "grieve alone" "time heals" "be strong" "replace the loss" "stay busy" The pain doesn't just go away, you have an incomplete relationship. Your loss can't be replaced, your pain has to be completed. Discover and communicate the unfinished aspects of your relationship.
I am so sorry for your losses. It is my hope that you continue to use your pain as a stepping stone to your success. I love your content and you as a person. 💙 You remind me so much of my son. Keep on keeping on Alfred 💙
It was really therapeutic watching this video. I tend to be the type of person where I end up feeling alone with people around, and with how people are with politics that feeling is a lot worse at times. So hearing you talk about that made me feel less alone. I literally exclaimed “Finally someone else gets it!” With most of your points. I am really sorry to hear about your cousin, and while I can’t speak for her. I’m positive she is proud of the person you are today. You have left a powerful impact on me today and I’m sure you have with so many other people and will continue to do so. Keep it up man!
Thanks for all the positive energy you put out! Hope the best for you, your family, and your community. Its the little reactions and smiles that get this whole community through times. Keep up the grind!
I relate a lil bit to this my best friend was gunned down and I could feel that hatred you felt for your cousins killer it's something unmatched , thank you for the advice fredo
God bless you Fredo. With everything that you've been through, let me tell you that when you achieve something, or even when you simply manage to get out of bed in the morning, you don't just do it for your loved ones, but for all of us. You are a living testament to the strength and love of the human soul, and I pray that we may be there for you as you are for us.
I will always root for you and appreciate and pray for you. I'm sorry about all the things that have happened to you and your family. But I admire how strong and knowledgeable you are. Your my person woop woop
Bro you've been through it.. absolutely through it.. It's really the kind of things that make you just grateful to wake up in the morning. Thank you for sharing this, It helped me see some things differently while I'm in the situation I'm in at the moment i really appreciate you.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your cousin I feel you more than you will ever know I have lost mother father both brothers and countless friends to guns drugs and cancer just know there are still sympathetic and good people out here we should never feel alone bro and trauma should not be the only thing that brings us together as people God bless you fam keep spreading the positivity God loves it❤
I remember when I lost my Step mother(she was a full on mom for me more than my real mom). I was in boot camp and I came back home for a few days. That was the most heartbreaking time man. I went back got through all that and I’ve been out for a bit now and the best thing I learned is how much you need people in your circle. My family has gotten so much closer. I talk to all of them at least twice a week. But that pain is still there but I know she’s up their laughing and smiling at us.
"I am the one who is free but I'm carrying myself like a prisoner" that statement is going to stick with me for the rest of my life.
How can someone murder a pregnant woman and not be sentenced for life? That's horrible brother. Good for you for moving on. This story breaks my heart. I'm glad you've grown and moved on.
Strength..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢❤❤❤🎉🎉
"They up there cheering me on"
God I needed to hear that. Thank you Fredo, love your stuff
Much love fam 💯
The best RUclipsr I stand by it. Also I’m sorry for your pain Fredo.
I’m honored 🙏🏾 thank you 🤙🏾
@@FredoOnTV you are the best RUclipsr, i guarantee, and i stand by it.
I guarantee it
Wow, I’m so very sorry for your loss young man .
Fredo just good people. You can tell. Just a low key, down to earth kinfolk, around the way guy. Good stuff. 😊❤
Yous good ppl bruh, I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that thru all the hell you made it out. Progress not perfection. Excellent video, some REALLY REAL in here folk need to watch.
Thank you brotha 💯
I'm so sorry for your losses.
You're a wonderful part of the world! I'm glad you're here.
Dude. I've been having a hard time dealing with being the only one left of my family (mom, dad, brother). Lost Mom and bro in '15, Dad in '20. Your statement to "live for them" really hit me. You were God's voice in the dark for me today. Thank you, sir. I'm very sorry for your loss, but I'm inspired by the changes you made to yourself to overcome.
I have lit a candle 🕯️ for Octavia and her baby. I wish there were more I could do. Much love and healing to you and yours. ❤️
The real ugly ones was the hateful bigots, we met along the way. Keep it up Fred👍
Will do 💯
I'm really sorry you lost someone that way. I can't imagine what that's like. I've lost a lot of people, a couple to murder, but no one close to me to violent murder. 17 is still a baby.
It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone
Just wanted to add that I'm 54, and I have Way more respect for you, at 25, than I do for a great deal of people my age! Rock on, brother!
Fredo, you’re an incredible person with great resilience. I’m so sorry about your cousin & her baby, she’s with God now. Love your videos & your outlook on life!
Thank you 🙌🏽
Fredo, you feel like a son to me In my head! I think that you are so intelligent, clever, hilarious, and authentic. I'm 50 years old and I get inspired and lifted daily from your videos/rants/reactions. You got me telling folk unequivocally that "I guarantee it Istand by it!"😅 I pray all God's blessings upon you. I just think that you are amazing. Keep pushing. Keep loving. You've got people that you've never seen before loving and cheering you on! 🎉🎉💜 Thank you for being so vulnerable with this. I'm so sorry for your loss and wish comfort and peace for you. Thanks Fredo. 😊🥰✌🏽
Damn fredo to have the strength and courage to come on a platform and talk something so surreal to your audience is something I really truly admire bro
We're all here for a reason maybe life is about finding that reason and sharing it with the rest of the world because wisdom only gets past down to generations to generations
Bless up brother I'm sorry for your loss heart to heart no matter where you go bro they'll always be with you '
Crazy to me that the majority of people only see your reaction short videos, and won't watch this. People seem to forget that every content creator is a real person at the end of the day, and you're one of the realest ones out there Fredo. Much love
The title was such an apt description of the video. Not one part had any lack of entertaining monologue. I am truly impressed. This man is like someone doing all the side quests first. He's maxing out all his skills and stats. The final boss in his life is getting they timbers-a-shivering. I don't know where he's going, but imma be entertained regardless. The character arc insane.
"I smelled what the Rock was cooking before he came up with the recipe" Chuck Norris level shit I can't lie
Bruh…”mind ya business” is a motto that more people need to adopt.
Your story was really touching and something that I think far too many of us can relate to. I understand that everyone processes things differently but I also think that allowing yourself to cry is one of the best forms of self love and self care. It's difficult for sure if you've gone a long time without shedding a tear and I'm not suggesting you force it, but if you feel the sensation coming on naturally just be sure not to fight it and give in. We cry for a reason, just like we do everything else.
I’ve kinda since then but it’s still pretty difficult to do. I try to welcome it now
@@FredoOnTV One reason we cry is the body releases dopamine when you do. It biologically feels good in the moment for a reason my friend, just another person wanting the best for you and to not entirely fight every emotion.
From the sip as well. That Tyre situation is heartbreaking
I love seeing my sip fam in the chat. One thing I learn about life is no matter how you feel, life keeps going. I just do my best to keep up with it and hopefully one day I get ahead 💯
@@FredoOnTV Dude you have the Strength of King Leonidas from 300...I Guarantee it, I Stand by it...
Being a pallbearer for loved one is a different kind of trauma. When I did it for my murdered brother, I felt hollow the entire time. I couldn't believe what I was having to do. And like you, I find it very difficult to cry.
Love this man, came by him via silly shorts….now he’s helping me understand life and trauma….life’s funny
My heart is for you and with you, little brother.
I appreciate you 💯
Thank you for sharing. Thank you for letting us know that it's okay to feel...and it's okay to carry on with life after experiencing traumatic lost.
Ty brother. U have no clue how many people needed this. (Me included cuz I’m pregnant and my bf is really scary) Sometimes u feel like ur alone in the immense pain u endure & so u don’t even talk about it thinking “no one will understand” then u spiral more from feeling completely alone. Loneliness kills, Ty for saving some souls today.
Forgiveness is the key if you want to be set free
Definitely
I'm sorry for your losses, much appreciation and respect for you talking about your journey tho
The wisdom that comes from this guy, everyone across the world could take a lesson
Fredo I can’t say how sorry I am about your cousin, I can’t imagine how you felt the entire time, but I’m happy that you continued to live the best life you know how to live in her stead, with all your talents, wit and wisdom. I’m glad you learned to be happy again and make others happy too 💖 You’re awesome my brother 🙏🏽 Bless
Hey Fredo, thanks for opening up about your painful experience about your cousin, it's an unfair world sometimes. I want you to know that your videos have helped me get through some tough days. The love you get is equal to the love you make, and you've made a lot. Thanks again Fredo for sharing.
The story about your cousin brought tears to my eyes. ❤ My condolences for your losses. As for respecting people because of their age, I agree with you, respect comes with demonstration of wisdom and capability for being respectable. I’ve always felt that way. I still won’t respect fools no matter how old or “educated” one is. For 25 you are wise beyond your years, sadly this is what trauma often does to us. The more traumatic our life the wiser and more mature we often become.
My friend, you made me cry, you made me laugh, u made me proud I'm a fan...I wish all the best for u Fredo...
Ps. My dad died this last May & I've been in that dark place of not wanting to be here, what u said have me perspective... Thank u💕
You're a strong man. So many young guys sabotage themselves in the name of revenge.
You have to be one of the most down-to-earth people I've ever seen on this platform. I don't think I can even begin to fathom the pain you felt from losing your cousin the way you did, but you have my deepest condolences. You are an honorable person by always carrying her memory with you. 🙏🕊
I felt a very familiar feeling when received a phone call my son's father; when they told me my son's father had robbed a store and murdered someone. My son was just about 2 years old. You NEVER can forget a feeling.
Sorry to hear about yer cousin.
The death that affected me was loosing my wife to kidney failure. The shitty part of was me. I was an opiate addict at the time. I’m 11yrs clean now. I now know my beautiful Irish beauty is rooten me on.
I know she is proud of you kickin that bad habit. Keep growing brotha 💯
@@FredoOnTV from one southerner to another. Thankya kindly.
I was shook hearing your story, I legit shed tears for your loss bro! I'm so glad that you were able to find your way out of the darkness!! Props to you!! Love your work, dude 🔥
I'm listening to this a second time. I feel like there's some things I need to say. Your a stronger person then you know. I took have lost a lot of people in my life. As well as been through a lot in my life. I've had some hard and dark time. Life isn't easy. I find strength in others strength. I know what it's like to want to give up. I'm very familiar with being numb, wanting vengeance, blaming myself and even been suicidal. I did give up at one time. I've got the most part been able to turn it around. Now I'm trying to better myself and working on getting my health back. I'm 42 year old truck driver. I hope things are better for you now.
Even just hearing about Black kids having fun warms my heart.
Thank you for being you. You are inspiring among the many positive adjectives that describe you. My day is better everytime I see you. Signed, an old factory worker.
My wife & I used to lol at your Shorts, then I subbed & found out how deep you really are!! Keep doin ya thang as we wish you success!! 👏🏽🙏🏽✌🏽
I am so very sorry for your loss. You have wisdom beyond your years. I'm a mother of 4 young men and people like you give me hope for their future. Keep telling the truth and shining your light! Much love and God bless.
I'm so sorry for your loss...
With how much happiness you bring, I never thought you'd have a backstory like this.
I feel so bad for you and your family...
You took my emotions on a roller coaster. Got me tearing up with that personal story then comes a crackhead with a pet rock. Bustin my snot bubble 😂
OMG I literally cried watching this😩 about all of the people u have lost ..I have similar stories.. I just want to hug u so tight because I literally understand the pain ❤️thank u so much for sharing this.. I feel closer to u❤️
Man Fredo you have had a hard life I feel sorry for you.
Lord I don't cry no more don't look to the sky no more- 50 cent
That was heavy. Thank you for taking all that, and growing into the young man you are today, cuz watching these videos helps me keep my mood light and feeds y knowledge! Thanks.👍
The extra frustrating part is when you realize that our justice system will be harsher on you for killing a person in revenge than they were on the murderer who killed a pregnant woman without that level of motivation. The existence we reside in is broken beyond anything that could be considered as mild and benign as criminally insane. Nothing is ever right, and when we try to do right by others, someone or something comes around to stop us.
this man is a gift! How you gonna have me getting all misty eyed and then have me rolling 5 seconds later! it would be an honor to shake your hand one day
My grandfather was a piano teacher, so I know Beethoven's Fur Elise when I hear it! You gave me great memories of him.
“They always knew that I was gonna be somebody.”
Wise young man that you are, just know that you were most definitely somebody the day you came to be on this earth. If the world were filled with people like you, what a wonderful world this would be..
An XGen old head.
If you were my son or nephew, I’d be so proud, I’d be bragging 24/7. I wish you a good life w/ less loss and struggle. You’ve had more than your share.
I’m sorry for all of your losses, I lost a sister, and I’ll never see her grow up. I know that it’s hard. Keep pushing
You do the same 💯💪🏾
Wow. You truly are a multifaceted man!
Thank you for sharing parts of your story with us. I'm sure that wasn't easy to talk about.
I'm sorry you've gone through so much pain... But thank you for not letting it break you.
Diamonds are created through pressure! 💎
Thank you for being you! ✨ We're glad you're here.
This video and the other videos like this, it's helping me in a time right now. I'm trying everything I can to be good, and not let the hate have control, but I'm fucking losing. I appreciate these videos, you continue to be a positive impact on me.
Sick outro. That's the only bit I ever taught myself to play on the keys.
Thank u for ur testimony. Touched my heart and great advice.
I know I don’t comment much anymore but I still watch every single one of your videos. Every time I hear about your cousin it touches something in my heart that can’t really be described. In part, it’s because I haven’t battled with those demons in my head yet. Hearing you talk about her even before this made me realize that you don’t have to let go to move on, you just gotta make it mean something. It’s awesome to see your growth on RUclips Deezy. Keep it up cause the best thing you can do for others is live your best life. ❤
grief is an old friend that knows you better than anyone. it can be difficult to listen to them talk sometimes. they can be intense. they are rarely wrong. listening to that friend and not clinging to attachment or ego allows you to permit the situation to flow through you.
at the end of grief is gratitude.
That was deep Fredo about your response to dealing with death. God bless you. Wow.
I understand where you come from. I’ve been in a similar neighborhood of hell. There is love for you. There is peace for you. There is happiness for you. But you know these things and propagate positivity in the midst of hell, even sometimes when your still standing in it. That’s why you have love from those you’ve never met. I am your brother. I’ve walked with you, even if you don’t believe it’s possible. I applaud you friend for figuring out quickly, that which took me years to find out. Blessings and fellowship to you.
Im glad you stuck around too, Fredo. Thank you for every thing you do.
My brother, you are younger than me and yet you have had to go through so much pain... the only thing i can say is that you are The Man... you are doing your best to be better today than you were yesterday and you carry all that weight like a true warrior... the point i am trying to make is that i hope that i can be a badass like you and that i learn from you..
Respect brother.
You are absolutely amazing brother, When you had those thoughts telling you there was reason you were still here man you really have helped so many of us in dark times or even good times all of it man
so many points to process and retrieve through out the day and weeks ahead.
it puts all the negative things on the back burner.
I enjoy reading the comments and how it's hitting home.
we're all in this together and as you've said 'welcome to the family'
You’re a good dude Fredo. Just discovered your channel a week ago and i can tell without a shadow of a doubt you’re a real one. Had me absolutely rollin a few times too 😂 thanks bro we all need some good laughs in this world!! Shit is medicine sometimes
This brought tears to my eyes. Sorry about your pain, glad you're doing much better
Everytime I watch one of your videos it makes me feel something man , I hope you know wether its a laugh, a thoughtful moment or a reason to keep going you make an impact on so many people with your content.
PMA all day! I appreciate your stories and sense of humor. Thank you.
Bro your content keeps me going more then you will ever know. An I'm sure most of us feel the same way. Thank you for being yourself big lil bro.real is something that's been missing for a while now in this entertainment industry.
Fredo, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain. I've had some losses, one of my best friends, we drifted apart real fast and for years we didn't even talk. Well over a few months we started talking two or three line texts. There was a day when I felt fuck it I wanna be his friend. That night he drove out and popped off literally. It fucks with me frequently. Also yo big nose is beautiful. I got a big nose and it don't even work.
I believe, that you were here to remind all of us. And thank you.
We all hope the best for you and thank you for putting out upstanding content. Much love
Listening to the story of your cousin moved me. I am impressed by the acceptance that taking vengeance, however momentarily cathartic would as you said just take you and everything good about you from your living loved ones. Can't imagine how hard it was to hold back.
Thank you for being such an amazing and genuine human being🙏
Only watched a small part so far. I am so sorry. However I am glad you found peace by letting go of the hate inside. Survivors guilt is shared and common, I have it as well. It took me a long time to let go, just like you. Find love, trust in God and keep doing what you are doing now. This is bringing joy in your way to others. Thank you. I found you while laying in the hospital late at night recovering. Been watching ever since. You are making a difference.
welcome to the family
Fredo, my guy, you’re the embodiment of an all around chill guy that nonchalantly speaks facts respectfully. I tell you what, I tell you what, I’m here for it and I stand by it! ✊🏽
Just found your videos, this is my first Fredo rant and I mean I was already hooked, but now I am just addicted. You are absolutely admirable, I stand by it.
This is the first Fredo rant that I have watch and in a lot of ways it made me think which is not something I normally do when I watch videos, but after watching this one I'm hooked and cant way for more. keep moving Brother glad you doing better 🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss, man.
Life giveth, and life taketh. I hope your present and future are bountiful and your hardships few.
I still haven't properly grieved over a few losses I've had. And, on occasion, I found myself grieving over such losses months or years afterward. Grief is weird.
Thankyou for your honesty. Blessings x
I'm reading a book right now called, "The Grief Recovery Handbook" by John W. James and Russell Friedman.
People aren't equipped to process grief from loss of people, of trust, or life changes. Bad advice: "don't feel bad" "grieve alone" "time heals" "be strong" "replace the loss" "stay busy"
The pain doesn't just go away, you have an incomplete relationship. Your loss can't be replaced, your pain has to be completed. Discover and communicate the unfinished aspects of your relationship.
Your'e a beautiful person, Fredo. inside and out. keep being you, I'll take the youtube journey with ya. peace
this is one of the best Rants. sorry for your pain and mad respect to u for coming out of it stronger
I am so sorry for your losses. It is my hope that you continue to use your pain as a stepping stone to your success. I love your content and you as a person. 💙 You remind me so much of my son. Keep on keeping on Alfred 💙
Thanking God for your eyes and your heart
17:00 is a perfect example of being curious vs being ignorantly stubborn
From the UK here appreciate you Fredo.
It was really therapeutic watching this video. I tend to be the type of person where I end up feeling alone with people around, and with how people are with politics that feeling is a lot worse at times. So hearing you talk about that made me feel less alone. I literally exclaimed “Finally someone else gets it!” With most of your points.
I am really sorry to hear about your cousin, and while I can’t speak for her. I’m positive she is proud of the person you are today. You have left a powerful impact on me today and I’m sure you have with so many other people and will continue to do so. Keep it up man!
Thanks for all the positive energy you put out! Hope the best for you, your family, and your community. Its the little reactions and smiles that get this whole community through times. Keep up the grind!
Sorry for your losses . Love that you can and stayed positive thru it all.
I relate a lil bit to this my best friend was gunned down and I could feel that hatred you felt for your cousins killer it's something unmatched , thank you for the advice fredo
God bless you Fredo. With everything that you've been through, let me tell you that when you achieve something, or even when you simply manage to get out of bed in the morning, you don't just do it for your loved ones, but for all of us. You are a living testament to the strength and love of the human soul, and I pray that we may be there for you as you are for us.
I will always root for you and appreciate and pray for you. I'm sorry about all the things that have happened to you and your family. But I admire how strong and knowledgeable you are. Your my person woop woop
Bro you've been through it.. absolutely through it.. It's really the kind of things that make you just grateful to wake up in the morning. Thank you for sharing this, It helped me see some things differently while I'm in the situation I'm in at the moment i really appreciate you.
I’m so sorry thank you for still persisting through life for how it is you’ve been through a lot thank you for this bauble lesson
Always nice to see you just come on and speak what's on your mind, very refreshing
My brother, you would make an excellent motivational speaker. I guarantee you will change the world for the better. I stand by it- Fredo
I'm so sorry for the loss of your cousin I feel you more than you will ever know I have lost mother father both brothers and countless friends to guns drugs and cancer just know there are still sympathetic and good people out here we should never feel alone bro and trauma should not be the only thing that brings us together as people God bless you fam keep spreading the positivity God loves it❤
You are truly amazing, Fredo. I’m sorry for your loss.
I remember when I lost my Step mother(she was a full on mom for me more than my real mom). I was in boot camp and I came back home for a few days. That was the most heartbreaking time man. I went back got through all that and I’ve been out for a bit now and the best thing I learned is how much you need people in your circle. My family has gotten so much closer. I talk to all of them at least twice a week. But that pain is still there but I know she’s up their laughing and smiling at us.