Ladki banna hai toh khudh mar ja ya hume mar de -ELLA D VERMA

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @subhrajitm94
    @subhrajitm94 Год назад +247

    I am a straight male . This interview is helping me understand this community. Thank you so much.

    • @enasnirercos7626
      @enasnirercos7626 Год назад +11

      I am a male but I identify myself as a Lesbian, do you have any lesbian friend?

    • @ananya.vermaa
      @ananya.vermaa Год назад +1

      ​@@enasnirercos7626 I am lesbian

    • @enasnirercos7626
      @enasnirercos7626 Год назад

      @@ananya.vermaa Were you born a female?

    • @ananya.vermaa
      @ananya.vermaa Год назад

      @@enasnirercos7626 yes

    • @enasnirercos7626
      @enasnirercos7626 Год назад

      @@ananya.vermaa Great, so, would you like to be my friend?

  • @sanketsarkar5223
    @sanketsarkar5223 Год назад +195

    I swear she is a perfect woman...when I saw her the first time i didn't believe that she was a boy...and she is so pure....i just love her❤

    • @harshkaushik3044
      @harshkaushik3044 Год назад

      Ohh please...he's a boy who couldn't handle his fear of failure! He should've gone for testosterone enhancement therapies for feeling the normal emotions of boys! Please dont spoil india with this transition culture! US and other countries are nearly destroyed now due to this! He is a boy cuz he has XY chromosomes period!

    • @LetsGoforDabash
      @LetsGoforDabash Год назад

      ​@@harshkaushik3044 👌👌👌👌

    • @renubisht3015
      @renubisht3015 Год назад +6

      She has that feminine energy, one can feel, how anyone even call her a man

  • @rohan34
    @rohan34 Год назад +84

    Both of them suffered from gender dysphoria but now both represent the conventional aesthetic/beauty of masculinity and feminity. Amazing journeys of both. 💕💕🌸🌼

  • @dayarao7946
    @dayarao7946 Год назад +382

    Ella seems perfect understanding women

    • @atirzafar2977
      @atirzafar2977 Год назад +12

      Only difference is he is not a woman

    • @cinemawala3174
      @cinemawala3174 Год назад +7

      Only difference is he can carry 2,3 boyfriend easily without knowing anyone it's called.,..😂😂

    • @ShivamKumar-dq7rm
      @ShivamKumar-dq7rm Год назад +10

      @@cinemawala3174 itna dekhne samjhne ke baad v vahi chal hai vahi roasting chalu hai

    • @nehaali3035
      @nehaali3035 Год назад +12

      Ellla is so intelligent in her answers, the way she communicated the things is really really amazing

    • @harshkaushik3044
      @harshkaushik3044 Год назад +2

      Ohh please...he's a boy who couldn't handle his fear of failure! He should've gone for testosterone enhancement therapies for feeling the normal emotions of boys! Please dont spoil india with this transition culture! US and other countries are nearly destroyed now due to this! He is a boy cuz he has XY chromosomes period!

  • @suku2799
    @suku2799 Год назад +124

    It's really rare to see someone empathetic enough to present a childhood trauma in such a way that you still are able to understand the side of your father instead of being mad at him. I don't have a good relationship with my dad as he has been a major reason to my traumatic childhood but you changed my perception ❤️ Thank you Ella!!

    • @harshkaushik3044
      @harshkaushik3044 Год назад

      Ohh please...he's a boy who couldn't handle his fear of failure! He should've gone for testosterone enhancement therapies for feeling the normal emotions of boys! Please dont spoil india with this transition culture! US and other countries are nearly destroyed now due to this! He is a boy cuz he has XY chromosomes period!

  • @marium2307
    @marium2307 Год назад +6

    She talks really nice... She's a great public speaker... And she's so beautiful... I saw her in shorts I didn't know her story... Finally I found the actual video.....

  • @anksee2488
    @anksee2488 Год назад +8

    *Ohh teri,, kya transformation hain!! Awesome...*
    *Aryan Pasha is havoc handsome man, banda solid dashing hain & Ella D' Verma is so soo beautiful lady, mujhe khud par complex aa gaya, kya gazab mole hain on her chin, tussi bohot khubsurat ho ji...Both the guests on this talk-show are great looking, bold personalities, damn confident, good person with golden hearts, that's what I feel 'bout 'em...*

  • @360thinker.3
    @360thinker.3 Год назад +23

    Ella is just 19 how mature see is,😮😮😮😮 unbelievable.. she is very pretty.. best wishes...

    • @discord5849
      @discord5849 Год назад +3

      But we all khows she must be 20+ 😅

    • @Ubaid525
      @Ubaid525 Год назад +1

      ​@@discord5849 no she is 19 just saw her adhar card

  • @yashwantraghav8135
    @yashwantraghav8135 Год назад +74

    Im a boy , a male , nd i am totally straight mentally and physically too, but when she tells that her father told her “ya to khud mar ja ya hme maar de” , really felt bad yr this was so heartbreaking ☮️

    • @appledevid5598
      @appledevid5598 Год назад +3

      this is so deepest line ya toh khud marja ya hame maar de

    • @hindutva2006
      @hindutva2006 Год назад +1

      You need karoli sarkar, he is removing female prets from males who thinks they are gays

    • @enasnirercos7626
      @enasnirercos7626 Год назад

      Yashwant, tu Ella ke saath shaadi kar le.

    • @mystique6068
      @mystique6068 Год назад +1

      @@enasnirercos7626 what's with you? Kisi chij mein kisko bhi sympathize kr lia ya support kr lia toh shadi kr lete kya... It's completely ridiculous.

    • @enasnirercos7626
      @enasnirercos7626 Год назад

      @@mystique6068 So you marry Ella and support him to achieve the unachievable.

  • @pankajtushir2694
    @pankajtushir2694 Год назад +17

    Words she said - hum bikhre hue bhi laajawab lagte h ❣️❣️ 18:58

  • @dragonclaw481
    @dragonclaw481 Год назад +3

    Ella ella ella!!!! main lockdown k wakt se ye gender disphoria topic ko follow kar raha hoon. Kitne posdcasts, videos, discussion sun liya per itne correct way main koi nhi samjhaya.. srif logo ko ladai e karte dekhe hain mostly.
    I am so glad to that to listen to you. I am a straight male trying to learn and be aware about these things. You cleared so many questions of my mind. Thank you so much.

  • @Editsxx3
    @Editsxx3 Год назад +74

    If Ella is reading this. You are pretty darling... Whatever you've experienced in your childhood we can't change it. But you've a great future 💌. We all love you ❤️

    • @harshkaushik3044
      @harshkaushik3044 Год назад

      Ohh please...he's a boy who couldn't handle his fear of failure! He should've gone for testosterone enhancement therapies for feeling the normal emotions of boys! Please dont spoil india with this transition culture! US and other countries are nearly destroyed now due to this! He is a boy cuz he has XY chromosomes period!

  • @sudeshnasamanta7133
    @sudeshnasamanta7133 Год назад +23

    I “reconstructed” my thoughts and I appreciate your strengths. Great respect for both of you. 🙏🏻

  • @aartibanyal1815
    @aartibanyal1815 Год назад +7

    Ella you are complete women, I haven't ever seen a girl more beautiful than you😍

  • @Shubhamtagotra
    @Shubhamtagotra Год назад +13

    "Hum Bikhre hue bhi lajwab dikhte hain." Oh Ellaaaa!!!!

  • @wildchildguy
    @wildchildguy Год назад +7

    Society needs to unlearn a lot of things. Certain actions let's say make up, or bodybuilding, etc are labelled as binary things - as man or woman thing, we should know this is defined by the society. Understanding this basic thing will help reduce a lot of harassment & bullying. Self-education is the key!

    • @LetsGoforDabash
      @LetsGoforDabash Год назад

      Lol , make up industry don't give a flying french toast about LGBTQ community. They are just using them to capitalise this gender neutral bs. Non binary bolne se sex change nhi hota aur testosterone levels admi me jyada hoti h which is important for muscle building. Tu duniya ko unlearn karne ki bakchodi dene se pehle khud basic padhle or fir self education pe gyaan de

  • @Shitabha
    @Shitabha Год назад +16

    Wow. Ella answered that hard question with such ease and serenity so apt and unambiguous

  • @WoWskull
    @WoWskull Год назад +42

    16:10 this part was heartbreaking, but tons and tons of love to Ella ❤️ dude, I have seen Ella quite a few times on reels! And I have to say she’s beautiful!

  • @desichic8
    @desichic8 Год назад +4

    I dont know why ppl criticizing host
    I understand where he is coming from
    Reading on internet and knowing/interviewing ppl on front is very different
    For ppl who never met anyone with trans
    Has curiosity and want to understand where they are coming from.
    And he was very honest with the questions
    I think he was natural about his question

  • @ShivamMishra-ez5ed
    @ShivamMishra-ez5ed Год назад +5

    How respectfully you asked every questions....I salute....thanku for everything.

  • @dwivedirakshit
    @dwivedirakshit 3 месяца назад

    I have watched so many interviews of Ella before that I don't have a count, but her answer on the difference between Sex and Gender, man!! I applauded to my laptop screen for that answer! I wish to have such clarity of thoughts at some point in life.

  • @vickysingh3257
    @vickysingh3257 Год назад +11

    What an knowledgeable session. So much full of insights, thanks alot n wish you all the best.

  • @prashantaryawanshi9612
    @prashantaryawanshi9612 Год назад +22

    And when she said: "Hum bikhre huye bhi bahut lajawab lagte hain"
    Dabbu hone se lekar yahan tak ka safar.... 👏👏👏👏👏👏💙 ❤️ Taaliyan kam pad jayegi.

  • @sudhabhoi927
    @sudhabhoi927 Год назад +5

    Am in love how she talking 💕 the way she expressing herself... Muuuhaaa

  • @satvikdhyani28
    @satvikdhyani28 Год назад +2

    *Imagine if Aryan Pasha* *and Ella Verma got* *married.*
    *What a beautiful* *transgender couple they* *will make* ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kuntal1501
    @kuntal1501 Год назад +7

    I really love the wording " get out of the victim mentality"❤

  • @rituverma2778
    @rituverma2778 Год назад +4

    Heartily Huge Respect for these legend Human nd pure soul by this conversation i learnt alot about this special community... how our society felt them...they r best but our society r worst nd It's time to change nd it's change by herself not to said other one firstly change own... Thanks to team who make this interview...
    Much love
    Rajasthan

  • @piyushjain5816
    @piyushjain5816 Год назад +7

    If you are happy with yourself then it doesn't matter what society says

  • @orxiidmusic
    @orxiidmusic Год назад +3

    From clicking to see this beautiful girl and watching till the end. Such a great podcast, really love your hosting bradar 👍

  • @umang.khanna5
    @umang.khanna5 Год назад +29

    Unbelievable. This was an amazing interview 🙏🏼
    Respect to Ella 💖

    • @harshkaushik3044
      @harshkaushik3044 Год назад

      Ohh please...he's a boy who couldn't handle his fear of failure! He should've gone for testosterone enhancement therapies for feeling the normal emotions of boys! Please dont spoil india with this transition culture! US and other countries are nearly destroyed now due to this! He is a boy cuz he has XY chromosomes period!

  • @spedoeditz
    @spedoeditz Год назад +11

    Ella teaches us how to face the fear or the reality ❤❤dil rkh lo app 🤲🏻🤲🏻

  • @saurabhsingh5567
    @saurabhsingh5567 Год назад +25

    25:30 is such a dumb question (Tagda Sawal), but kudos to Ellla for answering it in the best possbile way

    • @utkarshgaur.
      @utkarshgaur.  Год назад +2

      Sorry

    • @atz1091
      @atz1091 Год назад +3

      I don't think @heybakri needs to apologise for that question. However, I do think he would have got a better answer if the question was "is it wrong to call a hairy biological man, identifying as woman, a man - considering it is objective observation and not subjective?"

  • @surajjadhav-ev3er
    @surajjadhav-ev3er Год назад +3

    She is so mature and clear ❤ amazing

  • @kapilkagra6347
    @kapilkagra6347 Год назад +3

    Unbeliveable interview ❤ such a amazing trans to both of you 👏👏 and pasha bhai amazing brother tumahre iss trans se tumahri comunity k logo bhot help hogi and sbse big thank to this channel jisne ye podcast banaya
    Amazing brother 👏👏👏🙏♥️

  • @ashwaniyadav8300
    @ashwaniyadav8300 Год назад +17

    One thing I must say tht Ella looks extremely beautiful & she has got beautiful eyes..Trust me ❤️💯

  • @sejaljain9834
    @sejaljain9834 Год назад +2

    I learned a lot today , not only about the various tiny details which we as " born with same gender and sex as we recognize ourselves " just ignore or unknowingly make fun of , but should ponder upon also as learned individuals .

  • @rohan34
    @rohan34 Год назад +14

    I love the way the interviewer asks the questions. There is a natural curiosity that has been expressed by him

    • @Ari-cu5wy
      @Ari-cu5wy Год назад

      Interviewer ko badlo, kala Chasma

  • @sibot6482
    @sibot6482 Год назад +11

    Ella’s father lines 💔 felt really really bad 😢

    • @nianly
      @nianly 10 месяцев назад

      She was no going to reproduce considering she is attracted to men.

  • @atz1091
    @atz1091 Год назад +6

    Hey Bakri needs to prep his guests before the podcast begins, at least based on how I saw this episode. It felt like the guests were feeling cornered when some questions which are "Politically incorrect" were asked. It can be avoided by letting them know the format of the show - not necessarily disclose the questions though.

  • @LUXEEMPERORYT
    @LUXEEMPERORYT Год назад +7

    I ain't no simp but Ella is georgous, man I'm simping... Aryan bhai you were amazing too bc collar pakad aur faad de

  • @Gaurav_Bajaz
    @Gaurav_Bajaz Год назад +8

    Ella's voice❤️

  • @niharikasharma4135
    @niharikasharma4135 Год назад +3

    Bhyii the transguy is really handsome😭❤️🤌

  • @humarahimachalhumarishaan6471
    @humarahimachalhumarishaan6471 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️aap dono hi bohat sweet or innocent ho, I'm very happy for you, bohat hi acha or informative broadcast tha ye

  • @Anthonyfoodzone
    @Anthonyfoodzone Год назад +41

    My heart went into a love triangle when ella smiled ❤

  • @rohan34
    @rohan34 Год назад +17

    My tears rolled down seeing Ella cry. I'm pretty sure or hope that now her father realises that there are so many out there who are supportive.
    His child has not only made her personal life beautiful but also by being infront of the camera and on the internet she has become a representative of people. And damn she is so philosophical, logical and intellectual! I find that very attractive. 🥰

  • @namdevnagargoje2524
    @namdevnagargoje2524 Год назад +5

    Tone of many questions was Transphobic, it may be due to lack of awareness but it can't justify Transphobia.A queer person in general and Trans person in perticular can come out at whatever time she thinks appropriate.It may be 35,45 ... Nobody can force her to come out or remain in closet.Only that transwomen will decide that.if she come out at her 45 she will be a woman as she was with those hairs comming from any direction and those male genitals. Being assigned male at birth can not errase her existence as a woman.Trans people are naturally beautiful.Trans is Nature and Natural!!🥳💜🌿

  • @monikasaini123
    @monikasaini123 Год назад +1

    Such a great human being she is..👏

  • @hariomsingh-zw5sk
    @hariomsingh-zw5sk Год назад +1

    Head's off you both. Dil se respect h aap dono k liye .

  • @_Harkamal_07
    @_Harkamal_07 Год назад +6

    She is describing my present 🙂😞

  • @soyal_pathan342
    @soyal_pathan342 Год назад +3

    Pasha bhaii you are really inspiration of your community 💓your perfect

  • @as-pg6fq
    @as-pg6fq Год назад +4

    The way the host is behaving and sitting is just with the bad manner😢who agree?

  • @Asif_cat
    @Asif_cat Год назад +33

    This made me proud 🏳️‍🌈

  • @ruchi5333
    @ruchi5333 Год назад +3

    Ella look so geousious....m sure she have a pure and good heart as well

  • @surabhiswims7163
    @surabhiswims7163 Год назад +1

    👍 Great conversation & Respect to all👏

  • @khemb8669
    @khemb8669 Год назад +3

    Loving work by hey bakri AKA aprichit bhaiya 💯💯

  • @triparnasaha4171
    @triparnasaha4171 Год назад +2

    Omg she’s so pretty ❤ and her voice is so cute ❤

  • @subhamydv009
    @subhamydv009 Год назад +2

    Bhai kitni zyada understanding hai yaaar.....mein to 19(now i am 27) saal me akhand chutiya tha....gajab yaaar sun k maja aaagya

    • @arth_chart5280
      @arth_chart5280 Год назад +2

      Sala main bhi isi baat se zayada impressed hun, mujhse bas 1 saal badi hai aur baatein sun k lagta ho kisi 30 saal ki samjhdaar mahila se baat ho rhi ho. She is so smart for her age.

  • @prankysoni1403
    @prankysoni1403 Год назад +2

    They both look great together btw 🎉

  • @dharampalsingh3378
    @dharampalsingh3378 Год назад +4

    You should record video with one camera. All of you together in one scene. Separate camera pe vibe nhi aa rhi

  • @alizaysiddiqui6480
    @alizaysiddiqui6480 Год назад +8

    You should be your own hero🤟❤️

  • @amrutakhot01
    @amrutakhot01 Год назад +5

    Ella is not looking like boy ... She looking beautiful

  • @rubydey683
    @rubydey683 Год назад +2

    May God give you more power girl.

  • @gauravchauhan9282
    @gauravchauhan9282 Год назад +3

    Hi, I little bit disagree with what Aryan Pasha said that the company didn't hire transgender persons/gays/lesbians on a reputed designation.
    I worked in an mnc company in Gurgaon and there are few people who belong to this community. And out of them, one is my reporting manager.

  • @AnmolMole-vs5wc
    @AnmolMole-vs5wc Год назад +1

    Ella you are the best and your smile was just ooo I have no words to sya

  • @anonymous-gw3dg
    @anonymous-gw3dg Год назад +5

    Aryan bhai hats off to you....
    Ella ap bas muskurao ....
    looking forward for loads of subscriber to your channel🥂

  • @renu1145
    @renu1145 Год назад +1

    Nice nice nice keep it up ...maine do video dekhi or dono hi bht achi h keep it up 👌👏

  • @jyotisingh-to3bq
    @jyotisingh-to3bq Год назад +2

    Ella you r tooo beautiful physically and by your soul. ❤

  • @sahilgupta9675
    @sahilgupta9675 Год назад +1

    1:04:09 help to understand the practical difference prospective between testosterone and estrogen from a man point of view. How she feels .

  • @t1mt0m97
    @t1mt0m97 Год назад

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 ..Must watch for all.

  • @ArtDharohar
    @ArtDharohar Год назад +3

    Host ko smjhna chahiye ki vo ek ldki se bat kr rha h na ki ldke se. Now she is a girl so Vse hi bat kre na. Or vo hi respect usko De. I’m a girl and don’t like ki host us ldki ko bar bar ye bta rha h ki ohh you are not a girl from start 🙏🏻.

  • @shani3896
    @shani3896 Год назад +1

    Middle one smile is literally very charming ❤

  • @harshit_ke_kisse_6881
    @harshit_ke_kisse_6881 Год назад +8

    Ella you are beautiful ❤️ and aryan you are handsome man 👌 God bless you bothh

  • @humi13
    @humi13 Год назад +1

    I wanna see her in Bigg Boss

  • @rajendrasharma4060
    @rajendrasharma4060 Год назад +1

    Guys please tell me which State does ella from

  • @rakshitnautiyal
    @rakshitnautiyal Год назад +1

    very knowledgeable podcast

  • @kalisa11
    @kalisa11 Год назад +1

    Ella you are so beautiful...your heart is full of love 😚😚😚😚 I love you❤️❤️andd always go forward don't look back ❤❤❤lots of love

  • @KrishnaSharma-go9iz
    @KrishnaSharma-go9iz Год назад +1

    @hey bakri The answer to that tagda question is " there is something called androgyny" means a person is comfortable with both the characterstics, being a male they are ok to keep all the male attributes example beard,hairy chest etc but at the same time having feminine behaviour they keep nd flaunt that feminity too.. nd when it comes to gender dysphoria case only those guys loves to keep themselves like grl for example being clean shaved,no hairs on body,try to look like female as much as they can..

  • @ShubhamKumar-h7l9p
    @ShubhamKumar-h7l9p Год назад +2

    ella is a pure soul

  • @ghosty_me
    @ghosty_me Год назад +1

    "hum bikhre huye bhi bohot lajawab lgte hai"
    😢😭

  • @subhakantajena3664
    @subhakantajena3664 Год назад +2

    She's pretty ❤✨

  • @niana125
    @niana125 Год назад +8

    The host needs to be more humble with words.

  • @radhakrishna15615
    @radhakrishna15615 Год назад +1

    Why don't both of them started dating each other??

  • @jacksparrow8220
    @jacksparrow8220 Год назад +1

    at the age of 19 she looks so mature and here i am 18 saal mei mirror mei khudko 15 saal ka ladka lagta hai 😂

  • @hezalhezal5986
    @hezalhezal5986 Год назад

    Thats really amazing!!!

  • @abha4000
    @abha4000 Год назад

    Those people questions on her gender change and using shameful words for her , definitely their parvarish shows

  • @afeemiyt
    @afeemiyt Год назад

    Even if you are homophobic, please live and let live

  • @BlissOm_
    @BlissOm_ Год назад

    What would they say if the word “gender” didn’t exist? Also, what is the word for gender in Hindi?

    • @nianly
      @nianly 10 месяцев назад

      Gender is just psychology

  • @nargistech508
    @nargistech508 Год назад +2

    Tears are rolled down automatically from my eyes while hearing this, (ya to khud mar ja ya hme maar de)😥

  • @gupta-vibhu
    @gupta-vibhu Год назад +1

    good questioning

  • @shravanigosavi906
    @shravanigosavi906 Год назад +1

    How adorable and beautiful she is 🤌😍🥰

  • @yashvendra266
    @yashvendra266 Год назад +3

    Congratulations for 1k subs

  • @siddharthbhagat4009
    @siddharthbhagat4009 Год назад +1

    GOOD PODCAST 👍 , Par yaar adds bahot aa raha hai

    • @utkarshgaur.
      @utkarshgaur.  Год назад +1

      Paanpi pet ka swal hai dost

    • @Aditya24246
      @Aditya24246 Год назад

      ​@@utkarshgaur. paapi peth hota ha bhai

  • @holistic_being
    @holistic_being Год назад

    These guys somehow fixed themselves but the host could not even fix his body language.

  • @gecjhostelcondition9385
    @gecjhostelcondition9385 Год назад +1

    Your intro in very good ❤

  • @rohan34
    @rohan34 Год назад +2

    1:01:42 i think the reason why transwomen are more visible is because of Hijra tradition in the subcontinent

  • @mangeshshinde3511
    @mangeshshinde3511 Год назад

    Host make this veri critical this deep topic. They want to ask basic to deep. They want to understand first basic gender information.

  • @umaizsumaizs3367
    @umaizsumaizs3367 Год назад +1

    She is very gorgeous ♥️ wow!

  • @jatinuniyal4602
    @jatinuniyal4602 Год назад +1

    No sympathy for Pasha Bhai, so sad to see .
    Like for Pasha Bhai.

  • @shabbarshaikh5537
    @shabbarshaikh5537 Год назад +8

    Ella and Aryan can make great couple but Aryan is with Laxmi tripathi

  • @btslove3310
    @btslove3310 Год назад +2

    Ella is sooo beautiful 😍 in full video I wast just looking her..