I'm married to a white boy too, but no drama like this story. We met in college, both in STEM fields, and got married after we both graduated. There was acceptance from both families pretty much from the beginning despite a few concerns just because of the differences in cultures. We've been together for almost 31 years and have two handsome boys. It doesn't feel like much time has passed because we love each other and enjoy each other's company and are each other's best friend. We don't know what the future holds for us, but we make sure to appreciate each other and try not to take one another for granted because we know that finding a good, loving partner in life is not all that easy.
I met my white boy meka husband at age 30, after two divorce from Hmong guys. I am now 51 and he’s 49, we have a blended family of four kids (all grown now). My husband comes from business owners as well. This is my best relationship/marriage. He is different, he loves me and our family, we are his first priority, he is loving with his words, his actions and caring. We are best friends and enjoy being together and spending time together. I don’t get involved with the hmong community or go to family functions but I am the happiest I have ever been. I am with the right person and living my life right where I need to be.
I was married to a Hmong man and followed the culture the way a Hmong daughter was supposed to. But we couldn’t have kids for 6-7 years and our marriage didn’t last. My family disowned me and I met a white man and now we have two beautiful kids together. Sometimes your story is not written to spend it with a Hmong man. And I have accepted that. I may not have my Hmong family and their approval but I have the kids I dreamed of and the life I wished for. My biggest regret is staying in that Hmong marriage too long and watching the culture break my heart and spirit for too long. But everything happens for a reason and I am thankful for my life today and the road I had to take to get here. Love this story. You both persevered and made it past all the hurdles. You deserve the life you live today. We all deserve to find love whether it be with a different culture or our own. Blessings to you and anyone who has been on this road. ❤
Wow i like this story thank you so much for sharing your story sister May you two love each other for the rest of your lives May God bless your family with all the best.🥰🙏🏻
This story applies to the late 90's and early 2000's. Now days it's more normal/common than ever. Unless your family is one that's still living the xyoo75 mindset. My husband and I have been married for 16yrs. Rewind back to 16yrs ago when we were still dating, yes every where we went and spotted by Hmong people, indeed it was always an all eyes on us. It was a bothersome at first but then I got use to it. Nowadays, nobody really look 👁 anymore, and if I do spot anyone starring, yep! --->There goes a still in existence xyoo75 person. P.S, my husband is more Hmong than I am.
My sis is married to a meka guy. Do they love each other? Yes! Do we love him? Yes! Does he love us? Yes! Just dont expect a vauv meka or nyab meka to be like a vauv or nyab Hmong (Hmong duties) and all is well. It was hard on my parents at the beginning but they got used to it now. Fyi, dont ever try to have a vauv meka ntes ib tug npua! The struggle is real. Unless he's a farm boy, then that's a whole different story. 😂😂😂😂
It is unfair to blame your immigrant parents that they don't know how to discipline or help you and your siblings that's why you and your siblings don't do well in school. Our 1st generation which is many of us do well without our parents' help with homework but we don't blame our parents. In the US, if you want to succeed in school there is a way. As the saying, if there is a will there is a way. Quite blaming our 1st generation parents. Be thankful you were given the opportunity. If it's not for them risking their lives you wouldn't have that opportunity. To the parents who can't forgive the American in laws, it's unfair to blame them for your son's theft behavior. They needed to protect their company and it's policy. Goodness!!
Hmoob kev mus yuav lwm haiv neeg ces tsis zoo thiab zoo yog vim li cas kuv thiaj hais li ntawd qhov zoo ces yog muaj noj muaj haus hos qhov tsis zoo ces yog poob keeb poob kwm lawm ces yuav los mus poob rau hmoob lo lus tias nyuj quav ntse nees zis no los mas hmoob. Tsis tas li los poob rau neb cov menyuam qhov neeb kwm nawv es hmoob thiaj tias ua neej li puav dai taw no nawv, puav hais rau noog tias puav muaj tis ya li noog tab sis puav lub tobhau qhov ncauj zoo li nas ces noos los tsis leesyuav hos nas los tsis lees paub ces puav thiaj ya nrhiav noj thaum ntuj sib faib siav xwb nawv.
@@mosvaj1385Nyob ntawm tus neeg xwb os. Tej tug Miskas coj li koj hais, tej tug coj siab dawb siab dav. I got lucky I married into a white family who is nice and big hearted. When my mother was still alive and was sick, my husband offered to have her live with us so that I (a stay at home mom) could help take care of her full-time, but my mother declined because she felt it wasn't right since she has 3 sons & nyabs to care for her. We have hosted a weekend (Friday to Sunday) get together sleepover for my very large Hmong family (16 of my family members), and whenever my relatives from out of town are visiting, they are welcome to crash at our place anytime. Whenever we visit my Miskas in-laws, they insist we stay with them instead of wasting money on a hotel. So, NO, not all Miskas are like what you say.
Yes, let all kinds of love live and flourish. Listen, interracial relations are bond to happened. We do live in the land of the "Melted Pot", and what do you think we see everywhere? This race, that race, and those people. As our children grows up, they will gravitate towards what they see that is attractive. (We would do the same if we were to have grew up here.) So, get on board and be happy or wait to concede later and lose all that time. 🙂
@@MonaLisa-de4cp Good morning 🌞, and yes, constantly things are coming together. What a wonderful idea because as connections come, things move for the better. Even in very dark places, we see more and more clearing away unknows and uncertainty. Have a wonderful day.
I'm married to a white boy too, but no drama like this story. We met in college, both in STEM fields, and got married after we both graduated. There was acceptance from both families pretty much from the beginning despite a few concerns just because of the differences in cultures. We've been together for almost 31 years and have two handsome boys. It doesn't feel like much time has passed because we love each other and enjoy each other's company and are each other's best friend. We don't know what the future holds for us, but we make sure to appreciate each other and try not to take one another for granted because we know that finding a good, loving partner in life is not all that easy.
I met my white boy meka husband at age 30, after two divorce from Hmong guys. I am now 51 and he’s 49, we have a blended family of four kids (all grown now). My husband comes from business owners as well. This is my best relationship/marriage. He is different, he loves me and our family, we are his first priority, he is loving with his words, his actions and caring. We are best friends and enjoy being together and spending time together. I don’t get involved with the hmong community or go to family functions but I am the happiest I have ever been. I am with the right person and living my life right where I need to be.
I was married to a Hmong man and followed the culture the way a Hmong daughter was supposed to. But we couldn’t have kids for 6-7 years and our marriage didn’t last. My family disowned me and I met a white man and now we have two beautiful kids together. Sometimes your story is not written to spend it with a Hmong man. And I have accepted that. I may not have my Hmong family and their approval but I have the kids I dreamed of and the life I wished for. My biggest regret is staying in that Hmong marriage too long and watching the culture break my heart and spirit for too long. But everything happens for a reason and I am thankful for my life today and the road I had to take to get here.
Love this story. You both persevered and made it past all the hurdles. You deserve the life you live today. We all deserve to find love whether it be with a different culture or our own. Blessings to you and anyone who has been on this road. ❤
Wow i like this story thank you so much for sharing your story sister May you two love each other for the rest of your lives May God bless your family with all the best.🥰🙏🏻
As long as you love each other, and your husband's family have big hearts. God bless you all.
Thank you sharinng. I hope youre parents find peace and happiness ❤❤❤❤
I love listening to stories like yours here. Thanks for sharing, sister.
Yog kawg yuav haiv neeg twg Los tsuav ntshib tus neeg zoo xwb
Thanks for sharing your story sister.
I listen 5min in the beginning the skip to 5 min at the end.. what did I miss? .... nothing 😅
Yes, you did not miss anything. Nothing in this story would have opened up your mind.
This story applies to the late 90's and early 2000's. Now days it's more normal/common than ever. Unless your family is one that's still living the xyoo75 mindset. My husband and I have been married for 16yrs. Rewind back to 16yrs ago when we were still dating, yes every where we went and spotted by Hmong people, indeed it was always an all eyes on us. It was a bothersome at first but then I got use to it. Nowadays, nobody really look 👁 anymore, and if I do spot anyone starring, yep! --->There goes a still in existence xyoo75 person.
P.S, my husband is more Hmong than I am.
Agreed
Txhob rawm maj zoo siab tso siab nawb. Yuav lwm haiv neeg mas neej kawg tsawg kawg nkaus. Hnub twg txog 70 xyoo mas mam xam.
You look beautiful today Sister Jenny!
Thank you!
Kuv kuj yuav txiv meskas thiab, wb sib Tham thiab nyob ua kev tau 9 lub xyoo wb li sib yuav 2019 kuv niam pog meskas thiab txiv kuj hlub hlub kuv heev , kuv yog ib tus poj nrauj uas tus txiv hmoob tsis hlub kuv li , thaum kawg kuv kuj ntsib kuv tus txiv meskas kuj hlub hlub kuv , yus yog neeg zoo thiab coj zoo lawm ces luag yeej hlub yus xwb os. Xyoo 2024 no kuv tus txiv thiab niam pog yuav tau ib lub tsheb tshiab 2 rau kuv, kuv yeej tsis poob ib qhov nyiaj li kuv tus txiv tseem them every month rau qhov payment rau kuv lub tsheb tib si . Kuv tus txiv qub nws tsis hlub kuv li kuv tsav cov tsheb qub qub xwb mas yus txawm ua hawjlwm los luag yeej tsis kam yuav ib lub tsheb zoo rau yus li os. Tu siab txaus lawm nawb.v
My sis is married to a meka guy. Do they love each other? Yes! Do we love him? Yes! Does he love us? Yes! Just dont expect a vauv meka or nyab meka to be like a vauv or nyab Hmong (Hmong duties) and all is well. It was hard on my parents at the beginning but they got used to it now. Fyi, dont ever try to have a vauv meka ntes ib tug npua! The struggle is real. Unless he's a farm boy, then that's a whole different story. 😂😂😂😂
Txuv tau ma zoo dua nawb.
Good morning sister Jenny.
I listen to you everyday from California
Hello sister, thank you for supporting my channel.
What a lovely story! Thank you for sharing!
Keep up the good work sister Jenny!❤from MN
Thank you!
Ab cas xav2 tau ib tug txiv mis kas li nej thiab ne😊😊😊😊
Dang. How your brother gotta do your uncle like that? That’s low. G-morning btw.
It is unfair to blame your immigrant parents that they don't know how to discipline or help you and your siblings that's why you and your siblings don't do well in school. Our 1st generation which is many of us do well without our parents' help with homework but we don't blame our parents. In the US, if you want to succeed in school there is a way. As the saying, if there is a will there is a way. Quite blaming our 1st generation parents. Be thankful you were given the opportunity. If it's not for them risking their lives you wouldn't have that opportunity. To the parents who can't forgive the American in laws, it's unfair to blame them for your son's theft behavior. They needed to protect their company and it's policy. Goodness!!
Hmoob kev mus yuav lwm haiv neeg ces tsis zoo thiab zoo yog vim li cas kuv thiaj hais li ntawd qhov zoo ces yog muaj noj muaj haus hos qhov tsis zoo ces yog poob keeb poob kwm lawm ces yuav los mus poob rau hmoob lo lus tias nyuj quav ntse nees zis no los mas hmoob. Tsis tas li los poob rau neb cov menyuam qhov neeb kwm nawv es hmoob thiaj tias ua neej li puav dai taw no nawv, puav hais rau noog tias puav muaj tis ya li noog tab sis puav lub tobhau qhov ncauj zoo li nas ces noos los tsis leesyuav hos nas los tsis lees paub ces puav thiaj ya nrhiav noj thaum ntuj sib faib siav xwb nawv.
13 years tseem tsis tau ntev kiag. Thov kom koj tus txiv meka hlub koj mus kom kawg.
Tsis kawg kiag.
Lady, you have to be a parent and you will understand why your parents and your mother in law felt about mixed race marriage.
Kuv hais rau koj os, miskas mas yeej tsis zoo mus cuav zos tiag , qhov no muaj tseeb os. Koj tej ntxhais tej vauv kiag los koj mus saib koj yuav mus pw koj hotel xwb vim kuv twb pom2 cov phooj twg miskas ua li lawm os.
@@mosvaj1385Nyob ntawm tus neeg xwb os. Tej tug Miskas coj li koj hais, tej tug coj siab dawb siab dav. I got lucky I married into a white family who is nice and big hearted. When my mother was still alive and was sick, my husband offered to have her live with us so that I (a stay at home mom) could help take care of her full-time, but my mother declined because she felt it wasn't right since she has 3 sons & nyabs to care for her. We have hosted a weekend (Friday to Sunday) get together sleepover for my very large Hmong family (16 of my family members), and whenever my relatives from out of town are visiting, they are welcome to crash at our place anytime. Whenever we visit my Miskas in-laws, they insist we stay with them instead of wasting money on a hotel. So, NO, not all Miskas are like what you say.
Tsi txhob raw maj khav hnub twg ib tug nkag qhov lawm mam xam
Cas ho tsis pom zaj hais hnub 28 cas ho pom zaj 25 tabsis ho tsis tau hnov?? Confuse?
Yes, let all kinds of love live and flourish. Listen, interracial relations are bond to happened. We do live in the land of the "Melted Pot", and what do you think we see everywhere? This race, that race, and those people. As our children grows up, they will gravitate towards what they see that is attractive. (We would do the same if we were to have grew up here.) So, get on board and be happy or wait to concede later and lose all that time. 🙂
Melting pot. 🙂 bound.
@@MonaLisa-de4cp LOL, yes...typing while you work...tadatatatata, lol, but eventually it will be melted, I have hope and faith, 🤣
@@yangthao5242 😄 It's cool. We're constantly melting, right?
@@MonaLisa-de4cp Good morning 🌞, and yes, constantly things are coming together. What a wonderful idea because as connections come, things move for the better. Even in very dark places, we see more and more clearing away unknows and uncertainty. Have a wonderful day.
Nej ces tig qhov quav rau nram have dej xwb zoo dua os
Hoyo.. nkim koj niam thiab nkawv lub zog yug tau ib pab menyuam coob npaum li nej e liam tag li os
Menyuam 1 tug liam ces yog tim Menyuam 2 tug and more g txim txiaj ces yog tim niam thiab txiv g txawj cob qhia tej menyuam lost haum beginning .
Nej ces tig qhov quav rau nram have dej xwb zoo dua os