I love this message, I was with my ex for 3 years and I realize shit was one sided, I decided to let go cause life too short , sometimes men wait cause they trying to either change her or trying to bring her along. Leave her behind !!!!!!!!
Grand Rising beautiful goddess I'm from St Louis Missouri myself I just want to say thank you to God is in the Multi Universe the Royal ancestors the true queens that new day self you know and I just want to say thank you thank you too mother Godfather God whatever bloodline you came from Sister you speak life you speak the true essence of Helen which is nature and I heard it all the time when I hear you speaking and I just want to say it's a gratitude and a big thank you for my heart cuz I know why a man Soul shake when he heard a voice of God
This live hit me like a ton of bricks…against my better judgment I tried to make it work with my wife because we got 4 kids and been together for 13 yrs. but she showed me she hasn’t and isn’t going to change…she makes excuses for why she don’t cook, not feminin. So I finally said fuck this I’m good…I no longer fill guilty for leaving
I’m in the same boat. But I still feel guilty from time to time, mostly because of my kids. We have 4 aswell, we were together for 18 years. I left home October last year. Sometimes out of the blue I’ll get a phone call or msg telling me what a deadbeat dad I am for “abandoning” my kids.
Brothers you're kids are the blood. But the wife made a choice, I understand the hurt for your blood. Kids are the link to the chain. She made a choice for herself. Let her go.
@@justinthomas5512 Exactly. No-one ever talks about how she (the wife) was feeling when she made the choices she made. She didn't care then, so why should you care now? The relationship between the kids is not terminated. Only the relationship between the husband and wife. I totally agree with you!
I am blessed. I have been with my wife for now 31 years we've stuck together through thick and thin. I to this day, I find her beautiful, caring and we pour into each other constantly.
Damn, u called 15yrs of misery with my girls mom. Same thoughts I had. If I lighten up her load she'll use that time to be productive. Nope, her true, lazy, selfish, narcissistic traits came out once the girls started coming. I ended up putting so much pressure on her, that she decided to leave me. I took the oldest and she has the other 3. So much peace, mental stability, bread, enlightenment, etc. I knew I'd never walk away, but I'm so glad she did. I may not was able to leave, but I don't have to take u back.
Sis - I had a woman trying to break into her condo, I shut my condo door.....I saw another woman with her BF kicking in her condo door as I was leaving and she was begging for help; I just kept walking and "whistlin"...it ain't none of my business. :_) NO MEN - Do NOT help these women, they created their own drama, let them sit in it....You said you're strong and independent - I BELIEVE Y"ALL.
Been driving 🚛👷🏿♂️ all morning listening to this. I've also been in this position of carrying dead weight women, never again tho.😡🤣🙂 One of the best ones I've heard from you 💙I respect realness. 🙏🏿Thx
Wow this hit home for real.I was in a dead end relationship that was going nowhere and when I tried to leave respectfully she tried to send me to jail.
Don’t ask what she brings to the table . Instead , ask “if she had no bills what she would do with her time ?” . This will let you know if she truly has any interest,goals , or aspirations in her life. This also lets you know as a man , hypothetically speaking , if you were to actually provide for her … whether or not she would be productive with her time or if she’s just another deadweight leach you should avoid .
just what i needed to hear...two days back i broke up with this girl i was seeing cause she was not putting that much effort on our relationship anymore...i felt guilty for leaving her but reminded myself that people dont change and its really my choice to take what she offer or leave.its gonna take time for me to forge about her but i know i have made a right decision
great 👍 vid and powerful message and concept...I just walk away forever once I feel an inch of disrespect and never return...freedom and peace is the best
Men, there will be so many womenz out here sticking pins in their voodoo dolls hoping to get you down and shut you up. Don't worry Sis, there are so many men out here sending protective vibes your way and you ultimately have the shield of Truth on your side. Thank you for you bravery and your heart.
Dneika.......This video is the TRUTH... From beginning to end. You described someone I know without even meeting the person. I let them hear it and they got offended...but now are considering themselves....#realm of realness.... I told them get right or get left and get right before you get left✊🏿✨
Speak to me I left my marriage cause I felt like if I stayed I would have literally died from the stress I cussed myself out lol for thinking I could heal that woman who had no interest in healing herself 😫
D'Neika, thanks & plenty of blessings to you for this dope discussion, cause you bringing FYA to them broads, not the sisters but them bitter broads. YOOO. I never thought of a woman's cooking meaning that much, but NOW? Any woman who wants ME to take them seriously is gonna HAVE to home-cook me a meal.
You are what you attract. I wasn't sh!t either. I spent the last couple years alone healing and evolving. I'm attracting top tier women now. 😎😎😎 RIP Kevin Samuels
Some women has been in bad relationships and when a good man comes along they don't how to react to the guy or they second guess themselves and that guy. Women can't complain when they said there no good men out here, we are out here and I'm trying to find me a good woman!!!!
What's up D'Nieka, I know plenty of guy's that's miserable they are ashamed that the female's that they picked and lied about how good of a woman she is and actually she's causing his progress to be stagnant. she's not acting as a wife or a mother to the kid's even the kid's notice that their mother is causing problems. a few female's these are the ones that's causing the whole family to fail because she was raised with her father being locked up in jail it's not her norn. so she continues to rebel against the man that chose her and insisted she make her own husband and kids father's fail.
Image is important Kendra had a perfect chick loaded with tats, talking about she can be classy, and go to fancy places.. she couldn't even get in the front door of some circles.. some don't have to worry about that because they will never be in such circles..
What bout the ones who don't work at all and just around and when you come home and say they tired but ain't done shit all day them are fucked up ladies preach sis keep the message going
I know this has nothin' to do wit' your subject, but I have to let you know, I made some minor adjustments to your name. You are now, Queen D' Nieka Marie Supreme 👑 Spread the word fellas!
20:05 This part hit me really hard, I thought by lightening her load and I did it for years. We were together for 6 and half years and I was working my ass into the ground in my career. Turns out she was taking me for granted. I was taking more of the load because we have a child together. Also, during this time I found out she was cheating on me with another dude. I'm a physically fit and intelligent guy and she left me for a morbidly obese convict with a deadend job and lives with his mom in a 2 bedroom apartment in the ghetto.
Of course you got the upper hand the mother is still her feelings her emotions the way she see things into a boy he's vulnerable until he find out who he is you're not playing on the so-called man you really plan on yourself.
When D’Nieka use that deep rough voice for them wemmenz I be dying laughing!💀🤣
I love this message, I was with my ex for 3 years and I realize shit was one sided, I decided to let go cause life too short , sometimes men wait cause they trying to either change her or trying to bring her along. Leave her behind !!!!!!!!
She was never you're problem.
If you can't walk beside me get lost.
So I love this message I D'Niekia
Grand Rising beautiful goddess I'm from St Louis Missouri myself I just want to say thank you to God is in the Multi Universe the Royal ancestors the true queens that new day self you know and I just want to say thank you thank you too mother Godfather God whatever bloodline you came from Sister you speak life you speak the true essence of Helen which is nature and I heard it all the time when I hear you speaking and I just want to say it's a gratitude and a big thank you for my heart cuz I know why a man Soul shake when he heard a voice of God
IF YOU CAN'T GROW WITH ME,THEN YOU CAN'T GO WITH ME
U know!
Man that’s a bar💯
If they cannot build with you they cannot be with you.
Yooooo, this is an underrated comments you need to repost this homey .
This live hit me like a ton of bricks…against my better judgment I tried to make it work with my wife because we got 4 kids and been together for 13 yrs. but she showed me she hasn’t and isn’t going to change…she makes excuses for why she don’t cook, not feminin.
So I finally said fuck this I’m good…I no longer fill guilty for leaving
I’m in the same boat. But I still feel guilty from time to time, mostly because of my kids. We have 4 aswell, we were together for 18 years. I left home October last year.
Sometimes out of the blue I’ll get a phone call or msg telling me what a deadbeat dad I am for “abandoning” my kids.
Brothers you're kids are the blood.
But the wife made a choice, I understand the hurt for your blood. Kids are the link to the chain. She made a choice for herself. Let her go.
It hurts n takes time. But trust it gets better brothers. Speaking from experience as a 51yo blk man
@@thomasprice4938 Facts gotta stay free.
Free up space for new life
@@justinthomas5512 Exactly. No-one ever talks about how she (the wife) was feeling when she made the choices she made. She didn't care then, so why should you care now? The relationship between the kids is not terminated. Only the relationship between the husband and wife. I totally agree with you!
This has been one of the most informative educational videos I’ve ever watched I’m 32 years young ❤❤❤
I am blessed. I have been with my wife for now 31 years we've stuck together through thick and thin. I to this day, I find her beautiful, caring and we pour into each other constantly.
I've dated a church women that was like this. 🤦🏾♂️
Protect D'nieka at all cost 👂🏽
Damn, u called 15yrs of misery with my girls mom. Same thoughts I had. If I lighten up her load she'll use that time to be productive. Nope, her true, lazy, selfish, narcissistic traits came out once the girls started coming. I ended up putting so much pressure on her, that she decided to leave me. I took the oldest and she has the other 3. So much peace, mental stability, bread, enlightenment, etc. I knew I'd never walk away, but I'm so glad she did. I may not was able to leave, but I don't have to take u back.
Snuffleupagus, lol. Haven't heard him called out in forever 🤣
if she's not holding you down she's slowing you down!.
This is absolutely true no matter how much you love them or support them 😢
Sis - I had a woman trying to break into her condo, I shut my condo door.....I saw another woman with her BF kicking in her condo door as I was leaving and she was begging for help; I just kept walking and "whistlin"...it ain't none of my business. :_) NO MEN - Do NOT help these women, they created their own drama, let them sit in it....You said you're strong and independent - I BELIEVE Y"ALL.
Been driving 🚛👷🏿♂️ all morning listening to this. I've also been in this position of carrying dead weight women, never again tho.😡🤣🙂 One of the best ones I've heard from you 💙I respect realness. 🙏🏿Thx
Wow this hit home for real.I was in a dead end relationship that was going nowhere and when I tried to leave respectfully she tried to send me to jail.
This message came Str8 From God to My Ears through The Most Beautiful Vessel👑... Thank You Queen👑
It's better to wait for the right person than to waste your time with the wrong person.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You right I waste my life and my time and money deal with dead weight female
OMG This is why I left my ex wife in 2009. Sister you is most definitely telling the truth
Don’t ask what she brings to the table . Instead , ask “if she had no bills what she would do with her time ?” .
This will let you know if she truly has any interest,goals , or aspirations in her life.
This also lets you know as a man , hypothetically speaking , if you were to actually provide for her … whether or not she would be productive with her time or if she’s just another deadweight leach you should avoid .
Killed it👍
I love it!!! I'm borrowing that
47:04 👀 *ZOOM* 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
just what i needed to hear...two days back i broke up with this girl i was seeing cause she was not putting that much effort on our relationship anymore...i felt guilty for leaving her but reminded myself that people dont change and its really my choice to take what she offer or leave.its gonna take time for me to forge about her but i know i have made a right decision
great 👍 vid and powerful message and concept...I just walk away forever once I feel an inch of disrespect and never return...freedom and peace is the best
Men, there will be so many womenz out here sticking pins in their voodoo dolls hoping to get you down and shut you up. Don't worry Sis, there are so many men out here sending protective vibes your way and you ultimately have the shield of Truth on your side. Thank you for you bravery and your heart.
This is a much needed Message, especially for Young Men. Thank-you so very much for the Warning and Confirmation, Ms. D'Nieka.
Dneika.......This video is the TRUTH... From beginning to end. You described someone I know without even meeting the person. I let them hear it and they got offended...but now are considering themselves....#realm of realness.... I told them get right or get left and get right before you get left✊🏿✨
Speak to me I left my marriage cause I felt like if I stayed I would have literally died from the stress I cussed myself out lol for thinking I could heal that woman who had no interest in healing herself 😫
Same here bro
Same here brother dam wasted time
You done gave me a lot of free game. Much respect to you and your husband. Y'all hold it down 💯👍✌️
I listen to you when I work out ---instead of listening to music. I find it to be more constructive to do so.
Same
Great idea bruh thanks 🤟🏾
Good morning, bro
D'Neika, thanks & plenty of blessings to you for this dope discussion, cause you bringing FYA to them broads, not the sisters but them bitter broads.
YOOO. I never thought of a woman's cooking meaning that much, but NOW? Any woman who wants ME to take them seriously is gonna HAVE to home-cook me a meal.
You are what you attract. I wasn't sh!t either. I spent the last couple years alone healing and evolving. I'm attracting top tier women now. 😎😎😎 RIP Kevin Samuels
Real relationships reciprocate and share responsibilities
Some women has been in bad relationships and when a good man comes along they don't how to react to the guy or they second guess themselves and that guy. Women can't complain when they said there no good men out here, we are out here and I'm trying to find me a good woman!!!!
If they don't take part in their own rescue, RUNN!!!
I would go to war with you Queen. Keep Educating these day dreaming women. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.
SIS…this is so on time for me. This was prophetic. Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes, I am watching old videos . Teach "Queen"
What's up D'Nieka, I know plenty of guy's that's miserable they are ashamed that the female's that they picked and lied about how good of a woman she is and actually she's causing his progress to be stagnant. she's not acting as a wife or a mother to the kid's even the kid's notice that their mother is causing problems. a few female's these are the ones that's causing the whole family to fail because she was raised with her father being locked up in jail it's not her norn. so she continues to rebel against the man that chose her and insisted she make her own husband and kids father's fail.
Wow smh
I try to rescue, but she won't try to come2my rescue.
Image is important Kendra had a perfect chick loaded with tats, talking about she can be classy, and go to fancy places.. she couldn't even get in the front door of some circles.. some don't have to worry about that because they will never be in such circles..
Learning everytime listening to you , looking back i wasted a lot of time
Did it for 26yrs ran off with a bum then cried to me every day
DAMN I wish I saw this a year ago
My Sister goes DEEP on this one!!! 🔥
Hello my dear. I really enjoyed the topic today. You are truly blessed with talent and discernment.
I don’t have time for it, I’m grinding.
1000% Facts Sista. Perfect stream
💯💯
What bout the ones who don't work at all and just around and when you come home and say they tired but ain't done shit all day them are fucked up ladies preach sis keep the message going
D'neika marie, i say; fuc' "em all😂😂
“I wish you can teach this too my mama” like damn that’s deep lmao
This is so real !!!!!!! I had to this yesterday
Kick push on some Lupe ish😂😁💯🌍
I wish your content could make the mainstream to reach millions of young men in college before they get caught up.
This the one queen💙❤👸💯 love your videos. Get em ma!!
WE GOTTA PROTECT D’NIEKA AT ALL COSTS!!!!!!!! What other females out here spitting facts like how she spitting facts? 🦻🏾🦻🏾🦻🏾Don’t worry I’ll wait.
YOU'RE NOT HOLDING ME UP- YOU ALWAYS KEEP ME UP WHEN IM ON YOUR SITE!! 😂😂😂😂
Always great conversation SALUTE Queen@D’Nieka Marie…
I know this has nothin' to do wit' your subject, but I have to let you know, I made some minor adjustments to your name. You are now,
Queen D' Nieka Marie Supreme 👑
Spread the word fellas!
We need u for President the 🌎 would be a awesome place
As a man with no kids I take care of everything for my woman. From having French manicure nails to health insurance and she doesn't have to work.
Love your content! Sis how are you saying the exact same phrases I heard. Your doing God's work!
TV dinners lol 🤣🤣
Thank you sis to help me to see again.
All kings follow the ways
Of YAHAWAH..
👉 1 "KINGS" 2:2-3
Preach baby preach
This message is real d you hit this on the nail
Good morning, D'neika Marie
get it D you are doing God's work in appreciate you
Stopping by to drop a like 👍🏿
Guess what, I've done through that b4
Girl u SPIT'N ❤ MIC DROP 🎤 👍🏿
PREACH
Women love too have every advantage that exist
You the truth and I love you for it🙌🏾
Excellent !!! 💛
Men leave ,giving the western women what they want! We leave!
I going through that
Yessss speak yo truth
We rule the world, like we're supposed to; imagine dat.
D'neika Marie, we are a family; what, u didn't know?
Here again with u, D'neika Marie
PREEECH....!!!
Now he's saying, not2get married
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The Likes👍🏾....Gotta account for the Hater-Factor, 1 out of every 3ppl is a Hater soo🤷🏾♂️
Start to finish.No lies.
Let them laugh at the jewels, they'll just stay lonely and will never be suitable for provider males.
U have earn the perks
I'm not cutting mine off
Even with children, it’s not my responsibility to step up & raise another man’s family if I haven’t raised my own child.
20:05 This part hit me really hard, I thought by lightening her load and I did it for years. We were together for 6 and half years and I was working my ass into the ground in my career. Turns out she was taking me for granted. I was taking more of the load because we have a child together. Also, during this time I found out she was cheating on me with another dude. I'm a physically fit and intelligent guy and she left me for a morbidly obese convict with a deadend job and lives with his mom in a 2 bedroom apartment in the ghetto.
D’Nieka is a trip 😂😂😂😂
Of course you got the upper hand the mother is still her feelings her emotions the way she see things into a boy he's vulnerable until he find out who he is you're not playing on the so-called man you really plan on yourself.
D'Nieka I am just going to put this out there really quick ‼️ I would love to see you collaborate with Oshay Duke Jackson 🤧 No 🧢
I was a good man until I realized I was settled for
lol...
I know I have no attention for this, my woman's not like this at all.
This was a great drop sis💯🎯🎯🎯
Factz queen
It's cheaper to not deal...those type are trash
💯
That's not me, I won't lie or cheat or anything else
The meaning of a toxic long term relationship means we just have a lot more of memories,, that’s all,, that’s it..